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Same. I'm 40 and have managed to stay incredibly attractive. There are women my age and older that I find attractive, but they are few and far between, and often date much wealthier men. My girlfriend is 19 and I'm not complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:38 AM
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I'm not gonna waste my time arguing with you, I'd get further shouting at a wall. Your dismissive and avoidant responses show you aren't debating in good faith at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:47 AM
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I am one of these men.... I propose you to understand the trade offs of the privileges you demanded. If you want "equal" rights in society, than take on the equal sacrifices. That would totally debunk your feminism though, as you would have to acknowledge that most men in society are not privileged, and although had many advantages, had sacrifices as well. Women have been selective and self serving with their empathy and outrage. You want government grants for education giving you an advantage. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:21 PM
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If 99% of men do not care about ambition, career, or intellect, then I have mainly encountered the 1% that do, because I went to college and live in an area where education is highly valued. Most intellectuals are not interested in being with a woman who does nothing valuable with her time, has no career ambitions, and spends most of her time thinking about clothes and makeup. They want someone more on their level intellectually. And none of what you said equals an income bracket that you're so …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 10:36 PM
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There are many types of average. Outside of age, what do demographics mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:52 PM
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Outside of age, what do demographics mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:49 PM
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Because you're including metrics that dont matter. Who cares what a 60 year old woman weighs. Race, ethnicity, educational bracket, income bracket, age, and location all play into this. She is average for her demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:41 PM
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Average for what? We aren't dating every woman in the country. Demographically, she is average.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:22 PM
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Some men don’t care about education or career, that’s true. I don’t want nor am I attracted to those men. I’ve personally met a lot of men who do care about it and would not want to date a woman with no career and education. Some men want a woman with intellect and ambitions. Different preferences for different people, just because you don’t care doesn’t mean nobody cares. 99% of men do not care. They care that you are happy in doing whatever you do. Most men would date a sweet loving barista ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:13 PM
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Pros: * I have been told by many people that am kind, patient, nurturing, empathetic, calm, and loyal. We have no clue if this is accurate, as they are best shown with action and not telling people. My IQ is objectively high (I took a professionally administered IQ test and I’m in the top 1%). I can hold interesting, deep, philosophical conversations and have high analytical/spacial abilities and executive functioning. I’ve been by ex’s that my intellect is attractive. High IQ isnt necessarily a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:52 PM
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It was 2% in 1995 and not 40% until 2017
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:48 AM
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I remember websites weren't looked at with the same popularity as dating apps though. Maybe thats because I was young. I don't mean this as an insult, but I remember people viewed them as last resorts and often embarrassed to be on them. Most people looked at the website population as undesireable, so I wouldnt say most people werent approaching women. Outside of blind dates (being set up) and speed dating that was the only option.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 12:54 AM
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Uh....I'm 40 and millenial and didnt even try a dating app until like 11-12 years ago. If you weren't approaching women what the heck were you doing? Summoning them with black magic???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 12:17 AM
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I have noticed that they just ignore what you say and go on rants.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:48 PM
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There are plenty of jobs for women in the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:47 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:21 PM
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I'm suprised someone in the "redpill" wouldnt want to hear the gamut of reality, oh the irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:14 PM
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Women are the only ones with the rights to vote, men need to sign away our lives in order to gain the privilege. I say make women do the same. If they want to point the ship into the direction of danger than they should face the consequences as well. Romove the 19th and have a voter I.D. civics test that everyone regardless of race, religion, or gender has access to. Those who pass are draftable. Also, why the fuck are you only asking Redpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:09 PM
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You keep saying you're helping my argument, but what you're really doing is building a hypothetical model using arbitrary inputs (like 600k women with exactly 40 partners each) and then treating the result as proof that my claim is absurd. That’s not how math or logic works. You say you're using unique pairings correctly, but you're assuming those 2.4M pairings involve 2.4 million unique men. That's the flaw. You’re not accounting for partner overlap which is essential in any real world populati…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:16 PM
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I'm just guessing a percentage of what I would expect. Demographics can wildly change that outcome. How that distributes from 1% - 20% really depends on a lot of variables. Also, the logic in your math isn't sound at all. You treat averages as distributions, it misuses unique pairings and overlap between partners, and uses a impossibly perfect segmentation of sexual market by saying the bottom 80% of men only sleep with the highest n-count women and the "alpha" 20% only sleep with low n-count wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:02 PM
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I NEVER said 20% of men have more than 100 partners. I said 20% of men have the most access to sex. You had to create all these strawmans to do a bunch of nonsensical psuedo math to come up with "I dont know what to tell you bro?" How about this, remove the emotional variable in your decision making. Lets observe most species outside of avians and see how absurd the idea is that a small fraction of males are having the most sex. Now compare that to app data match %.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:43 PM
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I would say the top 20% of men have the most access to sex, but demographics (political, economic, and religious) play a big role.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:59 PM
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Women have a 4.5X group bias over men. Yes this is a major advantage but it is also their greatest disadvantage. Due to this, their empathy and outrage is selective and self serving. This causes society and even their own outlook to move in a very one-sided direction which eventually causes social decay, leading to incredibly unsafe dynamics. This is why you are starting to see a significant portion of young women moving right politically. They aren't actually moving right, only on the topics th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:19 PM
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Your posts are word salad that amount to nothing more than incoherent prose. You also use lineated prose, and I guarantee what youre writing is nothing like poetry. It makes me wonder if you are a bot or a non-American paid agitator.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:39 PM
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Regardless of what you want, this is the norm for women and my comment still stands. Most women eventually expect to settle down with one person and raise a family. Its bullshit to take advantage of your easy access to sex and then expect a man whose been alone most of his life to be gun ho about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:24 PM
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Yeah but what % of men are these "alpha males." A pretty small subset. If I had to guess, most men have had 5 or less partners while a massive amount, maybe 60% of women have had 20 - 60 partners. The problem is you expecting to then live a traditional marriage with a man who doesnt have remotely the same experience as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:13 PM
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The rest of your comment is an irrelevant ramble. Don't move the goalpost. It shows that rape is not really prevelant in men. Its just that people in this sub disregard any information that would threaten their world view. Its my theory that there are some angry small people who are not satisfied in life and they just come here to vommit all over people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:47 PM
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I would argue a significantly high rate of intercourse in the animal kingdom is a bit rapey. A very feministy study said about 6% of men, but it was self reported and apparantly many of the questions were themselves questionable to be labled rape, like unwanted touching or sex if she was drunk. Why are women always victims when there are two people drinking???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:59 PM
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WTF is a meet cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:51 PM
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Have you ever seen ducks?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:41 PM
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Males of some animals often rape females Oh I know it! Arent we human males pretty great for not raping you all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:43 PM
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You see that in nature often though. Its a hail mairy in a certain sense. Its peaked before she loses the ability, kind of natures way of a last ditch effort of giving the most probability of having offspring. It doesnt mean that a 29 year old is meant to bear children over a 22 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:08 PM
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I know a lot of men that never experienced younger women. Their whole lives ran by, and not for a lack of trying. A good portion of them just arent going to move on without living a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:05 PM
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🤦🏼‍♀️ 🤦🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:02 PM
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I honestly think the majority of this sub is on the spectrum. Its like the special olympics of gender debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:00 PM
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It do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:57 AM
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I think it ranges from shyness to games.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:55 AM
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Not older women, but teens and even maybe early 20's do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:51 AM
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Are you attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 09:44 PM
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Extreme egocentrism to a parasitic degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:54 PM
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Men's quite quitting of society isn't entirely conscious. Women keep going back to this idea that men are angry you are not having sex with them so they are revolting when in fact it is much more nuanced than that. It's society as a whole. The conditions have been set and men are just responding to them. Every action has a reaction. Men dropping out of society is a simple response to the current gender relationships and economy. When a base house is 400k and a wife and kids are all out of reach …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:45 PM
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Again, your egocentrism is bringing you to a point of view that doesn't exist. You are unable to seperate your hate for men and our role in society. No man thinks he's entitled to sex, they just aren't going to do dangerous jobs if they don't have a family to provide for. Men don't live for themselves, they live for a purpose greater than themselves. If that's stripped away, well, they become...you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:39 AM
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If you don't understand what I am saying you probably never will. Honestly I don't mean this as a personal attack, but you and most young women today are beyond egocentric. You just can't put yourself in most men's shoes, and the ones you do compare yourselves with are the top percent of society. Congratulations on your safe and well paying job. I breathe in aerosoled coolant oil and metal grinds to build the things that enable you to do your job. Without men like me you wouldn't have a job, bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:17 AM
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That's a weird way to view what I said. There isn't a single species on this planet where procreation isn't their main drive. The purpose of life is to live for something greater than yourself and pass on your genes. There is no greater aspect to life than finding a mate and having children. It's not about you, it's about purpose. Purpose for many men has been stripped away, and your single independent girl lifestyles are built upon a nation of previous generations and it's about to give way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 09:53 AM
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Because the whole point to life is to live beyond yourself and procreate. You can have meaningful additional aspects such as hobbies, friends, and vocation. However, the main purpose for all species on this planet is to find a mate and procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 09:49 AM
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Because I know the industries. We are hurting for men in the trades, gen z men are simply not doing them, and it's not like they are going to University to replace that either. I'm a tradesmen and I do roughly 4-5 of the young guys production that actually do work in the trades. They just aren't motivated. This is a very known problem that managers and hr departments are facing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:39 AM
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This post shows how vapid most women view men's role in society. You take for granted the machinists, oil riggers and the roughnecks, the linemen, and the loggers. The jobs that make this country turn are all hazardous and done by men. Men who do those not primarily for money, but to provide a life for their families. Remove that variable, and what purpose do men have to function within society. That's the best scenario. Slow societal collapse, lower quality of life, and increased cost of living…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:33 AM
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No thanks. Why would any self respecting guy marry a 30+ year old woman that lived her life with the "bad boys" and now wants to settle down with the "nice guys?" Regardless, 20's is absolutely the best time for a woman to have children. Also, I know tons of 30+ year old women that got baby fever and married a guy they weren't really attracted to only to divorce him once she had the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 10:44 PM
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Uh no lol. Your capacity to have children is definitely limited, mine is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:23 PM
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I mean, we've been together for 2 years now and she is almost 20, I think we are good
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:48 PM
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And you're a sheep who lets ever changing social norms dictate their biological point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:32 PM
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That really depends on the state and country. I never dated anyone illegally, nor would I this old even if it were legal. Maybe 1 in 10 million
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:41 PM
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Are you always this obnoxious? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:45 PM
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Well they don't look like kids at all. I did date many 16 year olds when I was in early 20's
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:16 PM
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Because environmental and genetic factors play a drastically larger role than age. A 25 year old who consumes tons of alcohol, drugs, smokes, or has been introduced to environmental toxins has much worse sperm quality than a 70 year old man who hasn't. Genetic variables are self explanatory
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:55 PM
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That's weird that you think late teenagers look like children, since they are post puberty and look nothing like children, makes me worry that you can't see the difference from a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:45 PM
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Right but most women aren't on par either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:40 PM
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Honestly I don't get it. Have no clue where this is from.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:39 PM
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I've never had problems with erections. Maybe that's because I date attractive younger women? Have you had a lot of men not able to "climb" up for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:35 PM
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That is such a misunderstood study and the variables are actually incredibly small. It's just regurgitated by angry and jelous women who are upset that they are a ticking clock themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:56 AM
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I'm not sure what an old man chest is, mines ripped and in good shape. It's smaller than most guys in the gym since I never liked the look of massive pecs. I based my build off of the golden ratio to my frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:41 AM
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Again, you're applying your own history and extrapolating to ALL age gaps, exactly like I said, thanks for agreeing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:31 AM
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No im no where near as attractive as I was in my early 20's. I was a 10/10 and I'm probably an 8 now, maybe less if you include my current income, but I still have a beautiful 19 year old girlfriend....who doesn't have mental problems. I think the 20 year olds that wouldn't date an older man would be women who are immersed in peer lifestyles such as college or sorority. They would have men their ages on par with their mental capacity that they wouldn't need or want to date outside of their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:20 AM
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I've heard that too but think it's silly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:14 AM
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I'm 6'3" 205 at 10% bf, still have abs. I take my fitness seriously and my friends at similar ages do as well. That's what I'm trying to say, for men that take care of themselves the rate of attractiveness is extended. Most women are just turned off by older men that are unattractive, and they would similarly be with men their ages if the looked out of shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:12 AM
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Yes but I dont develop strong relationships with them, they are more acquaintances or work friends. And they are men, not boys. Boys makes you sound creepy you shouldnt call them that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:28 AM
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Are you a have not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:26 AM
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Nobody is making fun of us. I even climb with her dad, and he is fine with our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:25 AM
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Absolutely delusional take.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:07 PM
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Well considering it's 2:30 long and you commented in less than a minute of course it doesnt do anything for you, you didnt even watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:03 PM
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Thats not true at all, although I would say gen z is by far the most immature generation, mostly due to infantilization. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A7MleYSYbCM Here is a video of teens in the 1960's. The way they speak you would think they converse like 30 year olds today, and some are as young as 14/15.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:01 PM
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Ah, good ol' Matt Foley. I told my gf the joke but she didnt get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:57 PM
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I'm not a fan of age gaps because of my experience with age gaps. Exactly what I said. But when you have negative experiences to men your age you dont apply it to age. I don't hate it. But I'm definitely rooting for her to enjoy herself, have her fun, and then leave. Well thats not very nice. Not really. I don't think it was creepy. I think that immature people find each other. An immature 40-something found an immature 19 year old. Granted all 19 yo are immature. She is very mature and so am I …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:56 PM
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Yeah that is a rational line of thought of a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:44 PM
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So I made all my money from 14 - 35. Now I only make roughly 69K, but have a great portfolio, and yes, can raise a family. She wouldnt need to work if she didnt want to, but she is a creative and i'm sure couldnt sit idle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:42 PM
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who wants to live in a van. Tell me you dont climb, by telling me you dont climb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:38 PM
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Larping as an 18 year old is absolutely creepy. Thats what I am saying, I am glad you agree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:37 PM
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Just the jaded women and have not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:24 PM
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You're right, that is creepy if you think 19 (the same age for college cheerleaders, many models, porn stars, etc) look like kids to you. If you cant tell the difference between a woman and a child, you should have a seat right over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:22 PM
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Maybe. Maybe we will have a couple kids by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:19 PM
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Some women would rather drive an old Ferrari over a new Dodge.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:13 PM
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That's a wild take. So when women say guys are immature, is that creep language to you too or nah?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:11 PM
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I don't get why you can't just accept that young women find unattractive men unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:05 PM
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Again thats entirely situational. My girlfriend is incredibly mature. In all honesty, can handle intellectual conversations far better than I can. She has a wonderful identity. Could I date her otherwise? If she was some generic college chick who acted like a generic college chick, no. We would have nothing in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:03 PM
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I dated a woman who was 36 when I was 15, but now no I wouldnt. I want children too, so that obviously wouldnt work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:58 PM
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But you're describing a situation that would be creepy, not necesarrily due to age. What if its two people that have a similar hobbie meet and just fall for eachother?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:57 PM
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Arent we all here for the same thing? I've got popcorn and I'm having fun debating. I wouldnt look too much further than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:54 PM
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Lol, alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:50 PM
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I mean, you can click my profile, pictures are old. No I am not putting up photos of my girlfriend for redditors.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:48 PM
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most young people find the idea of dating someone the age of their parents to be really weird and kinda gross. Hmmmm, my girlfriends father is 63 so perhaps she doesn't have that view, which would be situational.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:46 PM
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I don't do the pills thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:42 PM
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So this 47 year old is unnattractive? How about this guy who was 39
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:41 PM
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Have you ever been or known someone who has been abused or manipulated by men their own age?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:38 PM
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And was he attractive? My point is I think you are attaching other reasons for being creeped out to age. Have you ever been disgusted by a guy your own age?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:37 PM
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I dated a 27 year old when I was 16, and it was the only abusive relationship I ever had. Which is a reason I stated; I was in relationships with older men in the past and was ______ (Manipulated, abused, power dynamic, used for sex, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:33 PM
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Were these older men attractive? Were they aging well, have hair, good skin, clothing style, etc.?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:32 PM
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We are both white Americans, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:31 PM
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In a situation where older men specifically target high school aged women then no I wouldnt support that. But I really dont think that is common, but if it happens should be dealth with criminally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:30 PM
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But I dont think its because theyre older. I think its because those men are unattractive and they are shooting out of their league, which would also apply to a young man doing the same thing. Most young women are attracted to me. Paul Walker was 39, do you think a 20 year old woman wouldnt find him attractive? How about 37 year old Zac Efron. Matt Bomer is 47..... Its not age, yall are applying non related things to age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:28 PM
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Congrats on your relationship! However, with all that said, certain men will specifically target younger women under 25 (typically around 18-21 years old or even younger and especially those that have less experience in the dating world) in order to groom, manipulate and abuse them. Absolutely, there are, and its horrible. But I am saying bad behaivor isnt age specific. Think about all the young men who make lists of the virgins they can rack up, or target freshmen girls in their schools. My poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:23 PM
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Right but again, those are situations that could be applied to young men as well. There are plenty of young men chasing women just for sex not caring about their personalities, but we just call them douchebags. In my situation, I never actively persued young women, it just happened by chance. She was my climb partner and we just kind of fell for eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:17 PM
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Why were you disgusted? What were the men like?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:14 PM
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This seems like a rational take.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:13 PM
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You literally proved my points with this whole comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:13 PM
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Then that falls into line with what I am saying. Is it gross to be hit on by men your age that are obese and unhygienic? Most would probably say yes, but you dont apply those scenarious to age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:10 PM
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So it's not our lack of willingness to not date up but more like yours to not date down. And why don't they see this? Or is it some kind of mental gymnastics that they do in order to ignore some of the more unpleasant sides of female nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:04 PM
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My girlfriend is 19 (I'm 40), fucking gorgeous, and I make $33 an hr.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:59 PM
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You cant go off of reddit, its a hivemind. That said, I think the reason you see more men expressing a desire for younger women is biology. A young woman/older man relationship in the natural world is feasable and often productive whereas outside of sex, a older woman/young man relationship is often destructive since women dont offer the provider role and reduce a young mans reproductive potential. I would say most women want to, or atleast think they want to date within a 5 year age range. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:19 PM
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Hear me out. NO. I love women, everything about them. How about hit the gym, make vocational and hobbie goals (like you did with Wyoming), and decenter shitty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:43 PM
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Wow uh no, I think you misunderstood me. The youngest I dated was 15 at 19. You asked have I dated younger than 19 and I said when I was in my early twenties. Where you are drawing "little girls" from I have no clue. Yall are getting wild. So once again, why is the age gap so bad????
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:38 PM
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Well maybe you're right I should have worded it differently. My basis on looks isnt age though; its genetics, symmetry, and bone structure. Thats what I was trying to tie together. Delusional would be thinking, or even wanting to look like that at 40. Ive got some puffiness under the eyes, faded eyebrows, and I've put on about 30 pounds of muscle at 10% body fat since then and wouldnt change a thing. when i was 17-18 I was actually 14 in some of them, do you find any attractive? get Gen Z men mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:10 PM
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No thats too young for me at this age. You have to understand I lived internationally, and percieved morals change with culture. So yes when I was in my early twenties I dated younger women where it was legal to do so. But you didn't answer my question. Why is it so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:49 PM
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She is a legal adult... My god yall are hilarious. Tell me, why is it so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:36 PM
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LOL, no most people DO NOT look like hollywood or the fashion industry when they are young. Trying not to sound full of myself, but a genetically superior individual doesnt lose their looks as they age. Its simply good bone structure, skin, hair, and symmetry. I no longer look as attractive as I did at 20, but I still look better than 95% of 25 year olds. Look at hollywood, how many male actors look great in their 30's, 40's, and 50's. Some people would rather drive an older Ferrari than a brand…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:27 PM
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Why stop there then? Is it whatever is acceptable to you? 25, 30, 35? Its absurd what you're claiming and not rooted in biology. She is a fully developed adult woman who lives on her own. There is nothing gross about it. The only thing gross are the people who want to thwart natural law to empose their world view onto others. When I was 15 I was in a relationship with a 36 year old woman, it was a great experience. That being said it was a different situation, most gen z are incredibly emotional…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:22 PM
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Reddit isnt the real world. Nobody gives a shit outside of reddit. Its just like with sexual partner history. Reddit would have you believe that every man would be excited to get a woman that has slept with 100+ men when in reality nothing could be further from the truth. Reddit is one big hivemend of projection. Im incredibly attractive, feel free to look at my photos. I'm 40 dating a 19 year old who is also attractive. Nobody gives a shit. They go about their lives. EDIT: I thought I still had…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:44 PM
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Much of your comment I agree with, except caplitalist alienation, which is a theory by Karl Marx. How did his workforce fair again? We have been capitalist for some of our most productive and successful years. The two parent family THRIVED with capitalism, but instead, marxist feminism and marxist ideology masked as neoliberalism has snuffed that out. Any other idea is laughable, and communist denial, which is why you want to burry my comment in downvotes with your marxist buddies rather than re…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:37 PM
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Here is some data that debunks what you're saying. https://ssrs.com/insights/the-public-and-online-dating-in-2024/ This shows that men are 56% of app usage, less than what we thought. I cannot find any studies about frequency of app use, can you? I cannot find datasets on doormant and inactive accounts, can you? I have asked Google and ChatGPT and both have claimed there arent any. Where are you getting this data? From what I have Googled on app policy, which fluctuates depending on app, most in…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:51 PM
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You are applying a possible reason to a dataset that doesnt confirm that. All that we know is women cycle off the apps at a higher rate. We also know that women have more match and message success than men. If I had to bet my life on it, I would say women are finding what they want (or dont want) at a much faster rate than men and leaving the apps. But again, that would be speculative too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:35 PM
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Rape. That’s why. Yes that is obviously what I meant by conquering tribes, but I thought I would tread more gently in case there was a victim in this thread who would rather not be reminded. It’s disingenuous to quote app data without recognizing the minimal percentage of women actually using apps. Majority of women don’t use apps, so the behavior of the few on those apps are simply not representative of the whole. Are there minimal percentage of women using apps though? The data shows roughly 3…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:28 PM
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There aren't good studies that show this though. The studies that you are more than likely referencing are self reported studies that have been debunked for viability. What we can do is look at our genetics for x and y chromosomes and see that far more women have contributed to the gene pool than men. Does this mean women are more promiscuous? No. There are a multitude of reasons for this from polygamous societies to conquering tribes. However, it does show that there is a disparity in reproduct…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:19 PM
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Passport sis....LOL. I dont think this sub is for me. I'm not familiar with any of these terms which is why I asked. In doing so I got a huge range of answers everywhere from men traveling to engage with under age girls, to prositutes, to submissive women in 3rd world countries. Honestly I think the majority of people in this sub regardless of gender need to seriously step outside and touch grass. Anyways, I'm headed to the rock gym to have some fun with good people, have a good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:56 AM
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I'm 40..... But no, the first link, fourth, and fifth are definitely relevant to younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:51 PM
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Although I disagree with specifically traveling to third world countries in order to just engage in hedonism, I think you are being far too dismissive of womens own debauchery while traveling. https://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/news/thai-cave-mans-xrated-exploits-with-tourists/news-story/19023e226da48d33edc75f62c2c71dc2 https://www.riotimesonline.com/brazil-news/modern-day-censorship/the-rise-of-female-sex-tourism/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jzh3KGq4tqg https://www.thrillist.com/travel/natio…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:42 PM
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Women and men dont look for the same things. Women however abosolutely do travel to find both short term fun and long term partners. Every woman who travels enjoys herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:26 PM
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So the issue isn't men traveling and happen to find partners or experiences like women do? For example, if I went to Argentina, Japan, or Greece where women find me more economically viable than they do here and either found a permanent partner or temporary, you wouldnt have an issue with it? The issue is the moral trajectory that specifically surrounds passport bros?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:23 PM
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I would assume traveling to another country in order to engage with a minor would still be illegal even if the age of consent is younger in that country. Very yuck indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:19 PM
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I wasn't familiar with the term "pasport bro", so I googled it. Can you explain what is bad about men traveling and finding partners? Dont women often do this too?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:52 PM
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I dont mean this as an insult, but do you know if your are on the spectrum? Your delivery is very incoherent and fails to solidify a sound argument, it feels like idiosyncratic speech and abnormal writing patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:37 PM
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Yes I would gauge social isolation and how it affects demographics and society as actual loneliness. There are millionaires that feel poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:17 PM
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https://www.wsj.com/lifestyle/careers/young-american-men-lost-c1d799f7 Wall Street Journal found that young men aged 18 to 30 spent 18% more time alone in 2023, compared to 2019. This amount is 22% more alone time than reported by women in the same age range, indicating increased social isolation among young men. https://www.healthpolicypartnership.com/the-impact-of-loneliness-on-mens-mental-and-physical-health/ A report by the Health Policy Partnership highlights that young men are more likely …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:04 PM
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So I havent really spent much time in this sub, but it seems people just argue with emotions instead of logic. I enjoy conversations regarding current gender dynamics but it is always better in a data driven approach. You can simply put your fingers in your ears and say nuhuh nuhuh all you want, but that doesn't make it so. https://www.wsj.com/lifestyle/careers/young-american-men-lost-c1d799f7 Wall Street Journal found that young men aged 18 to 30 spent 18% more time alone in 2023, compared to 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:59 PM
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No I dont think there is, but I am open to you presenting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 08:48 PM
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Women do have better social networks, but that isnt the purpose of life. This outlook that you have is a young one, and there isn't anything wrong with that. However, the majority of people, man or woman, who reach a point in life in which they dont have a partner and more importantly children, face deep regret and lonliness. No amount of social networks will deplace our purpose to live for something greater than ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 08:47 PM
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The data doesn't reflect this though. Most young women don't have issues meeting men for casual or long term relationships. Far more women are in relationships than men. Far more women cycle off apps after having far higher match rates then men. Edit: I'll add, only 28% of 40 year old men are never married and no children, which is a massive increase over 20 years ago. However, most millenials and gen x are in healthy relationships but millenials definitely have an uptick in loneliness. The big …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:26 PM
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I dont think you have to cherry pick at all, I just think the female loneliness epidemic will happen at a different stage. Most men will isolate and even if they wanted, wont be viable partners. Once women hit a certain age where hook ups and short term relationships arent sought after, and are also aged out of more youth dominated social activites, there will be a female loneliness epidemic. When gen Z women hit 45+ things will start to get interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:07 PM
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What's cap?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:51 AM
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In a medium sized city I will get anywhere from 15-50 a day. I couldn't even count when I visited NYC, it was absurd. However, if I lower my ages to 20 to early 30's than it significantly drops (I'm 40). Most of the women I match with are in shape but older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:58 PM
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Congrats, I'm a 6'3 too, and a retired model. Feel free to check out my profile....now where is my harem at???? Oh yeah, I live in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:56 PM
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You are so absolutely wrong about this and its absolutely tiring to hear. "Boo Hoo im short and mediocre there for everybody more conventionally attractive must have it easier, wont even try to work on myself." Stumbled on this sub a few hours ago but holy hell what a bunch of whiny bitch fests in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:54 PM
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