The_iron_mill Archive

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1	How to approach girls in the club? That’s fair- starting one is a lot easier than keeping one going in my experience. When people give you answers that don’t give a lot to go on, it’s even harder. Do you ever find yourself getting those one word type of responses? If so, what do you do?	/r/seduction	25/11/21 03:54 AM
0	[deleted by user] Hell yeah. Even throw in a smile if our eyes meet.	/r/seduction	24/11/21 02:03 AM
1	How to approach girls in the club? That’s a good question! I think one of the most useful things in that regard is to ask questions and get people taking about themselves, but since I don’t really know you that advice might not apply. What part of talking do you feel could improve the most?	/r/seduction	24/11/21 01:38 AM
4	How to approach girls in the club? In my experience, when I was particularly shy and socially anxious, I often didn’t benefit from having too many choices to make. Saying “you guys look like fun, who are you?” is pretty innocuous but gets your foot in the door. And to be fair, the question wasn’t “how do I start a conversation?” but “how do I approach women in this specific setting?” Starting a conversation can be intimidating,if you’re shy or don’t have much practice; in that case, it’s worth practicing and just saying what’s up…	/r/seduction	22/11/21 02:21 AM
11	How to approach girls in the club? So this isn’t specifically advice for “how to approach women” but rather how to have more fun by meeting more people. Pick a group. Go up to them. Say something to the effect of “you guys look like fun, who are you?” Start a conversation. Ask them how they know each other, or something like that. Just have fun. If there’s chemistry there’s chemistry. If not, you met new people.	/r/seduction	21/11/21 11:31 PM
1	Girls won’t meet up again after sex It could be that there just isn’t a connection. What do you tend to talk about on dates? I don’t think connections are any deeper or less deep if you bang on the first date based on my experience, but you shouldn’t be having sex just because you’re afraid you won’t see someone again. There’s nothing wrong with not having sex with someone if you’re worried that it’ll lead to a different outcome than you want. Alternatively, maybe it’s a mix of different things; maybe some of them didn’t feel a co…	/r/seduction	08/08/21 02:16 PM
2	As a man are low body counts attractive to you? There seems to be a lot of jealousy and comparison going on. I have asked a number of people I’ve been with what their counts were, and I’ve seen that it doesn’t seem to have any effect on the person or their ability to pair bond. A girl I know who has a triple digit count and bonded more closely to me than a girl who had only been with 27, who, in turn, bonded more closely than a girl who had only been with four. Granted, what I’m saying is anecdotal as fuck, but like… there’s a lot of really u…	/r/seduction	26/06/21 12:26 PM
1	As a man are low body counts attractive to you? I don’t understand this either. Just because I like to fuck doesn’t mean I can’t be monotonous about my liking sex. Just means I ought to pick a partner with a similar sex drive, if it’s that important to me.	/r/seduction	26/06/21 01:34 AM
1	As a man are low body counts attractive to you? Body counts literally do not matter to me. If someone is a decent human being, that’s far more important than how many people they have had sex with. And no, those two things are not related in any way.	/r/seduction	26/06/21 01:27 AM