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Luckily since the boat is absurdly large, and it's 7 days, I might just try to not overthink anything. My family goes on cruises every few years and when I was on one as a 21 and 20 year old, I ended up going to bed disappointed because I was kind of talking to some girls and nothing happened. Realizing I shouldn't actually expect anything to happen, because it's definitely not great to regularly go to sleep with blue balls on account of being some beta cuck
/r/seduction23/12/17 05:07 PM
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Lucky me I'm a broke 23 year old, so won't be getting more than 2 or 3 drinks a night, but you're right. Happy holidays by the way, thanks for the response.
/r/seduction23/12/17 05:05 PM
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Msc seaside leaving from Miami in 7 hours
/r/seduction23/12/17 04:53 PM
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Thanks, yeah, I was probably just going to be doing a lot of dancing. Maybe talk to other people who seem to be solo or have drifted from their group. I'm really bad at making moves while dancing and vibing. I don't know, I know if I over think it just makes everything worse, but it's damn difficult. Any advice on keeping your cool once you realize you might have a shot? Things to do while dancing, those kinds of things
/r/seduction12/10/17 12:45 AM
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I dated this girl for four months, we broke up three months ago. Four months is nothing, no time at all, but in that time, I loved her. She meant the world to me. Then, we broke up and I felt myself go numb. I didn't know what to do; what to feel; what to say. I was frozen in a despondent awe. We didn't talk for two weeks, and next we hung out, we had sex. It was intense and passionate. We told ourselves that couldn't happen, but a few days later, it did. She told me she loved me and that it was…
/r/seduction11/03/15 11:56 PM
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Oh dude, send me a message. I want to meet new people.
/r/seduction17/08/14 05:28 AM
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Oh god, Natalie Dormer is insanely attractive. I totally understand what you mean with the sophistication though. You can easily find several attractive women, the adjectives describing them changes though. Sophistication is sexy.
/r/seduction08/08/14 06:26 PM
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I'd do Sansa. Hell, I'd seduce all of Westeros and Essos. I'd move to Dorne and marry royalty. If my life is nothing but sex, I'd be happy. I'm also bisexual, so I have double the options. But yeah, I'd do Sansa hard.
/r/seduction08/08/14 05:26 PM
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The actress, Emilia Clarke is gorgeous. She's in her mid-twenties I think. Which is strange because it means she's twice the age of the character she plays.
/r/seduction08/08/14 05:04 PM
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Yeah, the guide u/tofutofu wrote mentions this in the very beginning. Take seduction seriously and you will become good at it.
/r/seduction08/08/14 04:17 PM
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Dude, she's fourteen.
/r/seduction08/08/14 01:43 PM
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I thought he had a stroke during the introduction from all of the falling.
/r/seduction15/07/14 01:31 PM
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To be vulnerable one must also be unrelenting. I said we should play pool, when people were okay with that, i suggested we play strip pool. Same thing with never have I ever
/r/seduction19/06/14 03:40 PM
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Tell me, how would it have been better?
/r/seduction19/06/14 03:39 PM
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Naturally. A bisexual redditor posted this comment yesterday: "Women are like spaghetti. Straight until you get them wet." When going for threesomes, that's a nice philosophy to keep in mind.
/r/seduction18/06/14 09:30 PM
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I've been doing seduction seriously for over a year. I've known about the community for about two. When I started getting serious I realized the results.
/r/seduction18/06/14 08:58 PM
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College Guide 1: Academics and extracurricular are your top priorities. Talk to your adviser and figure out a few possible landscapes for your major. From there, branch out and meet professors and join relevant clubs. Once you're in one or two of those, venture further into unexplored territory. Your clubs and extracurricular are where you will meet people with ease. This will require only the minimal amount of know-how on "not being an asshole" - my seduction philosophy. Join a dance club, musi…
/r/seduction18/06/14 02:58 PM
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Laugh at myself constantly. Let's say I'm opening a set of three, two girls and a guy. He's better looking and crazy charming, basically a natural. Obviously I'll be intimidated. I will simply them this exactly. "Dude, you're awesome and super intimating, it makes hitting on Sam much harder." I think it's more about sheer honesty, really.
/r/seduction09/06/14 02:25 AM
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I have considered. I'm planning a series of videos. All I need is a good microphone so I can film infield like TylerRSD. I'll probably just film using my phone.
/r/seduction08/06/14 07:29 PM
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For sure, I don't know what the local scene is like though
/r/seduction08/06/14 05:29 AM
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Some nights I'll drink some I won't. I was diagnosed with hypomania which is a bipolar spectrum mental disorder causing a persistent disinhibition. As a result I don't see much difference in my game. The overall advice you'll get on this thread is simple: you're smarter when you're sober but it's easier to get caught up in your own head. If you can figure out how to lose some inhibition and be unwavering as you approach sets, nothing will change.
/r/seduction07/06/14 02:37 PM
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Waiting for summer B to start, enjoying the last two weeks with old friends, you know, getting ready. We should hang out brother!
/r/seduction06/06/14 06:52 PM
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Are you there for summer semester? I start summer b. My orientation is this weekend though. If you're free we can meet up and introduce ourselves.
/r/seduction31/05/14 12:15 AM
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This will be a test of your non-verbal communication. Seduction is a lot about making your intention obvious. If there's a language barrier, your intentions will have to be demonstrated non-verbally. Also, Nicaragua is awesome nd It's gorgeous. When you go to bars, be friendly and physical with everyone. It's a physical country after all. Always hold your posture, and when you stumble through Spanish just laugh at yourself. Being comfortable enough to recognize your limited Spanish skills will b…
/r/seduction28/05/14 12:10 PM
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I'd also like the details. I move up to Orlando in 25ish days.
/r/seduction28/05/14 12:04 PM
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Definitely, we can definitely go sarging together. I'm 19 a physics and chemistry double major. I'll be living on campus my first year - took a break from school to write. It'd be great to know people in Orlando and Ucf, too.
/r/seduction28/05/14 11:11 AM
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Nope, I had taco bell and she had Japanese.
/r/seduction26/05/14 02:27 AM
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You dropped an arm. Stop by more often then.
/r/seduction25/05/14 08:55 PM
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I'm not sure this is a place for a romantic. Especially one believing in soul mates.
/r/seduction25/05/14 08:06 PM
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Thanks, making new friends and buddies is always a ton of fun.
/r/seduction25/05/14 07:56 PM
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I think this line of thinking is integral to inner game. Figure out who you are and from there understand your strengths and weakness. Embrace your weakness and exploit your strengths. By knowing who you are, everything not just women, becomes simpler.
/r/seduction25/05/14 07:04 PM
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Oh dude, I go up there all the time. Pm me, we can hang out!
/r/seduction25/05/14 07:02 PM
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Oh woops, didn't see that. I'll fix it, thx
/r/seduction25/05/14 06:39 PM
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Someone I know works there and they tell me it's due to the myriad tourists. Not a lot of local people, in comparison to all the foreigners
/r/seduction25/05/14 06:39 PM
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Again, just practice It seems like you're not comfortable with your voice. That's something I relate with, I have a lisp
/r/seduction25/05/14 06:38 PM
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It's so fucking huge. I'm awful woth directions and often get lost.
/r/seduction25/05/14 06:37 PM
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Just practice, my brother. When I first started doing day approaches I got so many awkward looks. Now I'm more comfortable in my skin and have more success. :)
/r/seduction25/05/14 05:16 PM
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Practice, I recite lines from movies in the mirror. That way, my delivery always showcases my intentions.
/r/seduction25/05/14 05:14 PM
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Nope, sawgrass mills near ft. Lauderdale
/r/seduction25/05/14 04:37 PM
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She giggled it off. It was a funny comment. Still, it made my intentions clear as day.
/r/seduction25/05/14 03:15 PM
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Oh, we need to hang out in Orlando, then! I don't know anyone up there, we can sarg together.
/r/seduction22/05/14 02:39 PM
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I'm actually starting UCF on the 22nd of June, I'm in so flo now. When I get to school I'll hit you up!
/r/seduction18/05/14 10:34 AM
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Value is something a lot of people speak about. Whenever I interact with someone, I do so knowing that I might grow as a person. During middle school and early high school I was a walking stereotype. I'd spend my time reading and felt superior to everyone. It was obvious why I didn't have friends. Sophomore year I moved and started an outward explosion of social awareness. I realized, I would never want anyone to feel alone. I realized, everyone is equal. Sure, I believe some people's beliefs, o…
/r/seduction18/05/14 12:04 AM
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When it comes to reading material, I'd always suggest stick to the basics: The Game, Models, basically stuff like that. Read the basics, read some FR's, then go into field as much as possible. After you do, come back and post your story to the community. Overall people on this sub are helpful!
/r/seduction17/05/14 11:32 PM
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1) The most important thing is to meet and approach everyone. It doesn't matter if there's someone you don't like, try to be nice to them. By meeting everyone, or at least letting everyone know that you exist and are at this party, people will soon start recognizing you. As you walk around, throw high fives and hold brief conversations with your friends. People will notice the person receiving the most attention 2) Have fun. Yesterday, there was a point that me, the host, and this gay guy where …
/r/seduction17/05/14 07:16 PM
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Warning, wall of text: Building Rapprt and sexual tension while isolated: I like RSD's philosophy on building rapport. They do it through a mix of vulnerability and value. The first thing one has to remember is the make-up of communication is non-verbal. I practiced non-verbal communication in front of a mirror for a few months. What I would do is, grab movie or book quotes and act them out. I'd see how well I'm getting my emotions and sentiments across. For example, in Batman: The Dark Knight t…
/r/seduction17/05/14 07:09 PM
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Meet and fuck as many people as possible. That is objective numero uno. Here's the thing, to meet people one has to have a healthy lifestyle. One has to go to parties, have a wide assortment of friends, and be an interesting person. The aforementioned three are known as the friendship-triad. You use those three things to meet new people. Those new people will help you further your quests to meeting people. Now, once you've met them and want to get to know them better, how does one do that? Well,…
/r/seduction16/05/14 01:18 AM
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Yeah, the biggest reason I'm a sexual being - and that leads to my confidence and my comfort - is from my experiences. I've always written erotica, it's good practice and it's a lot of fun - personally. I used to perform burlesque. Things like that, things that are completely sexual. Seduction is complicated to me because I'm a bit of a sex addict. I say that negatively. I would literally miss class to have sex. I'd miss sleep and slack off on my responsibilities. My psychiatrist used to say tha…
/r/seduction12/05/14 12:19 PM
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Kino is tough because for many it feels unnatural. Kino escalation when I've isolated is simple. It can either pan out two ways, in my eyes. Either we're facing one another, or we're beside one another. If we're facing one another, I'll place my hand near her lower thighs - by her knees. If she's comfortable with that, I'll start rubbing her thighs. Or, I'll ask to see her hands and tell her how awkward hand massages look, but they're so good. Or, I'll literally turn my body around and rest my h…
/r/seduction12/05/14 12:15 PM
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Well, don't be self-conscious about it. I know it's easier said than done. And if you become comfortable with it, you can even make it a talking point. Like, you can ask her "what small personal thing about yourself I embarrassing." They'll stop and think, then you can chime in, "my hands, they're like so huge. It's odd, like it's not a big deal but I used to be worried about them." I have a noticeable lisp and always get called out from it in shit tests and by other guys. I just go and say thin…
/r/seduction12/05/14 11:46 AM
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First off, stop thinking about your fucking hands. No one cares about your goddamn hands. The more you think about them, the more in your head you're going to be. Keep them down on your sides. That's it. That's all you need to know. Anything beyond that is mental masturbation. - This is copied from this post by tofutofu. That being said, just let them hang down at your side. Try to remember to expose your palms. Never cover up your chest like you described. Psychology has a lot to say on body la…
/r/seduction12/05/14 02:19 AM
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Fuck yeah, brother. But seriously, for such a long time this material didn't click. I never expected myself to become the life of the party. It was an amazing feeling. Honestly, dominating the party was an amazing high and it's one I will chase again. For two reason, one because it shows that I'm making progress, two because it's fucking awesome.
/r/seduction11/05/14 09:39 PM
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Well, we all have to start somewhere. I've been reading seddit material for about three years. Though,a lot of concepts aren't necessarily applicable during high school. Either way, I went from being bullied and ridiculed to having a solid group of friends whom I'll cherish for a long time. When I started reading seddit, I thought all of this material was bullshit. Then I started reading about the philosophy of inner game and it just clicked. To everyone reading this and these comments remember …
/r/seduction11/05/14 09:37 PM
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Totally fine. Whenever you read seddit you have to remember you're only getting the OP's side of the story. I'm sure there were people that were uncomfortable by my actions. Not everyone is comfortable being hugged and stuff. Like you know when you're at a party there are some people you just don't click with but put up with because it's social expectation. I fall into that circle. I'm loud, eccentric, and ridiculously goofy. I say things out of turn. What made tonight special, and this fr refle…
/r/seduction11/05/14 05:06 PM
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Think of it like this, there are two ways to showcase how "interesting" you are, or might be. The first, and I'm borrowing from Models, is false confidence. You tell them how interesting you are. Here's an example og a cold-read dirrect open I did: Me: "hi, you look fun, adventurous even. Tell me about an adventure" Her: "my family used to go hiking all the time, does that count." Me: "totally, hiking's a lot of fun, I remember this trip I went with a few friends. This one girl, Niko, injured he…
/r/seduction25/04/14 12:32 PM
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Well, there must be a reason she blew you off. In high school it's harder to confront someone about sex than college and the adult world. In high school you're confined to your school, your circle of friends, etc... But, if you're as ballsy as you say, ask her why she flaked. Tell her you thought she was into you. I'm sure she has a decent reason. And if she doesn't, thank her for a great date. Keep her friendship going strong, because it's hard being friends with women as you age - everything b…
/r/seduction21/04/14 02:49 AM
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Alright, I'll be frank and say it, 16 is an interesting age. If you're already sexually active and confident, awesome. Make sure you understand what that means, at least for someone your age. I'm nineteen and about a year out of high-school. Personally, I'm a sexual guy. The best thing for you to do is hang out outside your house. Get close with her, make sure she's comfortable around you. High schoolers - myself included - still have delusions about the world. The demographic you're thinking ab…
/r/seduction20/04/14 10:33 PM
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Straight from the subreddit: A Psychonaut is a person who explores activities by which altered states of consciousness are induced and utilized for spiritual purposes or the exploration of the human condition, including shamanism, lamas of the Tibetan Buddhist tradition, sensory deprivation, and both archaic and modern users of entheogenic substances, in order to gain deeper insights into the mind and spirituality. My take on the philosophy of the psychonauts is as follows: through introspective…
/r/seduction18/04/14 10:40 PM
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At least you know the texts were copied word for word. Mistakes happen
/r/seduction10/04/14 01:33 AM
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I'm going to assume you like reading. For sake of this comment, let's say literature is reading a story for more than just entertainment. Therefore, in literature you read something, then you question the author's intent, the reason the scene is set as such, and whatever else may cross your mind. The History of Love, by Nicole Krauss A Farewell to Arms, by Hemingway Breakfast of Champions, by Vonnegut Disgrace, by Coetzee Lord of the Flies, by Golding Jane Eyre, by Charlotte Bronte Are all excel…
/r/seduction09/04/14 10:41 PM
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Yep. At some point during our texts I mentioned how tough it is to ask someone. She thought it was interesting.
/r/seduction09/04/14 09:47 PM
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Field report, it's basically a report back to seddit about how your interaction went.
/r/seduction09/04/14 09:28 PM
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It's also one that is dependent on maturity. Being able to dichotomize society is much harder than a linear progression. Maybe one day when I'm more experienced and older I'll be able to go to a, fuck or don't fuck, scale. For now, thinking about the HB scale as subjective works.
/r/seduction09/04/14 07:51 PM
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I'm 19. These last few months have involved a ridiculous amount of introspection. It's strange. But yeah, we get along well. She's my age. I go back to school this June :)
/r/seduction09/04/14 07:47 PM
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I agree with you. Still, some might appreciate the context. And like you said, it's unrealistic to have a binary scale, simply due to human nature - we get nervous, some people are more attractive and that affects us.
/r/seduction09/04/14 07:02 PM
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Beating AA might be the best and only way to get good at seduction. If you are confident enough to approach and hold a conversation with a beautiful woman, you're confident enough to do anything. And thanks, it was a fun date.
/r/seduction09/04/14 06:37 PM
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Seddit is about self-improvement and meeting women. Creating a scale based around our individual perception of women makes understanding my thought process easier. Sure, someone who is a HB9 to me is a HB7 to you, that doesn't matter. What matter is that this girl is a HB9 to me. I find her ridiculously attractive, and that affects how I react to her. Does that make sense?
/r/seduction09/04/14 06:31 PM
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Seddit helped me out a lot. It let me understand that no matter how attractive someone is, they're still human. Her and I get along well. However, I have been with people that it just wasn't so great. Part of the reason I decided to post was to show sedditors that beautiful and intelligent women exist, and that they're still human. Frankly, I'm glad it happened. If it wasn't for seddit, I'd fall into oneitis for her hard. That's another reason to post this FR, to ensure I don't get stuck in a tr…
/r/seduction09/04/14 06:25 PM
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