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No sex for almost a year.
/r/askMRP16/11/15 01:40 PM
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Still haven't had any sexual contact for... Almost a year? I don't remember the last time, actually. Her response this week, "i was going to have sex with you and then you came home and opened your mouth and I dried up"
/r/askMRP16/11/15 01:38 PM
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I can understand that if it was a chronic condition but it was the first time I ever went to a sports bar... Ever. I would have watched it at home but I wanted to get out of the house and do something I've never done before.
/r/askMRP16/11/15 07:05 AM
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I don't actively attempt to be an ass but she thinks because I'm not massaging her feet then I am. For example, she wanted me to call the grocery store to see if they had an item. I said no and told her she knows how to use the phone. In my beta days I would call, because, you know, that's what good husbands do. Now, when I say no, I'm just being a jerk and an ass
/r/askMRP11/11/15 03:03 AM
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The realization that beta bux is so prevelant amongst my sphere of influence: I sat down with my buddy (of about a decade now) and he lamented how his girlfriend (whose in a different state) told him she is having feelings for her manager. He then continued to let me know how he doesnt feel loved by her because she doesnt make time for him, act intentional, or is committed to him. I just sat there in disbelief and in my head i was thinking, "Oh My Goodness. This is bluepill." before swallowing t…
/r/askMRP10/11/15 06:07 PM
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interesting enough, during the 'main event' she painted me as an abuser (even though she verbally and physically abused me). Since then, i realize that is how she views me. The only thing i can do is maintain my cool composure when around her and demonstrate the 'oak'
/r/askMRP10/11/15 06:03 PM
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a The issue that i am still having is that although my SMV is increasing (a woman on the airplane proposed to go out to 'drinks' with me) more than ever before, my wife still is not interested in sex and told me last night that, "i dont want to have children with you ever. You are an ass and i dont want a child to have to put up with you." I made my expectations very clear before we were married and while in marriage that i wanted to have children and she has recanted. Now i am left in an intere…
/r/askMRP10/11/15 06:01 PM
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definitely dealing with anger phase but i feel that i am coming out of it. Now i am coming into acceptance.
/r/askMRP10/11/15 08:08 AM
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I have read it a couple times. Obviously i have not internalized it yet.
/r/askMRP04/10/15 10:33 PM
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I simply said, "Of course not." and then turned away, put my head set on, and continued to work on my research paper.
/r/askMRP04/10/15 08:46 PM
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Clint Eastwood?
/r/askMRP04/10/15 07:09 PM
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This one i will destroy! After my 12 hour shift at the hospital i go down to the little dinky weight room in the basement and lift for thirty minutes before i ride my bicycle home. On average, as a RN i walk about three to five miles on any given 12 hour shift. On my days off i wake up and go directly to the gym where i meet my wife. We dont swol together, she has her own routine, but we are there together! Edit Question: I am using a fitness program and it has me doing abs every workout. I do n…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 06:55 PM
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i missed your edit: Not very far in the book. At least, i havent read that part yet but from what ive read on MRP and TRP thread, i understand the concept. Especially MRP concept of the oak.
/r/askMRP02/10/15 11:39 PM
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thanks /u/booksofmagic!
/r/askMRP02/10/15 11:35 PM
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Also - neither our christian friends nor church are against blow jobs. If anything they encourage sex for healthy marriages.
/r/askMRP02/10/15 11:22 PM
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She gave me blow jobs before we were married. It was only after we were married that they started hurting her mouth and degraded her. At this part, i dont even really push blow jobs, i only used that as a snarky remark. She says, "i want to have sex with you but when i think about how terrible you are to me it turns me off." I see the red flag, but, honestly, i have no clue how to address it.
/r/askMRP02/10/15 11:21 PM
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best to skip athol kay and go to WISNIFG?
/r/askMRP02/10/15 11:15 PM
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Thanks! I do not ignore all comfort tests. When she starts a sentence with, "am i..." i tend to feel those are comfort tests. I put my arms around her, draw her close, and tell her "everything is going to be fine" When she starts a sentence with "You..." i assume, and most likely, those are shit tests and i generally ignore them. Or, i try to agree and amplify but i tend to feel that i do not do that correctly. She will say something like "You never listen to me." and i will reply, "You are righ…
/r/askMRP02/10/15 11:14 PM
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To be honest: No, i do not care. When she stands and cries i just want to laugh in her face and tell her how ugly she looks with tears streaming down her cheeks. There is not bitterness, or hate, or anger. I think, if anything, there is mistrust. After years of being emotionally manipulated i view tears as simply that, a form of manipulation instead of an outward appearance of helplessness.
/r/askMRP02/10/15 11:08 PM
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i actually think she does mean a certain group of friends. I live within a fairly conservative Christian sphere of influence and i dont know any of the men to be red pill type. So, yes, our friends have approached her.
/r/askMRP02/10/15 10:58 PM
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None. Im on Athol Kay's book at the moment since it is next on the list after NMNNG. Does WISNIFG address this? She told me today that our "friends" have approached her because they were worried about my new attitude and about her. Wondering if i need to address these friend's concerns.
/r/askMRP02/10/15 10:45 PM
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and your reply was, "There is still time..."
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 12:22 AM
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The Covert Contract. I understood it before reading No More Mr Nice Guy (NMMNG) so why did i actually read the book (I listened to it on audio because i have a long commute)? Because it is more than just understanding, it is about reading examples, meditating, and processing that YOU actually do it. Dr. Glover has way more experience with covert contracts than me so whatever he thinks is important enough to write down should be important enough for me to consider reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 11:49 PM
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not just any rice: brown rice. White rice is from the devil and is useless starch. Personally, i just stay away from rice all together Also - to avoid renal stress, drink more fluids. This is a problem we see with our young patients that visit the ER with acute renal injury (ARI) or rhabdomyolysis. They exercise hard and break down that muscle mass but dont drink enough water to perfuse the kidney function and those large molecules get stuck in the nephrons! But, as always, when it comes to weig…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 11:39 PM
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i would like to add that if you are crunched for time, a High Intensity Interval Training (HIIT) burns more calories than running/swimming/biking in the same amount of time. Additionally, it will also build muscle and increase metabolism throughout the day.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 11:33 PM
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essentially, everything that goes into your mouth that is insoluble fiber turns into sugar.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 11:29 PM
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Shit Tests are: "you" Comfort tests are: "me"
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 10:30 PM
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Mostly, it's just straight belittling people. Cursing, name calling.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/15 05:46 AM
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Not too sure if it is appropriate here but, Sometimes I meet other alphas and they are just jerks and duck heads. What are good strategies to respond to them?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 02:09 AM
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I have been unplugging for about a month now and reading No More Mr Nice Guy. My wife has made a couple comments such as, "Youve changed and now you are just a jerk" and "You dont say i love you to me anymore." Ive recognized that i have been a beta throughout our entire marriage with pseudo-leadership. One thing i am trying to reconcile is sex: She is not against giving it but she simply doesnt find pleasure in doing it. Not that she doesnt reach orgasm because i make sure she does everytime. S…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 01:40 AM
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