| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 98 | Approaching woman at the gym | Outer Game | Thebiggestbigsquid | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 05:12 PM |
| 14 | Can someone explain why women always overshare with me? | Outer Game | Thebiggestbigsquid | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 04:51 PM |
| 2 | How do yall text girls you meet at the bar? | Outer Game | Thebiggestbigsquid | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 12:38 AM |
| 2 | This probably wasn’t interest right? | Outer Game | Thebiggestbigsquid | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 11:22 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Asking out your waitress. Thoughts? Experiences?obviously waitresses are going to be attracted to someone. i’ve asked them out before and it’s went well but im also much better at reading women and people in general than most men | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 08:11 AM |
| 1 | What goes through girls mindsBro she’s at a bdsm party and is in her 30s lol you gotta go for it and not this “oh we can hang but don’t have to have sex” bs | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 09:00 AM |
| 2 | Got 10 numbers in a day and none messaged back?100% each time??? Mhm | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 08:57 AM |
| 3 | How to get laid while travelling?DnD, like dungeons and dragons for hook ups??? | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 05:12 PM |
| 1 | If girls keep asking if you're gay, it might just mean you're attractive.Sounds like a lot of cope | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 02:37 PM |
| 1 | "You look gay" - biggest compliment and insult you can take advantage of as a manDidn’t read that but I can assure you I wouldn’t take it as a compliment, sounds like cope | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 07:23 PM |
| 1 | I am 27 and never had a girlfriend. How do I cold approach 500 girls?please help me guysYour mindset is all wrong, people tell you to build a social life to work on internal confidence. Women pick up on everything imo, they just get played because they blatantly ignore what they already know. You think women care about expensive sneakers really shows you need a lot of work first. | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 02:10 AM |
| 3 | What are my chances of me catching herpes from this girlWhat do you do for a living? I need to know who would risk a life time issue for a night or two of fun? Tf is wrong with yall | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 11:31 PM |
| 5 | I've been doing daygame in a few countries in Europe and...What about Spain? Heading there this summer | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 05:04 PM |
| 1 | HSV (herpes)Even tho most people have it, not worth the risk. Maybe if she was on meds and didn’t have an outbreak but I still wouldn’t do it | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 06:59 PM |
| 16 | How do I seduce women in their 50s and above when I'm in my 20s?Bruh lol yall are wild | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Do good looking men get shit tested as much as the average guy?If a woman is into height a lot, she will shit test tall guys wayyyy less. Same goes for looks, status, or money. It all depends on how you present yourself or how they view you. | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Do yall think you can date 10'sYou have to be realistic. You need the right looks, money, personality, status, and maybe confidence but you still need something with it most times. | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 03:17 PM |
| 2 | How to adopt the bad boy personaYou don’t need a persona | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 04:40 PM |
| 1 | How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material?You have to genuinely be a shitty person lol sorry bro no way around it. I literally tell women I only wanna smash, will only hang out if we are going to smash, and they still never stop trying to date | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 10:30 PM |
| 1 | I’m thinking about spending $150 on a photo shoot to improve my dating profile pictures. Is this a good idea ?Just approach in person | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 04:23 PM |
| 4 | How to deal with "Boyfriend"If she says she has a bf it doesn’t matter if it’s a lie or not, she’s not interested | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 06:15 PM |
| 11 | What’s something I should never do or say to a man if I want him to take me seriously?It’s not about having sex. You’re saying something before or after that’s showing the other person they wouldn’t wanna date you. I can’t tell you how many women have trauma dumped or said something crazy to where I instantly knew I’d never take her serious | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Why don't magicians get laid?You need to let us know if you do magic or not | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Pulling girls as a dangerous looking sensitive guyYall overthink so much lol just be normal, the bar is actually so low. Most dudes are just weirdos who are delusional about how they are | /r/seduction | 24/02/25 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Tips for dealing with a female playerShe ain’t into you bruh, you are attention and you already gave her too much too easy. Maybe you’ll get a lucky opportunity one night but def no reason to pursue | /r/seduction | 24/02/25 01:05 AM |
| 6 | Able to get girls alone and talking with me at the bar consistently, struggle to reconnect over text the following daysBar interactions are way different than everyday interactions, I’ve made out with women that didn’t text back. Just how it goes. You have way better chances outside of bars for reciprocating afterward | /r/seduction | 23/02/25 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Eternally rejected why is that?Ya you don’t have abs. Great personality doesn’t translate to being sexually desirable. Be open minded and genuinely find out what your flaws are. You might be aiming too high at least until you get more experience | /r/seduction | 23/02/25 09:41 PM |
| 2 | When going for older women, do you lie on age?My boy, it’s not hard to pull older chicks. Just don’t give af about your age and the ones that are down won’t care. You’re better off sticking to 20s tho | /r/seduction | 23/02/25 09:39 PM |
| 0 | Do you approach other girls when you’re on a date with one?I did check your history that why I know you’re larping. You have a female roommate and her friend and her saw you in your “knickers”? Cmon bro you don’t get laid lol | /r/seduction | 23/02/25 04:38 PM |
| 7 | Do you approach other girls when you’re on a date with one?Bro is LARPing someone who gets women | /r/seduction | 23/02/25 02:19 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of guys have actually picked up a girl in a bar at night and close the deal at the same night?I’d say 10%. It’s probably about right for a first night smash. | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 02:53 AM |
| 1 | male to female ratio in miami for dating as a man?I would just turn gay if I were you | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 06:44 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean "I like you a lot but I can't sleep with you"Not that into you but into you enough to enjoy the attention | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Low bodycount headacheOne night stands are overrated. Long term friends with benefits are great, a good woman is the best. Not many good women left imo or at least that’s my type | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Shit-test She gets madI barely get shit tested anymore. What works for me is I genuinely don’t give af and I don’t pretend to be bring I’m not. There’s no standard way but just don’t react emotionally and play it off. Always works for me. | /r/seduction | 14/02/25 03:52 AM |
| 1 | What do girls think of guys who post pictures with other girls?Attracts the less quality women for sure, probably deters some good ones so if you wanna get laid it’s great | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 02:21 AM |
| 1 | How to attract trans girls?There’s not much lol like cmon bro, you shouldn’t need help with this honestly | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 09:01 PM |
| 10 | How to attract trans girls?If you can’t pick up a trans girl you have no chance at dating. Tf | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 07:39 PM |
| 2 | What makes you prefer cold approaching? Is it because bars aren’t your thing, or maybe you don’t have many friends? Or have dating apps not been working for you? What's your story?Night game is easier for the more classically attractive man. Day game your personality will carry you farther imo. I think night game is easier just because women know they are going to get hit on and if you happen to be their type it’s good. I personally prefer night game but you find way more quality women during day game | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 04:00 PM |
| 8 | Girl I am talking to has been with a friend of mineCrazy idea. Date someone who hasn’t had sec with your friend. It’s not like there’s billions of women in the world. Casual is a diff story | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 12:08 AM |
| 1 | I keep failing at night gameNight game you def have to be like at least someone the common idea of a guy that takes women home. Like being a stud, smooth, giving off player vibes. I just approach them, I smile at them a lot but in a chill way not overly happy. You just let them talk mostly and just try to find anyway to bring up something sexual. Pushing boundaries turns women on for some reason lol like I’ll make a comment about their body but it def can’t be right away. Then after an hour or when it feels right just lite… | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Did you get so good that you only look for real challenges now?Yup. Unless she shows a ton of interest then fuck it I’ll go for an average woman | /r/seduction | 29/01/25 12:27 AM |
| 1 | getting rejected on all approaches i made yetGet over it. It is what it is, women pick up on energy. Gonna take a lot of practice but once you get it, pulling gets super super easy | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 04:53 PM |
| 1 | This probably wasn’t interest right?I think you’re right it was probably she just realized I wasn’t going to be annoying, appreciate it | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 12:56 AM |
| 5 | HookupThis is the thing about hookup culture. Yes guys want you for just sex but it’s usually because they don’t see you as gf material or they just want to bang a lot of girls. Either way, a lot of men’s egos still want a girl to be all about him and this is the perfect example. He does some relationship stuff so you’re hooked on him and feel that exclusive relationship with him while he does whatever he wants without the commitment. Guarantee you if you told him you were with other guys he would be … | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 05:54 PM |
| 15 | 21 y/o vergin as a new year resolution I'm looking to improve my self and game maxx.First step learn to spell. Work on style, physique, confidence, mindset, everything. This is a vague question but the better you are the easier it is. | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 05:38 AM |
| 21 | Always assume they’re going to flake.They flake wayyy less once they’re older so that’s why you probably don’t experience it | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 08:35 PM |
| 19 | Always assume they’re going to flake.How old are you? Because I’ve been on even more and women flake sometimes | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 08:03 PM |
| 3 | I think I self sabotage by waiting too long to message women back in text and online dating. How can I fix this?Text back faster? | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Easier with older women?Gee wonder why it’s easier | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 01:44 AM |
| 4 | What are the subtle yet impactful things that a woman does that are very seductive to a man?Eye contact, it’s easy to show interest through the eyes. Face towards me and a lot of touching. | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Flirting with server / retail staff / flight crew -- how to tell a genuine interest from a perfunctory smile? -- Field Report and Question.You’re rarely gonna ever be 100 percent sure, the times I thought I was in there though I was in there. It helps if you have someone else with you that can objectively tell if they seem like they’re flirting | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 05:06 AM |
| 3 | How is the dating world after 30?Never been easier but unfortunately I can’t ignore the red flags anymore and they are absolutely rampant | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 12:13 AM |
| -4 | Can someone explain why women always overshare with me?Right because most girls invite men over at 2 am They’re not trying to sleep with. Yall don’t pull and it’s obvious | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 05:41 PM |
| -2 | Can someone explain why women always overshare with me?Yall really must not get a lot of girls | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain why women always overshare with me?Tried to get her close, said let’s go upstairs etc. she didn’t turn me down she just seemed shy or something, and she was worried about her friend cause she went home with a dude too. I could have easily got laid I just lost patience and realized I’d rather be asleep | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 05:22 PM |
| -1 | Can someone explain why women always overshare with me?What? I don’t even know what you’re talking about | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 05:21 PM |
| 0 | Can someone explain why women always overshare with me?Why do yall just assume I didn’t make a move, im literally at her house. Some girls are more shy, I had met her an hourish before | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 05:19 PM |
| -4 | Can someone explain why women always overshare with me?🙄🙄 bro stfu, I’ve been with like 70 women I know what I’m doing, this post is just why do they say what they say | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 05:18 PM |
| 0 | Can someone explain why women always overshare with me?I was trying that’s why I left, she kept calling her friends at stuff so I’m just like fuck this not worth it | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 05:11 PM |
| 5 | When a woman gives you that "I’m interested, but I’m not gonna make it obvious" vibe... is it working?I attract a lot of women but I’m very picky. I have friends that would be into this but I prefer when it’s hard for a woman to hide her interest. Some chase is fine but generally I don’t like it | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 03:43 AM |
| 4 | Is it different if a woman has had 100+ partners compared to a man with an equal amount?It is way different imo and it’s a double standard but there’s plenty of double standards we accept. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever picked up a girl that was grinding on another guy?Who knows bro, dating is just one big wtf lol could literally be multiple things | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 05:29 PM |
| 1 | How Do I Approach Bringing A Woman Home From A Bar or Club?Flirt with them. I don’t have a formula but just try to make it more flirty than friendly slowly or you can do it quick. Depends on your style. | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 11:37 PM |
| 1 | How Do I Approach Bringing A Woman Home From A Bar or Club?Yeah it’s rough at first bro but you find your footing and it gets easier. Good luck | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 01:30 AM |
| 63 | I feel resentful towards women?Well you’re clearly disingenuous. You’re in a seduction Reddit and you’re saying something about breaking a friendship. You’re definitely doing something seriously wrong if you’re getting blocked. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 07:29 PM |
| 15 | How Do I Approach Bringing A Woman Home From A Bar or Club?Run some game, if it’s going well ask her if she wants to get out of here. Works almost every time. I couldn’t close with women at bars for years until I literally just started asking them if they wanna go | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Do different men peak at different ages?Now it’s July of the 19th year of every man that ever existed. This is common knowledge, FAANG nerd | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Can chemistry be created or is it something that can't be changed?This one | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 01:01 AM |
| 43 | Cold approached a girl at a public placeA follow back is good just gotta wait and see | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 11:18 PM |
| 2 | What are some ways to appear taller as someone who is 5’ 6-3/4”?Bruh if you have to use 3/4ths just stop, nothing screams insecure like counting quarter inches of your height | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 12:55 AM |
| 168 | I Challenged Myself to Approach 1 Girl Every Day for 30 Days—Here’s What I LearnedHow are you gonna type all this and not tell us if you had success | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Should I have approached?Def lol I pussed out hard yesterday at the gym so I feel your pain. Two smoking hot women got closer and closer to me to the point where they were maybe a foot and a half away, kept looking at me and I still didn’t do anything. True pain | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Approaching woman at the gymHaha that would be perfect if it worked out like that, if you’re in CA it’s possible. | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Approaching woman at the gymWhatever you have to tell yourself | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Approaching woman at the gymBro you’re doing way too much. I promise you dating and approaching is not that serious. Be as attractive as you can be and don’t be weird. That’s pretty much it, the bar is very low. And don’t take things personal | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Approaching woman at the gymYou clearly don’t do well with women bro lol Don’t give advice. The fact you don’t think attractive women can be shy just shows how clueless you are | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Approaching woman at the gymIt was a dumb question lol but basically my friend and I were arguing about whether we could do kart wheels. They were walking by and I said excuse me can I ask yall a question, her friend like super bitchy said something that I didn’t make out but It was either something like ya ask your question or oh you wanna ask a question So i put my hands up like a don’t shoot motion, waited a second to see their reaction, they didn’t say anything so I just asked the question. Then they were basically tel… | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 02:29 PM |
| 34 | Approaching woman at the gymJust because women don’t like you doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 08:55 PM |
| 12 | Approaching woman at the gymFair enough but also if they make it weird and I was respectful that’s more their problem than mine, I’d be fine | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 07:17 PM |
| 24 | Approaching woman at the gymI was outside a bar when 2 girls walked by. Asked them a question and she was super catty but I just joked it off and they ended up both being all over me that night. Good night | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 06:40 PM |
| 8 | Approaching woman at the gymLizzobathwater is a wild name 🤣🤣 I’ll take 3 bottles | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 06:18 PM |
| 5 | Approaching woman at the gymGood to know, thank you! | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 05:48 PM |
| 23 | Approaching woman at the gymVery true, just a few weeks ago this girl went from super rude to being completely down within an hour. YOLO | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 05:48 PM |
| 2 | What happens to those guys who can easily get sex, but not a relationship?My friend can get laid easier than I’ve ever seen but cannot keep a girl to save his life lol. We literally have both taken home women and when they both left mine asked for my number and his just walked by him. She wasn’t mad it was more like she got what she wanted and that’s it. For me it’s the opposite, it’s almost impossible for me to find any woman down for just casual. I think it’s cause he has learned what get women immediately attracted but he also has a deluded view of reality. Seems l… | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 01:50 PM |
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