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| 1 | How do you win arguments with a LTR over miscommunication?i feel like the problem is in your jokes. if you gotta explain it... its not funny. if this happens so many times, with women you already know, it's something you're doing wrong or its what you lack, what may be a dickish thing for you to say may be hilarious for another guy to say | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Stop reading TRPYou know it's funny, but this is the cops truth, there is only so much that can be said before you get it, the rest is about what you do with the tools you're given. TRP has this twisted way of guiding you to the right place, and dragging you down if you try to keep using it to fix your problems. One of the things that is mentioned and constantly overlooked, is that you do what you please, don't listen to what other people think. Once I stopped reading I still practices red pill, but shaped it t… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/20 08:12 AM |
| 6 | You're Not Hers; it's Just Her TurnI've been reading trp since ~2012. I remember how I would soak all this information in, because it made complete sense, but I would have the same problems you typically see in Asktrp. I believed it would work, but it's impossible to see positive results by behaving a certain way and expecting a specific outcome. Like you, it took years to build the proper mentality. You don't truly change until you change subconsciously; and that's just the beginning. Most red pillers who think they've got it do… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/19 05:21 PM |
| 4 | How do you get over the sting of having made a beta faggot of yourself in the eyes of a girl you really liked?Honestly this sounds ass backwards, but I'm always happy that I've had some crazy relationships, that were able drag me to some dark places and I'm proud I've been there, because you learn from pain quickly, and you never forget it. I don't care what anyone on this sub says. We're all prone to this shit, only difference is some don't come across the right one to humble them. they say "there's always a guy out there that she won't say no to." well there's always a woman out there that make you th… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Shit test “are we going out as friends?”there's some people saying this isn't a shit test, when it is. not every shit test, is about testing your manhood, women shit test to gain information. depending on the information you give , women will respond accordingly. are you a friend? her beta boyfriend or someone she can have fun with. this is one of those cut and dry moments. if she didn't want to know she wouldn't ask. and if she didn't know it wouldn't be a question. you've been doing good to an extent if she's in the dark, but depend… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Fashion and clothes for playersand most of the time luxury clothing is unnecessary and the subtle differences are only noticed by people who can afford it. there are some perks to luxury clothing but a lot of it is just comfort, fit and quality. I shop at Marshall's and discount shoe stores and I still dress well. I'm a firm believer in style | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/19 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach at a restaurant with step summary.Since he mentioned the earrings he didn't change the topic he let it flow on through. I.e "so where did you get the earrings?" | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/19 10:34 AM |
| 1 | What are the benefits of not vocalizing your attraction to an LTR.I've been single for the past 3 years, I've been very selective, now I've found a potential partner, and I'm trying to face my fear of commitment and feeling one-,it is, my smv has grown a lot and my last LTR I lost frame 7 months in and I also started to want other women. From what I've learned, in an LTR it's technically already there, otherwise you wouldn't commit. It's only a problem when you give in to it, AND you lose frame. I know I shouldn't go out of my way to fight it, but I'm just bra… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 10:27 PM |
| 1 | What are the benefits of not vocalizing your attraction to an LTR.Not in an LTR, and I understand the idea behind comfort, but I was thinking more about the infatuation phase of ltr's where it may be harder to resist displaying beta traits. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 09:42 PM |
| 1 | What are the benefits of not vocalizing your attraction to an LTR.I'm confused because I asked what's the benefits of NOT vocalizing. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 04:31 PM |
| 5 | LTR admits to openly flirting with guys to “finesse free drinks” They love to claim their behavior as innocent. Should I next?Not only that but , that same drink that got her into a Potentially bad situation is now lowering her inhibitions. It's dark, he's cute, the music silences her conscience, now what's an innocent kiss? Once she realizes she's in deep, it will be the same for Chad's dick. Because she already cheated .... Might as well follow through. Plus she feels bad for leading him on. He's such a good kisser - I mean guy, I couldn't say no. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 10:27 AM |
| 8 | Being Social and HappinessEVERYBODY SHOULD READ THIS EACH TIME THEY GO OUT. This post is effective at helping you create and feel the positive mindset to making something happen at a social event. Red Pill comes off as a very negative place, and for good reason. Sometimes the truth can get in the way of reality and the reality is that, your wasting your energy, time and emotions worrying....and not taking action. While your sitting there some one else is doing, and doing what you could have been doing. If you ain't the o… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/18 01:46 AM |
| 1 | How do I get rid of my president possessiveness, and obsession problems even though I average 4 or 5 plates year round?I've been on trouble since 2012, I started getting results since 2015, I just don't get how to fix this abandonment issue. I don't necessarily know its origin | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 12:38 AM |
| 0 | Has anyone else ever felt that unimaginable sense of triumphant and masculine sense of confidence but lost it since settling down?My problem is the lack of advice and or explanation. Your response does not tell the person why.That's no way to go about teaching or informing. It's why break everything we do here down, so people can understand the significance | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else ever felt that unimaginable sense of triumphant and masculine sense of confidence but lost it since settling down?How the fuck is this the top comment, it has everything to do with settling down. He's settled he's no longer on the lookout or on the move, the pure need to more aware, attractive, attentive are gone.. the OP is becoming complacent , instead of maintaining the man he was prior, he's under the assumption That it's no longer necessary and he can relax,. subconsciously investing in the idea there's a relationship to lean on. This kills the relationship, and to make this easy to understand for some… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Complete Guide To Going Out AloneWell I think your angle of attack is slightly off, my nights alone are not spent in fear. My approach at night is good, but sometimes being alone seems to work against my favor. I'm actually not afraid of the question as I'm proud of my confidence in doing so, but some women find it weird and think it's suspicious. I just laugh it off and question the need for friends all time. After making 1or 2 approaches I usually like to lay low so that either women can't approach me and look for better pote… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/18 09:36 PM |
| 1 | How to be the strong silent type (a realization)I need this I realized I can't keep a plate because I create this witty high energy persona and then mellow out. I have the looks and game but i never have the energy to want to speak to people, I never understood how to project stoicism, without coming off shy | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/18 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Complete Guide To Going Out AloneSo I have gone out alone several times, but I have some questions that always come up when I'm out. First off, what do I say when she and her friends are asking why I'm out alone. I usually say because it's fun, or that I'm not afraid to go out on my own. When I'm idle and I don't want to dance or chat to strangers, is it better to look at my phone or sit down and watch everyone? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/18 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Thots are getting audited for tax evasionSo I can make some side cash just snitching on all the cashapp slides/thots on tinder? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/18 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Just had my first random hookup, first time having sex in forever...kind of feel like sex is overrated. Am i right or just need to have more of it?I'm an ass man myself, and sometimes I come to disappointing realization that an ass is just for looks, but I just have sex when I'm horny. You might feel different about it tomorrow. I masturbate on the regular but pussy, and the act of is so much better, I'm a very freaky person though so, I kind of need a partner. But I always like to surprise women with my vibrating cock ring. I give them different sex and in return they come back. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Breaking the RulesI feel that experience is the best way to have a natural understanding of these rules. From my experience texting is a great tool for maintenance, going ghost on a girl and then saying "let's hang out" does not work unless there is a large difference in value. Here's another rule: don't put pussy on a pedestal. You shouldn't put a woman before you but know high value women can afford to do more and the closer or lower you are the less you can get away with, right off the bat. If you walk across … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/18 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Overcame Oneitis by... Cheating? What I LearnedCheating has only intensified my oneitis , because after I cum, I come to my senses; that the person I'm obsessed with is not the person I'm with. I suggest learning to get over it naturally with time and space. Do not cheat, if you want someone else, then take that perfectly good reason to leave and don't look back. Not only is it a crutch, but it's a lie you tell yourself to feel like your "even" now and you're not...you had to go out of your way just equalize the imbalance | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/18 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys know any Sigmas?I consider myself a Sigma by definition. But I don't think it matters to me it just helps explain and organize my habits and traits better when I'm diagnosing my strategy. Why do I consider myself that? Because I don't like being social , I lack morals, I do drugs, I Excell at social events if you can actually catch me at one, and im extremely selfish I don't even completely follow the red pill. Just the key things that work for me. But again if anyone asks I'm red pill first . Sigma helps short… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend was drunk and fell down in a night club. Dude goes to helped her up, I shove him into his friends hard (did I over react)?I would've apologized and you could've saved face and maybe even gotten a drink. Just out of relief | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Approached Barista at coffee shop I frequent.This was the first thing that came to mind, you frequent there and you probably did have an opportunity but it's where your "sleep" and second it probably added to the pressure of approaching | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Has TRP made you more conservative?It has and being black it has some conflicting feelings, but it has allowed me to see where the disconnect is in race problems. Without going too deep both parties are at fault | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Where to fuckIm 27 and I still live at home , I only bring 1 girl home but the rest I can afford to bring to hotels, but even then I've maintained relations with women just fucking them in my car before parting ways. I make good money and I'm lucky to have generous and respecting parents but, I also prefer to respect them and keep the in house pussy to just 1 girl. I usually grab a room at motel 6 and crash there. Or I sleep at there house. I make about 4800-5000 a month though so I can disguise the night as… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 08:19 PM |
| 1 | This may be a somewhat hard question to answer , I'm about to finish my 5 year apprenticeship, and I want to take a leadership position ASAP, but I'm conflicted if the Machiavellian route or being the people's person is better. Does being a good leader require selflessness?Pipefitting | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Pick Your Battlesso you wouldn't stop to pick up 15 dollars of the ground? Im sorry but not everyone is rich, I wouldn't just hand out 15 bucks because someone isn't happy. Second, it takes more effort to obtain the money and give it to the person then to just say no. He's losing out on money, it's not just 15 bucks, in my opinion that's a lot. I've been jobless with nothing to my name, 15 dollars can get you by another day. It was a silly decision, and when someone is demanding you pay them for time you were no… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/18 12:29 AM |
| 5 | Pick Your BattlesI thought op was bringing up a good point, but I think the example is a bad and is a battle he shouldve fought. I'm a veteran and currently in my 5th year of my apprenticeship. I wouldn't be where I'm at now if I tried to make everything a power struggle. your general objective is to win the war. understand what the war is for and decide your battles from there, in the example given the war was based on spite and meaningless feelings. there was nothing to lose by winning, and nothing worth sacri… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/18 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Stop Going on Dates with Women You Don’t Likebut if a women doesnt like you she would not have asked you to hang out. now I do know that assuming an ugly girl is easy can definitely fuck you up but if a women you dont like asks you out, I say go, learn to make fun out of situation and learn to work unvaforable situations | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/18 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Efforts to ban TRP have surfaced once againwhat picks at me is that we mind our own business and we don't spread hate. and whats crazy is that this is all about game, we are here to be good at playing the game. literally its just a fucking game. you know how little TRP affects my interactions with people? I perceive things differently and may reapond to things differently, but if it were in a way that is considered hurtful, than believe it wasnt TRP that caused that. crazy enough if we hated women we wouldnt be on here with yerars of inf… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/18 02:47 AM |
| 0 | Stop Going on Dates with Women You Don’t Likethis sounds ass backwards , and I'm the king of fuck anything. women I don't like don't get my attention because I don't like them, they are an active reminder I can do better , my indifference alone makes them chase me and their availability makes me pursue them less, and eventually they become a constant reminder of easy pussy.they are great confidence boosters and practice. I have several plates I ignore for months and they are down the moment I respond, and I simply say I've been busy . im a… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/18 01:39 AM |
| 1 | I don't think I quite get what to do next after ignoring a plate. should I be choosing when to initiate or only after a general point?well of course she would I just introuced somebody with all negatives. if she was hard to deal with then I wouldnt be dealing with her. she has traits I wouldnt commit to completely but I have never had a problem with her. I'm trying to keep it that way. this is the point of the posts. I want to take proper corrective action , not maintain a shitty relationship with a plate. I am not proffecient or that familiar with Long term relations nd trp so correcting a womans behaviour is beyond me. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 05:01 AM |
| 1 | I don't think I quite get what to do next after ignoring a plate. should I be choosing when to initiate or only after a general point?this is my longest running plate actually. she's not my most attractive. but she fucks good and is enjoyable to be around. she gets real pissy and negative about shit sometimes and lets it build up, until she gets anxiety attacks. this why she's just a long term plate and not an LTR. I think I may have crossed paths with one of her friends on tinder or at a bar, and I did something to trigger her. its very specific but I have a gut feeling. I simply wanted to have her understand shes fucking up.… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Too young for drinks - tinderok so when I was a horndog teenager id always do dinner first and then go to the movies. go to restauraunts in malls or parks so you have time for Kino when walking, to and from. the movies is really for dates that go well, my 1 word of advice for movies is DO NOT WAIT TO PUT YOUR ARM AROUND HER, DO IT IMMEDIATELY THIS WAY WHEN THE LIGHTS TURN OFF THE MOOD HAS BEEN ESCALATED AND YOU ALREADY HAVE A HEADSTART. but this is not 2010, Hookah bars have a very intimate environment and allow for dancing… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Do you ever worry about your ability to pairbond considering how easy it is to get laid on dating apps?Well I don't know if tinder did it but I can't hang around another woman for more than a day before I'm ready to leave. Trp had me fixated on my potential so I always feel like exclusivity would with me down | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 02:09 AM |
| 4 | What are some of yall's methods of nonchalantly letting someone know you're into them?High value women, may not express interest initially, because you can't prove your smv by just saying hi. Her days of being impressed by the brave male are over. Dig a bit more and hold frame. Dry responses does not mean give up. But it doesnt mean you got it in the bag either. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 01:01 AM |
| 1 | If being honest doesn't doesn't work and cunning neither in an LTR then what does?Frame and dread. In an ltr, party of being her rock is being immovable. Don't ever let up on these hoes.that is frame Dread is part of frame except, it's more for corrective actions, to master dread you must understand it may not work, it requires willpower and the true understanding of female behaviour and that humans fuck up. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 12:57 AM |
| 2 | If an LTR plates herself after breaking up, does that mean she's a keeper?Theres two ways to look at this: Realistically speaking it's not impossible for her to be a keeper, but if she is, it's not for breaking up and coming back. TRP has shown that forever is not real, and humans will always want more and humans are curious. So it's not abnormal for someone to want to change partners, or see other people. TRP also speaks of living life how you please and if its with her then so be it, but be realistic and understand your life may not always live up to expectations an… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 12:54 AM |
| 2 | My girlfriend of 2 years is attracted to our landlord.Ive seen less faithful women manage more and give less. All op really has on her is she is giggly. Women laugh at clowns too. That's the only fact you can prove and its the only fact you know. Everything else is not even worth answering because, your feeling jealous, and second, you don't have much to work with, but keeping molding that thought and she will eventually notice your insecurities which in turn will put you into comparison with him | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 05:30 AM |
| 3 | Game Basics: The Male Sexuality Shaming Shit TestHonestly here's some easy filler responses, for when you can't pop out a quick reply reliably. "Oh lol, Is that how you feel?" "Okay" "So?" "Lol Are you making this shit up as you go?" If you said no by mistake add on to it with a smirk. "...what? No......". " I wanna at least finish my drink first". " I'm a virgin you know". " I'm not entirely convinced yet" " We'll be up all night, I got work in the AM. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/18 02:55 AM |
| 1 | What we're some embarrassing things you've done on initial dates, and how did you handle those moments?two hits, but i hadn't smoked for almost a year. My apprenticeship doesn't do randoms during the summer, so i usually smoke during this time. but the weed, and the fact It was my first time in her apartment ever, made it an easy mistake, I mean they were both right across from each other in my defence. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 01:00 AM |
| 1 | What we're some embarrassing things you've done on initial dates, and how did you handle those moments?I actually made a Narnia joke as a follow up text today lol it's blowing my mind how much that one fuck up has opened my mind to truly stop being strategic in dating and just living in the moment., she was actually a hb9 she looked better in person than her pictures, and it's funny because I had stopped using tinder but I had seen she gave me her number 2 weeks ago. I kicked it with her on a whim because I flaked the last 2 dates out of laziness and It was by far the best date I've had. But I'm … | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 10:57 PM |
| 1 | What we're some embarrassing things you've done on initial dates, and how did you handle those moments?This why I'm not worried it wasn't an embarrassing moment that was forced out of being awkward, it was an honest mistake and it was a first time for me. It wasn't humbling but it made me really think about how affective it is to be genuine and how smiling through mistakes makes you seem that much more impressionable | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 10:19 PM |
| 1 | After I cum I lose all my motivation and even thinking about cumming leaves me in disgust.I have the same problem and it hurts when trying to maintain plates or relationships, Once I bust, I'm ready to leave... Don't touch me, don't talk to me..I wanna go home now. Is my attitude after sex. I have a high libido but those 15 minutes of clarity change me real fast lol | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 10:04 PM |
| 16 | Girl I matched with on Tinder asked for dickpic, I asked for one of her in return. She refused, I then refused to send my dickpic.Honestly a butter face is not a big deal to me, I kinda prefer a nice body and an average face, I like imperfections, but the binary scale is the best way to help with potential one itis | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 10:01 PM |
| 1 | What are the effects of a lack of a mother figure?It makes life tough, because the shit is hard coded into your subconscious, trp did help optimize my game, but I realized I been had it. I was gifted with the ability to attract, but my problems are beyond trp. TRP showed those imperfections, logic alone can not fix what I was cursed with. But knowing this and accepting this has already helped, by being conscious of it , it is no longer just a subconscious reaction. Slowly it becomes completely conscious, and that's when trp kicks in and tells y… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 07:22 PM |
| 2 | What are the effects of a lack of a mother figure?I deal with the same exact shit mannnn. This is the sole reason I'm on Red Pill. Every period of time that I lived with my Mother ,she would always come home when I went to sleep. And it was not because of work, it was because she's a drinker. And when she was home she was outside on the phone smoking and drinking blabbing on the phone. And when she wasn't out in the depths of the night she was fucking some guy in the bed next to mine because me and her shared a room. my dad was physically and v… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 04:09 AM |
| 18 | A Simple Path To Success For Those Starting OutThe way bulking is explained to me is " if you're ever feeling hungry , you're doing it incorrectly" | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/18 12:15 AM |
| 6 | HOW DID YOU QUIT MASTURBATINGI go home and jerk off still... And the refrctory period for me is so strong I want nothing to do with my partners that I leave immediately, cus I'm so over it, but after about 30 minutes I'm horny as fuck again. I always want sex until I have it.. it's a shitty position because I like freaky women but , I lose all libido after sex and become disinterested that I don't want them anymore | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 11:52 AM |
| 9 | Some Important Shit. That Clearly Is Being Missed.The worse answers are the super Chad's : "Pssh , I would just handed the plate back and told her to make it American and then fuck her brains out" | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 11:39 AM |
| 1 | What is a good ratio of phone numbers to 2nd contacts for night time bar/club cold approaches?Ok so in my experience I'm pretty proficient in pick up at bars/night clubs. Number one, if you want to close the same night. Remember this phrase " girls just wanna have fun" Have fun and be fun, persistence is key and so is patience. Dance with your potential partner and have a few drinks. Chat inside, and then chat outside so it doesn't look like your trying to isolate her. REMEMBER what she says. End the conversation short and tell her you're going to hit the bar,dancefloor, meet your bro or… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Missed my frequent plates birthday, and I was a dick too her, what's the best way to level things without losing too much frame?She hasn't said anything yet but she was real moody, and this is clearly why. Wouldn't saying "I'll make it up to her" give her leverage? Or is this an overall safe test? I forgot the actual word for it lol | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Low libido, low drive in general.. low T?I have a problem with libido vanishing AFTER sex, I give the coldest shoulders and I lose plates because I go radio silence after sex. I cannot create genuine feedback even to women I've dated seriously. I just end up wanting to be alone. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Is planet fitness better than nothing?Planet fitness is great, this is not a must but a gym with a sauna is nice to have. Great for relaxation and rewarding your workout. It's a great place to also Converse with other males and I've heard a lot of RP shit in there. Regardless planet fitness has the equipment you need, anything else is semantics. a gym membership in general is great because it's a different environment and is a change of scenery. It allows you to go out and be active, along with being social. When I moved to a new to… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 06:44 AM |
| 17 | In the wake of #MeToo, Netflix classifies 5 second staring as Sexual HarassmentThis is the second fucking post that is using celebrities as poor examples. And taking shit out of context. The 5 second rule is retarded but Spacey is the worst example | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/18 07:44 AM |
| 2 | Ariana Grande: Another example of AWALT, Female Rationalization, and Victim Card.Some people have covered one portion of the problem with this post, but Mac Miller is a terrible example of a good guy for anyone. Mac Miller is not a good partner for anyone, at the moment. They didn't spend countless years together, this is not AWALT . | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/18 07:12 AM |
| 9 | Don't fall into the trap of binary thinking, there is such a thing as a middle groundThis needs to be sidebarres and put into the introductory. You will never grasp TRP if you don't learn the middle ground, and knowing when to differentiate an excuse from an actual circumstance you will stay in the anger phase. People come here and become more depressed because of how frustrating the truths are and use the "truths" to explain there frustrations. It is what it is, If what women do angers you ; you haven't swallowed the pill. If you explain a girl rejecting you as being a bad pers… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Gives Only Cheek Kisses - BUT TOMORROW COMES FOR A MOVIE. What 2 Do?Well anything more than 1 date and she's technically doesn't need the 2nd date lmao | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 04:22 PM |
| 3 | She wants me to drop her stuff offI mean saying one thing and doing the other shows some spite, but if you don't give af about her why does it matter how you handle it? When im over someone, I become as nuetral as possible. I'm not blunt but I'm dry. Ex did something similar except I wanted to get my shit from her. She gave me the run around two times and complained that "she didn't have to do this" After I made a second attempt to retrieve something she was not supposed to have, I said fuck it and never contacted her again. Now… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Having an existential crisis right now... Is true love real?There is a such thing as true love, but people don't speak of the truths that follow it. True love is not something that is destined to happen, or some magical soul binding phenomenon. True love is simply an emotion caused by a chemical that two partners happen to share at the same level, which does allow to partners to stick together longer than most, but it is not some guarantee, and love is such an intense emotion. It may always feel like true love but more times than not, the feeling is mutu… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Learn The Sex Secrets of the Palestinian Buda: DJ KhalidKhalid, is definitely one of the most mindful people I've seen. And is a good example of how you should carry yourself, he stays positive all the time, and it's something TRP doesn't press enough. Be strong, be stoic, be in control, but stay positive. Smile because you're Alive. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 01:38 PM |
| 1 | So i plated a long time friend but she told me she wants to stop hooking up cause shes worried itll ruin our relationship.See your overlooking the objective, and allowing her decisions to affect yours. It's not just her definition of a friendship ,you guys defined this friendship way before anything happened. If you wanted to fuck her all this time you shouldn't have been her friend. You had a rare opportunity to fuck from the friendzone, take it and leave it , before you make it worse. I'm telling you man "okay cool" is all you gotta say, There's no message to relay to her, anything more and you're retaliating. (I… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 09:29 AM |
| 2 | So i plated a long time friend but she told me she wants to stop hooking up cause shes worried itll ruin our relationship.There's certain things that I've learned don't get reiterated enough in trp, yet are true. Women are free to make decisions just like you and me, and it may not be in your favor some times. The only action you should be taking in response to their decisions are the ones with the least effort. "You're moving on?...okay cool" Don't ignore, don't initiate, don't plead ...just "okay cool" it may not be what you want but , but it's what she wants. So let it be... Be cool , relax and appreciate that f… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 09:05 AM |
| 0 | So i plated a long time friend but she told me she wants to stop hooking up cause shes worried itll ruin our relationship.What type of long time friend all of a sudden has no worth cus y'all stopped fucking? And how did she do you dirty? I ask these questions because if you are someone who is truly indifferent about the hook up, they would've just let it go and continued being friends. What's the point of ghosting someone who wanted to just be friends, and you were friends before? You are going to seem butthurt. If it was nothing to you, you would simply wake up the next day and act like nothing happened...because … | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 07:47 AM |
| 2 | Why does TRP consider tattoos on a girl to be considered a Red Flag?Don't confuse the played out zodiac/chinese symbol on the leg for a girl with multiple tattoos that vary on random body parts. Two completely different people. Trp is useless if you don't learn to adjust accordingly, know the difference between making a logical choice and making an excuse. TRP is not an all seeing eye, but it generally works for good reason. I mention all of this because it helps me answer controversial questions or situations I come across. If you find yourself getting ready to… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 06:57 AM |
| 2 | I told her "we will hang out on Saturday" , got no response. She's mad I made other plans, am I supposed to wait for a confirmation?So when she called me out for filling her spot, do I just not say anything, or just reiterate my basic reasoning. For example: "you did not confirm my text, so I made other plans" This would in a sense make her understand my actions without giving her leeway right? Women are to be treated as teenagers , so I'm under the understanding that you have to not only punish but explain why or how they are fucking up. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 05:19 AM |
| 5 | Why do some days I feel super confident other days socially anxious?Seriously I always grab a drink if I want to be social on demand, I talk more fluently and openly. When I'm sober I can't keep up with my thoughts, and I get impatient when people try to small talk me. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 01:33 AM |
| 78 | Post-post-wall single women figure out that when they're old enough to have gray hair, men don't find them attractive anymore. Wow, who knew? Now they call it "gray-shaming" and pretend it's another way that "society" is being sexist to women.That's like a homosexual person calling me out for not finding them attractive, my brain can sort out a good looking woman in a crowd instantly, I don't choose this. It's not like I choose to find younger woman attractive, and they're are probably a few grey haired women I would fuck , you're just mad you're not one of them. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 01:30 AM |
| 2 | The Red Pill has wrecked me completely.I get like this sometimes but ultimately none of this shit counts. Nothing matters, I'm not going to kill myself over sexual strategy. No one is sitting at a desk tallying my scores , my life, my money, my happiness, or w.e . I do what ever I believe will put a smile on my face and do what it takes to keep a smile on my face | /r/askTRP | 22/04/18 04:54 PM |
| 6 | Out of curiosity, how many of you are personality type ENTP?He has a point, I've read it and took a test, and to be honest personality test are bs. I am an introverted person but I can be very extroverted depending on who I'm around. I act how I need and want to. Personality tests are ego, boosters ,and fail to provide any life changing information. You really shouldn't give a fuck, because only you define who you are. And this is coming from a person who took the test I'm an ESTJ and ultimately its pointless. I know my faults and my strengths I'll chang… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/18 02:27 AM |
| 4 | How oneitis is bornMy worst oneitis and first in years came from being laid off for 3 months. And she was trying to leave me for a meth head. I haven't been jobless that long since I was 14 and it was such a ridiculously fast happening oneitis. I learned I will never be prepared for it all, and even when I think I'm safe it will bite me in the ass | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/18 02:09 AM |
| 4 | How do I respond to girl who forgot we had sex last night?If he leads with her saying "I don't know , I was drunk, I only remember (specific events that were true) and you trying to kiss me at some point lol, maybe we ended up making out" What is she going to say to that? "No, I know you fucked me?" If that's the case OP can feign ignorance and put himself in her shoes. Otherwise she will probably just agree to it, thus also admitting nothing did happen. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 03:15 AM |
| 0 | If a woman flirts with me and I don't close , can I come back for her number ?This is the type of advice that connects to people. I like the positive route you took , instead of just saying "fuck that bitch, she's probably fucking all the rich guys anyways." I don't think everything is written in stone, and I wanted to make sure I'm not just putting a chick on a pedestal. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 03:47 AM |
| 8 | How do I respond to girl who forgot we had sex last night?A lot of people are saying ignore the text, but I think not answering is an omission of guilt, I think it would be better to say you were completely drunk as fuck as well and that you only remember her trying to do "xyz" and "I think we ended up making out lol" If she was drunk af then she didn't have consent, so I'm hoping this wasn't the case and she did make some type of initiation. You want to show you have nothing to hide, and nothing to say either. If she is trying to save face then so be … | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 08:36 PM |
| 1 | If a woman flirts with me and I don't close , can I come back for her number ?Maybe I'm over thinking it but is it better if I don't acknowledge the prior interaction and initiate that way? | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 08:25 PM |
| 1 | 80/20 and n-count questionWell I just want to say every time it has been mentioned (for me) ,the 80/20 rule never applied to 'partners slept with', in a real world example those top 20% guys are not going to sleep with 80 women. They are going to go for the best kind, because in a real world situation it's impractical. If I fucked every girl that came my way there'd be no room for the more attractive ones. Not only that, but when you date women of lesser value they will be more clingy unlike a woman of your caliber. A wo… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Should tell a WILLING friend about TRP?If you tell someone about red pill speak as if you've heard about it, but never read it. * Confirm some of the things they mention about it if they read it. "Yeah some of the shit they say is crazy...but i can see their point on so and so now that I give it some thought." | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on independent women?If you're going to do anything with them , make them your friend. I used to date an "independent" woman. Using the colloquial term, she wasnt exactly all alone by herself but she acted like a red-pill male when it comes to making time, money and pursuing life goals and making friends, she was nice to everyone but blunt, she didn't give ultimatums or ask nicely. She would tell you what the problem is and what needed to be fixed ,if it was recurring she would excuse herself from the situation. She… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Women don't like it when men "talk to their chest" but they did it to me at the beach?Where some polo trunks and walk out the water wet and it will look like their talking to your feet | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 05:52 PM |
| 0 | Is this true? "I know the joy of having a connection outweighs the pain of loss when it's broken."This is somewhat the idea trp has on dating be and life in general. As a free man you have the right to do whatever you please ; a redpill man will do just that. A blue pill man may do the same but handle the results of his actions differently. Trp isn't trying to simply tell you how to act but how to live freely, get what you want in life and be happy doing so. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 08:27 AM |
| 3 | How to train for hypertrophyI've been hitting the gym since is was 14 for 5 years I boxed and after the air Force I got into weightlifting and eventually just began working out socially and for fun. People always say I look pretty good and I think it's because I've bagun working out by how I feel. And your regimen hits close to my workout habits. I use to do 5x5 but eventually lowered my weight and stopped counting reps. My weights vary but I get results. Heavy lifting is fun but it gets strenuous and wears your joints out… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/18 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Do you think that you could consciously WEAPONIZE the obsessive energy of Oneitis to harness it like some kind of blue performance enhancing juice in various pursuits unrelated to that bitch while maintaining enough savvy not to swallow the Kool-Aid?The only use oneitis has is better gains. Honestly I've learned I have a hard time with being left, and it is the main cause for my oneitis I lose interest in women that stay , and fall for the ones that don't. So I try to push for an ending asap. I try to face the facts, and confront them, sometimes it doesn't work if they lie about the reason why. in that state of mind you cling on to anything, but once I'm free I'm always torn up enough to hit the gym even harder. Every break up has also been… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 06:33 AM |
| 7 | Sink or SwimTo be honest I hate that we consider speaking to women during social events cold approaches. Because women are more open to potential partners. It's normal it's not that hard. I know this because the difference between cold approach at a club and @ the grocery store is...night and day. My friends have never seen me grab a number in the day time. I have done so here and their but I have not been rejected. Nor felt like it wasn't in the bag to begin with. Put me in a bar and I will talk to every s… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/18 04:20 AM |
| 9 | How to master self-amusement?This might sound odd but read everything here in a light hearted tone. I gained an overly Stern attitude in how I spoke and reacted to things. TRP comes off a little blunt but you can still smile and be unmoved. Smile that's the best thing to learn first. Learn to smile when you react. Learn to smile when you speak. And learn to smile naturally. People can still tell the difference between someone who is amused or ticked off. You don't even have to show teeth just smirk. This helps control your … | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 07:21 PM |
| 7 | [FR] How to kill interest in 3 weeksYeah breakfast is a pretty good way to secure a plate and ease any after morning sex tension. Breakfast was a pull and you forgot to push after you got the check. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/18 11:07 PM |
| 1 | is tinder dead?I get matches that respond just fine... It just becomes overwhelming and is really unhealthy for your mind. There's too much going on in ones life to deal with every girl on there. The 9-9.9's are just high dollar escorts | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 09:40 AM |
| 2 | What was that thing that you had a hard time getting?The balanace of disinterest is a tough one, but learning not to despise women over their nature was hard to learn as well. just remember they are doing their part, you do not want a women who does not know her worth or is easy. Those are the ones that come with baggage. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 07:41 PM |
| 1 | When do you listen to what a women says and do you ignore it?These are all sperate occasions and seperate women and instances | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 05:56 AM |
| 1 | One piece of advice you would give to your 21 year old self?Everything you've read in trp is true to an extent. You will think you have trp locked in (and you somewhat do)but you are not invincible. There will be women capable of making you question your life lessons. I can't tell you to avoid them but trust that you will learn from each experience, and that is the most important part. Learn from it but don't run from it. This is life, it's not a women's fault for being a women; they have an agenda and so do you, embrace it and keep living for you. Those… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 02:45 AM |
| 1 | I can not recall the word to describe this, but is it bad to refer to yourself as an attractive able individual?Off of one joke? She works out of state. Idc I don't think I like her that much anyways... I'm not an Uncle Tom; but she's kind of a black extremist. And tried to guilt me for not watching Black panther. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal to find yourself sometimes getting in setbacks? Does it ever happen to you guys to have some periods of regression?Yes there are times where I regress emotionally. I recently got into a relationship with a plate that had red flags all over. She was strictly sex but I really enjoyed her company and thought about friend zoning her to make room for better women. I ended up being talked into trying out a relationship with one of my plates. I picked her, and continued to make exceptions, which eventually bit me inn the ass. I honestly thought I lost a part of who I was and almost doubted the red pill. But I learn… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 05:43 PM |
| 2 | What I do when she sends nudesEverytime I respond with a wink emojii. Girls complain and say they are not sending me nudes anymore you didn't even say anything about my pics. My response: lol I sent a wink. Do you want me to give you a review? What is wrong should I just not respond period? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/18 09:20 PM |
| 1 | If she wants you, she won’t make it hard.Would it be worse if I told you that I told her I didnt want to get with her cus she didnt have her shit together? And I out of the blue one day decide I want to commit to her specifically and did not care whether or not she did. I'm losing to a fucking methhead. I'm able to provide for her more than her past 2 ex's combined and I've been laid off for 2 months. By trio's standards I have everything a woman could want charisma, muscles money, intelligence, I'm not crying over her I'm not being wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/18 10:21 PM |
| 11 | If she wants you, she won’t make it hard.I have something to admit and its a long shameful piece.... First and foremost, your title says it all. Second I made the mistake of assuming she's an exception. Third, I lied to myself and thought I was ready for commitment. To clarify on my third statement, Its not that ive got the "wandering eye" but simply that I compartmentalize my personality from women I fuck and women I commit to. I can very much game women and be a cold motherfucker, but once I decide to commit , I have this incredible … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/18 09:16 AM |
| 3 | Guys who get tons of interest from other girls, do you think having all that attention will keep you from having a good long term relationship?For me its tough because I find myself having buyers remorse all the time. I always want someone else. And the longer you've been in redpill, the more the process to picking up women becomes easier and meaningless. So every girl feels like their in arms reach. I know this doesn't get mentioned a lot because we don't strategize on LTR'S But LTR quality women should be 60% personality 50% looks. Really make sure you are not just fucking her. Really make sure its not just because she's has traditio… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/18 02:35 AM |
| 1 | increasing attractiveness causing a loss of motivation/self improvementAs in you want me to name another person, or a profession? I mean there's nothing/no one specific, I just want to be a guy that is happy, and not having any lingering regrets. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/18 04:16 AM |
| 4 | I don’t wanna sound like a nofaper but that shit worksYeah keeping masturbation to a minimum is nice, but keeping porn to a minimum is even better. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/18 02:03 AM |
| 1 | increasing attractiveness causing a loss of motivation/self improvementYou know sometimes when I answer this question... I feel myself saying i don't want to be anything. Part of me wants to be succesful, and I know I'm capable.But then another half of me would literally sit down and play video games for the rest of his life, and theres nothing wrong with either but I can't tell which one is what I truly want. Everyone has a lazy/bad part of themselves, that will try to talk you into self destruction, and sometimes people live their lives based off of societies exp… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/18 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Can't find your "mission"? Your "purpose?"Is it odd that I truly just want to be able to play video games in a room large enough that I won't feel cluttered,have sex with decent looking women. And be able to afford to go out from time to party..? Immediately after answering some of your questions , I remember a comedian made a joke that said something along the lines of ".....men are simple, if it was up to us we would be some sorry motherfuckers...and we'd be proud of it..... but thank god for women, because now I gotta do dumb shit li… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 08:40 PM |
| 1 | I [25] Started talking to a woman [32] with a kid [12] ,would like some insightSo don't even pursue for sex? | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 06:26 PM |
| 1 | I [25] Started talking to a woman [32] with a kid [12] ,would like some insightI think it was more along the lines of more younger guys approach her then people her age. Because she looks young, and so she's giving the younger age group a shot. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/17 10:04 PM |
| 1 | I [25] Started talking to a woman [32] with a kid [12] ,would like some insightJust being cautious, is all . TRP sort of disapproves of this , but at some point this will be majority of my dating pool. Their answer to this is dating prime aged women but I can't stand dating younger women. Because I'm an "old soul" they tend to be annoying and I've learned if I can't be around you after I fuck, then you gotta fucking go. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/17 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Date locationTrp gets into detail about a lot of things, but you shouldn't . a lot of habits people pick from trp is being over analytical. Pay attention to the big things and tie the small details together over time. You can't predict everything and understand that to us not an exact science learn to roll with the punches. A good boxer doesn't know where the next punch is coming. Hes just gained great reflexes a long with adapting to an opponents rhythm. Over time you will notice how people throw punches an… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/17 11:43 AM |
| 33 | How do you stop needing to feel validated by having sex with women?The other comment is a dumb response, but its the mechanic as having self control. You don't feel like hitting the gym , but you know better so you go anyways. You don't feel validated due to lack of sex, but you know sex does not change you or your worth. You may feel unattractive, but nothing has changed, and you know this maaaan. Ignore it and act on what you know and not how you feel, that's what women do. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/17 07:24 AM |
| 11 | Another AWALT story.For one women play into their emotions, she's going to act like she wants to commit because she feels that way. You make her feel that way. Women think and act in the present. Also before you found out she was trying to project the idea that she's available and only for you, because most people would bail upon finding out you're in an existing relationship. Im willing to bet he probably isnt paying her tuition and lives right around the corner from you, but that is definitely her man, and you're… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/17 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Can we still be friends?Lol I appreciate this written out response, it fits well at answering the title, but not what I had written out | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Can we still be friends?I never considered that the outcome of my response could be dependent on her perception of me. So if you maintain your frame during the "break up" your response doesn't necessarily matter. Except that saying No is more beneficial because you call her bluff and if it doesn't work you already severed the cord and move on like you should be. How would you feel about saying yes for the sake of not burning a bridge, so instead of aiming to get her back to you, you just keep her around for keeping a l… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 02:01 AM |
| 7 | Walking with a girl in publicI'm 5'7 I'm usually always the shortest guy in the room. 5'10 seems to be the sweet spot. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/17 02:32 PM |
| 5 | Tinder girl suggesting meetupIf she invites you to the show and nothing else before its a terrible way getting seats filled. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 04:20 AM |
| 1 | What is the most ideal approach to a girl's friend tell you her homegirl likes you before you make your move?I'm 25 years old. Yes this still happens . its not an everyday thing but from my experience I have an easier time approaching womenjoy without a heads up | /r/askTRP | 23/09/17 10:33 AM |
| 1 | How would you reply to this?Also play it by ear means we'll see how it pans out. But this could be a soft rejection if he asked when she's free. But if it was in the context of wanting to hangout then yes he's overthinking it. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Do woman talk about he guys they had sex with?I have a plate that has a female roommate when they invite friends over I learn a lot because they all know about each other's previous relationships .... They love gossip and sex is very gossip worthy | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 08:46 PM |
| 5 | Walk into the Bar even when you don't feel like itExactly, the key to going out alone is you make the party play out however you want. Speak to everybody. I don't personally make friends when I'm out a lone because again I usually don't want to speak to those people again. But my face is now recognizable to folks who frequent that bar | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/17 08:34 PM |
| 16 | Girl I am seeing gets visibly upset when I take out a condom..Wow I was honestly convinced she was just a weirdo, but this makes sense as well. Usually women don't want the shame of having a child out of wedlock or a relationship and op was the perfect candidate , but the only thing that makes me think she wasn't trying to peg a pregnancy is because she had a general interest in him financially. I think she was trying to get child support I believe her desperation was in finding money. Maybe a life crisis, and was sick of having to work for herself and see… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/17 01:26 PM |
| 9 | Walk into the Bar even when you don't feel like itI've been going out alone a lot but it's much easier to pick up women when friends are around. They don't even have to be visible but the fact I have friends they can meet (if needed) makes them comfortable. People say it isn't odd, but it is. It's not wrong, but it's odd to see a guy by himself at a packed bar, the first question I always get is "where are my friends", or "why? Isn't it uncomfortable...like what do you by yourself?". It makes you mysterious, but it also makes you potentially da… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/17 03:18 AM |
| 1 | 5'7" manlet here. Lacking facial aesthetics but lifting hard. Do I have any chance?I can say with complete confidence, men don't need to look good in their face as much as women. So ignore the facial aesthetics. As far as figure goes, you have to be patient. You dont need to be lean for women to notice your muscle, just have a general figure. Now in more superficial situations like tinder or at the beach it matters otherwise its not that big of a difference . Feel comfortable feeling like shit when your not in shape. Its what will drive you to stay fit. Just BE PATIENT. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 01:06 AM |
| 0 | Do you care too much about the opinions of others? Do you give too many fucks? There is a simple exercise to get over this, it's called 'shaving your head bald' | Let me explain, there is a method behind the madnessI'd love to try this, but I've been growing dreads w/ a fade for a year. Would this work if I just cut the sides purely bald? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/17 04:32 PM |
| 5 | Company loyalty is dead. Switch jobs every 18 months to two years. [Career]Yeah just to show how much loyalty matters, and that its "just business". A company will gladly take you back for a higher pay than if you had tried to simply get a raise. The other thing is some companies cant afford it | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/17 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Walked out on a date last night. Did I handle it right? What now?Is it not disrespectful to turn your back on your date ,chatting with someone who was not invited and possibly green light there advances? Taking into consideration this may be a job opportunity and allowing her to create a contact is very considerate. If you really want this business contact, speak later. Show you have respect and value your time as well. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Walked out on a date last night. Did I handle it right? What now?You just made it clear you want privscy with your date. Your date should respect that first and if she doesn't then leave. But if she she understands then move if he persists. The suggestion to exchange info is you showing abundance. Also if it was just a business contact you will see them exchange linked in accounts specifically . if she actually exchanges numbers on a date she just proved she isn't worth your time, fwb only. Anyone who values your concerns won't act on the opportunity. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 10:41 AM |
| 3 | Walked out on a date last night. Did I handle it right? What now?I will say mentioning the fact she was conversing with another guy can come off as you being jealous. Next time you pick up an immature/inconsiderate girl, tell her "I invited you to hang out with me. If you wanna talk to someone else, exchange numbers and chat on your own time." I've used this line once , but I said date. Don't say date, and dont use gender specific words dont give her room to think your being jealous. The best way to challenge a shit test involving another male is to agree and… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 01:21 AM |
| 26 | The Legend of the SheriffNever let the truth get in the way of a good story | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/17 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Came a across a virgin, why should I stay, and when should I leave?I paraphrased but these are bits and pieces of what I generally said and things she asked me, because she wasn't just a virgin but shes never touched a dick. So she had lots of questions. I kinda see why this sounds. After re reading it, the way I laid the info out sounds a little pretentious. As for my partner count i was just playing I followed up with "I dunno I never really counted." But her reaction made me realize I needed to touch on a few subjects. Because She was fucking mystified by my… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 03:34 PM |
| 1 | My encounter with a sloppy pickup artistI figured the "game" mention might go under scrutiny. But I was refering to game as in severity. We don't treat dating like its just simple fun, we go in depth to marriage, ltrs/ldr divorce, Mgtow to being the man that women truly yearn for, all while preaching that women arent worth it. PUA is a guide on how to get laid. TRP is a guide to becoming the man. There are way more practical goals in TRP compared to PUA. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/17 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Some advice that helped me through the anger phase.Exactly, I just want emphasize that its "you" who needs to change and if your going to be mad at someone ...look in the mirror. We speak a lot on how other people handle what we do, a lot of new people tend to think the truth is they are in a world not being given what they deserve. When in fact " you" havent earned it | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/17 01:26 PM |
| 3 | My encounter with a sloppy pickup artistPua is short term. Trp is life long. Women are a part of life. We strategize how to handle this portion in more than just dating. Its not a game PUA is simply knowing how but not why. You may know how to install p-trap under your sink but do you know why? Knowing why explains so much more and allows you to assess the problem independently. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/17 06:55 AM |
| 1 | What are some bad habits men make in ongoing relationships?Its bad to make a habit of using the phone to communicate "casually" with women. Because you send a sign that you are available every phone conversation, and also you create an alibi. Every time you don't pick up you no longer have an alibi and she has a reason to question you. The problem is now you are giving her room to perform shit tests that are one big comfort tests. TRP doesn't tell you much about comfort test but they decide whether you have an ltr or a plate. Fail too many and you have … | /r/askTRP | 26/06/17 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Gf being shady?It doesn't work like that, trust is like jumping off a cliff and leaving it to someone else to catch you. Not to be confused with blindly trusting someone. Trust what you know and understand, but understand even further that you can never prove someone is trustworthy. If you feel the need "to find out" its because you dont believe they will catch you anymore. Even if you do take the plunge, doubt will fill your head the entire way down. And when they catch you, you'll find yourself wondering if … | /r/askTRP | 22/06/17 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Ignored girl who rejected me and feel bad?We all know she doesn't want you. And you want her. But let's rationalize how you should feel about the situation. Sad, let down, and correct. She acted exactly how we explained it in the sidebar. This is woman. This is their natural behavior. Don't hate them for it, keep understanding it. Adjust and find some more women. Rinse and repeat, and watch your success rate improve. Feel let down ,embrace it. If you lie to yourself and keep saying I'm fine, it will catch up to you in the future. learn … | /r/askTRP | 22/06/17 12:24 AM |
| 14 | Exist OfflineI've been noticing a trend in posts, pointing out the problem with the internet and technology as a whole. I believe this sub , mainly its subscribers, could benfit by having 1 day a month where we essentially shut down the sub and promote being offline and away from technology.The day before there can be a megathread on what people plan to do instead for the day. The day of, posts and comments are allowed only by endorsed contributors speaking on the topic. The next day; a megathread of all fie… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/17 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Don't Hate Women For Being WomenWe don't emphasize that women's behavior is their natural behavior. It was like this since their existence. Except now, it's gone unchecked and become a standard of what is and isn't acceptable. The problem is that they stayed the same but us men have not. We are no longer natural in behavior. This sub is about correcting ourselves, not the women. As you can see they very much have as much power as we do to effect society. They're not monsters, they are women. They are the reason you are alive. … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/17 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Quick tip to Increase your perceived dominance.This actually ties in well to why I sound high pitched when I'm extremely confident. I just don't know how to unlock it. I've been reading/practicing TRP since about 2012. I can not stay confident. I can act it, but faking it til you make it isn't working out so well. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Quick tip to Increase your perceived dominance.Aight ,how in the world do I do this without sounding breathy or out of breath ? Edit: I believe this is where my exhaustion stems from. I have become more conscious of breathing through my diaphragm and not my chest. Now when I breathe my shoulders don't move as much. I practice my perfect pitch in the car on the way home. But doing it naturally is tough. My extremely confident tone is actually higher pitched than anything else. If I'm on guard (or in less comfortable situations) I speak deeper… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/17 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Quick tip to Increase your perceived dominance.I guess I need to listen to myself talk naturally, because it feels exhausting and I'm not the only person. I may be over compensating. And try to keep a level pitch | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/17 06:53 PM |
| 7 | Quick tip to Increase your perceived dominance.The problem I have doing this is that, I have a low-deep voice that doesn't project, its soft. And I won't sound like mufasa until I'm in my 40s. For me to speak in this tonality is exhausting. I don't know how to do it in a natural unrelated pitch. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/17 04:06 PM |
| 10 | Things My Father Taught Me: Advice for guys raised by single momsResults may vary on this one, but don't ever do it to be safe | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/17 01:41 AM |
| 2 | [FR] How keeping frame can dismantle an AMOG.Yup, and then its like I'm being recruited by 2 opposing teams. As they bad mouth each other. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/17 08:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] How keeping frame can dismantle an AMOG.It wasn't his house to begin with | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/17 06:15 AM |
| 2 | [FR] How keeping frame can dismantle an AMOG.If he had that much of a problem with me he would not have been cool with me after the fact. Any confrontation can lead to more drastic outcomes. But I didn't escalate his aggression, I simply deflected it. Although I was being smartass I was prepared to leave if needed, but I wasn't going to lay down at the first sign of opposition either. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/17 08:00 PM |
| 2 | [FR] How keeping frame can dismantle an AMOG.Black and Light skin are the same thing. Some Light skin people are half white , some are just black. Both my parents are darker than me and my brother. Half white kids dont always turn out "light" either, but in my case I'm on the darker spectrum of light skin because of my parents | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/17 11:17 AM |
| 9 | [FR] How keeping frame can dismantle an AMOG.Her cousin May have a been a hood rat, but home girl proved otherwise. Plus her spot is in the nice part of town . her cousin is there temporarily and she's just a plate. Asian / Jamaican and German. I wasn't mad lol . You can leave the hood but it follows you. Sometimes serving only as a reminder of your upbringing or to haunt you. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/17 10:50 AM |
| 21 | Accidentally matched with an 18 year old on Tinder...she's still in High School...I'm 27Ive never shared any green with a women without getting something in return. When it comes to weed though it better happen that same night. Its not that weed is a higher commodity than money, its just women are more likely to try that slick shit with something you may not mind replacing. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/17 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Can I ask this hirl out for coffee or smthn?I've worked my way through social media handles. Some girls just don't want to give their number out easily, but in my experiences I would call them through snap and get their number or just ask for it. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/17 08:58 PM |
| 1 | How did you build a social circle past university?Lol ur social circle will not be nicely intertwined as it is in school. Its not hard to make friends in the real world, and it happens naturally. Don't go looking for " friends" ...just hang out. You will find yourself gravitating towards the people that you like. Then you will build from there. I will tell you how I built my circle in a random state as a black city kid in Westbubblefuck Georgia. I went to the gym, and chatted with the two associates st the shake bar after every work out. One of… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/17 11:48 PM |
| 0 | Is it a good idea to fuck prostitute for praticing ?Prostition provides the same problem porn has. Your practicing instant gratification with sex, and testing it like your brushing your teeth. Plus once you see how easy it is to get sex without game you end up sticking to it. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/17 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Why do I seem to stress over losing a plate?I've been on trp Since about 2012.I've changed drastically.if I don't invest emotionally, then I generally lose interest. I think it may be an ego/ insecurity , but my only method for change has been trying any chance I get and self reflection. Is it possible I just have wait this out? I'm completely aware I have a problem. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/17 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do I seem to stress over losing a plate?This is actually becoming a concern. Because I'm aware, yet I can't rationalize my way through it. I stopped depending on validation for confidence a long time ago, but the moment a women leaves me before I choose to. I lose frame and break every single rule. And if I end up getting what I wanted. I instantly go back to my same ways or regret "backpedaling" so to speak. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/17 03:52 AM |
| 0 | How to respond to a shit test where a chick calls you ugly?"Thanks handsome, at least I have standards." "Wow all this time thought my dick was the only low hanging fruit you were after, who knew you wanted the loom too?" Followed by a cheek kiss only. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 01:25 PM |
| 2 | What are some of your go to escalation moves?For escalating to sex. "Lay down, lemme give you a massage" It's such a cop out trick, but if I don't feel like working for it, this is my go to method. I don't use it on better looking women though. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/17 11:21 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate during watching movie in bedFirst how do you know your watching a movie in bed? Whose bed? And where? If you haven't kissed her or really touched. Your goal is to get the ball rolling, and not get laid. DO NOT TRY TO GET LAID, Keep that in your head. You need to build sexual confidence, and its not that you can't get laid but you want to tease her tonight. Since this hypothetical date is going to be a very sedentary one; all you need to do is watch something questionable but interesting enough to check out. Don't fall asle… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 10:37 PM |
| 1 | If you put her on a pedestal then she has no choice but to look down on youIf you put her on a pedestal, then stop putting her on a pedestal. If it becomes an opposition, leave. That is it. I hate when people talk aboit FR's where their girlfriend comes crawling back. That's not the goal. You had to go through all that shit for her to say sorry. She's clearly not worth your time. She obviously does not see eye to eye with you, and it won't change. LEAVE and do not look back. They will respect you when you do commit to this, but if you really know your worth, you wouldn… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/17 03:49 PM |
| 1 | If you put her on a pedestal then she has no choice but to look down on youThe second one didn't work because you didn't commit nor hit her hard. She saw through you. This isn't bluffing its fact. You don't take the relationship away with intentions gstting back. You need to believe your done as well | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/17 10:13 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate during watching movie in bedWhat did you do on these dates? | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 09:53 AM |
| 3 | Asked girlfriend for nudes, she ignored me. What now?Don't ever request nudes without knowing if she's into it. Don't ever request nudes without context. Don't ever ask as if its a question. If she says no. It's a loss. You will look butthurt and spiteful over naked pictures if you ignore her. And you look thirsty and stupid if you keep asking. You've seen tits before,act like it. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Is 15 too young for TRP? Oh, and how I randomly found this place.The story sounds troll-ish | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 02:58 AM |
| 5 | Tinder - "send me $5 and see what happens 😘"Some chick on Twitter(?) Did this and made a video , of betas throwing the money in and then she would unmatch them. And of course every unoriginal how out there is scamming men with plausible deniability. If that's their bio, tell them "for 5 bucks you'd make a killing on backpage" | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Tips on gaming older women?I have a thing for older women. One thing I've noticed, is they will not fall to dread tactics easily. They have seen your bullshit before and have 20 years on you. And you shouldnt need game or do any forming. If a 40 yr old is interested in you, she's not going to hamster her way to get you as an orbited, or locked in a relationship. She wants the 20 year old fresh out of puberty dick. Plain and simple. You have nothing to offer a single 40 yr old women. She's more than likely established hers… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 01:34 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate during watching movie in bedHow did you get her to the bed? I'm curious. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 01:21 AM |
| 1 | If a girl cancels on you, should you bother replying to her text?She should be trying to reschedule after the 1st time. Its not my job to fix the plans you ruined, the ball is immediately in your court. Anything else is usually a lack of interest. Ok and nothing more until she contacts you again, on her own will and THEN bring up simpler plans , everyone is nervous about first dates . she may have chickened out, or didn't want to ask because she's shy | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 01:19 AM |
| 1 | If you put her on a pedestal then she has no choice but to look down on youThat might get you some charges . | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/17 08:46 PM |
| 5 | If you put her on a pedestal then she has no choice but to look down on youSweep them off their feet, and watch as they respect you from the ground. You let them control the relationship, but take it away and they have no leg to stand on. They will not expect it, because you let them underestimate you. The fall is harder, and they will be left shocked. It's a machivellian tactic I use at work, but works in relationships as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/17 10:54 AM |
| 1 | LTR going on friends vacation to EuropeIf she planned it prior she's not canceling it for you PERIOD. BUT it doesn't imply anything about her future actions overseas. Watch her actions with you prior , during, and after the trip. People are busy on vacations, you will end up talking less, and she will also be distracted regardless if its a male or not. I personally have a call recording app. I replay conversations to remember key details or analyze moments to see how I say something more effectively. In your case, its to remember key… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/17 09:15 PM |
| 4 | Plate of 1 year is so generous and satisfactory that I've dropped all others for total lack of interest. How do I avoid oneitis?An endorsed member once said you can't get used to pain unless you experience it. Oneitis isn't caring about someone too much, it's the pain of losing something you care about, and it hurting you. You can't avoid getting hit in boxing but you can learn to manage the pain. The only thing that really makes oneitis likely is becoming vulnerable, and a woman takes advantage. But monogamy requires vulnerability at some point for longevity. In other words don't fight it, but be vigilant. Don't allow i… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/17 10:25 AM |
| 2 | Tips for Alphas on Frame and GameIf your going to be witty or anything but straightforward....use emojis. If you're going to read anything in TRP use common sense. Apply the techniques don't imitate it. EVERYONE should be able to get the general idea. Become familiar with your current SMV. Its a game of give and take. The objective is to take more than you give, and get away with it. You get away with it by acting like you deserve it, and you don't earn anything you only take. Give the guy a break its solid and simple advice th… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/17 03:43 AM |
| 7 | You Have More In Common With Feminism Than You ThinkTRP is just about showing you have the skills and tools to get the desired sex life | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/17 03:53 AM |
| 18 | You Have More In Common With Feminism Than You ThinkWell I didn't find TRP because I needed it, it was linked from another sub and I agreed with it completely. I had gotten a better perspective from it. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/17 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Limiting contact is fucking up ties with plates, and they wanna talk all the time from day 1.It doesn't have to do anything with being less boring. But what I'm asking is how can I be less boring while maintaining my routine. I'm guaranteed to be occupied 5-6 days a week. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/17 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Limiting contact is fucking up ties with plates, and they wanna talk all the time from day 1.It more or less has to do with my schedule, and pointing out that a lot of routine, requires 100% focus so I can't communicate at will without sacrificing my time. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Limiting contact is fucking up ties with plates, and they wanna talk all the time from day 1.Aight well that works for me. I was afraid I need to go monk mode, but I also wanted to make sure I wasn't being too distant. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Limiting contact is fucking up ties with plates, and they wanna talk all the time from day 1.What if I'm only free on the weekends? | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Limiting contact is fucking up ties with plates, and they wanna talk all the time from day 1.Give me suggestions. I'm working 50-70 hrs a week , night school, gym, practicing welding. I'm a union pipefitter , the overtime money and night shift money is too much to give up. School is mandatory, and I'm almost at my goal for cutting. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 10:15 AM |
| 1 | REMINDER: Some of the biggest fallacies I've seen in here this week and just one man's take on itYou have a point to some extent. The line is drawn on when to say no, and what she did prior to dating. If she's a bookworm and keeps to herself, and rarely hangs out with friends....."bye , have fun." If she's a social butterfly, then its different, you're not mate guarding. You're creating boundaries, and taking respect....." Nah, not tonight sweetie" | /r/askTRP | 29/03/17 10:02 PM |
| 1 | What are some bad habits men make in ongoing relationships?Yeah I was wondering why there was a "correct answer chime" in the beginning lol | /r/askTRP | 29/03/17 06:48 PM |
| 7 | What are some bad habits men make in ongoing relationships?I think most people do see red flags, it's when people make exceptions for those warning signs that seems to be the most common problem. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/17 08:16 AM |
| 3 | What are some bad habits men make in ongoing relationships?First understand, a relationship is a broad term. Spinning plates just means you have multiple relationships. TRP encourages trying to remain single, but completely recognizes LTR's and they want for them. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/17 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Lost my virginity: was underwhelmingThe intensity of the situation takes away from the enjoyment of sex on the first pass or so, but after several sessions, you will get into it more. Pussy is pussy. Red pill or not I'm open to any women I date , on talking about what we like and don't like etc. You don't necessarily do this to figure out her sweet spot, but to learn how people work, and learn about yourself. Take feedback, try moves from karma sutra. If you want her to fuck like a hoe, you gotta fuck her like one too. I've notice… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/17 11:07 AM |
| 3 | Best NYC Neighborhoods?All I can tell people is where not to go to stay alive. NYC is starting gentrify heavily, but staten island is getting real dangerous | /r/askTRP | 15/03/17 11:17 AM |
| 3 | I'm shook at the moment. Guy tried to fight me on the b-ball court. Feel like I bitched out since I let him push me and grab my neck. Can't stop thinking about it.You don't need to learn how to fight to properly avoid physical conflict in a red pill manner. Its all about body language and being comfortable in conflict. You may have to fight at some point but should avoid it at all cost. Stand your ground, be stern, and explain in the most direct manner, "I'm not interested in fighting you, especially not over a joke......"(look at everyone else and say out loud c'mon lets play ball) and walk away, and start smiling again. This shit is a lot easier said th… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/17 11:14 AM |
| 1 | I've been on NoFap for a little while and all I can think of is sex.No fap is bad, it fucked up my endurance , and actually weakened my pc muscles, it also killed my sex drive | /r/askTRP | 15/03/17 10:52 AM |
| 1 | How to handle this relationship with my male friendYour early 20's is the sweet spot in your life, where you realize , people are temporary no matter the time or commitment | /r/askTRP | 08/03/17 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Logic: Future of a Blue Pill IllusionPeople must think I mean science as in the little reports people write from studies on relationships. When I say science I mean that, no two living creatures on this planet are the same. there are so many possibilities. From DNA to either being left or right handed. I like red pill , it has changed me for the better, but I do realize that it is not perfect, and reading through the sub daily was hurting me more than it was helping. I know for a fact enforcing the idea of using the stratigies and … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 03:26 PM |
| 7 | Red Pill Logic: Future of a Blue Pill IllusionThis is why I kinda laid off this sub. I realized TRP has a great point, but in order for this sub to stay relevant we analyze the strategy over and over, as if its written in hieroglyphics and in turn we re-interpret simple conclusions , until the general consesus is in a different ball park. Not only that but its scientifically proven, that NAWALT exists. I believe RP doesn't enforce using your intuition along with the strategy because, you cant teach someone how to do that properly and effect… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/17 11:43 PM |
| 1 | I'm going to do something unexpected. Gonna have some fun with displays of intent...I get what you're saying but I dont like how you're applying it. If you are to make a gesture, let it be completely unexpected, small, and useful. EXAMPLE: You seen the front desk lady , at your job, drinking a coffee and making eyes at some point. Two days later (with nothing being said in between that time) you drop off a frappe from an interesting coffee spot. You give her that smile, and say try it ...its good ;with a wink. Go to your work area and and work from there. If she's already inter… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/17 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Is it bad that I've grown into only pursuing LTR's?If there's anything ive learned from trp, in my time, needing an abundance to have an abundance mentality is like loose training wheels on a bike. Once you know how to ride, you should feel confident enough to ride without them. I'm exhausted of spinning plates. It's time consuming and takes time away from me. I'm tired of going through the same shit over and over, and girls having the same reaction to snarky replies. And saying and doing the same thing over and over. Pussy is Pussy, and the end… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/17 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Is HVAC worth it? (Fellow tradesmen)Had a girlfriend and I begged her to join the air force I even had friends and family in the air force and army tell her join them. Dumbass still joined the army, and then she would complain allnthe time how she hated it. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/17 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Is it bad that I've grown into only pursuing LTR's?I just spun plates for 3 years. Maybe my libido has lowered, but its not for the sex. I stopped masturbating and watching porn. I had a couple lays in the past few weeks and I'm still interested in ltrs. I'm starting another one now. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/17 11:55 PM |
| 3 | No fap and sex driveYeah the no fap shit is dumb. It made my one night stands ...short. And made me lose my patience towards sex. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/17 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Is HVAC worth it? (Fellow tradesmen)I'm prior military and I'm a Union Pipefitter (part of HVAC). Pm me for specific questions. Its hard to visualize this but the military is the best option. If you start at 18 you retire at 38 With tons of cash , GI bill,Free schooling (while your active), Veteran title, 20 years of various leadership skills, and experience in whatever job you do while in. Once you leave, the world is yours. You can make coloring books for a living and still have a check coming in with free insurance. I can tell … | /r/askTRP | 23/02/17 12:17 PM |
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