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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Really struggling with regretSolid advice! | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/26 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Really struggling with regretHaving been in similar shoes I know it takes time and it can be really tough but life does get better. Be true to yourself, don’t be too proud to seek help from friends or a therapist. Their support will help you to stay strong during the dark times. When you’re going through hell keep going!!! You’ve got this! | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/26 01:50 AM |
| 4 | If somebody's wife hit on you, would you hook up with them?Nope, never. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/26 02:14 AM |
| 5 | Ex Wanting IntimacyWalk away | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/26 09:51 PM |
| 1 | When did you know your marriage was over?Yep, that’s what I thought too. I led the horse to the water but it had decided 3 years earlier that it didn’t want to drink…but just didn’t find the “right” time to tell me… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/26 05:24 AM |
| 2 | When did you know your marriage was over?When I realised that after 20 years of marriage she didn’t want to make any effort to work together to improve our relationship. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/26 04:32 AM |
| 1 | It’s better…“I couldn’t save her, but I could save myself.” - very well said! | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/26 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Can people who get divorced remain close friends?This is the way. If you’re captured by your past and regularly hanging out with your ex it is really off putting for anyone new that might come along. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/26 05:38 AM |
| 4 | Recently divorced ex wife hitting on guys at kids basketball game.Gray rock is the answer! | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/03/26 08:37 PM |
| 10 | Wife wants to meet in personEverything. In. Writing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/26 08:43 PM |
| 19 | Ex wants to meet upKeep up with the grey rock approach. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/26 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Ex wants to meet upThis sounds like my situation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/26 07:53 PM |
| 10 | Its OverIgnore the noise around her and move towards YOUR new life!! It will take time, it will not be easy, but it will be yours to choose and celebrate. Go for it!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/25 09:28 PM |
| 6 | New memberWhen you’re going through hell keep going! You’ve got this, grit your teeth and focus on the end result! | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/12/25 02:06 AM |
| 2 | The Good Person Trap: Why "Taking the High Road" Is the Single Worst Strategy in High-Conflict DivorceThis is the way! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/25 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Bumped into ex today100% this!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/25 04:42 AM |
| 6 | Do you tell your boss when you were going through divorce?I told my direct manager and he was incredibly supportive. I didn’t need to take leave but he did have my back if I needed it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/11/25 10:09 AM |
| 4 | Why is “work on yourself and maybe she’ll notice” always the advice when a wife wants a divorce?This was exactly my situation. I did a LOT of work on me (psychologist, gym, volunteer work) for a few years to benefit us, only to find out it didn’t matter to her at all. While this realisation left me completely gutted, doing the work taught me great habits and improved my self esteem. My new girlfriend is really appreciating the new and improved me! | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/25 10:56 AM |
| 3 | How would you handle this?More of a “sex hoist” than a swing, are 6 inch bolts going to be enough? 🤔😉🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/25 09:50 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle this?100% this | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/25 09:47 PM |
| 4 | I have conspiracy theory about TikTok and divorce100% this! | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/25 09:38 PM |
| 1 | EX WIVES NOW BFFsThis is the way | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/25 11:49 AM |
| 2 | EX WIVES NOW BFFsWell played | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/25 11:47 AM |
| 5 | She bought lingerie…Get out as soon as is practical | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/25 02:40 AM |
| 2 | A positive thing about divorceWhat do you make of this? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/25 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Any of y’all relieved when wife filed for divorce?Yep | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/25 03:05 AM |
| 2 | I don’t mourn losing herStay strong! | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/25 05:35 AM |
| 11 | I didn’t realize how much I was leaking until I started tracking it…I have just started tracking my day to day expenses in Excel after my divorce. (Data nerd here!!) 🤣 I previously trusted my ex with ALL our finances so was pretty much oblivious to everything. Now I’m watching it daily I can manage it better from my perspective and see where I’m leaking. This has given me a focus and a feeling of control over my life that I didn’t have for a really long time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/25 01:53 AM |
| 10 | Dating Age Range57m here No more than 5 years younger and 2 years older seems to be my sweet spot for compatibility and life situation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/25 09:04 PM |
| 10 | Need some advicePull. The. Trigger. She has shown you who she is and what she is capable of. Don’t look back. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/25 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Figuring out what to do in regard to intimacy/sex?Awesome response, thank you for sharing your insights. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/25 09:03 PM |
| 5 | Outside of the gym, what are some healthy habits I could form to get me through this?Volunteering for something you’re interested in. Keeps you busy and can be a positive contribution to the community you live in. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/25 06:10 AM |
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