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| 2 | Mediation is NOT going well, think I need to go ahead and get a lawyerYou’ve got a bad mediator. He/she should be keeping things focused. If that’s not happening, yes a lawyer can help. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/21 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Not legally separated yet.She’s wrong. She can’t legally withhold it. Nothing is “legal” until that judge/chancellor rules. Your house (joint or not) means your stuff. Agree with below; get a lawyer | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/21 12:41 AM |
| 1 | I have a forgettable personality. How can I make myself seen in social settings?Wow. u/Okay_bro101 is making me wonder why I even got into this sub. Anyway, my advice is you just need to become the conversation if you find it hard to participate in it. Consider: 1)Foot Cardigan. Yep, a crazy-sock subscription, 2) gym/workout, 3) alter your wardrobe significantly, 4) find new (upbeat) music genre and play it loud enough for others to hear, 5) acknowledge people for no reason (like make eye contact and smile/wave subtly if you can’t speak). Bro, just do something different an… | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 10:27 AM |
| 1 | How you know when you've changed🤔 Her lawyer’s duty is to operate in her best interest; your lawyer’s duty is to operate in your best interest. I’d say your lawyer failed to protect you...her lawyer may have advised her to wait until this investment profile matures a bit then try to amend the settlement. We’ve had a great market few years and she may be ready to sink claws into that money. Just saying I think your lawyer failed you on this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/21 12:45 PM |
| 5 | How you know when you've changedHmm... in the 🇺🇸, Retirement and investment accounts (401K, mutual funds, IRAs, etc.) are fair game for spouses to take (unless someone here wants to call out a state where that’s not the case). HOWEVER, they’re supposed to be outlined in the settlement agreement. If she’s you’re ex, then the D is final. If your lawyers skipped the investments in the original court filing, you had a bad lawyer and sloppy judge. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/21 12:24 PM |
| 2 | How should I do this?Bring a thermos and a couple cups and offer her some riverside time | /r/seduction | 09/03/21 06:39 PM |
| 9 | How should I do this?Not sure what all the cold river bath entails but sounds like a great opportunity to take her for coffee | /r/seduction | 09/03/21 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Need psychological negotiating adviceStates vary so your lawyer is best source of advice. In my state “no fault” has to be mutually agreed upon. I knew she would dig in her heels. Custody was going to be biggest hurdle. In my state, one-way recording is allowed (I could audio record her without her consent). That’s not the case in every state. My attorney just told me to start getting dirt on her. My XW would get really drunk and “habitual drunkenness” is grounds in my state. Keep in mind, judges rule based on facts. Can’t alter fa… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/21 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Good questions to ask a girl that will kick awkwardness in the butt?What’s your MBTI? If she doesn’t know, have her take a quick version...after you have of course! It’ll be something to talk about and give each other insight for future talks. Can even google ways to stay compatible if things progress. http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp | /r/seduction | 05/03/21 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Need adviceOne less thing to have on the list. Good luck with everything else. Agreeing on 50/50 is easier to say than do. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/21 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Need adviceIt sounds like you and your wife are making this decision together (TX vs GA filing). That said, it doesn’t matter. Just check GA divorce law. Most states require residency for a period of time (usually 6 months if so). | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Exhausted by my wife's alcoholism and mental illnessSounds like you haven’t talked to a lawyer yet. Do so. “Habitual drunkenness” is grounds for divorce in most states. That said, if your suit is based on that, you’ll get the kids 100%. No judge will give kids to a drunk (even if it’s the mother). You also need to take pics of things. I was planning to file using “habitual drunkenness” but when her attorney saw the evidence I had been collecting, it changed everything and she stopped fighting me for more. Ultimately we split civilly because she w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/21 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Am I being unreasonable?There’s a lot to unpack there! Her lawyer is only fighting to prove what she’s saying. If she’s lying and the evidence shows you’re squeaky clean and transparent with your money, your legal counsel should be able to submit the evidence to counter what she’s claiming. I had a similar situation. My ex “went back for more” the following year. Ultimately the tax returns proved she was just digging (almost like when we were married 😜) | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/21 12:49 AM |
| 9 | Getting divorced, need helpYes, yes, yes! Take pics. Definitely a lawyer and pay like your life depends on it (because it does). | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/21 07:58 PM |
| 5 | How do I find myself?Man I drowned myself if hobbies. Probably got back into scotch tasting a little too much but I grew out of that thankfully. If you have [the] kids, get into their activities. Definitely grab a therapist even if you think you can handle things. You must find someone to talk to. Do things you always wanted to do but couldn’t because your wife wasn’t into them | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/21 02:44 PM |
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