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The_Mermaid/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 02:17 AM
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It's just not logical. Why would you hit on someone you aren't attracted to?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 01:13 AM
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Yes, I'm serious. Men don't hit on women they aren't interested in.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:43 AM
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I'm sure most people think mermaids are better than Nazis.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:25 AM
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Why would men hit on me and ask me out if they aren't attracted to me?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:24 AM
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Because I think Nazi fantasies are creepy.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:11 AM
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I don't have a thigh gap, and it hasn't stopped men from being interested in me.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:10 AM
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sieg heil bitch So mature. And you proved my point that you have some odd sexual ideas.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 11:59 PM
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i know this was created by 4chan but i support this kind of stuff. anything that will make american teenage girls more self-conscious about beauty is a definite improvement and a step in the right direction. there is hope afterall... You said yourself that you want teenage girls to feel more self conscious.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 11:43 PM
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You're high caliber? You're a sexual fascist with a hatred of women. I run from guys like you. I don't believe in telling kids that everyone is beautiful. I do however, believe that all kids should grow up learning that they should never settle for a disrespectful partner, and that they should value themselves, regardless of appearance.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 11:23 PM
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By "normal", I was referring to the healthy range. Attractive is different to everyone. I don't expect you to go out with women are aren't attracted to. I don't go out with mediocre looking men. And no, I'm not jealous of you. Why would I be jealous? You're right, it's up to you who you choose to go out with. But I stand by my statement that if you think it's good for teenagers to have self esteem issues, so they will be more attractive to you, that you are a sick person.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 11:03 PM
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If you have narrow hips, and are consuming the proper amount of calories, you will probably not have a thigh gap. I know that more men commit suicide than women, my comment wasn't only referring to women. Do you think everyone is either skinny or obese, with no range in between? There are a lot of women who at at a healthy weight but have a more voluptuous figure. There's a wide range of body types for normal weight women. You can have preferences. But when you say that you want to instill emoti…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 09:49 PM
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I normally leave this hate group alone, but that comment bothered me so much I had to say something. I can't wait until the day this subreddit is banned from Reddit.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 09:38 PM
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That's fine. I can still live with myself knowing I'm not intentionally trying to cause emotional damage to teenagers.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 08:14 PM
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Women with narrow hips cannot have a thigh gap unless they eat less calories than they should. Intaking less calories than the amount you need is called starving. Pressuring someone to be thin isn't helpful, and it can lead to emotional problems. In some cases, people have committed suicide because of extremely low self esteem. Not all women want a thigh gap, so why do you think this body type should be pushed on people?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 08:13 PM
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What do you think these types of messages lead to? You tell preteens to starve themselves to achieve a thigh gap, and they die of a heart attack before 16. Reread what you wrote. You are a hateful, disgusting person. You want teenagers to have emotional problems, and engage in dangerous practices, so they can be more attractive to you. You're a sick, evil person.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 07:49 PM
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Yes, increasing suicide rates and deaths from eating disorders are great for society. /s This subreddit makes me sick I don't know how it hasn't been shut down for being a hate group yet.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 05:41 PM
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I would not spend the rest of my life being unhappy in a marriage I didn't want, just to please my parents.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 05:16 AM
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So either I accept an arranged marriage, or I am a shit daughter?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 05:11 AM
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If my parents tried to force me into marriage, I would go to the airport, ask for a plane ticket for the next flight, I don't care where, and I would never look back.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 04:53 AM
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I don't think forced marriages are good life advice...
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 04:23 AM
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I wouldn't say I have feelings for him, there's no emotional connection, I just think he's an attractive guy. And I've never been attracted to a criminal before.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 03:44 AM
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My point is though, he is physically attractive. He's built well and has a nice face. It's not hard to see why women think he's hot.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 03:39 AM
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Maybe a small part of it is because he's a dangerous, mysterious guy. But most women would be attracted to him anyway, if he wasn't a killer.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 03:19 AM
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He has a very attractive face.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 03:00 AM
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Women aren't attracted to him because he's a killer, they are attracted to him because he's a physically attractive person. Big difference.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 02:59 AM
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BTW, your debate style is typical of women and is just adding more examples of the oft-decried red pill theory that women are inherently solipsistic and blissfully unaware of their own biological motivators. I'm not unaware of my own biological motivators. I don't understand all women's biological motivators, but I do understand my own. But to answer your questions, Roosh's ideas are flawed, because they involve treating half the population (I'm not going to nitpick over which countries' women h…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 02:44 AM
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Reading comprehension: F- You're still mistaking the symptom for the cause. Maybe I'm missing something. Then please explain the cause. I am curious to understand the cause. Let me ask you, how does that makes you any different from him? Do you respect men whose behavior you find unacceptable? If you do, what's your problem with bad boys? I respect everyone that lives their life in a way that doesn't harm or exploit others. Those are the only behaviors I consider "unacceptable." Some other behav…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 01:16 AM
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I did read the comments for the "Writing on the Crotch" photo. Here are some: We all know that women seek status through high status men. Fame is a form of status. Pretty straightforward. All that aside, women often also lust after violent criminals, serial killers and the like. If he wasn't famous his cute face wouldn't be plastered all over the media for women to swoon over. Someone trying to explain why he thinks women like him (This one is actually well thought out, makes some good points, b…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 11:58 PM
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I don't "fit in" here, you are right about that. I came here because theredpill started criticizing this thread from askwomen. I was just pointing out that you can't take the fantasies of some women, and assume that all women will find that person/behavior attractive. Anyway, I see no harm in commenting on here, no one else seems to mind me giving my 2 cents to the conversation.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 10:51 PM
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Maybe so. But I know what I'm attracted to, and those are the types of guys I pursue. That being said, there are certain times where fantasies are best left alone, regardless of how attractive the fantasy sounds.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 05:32 PM
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I understand the type of guys I'm attracted to, there's no mystery there. I don't try to figure out what other women are attracted to, though.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 04:42 PM
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My point of view is based on my own life experiences, and my research on gender dynamics. Maybe it's flawed, but who knows? I don't think there is only one right way to approach the issue.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 04:38 PM
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I did read the sidebar. I'm just here to ask a few questions, defend my point of view, and get some insight into a different viewpoint.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 04:33 PM
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That doesn't sound like a fun relationship, working to support some unemployed guy's drug habit, being beaten by him, then getting killed by the rival gang.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 03:24 PM
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Well, yeah. Some guys just want sex, some are willing to get to know me. Which one do you think I'm going to spend my time with?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 03:23 PM
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I don't want to date someone who is unemployed, and I have to take care of him. I don't want to date someone in a gang, where I'm always afraid I'll end up getting killed as some type of retaliation. I don't want to date a man that abuses me in any way. And I don't want to date a man who can't follow the basic rules of society (I make an exception for some victimless crimes, because I think all victimless crimes should be legal). I'm still not going to date a drug addict, though.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 03:04 PM
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But when I see a guy using the "game" techniques on me, I know that he just wants sex, he's not looking for a relationship or anything. And when guys start using the "asshole" techniques, I'm done. I know how to spot them, and I don't like them.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 03:02 PM
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I know, I just wanted to clear up my mistake, so it didn't look like a contradiction when I said "I'm not attracted to women, but I dated 1." It was a typo and I wanted to fix it because the first post looked odd.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 03:00 PM
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You can't take the weird actions of one woman, and assume it's a common thing. I saw this posted on /r/theredpill a few days ago, with the headline "Can I get a NAWALT?" I think this is a case of "one woman did that". I can guarantee you that the vast majority of women do not write alleged killer's names on their abdomen surrounded by hearts and arrows. This is nothing more than an excuse for guys to say "See, women are crazy." In regards to the blogger, his name is Roosh V. I don't know if that…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 02:49 PM
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For one thing, the "Not all women are like that" argument actually goes pretty far. We are individuals who have different personalities, different interests, different traits that we find attractive in the opposite sex (or the same sex, not all women are straight). But the one that really irritates me is the "Return of Kings" one. I've read about that guy before, and I've read some posts on his blog. He sounds like a gigantic asshole. He takes the "uncaring" thing to the extreme. I could see him…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 08:22 AM
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LOL :) I ended up here because Ask Women posted a link that stated that The Red Pill was talking about the answers to one of the questions.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 08:14 AM
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No, where do I find that one?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 05:45 AM
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I can see through the tricks and strategies :) I read through the links on the sidebar, and did some research on my own. I know the things that men do to impress women.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 05:22 AM
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Shit, I meant to type 0. I have never dated a woman. BTW, is calling women "doll" and "darling" one of the tricks guys use?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 04:55 AM
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I'm not attracted to women.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 04:42 AM
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In my case, I have a high degree of self-respect, and I respect others (if they deserve respect). I don't have entitlement issues, I only feel entitled to things I earn, or things that everyone is entitled to. I am not an emotional basket case, the last time I cried was a year ago at a funeral. And I don't make decisions based on my feelings. I know some women that fit the category you described, but it certainly doesn't apply to all, or even most American women.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 04:32 AM
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We like our freedoms, though, we're not giving that up :) Are American women really that bad though, that you have to leave the country?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 04:15 AM
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I read the articles in the sidebar a few months ago. I had a lot of issues with most of them.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 04:06 AM
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I don't consider myself masculine, but I'm also not super feminine either. My appearance is feminine, my personality is a combination of both.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 04:05 AM
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I'm surprised that there are women that actually think this way of life is a good idea.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 03:47 AM
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She didn't know he was a terrorist when she married him. He was abusive to her before they got married though, I have no idea why she stayed after he abused her.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 03:46 AM
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Are there any women in this sub that actually agree with the idea of the Red Pill?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 03:39 AM
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I would defend myself if I were attacked. And I can tell when a guy has those traits, they really stand out.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 03:33 AM
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There's nothing unusual about protecting yourself in self-defense, though, I would do the same thing, most people would.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 03:27 AM
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I see what you are saying, I probably look for guys that have some of those traits, to a moderate degree. What do you mean by "extremely professional," though?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 03:17 AM
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If I started dating guys that had the same traits as serial killers, my odds of actually being the victim of a serial killer would be very high.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 03:16 AM
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OK, I will agree that the "Dark Triad" personality type sounds very attractive in theory. But if I went around looking for guys like that, I'd probably end up dead.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 03:04 AM
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I am considered very attractive by most people, and frequently pursued. What is the Dark Triad?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 02:53 AM
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I don't like most of those traits, and I can't be the only one.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 02:47 AM
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It depends on your definition of "bad boy". If you mean someone that is actually committing crimes, most women avoid them completely. If you just mean a non-conformist, there's nothing wrong with that.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 01:10 AM
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I don't understand that. There are some fantasies that should stay fantasies.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 11:26 PM
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My preference is always Shave.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 11:25 PM
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I wouldn't even bother, I don't want to end up hurt or killed.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 11:17 PM
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I just don't want guys to stop shaving, and become assholes, thinking that they will attract women.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 11:01 PM
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The "bad boy" thing is just a fantasy for most women. Very few would actually pursue it.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 10:55 PM
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Not all women like those traits though.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 10:54 PM
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I don't believe all stay at home parents are lazy, some spend most of the day with their kids. And if one of the parents makes very little money, it's usually financially better for the family for them to stay home then to send their kids to day care. This is an interesting point, though. A lot of men's rights activists say they don't like career women, they feel they are not fulfilling their traditional roles. But if you marry a traditional woman, she is very likely to choose to be a stay at ho…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/13 05:25 PM
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In that case, you should have slightly more say in what gets done first, if you are doing it all yourself. My complaint is with guys that expect their wives to do all the housework.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/13 04:12 AM
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What is PUA? So in regards to the list, you choose which things get done around the house? Does your wife also do things around the house, or are you the primary "fixing" person?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/13 02:41 AM
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That is true, it seems most men care much more about looks than personality. I would say for women, they care about personality and looks evenly. For me to be attracted to you, you have to be both handsome, and charismatic.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/13 05:31 AM
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What role does a person's appearance affect this? Most people feel that appearance plays some role in attraction. If a man is very unattractive physically, is there a chance that these methods will not work for him, or have a low success rate?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/13 04:52 AM
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How does soft dominance work?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/13 04:37 AM
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When you are choosing women to try the skills on, have you ever tried it on a feminist, and did it work?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/13 04:35 AM
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The statistic I gave said that 91% of rape victims are female. There are some companies that pay women less than men, for the same job and the same amount of hours. My general advice regarding the drinking issue is, if you have drank too much to drive in your state or country, play it safe and avoid sex.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/13 01:28 AM
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Yes, I think that is likely. However, there are exceptions to the norm.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/13 01:26 AM
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I don't know what was included in the statistics I mentioned. I can go back and check, but I'm pretty sure that it only mentioned forced penetration. Physical strength matters when you are impaired, because your reflexes are impaired. If I am sober, and a guy tries to have sex with me, I can fight back easily. If I am impaired, that's more difficult. Also, there is the issue of consent. You can't consent if you are impaired. My advice is this: if you think someone is impaired, don't have sex wit…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/13 12:32 AM
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Do you believe that women should serve their partners? Should women obey their partners, generally speaking?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/13 12:26 AM
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People have the right to get a divorce at any time. That's one of the aspects of living in a democracy. Why should someone be forced to stay in a marriage they are unhappy in?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/13 12:25 AM
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I believe there are a lot of women who are legitimately happy in those types of relationships. I know how I am, though. I am a naturally dominant person. I wouldn't mind being with someone who wanted to be total equals, that would be a nice balance. I can't say 100%, because I have never been in that situation, but I really can't see myself being happy with a dominant husband. I would be constantly fighting him for power, and if he didn't give in, I would probably leave.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/13 12:18 AM
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If you hear a feminist saying something similar to that, you might be misunderstanding the context. We say it in regards to situations like this: Men say that they don't want to date career women, they prefer housewives. Then, if the marriage fails, they complain about having to give her some of his money. Feminism solves this problem, because, if you are willing to marry women who have careers, instead of telling us to "conform to our gender roles", that problem would be avoided. I do believe t…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/13 12:11 AM
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I would never tell a guy "get me a drink." If I was tired, or not feeling well, I might say "Could you please get me a drink," but I would get it myself if I could. If a guy said to me "get me a drink" in a demanding way, I would ignore him. If he asked politely, I might get it the first time, but after that, I would start to think he is lazy and rude, and I would refuse after the first time, unless he was not feeling well, or very tired (and you must ask nicely). If I'm dating a guy, or married…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/13 12:00 AM
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Does it work a lot of the time?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 11:52 PM
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If you have children, you have the responsibility to pay for them, as well as be active in their lives. Divorced dads always have either partial custody, or visitation rights. If they don't, there are usually extreme circumstances, and in those cases, you usually get at least supervised visits. Why should the mother have to pay for the kids all on her own, and the father gets to walk away and pay nothing? If you want kids, and you are afraid that your wife may leave you one day, consider having …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 11:50 PM
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I've never heard a feminist say that before.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 10:47 PM
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If I try to put myself in that situation, I would be frustrated with my husband being the captain. I wouldn't be interested in testing him, I would just be fighting for power, to be an equal. I don't want to boss a husband around, I just want to have the same equal decision making power as him.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 05:34 PM
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Yes, I do understand that all living organisms put the need to reproduce on the top of their priority list. And most humans are attracted to members of the opposite sex, making reproduction possible. There are exceptions, though. Some people are attracted to members of their own sex, and some people are attracted to no one. Because of modern science, people with non-heterosexual preferences can still have children. And don't forget adoption.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 05:32 PM
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I consider being forced to penetrate a form of sex. In regards to sex while intoxicated, it's considered rape for women, because they are often physically unable to fight back against the guy, or they are totally passed out. If a man is approached by a woman (or another man) for sex, and is unable to resist because he is intoxicated, or if he is passed out and someone has sex with him, yes,that is rape.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 05:29 PM
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As long as someone's prenup makes no attempts to avoid paying child support, I respect someone's right to use one. I have a big problem with fathers that try to get around their duty to their kids.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 05:25 PM
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One of the games listed on that list of 16 games suggested shouting sexual remarks at women on the street, and becoming insulting if they don't react well.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 05:23 PM
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No, I'm serious. If a guy doesn't treat me well, I'm not going to go out with him. Those games don't work on me. Shouting insults at me when I walk by, for example, isn't going to make me attracted to you.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 08:35 AM
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No, I do not believe our brains are exactly the same.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 08:34 AM
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Yes, I do think that hormones and millions of years of evolution to play a role in what makes up our minds.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 06:39 AM
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Why do you think of women as sex objects at all? You seem to think that one of our primary purposes is being around for men to have sex with.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 06:39 AM
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I can definitely see that. I have to wonder this, though: if a married couple is frequently having these power struggles, isn't that a sign that the First Officer is unhappy with their place in the relationship? If the First Officer truly liked the Captain taking the lead, they wouldn't be trying to fight back all the time.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 05:18 AM
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I'm not exactly sure, to be honest. I believe that our personalities are partially based on our life experiences, not just biological evolution. Part of our attitude towards certain gender issues are affected by how we were raised. I think their is more to our brains than just hormones.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 05:16 AM
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What I'm saying is, if a population crisis is looming, people need to stop complaining about immigration, and they need to start welcoming people into our country. There are people waiting YEARS to become Americans. I would rather eliminate immigration barriers, and allow more people to move to America and become citizens, rather than beg people to have more kids.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 02:02 AM
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How can you be a good husband, if you are having sex with as many other women as you can? If you want to do that, just be a bachelor. Or, tell your wife, before marriage, that you want an open relationship. I would personally never stay with a guy if he cheated on me. This post makes it look like men only look at women as sex objects.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 01:49 AM
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LOL :D I have, actually. I don't look at that as a fight for power, I look at it as one or both people being in a lousy mood, and really not wanting to be around other people that day.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 01:45 AM
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Wow... I really don't know what to say after reading that. Especially the second link. Some of those "techniques" are actually rape. Especially the "rape game". Just the title is offensive to me. If a guy tried one of those techniques, I would fight him back, probably severely injure him, and call 911. The other ones are just asshole techniques, and I don't waste my time with assholes.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 01:44 AM
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That was an interesting article. It would have been helpful if he gave an example of a "fight about nothing", though.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 09:39 PM
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I understand that in China, there are too many men, and not enough women, so there are a lot of guys that can't get married. I remember reading this a few weeks ago. I'm not too familiar with the situation in Japan. I heard that Europe's fertility rates are a little low, but I don't see Europeans complaining about it that much.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 09:34 PM
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Yes, but if you have already been in prison, your odds of returning are much higher than the odds of someone that's never been to prison.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 09:33 PM
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My question is, do you think they are normal, and should be respected, or do you think of them as weird?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 09:32 PM
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Don't forget that there are millions of people that want to come to America from other countries. If we are having a population crisis, why is the US fighting immigration so much?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 09:32 PM
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I agree with that completely. Still, prisoners make up 1% of the population. Even if every single male prisoner is raped, that still makes rape much more common among women.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 09:30 PM
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Yes, I really want to know. I'm curious to know if men are trying this with me.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 09:29 PM
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Yes, I really want to know. I'm curious to know if men are trying this with me.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 09:29 PM
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That is true, hormone levels do have an effect on personality.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 09:28 PM
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Our population is still growing, and our economy is, well, not growing. Some third world countries have really high fertility rates, but their economies are not good at all. I'm going to do some more research into this topic, though, since I find it interesting.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 09:27 PM
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How exactly does the "attractive mechanism" thing work?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 09:25 PM
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I wouldn't say America is in deep trouble. Are we still a superpower? No, but we are still a very powerful country. I think America will still continue to thrive. I don't see the correlation between having a bunch of kids, and being a great country. I don't see the world as being a competition of which country can make the most babies.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 09:24 PM
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What is your opinion on transgendered, agendered, and binary gendered people?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 09:22 PM
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I like the idea of a dominant man in a sexual situation, not in my every day life, though.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 09:21 PM
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Yes, I have heard of it. I personally don't agree with it. Some men just don't want to get married, and that should be respected. A guy should be honest about it, though. If he isn't interested in marriage, he should tell his girlfriend that early on. Also, I think prenups are kind of weird. One major aspect of marriage is sharing money. If you don't like that aspect, why even enter into the marriage? I can understand extremely rich celebrities doing it, but that's basically it.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 09:16 PM
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I'm just giving my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 09:10 PM
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The only biological differences are different hormone levels, and different genitals. Everything else is in the mind.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 09:09 PM
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What's the point in getting married in the first place, if all you want to do is "fuck hot girls on the side?" Anyway, this post makes it sound like betas are insecure, and women should let men take charge, just to make them happy. Just to be clear, though, what is the difference between an alpha and a beta male, based on your opinion?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 09:06 PM
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We have enough of our own issues to worry about.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 08:57 PM
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A lot of feminists do support paid leave for both parents, but not all do. It might depend on what country you are in. This is more of a political issue than a gender issue. In general, Americans are less in favor of paid parental leave than Europeans. There's no reason a woman can't take 6 weeks off, in her 40 years of working, and be told that she is being lazy. If there was an attack on US soil, people would volunteer to sign up. The problem with conscription, is that it can force people to f…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 08:57 PM
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If a man makes more money than the woman he is marrying, or if his future wife wants to be a stay at home mom, yes, he is taking a risk. He can choose to get married, or not.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 08:38 PM
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Most kids would rather have divorced parents than parents that fight all the time. Two of my younger cousins with divorced parents told me they were relieved after they got divorced, because they got tired of their parents fighting every day. For point A), there are incentives for the lower-income spouse to pursue divorce, I agree. I don't know of anyone though, that ever got married with the intention of getting divorced, and considering that a source of income. B). I don't think most divorces …
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 08:35 PM
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To me, the books are a fantasy. The storylines are terrible, it's not exactly a literary masterpiece. I liked it for the sex scenes, which are very well written. That being said, I'm not interested in dating a guy who dictates what I eat and when, and when I exercise. Christian Grey would be a terrible boyfriend.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 08:24 PM
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First of all, there are some marriages where the wife makes more than the husband. So do you want to punish the person who makes less money, or always punish the woman? Also, it is sometimes the husband who leaves the marriage. Who gets punished then? And I see no reason why we need to give tax benefits to people who get married and have children. I have never heard of this fertility crisis in the US before today. Our population is growing every year. And I don't understand why, even if our popu…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 07:17 PM
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So let me get this straight. You did some sort of mind control thing with these women, to get them to be extremely attracted to you, then you wondered why they started stalking you?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 07:13 PM
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I read the Fifty Shades of Grey books. They are very sexy books, it's like porn, but with words. I really enjoyed the books. It's a fantasy, though, I wouldn't live my life that way. Also, most people that do engage in that lifestyle, it's not a 24/7 thing. They usually just do their BSDM in the bedroom, and live their lives the regular way.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 07:12 PM
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Is that really a bad thing? A slight drop in fertility rates isn't going to mean the death of America. If we need to have a bunch of kids just to remain a powerful country, we are in deep trouble.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 07:10 PM
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Some people think, act, and behave according to their gender roles, some don't.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 07:08 PM
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Yes, that's true, both parties do suck. I tolerate the Democrat party more, though, because I agree with some of what they stand for, they are just too centrist for me.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 07:06 PM
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No, that's conflating equal rights and equal outcomes. If you want equal pay, don't take maternity leaves, go into STEM fields, take the dangerous jobs, become coal miners. I'm not talking about equal pay for different jobs, I'm talking about equal pay for the exact same job, with the same qualifications. I support paid parental leave, for both parents, for 6 weeks. As long as it's only a woman's. Actually, no, most feminists are opposed to circumsizing boys. There is literally nothing stopping …
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 07:06 PM
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Men voluntarily enter into that commitment. It's not like women hit them over the head until they are unconscious, drag them to the chapel/courtroom, and force them to get married. Also, men only lose half their money if their spouse doesn't work at all. But someone on here said that they don't like dating career women, even though marrying a woman that also works would avoid that issue.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 06:55 PM
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You can be a good parent, and still be divorced. I know of people who stay in abusive relationships for their children, and their kids end up suffering. A stable home is not necessarily a home with two parents, a male and a female. A stable home is a home with one or more adults who love and care for the child, regardless of gender, or marital status. The reason that men are "expelled from the family home" in divorce typically, is because most people would rather see children in the home they ar…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 06:52 PM
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But men don't do that if they are the Captain?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:33 PM
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In my opinion, if you choose to have children, your primary commitment is to them. You chose to bring someone into this world, so until they can go out on their own, they are your responsibility. That's not to say you can't get a divorce, but if you are the noncustodial parent, you have to still be in their lives, and you have to pay child support. That happens in both marriage and LTRs. I don't think it makes too much of a difference if a child's parents are married, or just in a relationship. …
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:33 PM
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Would you support a law forcing everyone who is able to, to reproduce at least once in their lifetime?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:30 PM
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Why were they stalking you?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:29 PM
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It's possible that if brainwashed into believing that being a submissive woman was good, I would have been happy in the 1950s. And I do believe young girls were brainwashed at that time, much more than they are now.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:29 PM
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By society, I assume you are talking about US society. There are 315 million Americans, and that number grows every year. Our country isn't at risk of falling apart because no one's having children.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:27 PM
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It's not the right type of commitment, though. Commitment should be about staying with someone because you love them, not because you love your money too much to leave.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:26 PM
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But that should be the decision of the individual. Not everyone wants to have children. And people who hate their own children are the worst type of parents.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:26 PM
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Doesn't everyone use emotion to make policy, to some extent? I mean, some of the conservative policies are totally illogical, I have no idea where they come up with that stuff.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:24 PM
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I've only ever been in "equal" relationships before, but I would not be opposed to dating a guy that is slightly submissive.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:23 PM
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There are two elements of feminism: legal and social. Legally, we want full equal rights under the law, including equal pay. That could be considered equal outcome, but equal pay is fair, I don't see how anyone can dispute that. We also focus on issues women face in other countries, such as child brides, genital mutilation, things like that. Again, I don't understand anyone opposing our stance on that. Socially, it's a little different. No two feminists will agree on the ideal social status of w…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:22 PM
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I don't hold men in fear or contempt. I like men, I have nothing against them. If I was a "man hater", I would not date men if that were the case. Overall, I believe in mutual respect. I respect pretty much everyone around me, and I expect the same from them. However, if I'm in a relationship, I will not "honor" my boyfriend or husband, because I have a problem with that. I'm not a submissive type, so I wouldn't be comfortable doing that.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:16 PM
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I would give myself a 9.5.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:12 PM
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In many cases, but not all, that is true. And if you are staying with someone you don't love, just because you don't want to have to write a check to them, that's not commitment in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:12 PM
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I forgot one word in my first post. I think I wrote "Why do you being a feminist is a bad thing," when I meant to say "Why do you believe being a feminist is a bad thing". Everyone has done that from time to time. This is not a throwaway account, don't worry. I was asking if this is allowed on the subreddit, because some are really open to debate, and questions from outsiders, and some are very hostile to it. There are a lot of subreddits that say "We are X. If you are not X, you are not welcome…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:10 PM
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I agree with your post completely. If I do end up in that situation later in life, I don't plan on blaming the whole world for it. I know that I am going to put my career first, and probably not consider family life until at least 30, if ever.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:07 PM
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I see what you are saying, and I sort of understand your point of view. The thing is though, not all women are willing to accept the First Officer position. An ideal relationship for me would be a co-Captain relationship, even though I know it doesn't work for everyone. I do have a question though: If it's OK for the man to be the Captain, what's wrong with the reverse? If a woman is Captain, her husband is First Officer, and both are happy with those positions?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:05 PM
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I don't understand the idea of choosing marriage over simply a long term relationship. I personally think people in a LTR are more committed, because if you don't have children, you can walk away at any time, and there are almost no repercussions. So, if you are in a LTR, you make the decision every day that you still want to be in that relationship. If you are married, though, you are less likely to leave, because of financial repercussions. And if you are staying with someone simply because yo…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:02 PM
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The term "nice guy" has several meanings. Some people use it to describe a guy who is unattractive, but has a good personality, but they don't want to be rude and put him down. Other people use it to describe a guy that isn't a dominant man. Being with a non-dominant man really wouldn't bother me, in fact, it would be better. If I were with a guy that wanted to be really dominant, we would just fight all the time.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 04:57 PM
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No, I think that liberals use both emotion and logic to make policy, which is not a bad thing.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 04:53 PM
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Stats only speak for the majority, if those stats are actually true. Still, they don't define every single person in the world. But when I think of the way women lived in the 1950s, I would have been miserable if I had to live that way.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 02:26 PM
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There will still be plenty of people having children, humans are not going to go extinct, at least not because people aren't doing traditional family roles.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 02:24 PM
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So everyone is forced to have children now?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 02:23 PM
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I've never heard that term used to describe guys before, it makes them sound like puppies... Anyway, I don't want a guy that is demanding and wants to be the boss of the relationship. That doesn't appeal to me.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 08:36 AM
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I don't think liberals hate logic, though I would agree they make policy based on emotion more often than conservatives.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 07:40 AM
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I'm sorry to hear about what happened to you, and I'm sorry for the loss of your friends. I wish we lived in a world where there was no war.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 07:39 AM
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So people on this forum don't like liberals?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 07:36 AM
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I have very strong principles. But why can't I date a tall, dark, handsome man, that agrees with me on the ideas of feminism?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 07:35 AM
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So you are telling me that you think it's OK to force me to live my life in a way that I am not happy with?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 07:32 AM
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That story was pretty funny, actually. So none of the men at these events had partners? That's kind of odd...
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 07:30 AM
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I'm not looking to get married, I have too many issues with the institution of marriage.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 07:10 AM
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I was the original poster. I wasn't trying to troll, I was asking the question honestly. Is that allowed on this subreddit? I just wanted to understand the other perspective a little better.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 06:33 AM
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Hi :) I'm the one that asked the question, and I can see it was removed now, not sure why... My question to your response is, what if I don't want traditional roles? I don't want to be a stay at home wife and mom, and I will never be the type to honor and obey my husband. I should have the right to choose to live the type of life I want to live.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 06:31 AM
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Sorry about that, I forgot a word. Fixed it now :)
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 06:01 AM
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I don't like the idea of the traditional nuclear family. I don't want to be told what my role in society is. And I certainly will NEVER "honor and respect" a husband. In response to your point about women being less feminine because of feminism, please explain what you mean by feminine. It means different things to different people, and I can't really respond without knowing what you meant to say. I am happy living in today's society, in 2013. I don't think I would have been happy in the 1950s, …
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:59 AM
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Feminism isn't about a power grab, it's about having all the same rights as men, as well as the same social respect. In regards to the idea that men and women are different, that is true, for most people. But gender roles shouldn't be forced on people. And the world is more than male/female. There are transgendered people, binary gendered, non gendered, etc. We can't tell people, "You are a male/female, so you must act in this way". And male privilege and rape culture are very real things.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:52 AM
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Did you just say "mandatory sex"? How does that work?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 05:49 AM
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