Thebiglurker Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Help with a difficult friend situation (oneitis but not really)		Thebiglurker	/r/seduction	27/04/16 10:01 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Problems with erection I would just relax, and keep at it. It’s very normal to be nervous which is going to mess with your abilities when it’s a new partner, especially if you’re limited in experience. You need your parasympathetic (rest and digest) nervous system for an erection, and just cuz you think you’re relaxed doesn’t mean you are. Also alcohol is a depressant which disrupts blood follow and make erections more difficult. Don’t stress, make the girl feel good, it’ll be alright.	/r/seduction	17/02/18 11:40 PM
10	Problems with erection Dude, he’s 27, and he had a problem like once. Chill your balls	/r/seduction	17/02/18 11:38 PM
17	How guys were seducing girls in 20th century, before all of this business of teaching guys how to pickup started? The world has changed a lot. Girls have access to a lot more guys, have more power and confidence. They understand more value so they act that way.	/r/seduction	10/02/18 06:16 PM
2	[FR] Seducing A Calendar Model from Hinge. Full Lay Report with Screen Shots from Start to Finish So...the story was really fun and enjoyable to read...but here’s the hilarious part. Unless there’s that super low chance it’s true, this guy is a big liar, as I just found the girls picture on Instagram. Not on her own instagram, but one of those fandoms where hey put multiple stock photos. I call bullshit.	/r/seduction	04/12/17 03:45 PM
6	[FR] Seducing A Calendar Model from Hinge. Full Lay Report with Screen Shots from Start to Finish Jesus man. Would love some serious tips on pussy eating. I’m in an LTR, very happy, would just love to get better (I do a pretty damn good job, but always room for improvement).	/r/seduction	04/12/17 07:15 AM
3	The Average Man on a Date Thank you for that. I rather enjoyed rapping it all	/r/seduction	04/10/17 11:13 PM
2	Is there a Tinder ELO? Do a profile analysis. There's some great articles explaining how to have an attractive profile. Based on watching my cousins and friends play on tinder, and seeing the guys they swipe left, I've come to the conclusion that lots of guys have no idea what they're doing.	/r/seduction	13/09/17 04:33 AM
3	How do you short guys (~5' 6") gain the confidence to talk to girls when there's so many taller and more qualified guys? I feel SO discouraged Learn/PRACTICE standing tall with your shoulders back, chest out. It makes you look more strong and confident, much better than a taller guy who is slumped over. Pretend you're the most awesome guy in the room until you believe it. And keep working on yourself and doing awesome stuff to make yourself believe that.	/r/seduction	07/08/17 08:13 PM
1	How to get a girl into car sex ? How do you know lol. You've never had sex before.	/r/seduction	10/06/17 10:36 AM
2	How to get a girl into car sex ? Why on earth would you want to jump to car sex? get someone in bed first where you're both more physically comfortable, leading you to be more mentally comfortable, because your first time can be a little hard to stay in the game mentally. A good bed helps.	/r/seduction	09/06/17 11:09 AM
10	I read Models and SAONGAF by Mark Manson and I'm fiending for more. What other books do you recommend? Could be a good time to put down the books and start implementing. You don't want to get stuck in a pattern of reading but not acting, and when you read too many sources, that is a very real potential concern. Those two books have years of work to do, and you'll benefit eons above reading more books.	/r/seduction	25/11/16 02:38 PM
2	To anyone who messed things up with a girl they're interested in - take charge of your life Fucking key man. I'm in a bit of a more complicated situation than standard oneitis right now, so this isn't making me completely snap out of it, but it's helpful. Thanks!	/r/seduction	06/04/16 10:22 PM
1	Just a thanks Second this	/r/seduction	21/02/16 09:51 PM
5	I asked my savvy friend about pining for a girl in an LTR. This was his response. I think being bold and true to yourself is important. But not a fan of the last part. Don't use drinking as a way to deal with your sadness. That is really bad.	/r/seduction	13/01/16 03:33 PM
3	Field Report - The power of eye contact and smile. Still thought. The confidence you portray by not breaking eye contact and really showing interest. That's gotta boost you like 1-3 points, considering how many of us don't do that	/r/seduction	19/12/15 10:24 PM
4	Great quote I remember when feeling insecure I like the initial sentiment about being true to yourself, but I have some caution around the Barbie thing. I think we should be careful to be quick to judge. Everyone has their own story, everyone is interesting and has depth to their character. Even the 10/10 Barbie. You just have to get to know them and gain trust in order to see it.	/r/seduction	11/12/15 06:27 AM
9	Dear Seddit. Take This Free Daygame Book. It took me two months to write it. And I teach daygame full time. It's good. Can anyone hook a brother up? I'm in Canada and it says not available in my country	/r/seduction	19/11/15 04:36 AM
0	How To Stop Being Needy TLDR - don't change for a girl. Be who you were when she got with you, that's who she wants to be with.	/r/seduction	12/10/15 02:04 AM
1	Sedditor Locator 2015 Sup	/r/seduction	01/10/15 03:33 AM
1	Guys older than myself, What are some things you wish you had known about women when you were 20? Fuck man so true. Shoulda seen it coming. But dat ass	/r/seduction	28/09/15 04:39 AM
4	Post the best habits a man can take to become more attractive. With shoulders down and back. Makes you look more confident, and actually puffs out your chest making you look bigger (which you actually are! Most guys just hunch forward thus looking smaller than they are)	/r/seduction	02/09/15 03:28 PM