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Just proving it started at least about 2500 years ago. And being accused of commiting the original sin that got us kicked out of the literal paradise is a pretty big villain thing to be associated with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:36 PM
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Eve and Lillith would like to have a chat with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:25 PM
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Then it's your attitude, and from this post we can easily agree on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:56 PM
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process infos and be efficient while browsing the web filtering what is fake ads or not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:07 AM
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I know and I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:10 AM
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You're supposed to know if you prefer firm, mid or soft mastress. Then google search the nearest shops online, get some basic info about what to look for when testing, then go test. If you can't take few hours in your life to get something that will be beneficial for you for several years that's on you and it's your choice. Your lazyness isn't an excuse to indulge in mediocrity. If you can't process infos and be efficient while browsing the web filtering what is fake ads or not, you're either a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:09 AM
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It’s not rocket science nor is it the “1900’s.” Indeed and it's very dumb, but it's the reality for most household, in the same way "girls are softer, naturally caring while boys are tough and loud". Is it true by nature ? Not necessarily, but we (as a society) make them and ourselves think so by reinforcing the stereotypes. I was talking about single young adults mostly. My male friends are mostly very disorganized, one of them didn't have a goddamn vaccum for 2 whole years in his flat. Most pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:29 AM
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The reason why women are doing better after leaving their parent's house is because girls are often required to help around the house, hence learn how to keep a house clean and tidy. Also peer pressure because "women are cleaner". Boys aren't, when their room is messy and dirty af the parents are just dismissing it because "it's a teenager boy/boys will be boys/it do be like that". So in the end, women are adulting more properly when they get their own place, while ex mommy's boy are just living…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:01 AM
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The reality is, every time you stress about how ideal a bed is, that's mental energy taken away from something else. ??? Having a good spring bed and a quality mastress is gonna give you sooo much more quality sleep that thinking about it for 15min and doing a quick google search about what are the best ones are just going to grant you so much more efficiency for the next 15 years. I respect the lack of decoration or pretty whatever for aesthetic reasons, but basic quality furnitures AND tidynes…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:55 AM
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Actually weirldy accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:32 PM
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Beggars CAN be choosers, but they can't complain if they are struggeling then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:16 PM
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Being picky is a number game, if you reject more than half of the population in your age range, yes you are picky. Both men and women are, it's fine, we are allowed to have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:15 PM
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No. A behaviour is creepy, not a look alone. "Weirdo" could be only by looks if it's too far from the norm, but not necessarily unnatractive. Stalker is someone stalking IRL or on social media, so not synonymous of unattractive. ​ And finally, those type of women are themselves unhinged and the equivalent of guys chasing chicks with BPD/hysteria/whatever mental illness that makes them "hot" for men for some reason, and apparently good at sex (then they will complain their life with those girls a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:35 PM
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Funny that you believe lesbian dating is easier than heterosexual dating as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:07 PM
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I see it in the more family oriented part, but it doesn't necessarily feel like a choice there. And ofc not going a lot to parties/less promiscuity in the past in a plus for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:37 PM
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Since you said they wasn't the type that cheats I assumed so. Ofc if I can't be assured of that then the past and present of A can be a problem, so if he is acting like an overconfident fuckboy it will be a problem. So it depends, I would have to see how he is behaving around friends and acquaintances especially female ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:24 AM
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None of them is a bad guy, the abusive type, or the type that cheats on women, or anything like that You had me there, give me someone I can be 100% sure he will never abuse nor cheat on me and I'm good, the rest doesn't matter. ​ More serious answer, A > B in basically everything right ? Except for the fact that he is more promiscuous than B, that is bothering me but since you specified he won't cheat that don't matter anymore. In those condition I would say most people would choose A, except m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:01 AM
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It obviously doesn't matter if she was coerced to it or if she liked it or not ! She HAS the duty to DO IT with ALL the guys she met after him ! Same if once she sleep on the first 3 dates ! How DARE she not like it or realize it was a bad idea >:( /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:41 PM
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Yeah and it's a total redflag is someone has already been married 2 times or more. Yes they are willing to get married but they are either not a good partner or suffering from poor choices and/or impulsivity. (not counting widows obviously)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:32 PM
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menopause is essentially nature's way of trying to kill off a woman once she's not able to have kids anymore Wtf, menopause is to PROTECT the life of a woman because geriatric pregnancy become way at risk the more you aged. Same for protecting the potential futur kids (and future generation) because genetic defects are more likely to occur the more the female gamets get older. Some men are really eager to devaluate older women and justify it by "nAtUrE WaNtS To KiLl U"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:06 PM
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You can ask and they still lie. The problem is the dishonesty, or knowing it won't lead anywhere from the beginning and lying stating to the girl there still is a chance. For sure women that accept this kind of grey zone if it's not what they look for are in the wrong or at least shouldn't complain about it. But it's not even a grey zone when the guy is seeing several chicks or not even considering commitment but tell you otherwise, it's a plain white lie to keep you along. ​ And you can see ano…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:56 AM
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Bold of you to assume they get dates and not 10pm booty called because they don't want to be seen with a "fuck zone" by friends or acquaintances outside. And no, women do not (all) get on date to be entertained or feed for free. Most people nowadays split the bills or do 50/50, if you chose gold diggers, realize and keep going, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:49 AM
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Because it's common than a guy is saying that to a woman, stop seeing her when she said she wants something serious, then soon after find someone else and surpringly is dating the new woman seriously (note : gender can be reverse it's not specific to guys). Most guys using this excuse would change their minds if their perfect girl would be in the picture even at the wrong time in their life. (again, not gendered specific here) It's more common for guys to look for hook up and lie to keep them as…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:37 PM
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Oh yeah for sure but this is a whole other level. Women agreeing to that on their free will have a deep lack of self respect but I guess those men are straight up lying and using excuses like "I don't know where I stand/not ready for a relationship/don't have time for one". Tbh it's the main reason why I'm refraining myself for stating my interest to a man : if I do so it's because I want to know him more, date him and see if we are compatible. Unfortunately he is likely to assume that's equival…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:00 PM
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If a man's intention are clear toward a woman and she declines his advance yes, that's rejection. For me rejection is getting turn down for wanting more when the other party isn't interested, anything matching the description is so by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:53 PM
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I saw the edit but here to emphasize the rejection for other readers : Yes it is since it's basically a man telling you you're not worth a commitment but being a sex toy for him is negotiable. So basically you're passing his look treshold but your personnality is shitty and / or not gf material. So ofc it hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:55 PM
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I'm both B) Imagine the toxicity ahah (not really into the whole online Sims 4 fandom but have probably over few hundreds hours on it)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:00 PM
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I mean yeah if a guy go for the type that mainly play Zelda BOTW, the Sims and Animal crossing there is a chance that she won't like playing online FPS or MOBA videogames with him, but in that case he should just go for the ones already playing it ! There is a lot of women on Overwatch/League/Valorant for instance, I wouldn't be surprised that they represent >25-30% of the whole playerbase on those.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:11 PM
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Best part about the sims 3 is the openworld without loading time, you can just decide at any moment to check (stalk) what sims are at the beach or at the park any time swiftly or decide to make your sims go there without having to exit your neighbourhood -> loading screen -> select the center city -> loading screen -> arriving to the center city with your Sims :( It feels like a cool busy hive I loved it so much I hope they put it back in the Sims 5 ! Oh and also I think they didn't have the tod…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:08 PM
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Nowadays there is SOOO many women playing video games/watching anime that if it's important for you you can quite easily find a "geeky/neerdy" woman. Mainstream anime are often icky in the way they depict women but Shojo are targetted to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:09 PM
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You're forgetting the Sims 3 and 4 too ahah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:07 PM
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If someone has ridiculous high standards that means they won't find anyone so they will either end up alone or lower them. If they find someone that mean it wasn't ridiculously high and that they were right to have them since they got what they wanted. Easy, offers and demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:05 AM
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Actually recent studies show the UK and the US are in front of us when it comes to cheating. https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/infidelity-rates-by-country But anyway cheating isn't a culture but just a lack of value, so by choosing well your partner you're supposed to put the odds in your favor. And from hearing some guys that are used to ONS and doing well in the pick up artist category, they are not hard to vet out if you just hear them talking. I firmly believe that the women…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:33 PM
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A high number of past sexual partners is unatractive to me and others female friends I know. No one wants to be another name on a list, and it's too much problems with exes/ex hook up. Marriage/dating material imo should be capable of self control and not sleep with whoever he can, which is often what happen with high BC men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:53 AM
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No some apps are more targetted to serious relationship. It does exist, and for me it makes sense if someone is inviting you to a fancy place or a bit expensive restaurant. I don't really do dating but I wouldn't mind being the one asking out a guy and paying, it just makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:16 PM
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we would just read books and play board games with our close friends ahah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:36 PM
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I wouldn't say in Western countries they are still expected to, but if you're dating women leaning on a more traditionnal way of thinking it will be a plus for sure compared to guys not doing it on other of her dates. Ofc you will still find women dismissing guys not doing it on the spot, but that's not the majority, and I think a man should only do it if firstly he wants to, and second if he knows his efforts will be reciprocated, either financially on other dates or with gifts, extra-attention…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:08 PM
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I think you're missing the point. OP's post is about women complaining men are gaming them and men complaining women are using them for money, and in that case yes those are the simpliest and easiest solutions. But if you're a woman who aren't whinning you're being used for sex when you get pump and dump, then for sure keep having sex early on and enjoy the easy and numerous rides. And the same way if you're a guy willing to pay in hope to have sex after, sure do, but again do not complain becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:22 PM
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You're the perfect exemple of black pill for women, and also proving how the whole "women are settling with the good guys on their 30's when they had their fun before" isn't gender specific since guys do the same. I know self called traditionnal men that are "hoeing" aroung with the hot party girls, and then think like you that they deserve to settle with a traditionnal woman to start a family even if she will be more boring and not that attractive to him. And for sure they know enough how to pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:52 AM
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It's not simping if it goes both ways, simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:42 AM
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I intend on trying dating apps once in my life but still never did to this day, but if I do I would prefer doing conversations for 2-3 days then meeting IRL to assess real chemistry. However I do find it weird when on those profile recap with the number of matches/dates there is a vast difference for female users between the number of matches/convos they had and then the number of actual dates, it's something along one date for 7-10 convo or more. The only reasons I can find to explain this is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:39 AM
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I mean obviously men don't have to compete for women they are not drive to ? If simps stop existing it will encourage women to also get better, hence improving everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:50 PM
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I'm in a quite high socioeconomic job sector and among my female friends that are seriously dating a guy they are either from the same field OR the guy has a ""below"" blue collared job, so maybe this assumption is true for America but it's not for West Europe. If your referenced are only superficial dating apps type of women it might not be the best. I would add that maybe women working very low paying jobs are more picky since they can't sustain on their own a non broke lifestyle so they are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:19 PM
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Indeed, if you both are making good money you can both work a bit less to have more freetime to spend for your hobby and with your kids AND still live comfortably. I don't understand how not everyone would just think that more money = overall better and simplier life, hence why it's preferable if your partner is earning more than just low or average income.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:05 PM
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And then complaining women take half of their money/belongings when divorcing while being with a woman earning same amount or more money than them would solve that problem lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:02 PM
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They will say educated women are more likely to divorce. Truth is it's not because women are educated that they are more likely to ask for divorce, but it's because low wages women can't afford to divorce and get a comfortable place for themselves and the kids, thus staying in bad marriages. It's all about power dynamics, some men want women that are earning less so they can hold more psychological power over them and "demanding" more : "since I earned twice as you are making then you have to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:08 PM
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Wait I was a minority this whole time T-T ??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:16 PM
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reread last paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:26 PM
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B), ofc only if I love him too otherwise I won't spend my life with someone I don't romantically love nor a cheater so I will prefer to stay single (D) OR A) since it's basically the sugar daddy version of D, but it's clear he can't demand me to stay faithfull if he isn't too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:18 AM
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Yep same, all my IRL male friends are either gay or have a girlfriend !
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:02 PM
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If you don't believe in darwinian Evolution I can't do anything for you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:00 AM
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I don't understand how men can be insecured and feels bad about something they can't replace. Like yeah you can't vibrate your stuff it's fine let a toy do it for you lmao. Why on Earth you would deprive your SO from something they like while it's doing you nothing wrong ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:58 AM
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Yeah it's kinda depressing that guys are putting such an emphasis on looks. I guess it's why they can't understand as someclaims that NO, not wanting to sleep with you within 3 dates don't mean we aren't attracted to you... But that seems to completely go over their head that attractive =/= I can't control myself and want to sleep with you right here right now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:49 AM
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Nah it's not sexism since the gender reverse equivalent exists : it's highly understandable too for a guy to feel down if a woman is using a massive dildo to get off because her bf's dick isn't big enough for her. I would be rightfully upset as a man. Edit : to add an example I wouldn't care if my man were using the eggs stuff sextoy to masturbate, they have textures and other features that I literally can't naturally provide, so if it feels good for him I won't deny him using it. If your normal…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:44 AM
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Oh sure, if you're not dismissing other ways than PIV I get your point more. It's just that most women aren't biologically wired for that, and it takes more time and arrousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:25 AM
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I'm talking for men thinking PIV is the only acceptable way. Studies show that around only 30% women can come from PIV, so the rest should indeed be able to come from grinding. But either way it's understandable for a woman to have her ego bruised more by a guy remplacing her vagina with a fleshlight because she should be able to "compete", than a guy being bothered by his girl using the "machine vibrating at an unnatural speed". Male equivalent would be death grip, a woman shouldn't feel person…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:23 AM
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Women weren't biologically selected to orgasm easily and quickly compared to male because it's not required for pregnancy, so it's wrong to think a non orgasming woman is more ""dysfonctionnal"" compared to a non orgasming men, it's pretty much the opposite. And that's exactly why men take more pride into being able to pleasure a woman because it required more skills. That's also why it's a desirable traits women are looking for in a partner and is linked with compassion, patience and being cari…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:46 PM
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Comparing porn and sextoy is stupid. You can't put physical stimulation in the same spot as mental stimulation/sexual excitement from visuals. I guess the correct analogy to vibrators would be either the death grip problem for guys or the use of flesh light. But even fleshlights are different because it's a replacement for a vagina while a vibrator for clitoridal stimulation isn't a replacement for a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:42 PM
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I would still be cautious as why you didn't want to be with the women you hooked up with. If you weren't considering them gf material I could understand, sometimes you're juste not meeting the right persons. But if it was only because you enjoy partying and didn't want to be in a committed relationship just to be able to have sex with other girls, then I would be wary of you cheating while being commited. Ultimately actions speak louder than words, if you're showing by all means that you want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:35 PM
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I actually would have think the same if it didn't happen with a classmate I knew several years ago. He was in my class for more than a year without me ever noticing anything special about him, we were doing small talk for instance if I had to but I didn't think once he was attractive nor did I have any kind of interest for him. Then we ended up in the same class again the next year, and for some reason he just acted very smart on something during class and it turned a switch into my brain I gues…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:49 PM
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It's relevant because some really pretty actresses are getting put down on this subreddit and labelled as "mid", meaning some guys actually think the only attractive acceptable women out there are the 1% top instagram models. And OP dating is a market, your value is what other see in you. There is no league, just offers and demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:56 PM
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I can't rate people out of ten, but I can rate them from unattractive to no opinion then attractive and VERY attractive, that's as far as it goes. As long as a guy is into the no opinion or above, it's his (non physical) traits that will define if I would like to date him/pursue him or not. If he is down to that, great ! If he isn't, unlucky for me. But at no point I would tell myself he isn't good looking enough compared to me or the opposite. You either are attracted or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:54 PM
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Yeah I won't invest time and energy pursuing someone that will most likely not even want to be with me in the longterm since it's not what he is used too, he will just miss his freedom and his old lifestyle at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:44 PM
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I think no one believes guys are picky for sex and want supermodel to hookup with (classic meme as long as there is a pulse they are dtf), but they do for a relationship. For the women I can indeed see a lot of slutshaming but redpillers/incels will tell you those women are promiscuous only with "chads/top tiers guys", and otherwise are picky. But in the end I believe in OP's vision : People don't have a right to complain, everyone can have as much high standard as they want, it will just make i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:46 AM
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Pretty sure you could link piercing and tattos with an increase risk of mental illnesses. The reverse is also true, if you take a girl with a bipolar disorder or a borderline personnality there is a high chance for her to have tattoos/piercing. I would even add they often are a "content creator" or wannabe on ig/twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:39 PM
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Yep, take the 10k most followed women by guys on social media and surprise they are all wearing a lot of make up, most likely had platic surgery, and use filters. Same with most of the porn guys are watching. So obviously since their attention is given to those women girls will want to look closer to that and imitate the looks. And women are harsh between themselves too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:36 PM
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It's a Gaussian curve everywhere, you will have like 10% very hot girls in all fields. MAYBE you can say that barista will have a better chance to be hired among those without degrees, but that still means that there are girls without a good job that are also ugly or just average. And let's be real, the hotties male or female will most likely end up together AND paired among their socioeconomic class. It's just often a better match in interests, habits and traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:37 PM
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I had guys telling me I shouldn't consider my job as an advantage to date and even it was a downside (high degree). The thing is I have never ask lol, so they are just assuming we are doing that for men and they feel overshadowing when they have a lower income. Spoiler alert, we aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:23 PM
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Yeah I don't understand how they are all assuming having a degree makes you ugly ahah, people can be both
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:20 PM
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I'm in my early twenties so younger than 25yo. I have never read somewhere that 25 was a shared view point in age gap acceptability, but I always set up the bar to 25 before when discussing with friends. Why ? Because I know I was a kid at 18-20 and that's how I see them now, and I can totally see how I would see people my age to 25 as ones too. However when you reach 25, most of the times you had already some relationships and the heartbreak going with it, you have finished your studies and wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:23 PM
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That's just so dumb and hypocritical of him, I will never understand that type of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:42 PM
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No problem. I just find dumb the fact it's not legal to pay a test on your own for your kid, like you would order a bloodtest. Trying to cover cheater isn't the way I wish my country was going. :(
/r/MensRights29/08/23 08:54 PM
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The judge would most likely order the test then. From what I understood, protecting the kid's interest is apparently prevalent when the father has been in the kid's life at least for some time, then want to do a paternity test (because he realized his wife cheated on him on the past but years after for instance).
/r/MensRights29/08/23 07:28 PM
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Yes for sure, I'm talking in an ideal case if we could modify the law to avoid babytrapping (?) and still let a woman a chance to have the kid.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 06:32 PM
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Ah, coucou toi c:
/r/MensRights29/08/23 02:29 PM
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I do believe feminism is needed, as I do also for the male equivalent, and that law is just unfair and nonsense and I can't wrap my head around how it's ok or good for some. I made this post after seeing a french one "unpopular opinion" where OP believed it should be mandatory. A lot of women were firmly disagreeing with everyone saying the law should remain as it is because "You have to think about the children's life" and "if you raised it it's your kid, the DNA doesn't matter at that stage". …
/r/MensRights29/08/23 02:20 PM
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I indeed know someone that had to order a kit from a borderer country. But it still remains illegal to do so on your own so if you get caught you will have to pay 15k € and you will get 1 year of jail time. Plus I'm pretty sure if the woman threatening him was more pushie, he wouldn't have be able to tell the judge he already did it or the result wouldn't matter, so it's still the judge decision in the end.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 02:12 PM
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To be fair, I believe the women should be able to carry the pregnancy to the end and raise the kid, however the fathers should be aware of the pregnancy and if they know before the end of the abortion timeline limit and they don't want the child, they should be able to cut all ties with it and not owe any financial compensations or whatsoever. So if the mother wants to keep it, she is doing it knowing she will have to raise it without him.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 02:08 PM
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Sounds like she tried to be with the others first and got ditch, then moved on to the next one aka the redditor at the top of the thread that is the only one willing to be with a relationship with her. If he would have decline she prob would have keep going around the whole friend group. If she would have picked him she would have go straight to him, no need to fuck other friends before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:34 PM
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