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I know your question is rhetorical but I feel it hit the nail on the head and opened up a great discussion. It’s a constant tug-of-war with yourself, on top of the self-esteem blows and self-doubt (for believing a liar or putting up with this shit knowing it’s wrong). You firmly believe “this guy was supposed to be my best friend. The one who wouldn’t betray me. And he has. Every guy out there is like this. May as well stay / sunk cost fallacy” also, if you’re married, more often than not your f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:33 AM
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Maybe /r/loveafterporn. I comment there a lot to try and help out. Been there, felt like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:24 AM
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I also thought of the inverse - I’ve seen this “angel shot” thing multiple times. There’s plenty of men that have seen these signs or heard of them too. Kinda defeats the purpose of a “code word” if everyone knows it, no?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:08 AM
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Wow, it couldn’t possibly be the thought of him wanking it to women online. I never understood how usually these same men get furious if they think your eyes wandered and checked out a “hot dude”, meanwhile they’re beating their dick like it owes them money imagining fucking women online (or worse like dumping all their money into an OnlyFans).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:01 AM
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“She was an open book but he was illiterate”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:52 PM
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Oh no, not his tum tum! Jfc I’m sorry you dealt with that 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:19 AM
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Sounds like a controlling abusive relationship merely disguised as a sugar baby situation. The lack of any decency towards your family was the initial “taste test” to keep you from them, followed by isolating you further from society by having you move in and be under his thumb 24/7. You dodged a dark presence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:59 PM
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Please explain the fetal position thing. Like, WTF?! Why was he in the fetal position? Why did he need to be carried? Were you feeding him puffer fish or something, he became paralyzed, and you were practicing carrying bodies for the firefighting academy? That’s the only thing my imagination could come up with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:50 PM
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Nah, it was more so “you lost out by dumping him, he got you a nice ring / was going to propose.” Just a pointless immature comment to try and shake me up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:46 AM
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Unfortunately I have too many stories to choose from, but this one is a gem. It’s actually a reverse Uno. He acted like he didn’t give a shit until I was far gone Dated this guy on and off for 6 months here, 6 months there. If I mentioned anything about a future together, he would say things in the singular like “When I have kids... When I get married...”. I dumped him (well, saved him the trouble, really) when his brother told him it would never work out with me because I’m not religious (no su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 07:08 PM
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To add to your story about the multi-story building, my friend lived in Japan for 10 years. She said she took a friend to one of the floors but eventually went to another floor out of boredom and stumbled across what I’m about to tell you. This floor had TVs playing videos of small children on a beach. The young girl (had to guess 5-7 years old) was just walking in and out of the water. The person filming it was taking view points of someone that’s not a parent, clearly. It was like the Cuties m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:15 PM
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Sounds a lot like Rupi Kaur “you tell me i am not like most girls and learn to kiss me with your eyes closed something about the phrase - something about how i have to be unlike the women i call sisters in order to be wanted makes me want to spit your tongue out like i am supposed to be proud you picked me as if i should be relieved you think i am better than them” Rupi Kaur, Milk and Honey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:33 AM
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I saw on another sub that yes, he had a personal vendetta against her for rejecting him, but I don’t have a source handy. Edit: I could not find any source online so I’m going to assume that’s not what happened. However, the two reporters that doxxed this poor woman are now being doxxed themselves on Twitter ✌🏻 too bad they won’t lose their damn jobs. They called HER PARENTS and told them about her account after her father had a heart attack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:30 PM
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I can see two things: Yeah, the cheater should be canned ASAP. Regardless if the mistress knew he was in a relationship or not. That much is true. However, going after the mistress “flow chart” is as follows: Did mistress know? If yes, it’s really hard not to hate that person with all your being. What you do with that rage though is another subject. Especially if the mistress is sadistic and insecure enough to come after YOU. My mother was cheated on and the mistress was some junkie. The junkie …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 04:43 AM
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Narrator: he won’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:44 AM
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I was hoping you turned the broken glass, brick, and broken tab and turned it into a work of art 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 07:02 AM
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Former goth / black metal scene kid here. The “dark and mysterious” dudes just translate to “no personality, no goals, super insecure, but impeccable cd collection” Still I continued to only exclusively date within the scene because the alternative was being fetishized for having tattoos or being generally labeled a “bad girl” who would be a “total freak” in the sheets and they assumed I would automatically be into bondage and shit. I am not a place for men to live out some kink fantasy or be tr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 07:50 AM
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I saw a quote “she was an open book, but he was illiterate”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:01 PM
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Or their height
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 07:31 PM
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Exactly the reason why if we simply acknowledge the “kindness” of a compliment by saying “thank you” we are sometimes met with “that’s it? Conceited bitch”. If you hear this over years and years, you stop saying “thank you” and nearly APOLOGIZE for being who you are and it then becomes very uncomfortable to receive any sort of compliments. I do this a lot. If I get a compliment on an outfit (use a dress as an example) by a man, I’ll immediately retort with “thanks it was on the clearance rack!” …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:55 PM
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Check out El Scorcho by Weezer 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:07 PM
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Boy needs to take his “humor” and fade away like his hair line, Ffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 03:34 AM
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Exactly this. All his negligence was “good enough for him” and anything extra (just to get cleanliness etc to a bare MINIMUM) wasn’t recognized. He will brush that off as “a YOU thing” which goes unappreciated, yet somehow expected if you were to discontinue putting in far more than your half of the share. Blaming someone else for his issues is a huge 🚩 Depressed? Do some introspection and figure your shit out. Yes, you can expect support from your partner but don’t turn them into your therapist…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 06:49 PM
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Damn, thanks for the “grass isn’t always greener” perspective. I no longer have FOMO but it’s not a happy relief. Straight women == proof sexuality isn’t a choice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 10:31 PM
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Another thing is the quality of work. A woman cooking a meal is usually, you know, an actual meal. Men making Mac n cheese isn’t a 1:1 here. These guys will argue that they also make dinner and want equal credit. Not saying all women are gourmet chefs by any means (I’m not) but the food I make doesn’t have flavor packets included. And I’m sure a lot of men love grilling or fancy being in the kitchen, but I’ve just been unlucky in finding those unicorns lol Cleaning? Good luck with that one if hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:37 PM
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It’s cool, girls with abs don’t want his Middle Earth dwarf ass anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:34 PM
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OLD has a merited bad reputation but I’ve found a few great lady friends on Bumble BFF who share the same values.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:48 AM
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Something similar happened to me years ago. He was wanting me to be his emotional and physical rebound. I had no idea he was fresh on the market or else I wouldn’t have bothered. He was on OLD, talked with him on the phone for hours talking and flirting and I ended up going to his house to hang out. He tried getting sex but I declined and went to sleep instead. One week later he’s talking to me like one of his bros. He’s still on OLD. I sleuth a bit, find his Facebook profile, and lo and behold …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:38 PM
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Classic manipulation tactic. “Stop feeling bad for the things I say and do (or not do) and comfort me”. Nah, I’m not going to teach you how to be a decent partner in this relationship. The energy I input into taking care of my needs AND yours is a net negative value output. By saying this you’re admitting you’re completely comfortable with the way you are and not going to evolve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 03:37 PM
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And the pickme’s will rally behind him like she’s the evil one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 07:47 PM
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Awesome thanks! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 10:13 PM
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Is there any CBT literature or videos you know of I can look into? I have shit insurance and therapy is $120 a session 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:25 PM
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My ex: “my ex has a butter face” Also my ex when caught cheating with “butter face”: “she seduced me”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:22 PM
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Sounds like you’re closing an empty fridge only to reopen it expecting food to appear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:34 AM
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I worked for a computer shop fixing PCs. A common complaint was “their computer is slow” or “doesn’t load.” The usual solution was to replace a bad hard drive or do a factory restore, so we would do a backup of all the files they deemed “important.” We would do the data transfer but would have to spot check a few files to make sure they were not corrupted and loaded fine. Files were often labeled something like “IMG_5628” with no details. I can’t tell you how much bestiality and other perverted …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:02 PM
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The editor / co-founder of this site said these photos of a reader’s DAD were donated as stock photos. posted on Twitter by the editor themselves. If you go to the Reductress Twitter it literally says “The one and only fake women's news magazine.” So yeah, men like this exist, but don’t trash this guy in particular. Be better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:21 AM
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I think some ladies genuinely just like the “less maintenance” type (no strict diet, not at the gym a lot or at all) or they feel more comfortable with someone that isn’t chiseled because it’s a security thing, as if the less attractive dude honors he has a hot girlfriend and won’t cheat vs the stereotypical fuck boi. History will tell you that there is zero correlation between a mans appearance (or his lady’s) and his audacity. For me personally, I’ve dated both. I can look past the tummy if yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:38 PM
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Him: “WOW forgot about me already” Us: “The number you have dialed is no longer in service”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:48 AM
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As long as we release a limited edition for Christmas I’m down. With smash hits like “A Very Merry McDonald’s Dollar Menu” and timeless classics such as “Snowy Field with a Stranger”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:57 AM
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I read the title of this post like it was one of those late night infomercials for mixed tapes / cds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:46 PM
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I was thinking Angela / Dwight from The Office
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:39 PM
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Jason Voorhees has entered the chat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:15 PM
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Girl, I can relate. I’ve been there too. I picked what I thought were healthy, empowering girlfriendships and I would give 110%. They’d end up ghosting me because I wasn’t “cool enough” for their status, like I was their little secret. Then I’d blame myself like I did something wrong and continue to ask why they ghosted me, try to be “cooler” etc. I would lose my identity and dignity doing this. After getting hurt repeatedly all I had left were guy friends. Then you get to hear from other women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:18 PM
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How, exactly? In your state is your 401k not considered communal property? Or did you have an old employer 401k that you built up before the marriage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:35 PM
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For me, it all starts with who we as women pick as our role models. For me, it was my mother. Even though she had a carousel of loser junkie boyfriends my entire life, I highly respected her because ironically, she carried herself like “these men keep coming back because I’m a queen.” I thought this was somehow admirable when I was growing up. In my 20’s, I dumped guys for what others thought were “slight indiscretions” such as being porn sick, lying, cheating, etc. I complained to my mom that I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:31 PM
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In this nearby field 🔪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:24 PM
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I was in an abusive relationship with this junkie when I was 19. I did NOT know he was like this prior to dating him. It was a 180 degree switch. I hated his ass, so trust when I say I didn’t stick around “because I LoVe HiM” and could have easily just flown back to my home state where I would be safe. However, he repeatedly threatened he would harm my family if I left. He was extremely mentally unstable and again, a junkie, so I believed him. He knew where my family lived. I also had a bad expe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:36 PM
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Seriously WTF. A serial killer is the first thing that came to mind. That idiot aside from being cheap has no idea what women’s personal safety is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:38 AM
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Being that insecure must be exhausting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:49 PM
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YES. There’s no coincidence I did most of my dumping after I didn’t see them for an extended period of time. I realized how relieved I was to not have them around, walk on egg shells, not have every move I make be analyzed for “signs of cheating” by insecure, jealous LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:49 PM
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I would seriously subscribe to educational facts about what women go through in different cultures like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:50 AM
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This was EXACTLY me. I went from being an overly anxious detective (with anxiety disorder too, so bonus points there) regarding his porn addiction > to “I can’t live like this so I’m going to focus on myself” > being totally apathetic and detached in the relationship. Meanwhile, fully knowing porn is a deal breaker for me, was gaslighting me about it and also PROJECTING his guilt onto me via being super jealous, insecure, and accusing me of being up to no good. I’m so detached that affection rep…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:13 PM
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Him: “Brash, entitled” (yet at the same time) “pays for their share” clutches Oakley sunglasses The nerve! Sounds like money is the only thing he’s bringing to the table, and he’s mad that his lack of everything else isn’t good enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:30 PM
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Yep, same. My mom kept having kids though, like it was a merit badge for making it to the one-year mark with a boyfriend. She would be at work all day, have NVM boyfriends to “babysit” their own kid and us as half-siblings. They’d fuck off to the bathroom or garage to do drugs. So I’d end up watching all my younger siblings starting at the age of 8. Currently subscribed to /r/truechildfree. Hell, I don’t even want pets or plants. I’m so done taking care of other people and things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:36 PM
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Please leave a review that you got it for yourself because you wanted it and deserved it 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 06:21 AM
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Hit the nail on the head. High functioning anxiety here, and consistently found myself in relationships where I ended up being a caretaker to grown ass men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:52 PM
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Because he thinks you should be chained in his basement. Who the fuck stares at people like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:11 PM
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“It’s McDonalds’ fault I’m 400 lbs” “It’s women’s fault I have a porn sick dick” “It’s my parents fault, they gave me an addictive personality” Just stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:44 PM
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“BuT I hAvE nEeDS”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:40 PM
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Oh he’s fine with cleavage in his porn - he just wants his girlfriend to be innocent, subservient, and not confident so he can try and control her. That’s all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 12:35 AM
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You reminded me of Sarah’s Scribbles (in the best way possible) https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0003/4032/8454/products/9215be17de95bb9ff6566c2785a85823_grande.jpg?v=1562609111
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 09:29 AM
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I honestly think a lot of women (I’m guilty of this too) were so programmed since youth by our parents, culture, etc that a woman’s “worth” is directly related to receiving a ring or not. Or how we’re perceived when choosing to be single. “Oh, don’t want to settle down and pick baby names with nice guy Tim? Probably because you’re a whore.” We equate external forces with our value (proposals, whether we are committed to, etc), and everyone on earth wants to feel valuable. “Wow, aunt Susie is a s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 03:22 AM
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Wow, just imagine what he was doing when you were dating him 🤔 dodged a bullet, sis I’ve been that person that sent screenshots to the new girlfriend and they didn’t believe me and stayed with the guy, so I looked like a clown. Not up to me what you do with that info, but you’re welcome. I dunno if the stars are in some chaos alignment or if it’s the cabin fever from the quarantine, but I’ve been married 5 years and never heard a peep from an ex. Then bam in the last month, two came out from the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:15 AM
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Yup, had one where I would post my progress pics for bodybuilding because I was proud of them, and he said I was “doing it for attention” and would be super pissed off about it. Meanwhile, it’s cool if he posted shirtless pics because “it was in an attempt to get sponsorships” oh, and he was porn sick AF in hiding, because I told him from the gate that was a deal breaker. Wonderful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:05 PM
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Interestingly, I’ve found a correlation between being with a lazy as fuck dude where I have to instruct them on being an adult with common sense shit, and lack of desire to ever have kids. Kinda cures the “empty womb syndrome” when you’re with a 30+ yr old toddler.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 06:23 PM
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“I’m not like the other girls!” Type of post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 08:35 AM
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Is his username something having to do with his ex? JillsACh...eater? If so, how fucking pathetic Snaps for you for taking care of your own damn kids? Fuck. Reminds me of the Chris Rock stand up “I take care of my kids!” They always want some credit for some shit they’re supposed to do. They will brag about some shit a normal man just doesn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 07:46 AM
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I have to buy a book for my cousin’s baby shower (having a baby girl) so your comment is perfect timing. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 09:25 AM
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There’s also a great episode on this on “Sex, Explained” (Netflix)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 07:33 AM
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I feel like you just described Italians. My mom raised me to grow up and marry a fellow Italian and I don’t know what the fuck she was thinking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:46 AM
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I was dating a guy (not in a relationship with him, we were still getting to know each other) and a few dates in, he texted me and asked me what i was up to. I said I was getting ready to go out with some friends (girls night with Netflix). He felt a great follow up question was “what guy friends of yours have you slept with?” Um what?! I said my history is none of his business. Only my future should concern him. He said it was definitely his business. Well he was so fixated on my personal busin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 09:51 PM
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My fucking eyes opened so wide that my damn eyeballs fell outta my skull. What the fuck did I just read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 09:46 PM
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Yup my mom bought this for me when I went through a bad breakup with a LVM in my early 20s. Absolute game changer. It’s a bible for the women in the family
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 05:09 AM
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So far she has bought him bedding, food So she adopted a hamster
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 03:44 AM
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This is what my mom did. After numerous failed relationships with man-children she just moved her best friend in and they’re inseparable. They make the best partners because they are best friends, not bound by a marital or other relationship obligations as you had mentioned. My mom has never been happier or felt more free. We joke all the time that they’re secretly lesbians but honestly, your soul mate does NOT have to be a significant other. It can be anyone. Your sibling, your best friend, etc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 03:37 AM
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