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| 6 | "Men would fuck anything" is just female fantasy for them to feel more attractive than they really areWhen I go out with male friends they don’t even look at average fat or old women. I’m assuming you’re a woman? Of course your friends aren’t going to go for the fat and ugly girls in public. They keep it private because they aren’t proud of it. They don’t want to be seen in public with the low tier women that they’ll fuck. As everything, there may be exceptions, but most men who would “fuck anything” are probably playing a numbers game for their own ego, In my experience in talking with guys. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 05:52 PM |
| – | Men's addiction and dependence on porn is because of womenI love how dishonest you are. You make up false equivalencies, exaggerate claims, use strawmans and shift goal posts all while never admitting you’re wrong. Complete narcissistic behavior. Now you completely abandon your past arguments because you’re failing at them. Like I said in my past comments. Porn addiction was mentioned in the post but it was not the core topic. You keep making it the core topic which is dishonest. He mentioned porn addiction because men outside of a relationship will of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 07:51 PM |
| – | Men's addiction and dependence on porn is because of womenWhy is the man not bringing his concerns up before engaging in a lot of porn use? Because he doesn’t view porn use as an issue so why would he bring up a nonissue? Why is it a woman’s responsibility to make sure her man doesn’t become porn addicted? Again, you’re using the word addicted. That wasn’t the point of the post. But I digress…again. Because she’s the one taking issue with porn use. She needs to set that boundary if she has an issue with it. Why are you expecting the man to be a mind re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 07:40 PM |
| – | Men's addiction and dependence on porn is because of womenA girl not wanting to do things she’s not interested in is not the reason for her man using porn. No one forced him to open up PornHub and wank it. Right. Nobody is forcing the girl to do something she doesn’t want to do. I’m not sure why you’re making that part up. It’s something nobody but you is saying should happen. No one forced her to go out and fall onto another dick. She should have brought this up before. THATS WHAT THE POST IS SAYING THE POST IS SAYING: If a woman doesn’t like her man … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 06:54 PM |
| – | Men's addiction and dependence on porn is because of womenA porn addicted man is not going to stop watching porn once he’s in a relationships and starts experiencing real sex; hence porn “addiction.” You seem to be latched on to porn addiction when he only mentioned porn addiction a few times. Yet he mentioned just using porn in a non addicted way more than that. We know that porn addiction actively turns men OFF real sex, and some of them can only ever ejaculate to the stuff they watch and their death grip. Right…and hence why he said, if a woman has … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 06:31 PM |
| – | Men's addiction and dependence on porn is because of womenBlaming women for your own 1) Lack of control regarding porn, He’s saying lack of sex is a reason why some men might resort to porn. 2) Choosing a woman with whom you’re not sexually compatible is nuts. Have you ever considered that good relationships are more than just sex? If a woman isn’t close to your bare minimum of fun in the bedroom, why did you start dating her? And who is forcing you to stay in that relationship??? This is what this sounds like: First paragraph of his post states that t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 05:42 PM |
| – | Men's addiction and dependence on porn is because of womenSo, a while back I posted a response to a r/Feminism regarding the growing pornography addiction and dependence men are experiencing (even while in relationships.) The topic was something like “Men’s addiction to porn is ruining my relationship. Are there any men who don’t jerk off to porn, have porn brain?” Etc. Seems like people read your post and then immediately forgot the first paragraph in order to bash men. To me, correct me if I’m wrong, you’re saying if a woman is complaining about a ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women with low-esteem ever go for unattractive men?That’s my exact personal experience too. It’s kinda like the girls who say “I don’t like fit guys, I like a dad bod” To everyone else that sounds like she wants a dude with a little extra weight and is just average looking. When in reality that means not cut or lean. She wants you to be muscular and work out but not lean and veiny. And look attractive as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 04:23 PM |
| 15 | Why Do Women Demand Equality But Then Want Men Who Are Superior to them?We already have equality under the law for women. However modern feminists claim that social inequity (aka outcome) is evidence for systematic discrimination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality womenI'm dumbfounded this actually works in real life. Why wouldn't a woman want a "normal" man or a man who will respect her to wait until she's ready for sex. I don’t know either but it works. The less attracted I am to a girl, the more attracted to me she gets. If I show I actually like her or care about her opinions….poof ghosted or I get the “it’s not you, it’s me” If a man acted like he could discard me at any time or made me feel like an option, I would just let him go. Obviously I don’t know … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.Obviously I’m going to be biased but yes, I think so. So I’ll look to social proof. I usually look to help people out of empathy and people do invite me to things and keep up with me. I can hold conversations well and make others feel important to me, etc. However does it really matter if a girl doesn’t give me a time of day anyway to even discover that about me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 09:36 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: What would you change about this woman's personality in order to date her?But only included 1 photo which happened to be one of their biggest women and then claimed according to buzzfeed this is 68% of women. So you intentionally misled people in your post to try and gaslight men. You’re just a toxic woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 02:26 AM |
| 16 | Q4M: What would you change about this woman's personality in order to date her?I had to dig a little to find what article OP was referring to. You’re right. That is what buzzfeed did. They took a normal girls and scaled it up to morbid obesity to say this is what 68% of women look like. OP just took one of the heaviest girls and said that is what 68% of women look like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 10:27 PM |
| 40 | Q4M: What would you change about this woman's personality in order to date her?This is what 68% of American women looked like in 2018 according to BuzzFeed. Well they lied or you’re lying. 68% of women do not look like her. She’s closer to 45% body fat which is going into class 2 obesity territory and judging by her looks she is close to 40 bmi which would put her having morbid obesity. Which is closer to 10% of women according to the NIH and if you include regular obesity (which she’s not), that is puts her in about 40% of the population. Far cry from 68%. https://www.nid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 09:14 PM |
| – | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.Blame it on anything so that there is SOMEONE to blame. Because the reality being that men need to step up and work harder to get with the woman they want is just too painful for them Ok. Maybe you can help me out then. I’m 25, I’m about 5’8, I have a NW of about $900k, I have a good job, I own a home, I own a truck outright, no debt, I have hobbies and friends, I also am well groomed with an updated wardrobe, I also have a masters degree and 2 bachelors and I have fairly decent social skills no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Can you prove water is wet without telling me to touch water? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 05:36 PM |
| 4 | Why do men say women who are objectively attractive are ugly/mid?but why would you ever have to call someone average or ugly... Usually in my experience it’s on Reddit when girls are asking for a rating and are upset by the results. It leads to other women jumping in and saying she’s a 7/8/9/10. Or men white knighting. its not like the guy was asked to date margot robbie and then called her mid. or as if he was just discussing it with his buddies. Huh? The question is why do men call attractive women mid or ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 09:26 PM |
| 20 | Why do men say women who are objectively attractive are ugly/mid?I think women overestimate female beauty so it comes off as attractive women being called average or ugly. When in reality we are calling a spade a spade. Studies show women cannot identify male beauty accurately as they rate the average man as below average, and in my lived experience they rate the average woman as above average. I think it’s funny how women immediately think being “average” in looks is an insult. By definition, the average woman looks…..average. It means you aren’t drop dead g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Do women prefer to share a high value man than to have a low value man?Hmm. Seems like a question for women but I’ll chime in. In my opinion it’s not necessarily “share” long term. But rather spend time, energy and resources with a “high value” guy in hopes they become faithful. I’ve seen too many women chase after cheaters and players hoping they’ll pick her for the long run. So no, I don’t think they’d rather share a guy for a relationship. But they’d rather share a guy during the ‘situationship’ phase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 04:52 PM |
| 13 | Describe the average man dating experience ?I think that’s the same survey I quoted. However all it shows is dating is messed up for men under 30 and slightly less messed up for men 30-40 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 06:57 PM |
| 16 | Describe the average man dating experience ?How is that mathematically possible? Are many women dating men a decade older than them? I think there’s 3 causes 1) Like you said, women date older guys. The avg age gap in a marriage is 4-5 years. Assuming women start looking to settle down by 24-25, they’re already looking at 30 year old men. I also met quite a few 20-24 year old girls in college that had 30+ year old boyfriends. 2) Women dating the same guy. 3) Younger women engaging in hookup culture and entering “situationships” and “FWB”.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 06:55 PM |
| 82 | Describe the average man dating experience ?When looking at age and gender together, 63% of men under 30 describe themselves as single, compared with 34% of women in the same age group. Younger men are also far more likely than older men to be single – a pattern that is not as straightforward among women. Women ages 18 to 29, for example, are just as likely as women 65 and older to report being single. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/ It depends on what you consider aver… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 05:21 PM |
| -1 | Theory: Red pill want to be upsethow women will only go for the 0.1% of men and because they aren't 6ft and They say women want to be with the top 10% of men. have negative canthal tilt or whatever then no woman will ever sleep with them and theres nothing they can do. This would be black pill. Not red. So many red pill dudes just want to be miserable it's insane. Seems like you’re more confusing red and black. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 05:52 AM |
| 6 | what experiences with women have shaped your view of them?I would watch my women friends chase absolutely horrible guys that all their friends and families had disapproval over. Despite knowing they’re horrible men, they chased them anyway trying to “fix them”. Basically the same thing guys do with toxic women. Examples 1) Girl was dating this ex drug dealer who cheated on her a few times. Then dumped her for another girl. Then after a few months he came back and they’ve been together since. When you talk to her about him, she’ll only talk about the fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 04:17 PM |
| – | I just want a guy who takes care of himself is a HUGE lie.Personally I’m drawn to people with an aesthetic eye and an appreciation for self-expression in their personal style, Well that’s an absolute lie based on what you just said. What you really mean is “Personally I’m drawn to people with my aesthetic eye and an appreciation for my approved forms of self-expression in their personal style, I say that as the guy who wears flip flops and shots everywhere. It’s my aesthetic eye that says it looks good and it’s my self expression in my personal style. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 03:48 AM |
| 39 | Have tradcons taken over the redpill?Andrew Tate and Sneako are another example of this phenomenon as well. Oh yeah. Nothing is more tradcon than running a porn industry and stealing money from the women you use. And don’t deny it, Tate himself bragged about how the women he worked with agreed to 50/50 partnerships but then he’d steal an extra 20% and blame it on taxes. He then talked about how stupid women are and that they’ll just trust you. Totally tradcon. He published the video himself, you can go find it. And Sneako is just a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 05:47 PM |
| – | „Just go outside and look at couples, bro. Black/red pill is bs” so I did…Yup. Everyone at my job that’s close to my age: All the girls are in a relationship, but only the guys who are close to 6’ or over are in relationships. The guys my height or shorter or unattractive are all single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Most of what gets called “manipulation” and “grooming” seems to be just seduction people don’t likeI’ve seen this grooming take place irl. She graduated high school and while 18, she met a 30 year old on the apps. Basically he just gains her trust by going out on dates and love bombing. Then isolated her by making her talk less to her male friends because he wanted more time with her, even went as far as deleting male made music off her phone cause he was jealous. Anyway. Went about how you imagine. She complied and is completely alone. Her family tried tooth and nail to get her out of there … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Which do you feel a woman values more?They also can't afford to. They can. They just don’t have to because the women aren’t traditional nor do they have high expectations for men as I’m finding out. Your whole concept means that if a wife and a husband stop having sex, say for illness or whatever. Then the relationship stop being a husband & wife one and becomes more like a sister & brother or friendship. Which is a ridiculous concept and a very narrow view on relationships. There loads of reasons people can't have sex. I mean yeah,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Hahaha do you know what the traditional expectations of men are? Majority of men can't do that. Because they don’t have to. Hmmm your relationship not going to last a long time if the only value you see in romantic relationship is sex. Ok. So you’re there’s no difference between the relationship between a man and his wife versus a man and his sister? Or a man and his best friend? There many people in romantic relationships anyways that don't even have sex. And these people have the highest rates… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Well one man don't do that. Like men aren't traditional men at all but expect women to still be traditional. Thats why women should be traditional and demand a traditional guy. This isn’t a race to the bottom. Right cause the only value men see in a women is sex, so if they have to go through the horrible experience of having to get to know a women before they have sex woth her. They're lesser men. Right cause sex is all women are too men. Or it’s because relationships are pretty much defined as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Which do you feel a woman values more?One you don't date men, so have no experience dating men. Two even if your correct how are women meant to know which guy which? That’s why you should wait for sex and not have fwb and random one night stands. Once women start having one night stands and fwb; men will be salty if you make them wait while you didn’t make a stranger wait. Now if she makes everyone wait, then there’s no issue. See how you talk about sex... then you tell me "oh all men aren't just looking for sex" while you sound hel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Hm. Women don't treat men like lesser or shit after they sleep with them though, men do that to women though. I’ll steal a line from the women in this sub. Who hurt you? Not all guys do this, the ones that date with a purpose don’t. That's why women hold off on sex because of men's behaviour because the only way to get a man to get to know you is to hold off on the only thing he want from you. So in her mind then her FWB is more trustworthy and deserving of sex compared to the man she might marr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 01:06 PM |
| 0 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Like men literally have two kinda women in there life ones they think they could date and one they'd just shag. But if women do a similar thing men will act like there victims, Well. One difference you’ve overlooked is the entire point of the post. Men: Don’t make women wait for sex regardless if she’s “to shag” or “could date” Women: Do make men wait for sex if they “could date” versus not waiting if he’s just “to shag” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Which do you feel a woman values more?If you don't want to acknowledge that more matters in a long-term relationship than sex, idk what to tell you. I do acknowledge that. However again. She’s already passing around sex willy nilly, then why is she withholding it from the guy whom she wants an actual relationship with? That makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Which do you feel a woman values more?And that’s where I’m lost. I don’t see how women (and men) can just “oh this is just fun sex” versus “oh I need to know his family first” I don’t see how women can justify saying they value the second more than the first when they make the second jump through hoops for what the first guy got for just looking good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Which do you feel a woman values more?The standards are different because the duration of the relationship is different. You don't have the same standards for a hotel as you do a house you're buying. It's okay if the hotel doesn't have a stove. That's not compartmentalization. Either you don’t understand what compartmentalization means or you’re trolling. So there’s separate needs for a hotel versus a house? That’s called compartmentalization sis. You’re creating two separate categories of standards, one for a hotel and one for a ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Compartmentalization: the division of something into sections or categories. “She has sex with the fwb because he’s hot and it’s a fwb” “She makes you wait for sex because she sees you as relationship material and not a one night stand” That’s compartmentalization. If sex is just sex then it shouldn’t matter if she likes me as a fwb or a relationship. I’d even argue she should be more willing to have sex knowing it’s in the context of a relationship vs a fwb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 12:13 AM |
| 8 | Which do you feel a woman values more?I never said this, nor made this argument. wtf yes you are. XD it’s the crux of your argument. That women have casual sex for fun because she’s attracted to the guy with no long term prospects. But she will have sex with a guy differently whom she has long term potential with. You’re just trolling me at this point. You gotta be. You made a really bad analogy that makes no sense, and you're doubling down. Yeah you’re trolling me. I am that person. I’m literally describing myself XD that’s how I k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 12:02 AM |
| 6 | Which do you feel a woman values more?I’m sorry but this makes absolutely no sense to me. I don’t see how women compartmentalize sex between “sex for fun” and “sex in relationship.” Maybe it’s because I think sex belongs in committed relationships and marriage rather than something just “to do because I’m bored”. The only excuse that makes sense to me is her not wanting to come off like a slut and sleeping with him right away. But even then, why make the guy wait? She’s already giving it away on the side, there’s no logical reason t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 11:46 PM |
| 6 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Anyway, it makes perfect sense. People delay pleasure to make it seem more special. You've never heard the phrase "save the best for last?" So in this analogy. What is the whiskey? Is it sex? Ok. Under that assumption. Again. She’s already cracked open that special bottle of whiskey and passed it out to random strangers. But when it comes to you, you have to earn a sip. You have to prove that you’re worthy of the whiskey, meanwhile some hot guy at a bar already got a sip with no prerequisites. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 11:29 PM |
| 8 | Which do you feel a woman values more?No one is having sex with someone they don't get anything from. No one is getting "sex for free." Sure. Short term satisfaction. But again, it makes no sense why a woman would then turn around and make a “relationship material” guy wait. It makes no sense why women would be more eager to have sex with men who are more sexually attractive, than to have sex with men who are less sexually attractive? That's really confusing to you? People are claiming women value the lesser sexually attractive guy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 11:01 PM |
| 6 | Which do you feel a woman values more?I do. It just a bad analogy that makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 10:49 PM |
| 10 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Why would you get the product if you don't have the cash or another method of payment? But the other guy didn’t pay. “Looks” isn’t a payment. There’s no effort or anything there. If a woman values sex and intimacy then she shouldn’t go throwing at the first attractive guy she sees. It makes absolutely no sense how a woman can throw herself at one guy who she cares nothing about. Then when a guy she does care about shows up, she makes him jump through hoops to prove he’s worthy. If you want to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 10:47 PM |
| 7 | Which do you feel a woman values more?maybe she also doesn't want to have more than 1 sexual partner at a time. Ok The FWB relationship is intended to be temporary, Then she should treat it that way. she still may not want to end it until she is sure she is going to enter a committed relationship. So she’s wanting a fwb and a committed relationship. That ain’t happening from me sis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 10:42 PM |
| 7 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Maybe she thinks waiting makes it more special or romantic. Like how you'd save a good whisky for a special occasion but will drink a beer in the shower. A whiskey that you’ve already opened and drank with people you just met and barely know…. Wow…how special….being the only person who has to wait to taste the already opened and shared whiskey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 10:34 PM |
| 26 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Hm. I’ve only been guy 2, and let me tell you, it sucks. Imo, women don’t value guy 2, they use/settle for guy 2. Like, if a girl values herself that she makes you wait and work up to being intimate with her, and then she turns around and just gives herself to another guy for free….it’s plainly obvious who she values more. It’s guy 1. I tried starting a relationship with a girl, who I found out had a fwb. She made me wait for sex, made me take her out on nice dates, romanticize her, etc. All whi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 08:38 PM |
| 4 | Do you believe in the idea of "just be her first?"don’t think any women I know are holding onto someone because of just sexual experiences with them. More commonly they’ll hold onto someone for emotional reasons So you’re telling me being intimate with someone for the first time isn’t an emotional connection or emotional thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 08:00 PM |
| – | Women consistently rate themselves as being far more attractive than they are, and despite what people here say men rarely do thisI think the biggest issue with men is we don’t realize how women view us. Especially when it comes to fat. This is in large part due to the fact us men have lower body fats than women. So when we look at ourselves in the mirror, we assume we can get a woman of around the same body type. Wrong. The upper limit of ideal body fat for men is ~20%. For women that’s ~30%. If you’re a man and you have a muffin top and some man boobs going, but you don’t look too fat in clothes. Your body fat % is proba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Is personality more important to men or women?Here’s something women don’t understand. We average or below average men don’t get matched and likes with online dating. The pedophiles & nazis with a 6 pack got far far far more matches than the average guy gets. That’s the point. Sure, “some girls” didn’t mind. But that “some” is more than most men have a shot with. Edit: Nice stealth edits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 05:33 PM |
| 3 | How true is the Madonna Whore complex for guys?It’s all about how you present yourself. If you’re in a tube top with your stomach showing, pants so tight they go into your buttcrack and you’re flirting with every guy…I’ll assume you’re “for the streets” as they say. Doesn’t matter how pure you are, if you present yourself like you’re easy, I’ll assume you’ve been with a bunch of guy and write you off in my head as a potential partner. This isn’t really controversial or unknown. If I dress like a hobo and refuse to shower, you’ll probably ass… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 05:30 PM |
| 14 | Is personality more important to men or women?Ironically I think it was the nazi who got the least matches. It was the pedophile who got the most. Many women were telling him “it’s ok, I believe in second chances :) your place or mine?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 08:22 PM |
| 21 | Is personality more important to men or women?Yup. Like that guy who did a tinder experiment. Basically he made the worst possible profiles for hot guys. (I’m talking sex offenders and nazis) Women were completely ok with those traits. Poor guy who did the experiment got very depressed towards the end due to the results. Women were basically throwing themselves at a guy with a nazi tattoo and pedophiles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Why is confidence such an aphrodisiac?Ok you’re just being willfully obtuse. Cya later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?Here’s Dr. K’s explanation. He’s better at explaining things because well…he’s a doctor and I’m not. https://youtu.be/uf8bt6fGQyA?si=P0oBJ5RP3B8fdFP1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 07:54 PM |
| 2 | What is the appeal of casual sex for women?I think it develops in part by us women being flirty and sexual. So it takes two to create the scene. 100%. When I was reading their messages (yes they let me look through their apps and my friend even reads the girl’s messages to me when we are together sometimes to get my opinion) there’s definitely a different tone from the women. I think in person it’s a little easier. The latest lesson I’ve learned is touch. I used to think touching was bad, never touch her, etc. Until I realized that’s mak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 04:02 PM |
| 8 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?https://youtu.be/uf8bt6fGQyA?si=P0oBJ5RP3B8fdFP1 Video I’m referring to ^ However, telling a man to go to therapy is like asking him to give up is masculinity in his eyes. Actually I was listening to a doctor talk about this (I’ll try to find the video). It’s mainly due to the fact therapy is focused on treating women, most therapists are women and most patients are women. Therefore the practice has evolved to cater to women. Men do not go to therapy partially because of ‘masculinity’ but also b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 03:32 PM |
| 2 | What is the appeal of casual sex for women?feel more comfortable being explicit around these guys because we know they’re used to women having a sexuality. But how do you know that though? Or is it just an assumption? Or is it an actual vibe they put off? pretend to be pure and asexual. My only experience with women summarized ^ This guy I ended up dating didn’t clutch his pearls when I talked nasty to him and asked him for sex the first day we met. He was very progressive and understanding towards women and had mostly female friends. Hm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Why is confidence such an aphrodisiac?But even Chad Chaddington will take anything he gets too. That’s my point. I even said it earlier. And here’s a perfect example of what I’m talking about when it comes to “confidence”…from a woman. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/TafqBy6OqP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Why is confidence such an aphrodisiac?If you don’t think you’re good enough, you will take anything I’m sorry, this is just funny XD You don’t understand men very well, this comment is purely from a woman’s perspective. I don’t really see a point in arguing with you when your idea of how men operate is so far from reality. Guys in general will take anything regardless of how they view themselves. We don’t really get the choice of being picky. Testosterone is one hell of a drug too. If your confidence or self esteem is low, rejection… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Why is confidence such an aphrodisiac?the things that women are most wary of are guys that are desperate This would imply a lack of confidence. Not self esteem. indiscriminate Tons of “confident” high tier guys are indiscriminate. They’ll hump almost anything. and guys that are violent/angry. I don’t know if this ties into either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Why is confidence such an aphrodisiac?It’s much easier to be confident if you think you’re worth it, Again. Those are two separate things. Say I’m a player and I get girl’s numbers all the time. I can walk up to you and talk to you and ask for your number confidently. Because I’ve done it 1000 times and I know what I’m doing. Self esteem plays no part in that. You can confidently say 2+2=4 right? Because you’ve done the math, you know how it works, you’re confident in your answer. That has nothing to do with your self esteem. But I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:43 PM |
| 1 | What societal scenario would make redpilled men happy?From what I've consumed, these influencers tell other men to get in shape and get rich to get women. Appearance and wealth. Using their logic, women exclusively pay attention to a man if he's hot and rich. Correct. I’d say the bulk of RP is self improvement. Simultaneously, they denigrate women who date men exclusively for their appearance and money. If you have "cracked the code" to what women supposedly want, and then women agree and materialize their narrative by having the standards you have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Women tell men how to be attractive not sexually attractive and men struggle because of itXD you gotta be a kid or trolling Anxious: experiencing worry, unease, or nervousness, typically about an imminent event or something with an uncertain outcome. Anxious again would be a better word than saying you’re in a state of fear. These words don’t mean what you think they mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Women tell men how to be attractive not sexually attractive and men struggle because of itI'm saying seeing someone with muscles puts everyone in a state of fear Ok you just plain don’t get it. If you’re in a state of fear over this then you need help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 12:39 AM |
| 11 | Why is confidence such an aphrodisiac?One issue with what you said: Self esteem and confidence are sorta related but not the same thing. Confidence is about your belief in your abilities and skill sets. Whereas self esteem is how you value yourself. I’m confident in myself when I do things I’m good at but have low self esteem. Confidence when approaching and talking to women means you’re comfortable with your skill at that. Not how you value yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 12:10 AM |
| 4 | Women tell men how to be attractive not sexually attractive and men struggle because of itScared: thrown into or being in a state of fear, fright, or panic Intimidating: having a frightening, overawing, or threatening effect. The words have different meanings and when you say you’re scared of something, means something different than saying something is intimidating. That’s why people are confused by what you’re trying to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 11:53 PM |
| 12 | Women tell men how to be attractive not sexually attractive and men struggle because of itShe’s being willfully obtuse with you. Best not engage. She knows people are more intimidated by huge large men than scrawny short guys. However, I think I know what you mean and a better term to use is “intimidated” rather than saying you’re scared of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 11:28 PM |
| 6 | Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right?If anything, it disproves blackpill because Melina is way hotter than both Destiny and the new guy. I mean. She’s hitting up Destiny for large sums of money now. I think she’s just looking for guys she can control. Destiny and other dweebs fit the ticket. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 11:18 PM |
| 89 | Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right?You mean his wife fucked around and Destiny found out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 11:16 PM |
| 1 | The most important thing a man can bring to a woman, is attention (and sex)Look, you can argue whatever you want. I’m just telling you how it is, you can disagree with it if it pleases you. And if you don’t like it, then find a guy that shows affection in other ways. It’s not like work is something you do only if you have a partner though, if you are single you will still work and you will still save. Sure, however married men with kids tend to work more hours, go after promotions more and care more about work since it’s tied to their family’s wellbeing. Like driving, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 03:11 PM |
| 0 | The most important thing a man can bring to a woman, is attention (and sex)Again. It’s just how we show affection. And it’s more than just paying the bills. It’s making sure you’re happy and have everything you want. Especially after you and your partner have a kid, guys want to make sure the kid has their best life and free from financial stress and the kid has everything they could need or want. Just overall, making sure everyone is happy in a way he knows how. If you don’t like that and your partner is doing it. Talk to him about it, but realize it’s him trying to s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 02:09 PM |
| 3 | The most important thing a man can bring to a woman, is attention (and sex)Why would men be going around thinking that doing things that have nothing to do with relationships would make for healthy relationships? Because I’d say the majority of men show love by providing things. Working and making sure there’s enough money and food for everyone is how men show our love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 01:59 AM |
| 4 | Have you ever had a realization, or epiphany, about dating that helped put things in perspective?1) It doesn’t matter how nice you are or how interesting you can be. If she doesn’t find you attractive, nothing will happen. 2) If she likes you, she’ll make it obvious. 3) Money doesn’t matter as much as guys make it seem. My most recent: 4) Chasing after them only makes them run away. Stop acting like you want to be with them and they’ll warm up to you faster. This is the most recent revelation. I thought women wanted the flowers, chased and romanced. It wasn’t until I stopped trying and basi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 09:13 PM |
| 33 | What is the appeal of casual sex for women?I wouldn’t say it’s 9/10, I’d say it’s closer to 7/10. But there’s definitely levels to it. I mentioned my friend, he’s 6’2, pretty well built, his fat makes him look very muscular and big, has a good face too. I’d say he’s a 6.5/10. He’s been offered casual sex plenty of times, been on tons of dates, had girls invite him over right off the app but it’s rare. However, he’s a novice compared to: My acquaintance. He’s like 6’4, perfect jawline, perfect hair, perfect smile, all he does is workout, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 07:31 PM |
| 1 | What is the appeal of casual sex for women?I’ll have to figure something out. Maybe I’ll start mowing my lawn more for exercise. Or finally buy some hunting land and do some manual labor out there. Not really a fan of sports tbh but I do like working. As for haircuts. How do I know what actually looks good? I actually used to cut my own hair both to save money and also I don’t like people touching my head. But I don’t know how to tell them what I want besides “3 on the sides, 7 on top” which was my old hairstyle for years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 07:15 PM |
| 9 | What is the appeal of casual sex for women?I’m aware NOW. But the way it felt in the moment feels like women just hated sex or like it was never on their mind. It wasn’t until I got a glimpse of hookup culture and how women treat other guys did it finally click that I’m just undesirable, and women do actually like sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 07:10 PM |
| 2 | What is the appeal of casual sex for women?Don't like the gym? Find something else. I like squash for instance (and gym too). Join a sport club you like. Benefits = you get fit while having fun and you meet new people (women as well) in a relaxed casual environment. I don’t think chess and league of legends are beneficial to this situation lol. The only sport I have played is golf, and I was pretty good at it. But again, it’s not too demanding, especially with a cart. Get into shape, get a nice haircut and enjoy. I do need a haircut, how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 06:24 PM |
| 1 | What is the appeal of casual sex for women?I started having mild success after I went from 230-240lbs down to 190lbs. However, I think part of this equation is age. When I was 18/19 I was 175lbs and pretty fit….and I got nothing. No interest whatsoever but I was also very inexperienced and had a hard time talking in general due to social anxiety. Now I’m 25 and girls ages 21-23 are showing interest in me. But I don’t know we will see. I hate working out, but I also recently went on a date where I actually felt a connection with someone a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 06:04 PM |
| 6 | What is the appeal of casual sex for women?I don’t think it is. I’m not the tallest, most fit or attractive guy. My friends that have casual sex and women offering FWB are both about 6’2 and quite attractive. Both of them have had girls inviting them over for a hookup within a few messages on the apps (it’s kinda rare for my friend, but his friend gets it all the time). I’ve NEVER had that. I’ve never had a girl say “want to come to my place tonight?” Or I’ve never had a girl say “thanks for dinner but I didn’t feel a connection, but we’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 05:41 PM |
| 64 | What is the appeal of casual sex for women?Not sure why so many guys here think women don't like to fuck just because women don't want to have sex with them. Because if your only interaction with women is non-sexual, you can’t really understand women have a sexual side too. It’s not their lived experience, in fact it’s quite contrary to it. All my life women make me jump through hoops for sex (never had it), the girls I talk to all want relationships out of me first, take things slow, no hook ups, etc. I had no idea many women just hook … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 04:17 PM |
| 7 | Why push for a relationship, marriage and even kids when you are fundamentally unable to trust your partner?Huh? If you married someone outside your race and produced a mixed child, you could theoretically tell, couldn't you? No? If I marry a white woman and we had a kid. I don’t know if she slept with another Mexican guy. Plus there’s also genetic variations as well. Some black families have a white kid due to genetic issues. Even then, say two white people had a baby, and that baby appears mixed race, that would be strong evidence that the woman cheated. However you’d still need a paternity test to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 08:35 PM |
| – | Why push for a relationship, marriage and even kids when you are fundamentally unable to trust your partner?NINETEEN out of 20 women admit lying to their partners or husbands, a survey on attitudes to truth and relationships has found. Half said that if they became pregnant by another man but wanted to stay with their partner, they would lie about the baby's real father. https://canadiancrc.com/newspaper_articles/Scotsman_96_percent_of_women_are_liars_09DEC04.aspx Nearly one in 10 mothers does not know who fathered their child, according to a surprise new poll in the United Kingdom. “This means there … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Should paternity tests be mandatory?A family deciding not to have a baby and gets an abortion. Obviously not family matters. Or better yet a woman getting an abortion while the father of the baby is begging her not to. Obviously not family matters. Also. Paternity tests are healthcare, it can be used to confirm potential genetic conditions. Say the father has family history of heart disease, doing the test will confirm the baby is his and might be at risk for heart disease. There you go, healthcare. Or better yet, what happens if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Should paternity tests be mandatory?Personally I would also not want my tax money to be spent on other people’s family matters. Interesting take. Does this include abortion and funding for planned parenthood? If anything, the couples should be the ones paying for the tests. Perhaps the government should promote the tests (rather than forcing them) by subsidizing the testing services or providing tax deductions to the couples if the tests show no infidelity (no more than once in each person’s life). This doesn’t deal with the issue… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Is there ceiling to women's sexual hypergamy?Lmao. So you go from “guys can’t have more than one” To “Bro, a woman can have 3 orgasms in 3 minutes and doesn't need to master a technique for that.” Just can’t admit I’m right huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Is there ceiling to women's sexual hypergamy?Lmao. It takes about 20 minutes for the first orgasm. After they get going it takes about 3-10ish minutes between orgasms, with each orgasm being a full body orgasm lasting about a minute. Can last for an hour or more. Closest thing a guy can have to the female orgasm, though it does take a while to learn because it’s so different than what men are used to. Getting to this state takes deep relaxation and is far more mental, it’s not like the normal orgasm guys experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Is there ceiling to women's sexual hypergamy?My sweet summer child. You must not know how to read if you think that’s what I meant. It’s a common misconception that guys can only have 1 orgasm. Most guys aren’t willing to try becoming multi orgasmic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 05:42 PM |
| 0 | Is there ceiling to women's sexual hypergamy?Also, a woman can orgasm multiple times and a man only once. Not true. How do we know those men don't put those toys up their arses? This is how guys can be multi-orgasmic lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceYou know. You might be right. First I learned to walk before I ran. First I learned how to talk to a girl without stuttering (yes I had this issue), then I got actual experience on a date and talk to them, then I learned how to do this better, then it morphed into at least talking to them to a second date, and now this. It could just be me slowly learning and improving because I keep getting further in each date. And perhaps you’re right, she’s in the past, I barely knew her, time to let her go … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 01:39 AM |
| 0 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceHmm…I know women love to be led and want to “follow” the man. I don’t know about the part about sex. But if it is true then yeah…I guess my inexperience did mess it up….that really depressing tbh. I don’t know if I can be that “smash anything” type of guy though. Is it really worth it though? I guess I’m 25 and ruined what could’ve been the perfect date with an amazing girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceAnd then I realized why she distanced herself - clearly she realised I was desperate, and to avoid me becoming even more clingy she decided to slip away instead of risking a confrontation. Hm. I think this is a very real possibility. Maybe I came off too affectionate and desperate at the end of the night and that put her off. I don’t think I did anything wrong for 90% of the date but the last part I think I just got too excited and affectionate. I don’t know. I am no going to stalk her or spam m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceYeah maybe. Honestly what’s confusing me the most is how being around her made me feel. It feels like everything I thought I knew about relationships just changed. And I don’t understand what I was actually feeling or why. And it’s like lasting. I’m not mad or anything at anything right now. I just feel calm (and mildly sick) . And in that moment I just felt calm and I don’t know. It’s just weird and I liked it. I have never felt like that before and I don’t know if I will again but I do. Ugh. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceThe food wasn’t good. It was a restaurant and the food was awful. Could that be it? Wouldn’t she have left sooner then? If so, it has to be the flight sims. She asked about it and I didn’t perceive it. Perhaps she didn’t feel listened to and then got turned off after she left. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceOh… I offered to “take it up stairs” after like 10-15 minutes of making out and she said not at this time or not this moment or something. So I didn’t ask again or be pushy about it because she said no. I didn’t want to be “that guy”. Plus she had to leave sorta soon because it was getting late. Odds are it’s something else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 06:50 PM |
| 0 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceNo? I’m being serious. I really don’t know what else I needed to offer her. I’m literally sitting at work unable to focus because of this. I’m just replaying everything in my head over and over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 06:42 PM |
| 0 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceI mean I gave her water, and offered food & alcoholic beverages. I don’t know what else to offer? Now that I think about it she asked to look at my PC after I was telling her about VR flight sims. I showed her the PC, but looking back I think she wanted to try flying something. Should I have booted up DCS? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 06:03 PM |
| 0 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceI have no idea. She basically planning out the second date as she was leaving. I’m kinda hoping one of the women on this sub will read this and provide some insight or if a guy experienced the same thing. Honestly I don’t know if her sudden rejection is confusing me or hurting me or if I’m just plain confused by what happened that night. I just don’t know. It has to be me though and I was already thinking it was my inexperience. She was asking about my dating history, I lied and said I was in a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 06:02 PM |
| 0 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceWhat do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 05:56 PM |
| 8 | Inexperience in older men is a disadvantage, not a death sentenceThere is no way for a woman to tell that you're inexperienced other than if you tell her or if you make it obvious through your physical/social qualities, in which case you should work on those if you want to have success in dating. Apparently. Y’all probably think I’m an incel at this point if you know me. But I went on a date this weekend, it went really well I thought. I’ve never been on a date like that before. I’ve been on like 10ish first dates and I don’t know how to describe it. It was l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?But I don’t want to expand my social circle. I’m fine with the friends I have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 08:47 PM |
| 80 | Why are people only inquisitive when women fall short?I think a better way to put it is couple’s therapy: When a woman is thinking about cheating, did cheat or is looking at other men….it’s because she’s not being fulfilled in the bedroom by her husband, and it’s her husband that needs to put in the effort to make a better home life so his wife isn’t thinking about getting that satisfaction she needs from other men. When a man is thinking about cheating, did cheat or is looking at other women….well he’s a no good pig that’s cheating and she needs t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 03:24 PM |
| 4 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?And that’s also why we advise guys to get off the apps and find ways to meet women in real life. And where would that be? Women have made it abundantly clear they don’t want to be approached by men in their day to day. Don’t talk to women at the gym because they’re there to workout. Don’t hit on women at the store because they’re there to shop. Don’t flirt with women while they’re on the job because she’s there to work. Don’t approach them on the street because you’ll scare her. Don’t ask out yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 07:55 PM |
| 5 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?Not at all. Danny devito isn't on anyone's list because of his looks, he's an incredibly charming dude. And for every one Danny there’s 20 Zac Efrons. I still don't see what this is supposed to prove. But even in those instances, unless he called or went to those locations it just sounds like more larping online to push an agenda. Girls were literally joking about rape of children and saying “it’s in the past, come to my place” You’re just trying to discredit it because you don’t want to believe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 07:31 PM |
| 5 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?I don't think anyone disagrees with the idea that all genders will throw themselves at people they find attractive. I'm also not sure how that debunks anything because game and confidence was never about a sure fire 100% blueprint for success. It's about maximizing your chances. But I see “confidence” and “game” as your looks. It’s called the halo effect. Sure and it's entirely possible he was matching with other people catfishing. If it never actually led to any encounters in person, it's not m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 06:50 PM |
| 10 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?The fact women just throw themselves at attractive men. To debunk the whole idea of “game” and “confidence”. There was even that guy who made fake accounts of hot men with nazi tattoos and history of consuming cheese pizza. Those guys still got matches like crazy with women offering them sex. The kicker was he actually got depressed with how women treated this fictional men because it took no effort on his end for them to offer sex despite the guy’s being so awful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?Nope. I’ve only been on 1 second date and it ended in disaster. All the girls I have dated: Girl 1) Met her on tinder freshman year of college. We agree to go see a movie, I show up early and buy the tickets…she then texts me saying she’ll be a little late but in time for the movie. Ok whatever, I waited and no response. She showed up an hour and a half late after the movie started. So me being blue pilled with no backbone I bought another set of tickets. When she showed up, I found out she was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?Lol. If you’re going on a purely normal distribution then a perfect 10 doesn’t exist. For that reason I stop my ratings at 9, and start them at 2. Leonardo DiCaprio, Brad Pitt, Chris Hemmsworth, etc are all at the top. For him to reach that level he’d need a job, move out, get a hobby, etc. I also forgot to mention he’s insanely whiney and entitled. He’s never had a job before. He has a bachelor’s degree but doesn’t use it. He didn’t play any sports. I would say he’s a 9 if he got a little more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?Mostly just when I ask "I'm not looking for anything serious rn", or "I just got out of a relationship", or "figuring myself out" etc. Yeah I dont think I’ve gotten that lol. Majority of the girls I have asked say they are looking for long term stuff. Sometimes they’ll say something like “whatever happens happens, but I want to be friends first” or whatever. Although NOW I avoid asking about that until the date or after because I’ve heard the question “what are you looking for on here” puts most… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?Hard to say since I’m a guy. I’d say he’s attractive but I don’t think he could model. Hence why I said he’s 5.5. He can be a 6 when he puts effort into his appearance. He’s overweight but his fat is distributed pretty well so he looks like he’s bulking versus just fat. Like with me, all my fat goes into my stomach and chest whereas with him the fat goes all over and he looks like a construction worker. If he worked out and cut the fat % then he’d be rocking the apps even more. Now I mentioned t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?This did not happen lol, I would get probably 1 or 2 matches per day who had a 50/50 chance of chatting. Actually not bad. I have a slightly higher rate of them responding, I would say around 70% actually respond. However of those women that respond, I’d say about 40% just reply to the first message, and then stop. Then about 50% stop chatting after the first day. They just never respond again. The remaining 10%: half probably just want to talk and never meet for a date and the other half agree … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 03:25 PM |
| – | Why do women pick the worst partners?I say it’s because women don’t understand men. They can’t see through the mask some men wear while men can because: 1) We know the tricks some men pull 2) We don’t have the “rose colored glasses” 3) We know what it’s like being a guy and can tell when another man is lying about his intentions or something else. We can read other men better. I think men understand men better than women do so we can see when a guy is just up to no good. This is why you hear so many stories of a girl bringing home … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 03:13 PM |
| 14 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?Welp. Nevermind then. I’m 5’7 and probably a 4/10. Though, I’ve let myself go this past year. I want to will lose weight and try again. Probably got 10 matches per week, of whom 5 messaged and maybe 1 or 2 offered to hook up, or made it clear they were only interested in casual. Im being dead serious when I say this: This is so far removed from my lived experiences that I cannot comprehend this experience. I do know two guys that have similar experiences with OLD; but still it’s hard for me to i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 02:48 PM |
| 11 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?When I had tinder I got probably 1-2 offers for casual sex weekly (or them implying it) Wtf. Teach me your ways. I’ve been on tinder since I was 18 and never had that happen to me. I only get about 1 match every other week or less though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 02:09 PM |
| -1 | What do you think people mean when they talk about a "submissive" partner?I’d say yes outside of planning and things like that. I think all relationships need submissiveness to work. Women hate planning their own dates lol. They like being told where to go and what time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 10:23 PM |
| -1 | What do you think people mean when they talk about a "submissive" partner?In most cases when I see “submissive” used by men it means a woman that won’t argue over everything, doesn’t have to be right all the time, doesn’t need to be “dealt with”, won’t start fights, knows what battles to have, knows that people aren’t perfect, and overall just brings peace to home. Basically it’s a word used to describe women that are not belligerent. When I see feminists or women use the word submissive they try to spin it to mean controlled, no independence, subservient to man, etc.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do women generally view sugar daddies less creepily than older men dating and marrying younger womenHm. This just made me think of that recent Caleb Hammer video. With the ‘spiritual’ California girl who is an oppressed woman that also gets paid to go on dates with sugar daddies. She also doesn’t work by choice and is on food stamps….as she was bragging about buying designer clothes and the expensive dog food. Oh and of course she rejects capitalism and refuses to participate in it…yet she doesn’t seem to have an issue when guys want to buy her services. And she’s also starting an ad company b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 01:50 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION: Are autistic men just "lazy" when it comes to dating, friendship and employment struggles?Social skills are very important in the start of the dating. Remember a relationship isn't just in the dating phase That’s great to hear. But social skills are a barrier to entry for a relationship. As you said yourself, it’s only important in the beginning but you still need the initial attention and initial dating phase. That’s like telling an 18 year old that it doesn’t matter your age when you’re at the bar counter, you can get a glass of water. But you fail to mention to get into the bar to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 09:34 PM |
| – | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?I mean sure if we had two completely identical and equal guys; but one had a ton of money while the other was broke then yes you’re right. However as you said, it won’t make you jump multiple levels. Women aren’t going to know you’re rich unless they talk to you or you flaunt it. If you flaunt it then gold diggers will come, and normal girls will have an “ick”. And if you don’t flaunt it then women will never know. Also doctors overwhelmingly marry other doctors or healthcare workers. Think abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 07:33 PM |
| – | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?Usually wealth or social status. I gotta disagree with at least the first part. Money means nothing to women in the west. UNLESS you’re willing to spend it on her, then all you get are gold diggers. But that only works when she finds you attractive and is interested in you. Some hot guy who lives paycheck to paycheck will do immensely better than some average or below average looking rich guy. As for social status, we know the halo effect, we know most managers are over 6’ tall. Social status im… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 05:33 PM |
| 5 | What is the evolutionary advantage to having the orgasm gap?^ The guy you replied to probably just gets his info from porn. Where every girl has an orgasm every time by the skilled male talent. Closest thing I’ve heard a man can experience to a female orgasm is a prostate orgasm. Can’t force those, you have to be in almost a trance state of mind, relaxed but aroused at the same time, and you can’t force it to happen you have to relax into it. Very hard to figure out as well. For those 18+ and interested, lookup aneros and go down that rabbit hole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 01:36 PM |
| 1 | What sapiosexuals actually are attracted to: being mentally toyed withI thought Sapiosexual was some sort of astrology thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Does Any Man Actually Do Better On Dating Apps Than In Real Life?Neither for me. Apps gave me some of the worst dates of my life. In person never worked out for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 12:25 PM |
| – | Does Any Man Actually Do Better On Dating Apps Than In Real Life?Facts. “I can get laid every night by going out” And “I don’t do well on apps” Cannot coexist. I only know of one guy who can get laid anytime he goes out and he has girls lined up on the apps too. In fact he prefers the apps because it’s cheaper than going out and he doesn’t have to do anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.I think that could be a possibility or a at the least a factor; and it’s something I’ve not considered before. So thank you for sharing your thoughts. However I gotta disagree about people wanting to live with their parents into their 30s. I don’t think anyone wants that and if they do…well…oof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Why men will judge your personality and character based on how you dress and act and why it makes complete rational sense to do so when choosing a 'wifey material' woman.Ah yes. Because couple’s diets to get the guy to lose weight is never joked about. Or women buying their boyfriend’s new clothes because she hates the way he used to dress. Or women getting jealous of her boyfriend’s friends so they act mad and needy to guilt trip him into spending more time with her. Yeah. I’m sure nobody has ever heard of these very common situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 10:25 PM |
| 7 | Women, what is your perception of the male experience? What do you think life is like for us, or in what ways do you imagine or see it differing?Too many men place their self worth in the crumbling idea of masculinity and women. I think some men never had a sense of self beyond patriarchal norms so without that guide they don’t know how to act. Instead of finding that out by living life, a lot look to a guru/grifter who doesn’t have their best interests at heart. Basically the end of the Barbie movie when she’s talking to Ken about just being Ken. I agree. The reason most men do anything is for women. The reason all my friends want the h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 10:14 PM |
| 0 | Why men will judge your personality and character based on how you dress and act and why it makes complete rational sense to do so when choosing a 'wifey material' woman.Nobody has ever said men need to accept women as they are. So you’re saying men can easily say “I love her but I’m making her go on a diet with me for her to lose weight.” Or “I love everything about her, but she dresses horribly. She shows way to much cleavage and thigh. I’m just going shopping and surprise her with better clothes and get rid of those thot clothes.” Or “I don’t like her spending nights with those friends of hers. I don’t know what they’re doing so I’m just going to act needy to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.Hmm. I’ll have to look into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.Why? How? Aren’t they just friend groups of women anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.Most no. The worst of the worst all came from online dating. That place is hell unless you look like Ken. However girls I knew or was acquaintances with were not as bad but not amazing either. Most of them just want to be friends with me and have 0 romantic interests with me. So it’s not like those relationships go anywhere besides the friend zone. However again, it’s not like I have many options irl. Especially now that I’m getting older (almost 25), basically every normal or good girl I know i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.No shizz I should choose better. But choose between what? The girl that doesn’t shower or the girl that brought all her friends to the date and expected me to pay for them? Or between the other girl that doesn’t shower and bragged about it or the girl who complained for 2 hours straight about her ex, her step mom and her ovarian cysts? My point being. My options aren’t exactly stellar. I’m not attractive to just normal girls. I just want a normal girlfriend. Apparently that’s too much for me to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.Yeah ok you’re just a troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.What are you talking about? Most RP people don’t say to go to clubs. In fact they list those are places to avoid because of how superficial they are and the fact you aren’t going to meet quality women there. (Other places include online dating which is where the dates from hell came from) Do you know what the RP is? Or are you just trolling rn? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.I don’t go to clubs, bars or anything. Heck I don’t even drink. Which also puts women off, but it is what it is. And the women that are attracted to me aren’t just superficial. Heck, most have weighed more than I do too. They’re a whole host of negative traits including narcissistic, mental health issues, lazy, etc. I’ve had 2 dates now where the woman didn’t shower for days and one even bragged about it. Going on dates with them isn’t fun, it feels like I’m getting teeth pulled just being next … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 05:28 PM |
| 4 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.Yeah it was a borderline rant lol. I think the issue is many guys take the red pill, and then do nothing and expect something to change…and it doesn’t. So they get mad. Me personally I’ve tried things with moderate success. I used to be obese, play video games all day, watch anime, never showered, etc. I found red pill content and realized it’s my fault all along. I lost about 70lbs (now I’m just overweight), I started getting haircuts and showering. I picked up hobbies, and got my life together… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.This is the real question. MGTOW isn’t an option because the men that go their own way, the women don’t want them in the first place. It changes nothing. The only thing I could see is for all men to stop sleeping with women out of wedlock. But that’ll never happen, maybe when pigs fly it will. Imo, red pill should be taken and it’s up to the man to improve himself to then become desirable to women. Women will always want the top 10% of men, the man’s goal should be to become as close to that as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 04:37 PM |
| 9 | Why men will judge your personality and character based on how you dress and act and why it makes complete rational sense to do so when choosing a 'wifey material' woman.if you're going to judge women then women are going to judge back. it's so funny because all men do in these subs is complain women judge them based on looks, height weight Looks and height are both genetic. We can’t control those. Weight is fine to judge imo, people can control that. What I don’t like is when an obese woman judges guys for being overweight. Same thing with those women that are like 5’ yet demand a guy that’s 6’3. Same with those guys that are obese but demand a skinny girlfrien… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 03:21 PM |
| 1 | What do you believe is the benefit of your specific "Pill" philosophy?What Pill do you identify with? Dark red Where did you learn about that particular philosophy? Interesting question. I always say women I’ve interacted with red pilled me more than anyone on the internet or YouTube. in one sentence, what are the main tenets of your pill philosophy? Women are more shallow than they claim to be. How much do you identity with it? i.e. is it 100% of your focus, do you barely think about it, or somewhere in between? Somewhere in between. Learning about the halo effec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 06:53 PM |
| 0 | Does anyone else think flirting is so embarrassing?I think the issue is growing up we are taught that flirting is pick up lines and saying a girl looks cute. This is just puts women off I’ve found. Real flirting is teasing her and subtly hinting at suggestive things or making it seem like she’s the one being suggestive (part of teasing). However, flirting only works when she’s into you. If she is not into you, then it’s just creepy. But you also can’t over do it because that’s creepy too, and you can’t under do it because then she’s not interest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Do you think people find you boring?Weird. I feel the same way. I don’t know if I would want them over at my house, as mentioned it’s weird or perhaps I’m not used to it. I never had people over growing up. In fact when I bought my house, my friend came up and stayed over for a day and that was the first time someone has ever slept over. Anyway, it’s a little much for me but I wouldn’t mind being around them for like an hour or two once every other week or so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Do you think people find you boring?Thank you for the suggestion but I do not think it would work. 1) I’m not attractive. Which is probably another reason why people find me boring (lack of the halo effect). I’m probably a 3 or a 4/10. Out of the 24 years I’ve been alive, I’ve only had one girl find me sexually attractive but it was complicated and I turned down intercourse. 2) Dating apps don’t work for me. This year I did put effort into it. All new photos with good lighting and me doing things. AI helped write my bios so they w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 10:49 PM |
| 4 | Do you think people find you boring?Yeah people find me quite boring. Why? I don’t know. I don’t go out at all. My hobbies are pretty bland and solo (video games, archery/hunting). I’m also not very good socially so people find it quite hard to talk to me for long periods of time so most people never find out interesting things about me. For example, I used to work on ships, I went to firefighting school, I used to play in golf tournaments and was quite good, I used to repair golf clubs for pro golfers, etc. Honestly. As I grow ol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 10:39 PM |
| 1 | What Percentage of College Girls Are This Superficial?Certainly not all. However I’ve found the ones with reasonable expectations were still with their high school sweethearts or got picked up freshman year. The ones that are single were absolutely shallow. I’ve never been in a relationship so this is mostly my observations and opinions but…from what I’ve gathered from users on Reddit is that relationships take time and work to build to be meaningful. I imagine girl’s with a healthy mindset towards relationships know this and thus keep the relation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 03:29 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of OnlyFans whales such as this one?Just wait till people find out how much I’ve donated to Poki. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 02:19 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Women complain about the double standards when it comes to sex while also identifying the reason when it’s convenientI think a better example of a double standard would be birth control and the debate around child support. I think men should be able to opt out of child support if women can opt out of pregnancy. But. People will then turn around and say “well the man should’ve thought about pregnancy before he had sex if he didn’t want a kid” Meanwhile if you say we should ban women from having an unneeded abortion because women should’ve thought about pregnancy before she had sex. Well that same statement face… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 01:50 AM |
| 0 | Women possess no empathy for men and should stop lying about it.You literally just proved my point and I don’t think you realized it… Privilege is invisible to those who have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 10:16 PM |
| -1 | Women possess no empathy for men and should stop lying about it.That’s great that you can wake up and know you’re awesome. But you’ve never experienced what it’s like waking up and knowing literally nobody cares about you. As a woman you know that if you walked down the street and offered sex you’d have your offer taken. You know you could go to the bar and get hit on or walk down the street and be approached. You can setup a OLD profile and get matches instantly. Men don’t have that luxury. Our value is in our labor or death. That’s when people actually car… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do guys here keep making arguments that imply bigger chicks are automatically unattractive?I wouldn’t consider Billie fat. She’s just average. When I think of fat, I think of Lizzo and bigger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 07:38 PM |
| 13 | Low value guys always pretend they're better than low value women and its hilarious.It’s a man hating troll account. What do you expect? She doesn’t even try to act in good faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Having 0 suitors and 100 suitors is the same thing if you don’t like any of themBut that isn’t what the question is asking. Do you know what a suitor is? Suitor: a man who pursues a relationship with a particular woman, with a view to marriage. Women don’t go chasing average men And obviously you’re clearly not a woman when you say they should somehow consider diseased rapists as options. Are you challenged? Or just a troll? Because I think anyone at a 1st grade reading level would know that’s not what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 05:34 PM |
| 11 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experienceYeah it’s really annoying when a girl goes like: Girl: You’re such a great guy! Any girl would be lucky to have you. I wish I had a boyfriend like you! Me: Well I’m a guy like me! Wanna go out this weekend? Girl: lol no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 04:24 PM |
| 17 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experienceIn my experience, the men who are generally not very attractive or successful but who are absolutely lovely, funny, and respectful will be able to get sex pretty easily and ultimately find a partner (not through the apps, but through real life human interaction via mutual friends or shared hobbies, group activities, etc). Hm. Hard to trust what you say. Most women find the average man as unattractive, and most sub 5 men are invisible to women so…that unattractive guy could be a 6/10 but just not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 12:51 PM |
| 5 | Having 0 suitors and 100 suitors is the same thing if you don’t like any of themLmao. Try and argue semantics. Nothing changes. If she has 100 rapists or diseased men chasing after her and no good people, then again. That says something more about her. There’s a near 0% chance that all 100 men are basement dwelling Reddit mods that look like an obese Gollum. Back in reality. Women do have 100 suitors, many of them would be great guys but they don’t meet her minimum standards and never get a shot. And again. You’re obviously not a man when you say they won’t give unwanted at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 12:03 PM |
| 7 | Having 0 suitors and 100 suitors is the same thing if you don’t like any of themDoesn’t that just prove women are too picky then? If 100 men don’t meet her minimum standard, then doesn’t that reflect more about her? And if she’s that picky then it makes sense why the guys have 0 suitors. If a guy had 100 unwanted suitors, he’d still go on dates. But that’s not the way the world works, women just don’t approach men unless he’s extremely attractive. Majority of women want to be pursued. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 04:26 AM |
| 9 | Having 0 suitors and 100 suitors is the same thing if you don’t like any of themHm. 100 suitors: 50 dates, 10 relationships, 2 potential winners, none work out. 0 suitors: 0 dates, no relationships, die alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:56 AM |
| 6 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtWhy do you guys keep insisting on having babies with women you cannot trust arent whores? By that logic then: Why do you women keep insisting on having relationships with abusive men? There’s no need for women’s shelters. People change. Guys might not even know she’s cheating. But imo. Women will never understand the fear men have of having a kid that isn’t theirs. With women, they 100% know it’s theirs. Men can never 100% know without the test. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:15 AM |
| 2 | For those who believe it’s impossible to find women who aren’t promiscuous - do you believe promiscuity is natural in women then?You can find them. Now if you want to be with them…that’s a different story. They’re either extremely religious or a walking red flag with severe self esteem issues and other mental issues. Last girl I went on a date with was a virgin. Cool, I am too. But she also refused to shower for the date and bragged about it. She had pretty bad depression and anxiety. To give you an idea how she smelled, go for a nice long run and then smell your underwear. Needless to say we didn’t lose our virginities t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 10:41 PM |
| 1 | What age does being a male virgin become a massive red flag?In my defense You’ve gone through school, I did but it was almost all male. I had 3 girls in my grade out of 32 students uni, college, I did for 2 years which I had some success talking to girls but none wanted to date. I finished the rest online after my mom got sick. school clubs, Never joined any. shitty retail or hospitality jobs, The girls at my retail job were WAYYYYY out of my league. I did like one that I thought I had a shot with until she ended up dating my other coworker. weddings, pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women?Hmm. Anonymous account but based on your argument style I’m assuming you’re a woman, probably in your 30s or 40s. Am I right? So because they're more violent with their methods of offing themselves that makes them less dysfunctional than women? Men also commit more violent crimes against others too. I’m making assumptions purely based on this first statement. First off. YOU said men commit suicide more than women, therefore they’re dysfunctional. Which I corrected you because men die from suicid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women?Actually women attempt suicide more than men but men just use more lethal methods. (Aka women have more failed suicides) As for alcohol and drug use. You could reduce that down to men engaging in risky behavior more than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 04:11 PM |
| 5 | Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women?A red flag I find in women is when they disagree, they’ll just find 1 thing they feel right about and focus on that while ignoring everything else. And it might not even be relevant to the issue at hand. Those types of women are just toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:52 PM |
| 4 | Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women?I think there’s a few things 1) Majority of men don’t really get to pick and choose what women they can date. I mean we don’t have a large pool of women who we can just go out with. So in a sense, beggars can’t be choosers. For example, the women I work with are all in relationships and with online dating I am lucky to get one match a month, which leads to about one or two dates a year. If I were to wait for Miss. Sane&Functional I’d be waiting for a while. 2) 1 in 4 women are on psych meds. I’d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Who are the bad boys women like? Confident men or dangerous/evil men?Yeah I’d say that’s the bad boy type that you’re into. That’s assuming the parties are more than birthdays and the drugs is more than caffeine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 01:38 PM |
| 17 | Why do men feel entitled to romance and or intimacy?“Just be confident” - The guy that looks like Chris Hemsworth “Learn to love yourself” - The girl who has 5 guys on speed dial because she can’t be alone by herself “Just go talk to her” - The 6’4 guy who’s never cold approached anyone because he slays on tinder “Just pick up a hobby to meet women” - The girl whose hobbies include Starbucks, shopping and Instagram All these give off the same vibe as “You don’t need a relationship and sex to be happy” - The person who hasn’t gone a month without … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 07:13 PM |
| 1 | The thing women don't understand is that there are millions of eligible women out there and a lot of guys can't get ONE (1) girlfriend.I mean I’m just taking what your article said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 06:32 PM |
| 2 | The thing women don't understand is that there are millions of eligible women out there and a lot of guys can't get ONE (1) girlfriend.According to that article they changed their methods and reduced the sample size to arrive to that result. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 03:50 PM |
| – | The thing women don't understand is that there are millions of eligible women out there and a lot of guys can't get ONE (1) girlfriend.Lot of women date older so it skews the statistic. That’s the only possible explanation there are far more single men than women in their 20’s. Only by a few years. I think the average age gap is 2 years. I think this could explain it if you’re only looking at 18-20 year old guys, but we still see the growing disparity 25-30 year olds too. I believe it makes more sense that women are just getting into relationships or “situationships” with the same few guys. Reasoning being the sexless gap, ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 02:35 PM |
| – | The best thing we can probably do to fix our current dating infrastructure is to just tone down the social pressure to be in a relationship, encourage more self-actualization within society and have people live life in a more organic pace[as opposed to a robotic one]I think that’s the opposite approach needed. Less social pressure to be in a relationship will lead to more casual sex and casual dating. This heavily skews towards women and good looking guys. So we will likely just see more of the issues we see today, if not worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 01:57 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women are selecting guys for social points, and men here seem to not understand how this works.Ty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 10:10 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women are selecting guys for social points, and men here seem to not understand how this works.Who says you have to sit in the sidelines? The women that are playing the game. I don’t get taken off the bench to play. They control it. Have fun doing the things you love. Yeah. Oh joy. I’ll spend the next 6 years without a significant other while I play Minecraft and shop my bow. Only when they turn 27 and have a kid, 10 exes and tons of baggage do I finally get to be with them. What a deal. Confidence is built from achievement, I can’t give my opinion on this sub about this topic because the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 10:04 PM |
| 2 | A lot of women are selecting guys for social points, and men here seem to not understand how this works.Oh joy… So the women currently my age and younger get to run around and have fun while I sit on the sidelines. Once they get tired they decide I’m worthy of their time? What a deal for me…everyone’s last pick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 09:51 PM |
| 1 | The double standard: man has alot of sexual partners = good. Woman has alot of sexual partners = bad. Is misunderstood.Mhm. Interesting isn’t it? And think, that 75% of men would have sex with a random girl that approached them on the street. What do you think that percentage is on first dates? I would be willing to bet it’s over 95% And, it’s my opinion as a guy, that the 75% number would be much higher. But, some of those guys probably thought it was a joke, had a girlfriend/wife, or was worried she’d rob or harm them if they agreed. So I imagine if the researched followed up with the guys that said no, and as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 05:37 PM |
| 1 | The double standard: man has alot of sexual partners = good. Woman has alot of sexual partners = bad. Is misunderstood.Sorry sis. It’s not me projecting, it’s the fact I’m a man and I know how men think better than you do. Here’s an interesting article about the Hatfield studies. Basically they had men and women stand on a college campus and offer the other sex either a date or casual sex on the spot to see what would happen. Usurpingly the majority of men would have sex with a random girl they met on the street if she offered sex. You can read the article about how journals didn’t want to publish the paper unti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 03:15 PM |
| -1 | The double standard: man has alot of sexual partners = good. Woman has alot of sexual partners = bad. Is misunderstood.Not all men are desperate for sex. Typical, just wanting to play semantic games. Sure, not ALL men are. But the overwhelming majority are. And did I say desperate for sex? No. If it’s offered or available, they’re not going to say no and in the vast majority of cases it’s men who initiate sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Women are extremely selective and that's okay.…welp I guess it doesn’t get better. Tbh, I always thought that was a lie. That once you hit 30s that it changes, I figured it was either women are done sleeping around and now bring their baggage to you. Or they keep doing it and nothing changes besides you getting older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 01:08 PM |
| – | The double standard: man has alot of sexual partners = good. Woman has alot of sexual partners = bad. Is misunderstood.Honestly not even going to try with this comment. You either have no clue what you’re talking about or you’re trying to use exceptions to disprove the general rule. Who wants sex more? Men Who is down almost all the time? Men Therefore it’s women that decide both who has sex and when it happens in the relationship. First half of your comment is acting as if every man is some virtuous Christian that waits till marriage and the second half is acting as if men have no sex drive. Both of which are d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 02:39 AM |
| 6 | The double standard: man has alot of sexual partners = good. Woman has alot of sexual partners = bad. Is misunderstood.No, women do not “control” the sexual market, so long as we are talking about consensual sex. Yeah women don’t control the market, they just use sex as leverage to get what they want from men. They also control when sex happens in a relationship. Basically every guy would want to do it on the first date, it’s up to women when they want it. And if good looking men have an easy time getting laid, shouldn’t such men be criticized if they sleep around a lot, according to your own logic? Agreed. Howe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 12:56 AM |
| 5 | Women are extremely selective and that's okay.If you advertise your wealth on dating apps or IRL in any way, stop doing that, it will get you nothing but insufferable gold diggers. I do not do this lol, maybe I should? I think only in one of my photos I’m wearing a Rolex. The other photos I don’t have a watch on or it’s my Grand Seiko. Otherwise I dress like a normal guy. I have a photo of myself in PCB, a photo of me with my bow, and the rest are just basic candid photos of me in like a flannel or t shirt. You are better off pretending to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 07:43 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women are selecting guys for social points, and men here seem to not understand how this works.I can see that. Women enter relationships due to looks and stay for money to put it simply? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 07:28 PM |
| 29 | Women are extremely selective and that's okay.Dude. You’re spitting facts. I have a similar experience. I have an acquaintance that is about 6’3-4, perfect jaw line, bright blue eyes with blonde hair. He’s 26 and has no job, lives with his parents, no degree. All he does is workout and complain. This guy gets more dates per week than I’ve ever been on, in fact the GIRLS ask him out and plan the dates sometimes or just straight up invite him over to hookup. I’ve seen the conversations on hinge, the girls literally just invite him over after … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 02:26 PM |
| 2 | A lot of women are selecting guys for social points, and men here seem to not understand how this works.I gotta disagree. I’m 24, make 6 figures and am worth 7. Girls don’t give a f about it. In fact, none would even find out because they don’t give me the time of day. Ok might be a little extreme. I think they do care somewhat, but again, they’d rather have the hot guy whom they can fix versus the guy with everything together. And that’s assuming they give you a chance. Ask me how I know. I’m not 25+ yet so we shall see once I reach that age but judging from others, it doesn’t get better. When Co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 01:08 PM |
| 4 | A lot of women are selecting guys for social points, and men here seem to not understand how this works.Ok? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Men are looking for casual sex and fwbs whether you want to hear it or not.Did I say skinny? I said not morbidly obese. Overweight is fine. Even borderline obese is fine. Or are you suggesting obese and overweight women deserve skinny and fit men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 04:52 AM |
| 35 | A lot of women are selecting guys for social points, and men here seem to not understand how this works.The longer time goes on, the more I think women don’t actually care about money anymore. Yes, some do. But the overwhelming majority of women would rather have some arm candy to brag about on social media than some average looking guy with a good job. And go watch interviews with women. They almost always say they’d rather have the hot guy with issues and “fix” him over an average guy who has it all together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Men are looking for casual sex and fwbs whether you want to hear it or not.As a fellow man I feel attacked. I don’t want a virgin trad wife. I just want a wife that is kind and is not morbidly obese. That’s it. But apparently that’s too much to ask for which is why I keep feeling more like an incel as time goes on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 08:06 PM |
| 11 | Guys should start denying women sex, stop being too available for them and start treating them back, exactly they way women treated you.Majority of guys don't even have a chance of denying women sex. Spot on. Freshman year of college I denied a girl sex, little did I know that was the only chance I was going to get for the next 6, coming up on 7 years. Still yet to have another shot. I’m sure someone will ask why. Well, she and I were lab partners and it was the second week of classes when she invited me back to her dorm for homework. This was after she started texting me quite explicit stuff and sent me photos of her in a bra. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 03:47 PM |
| 38 | Do you think there’s a lack of good men?instead of picking a guy who is on his way to be super but not quite there If it all were a race. Back in the day women waited about halfway and picked a man to help cross the finish line. Modern women just wait finish line to get with the top 3 finishers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 01:08 PM |
| 14 | What percentage of Women do Men believe have attractive personalities?We know that 80 percent of women meet the attractive enough to sleep with standard but what percentage of women meet the I want to make you my wife and devote my life to you standard? Honestly I don’t know. Women don’t give me the time of day for them to know me or for me to know them. Based off that, 1% of all women? That small percentage being girls that will actually talk to me, and even less are ones that I’m attracted to, and even less ones that would actually be a good fit. So the real num… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy has made mostly made dating apps a tool for men to sleep with women they wouldn't date and women to chase after men out of their league who have no interest in anything seriousMy question is why would 2 percent of the male population being virgins at age 25 be so bad? Why is this treated like its a crisis of somesort? Yes that is a lot of people and yes it can hurt to be part of a group that wants something badly that they struggle to obtain but Social breakdown is the biggest issue. When men don’t have a family, you see them engage in risky behavior and overall be a drag to society. On top of that the stats show women are hooking up with men, and the men they’re hook… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy has made mostly made dating apps a tool for men to sleep with women they wouldn't date and women to chase after men out of their league who have no interest in anything seriousEveryone is having less sex though and leaving their houses less than they used to. Except for women. There are more virgin women (about double) at that age than virgin men, how is this constantly sold as some sort of anti male epidemic? Source? Because most of those findings are not excluding old people. When you look at young people, sexless men outnumber sexless women. And I’ll link a sauce for you too. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5889124/ Men 18-25: 16.2% sexless in the past… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy has made mostly made dating apps a tool for men to sleep with women they wouldn't date and women to chase after men out of their league who have no interest in anything seriousMaybe that’s what I don’t understand. I’m not talking about teens so I don’t see why that is relevant. And that 2% thing, the other guy said it used to be 1% so it’s more than doubled in the past decade or two. Which likely means the other age brackets have increased significantly as well but we can’t confirm that as of now because there isn’t historical on those. And that 2% represents about 2-3 million men in the US by the way. Or about the population of Chicago or Arkansas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 06:56 PM |
| – | Hypergamy has made mostly made dating apps a tool for men to sleep with women they wouldn't date and women to chase after men out of their league who have no interest in anything seriousWell. Sounds like you skipped the part where the data was filtered to “heterosexual men with no female sexual partners since 18” and 2% of men over 25 fit that category. Or 18% of 20-22 year olds and 8% of 22-25. Are we to assume these people had sex in high school and just stopped in college? That sounds like what you’re proposing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 06:41 PM |
| – | Hypergamy has made mostly made dating apps a tool for men to sleep with women they wouldn't date and women to chase after men out of their league who have no interest in anything serioushttps://datepsychology.com/are-27-of-young-men-really-virgins-and-why/ Partially right. It is based off having sex in the last year or since they turned 18. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 06:24 PM |
| – | Hypergamy has made mostly made dating apps a tool for men to sleep with women they wouldn't date and women to chase after men out of their league who have no interest in anything seriousI have to agree with OP, I think more recent data would be needed. People born in 1989 turned 18 in 2007, a year before dating apps were introduced into their world and it was considered niche. According to US Census data from a few years ago, about 50% of men from 18-25 are virgins and about 2% are virgins from 25-30. More recent data shows around 30% of men aged 18-30 have never had sex. No matter which way you slice it, male virginity has more than doubled in the recent decade and the trend w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 01:46 PM |
| 0 | Women genuinely have to do nothing to attract men. The double standard is ridiculous.You missed the point. A woman doesn’t need to have a job or maintain a home to be approached and pursued by men. Back in college, basically every girl wanted a guy who had their own place while she had roommates or lived with her parents. The expectation was the guy is self sufficient and the girl didn’t have to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 11:53 PM |
| 6 | Wanting a low-maintenance partner doesn't mean you're controlling or insecure, its just you have limitsActually they blame women for setting a standard and then complaining that they can't find guys who meet that. Keep going with that logic train. They then women’s standards for the rise in male virginity. Divorce rates. Etc. The whole show is them passing blame onto women. But wait hold up. You just said women are all promiscuous but yet…you also said women have such high standards they can’t find men. Which is another thing Fresh and Fit does. On one hand they’ll say women are impossible to ple… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 05:30 PM |
| 2 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?I guess the reason could be maybe she wants to help improve me maybe but is that bad? Depends how you view it. I can’t speak for you specifically, obviously things can happen outside the norm. I will say: the norm is where she doesn’t love you for what you are now. She only loves you because she plans to change you to benefit her later. Some people might view that as a healthy relationship, the type that’ll say “in a relationship you should grow together”. Sounds great right? Until you realize t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Wanting a low-maintenance partner doesn't mean you're controlling or insecure, its just you have limitsIt that a minority or is that pretty much the standard level of women you see. No shortage of college women who have onlyfans and are promiscuous. Bro. You need to go touch grass. The “standard level of woman” has a body count less than 5 in her entire lifetime. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm So sure? You can find plenty of OF girls and promiscuous women…and that’s exactly what F&F do. They cherry pick the worst women to represent women on their show. How else do you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 04:42 PM |
| 12 | Wanting a low-maintenance partner doesn't mean you're controlling or insecure, its just you have limitsAre they blaming women Bro. They literally target escorts and OF girls to be on the show for a reason. They handpick the women to reflect the worst ones in society and project that as all women. They aren’t going to a church to find women to be on the panel. They aren’t going to a college campus to find women to be on the panel. They aren’t going and finding women with husbands to be on the panel. Instead they target 18-21 year old OF girls. or are they reflecting what women have been doing for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 02:35 PM |
| 19 | Wanting a low-maintenance partner doesn't mean you're controlling or insecure, its just you have limitsI don’t really know what your comment has to do with mine. But I’ll do my best to respond. I think you missed my point entirely. My point is, their lifestyle puts off the women they want to attract, so all they have left with is what you see on their show. It’s the exact same as when they bring on some OF girl that wants a rich traditional man. She expects to do whatever she wants and end up with a good traditional man. They roast her for that. Yet…when they run around doing whatever they want a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 02:20 PM |
| 43 | Wanting a low-maintenance partner doesn't mean you're controlling or insecure, its just you have limitsIf you want a church girl, go to church. If you want a modest woman, don’t hit on a woman in a skimpy outfit. Same goes for women. You can’t get with a guy who is cheating on his current girlfriend and expect him to be faithful to you, or get with an alcoholic or drug addict and expect him to quit for you. This is underrated. It’s why I can’t stand people like Fresh and Fit, Tate and their fans. They want to run around sleeping with everything that moves on the first date. Then magically secure … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 01:44 PM |
| 0 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?Are these women who just finally said to themselves are going to go for a guy who is wanting to commit to her? Could be a variety of things. In my experience, when an average girl and guy get together it’s because of 2 things: 1) the woman has abandonment issues and she enjoys the power dynamic of the relationship. Usually the guy doesn’t have many options, and she knows that. 2) Or there’s something super attractive about the guy, and her plan is to come in and change that. Example; a guy has a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 01:31 PM |
| – | Which parts of Redpill philosophy do you think have merit?Looks matter. So does your level of cleanliness/grooming, the way you dress, and the way you carry yourself. It’s all genetic. You can’t dress up a sub 5 to be average or above average. A 5 might become a 6 with dressing well and working out. If you want to attract and keep quality women, the four pillars are looks, money, social status and personality. If you're lacking in one or two of these areas, you'd better be compensating hard in the others. I both agree and disagree. There’s two parts to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 10:47 PM |
| 5 | “Where are all the good men”Not really. If a woman makes $100k, she expects a man to make enough to support her lifestyle, and his, with his income alone. So in reality, she’d probably want a guy that makes $200k+, but will settle for the guy making $150k. The running joke is the woman’s money is her money, the man’s money is the family’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 07:18 PM |
| 7 | The average American man is much more redpilled than you thinkI’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. The women in my life has red pilled me more than anyone on YouTube or Reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Wanting men to communicate their needs / open up / be 'vulnerable' OR stop putting women in the position of being 'emotional servants'? Which is it?Wait a second. That’s me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Question: if only around 17% of US males make at least 100k, are the remaining 83% percent doomed ?A job + investments? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Question: if only around 17% of US males make at least 100k, are the remaining 83% percent doomed ?It’s on the bottom edge of middle class in that city. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Question: if only around 17% of US males make at least 100k, are the remaining 83% percent doomed ?Lmao. You’re probably right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 07:44 PM |
| 0 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?As a guy it depends how the topic comes up. If you tell a woman you’re on a date with, “we are splitting the bill”, she will have a negative reaction. If you tell a woman “I got this” and then she says “it’s ok, we can split” and then you do….she might have a negative reaction. There’s a pretty good chance she was just testing you to see what you’d do and by splitting you failed. Some women are fine with splitting, but I’ve noticed most are not. As for the waiter’s reaction? They don’t care as l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Question: if only around 17% of US males make at least 100k, are the remaining 83% percent doomed ?Honestly I don’t know if it is a thing lol. But he wants to marry a rich girl who will pay for everything so he can stay at home and workout all day. He doesn’t want to work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 01:12 PM |
| 7 | Question: if only around 17% of US males make at least 100k, are the remaining 83% percent doomed ?Pretty much. He’s like Joffrey from GoT; very entitled, complains a ton, just unpleasant to be around and he slays women. But like I said. Girls will sleep with him, and that’s about it. His relationships never last long because none of them want some guy that just works out all day and does nothing. But they’ll happily sleep with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Question: if only around 17% of US males make at least 100k, are the remaining 83% percent doomed ?Honestly I don’t have much experience with gold diggers yet but the ones I have interacted with are not that attractive and horrible personality. For 1, people don’t think I have a lot of money because I don’t show it off that much and my age. People figure it out because I have a new trucks that I paid in cash, some expensive watches, Im about to own land for hunting, and I own a very nice house in the suburbs. 2, I’m quite frugal anyway. Gold diggers, and women in general, want someone who not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Question: if only around 17% of US males make at least 100k, are the remaining 83% percent doomed ?I am a financial analyst | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 04:15 AM |
| 25 | Question: if only around 17% of US males make at least 100k, are the remaining 83% percent doomed ?Very easy childhood. His parents paid for everything, he never had to work, even after college he didn’t work and still doesn’t. He just wants to be a trophy husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 04:15 AM |
| 37 | Question: if only around 17% of US males make at least 100k, are the remaining 83% percent doomed ?I have an acquaintance that’s 6’4, great physique, perfect face with blonde hair and bright blue eyes. He just lives life on easy mode. What do I mean? Well. He’s 27, jobless, broke and just works out all day. But yet he slays on online dating and when he goes to bars women will buy him drinks. Girls will match with him and invite him over the same day. This being said, he never keeps a relationship. He’s in and out of situationships and FWBs once the girls realize he isn’t going anywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 03:41 AM |
| 3 | Question: if only around 17% of US males make at least 100k, are the remaining 83% percent doomed ?24 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Question: if only around 17% of US males make at least 100k, are the remaining 83% percent doomed ?Lmao. I’m far from a 9. But yeah, I’ve thought about it at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Question: if only around 17% of US males make at least 100k, are the remaining 83% percent doomed ?I don’t travel. So no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 03:27 AM |
| 5 | Question: if only around 17% of US males make at least 100k, are the remaining 83% percent doomed ?Well. I am 24 and he’s 26. I think it’s perfectly explained. Women like attractive tall guys. For girls to even realize what I have they have to talk to me, and for them to talk to me for any period of time, they have to be attracted to me first. Sure I could be super flashy but that’s not my style. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 03:27 AM |
| 126 | Question: if only around 17% of US males make at least 100k, are the remaining 83% percent doomed ?Lmao no. I make over that and I’m worth 7 figures. I get 0 girls. My friend who makes $45k but is tall, buff and extroverted has no issue getting dates and encounters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 08:37 PM |
| 10 | Women get away with far more awkward and shitty behavior than menLol. This one is funny, but I don’t see how it’s even relevant. I’m not disagreeing with you that men are physically aggressive? I’m refusing because you didn’t even read what I had sent. You then discredit it based on something it’s not because you didn’t read it. You then want me to take you seriously. Laughable. And I don’t think you read my last comment when I said. I don’t care what you think. I don’t think you’re comprehending what “I don’t care” means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 05:56 PM |
| 7 | Women get away with far more awkward and shitty behavior than menYou mean anecdotes? I can already see it, I could send you one example and you’ll just say “that’s a one off” or “that’s anecdotal”. 1) Im not going to waste time looking at articles of random people’s love squabbles. 2) If you wanted to you could’ve scrolled down and read the research papers cited at the bottom. Not all we’re about cyber stuff. In fact the piece that was quoted wasn’t even about cyber aggression…so you obviously didn’t look very far into it. 3) I really don’t care what you beli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 05:39 PM |
| 13 | Women get away with far more awkward and shitty behavior than menhttps://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/digital-world-real-world/202302/research-casts-doubt-on-male-centred-theories-of-aggression Beyond domestic abuse and physical violence, females have been found to emit greater levels of verbal, and indirect, aggression than males7,17. Girls and adolescent females use verbal and indirect aggression (social manipulation to harm a target) more than boys. This is often achieved by malicious gossip, or by manipulating social networks to reduce the target’s soc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 05:12 PM |
| 6 | Women get away with far more awkward and shitty behavior than menShow me examples of women going ballistic and being generally terrible aggressive individuals upon being rejected by a man. That’s because women display aggression differently than men. I think it’s quite disingenuous question. Women know they can’t go beat up a man. So they resort to character attacks, spreading rumors, etc. I’ve seen this happen over and over again when a woman rejects a man, but not the other way around. Because women are more likely to spread a rumor so people hate the man, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Cold approaching doesn’t workMost of “having game” is being attractive though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 07:24 PM |
| 3 | If you fail to get a partner, do you visualize living your life alone for decades?Hmm. Honestly, I’m 24. Once my cat dies in about 10 years, I’ll be 34. If I’m alone still, I’ll quit my job, sell my house. Then go to Vegas and lose my v card then drive up to the Arctic Ocean/Tundra and…not come back. Just have 1 friend states away, and no family left. Just me and my cat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 11:53 PM |
| 12 | Any Tinder experiments that prove blue pills or disprove red pills?Hm. Honestly I feel like I got more red pilled by the women in my life than people on YouTube and Reddit. I was already learning red pill concepts before I even knew what red pill was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 01:00 PM |
| – | CMV This Manosphere believe that today you will get charged with sexual assault if you approach a Women in the Street or Work, is completely delusional and couldn't be further from the truth.You’re right. They aren’t normal…but all it takes is 1 girl to ruin your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 03:50 PM |
| 1 | What is the main reason men are single 2023I’ll give you my dating history. Every girl I’ve ever taken out and tell me why I’m reluctant to keep trying: Girl 1: only girl I dated in high school. Was absolutely nuts and ended up becoming a drug addict. She also had mental issues and she threatened to kill herself many times and sent me videos of her cutting it I did something she didn’t like. Never had sex because she was hooking up with 3 other guys as I found out. Girl 2: Met on tinder. She was a catfish, she looked like she had gained … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Dating has shifted in gen z and millennials to where most women are having "situationships", as in casual sex with the possible future promise of relationshipsThe study population included 4291 men and 5213 women in the analysis of sexual frequency and 4372 men and 5377 women in the analysis of number of sexual partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Dating has shifted in gen z and millennials to where most women are having "situationships", as in casual sex with the possible future promise of relationships1) The study had almost 10,000 participants. That’s more than enough to represent a population of college students or the 18-24 demographic. 2) I’d also point out that significantly more women have sex weekly or more than men do as shown here: 18-24 year olds: fewer men reported weekly or more sexual activity 46.7% vs 53.3%. So, more than half of 18-25 year old women are having sex at least weekly, whereas not even half of men are having sex at least weekly. So not only is there a 5% gap between… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Dating has shifted in gen z and millennials to where most women are having "situationships", as in casual sex with the possible future promise of relationshipshttps://www.womens-health.com/average-number-of-sexual-partners-statistics Here’s one with all linked sources. And there’s 2 facts of interest…according to NCBI: 1) Of 18-24 year olds: there are significantly more sexless men than sexless women 2) Of 18-24 year olds: slightly more women have had 3+ sexual partners in the past year than men who had 3+ sexual partner in the past year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:27 PM |
| 1 | New study shows that 5% of men sleep with 66% of young women. Will society destabilize from most men being neglected?You’re definitely not wrong. In high school I had no social life, let alone a dating one. In college I tried, but I just got friend zoned….and not the FWB zone. Now I’m just kinda lost, because apps don’t work and I don’t want to be the creepy guy at work. Which is one reason why I try to volunteer and such as much as I can. Taking the advice of meeting people and expanding your social circle to hopefully meet people or have people introduce you to their single friends….which also hasn’t happene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Dating has shifted in gen z and millennials to where most women are having "situationships", as in casual sex with the possible future promise of relationshipsHm. The real question of this post is gen z. And that data suggests it’s data collected from 1989 until 2016. Which would 1) Reduce the amount of sexual partners women have by collecting data from older generations. And 2) it nearly ignores gen z because in 2016 the oldest gen z would’ve just become 18-19 years old. Here is more recent data: https://collegestats.org/explore/collegiate-sexual-exposure/ And an interesting point to highlight: When we asked our respondents what their “numbers” were,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Dating has shifted in gen z and millennials to where most women are having "situationships", as in casual sex with the possible future promise of relationshipsWhere is the data? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:27 PM |
| 2 | New study shows that 5% of men sleep with 66% of young women. Will society destabilize from most men being neglected?I did college classes in high school (did almost all my core classes) and then in college I dual majored, and then the last 2 semesters I did the fast track program for my masters. As for money I lived rent free up until a few months ago. I worked a ton in high school and saved/invested it all and was super lucky. I was also making $25/hr after tax at my summer job at a golf course, I also worked during college as well and invested about every penny I made. Then when I was 20, my mom died and ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 12:04 PM |
| 3 | New study shows that 5% of men sleep with 66% of young women. Will society destabilize from most men being neglected?I mean. I’m a 24 year old guy. I’m not exactly looking to get married either. Though, if I meet a girl whom I’d want to marry I wouldn’t wait long. As for age, to date seriously 21-27. To have fun 18-30. As for what you said. Girls would actually have to give me a chance to even find out if I were looking to settle down. They really don’t give me the time of day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 12:48 AM |
| 2 | New study shows that 5% of men sleep with 66% of young women. Will society destabilize from most men being neglected?I don’t think money is beneficial on dating apps unless you’re on yachts and traveling a lot. As for the face; that’d probably be the most beneficial I imagine lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 10:18 PM |
| 2 | New study shows that 5% of men sleep with 66% of young women. Will society destabilize from most men being neglected?I’ve thought about that but: 1) I have no clue how. I already drive a 2023 Tacoma TRD OR, I already have some Rolexes, I already own a 3bd/2.5bth home, I already own land. I guess I could improve fashion because half the time I look like a bum when I go out XD 2) I got to where I am by being very frugal. My flashy expenses will either hold their value or increase (excluding the truck). Also, the only debt I have is my house, everything else was cash. So I’d prefer to keep debt to a minimum. 3) A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 08:29 PM |
| 4 | New study shows that 5% of men sleep with 66% of young women. Will society destabilize from most men being neglected?May want to read that again. 1 match a week when I lied about my height compared to less than 1 match a month when I’m truthful. That’s over a 333% annual increase in matches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 08:23 PM |
| 8 | New study shows that 5% of men sleep with 66% of young women. Will society destabilize from most men being neglected?This ^ “Better” doesn’t mean hardly anything. I am 24, I have 2 bachelors degrees and my masters. I have a good paying corporate job and a net worth in the 7 figures. I own a home and a nice car. I have hobbies, and volunteer frequently. Nearly everyone who knows me would say I’m a nice guy that genuinely cares about others and would give my shirt off my back to help others. But. I’ve never had a romantic relationship. Why? I have no idea but I can speculate. I’m 5’7, a touch overweight and not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 08:14 PM |
| 0 | Most modern women have a problem with orbiters and it is one of the single worst issues in modern datingHonestly the idea of orbiters is just wild. I used to think it was fake. Until I became acquaintances with 2 girls. Then I realized it’s 100% true. Girl 1: The classic “all my friends are guys” girl. Every single one of her guy friends acted like they wanted to sleep with her. It was quite cringe. Then she’d be ‘surprised’ when one of these friends made a move on her. The guys were also super toxic to each other too, but she did actually end up sleeping with some of these guy friends. Then she g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 07:22 PM |
| 1 | According to this study 44.6% of Autistic men surveyed were virgins while 35.7% reported having less than one sexual encounter per month. The numbers for Neurotypical men were 0% and 3.5% respectivelyYou could’ve at least waited one day longer to reply. That way my comment would be 200 days old lmao. anyway if I did go through with it, it just wouldn’t have felt right. That’s why I didn’t. | /r/BlackPillScience | 05/05/22 01:18 PM |
| 22 | According to this study 44.6% of Autistic men surveyed were virgins while 35.7% reported having less than one sexual encounter per month. The numbers for Neurotypical men were 0% and 3.5% respectivelyIt wasn’t so much her sexual history. She was offering to teach me stuff which I would’ve liked actually. And she wasn’t too bad looking. She was probably a 4 or a 5, so that’s right there with my looks (average). The main reason why I did not sleep with her: As I said above she was autistic, and she wasn’t super high functioning, you could tell something was off about her pretty quick and her judgements weren’t exactly the best. For that reason. I didn’t want to sleep with her. I do not think I… | /r/BlackPillScience | 21/10/21 06:40 PM |
| 30 | According to this study 44.6% of Autistic men surveyed were virgins while 35.7% reported having less than one sexual encounter per month. The numbers for Neurotypical men were 0% and 3.5% respectivelyI did, and I was a virgin at the time. Tempted as I was to lose it, I protected it well. | /r/BlackPillScience | 17/10/21 11:10 PM |
| 62 | According to this study 44.6% of Autistic men surveyed were virgins while 35.7% reported having less than one sexual encounter per month. The numbers for Neurotypical men were 0% and 3.5% respectivelyThis isn’t representative of everyone but: I met an autistic girl first semester of college. She definitely wasn’t a virgin. She was sorta, kinda, not entirely high functioning, but had a lot of issues. We were paired for a lab project once and she decided to tell me her sexual history right there in class, turns out she’s been with like 6 guys before college, and in the first month she has already been with 3. She tried getting with me but I played dumb until she lost interest which took months… | /r/BlackPillScience | 17/10/21 03:06 PM |
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