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The_new_Todd/r/askMRP24/06/20 03:47 AM
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Thanks; it's definitely a tough situation for inter-racial couples right now. That said, the situation is just another way our problems are manifesting. If it wasn't this it would be something else (it has been for years). I did go to a protest with her and my daughters and do my best to be supportive. But unfortunately, so much damage has been done between us and for such a long time, I don't have it in my heart to give any more to her. That may have been my fault (I've certainly been a beta) b…
/r/askMRP25/06/20 07:16 PM
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I appreciate that. Your comment is much more constructive than someone who takes what I say and re-phrases it "blah blah blah" and calls it an excuse. I take full responsibility for my situation and was just answering a direct question. That said, I am 100% in agreement that the facts are clear, that she and I don't provide anything for each other any longer and that I need to burn it down (marriage, not my relationship with my daughters). I think you're right; I was asking about advice for afte…
/r/askMRP25/06/20 07:07 PM
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Okay, thanks. My whole journey started with "The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck" and your recommendation sounds like a great follow up.
/r/askMRP25/06/20 12:41 AM
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I think that's probably the case with me and don't plan on any LTR for a long time. My old boss just got married again for the 3rd time. I want to expose him to TRP but he may be hopeless. Going to clean up my own house first. Don't ever want to be in this situation again.
/r/askMRP25/06/20 12:39 AM
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Thanks again. I'm actually an attorney (contracts, not family law) but I did have a consultation. She gave me her thoughts, ran a Disomaster so I know what I'm in for financially. She is ready to go if I end up going the lawyer route. Hoping it won't come to that but I am prepared if necessary.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 06:30 PM
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I'm not expecting a quick fix. Even though the sidebar is one big PDF I've loaded into my Kindle, it's still separated one book at a time. So for instance, right now I'm in the middle of The Manipulated Man. I'm making sure to reflect on each individual book as I work my way through. If you mean I'm quitting the marriage before I put in the work, I might tend to agree but so much damage has been done to this relationship that I don't even consider myself to be married to my wife any longer other…
/r/askMRP24/06/20 06:26 PM
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I know it's a problem. No More Mr. Nice Guy is on my list. I should get to it this week. Just so much to read but I am definitely looking forward to that book and the insights I hope to get from it.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 06:19 PM
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And yet you're one of only two responses offering no constructive advice. Thanks for nothing.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 06:17 PM
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When I was in law school a teacher took off 10 points anyone wrote "clearly" in their exams. You say I clearly don't take my life seriously but don't say how I do that or why. I completely disagree and find your flippant conclusions and comments unhelpful and not worthy of any further reply.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 06:15 PM
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Really sound advice. Why did you even bother to take the time to reply? You either have not been in this situation or care so little about things to not take this seriously.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 05:17 PM
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???? Just explaining. Thanks for nothing. Lots of great advice but not from you.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 05:16 PM
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Lawyer is on call. You're the second one to recommend keeping a log of everything. Starting that right away. Thank you.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 03:14 PM
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I am a provider. That's my value to her. She is a good mom. That's it. We're married for the family and because we're Catholics. My parents never divorced. There is a lot of guilt and sense of commitment keeping me here. It's taken me years to get over that and realize I need to get out.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 03:13 PM
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Really appreciate that. Thanks so much.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 03:11 PM
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Harsh but I get your sentiment. I will take your words to heart and become intimately familiar with the divorce section. The journal is a fantastic idea. Will start that today. I'm not greedy. Just want equal time with my daughters. She has a job. She earns a decent amount and I don't think she could find anything that pays more. The problem is I've done really well the past 5 years and my income has skyrocketed. Double edged sword. It is what it is. I'll be happy to prove you wrong.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 03:11 PM
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I started reading Rollo's first two books. Done. I'm now working my way through the sidebar. The whole thing has been converted to a Kindle format and I'm halfway done. As I mentioned, I've been dealing with "this" for many years but have only been exposed to TRP for a few months. I know that I have failed every one of her shit tests and done everything wrong in this relationship making her see me as Beta as can be. I don't think she knows that's what she's been doing and I know that it doesn't …
/r/askMRP24/06/20 03:06 PM
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Thank you. I have been coming to terms with how difficult and trying this will be. I have always tried to be a nice guy and I know I have to ask for more than I would be satisfied with. The relationship with my daughter's is paramount and I will definitely focus on them and make sure they know I am there for them. It is time to be a rock and make sure I'm solid in preparation for the storm.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 03:00 PM
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You packed a lot in here. Thanks so much for the meaningful reply. You're right; I'm in no rush and can take the time to figure it out and do it right. Thank you.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 02:57 PM
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Thanks. Making the sidebar a priority, done and done.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 04:43 AM
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Will do. Yep, on the computer.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 04:42 AM
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Slip of the non-Freudian variety. Was just trying to de-escalate but I get your point. I have spoken to an attorney and they are ready to go if needed.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 04:41 AM
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