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Babe when divorce is happening denial, delusions and distorted thinking is always involved. Everyone likes to play the blame game…
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/25 03:53 PM
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Sending much love and support ❤️‍🩹
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/25 05:57 PM
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Knowing, believing and feeling in your soul that inequality does exist and life is not fair.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/25 05:39 PM
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Thanks for stopping by 🫶 your feedback will be reviewed at a later time. Best wishes ⭐️
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 03:02 PM
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I’m a lucky one I don’t have to co parent with the stbxh even though he is holding my puppy hostage but if it’s someone you have to deal with and set an example for your children you are going to want to have a semi normal relationship. Great minds think alike check this post out https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/s/k2CYkqfiCs
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 05:22 AM
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You are an exotic rare species! Hope you are not endangered. That seems more peaceful and sometimes people silently quit their marriage and there’s nothing left to do. No after math mess. You are a proud owner of the golden ticket 🎫 Thank you for being part of this community and sharing your strength, wisdom and hope because you never know who you are inspiring. Keep being amazingly you!
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 03:17 AM
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Sometimes incompatibility is a thing. People change if they want to change. Here is a comment from another post but it’s super relevant here… ⭐️ My pleasure love! ❤️ I completely understand where you are coming from and it’s like sitting in gridlock traffic with the gas needle on e and 3 hours late to the most important event of your life. Analysis paralysis. It’s the trauma response to the bullshit you have been enduring. My heart bleeds for everyone with a broken heart. Change is scary fucking…
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 02:45 AM
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Awww thanks for the kind words. The comment post yeah that’s all me. The formulas I did have some slight assistance with but I am the foreman project manager and laid down the foundation and supervised for KAT (Kick Ass Therapist) Google Gem to help out.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 02:40 AM
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Awww thanks for the kind words. The comment post yeah that’s all me. The formulas I did have some slight assistance with but I am the foreman project manager and laid down the foundation and supervised for KAT (Kick Ass Therapist) Google Gem to help out.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 02:39 AM
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LIFE MATH: COUPLE'S EDITION Solve Relationship Equations, Achieve Unshakeable Balance! Authentic Relationship = (Honesty + Vulnerability) - Pretense Because you can't build a mansion on a house of cards. Drop the BS, people. Your partner deserves the real you, cracks and all. Deep Connection = (Shared Presence + Radical Acceptance) - Distraction Put down the damn phone. Look them in the eyes. Really see them. Love them for exactly who they are, not who you want them to be. Relational Resilience …
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 12:56 AM
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Yup, ABSOLUTELY 💯 these mind scramblers are not gender specific. The life span of them varies based on experience. Until it is official these mind fucker uppers are going to linger around starting havoc. People are pathologically emotionally dishonest to themselves and others. There are people who on the outside look like they are having the best time of their life being their best selves and struggling severely emotionally and mentally.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/25 06:20 PM
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Hey 👋 sounds like you are doing what you can do. Strive for progress not perfection this will save you some headaches and heart aches later. This is the way I think of it. Your past is your rearview mirror. Your present is the car. Your future is the windshield. The road is life. The destination is where you want to go. I like to say it always about the journey not the destination. My favorite thing to do driving bump some tunes to have my own singing and dancing party or audiobooks. That’s how …
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/25 10:24 AM
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Sure about that? Throw my responses in an AI detector and post the results. You are deflecting from the topic, turning it around which tells me this is a sore topic for you. It’s ok I understand you want to shut shit down that makes you uncomfortable, I get it. This is unproductive and harmful just an asshole move really. So you are in this community for a reason. Let’s stick to the context of the post. What’s your experience?
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/25 10:09 AM
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Money is the root of all evil. #thebestthingsinlifearefree⭐️😎 Nah you’re not alone. This is more common than one would think a marriage of convenience. I like to call this one the microwave theory… So look at it this way you buy a microwave to make your life easier and save you time. It’s an appliance. You never sit there worrying about the microwave unless there is an issue or you’re looking to upgrade. Usually the only time it crosses your mind is when you need to use it. This goes on for the …
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/25 10:02 AM
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Yes! It is soooooooooo hard to describe especially if they have never experienced it. Divorce is one of the biggest emotional rollercoaster someone can get on. The ups and downs. The quick lefts and unexpected rights. The loopy loops lots of loopy loops. The drop offs that you think this is the end of my life! This one loves to do the switch a roo and go backwards. You find yourself laughing, crying, screaming, wishing it was over, thrilled, invigorated, energized it is a ride you will never for…
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/25 09:46 AM
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You are doing great! You are feeling better, have a better out look. Keep going, keep moving forward, keep looking out for you! The heart wants what it wants regardless of the consequences always getting people into sticky situations! I know lots of people think they are the leader to their destruction but that’s not always true. Who you need to watch out for Is the least likely of suspects your mind. Your mind loves to play tricks on you. The magic hat is full of thinking errors and cognitive b…
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/25 09:39 AM
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Seems like the logical thing to do, address immediate threat then when all things are safe and clear get back to the deep inner stuff. This is a popular strategy and a majority decide to go this route. It is always a personal decision which route they take and I’m not knocking anyone that takes this route but it is not the most effective and efficient route. it actually creates more work down the road. This type of strategy is one of the top reasons people get divorced. The deep inner stuff can …
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/25 09:00 AM
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Thank you for your response. I forgot this piece of the puzzle. The pseudo supportive family and friends. This shows you the disregard they actually have for you. They didn’t believe in you, your choice, your decision, they were just waiting for you to be happy to tell you. People truly on your team would not disclose their”concerns” this is unproductive and harmful. Dysfunctional family systems love it when they can come together against a common enemy the scapegoat. It’s group mentality and hu…
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 09:02 PM
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A bad investment is a bad investment you just can’t get past that. I am so glad you brought this up it’s a super important thing to talk about. They were not the same person in the end that I met in beginning. This is a trap that many get caught in and can’t get out of… Humans are living breathing creatures it is literally impossible to stay the same. But I get your point so look at it this way and this is just my opinion take it for what it is. If you are not changing and growing your dying. Yo…
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 08:30 PM
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Thanks for noticing! Nah Chat GPT is for beginners. I am AI friendly. Tech enthusiast and proud! I absolutely take advantage of things that will improve the quality of life and save me time. Time is priceless! Any tool or resource that makes that happen I’m definitely trying. I actually have an entire army of AIs I have built. Most people are missing out. If anyone wants to discuss trade tips HMU psychology is my first passion and will always have my heart yet technology is my second that will a…
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 07:17 PM
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Damn yo that’s a different kind of fucked when you get entangled with a money hungry con. In the end it’s just money to her and a service she was providing. Money comes and goes chuck it in the fuck it bucket. Focus on making memories not things your life will be less stressful and you will attract a different kind of breed. Best wishes ⭐️
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 06:01 PM
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Happy to be of service! Glad you enjoyed it and it found you. ⭐️
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 05:54 PM
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Hey, I feel your pain yo betrayal runs deep sometimes so deep that you never get to the end. You have EVERY right to be angry. Anger is a healthy emotion yet when left unprocessed it transform into some dark, scary, dangerous versions. The stuff nightmares are made of. 25 years is a major investment and when it doesn’t work out leaves an ugly void and a never ending shit storm to clean up. She did you dirty yo. The grief process is extremely difficult to navigate and some people get stuck in it …
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 05:45 PM
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Awwww sweet thank you for kind words 🛑 I’m a separated woman with a previous marriage and a child of divorce. I have always been responsible, for my survival, safety, comfort aaaaaand I always will be. The only people you are responsible for is you and your offspring. Not only financial take that off the table for now… As a parent you are responsible for creating a nurturing emotional safe and supportive environment. Anyone else fuckem wtf are you going to set yourself on fire to keep them warm?…
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 03:58 PM
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I love the way you think! The entire relationship is its own living breathing experience it is the one of the most big and important projects you can work on in life. I know the idea and word failure makes people cringe. I have a secret and confession to make… Failing is my favorite thing to do…🫢 Failure is actually an emotional weapon to hurt you and force you into compliance. Failure is shame in a shot glass created by assholes to shut you down and make you feel like shit. I’m not going to lie…
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 03:33 PM
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Yo, I get it people want something you have and will do ANYTHING to get it. It’s a FUCKED up world that is not very kind. We see what we want to see. We hear what we want to hear. People will treat you exactly how they feel about you we just don’t believe them. Sometimes we only focus on the dream and future. Sometimes We fill the position with a body who isn’t qualified. 2 requirements for a qualified partner is healthy coping mechanism and healthy defense mechanisms. It does extremely diminish…
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 02:54 PM
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That’s great to hear! Congrats 🎊 on passing the finish line. Many people try, get close but just can’t finish the race. Any tips and tricks you want to share?
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 02:42 PM
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Look at you killing it! Congrats 🎊 Absofuckinlutely! Your time, peace, energy is priceless! Lock that shit up like it’s Fort Knox. If you are not happy bounce sooner rather than later because unhappiness turns into resentment. Resentment turns into hate. Hate turns into disgust. Disgust turns to nothing. It’s a complete mindfuck if someone is not happy for an extended amount of time and doesn’t address it because yo it’s not getting any better even if you move mountains that shit is on the down …
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 01:51 PM
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Congrats on the progress! That’s an amazing place to get. I’m super happy for you! Just be careful your mind likes to play tricks on you. Pseudo healing feeling is dangerous as hell! What it actually is a sophisticated defense mechanism protecting your psyche. Pretty much a denial, delusion, distortion. Future vision is your map to get you out of the shit hole you got lost in. Building a better tomorrow for you and your kids is definitely #1. Much love and support ❤️‍🩹
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 01:18 PM
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Right? It’s a fucked up zoo out there. It’s all bullshit. Grade A bullshit. I’m a passionate advocate for the best things in life are free and believe it with my heart and soul. Love, real true unconditional love is not about money, sex, convenience it’s about being appreciative and grateful for the person in your life. Nobody owes you anything. IDGAF if you believe it unless there is a contract or agreement in place you should never expect anything. Especially not from the person you love. I wa…
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 01:03 PM
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My hubby is and that’s what I wanted for him. His world was discombobulated enough.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 12:45 PM
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This sounds like a lose-lose situation. There is no applause there is offer to both for support. This seems horrific yet incredibly common. The only person we have the authority to judge is ourselves. We are not the worlds lawyer, jury, prosecutor, judge like gtfo 😠 I haven’t seen the movie but it is now on my watchlist!! What we have here is classic. Hurt people hurt people. People who have not addressed unprocessed trauma, negative thoughts, feelings and emotions are in the hurt category. This…
/r/MensRights04/09/25 11:50 PM
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Seduce someone who is emotionally available you will be happy that you did.
/r/seduction28/12/24 06:36 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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