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| 2 | Temptation Island Shows Moral Character Has Nothing To Do With Dating Success For MenThat just makes it easier to make the observations that would be obfuscated in day to day life. Dating shows do show how people act and there is a lot to learn from them. You can see when people are hitting it off. You can see how people get anxiety from their partner talking to someone else. There’s a lot to learn from them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Claims to Empower Men But Resents It When Men Truly Empower ThemselvesRed pill rage comes from basically being lied to by society. Realizing that being a kind person that does the right thing doesn’t matter. Realizing that Looks money status determine everything and not being funny or whatever other blue pill bs. Also realizing that women aren’t benevolent but in fact cutthroat in terms of their dating style. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 05:42 PM |
| -5 | Debate: the problem with the dating market is women’s standards are too highA study doesnt have to include an entire population. Take a stats class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 05:01 AM |
| 1 | With the growing ideological divide between men and women and increasing bitterness, is heterosexuality becoming inferior?Bisexual heteroromantic and I wish I was just gay. Dating men is so much better. Actually feel appreciated for once. Wish I could like men as much as I like women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 10:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Bluepillers don't actually care about self improvement.You can check my post history to see what I look like. I’m in decent shape. I’m not horribly ugly. I’m outgoing. I’m 5’11 so I’m not short. The only ways I can improve now are basically getting facial reconstruction surgery, leg lengthening, and steroids. It’s beyond ridiculous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 07:49 PM |
| 1 | What’s the meanest/rudest way someone had rejected you?Matched a girl on tinder. She was fat but I was like fuck it cus I can’t match healthy weight women. We had a date planned and she asked me to Snapchat her. I look exactly the same as my tinder pics (you can check my post history to see what I look like). And after I sent her a Snapchat she said nevermind and deleted me from snap and tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 02:37 AM |
| 1 | How will society change as online dating becomes the dominant form pairing?Straight up matrix type shit lowkey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 02:35 AM |
| 1 | The Lack of Critical Thinking Amongst Red Pill MenOld works perfectly well for gay men, women, and gigachad. Women are just picky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Is is not really that bad if men and women stay single for lack of options“Ew wagyu steak? I wanted a beef Wellington.” Vs “I would like to eat some food but I only have 50 cents.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 01:41 AM |
| -1 | Guys who are red pill on here, would you be red pill if you were attractive and could get any woman you wanted?No you wouldn’t need to. You’d just live your life and probably not even know what Reddit is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 08:34 PM |
| 3 | The idea of the "wall" is too black and whiteThe idea that dating gets easier after 30 cus women hit the wall is gigacope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 01:46 AM |
| 3 | Thanks for the first r/purplepilldebate meetup guys. Was fun meeting all of you. Can't wait till next time!Was this an actual .is meetup? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Just a reminder that there are very few things more unattractive than openly bragging about being a male feminist.Male feminists usually legitimately believe the things they are saying. They’re just straight up brainwashed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 08:02 AM |
| 35 | It's insane how the other gender refuses to recognize their privilege.Naw, top guys get the same amount of likes on dating apps as morbidly obese women from the experiments I’ve run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Dms open. Lets use ppd as the dating service it was meant to beOmg I love dad bods ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 04:33 AM |
| 5 | It's too over now, boyos. Take the fingerpill.To be fair, when people have those stub thumbs it’s disconcerting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 04:24 AM |
| 0 | Women can easily find relationships within online datingUnless a woman is a burn victim or morbidly obese she can easily find a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 07:35 AM |
| 1 | At what income does dating prospects for an average looking man become greater than a 8/10 man who earns 75k/year?Facts. At that point you can rent luxury apartments and have a fancy car without it affecting your savings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Women can easily find relationships within online datingIn terms of dating women my options are mentally Ill fat women. If I date men I can get educated, In shape, good looking guys that treat me well and will compliment me. It’s such a stark difference. I’m lucky that I was able to become bisexual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 12:01 AM |
| 0 | Women can easily find relationships within online datingIt’s not guaranteed but the likelihood of finding someone compatible is way higher when you can pull from 30 dates vs 1 date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Women can easily find relationships within online datingEasier to get a relationship when you can filter through people on dates rather than just take what you can get | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Women can easily find relationships within online datingHard to be picky when you have no options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men in this sub say they have been berated and humiliated by women for making a moveOne time I matched with a girl on tinder. Added eachother on Snapchat. Then was messaging her there, we were going to grab pizza and go to a park. As I was about to go meet her she said “send me a Snapchat”. So I did and it was just me looking exactly as I look on my profile and she said “nevermind”. Then she blocked me on everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 08:55 PM |
| 1 | How much do you think a man has to earn annually to make up for having a below average penis or below average height, if it's at all possible to do so?There’s no surgery for it. There’s an implant that destroys it and theres one where they cut the ligaments so it is longer but it makes it floppy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | In general do men really get better with age and become more attractive to women?It’s mostly redpill cope however the peak for mens looks is a bit later than for women. For men probably the 25-30 range looks best while for women it’s early 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 06:22 AM |
| 1 | How much effort do you put on your looks?If a girl is wearing a lot of makeup ie foundation and contouring it looks bad. Just doing basic stuff like mascara, maybe a little eyeliner, and maybe natural color lipstick is enough. I don’t agree with you either about grooming for men. I shave my armpits, legs, and chest as well as line up my facial hair, and pluck my eyebrows. And I do it and get no validation from women at all. In addition going to the gym for a guy is a must if he wants to find a girl. 1-2 hours in the gym is way more dif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 05:10 PM |
| 1 | How strong is the intersection between the Red Pill and the Alt-Right?I’m a leftist blackpiller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 04:01 PM |
| 2 | A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys.Having women lower their standards to match their own value is fair. A poor person getting gifted expensive restaurant meals having to lower their standards of meal to their income when they can’t get free meals anymore is fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 06:27 PM |
| 2 | A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys.You want a world where you need to go into massive amounts of debt to get a degree to work at McDonald’s and where morbidly obese women only get pump and dumped by 6’4 gigachad. You are anti fairness. That’s a ridiculous stance to take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 06:01 PM |
| 2 | A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys.So you just want a world where people aren’t given proportional payoff for their work? Just because things aren’t fair doesn’t mean that we should accept that. We should try to make the world a better and more fair place. Creating a more fair society means making the world a worse place in your eyes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 05:42 PM |
| 2 | A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys.What I said is completely fair. A morbidly obese woman should date a morbidly obese man and be ok with it because it’s their looksmatch. Educated people shouldn’t be forced to work at McDonald’s for example. College graduates should be able to get jobs that are equal value to the value they bring. That’s what would be fair. If you didn’t graduate high school then working McDonald’s is fair. If you graduated college working McDonald’s is not fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 05:34 PM |
| 6 | A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys.The market being skewed makes that unrealistic. That’s what I just explained to you. And what happens to the guy that has already done the work on themselves. They’ve gone gym, good style, good haircut. They can’t improve anymore and the girls available to him still are bad because of the market imbalance and aren’t his looksmatch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 05:26 PM |
| 1 | A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys.Yes because then they are dating the guys that are equal to them. If you are a 5’2 300lb woman you should be dating a 5’8 350lb man but they won’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 05:20 PM |
| 3 | A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys.I just explained to you the phenomenon of the skewed dating market. I think that the cycle I explained is not good and that women should be dating the men that are actually in their league because it would lead to better results for both sides but you just disagree and think that it’s best for women to get pump and dumped nonstop | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 05:03 PM |
| 8 | A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys.It’s a self reinforcing cycle. Women get pump and dumped by chad which then raises their standards to think that chad is their league. Then chadlite starts doing the same thing. Then the average nonfat guy is forced to date obese women. The guys down stream have to start dating girls even lower and lower. It’s a race to the bottom that keeps getting reinforced. It should be that the ugly girls date the ugly guys but because the market is skewed you have chadlite who struggles to find someone sui… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 04:55 PM |
| 12 | A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys.You can just do chadfish experiments and you’ll find that you can act like a r word if you’re good looking and the women won’t care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 04:47 PM |
| 3 | A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys.I mean that’s just fair to date them since that would mean the woman is also repulsive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 04:45 PM |
| 4 | A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys.30% of guys are permavirgins as of 2018. It’s gonna be even worse now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 04:37 PM |
| 2 | I think we need to relook at what the “ average man” actually isNobody believes that except for redpill copers. The wall is fake. Even a 60yo woman has higher smv than the average 24yo guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Do you enjoy pegging or any other sexually dominant sex with a man? Or do you only do it because it's what gets him off and you just go with it?Yea haha, I mean it’s just about steady practice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 11:26 PM |
| 6 | Do you enjoy pegging or any other sexually dominant sex with a man? Or do you only do it because it's what gets him off and you just go with it?Well I haven’t done pegging but the girl I’m dating fists me. She seems to like doing it a lot and will text me that she’s thinking about doing it at random times. I would say it depends on the person as to why they like it. I like fisting her too cus it just looks hot and is pretty satisfying to see how much she likes it. So yea, I guess if you have other questions about it I can elaborate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel when you see a not so attractive guy with a girlfriend?Was at the gym the other day. Saw a ripped girl that looked like the type of gym girls you’d see on tiktok. Her boyfriend was a stick but he was 6’3. He was struggling to do a 20lb row. Absolutely brutal to see tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Men are forced to approach in abundance if they want any shot at getting laid or an LTR, yet they are shamed for it by women who want to feel special creating a very frustrating situation for men.Can confirm. Girl was gonna meet me for a date. Then she found out I had slid her friends dm at one point and she canceled and got mad at me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Are dating apps at least worth trying, or are they really THAT bad?Don’t do it. It will ruin your self esteem. You can check my post history to see what I look like. My only options are women twice my weight on the apps and even they get so much attention that they’ll ghost etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Is it that hard to be top 20% anyway?I mean you can check my post history to see what I look like. I’m in decent shape. 5’11 170lbs about 15%bf. I don’t think I’m that ugly facially and yet can only match with girls twice my weight on apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 11:11 PM |
| 6 | For generations a women’s only worth was her looks. Now it’s mens turn.Not implants but leg lengthening surgery and lefort 3 where they break all the bones in your face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?I think that’s a good point. I guess I overstated when I called boob size irrelevant. For me I’ve dated girls of all breast sizes and the girls I liked most had smaller-average size boobs but were more in shape. Guess it really depends on the social circle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?No, being fit is much more attractive than being flabby and having boobs. I think this is pretty dependent on location and social circle tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?Well yea, it’s still good to tell people to go gym for face gains. It’s easier than explaining to them why they need to get lefort 3 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?Tinder experiments I’ve done prove otherwise. If you have a hypothesis it’s a good way to find what girls in your area like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?True but your face does change a lot when you work out and drop bodyfat percentage. You could go up significantly in attractiveness level facially by doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?Guys would rather have a girl that’s toned and not flabby with smaller boobs than a girl that’s overweight with big boobs. Boob size is kinda irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?Based lefort3pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?Gym actually helps face. Lower bodyfat percentage and it will make bone structure stand out more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Transgender men are our greatest source to confirm what cis-men already knew about dating as a manEveryone being intentionally obtuse in this thread that this persons struggling because they’re trans and not because they are a man. Y’all have the evidence smacking you across the face and you try to discredit it by trying to shift the narrative. this guy is struggling as a man so much that they probably haven’t even been able to disclose the trans part yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 05:38 AM |
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