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At my uni, the frats literally NEVER let in a single guy who isn't in a frat. They have paid security guards checking ids, asking who you know, etc. Usually the ratios are like 5 girls for every guy. I have never gotten in at all, despite all my efforts. Neither have any of my friends who aren't in frats. At least you can get into the venue bro. Go as much as you can, and focus on being confident and giving off a good vibe, then concentrate on game. Don't escalate too much. and be happy and care…
/r/seduction22/01/20 09:11 PM
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Thanks for your response, but I misspoke. I am actually a senior in college lol. My whole childhood up until I was 17 I got punished a lot. I would get emotionally and psychologically abused and sometimes a bit of physical. My dad has always been extremely controlling and I think at this point looking back he was mentally unstable. I was really skinny, and had rock bottom self esteem. I had crippling social anxiety up until sophomore year of college, when I finally got over most of it, and I sta…
/r/seduction17/01/20 03:11 AM
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this sounded nice. currently a senior and in highschool was the same as you. still havtn done any of the things you have done. reading things like this kinda makes me want to kill myself. I have never lived bruh. fucking shame.
/r/seduction16/01/20 08:32 AM
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she most likely is a slut, but not for you. girls like to fuck with your head bruh, tale as old as time. i once heard this girl say "i never was actually attracted to him, i just wanted to see how much i could make him into me". my adivce is drop her, and move on. there are better girls out there, dont waste time on the difficult ones.
/r/seduction16/01/20 08:19 AM
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Has she given you any IOIs? I have had a similar situation where she was just eye fucking me every class period, and now this semester I have her in 0 classes. I was an idiot. sit next to her next class, be like, you look familiar we had ____ class together right?" blah blah blah, then keep talking, ask her name and shit. talk to her each class. then when the test rolls around ask to study, get her number. boom. study with her, then make sure its a good time (lots of jokes, light flirting, etc.)…
/r/seduction16/01/20 08:15 AM
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bruh same situation but in CU Boulder. Bar scene here is fucking dead, and the frats don't let in anyone who isnt in a frat, so im basically fucked. i think bars across college campus's are pretty much dying. everyone using tinder, going to house parties, clubs (if big cities), etc. I would try regular pickup at bars, run some game. Dancing in any bar outside of latin america wont lead to anything at all. Your better off doing approaches and getting numbers while the music is playing.
/r/seduction16/01/20 08:13 AM
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I listen to reggeton man, it helps if you speak Spanish. Shit fucking slaps and gets you hyped up as fuck. I suggest Maluma (Mala Mia), Pitbull (Piensas), Anuell Aa (Quiere Beber), and maybe some Juanes, + the top hits. the music videos are part of the experience so i suggest youtube instead of spotify.
/r/seduction30/10/19 01:11 AM
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I think you answered your own question lol. Those are the best solutions I can think of
/r/seduction30/10/19 01:08 AM
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I've read the book. Honestly, The Game should be viewed as an ancient text. The basics are there, but most of the game is outdated. This was back when game was just getting mainstream, and many things such as "peacocking", "routines", and "negging" simply do not work anymore. Women have changed. Society has changed. Game must change, and it has. I read it as a motivational piece of literature rather than a "step by step" how to. Also, back then, PUAs were focused entirely on numbers. Quantity. N…
/r/seduction03/09/19 04:54 AM
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I would bro, but I live in Boulder. Also, you can check out LoDo for one night if you want but the real shit is at the Highlands area (not highlands ranch that's a suburb). Most guys here have no game since a lot are military, tech, etc. and Denver girls are approachable. Good luck. (skip to 5:30, this is a pretty good example of the talent here) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EOKrZt3WjgU
/r/seduction11/06/19 01:50 PM
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inner game 100%. 95% of game is up here *taps head*. If you have your head sorted out, you can do anything, and inner game will start to influence outer game. Neuroplasticity means you can change pathways in your head. Fake it till you make it, then you will slowly start believing what you tell yourself.
/r/seduction30/05/19 03:03 PM
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Sorry but this is not an easy situation my guy. I suggest taking her back to your parent's house when they are asleep LOL, fuck what they think tbh, play it cool, and even make a few jokes about how you live with them. just sneak her out in the morning.
/r/seduction30/05/19 03:00 PM
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I'm 5'10'' which is basically right on average like you. girls don't give a fuck, never stopped me from getting laid ever, i'm actually into taller girls as well so i really dont give a shit. If you don't give a shit then they won't. plain and simple. There is this girl I know and we are really flirty together. I swear shes taller than me but she says she's 5'9. i tease her about it some times, she doesnt care at all
/r/seduction23/05/19 02:19 PM
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definitely into you, bro its so obvious. he was just jealous and projecting his insecurities onto you. go for it, girls are really subtle like that, but expect guys to pick up on it.
/r/seduction23/05/19 02:07 PM
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bro let her watch the fuckin show its amazing. I fucking hate Daenerys i hope tyrian somehow finesses his way to the throne that would be crazy
/r/seduction20/05/19 12:19 AM
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A major KEY to game is taking rejection like a fucking champion. So she rejects you, and it's the worst ever, so fucking what. You walk into that class the next day, smile at her, play it off, act like you don't give a fuck, even if you are crying and dying inside. Fake it 100% it doesn't matter, as long as she believes it. Soon you will too. ​ There are girls I know who have rejected me, idk, at this point I don't have to pretend, I just brush it off and laugh and flirt with them still a bit, e…
/r/seduction04/05/19 02:54 PM
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obviously into you, so many IOIs. The head on the shoulder should have been the greenlight right away. Get really flirty with her, ask her out, you can't lose. Go for it. It's literally 100% success you idiot. Don't pussy out and just sit next to her a bit more, be a man and make an advance she will appreciate the alpha mentality
/r/seduction04/05/19 02:38 PM
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girls in Europe care more about a guy based on his personality, attitude, ambitions, fashion sense, etc. rather than his money, power, cars, watches, or status. European girls like guys who are suave, confident, and intelligent (think Don Juan type). American girls like guys who are cocky, funny, and confident (more like a Dan Bilzerian type) that's just how it is I can't tell you why. Cocky and douche game wont work here, you have to be more relaxed, slow things down a bit more. In half of euro…
/r/seduction18/12/18 06:09 PM
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ok
/r/seduction24/11/18 08:26 PM
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then u good to go my man
/r/seduction24/11/18 08:23 PM
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You know that it's illegal to have sex without being married in Iran right? The country is semi-ruled by Sharia law, women and men cannot show affection in public, etc. If she isn't religious and doesn't wear a Hijab I would say go for it, but be careful not to hurt her feelings, and try to still be fwb. If she is super religious then it's gonna take some time for her to adjust a bit to western culture before you can do anything.
/r/seduction24/11/18 05:43 PM
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this makes me so happy for you man. You can do this. This is what the community is all about, helping each other out, and this makes me proud to be part of something that does good for guys who got a late start.
/r/seduction01/11/18 11:01 PM
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made the right decision. she could of accused you of rape the next morning if you banged. SHe was definitely flirting
/r/seduction27/10/18 09:04 PM
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"guess"
/r/seduction22/10/18 06:23 PM
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No. I have a voice like yours and I have no problems, not one girl has said something. I also feel pretty fucking self conscious about it at times, especially when i'm near guys with deep af voices. I just fucking go with it, and try to make it sound as toned as possible (speaking from your throat, and I add a bit or raspiness to make it sound lower). That way you don't sound like you're actually trying to go deep. I know guys who have even higher voices than me and get girls more than me. It li…
/r/seduction16/10/18 04:19 PM
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Don't focus on game too much, like the other guys said. You can get pussy anywhere, just concentrate on having fun, and your alpha vibe will put pussy on your lap. These girls probably wanna fuck too btw
/r/seduction16/10/18 04:13 PM
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exclusively do night game and night approaches. Most girls out at night just want to fuck. I doubt people will remember you as the Pickup Artist of your university. I go out, I see most college guys have 0 game when they approach, shit is almost laughable. They will see you as a guy with game who is exciting and knows his way around women, not as some creepy pickup artist.
/r/seduction30/09/18 02:09 AM
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hanging out is what all guys say lol, also "get together" means the same thing, the goal was to get the number and thays what you did, you can flirt in DMs later
/r/seduction28/09/18 12:24 AM
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i wish i lived near montreal. Hottest girls in north america outside of LA and Miami
/r/seduction17/08/18 04:07 PM
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there's something about dorms that makes girls incredibly horny. Shes 100% into you, that's just how girls act at that age. Tell her shes a cool girl and say you both should hang out together, exchange numbers, go out in like a group party situation, and while you are in the group, start to ramp up the kino and casual seduction, and by the time its towards the end of the night, ask if she wants to hang out in your room (or hers), get in, close door, start the business, she will know what is goin…
/r/seduction14/08/18 03:49 PM
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also wanted to add, don't use popularity as a crutch. Later in life this "popularity" just turns into money, power, or alcohol. It makes us lazy, unwilling to push ourselves, and just attracts low-class gold diggers and hoes.
/r/seduction05/08/18 05:17 AM
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dont waste your time trying to be the rebound for her. Go out, live your life, and get a girl who actually wants you 100% of the time, there are so many out there, literally millions of potential lays, statistically its almost impossible that she is the best match for you
/r/seduction05/08/18 05:02 AM
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abort mission, its bad karma, how would you feel if your girl cheated on you?
/r/seduction05/08/18 04:52 AM
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Wanna build a pillow fort and make out? - a guy I know told me this one, he says it works 95% of the time on Tinder, but this is Insta so im not sure
/r/seduction05/08/18 04:51 AM
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The dude has weak game. He goes on 6th street where every single girl is horny and drunk, and does like 4 steps, strong eye contact, heavy kino, kiss close (drunk girls are unbelievably easy to kiss), and using the camera to his advantage.
/r/seduction20/07/18 04:06 PM
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Seems like you need to realize how lucky you are, you have food, a bed, an internet connection to type this on, about 25% of the world does not have this, think about that. You need to change yourself FOR YOU, not for GAME. You need to change your mindset and stop thinking about how it will effect game, and start thinking about how it will affect your life. Pick up is a lifestyle not a hobby. We strive for confidence, ambition, and control of our lives to do what we desire, women are just someth…
/r/seduction11/07/18 02:19 PM
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her voice is what gets me tho
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:52 PM
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exist.
/r/seduction30/06/18 05:52 PM
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kinda nasty tbh, i couldn't imagine one of my female friends banging a 60 yo lol,
/r/seduction29/06/18 07:03 PM
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you say that we try to assert our "alphaness" and act stupid, but that is where you are wrong. You see, ,to you it looks that way, but to us, it means self improvement on all levels. PUA is a lifestyle my friend, not an end goal. We here emphasize self-improvement first (in conversational skills, self confidence, appearance, career, etc.) and girls second. You need the first to get the second. Soon, if you follow the path, you will not just act like you are the alpha and pretend to not give a sh…
/r/seduction07/06/18 04:35 AM
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my favorite of all time is this dominican one: "aye...tantas curvas y yo soy sin frenos" it means "oh...so many curves and im without brakes". It will make her laugh
/r/seduction05/06/18 09:36 PM
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lmao
/r/seduction05/06/18 09:29 PM
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Hate to burst your bubble but Seattle is one of the worst places for pickup. Good luck bro. It’s gonna take a lot of work
/r/seduction29/05/18 07:34 PM
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Bro lol some girls are just tight and also she ain’t a virgin. Whatever cherry means lol. You mean hymen? I doubt it. She’s definitely masterbated with a hairbrush before if she’s sending u nudes
/r/seduction27/05/18 02:40 PM
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Here’s what I do: Touch her with something cold like an ice cube that will make her jump and giggle or something. She turns around convo started Just start poking her in one spot with your finger like a little kid until she turns around. Then she sees you with a big smile on your face. She might think your drunk tho. These are what I do if I don’t want to speak when getting a girls attention from the back as in my opinion speaking in this situation seems kinda weird.
/r/seduction27/05/18 02:35 PM
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That’s because any “method” is bullshit and outdated. The mystery method is stupid and so are many others. You gotta learn the pillars of game my bro. Read books and piece together things you like and add your own shit to make your own method.
/r/seduction27/05/18 02:30 PM
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Never say super cute. Call a girl beautiful. And don’t say “think” just say she is.
/r/seduction27/05/18 02:24 PM
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That’s for you and only you to achieve my bro. Self improvement starts with the self. Addicts don’t stop using drugs unless they want to no matter how many rehabs they go to.
/r/seduction24/05/18 01:42 PM
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I think the problem is that you are already the relationship type, and most guys dont want a relationship in college. most guys in college, including myself, want "notches" and not relationships. There is a minority tho, I suggest you try to go for the more put-together type of guys and I don't mean frat bros. Since your in a rich college you're definitely in the right place, it will be easier than your average party school.
/r/seduction16/05/18 02:50 PM
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Ana De Armas, another (girl in middle also kinda my type), another, keanu reeves is one lucky mofo Probably the closest girl to my type that there is, give her a 9.9/10. beautiful eyes, great lips and smiles, and kind of on the exotic side. Intelligent but not super nerdy, and is able to 100% relax and have fun
/r/seduction12/05/18 11:02 PM
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damn this describes my experience almost exactly
/r/seduction08/05/18 07:49 AM
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this is amazing. im saving this to use it. thank you man, this is what this sub is about, pulling each other up
/r/seduction04/05/18 08:29 PM
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exactly how you said it, you already have her, no need to get all suave on the logistics
/r/seduction28/04/18 09:26 AM
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she could of lied man. Jesus not all girls are saints
/r/seduction22/04/18 09:56 PM
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Naturals are the douchiest of all time. They think they are the shit and have no sense of humbleness. When you have a rough start and then improve yourself that is when you respect the game. That is when you can appreciate the art of the game and attracting women. I know a guy who studied pickup and went from not even kissing a girl, to banging a girl and everything in one night after he studied pickup for a few weeks. Our rocky starts are what makes us unique and gives us drive. Seduction is ju…
/r/seduction22/04/18 11:27 AM
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Are you blind? seriously man. sometimes I wonder what the hell goes through guys' minds on this sub. I feel like the only one that can actually recognise these signals. Of course she likes you man, she is all over you. go for it
/r/seduction22/04/18 11:22 AM
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im the exact same with latinas lol, white girls are normal man, just like any other girl. Dont feel like us white guys judge you if you end up with one either. All guys deserve to experience outside their race, good luck and approach.
/r/seduction22/04/18 11:20 AM
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Shes bangin another dude already, you really wanna cuck yourself and get sloppy seconds? nah bro your better than that. dump her and move on. there is always a better girl out there for you and until you find the "one" dont worry about it
/r/seduction22/04/18 11:17 AM
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bro your 20, im the same age. Now is not the time to worry about relationships, just bang as many as you can and get out. Build a social life in the meantime, then when your like 24 worry about relationships. You have your whole life to fall in love
/r/seduction20/04/18 05:41 PM
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plan B just to be safe (like 45 bucks, you better get it quick because there is a time limit to when you can take it
/r/seduction19/04/18 10:08 PM
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yes bro, text book shit test. You responded well 10/10
/r/seduction17/04/18 10:53 PM
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This is amazing man. Thank you
/r/seduction17/04/18 05:05 PM
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i say that all the time to girls as an opener lol, then i try to "remember" her name by guessing until she tells me, then we talk. its a way to break the ice while at the same time if it goes wrong, you can pretend you actually thought you knew that person
/r/seduction16/04/18 03:01 AM
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STIs are a serious issue bro, you did the right thing
/r/seduction15/04/18 06:09 PM
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hotter girls have higher bitch shields and shit test more, its called the hot-shit paradox lol
/r/seduction15/04/18 03:59 AM
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Sophomore here, as you progress in college, classes get smaller, you start seeing the same people in your classes, you make friends and meet girls. my school has 28k students, divide that by 4 you get 7k for my year, divide that by 4 (25% of students are in business, my major) you get about 2 thousand students that you will consistently come in contact with for the next 3 years, and even narrower as your major classes get smaller and smaller. Frat parties at my uni are fucking lame, they are onl…
/r/seduction15/04/18 03:57 AM
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"I don't know, see for yourself". or something like that. Don't beg her, let shit happen, if you lose her you lose her, that means she is not the one for you because if she was she would stay with you. Don't be clingy, sometimes love just happens, and then it goes away, you cant fight the universe, just flow with it my dude.
/r/seduction15/04/18 03:49 AM
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Ok, so you talk about her telling you your friends are hot (classic shit test) always respond with something like "Ya, id fuck him" in a matter of fact tone, she will laugh. She most likely shit tested you for beta status and since you are close and no move has been made, she probably thinks u are beta. what you gotta do is go to the party with her, then ratched up the kino/negs/etc. to a high level so she knows that tonight you are gonna make a move, dont worry if its awkward, your intentions a…
/r/seduction15/04/18 03:46 AM
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dorm 100%. if you want a social life that is. Most people make friends your first year through dorms, but after that they make them through their major classes (they get smaller, more group work, more of the same faces, etc.). If I could do it over, I would definately choose living in the dorms my first year, i was incredibly depressed for 2 years because I had no social life/girls/etc. (which is why i got into pickup), until my junior year where i finally started making freinds in classes, etc.
/r/seduction14/04/18 06:11 PM
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Literature my dude. Read "The Game" by Neil Strauss (classic pickup techniques) and then "BANG" by Roosh V (more modern, result focused game). You can find both pdf's online, also not many guys do routines anymore so when you get to those parts, just forget about it, it won't help you in the long run as seduction/PU is more than just a way to get girls, its a lifestyle
/r/seduction10/04/18 04:43 PM
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Alpha Male Of the Group. AMOGing was developed in the early days of pickup for this exact situations. They are designed to shut down the douchebag while at the same time boosting your attraction to the girls he was attempting to get from you, Read "The Game" by Niel Strauss, you can find the pdf online, it has AMOGing in it
/r/seduction10/04/18 04:38 PM
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try to out alpha him, look up AMOGing and try some routines out if he gets in your face. I hate those types of guys, fucking douches. Make him feel like the small boy he is.
/r/seduction10/04/18 03:42 AM
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Its pure evolution bro, don't sweat it. Girls are wired to trade up. They always look for something better, even if they may be no the best choice. Ignore her, she blew you off in a awful way, act like a total player around her but don't give her a second of your attention. Don't get oneitis like someone else said, she may come running to you when she senses your "unobtainable" vibe you give off.
/r/seduction08/04/18 05:49 PM
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lmao date? i try to bang the night i meet them
/r/seduction26/03/18 08:17 PM
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if she breathes, its an IOI
/r/seduction22/03/18 04:49 PM
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Woah calm down, you're overthinking it way way too much. You are pigeon-holing yourself into what seduction is, and its not about not trying or treating her like any other girl. Besides, what does "cool" even mean? All that beta male shit needs to stop, dont be mr. nice guy, dont ask her to sit next to you, go up and sit like you did. No high fives You have to be confident, know what you want and make it clear from the beginning. Keep a goal in mind as you speak to the girl and don't be afraid t…
/r/seduction22/03/18 06:43 AM
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thats creepy as fuck
/r/seduction20/03/18 11:45 PM
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"you seem like a cool girl, we should hang out sometime" says yes... "alright cool, why dont i get your number" (immediately pull out phone) "we should continue this" (mid-convo) "why dont i get your number?" if she rejects you, call her uptight/old-fashioned with a playful tone and smile. even if your screaming inside lol
/r/seduction20/03/18 09:49 PM
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it means she wanted you to kiss her already and stop taking.
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:55 AM
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You were hyped up with the idea of fucking her, not actually fucking her, so when it came time, your brain collapsed. Hype is not what you should be thinking of when it comes to sex. I don't give a shit if she's a 9.5. What the fuck did she give to you yet? Let your emotions show, be lustful and passionate and pour your heart out into your woman. Let go. Feel the curves of her body, take charge, do whatever feels right to YOU not what people tell you. You asked too many questions, when with sex,…
/r/seduction18/03/18 06:26 AM
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Bro shes a college girl. Im in college also and bitches flake like hell. Normal as always, dont sweat it.
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:12 AM
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ya man, train your mind. Practice scenarios in your head, practice by yourself, retrain your mind to give a responce that leads into a convo rather than cutting it off. I did it, you can to. Its mostly anxiety, you feel nervous about speaking so your brain automatically shuts down, you have to want to speak, and then your brain will think of shit to keep the convo going Look up Craig Ferguson on youtube, he was a old tonight show host who was a total womanizer, his style of conversation is very …
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:06 AM
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that might have been the most beta level response ever lol. I would of said, "because you're attractive and interesting", and then smile afterwards. She totally shit tested you, to see if you were alpha enough to tell her your feelings. To make up for it, just ask her the fuck out next time you see her. do it bro! i believe in u
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:01 AM
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Running game unfortunately attracts a lot of short-term-relationship seeking girls. I think you may be subconsciously going for the wrong type. Suave up your game a bit, be more deep and intellectual, and target the more put together girls. See what happens, it might change.
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:58 AM
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If I am afraid/intimidated by a girl, that only pushes my desire and lust for her even higher. I guess with me, I go for the dangerous and mysterious girls with an attitude. If she is giving off a special vibe that makes me feel uneasy, I just approach. She is still a girl, not a goddess. Your equal, she may have more issues than you do.
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:55 AM
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Do you floss with a rope?
/r/seduction15/03/18 05:46 PM
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nice connection. most guys on here are just talking the talk, but few walk the walk
/r/seduction10/03/18 10:16 AM
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You can learn. Here are the most common and if a girl does this, then there is a high chance she is interested in you; Fixing her hair/makeup/etc. (checking herself in her phone), if you make eye contact while walking on the street and she moves her head 90* to the side, or looks directly into your eyes, if she leans on one leg (this shows off her ass) or if she pulls her shorts up/shirt tighter, her general direction is towards you (her body), she smiles/laughs at what you say even if its not f…
/r/seduction09/03/18 09:18 PM
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that's where the fun begins
/r/seduction08/03/18 03:35 PM
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go to india, and meditate with monks in the desert for a month straight wearing nothing but a leaf, try ayahuasca, then come back. 400 dollars for plane ticket there, 500 dollars for monthly expense, 400 back. total of: 1.3k
/r/seduction08/03/18 07:41 AM
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also Learn languages, 1 cup of Matcha tea a day, and spend at least 1 hour in nature barefoot every day.
/r/seduction08/03/18 07:34 AM
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Abort mission! no but seriously, she probably has some issues.
/r/seduction08/03/18 04:26 AM
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Read: The Game by Neil Strauss, and BANG by Roosh V. These things will provide you with a good understanding of the foundation of game, as it was when it was first going mainstream. Read The Game first then BANG, BANG is more of a reflection on The Game. Don't be afraid to pick out what you like and what you don't. I personally never use routines even though it gets results, its just way too fake for me. Also, find your nitch, what makes you unique with women, and expand on that, its all about b…
/r/seduction07/03/18 06:43 PM
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I think the location and you have gotten better too. NYC, Miami, and LA (plus surrounding cities) are considered the best spots to game. I've also heard the Hawaiian islands are great. I personally hate winter so I am thinking about moving to either Miami or LA or the islands. I need more diversity, more high calibre girls, these are the hotspots.
/r/seduction04/03/18 06:36 AM
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i love that song too , it just doesnt hype me up edit: wait just listened to it, lol yes it does
/r/seduction02/03/18 08:18 AM
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anything by post malone, "Go Flex", "Patient" are my favs. "On me" - Young Thug as well
/r/seduction02/03/18 06:26 AM
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k
/r/seduction28/02/18 10:28 AM
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bro you want this girl but cant even keep your dick in your pants long enough to concentrate on gaming her. Focus on her, getting to know her, etc. And these things won't happen.
/r/seduction28/02/18 10:21 AM
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they are good in terms of self-confidence, energy, etc. but the actual material is shit. Just spouting caveman game and kino at drunk 20 year olds is of course going to get you laid. Wont work on a quality girl though, you will need actual conversation skills and personality
/r/seduction27/02/18 11:02 PM
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First off, women haven't changed much since then. They still drop their panties for popularity, but now add money, power, etc. to that mix. These things create what we call a social circle. Social circles are actually very important to allow you to get access to large pools of beautiful but low-quality women. You have to find a high profile guy and befriend him, or become that guy yourself. You need to get into the sphere of influence (high society, etc.). But be warned, 90% of these women are s…
/r/seduction18/02/18 02:48 AM
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EXactly! pickup isnt just with women, its a lifestyle. It has to penetrate 100% of your life with confidence and knowing what you want in life. If you dont, you will end up like this guy.
/r/seduction05/02/18 06:19 PM
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It seems like you have some serious issues that need addressing, man. Like when i was reading this shit i wanted to punch you in the face, you sound so retarded. This is no place for shit like your story. Guys here need to feel encouraged not depressed. Pickup is not faking it. There are many and probably the majority of pickup artists do fake much of their game, but their cores are real as can be. Confidence, self-worth, and drive are the pillars of self improvement and pickup. You seem to have…
/r/seduction05/02/18 06:16 PM
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sounds like you have a case of oneitis tbh, forget about her.
/r/seduction03/02/18 07:31 PM
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tbh there was nothing you could do man. This is a rare case where whatever you do will come across as desperate. You grab her arm as she walks past you? You pull her headphones off so she can hear you? Like there was nothing man, no worries. Keep an eye out for her and you might get another chance.
/r/seduction03/02/18 03:56 AM
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I am like you my dude. I look young, although I act mature and am decently confident. I only sleep 7-8 hours a day to feel well rested so that shit is bs cuz I am smaller than you but taller so I look skinnier and girls don't care. Grow facial hair, get a better haircut, but never take drugs. Steroids make your whole body grow not just muscles, that means your organs and shit and that is why those roiders always look like they are pregnant cuz their stomachs are about to burst from their organs …
/r/seduction02/02/18 08:53 PM
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seems like she's shit-testing you to see if you are a clingy beta. My advice: mirror what she is doing, if she doesn't reply, don't reply back for a while either. Stop telling her when you are skipping class, etc. Seems to me like you had a chance at that party to do something, eye contact, good response to heavy kino. She was yours man. Seems like she is starting to label you as beta/friendzone. You have to fix this. Try to do a party thing again but this time go full on and try to escalate. Ge…
/r/seduction01/02/18 05:17 AM
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ghost her lmao
/r/seduction01/02/18 05:11 AM
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Watch craig ferguson, his youtube videos are online (retired talk show host and womanizer), the dude is a legend at conversation. He practices what we call "conversational steering" or "verbal monkey branching" where he deliberately takes a conversation where he wants it to more interesting topics by asking questions that slowly lead to that topic and making jokes as well. try to learn from him. Also, dont feel bad man. This type of shit is hard for guys to do especially with girls. Many guys te…
/r/seduction01/02/18 05:09 AM
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"The Game" by Neil Strauss "BANG" by Roosh V. (pdf's are online if you look hard enough) read these and take notes
/r/seduction01/02/18 05:03 AM
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If you really like her and think she is relationship material (the feeling seems mutual), then go for it man. Oneitis happens to clingy idiots, not you. If you have gotten to know her a bit, and find out you genuinely like spending time with her, then follow your heart. Its only to the end of the year (10 months), so I guess you guys can make it work. Also, I'm from the USA and 3 hours away is barely considered the next state over. So chill out man, and make the drive or train or whatever the he…
/r/seduction31/01/18 08:33 PM
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also, it's just a kiss. it's not like you are sticking your fingers down her pants. Many cultures around the world think of kissing as equally as hugging. Don't make it a big deal and just go for it.
/r/seduction30/01/18 03:55 AM
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I got u bro not sure how reliable this is though, give it time to load up
/r/seduction28/01/18 11:58 PM
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fuck her, she probably had issues. not your fault it was hers.
/r/seduction27/01/18 06:38 PM
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thank you man, i appreciate it.
/r/seduction27/01/18 06:34 PM
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BANG by Roosh V, and The Game by NEil Strauss (was on Joe Rogan hes that good)(both have pdf files online, this one is for the game) Bang is written by a controversial guy and there are somethings that are a bit on the fake side of game/pickup such as "routines" and "mind games" which I hate, but if you ignore those then he gives amazing advice on mental health, something called "The Vibe", and other things to get one night stands quickly The Game, is written by a revolutionary pickup artist who…
/r/seduction27/01/18 06:31 PM
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currently going to CU boulder, totally feel you my dude. The bitches are retarded and are not receptive to legit game. I find myself acting like a frat-bro a lot just to keep their interest smh, thats not me and I hate it. Girls are so shallow and fake this time of their lives I guess. I am considered generally attractive and have gotten a fair amount of girls eye fucking me while walking to class, but when I go to parties and shit, they seem to always lose interest and gravitate towards the fra…
/r/seduction27/01/18 06:16 PM
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something I learned from reading books on the subject. If you get rejected, its her loss, if you say the stupidest thing ever to a girl in the history of trying to pick up girls since the world began, its still her loss. she doesn't know you, only 30 seconds=5 minutes of you, don't fear rejection, its part of the game
/r/seduction27/01/18 06:09 PM
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probably a shit test to see if you are needy/clingy, or she doesn't want to make you see her as "easy" or a "slut". Just do the same shit she does and you will pass the test. This shows that you are confident and not tied down to just her.
/r/seduction25/01/18 10:27 AM
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thank you man, this is one of the issues that stops me from approaching girls alot. I don't really have a manly voice and neither does my dad or uncle (mom's side), so i have basically accepted it at this point. THis helps me on the path to accepting who i am and working with what I have, which is something that I think this forum is all about.
/r/seduction24/01/18 02:29 AM
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next time try the "let me guess....your from/you are____" opener. Or ask her if she knows any good restaurants or coffee shops, or th train station, etc. and have her show you because "you get lost easily", and then within that time attempt to make the moves.
/r/seduction21/01/18 09:36 AM
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if you beat around the bush she will label you as beta. Chances are she already does and has you in the friendzone. You have to be clear, and show her what you want. Simple as that. Say something like: "Hey I found some _____ (name of drink), and nobody wants to drink it with me cuz they say it looks suspect as hell lmao, you wanna drink it with me in my dorm/apartment and have some fun?" some shit like that that has comedy, and has a pretty direct hint of your intentions to escape the friend zo…
/r/seduction13/01/18 09:08 PM
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probably thought she sounds dumb, tbh white girls speaking spanish sound cringy as fuck 90% of the time. i like to go with "wow your fiesty, are you always like this?" (the golden line whenever a girl is acting bitchy, etc., even in a funny way).
/r/seduction12/01/18 03:58 AM
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You stand up, shes laying down by the base of the bed, Put a pillow under her back arch so when you penetrate you hit her g-spot. Then grab her hair/neck and bring her face up to yours, and pound as hard as you can while looking into her eyes and squeezing her neck/pulling her hair. The combination of pain, emotion, and pleasure will make her cum hard.
/r/seduction12/01/18 03:52 AM
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Do it infront of her friends. Your an alpha now boi, give 0 shits, and start flirting with her. Ask her questions, blah, blah, over the course of the hangout sesh or whatever. Then ask her. She will most likely be even more attracted to you since it takes confidence to ask a girl out with an audience behind oneself. Go get her. I believe in you .
/r/seduction12/01/18 03:45 AM
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Get super fuckin drunk and you will loosen up
/r/seduction17/12/17 03:16 AM
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found this and this buena suerte, wey
/r/seduction08/12/17 08:03 PM
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my spanish is at probably the same level although my speaking is probably a bit less, do this, my dude: First greet her in spanish, say something like: "oye!, que onda?", que onda means whats up/hows it going in mexico, it will impress her, then talk a bit, and ask her why she is in US blah blah blah, then ask her if she wants to speak english to practice in a plaful way, or make a joke saying that you are running out of words to say in spanish or something. ahahha laugh laugh, there, you got he…
/r/seduction08/12/17 07:38 AM
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B, the more time you spend with her and the more places you go, the more she will feel she knows you, the longer she feels she knows you, and the more she will trust you when it comes to sex if you are going for a ONS
/r/seduction08/12/17 07:26 AM
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BANG: Roosh V (focuses on ONS, getting notches, minor focus on emotional connection and relationship continuation, things such as "The Vibe" and learning how to read women, how to sort through hoes and gold diggers, etc. are very very usefull) What I don't like is how he encourages manipulation and mind games. Seems very fake to me, but it does get results. The Game: Neil Strauss (focuses on suave and sweet talk, think latin lover, leaves room for emotional connections, not necessarily for quick…
/r/seduction08/12/17 01:40 AM
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i dont go for girls i already know. Personally, when I break up with them, they become very awkward in the friend group and then I generally end up not hanging out with that group that much due to her being there, and all her friends knowing i pumped and dumped. I sacraficed friendship for quick bangs, it is a bad trade off. JUst go to the club and pick up a girl there.
/r/seduction06/12/17 04:41 AM
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i probably would of put a gun in my mouth if that happened to me. You have a good future ahead of you.
/r/seduction04/12/17 09:36 AM
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Fellow baby faced dude here. It is tough my dude. Have you considered growing facial hair? If you have a bit of european in you, you might be able to grow a pretty chill beard to make you appear more mature (like idris elba or some shit). I feel like girls think we are cute at the beginning and then dismiss us because they think we are immature or not up to their speed. They feel we are cute to look at, but not to fuck, you know what I mean? Just try growing some type of facial hair, and display…
/r/seduction03/12/17 06:37 PM
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You isolate. By using the "1-1-2-1-3-1-4-0" technique (coined by me just now). Basically you introduce yourself to the whole group and a couple seconds in you identify who is with who.Then the technique. Identify the girl you like, ask questions to the entire group, then to her, (1 to her, 1 to the group)(1-1), then repeat, then ask her 2, 1 to the group(2-1), then (3-1), (by now she should be naturally beginning to be isolated from her group as her friends talk on the sidelines around you, but …
/r/seduction02/12/17 07:18 AM
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say this: "hey you canceled again, ill be at a strip club with the boys if you need me, at least the strippers actually show up when they say they will" lmao. works every time
/r/seduction25/11/17 05:12 AM
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bruh, i probably would of done the same shit. I had 4 of my wisdom teeth removed a few years back and the shit was painful and uncomfortable. also, suction from the kiss would have a chance at dislodging the blodclot in the empty sockets so you did the right thing, or you would have to get further work done. Just go up to her and say some shit like, "Hey I ran into you at the club last night right? ahha i was so drunk i can barely remember, trying to get my mind off the pain from getting my wisd…
/r/seduction25/11/17 05:05 AM
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I have never seen such a bad case of pussywhippeditis. YOu need to get him away from that girl, or he will self destruct. There are other, more amazing fish in this sea of millions of potential girlfriends/bangs. Shes shit, and he needs to know it. Get him to put himself above her, and he will realize.
/r/seduction20/11/17 08:07 AM
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Girls that play games with you like that have no regard for your mental health or emotions. She will drag you down in the future if you guys do get together, forget about her.
/r/seduction12/11/17 08:22 PM
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BANG by Roosh V, I know alot of people think this dude is a dick, and I agree he goes overboard with the scripted material, but before you downvote, he has alot of really good ways of thinking in the begining sections of the book. Such as the philosophy behind approaching, viewing women, and the "Vibe".
/r/seduction11/11/17 03:36 AM
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