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It's her place. Almost packed and ready to go. Thank you.
/r/askMRP04/02/20 08:17 PM
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Well luckily it's her place. I am almost done packing. Should be long gone before she even leaves work.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 08:16 PM
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I came in her mouth an hour before this happened. Sex life has not declined since the engagement.
/r/askMRP04/02/20 07:19 PM
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Suing is giving her more of my time. I'm just gonna walk away while I still can. I have no legal obligation to her.
/r/askMRP04/02/20 07:17 PM
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Yeah, I became a beta again. Back to square one. Sidebar it is. At least I can only go up.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 07:16 PM
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I haven't told him; I just know I can always go live with him.
/r/askMRP04/02/20 07:00 PM
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Fuck man, thanks for the insight. 2020 will be the year I dodged a bullet.
/r/askMRP04/02/20 06:58 PM
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I didn't though. I have in the past. She enjoys kids movies and shit cause her job is working with people with psychological issues. So she doesn't want to watch the latest drama.
/r/askMRP04/02/20 06:55 PM
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How do I call off the wedding without ending the relationship? By saying no to the wedding, I am in effect saying we are done.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 06:53 PM
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I understand your comment now. No, the blue pill illusion is now gone. Thank you.
/r/askMRP04/02/20 06:48 PM
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I did tell her that I expected an apology. She just won't give one. How could I have handled this comfort test better?
/r/askMRP04/02/20 06:46 PM
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Lol fucking kurt russell man. Needed a laugh.
/r/askMRP04/02/20 06:38 PM
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Noted. Thank you for the honesty.
/r/askMRP04/02/20 06:37 PM
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Yes. I already have an exit plan to pack up all my shit and move out before the end of the week. My dad says I can live with him indefinitely. The house is in her name - I have no debt obligations with her.
/r/askMRP04/02/20 06:37 PM
3

What happened in your case? Was it a specific instance of disrespect, slow loss of respect, or a mixed bag?
/r/askMRP04/02/20 06:35 PM
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Ironically, she works and I am not right now. So she has been my meal ticket, but obviously my earning potential is far higher.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 06:30 PM
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Yeah, I fucked up, lost frame. My frame started giving way once we moved in together after the engagement it seems. Although sex hasn't declined or anything.
/r/askMRP04/02/20 06:20 PM
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We didn't live together before the engagement. She was eating a piece of toast with the peanut butter. I feel as though my frame has collapsed since the engagement/moving in. Hopefully the men at MRP can offer some guidance. Thank you.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 06:12 PM
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No, unfortunately. She keeps saying she will do this or that. She has been eating better food and less food in general. She just won't exercise. Yeah I fucked up by offering her any attention.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 06:07 PM
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I guess it was a shit test man. After going no contact, she reached out to apologize to me and told me to come over to her place on Friday. I did, we had sex twice that night, then she gave me a pedicure (not sure what to make of that). Proceed to have sex twice again in the morning. I actually did go to the lake with her. We then had sex twice again on Sunday after getting home. I guess she was testing my betaness? Hard for me to unpack this thing.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 04:58 PM
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Yeah man, you were right. I had to hard next. Thanks for telling me what I needed to hear, not what I wanted to hear.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 06:20 PM
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Yeah it did. Apparently the pastor's word of the day was "indulgence." She believed our sexual behavior had become indulgent. Then the tickle truth. She didn't want to just take a break for the weekend. She wanted to go from what she perceived to be 80% sex down to 10% sex. Somewhere my beta tendencies showed through, so she challenged me. I ended whatever we had an hour ago over the phone. We were ideologically incongruent.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 06:19 PM
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Yeah. I was hanging out with my piano teacher of six years yesterday talking about this (we're friends now - he hangs out and is a former hippie). He pretty much said this chick is a "C" for me, and I should be looking for an A. Based on some of the other comments below, I'm willing to have fun at the lake this weekend, escalate, seduce and see what happens. Her ASD has always been high, but it seems as if maybe she isn't as attracted to me as she claims or as I thought. If so, then I'll learn w…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 07:59 PM
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I think I just became too beta by being too invested and she sensed that. I was never begging for sex or anything before. I think she feels guilty about it from a religious standpoint. But again, she's not a virgin, was having sex with her previous boyfriend (whom she met in church), fucks like a porn star with me. Her whole claim was that she needs to see if she can be in a (long-term) relationship with me by not having sex. I feel I've demonstrated enough that I'm not here for a quick fuck, bu…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 07:51 PM
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Maybe they know you have abundance, so a test of this type would be meaningless. They would lose any semblance of power they may have had.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 03:35 PM
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Agreed. Honestly, there have been times when she said "I can't" because she was sore, and then minutes later we were having sex. This seems more like a shit test/power play.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:47 PM
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She was just on her period. She tells me about that shit pretty openly.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:43 PM
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This would make sense only if you think that women really sit down and evaluate decisions such as this in a philosophical way. I personally believe they don't. She has stated before that she thinks LTR/marriage is stronger if you don't have sex (too late for us in that respect). So it's not totally out of the blue, but yes something happened at church. She may be feeling guilty about "sin" or some shit. This idea comes from the bible, it's not an original idea for her. We might just be ideologic…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:37 PM
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This is pretty sound advice and synthesizes a lot of what was said here. Basically I have these options. 1) Don't go to the lake - this would come across as butthurt. 2) Go to the lake, ignore this shit test, escalate when I can, and see what happens. If she holds out then soft next and learn what I can from this situation. Be better for next time. 3) Go to the lake, don't escalate, fall into her frame, and become beta forever - not possible.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:34 PM
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Thank you, Uncle V. I've been lurking and reading your comments since 2015. I appreciate the help and insight.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 03:43 AM
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I think I already fucked up then. I told her I thought it was ridiculous, but that I didn't care and would still hang out. I had planned on just making multiple moves on her, as she's said no to sex before and then acquiesces later on. Is that my only shot at "passing" this now?
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:45 AM
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Yeah. I may have gone too beta at some point to salvage this. We'll see.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:30 AM
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Thanks for the comment. I like the philosophy of the mindset you mention here. Gonna go do some reading as well.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:20 AM
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Is dread necessary this early on? I thought that was geared towards married men in (nearly) sexless relationships.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:18 AM
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I wouldn't say we only have sex when we see each other. We've been on normal dates. She took me to the planetarium. We went to a concert together. Did a short day hike to a nearby waterfall. But at the same time, she likes being choked, spanked, facials. I had no intention of pump and dump. Did she go hypersexual on me and now is pulling back to see if I'm beta? That's how it seems.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:13 AM
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We've done what I've wanted sexually (spanking, choking, facials), and yes I've stuck around. I actually have enjoyed our normal dates together. I had no intention of pump and dump but don't want to be in a sexless relationship.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:12 AM
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I agree with the spontaneous nature of desire/sex. She went to a church prayer thing on the first Saturday in June. That following Thursday I saw her (no sex) - I pushed for it but was denied. The next day, Friday, I pushed again, and we had sex twice that night. Another time, in the morning, she said "I can't have sex right now." We were having sex minutes later. She seems to play hard to get. Maybe ASD?
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:07 AM
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I'm 190 lb at 6'4'' and 12% BF. Finally got out of skeleton mode - used to be 160. Hit 225 for bench the other day. Lower body is weak though. Max squat is 205. Haven't been this confident physically ever in my life. She called me "broad" after sex one time.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:06 AM
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Would you say it was a temporary shit test that you could have passed or a pattern over a longer period?
/r/askTRP28/07/19 07:53 PM
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This kind of makes me think it’s a shit test now. That she wants me to push for it. She’s just “playing hard to get” to keep the spark there and keep things interesting.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 07:47 PM
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Is it possible this is a shit test? As in she wants me to try to fuck her next weekend and is just playing hard to get.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 07:16 PM
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Interesting idea but not sure it would work. She would get relationship benefits without having to have sex. Why give her what she wants?
/r/askTRP28/07/19 07:06 PM
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Thanks man. Funny thing is I was going to giver her a shot at an LTR. How do women think that withholding sex is a good long term option for them? Mind blowing
/r/askTRP28/07/19 06:03 PM
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If you haven't seen Terry Gilliam's fantasy-thriller Brazil, go and watch it. The protagonist creates fantasies to escape from his dull reality.
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