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I have stories just as bad. Just live and learn.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 07:42 AM
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Wait. You're 19? Jesus man relax. Take a chill pill. You're just a baby man you have about 3 more decades to go out and form awesome relationships with people. Hell maybe 4 decades. Keep lifting and read books about being social. If I were you I wouldn't even worry about women at the moment. Just try and build your idgaf attitude.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 07:39 AM
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Exactly. Having control over your ego not only means not letting women get you down, but also not letting them get you up.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 02:36 AM
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Great post. Eventually you get told no so many times you just become immune to it and don't think twice about it. Even though my game and approaches are way better and more genuie, i still get told no constantly.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 11:55 PM
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And the worst part is a lot of us use to be those beta males. I don't consider myself better,or smarter than other men. I just happen to stumble across this sub Reddit, and internalized it, that's all, that's all that separates me from other men. I'd like to think if other men stumbled across this sub reddit the same thing would happen to them. But Idk how true that is. I work In a restaurant as a server and I see guys in their 40s and even 50s making basic mistakes. They come across as awkward,…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 07:22 AM
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Good post. Their are three revolutionary ideas that I took that really changed me. The first one was embracing the fact that I want to have sex with women, and that was ok. The second was realizing that women are not things to 'manipulated into having sex with you. The third was realizing that it's okay to want to fight other men. We're taught at a young age that sex is bad and fighting is bad. Embracing these parts of my male nature has completely changed me as a person. I feel like I'm finally…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 06:13 AM
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"Big, fucking, gorilla muscles are the secret" Lol. That was golden. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 11:20 PM
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This is very true. Sometimes it's best just to be beta in the work force
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 09:42 PM
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Awesome post man. Honestly I don't think it's all worth it for me. Sounds like a lot of energy. But good on ya mate.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 03:05 AM
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No. If you have a problem with my posts. Then turn off your computer and go better yourself.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 11:11 PM
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My youngest sister only dates black guys, and we're white. And no I don't think its because the size of their dicks. It's exactly what you said black people are cool. She likes to show off her black boyfriend because it raises her status somehow. She's still in university which is so corrupted with sjw garbage so this might have something to so with it. I am pretty racist but he did seem alright when I met him. Maybe over time and I see he's not down with the BLM bullshit I can come around to li…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 07:16 AM
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Dude your post just helped me clean out some very deep psychological effects I had about a guy I absolutely love that's been getting under my skin. For years I've constantly been seeking this guy a validation and I could never figure out why and it's been driving me fucking crazy. But you just hit the nail right on the head. I want to beat the shit out of him. I've always wanted to but thought myself crazy for doing so, but you just obliterated all doubts I had. Thank you friend. I feel like I'm…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 04:50 AM
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wtf. how do I do that. I didn't write those.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 04:00 PM
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This makes me very sad. And although in this day and age when blue pull propaganda is being hammerd down your throat at every corner, he is responsible for his life. But, in an empathetic and compassionate way, it's not his fault. Just by pure chance I stumbled across this forum and learned my lesson before I became this guy. I don't let girls do this to me not because I'm awesome, or smart, or super alpha, its a because by some miracle I found this forum and learned from it. This guy didn't, he…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 05:54 AM
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This makes me very sad. And although in this day and age when blue pull propaganda is being hammerd down your throat at every corner, he is responsible for his life. But, in an empathetic and compassionate way, it's not his fault. Just by pure chance I stumbled across this forum and learned my lesson before I became this guy. I don't let girls do this to me not because I'm awesome, or smart, or super alpha, its a because by some miracle I found this forum and learned from it. This guy didn't, he…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 05:54 AM
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This makes me very sad. And although in this day and age when blue pull propaganda is being hammerd down your throat at every corner, he is responsible for his life. But, in an empathetic and compassionate way, it's not his fault. Just by pure chance I stumbled across this forum and learned my lesson before I became this guy. I don't let girls do this to me not because I'm awesome, or smart, or super alpha, its a because by some miracle I found this forum and learned from it. This guy didn't, he…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 05:54 AM
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This makes me very sad. And although in this day and age when blue pull propaganda is being hammerd down your throat at every corner, he is responsible for his life. But, in an empathetic and compassionate way, it's not his fault. Just by pure chance I stumbled across this forum and learned my lesson before I became this guy. I don't let girls do this to me not because I'm awesome, or smart, or super alpha, its a because by some miracle I found this forum and learned from it. This guy didn't, he…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 05:54 AM
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Idk who said it but: " those that learn to enjoy the climb, are the ones that reach the top."
/r/TheRedPill29/10/16 04:11 PM
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Good post. Eventually this guy will learn that getting sad and depressed about women is like getting sad and depressed about the rain. It's just the way they are.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/16 03:16 PM
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Oh knew a guy that had a similar experience. Married to a woman he hated and abused him for 20 years. He had owned a successful business and When they got a divorce she got everything. The house, the money, the business, everything. When I spoke to him, and he talked about the divorce he said these words to me. "It was the worst day of my life, and it was the best day of my life" He's now remarried to a woman he loves and loves him back and he's one of the happiest guys I know. You are better of…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 03:45 PM
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Exactly. Before you can focus on anything, game, escalating, seduction, NONE of these will work unless you are good looking. Just be good looking.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 05:30 PM
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The red pill is amoral, just like learning how to kill someone is amoral. However the manner in which you execute either of these skills ARE MORAL AMD IMMORAL. Killing a man because you're defending your family is a moral thing to do. Killing a man because he has money and you want to buy a new Mercedes is an immoral thing to do. Learning about rp because you want to enrich your life and the lives of the women around you is a moral thing to do. Banging someone's wife and destroying another man's…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 08:45 PM
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Women don't want you to be beta. They want to try and make you beta, and fail. It's all a game to them. I recently moved and had a girl I fucked flew out to see me (on her dime). She was talking about how some beta chump took her to a movie and took her out to eat and now constantly texts her, this guy was in his 40s her and I are on our 20s. She hadn't even responded to the guy and he was still texting her. I kinda broke one of the cardinal rules and laid a little rp truth on her. I said : "I j…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 08:28 PM
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Fat people do not understand how much their weight is hindering them in this game we call life. Good job man, and life will only get better. You were a fat loser, you were at the bottom of the totem pole. Not any more. Keep at it and don't slow down for anyone. And I would disagree about you not being alpha. I guess I differ from most people on this sub where I would say being alpha is more of a path than a status. Losing 45 pounds is alpha as fuck. Welcome to the alpha club.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 08:00 PM
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Lol thank you. "I'm good looking and have six pack abs and have professional photographs taken of me. Here's how I get laid" Lol
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 06:51 PM
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Your mother and brother are assholes. You know I would say to my bro if he did something like this, and I'll say the same to you: "Even though I may not understand your decisions, I know that you know what's best, and I will support you no matter what decision you make, I love you." Imagine if your brother said something like that. Wouldn't that feel good? And that's exactly what you're going to say to your brother when he does something in his life that you don't understand. Be the better man a…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 05:15 PM
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" You have to let go of the fairytale and realize that your perception of their perfect life was unlikely the reality" Thanks this helped a lot. Right when I read that I remembered that one of the guys that im jealous of, and I mean this guy was the biggest sick, to me, and got tons of pussy, his older brother shot himself when we were in high school. That must have sucked.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 12:15 AM
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Move out. If you know you have some bitching pad to bring a bitch back to, you will be a lot more confident.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 09:44 PM
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I don't know if it's depression. Depression is a word thrown around very loosely today that I hesitate to try and diagnose you with anything. When I fee the way you seem to be acting I call it depression within myself. If there is a difference between what I would call depression or a therapist would call depression I don't know. However I've never just been depressed, I've been depressed for a reason and it takes time and meditation to figure out what's bothering me. You'll figure it out. You'v…
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:41 AM
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As someone who really wants to be a father, what's the best way to go about it? I live in the USA.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 09:21 PM
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Thanks for the reply. Yeah I could have been more specific in what I was talking about and wrote a better reply. Thanks for correcting me. I'll do a better job of being more specific and thorough.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 05:59 AM
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I would like to know where you think I'm wrong. I know I'm right, however I appreciate other people's opinions.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 08:16 PM
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Read "The Book of Pook". It will help
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:40 PM
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You shouldn't be crushing their self esteem, you should be boosting it. Women need proof that they are women, and a lot of that proof comes with the men that they date. If your woman has a low self esteem, that is a reflection of you. If a women is dating a man she finds worthy then she will have a much higher self esteem, if she is dating someone that she doesn't seem worthy she will have a low self esteem. You are a man and men take care of the women they date. You sound like someone who would…
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:36 PM
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Sounds like your depressed. Its all good, depression is your friend. Depressions is your 6th sense telling you that you're doing something fundamentally wrong with your life. You need to step a back. All these problems that you have, getting in fights, unmotivated, fatigued, are symptoms of the disease, not the disease itself. Take a step back and ask yourself these questions: Why are you attending university in the first place? Why do you care if all your friends have become drug addicts, find …
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:21 PM
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And why do you want this girl to chat you up? Has she earned your attention? What has she done that you've deemed worthy of receiving the gift that is you? Think about it.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:10 PM
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If you just stop watching TV and read books, in a year you'd be smarter than 90% of the people in America. I read a ton and reading gets you ahead in life. Bitches love when I just flood them with ideas. Ask the questions about themselves that they never asked. Try doing that and see where it takes you.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:06 PM
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You are wrong. I have a high smv , maybe a 9. And although I do enjoy sleeping with lots of women, I would much rather prefer to be with one woman. Someone I find intelligent and interesting. Even when I'm in an LTR im always approaching girls and getting numbers just to keep my abundance mentality up. But it's fun when you can reminisce with someone a year later about a trip you took together. As you learn to get good with women, and by good I don't mean how to fuck women, but how to make women…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 10:56 PM
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Thanks for the comment really insightful. The weird thing is that the night before I was feeling fucking fantastic. Went out with a girl the night before and wrecked it. If you could grade game is was an A+. The next morning a girl I thought was cooler than most blew me off which kinda sucked, then this incident happened which made me feel even shittier. All week long I kept telling myself "once you tell this guy off you'll feel better" however I stopped approaching women and kinda was a loner t…
/r/askTRP04/10/16 01:32 AM
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I felt like the top of the world last week. Smooth with the girls, thought I knew exactly what I wanted in life. And thought to myself "fuck yeah I made it I'm finally alpha" Now I'm drinking beer on the corner of a street and wicked depressed and can barely look into women's eyes. Idk Wtf happened.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 04:32 AM
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And how do you know you'll never be number one? How do you know that someone is better than you. If a woman leaves you for someone "better", that someone did you a favor: 1) He got your girlfriends true colors to shine through, now you can go find a girlfriend that will like you. 2) If that someone is better than you in something that you wish you were better at, it will motivate you to work harder and be a better person.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 09:58 PM
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I was feeling pretty down so I went to a coffee shop to just veg out all day on my computer. After about 2 hours of doing nothing, lighting struck my brain. I said to myself " I want to be rich" , I bought a book on investing and read the entire thing the rest of the day. Ever since that day, I have been the smoothest motherfucker I have ever met in my entire life. Idk what happened to me, but it was like I finally became that guy I always dreamed of being. it was like I finally wasn't holding b…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 06:25 AM
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I don't even know what I just read. You're still talking to a girl that gave you chlamydia, then at the end of the post you say "I will remember to keep my head on your shoulders and to think logically before making any big decisions". I don't think I've read two so contradictory statements in my entire life. To be frank, I hope everything works out for ya man, if this is what you really want to do, go for it.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 07:50 AM
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Yes I would. If she was the mother of my children and a good wife.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 07:41 AM
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Word. Didn't mean to misjudge. When you get good though, day game is so much fucking fun. Just get your own style going. You might be able to pick up tips and tricks from trp, but experience is what really counts. Just do whatever you think will work, learn from it, and move on to the next bitch.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 05:35 AM
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Hmmm thanks man. I never really considered that I have an actual problem. If none of the esoteric solutions work I'll give it a try.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 05:30 AM
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This 1000 times. Depression is a good thing. It's your mind telling you that your doing something wrong and you need to change. Depression is your best friend. Don't try and deny it, but embrace it. Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that your depressed, and do something about it.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 06:32 PM
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It's all just a giant shit test. Ignore them and let them all rot in the gutters where they choose to stay.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 04:51 PM
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Your friend is jealous of the girls your approaching. She wishes a confident bold alpha such as yourself was approaching her, so she demeans you to try and make herself feel better. Ignore her.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 04:48 PM
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It seems your not to experienced with women, which is fine we've all been there. I would suggest doing whatever the fuck you can think of. No one on here will be able to tell you what to do because we're not you. Ask her out in which ever manner you think will work.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 04:43 PM
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But I do want to. Maybe its just a sign of some blue pill in me that I still need to kill. Maybe I'm just hanging onto that fantasy just a little bit. Maybe I thought this girl was going to be different, and now that I know that I'm wrong it stings a little. Thanks for the comment.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 07:17 PM
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Thanks for the comment. Maybe this is a sign that I still have some blue pill in me that I need to kill. Thanks for the book recommendation I'll check it out.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 07:16 PM
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There was a girl I had been flirting with at work that set her phone down right in front of me and walked away. Before the phone went into sleep mode I read a text that said " it feels so good when you kiss me." Whatever, don't really care, but i figured I didn't have a shot after I read that. About 2 minutes later she comes back and forcible throws herself into me because she wanted me to move. It was flirting, but she definitely kicked it up a notch or two from what we had previously done. Lik…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 04:59 PM
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Thanks for posting this. These are the steps when becoming alpha that I have personally experienced. 1)I'm not having sex and want more sex. 2) Work really hard, approach, go to the gym, meditate. 3) Start having sex. 4)Realize sex isn't all its worked up to be. 5) Start taking a genuine interest in women form real emotional experiences, and have sex with them. 6)Be happy/ fulfilled.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 09:34 PM
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Sorry bro, life doesn't prepare you for this. Just remember, women are children, she's a child that has no idea what she's doing to you, she's just thinking of herself. Women have no concept of morality, or loyalty. She's playing with you, just like you and I would rip the limbs off of ants when we were kids, not really understanding what we were doing. Its your own fault this happened, and that's a good thing. You're better than her, a lot better. This chick did you a favor, you'll never make t…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 09:10 PM
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They think their is something wrong with you because their is something wrong with you! But this is a good thing. You should be out fucking bitches! You're alpha as fuck, you know it, you just don't have the results yet. Keep working, make your dream become a reality.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 03:59 AM
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Lol Idk why people are down voting you. I wish I had thought of that.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 03:12 PM
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If you saw a guy with a cool motorcycle and wanted to get to know him you wouldn't just walk up to him and start talking, you'd walk up to him and tell him why you wanted to talk to him. You'd say "hey I was walking buy and I noticed your motorcycle". And from their the conversation ensues. Pretty normal right? Use this same exact logic for women. Go up to her and tell her why your talking to her. And why are you talking to her? Because she's hot! Just say " hey I was walking by and I thought yo…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 01:11 AM
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There was one time I did snap at a girl for rejecting me. After a decent discussion at the park she mentions that she's leaving for las Vegas in a week. I say "well I'd like to see you before you leave." She says "well if you want to see me follow me on instagram!" I just looked her dead in the eyes with no expression and said "no" and walked away. Usually I at least walk away with a smile and wish her a good day, but holy fuck, I don't think anyone has ever said something so rude to me my entir…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 01:05 AM
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I think the biggest hurdle is just lifestyle changes. You moved around a lot so were never able to develop a social life. You have problems with being bold and assertiv, chances are this has nothing to do with "game" but more so with insecurities within yourself. People on trp tend to get caught up in the little details like not escalating, not approaching, acting beta. But all of these can be fixed by weeding out insecurities within yourself. Once you figure out what your doing wrong with your …
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 10:16 PM
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Merchant marines. You can save a fuck ton of money and there's lots of room for advancement. Or go work on a fishing vessel in Alaska for a year. Make 100k and come home and go to college.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 05:33 AM
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Thanks. I rarely drink and not really a partier so I don't tend to go to bars, the most success I've had has been on sunny days where their's lots of girls at the park, and around 5PM all the girls are walking home from work which is a good time to strike up a conversation, besides that its been difficult meeting women.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 03:49 PM
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I was banging this girl 2 days ago. I was gonna fuck her raw dog for a little bit then throw on a condom, but before I did she asked me to out on a condom. I found this very attractive and actually liked her more when she told me. "Yeah I'll put on a condom you responsible piece of ass"
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 04:05 PM
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Thanks for the reality check. But I assure you it is much more difficult to game women here. To give you an example, when I first moved here I had a tinder account. When I was In nyc I got maybe 15 matches everyday I logged on. The girls were pretty outgoing and easy to talk to as well. When I moved to Seattle, same profile, same photos, everything was the same. Not a single match for 3 days straight. I'm not saying that's an excuse to not try, but it is a reality that it will be harder to game …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 04:29 AM
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There was a good post a while back about how you should never compliment a woman on her looks, but compliment her on things she had control over like the shoes she picked or the shirt she's wearing. Something that took work to create, but not her physical features.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 06:01 PM
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This is great, but I don't think it will work in every city. In NYC the girls outnumber the guys by far. I don't remember off the top of my head but its something like 120 girls for every 100 guys. Girls will put up with a lot more in NYC. I just moved from NYC to Seattle and the difference is like night and fucking day here. Its like trying to pull teeth out of these bitches just to get their number. The ratio here is 130 men for every 100 girls and its extremely noticeable when walking down th…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 05:55 PM
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I have a very good friend who's older sister just got a divorce. Her x husband was such a good guy, made good money, always around the house, volunteer fire fighter, really nice guy. After the divorce she lost about 40 pounds and looks really good for late 30's. Since she's been divorced she's done nothing but bang chads in my small town in upstate new york. I went to high school with the guys she's sleeping with, real scum bags. All of them are in their late 20's live with their parents,get fuc…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 08:51 AM
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That's awesome man. I was so fucking retarded at that age making money was the last thing on my mind. It amazes me how people like you were able to think so far ahead in the future at such a young age.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 08:29 PM
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I disagree, sex can be intimidating so those inexperienced. If working through insecurities means banging hookers I'm 100% for it. However if you're using hookers as a copout for what you really want, which is probably game, then I agree. People sleep with hookers for different reasons, some can be good and some can be bad.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 08:27 PM
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Never assume other people's opinion's of you, chances are those are just the opinions you have of yourself. If you're thinking "The hooker is going to think I can't get a girlfriend", what you're really thinking is "I can't get a girlfriend so I have to fuck this hooker." However the hooker might think you're some ultra chad that's sick of dealing with women and only looking for a quick fuck. She has no idea, nor does her, or anybody, opinion should matter to you. I've fucked a good amount of wo…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 08:01 PM
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lol word. thanks
/r/askTRP09/09/16 02:19 AM
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I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around this. I mean, how the fuck, do you lack that much self awareness. How do you not see it. I feel like we're talking about turkeys or chickens or something. My sister just moved into her new apartment and just started a new job. She was telling me about all these guys that were doing things for her, not in a bragging way, but nonchalantly saying the x was helping her move boxes, and y was letting her borrow some supplies. And I said "Ya know sister, y…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 12:02 AM
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I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around this. I mean, how the fuck, do you lack that much self awareness. How do you not see it. I feel like we're talking about turkeys or chickens or something.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 11:55 PM
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It comes down to confidence. There's no way I could go out and game women while being broke and living at my friends bedroom. However if I had tons of cash in the bank and could buy a Lamborghini whenever I wanted, and I lived at my friends apartment for whatever fucked up reason. Yeah I could get laid no problem. Do whatever it takes flush out the alpha in you, but keep the image of some broke Chad.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 12:54 AM
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That's awesome. I'm starting ocs soon so I wanted to test my 3 mile to see where I'm at. When I got done I looked at my watch. 23 minutes...... I've got a couple months before I leave so I think I can do it. Maybe......
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 08:20 PM
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This. I'm an electrical engineer and I'm having a hard time making friends that don't spend 3 hours a day watching Netflix. Good guys no doubt. But not people I want to spend time with outside of work.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 08:44 PM
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I just see it as a challenge. I'm just going to have to approach more girls and work on my game. If I can make it work in this city, I'll be able to make it anywhere.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 04:25 AM
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I moved to a city that has 130 men to every 100 women. I kinda had the "fuck it I'll figure it out" attitude. I will say, coming from a city that has more women than men, it is way fucking harder to get laid here. Lol Idk Wtf I was thinking. Maybe some statistics should be listened to.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 06:42 PM
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Great post. This can be applied to trp as well. I've made some posts that I knew were going to get shredded and down voted to oblivion. But I still wanted people's opinion. About 70% of the comments are just fuck heads calling me a faggot ass pussy, but the other 30% are people with some really good opinions and criticism that are really genuine. And in a week, all I can remember are the 30% that gave me good criticism, I can't even remember what the other 70% said. the name calling might sting …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 06:30 PM
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I come from the same exact background. And there's an uncomfortable truth that you must come to terms with that will help greatly with the anger you feel for her. Some women, are incapable of not being dominating, they would rather drown in there own piss than give into a submissive position. Hopefully this is not your mother, but if it is, and she's not willing to conform to the man in you, you will have to turn your back on her. It is your only option. And when you realize this your anger at h…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 06:07 PM
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Thanks. You summed it up pretty good. This will be the last time I try and do something like this.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 04:40 PM
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I agree 100%. You pay someone back because it's the right thing to do. But I didn't pay him back because it was the right thing to do. I Payed him back with the expectation of getting something in return, which is not the right thing to do. And he told me that he didn't want the money, but I tried paying him back anyways. I fucked up, I just wanted to share my story with you lovely gentlemen.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 10:07 PM
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Yes, thank you. I've told myself to stop seeking his validation a million times. But for some reason I can never fully pull away. But I think this will be the last time I do it.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 09:23 PM
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I didn't say I was a victim, I was disagreeing with /raisiedbyanarcassist that I was a victim. And I didn't go there to get"validation". I wanted peoples opinions, that is all. Maybe you should have shown some gratefulness for the sacrafices your father made for you. Maybe get to know him. And you don't think I've tried? Don't you think paying him back $50,000 would be "Showing some gratefulness". Please me more specific, how does one "Show gratefulness"? he gave you a gift and you are rejecting…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 09:22 PM
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I grew up pretty wealthy, and my father payed for most of my college education, about 50k, and he didn't expect a dime in return. For about a year out of college I wanted to pay him back, but kept telling myself how stupid It would be to give away 50k.....and then I found TRP. Well guess what motherfuckers, I just wire transferred 15k to his bank account. And I just got a second job at nights instead of sitting at home playing video games just to pay him back. Maybe other people can live and be …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 12:22 AM
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Yes good insight. Going out or your way to try and get laid seems counterintuitive to what TRP teaches.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 12:06 AM
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I get this. Like right now I'm sitting in my house debating on whether I want to start Rollo's second book, or go out and try and get laid. To be honest, I'm kind of leaning towards reading the book. Chasing women is too time consuming, and time spent on myself is a guaranteed reward while going out and trying to get laid only has a chance of paying off.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 11:46 PM
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This. When I first started TRP I forced myself to talk to lots of women. I had a little success but not much. After I became a little more RP I stopped talking to them. It wasn't a conscious decision, Its not that I see one and think "Oh man theirs a girl, but I'm not going to to talk to her because I'm nervous." It became I don't even realize they are there. Walking up to a girl, any girl, doesn't even cross my mind anymore. I'm too busy working, going to the gym, reading RP material. I just fi…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 11:40 PM
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Thanks for the post. Its easy to forget where you came from. Still not getting laid nearly as often as I'd like. But one thing I can say for sure is I'm much happier than I use to be.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 11:21 PM
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This is really interesting. The ugly chick know i'm not in it for the long run and they have no chance of locking me down, so they don't bother. While the more attractive ones think they have a chance. Good to know.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 06:25 AM
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Ok so I'm a decent looking guy. If I approach an ugly girl, it'll get her rocks off that she turned down a good looking guy that approached her. However the attractive ones don't have anything to prove, so they'll me more inclined to let a guy take them out?
/r/askTRP13/08/16 08:25 PM
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Women are dogs chasing cars. Drive up to a dog, put the car in park and say "here, this is yours". It'll piss on it and walk away. Want women to chase you? Don't stop driving your car. They love a good chase. The more women chasing you, the more they want you. If you know what you're doing, its like taking candy from a fucking baby.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 01:18 AM
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I moved to a new city, been implementing TRP and i've seen vast improvements. But still no results. I'm still needy / lonely. I got this girls number yesterday and texted her for drinks tomorrow, she never got back to me. Then there was this gorgeous girl that was sitting next to me on the bus. There were all these people around us and I still get anxious hitting on girls in front of other people, then I looked at her hand and saw that she was married, I totally bitched out and didn't say a word…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 01:41 AM
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Yes I agree. Unfortunately my father never went through this stage. My Dad is 55 and my his father has been dead for 6 years. My father still feels guilty when he does something he knows my grandfather wouldn't approve of. Its sad actually. My Dad didn't move out of the house until he was 27 and when he did he only moved 20 minutes away from where he grew up. My Dad invested his entire life into his fathers approval and kind of expected me to do the same, which I didn't, he has a hard time deali…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 06:12 AM
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Werd. Its hard because we were really close in college. And I really don't think I would have gotten through it without him. But I feel like I'm hanging out with a teenager in his rebellious years. Except he's 23. Maybe I'm just trying to make him be what he was like in college. Which is a futile pursuit.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 10:10 PM
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Yes this. I need to lighten up. And I did make it sound like a joke. To be frank I wasn't joking, but I should have been. It was stupid and shallow of me to expect her to pay for everything. I let money get to me.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 05:01 PM
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Werd. Alright, lesson learned. Maybe I was overthinking the situation. Now I feel like an ass.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 04:46 PM
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Yes. I love him very much And if he ever got sick or had an accident I would be the first one there to take care of him. But I'm constantly letting him drag me down, it has to end.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 05:50 PM
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lol. He's a huge homophobe. So its a possibility.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 05:25 PM
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I heard my mom explain to a really reserved and religious friend who was concerned her kids were having sex that it's okay for her kids to have sex because people get married so much later in life now. Aka: I rode the cock carousel when I was young and it was okay because I was really horny. And now I have to defend other people who do it. My dad is the king of beta and so was I until recently so it all kinda makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 04:21 AM
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1st off, there are a lot of guys like you, its not the end of the world. Read this post and read all of the books this guy tells you to read. Reading the books helped me a ton! I'm not the type of guy that just does something, I need a logical explanation for why I should say X to a girl. These books to a great job mapping out masculinity and attraction.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 07:06 AM
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I'm 26 and you're years ahead of me. Good on ya mate.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 07:31 AM
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If I had gone it for the kiss and she rejected me I would have just said "fuck it" and moved onto the next chick and given up. What made you think she would text you later? Or did you just not care?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 07:29 AM
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Yes. Thank you.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 07:09 AM
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Thanks for the advice. My friends thought it was quite hysterical as well.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 08:13 AM
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Someone went full retard. Do you not know who went full retard? If so, who? Who went full retard? Your lack of conviction in your opinion is exhausting makes me hesitant to take it seriously. Don't leave your words up to others people's interpretation. "You went full retard" would have been a sentence I could respect, but you were passive aggressive, a feminine and beta trait. This simple wording says a lot about you (In a negative way) in the eyes of an observer.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 07:44 AM
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Thank you. Very helpful. However, I'm reading models and he talks about how attractive not being afraid to be vulnerable is. I wasn't afraid to let a girl pick my brain it because I'm comfortable with myslef, as in I have nothing to hide. (which is true for most of the time).
/r/askTRP28/07/16 06:38 AM
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Lol. +1 autism. Thanks for the laugh.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 06:37 AM
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I am convinced that you are born either a leader or a follower. I went to a military college that claimed that it produced "leaders". What a load of horse shit. You cannot produce leaders, you may be able to pick up tricks here and there about leadership, but you either got it or you don't. You wouldn't believe the pieces of shit that come out of those "leadership" colleges. That word leaves such a bad taste in my mouth. If you don't know how to lead, I'm not going to explain it to you (in perso…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 08:13 AM
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I did something similar. I work on a big ship that's in the middle of the pacific ocean right now. Lifting is a challenge but I'm managing. But the change that made the biggest difference for me? Getting the fuck up when my alarm goes off. I'm 25 and up until a month ago I would hit the snooze button 3-4 times before I get up. Now I just get the fuck up. I can't believe how much better I feel since I began doing this.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 02:31 AM
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I understand all of this, being a good looking guy I get what you're saying 100%. But, I am terrible at transiting from ignoring to approaching. Women like me by default and when I ignore them it drives them crazy. But how do I go from ignoring her to banging her without it going to her head?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 02:23 AM
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I agree with this 100%, and I'm still stuck in the anger phase. I'm lifting consistently and reading TRP, but I still have to work on my game. Maybe when I start to see more results it will go away.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 08:04 AM
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Take away a girls pussy and she has exactly what all the fat girls in high school had, nothing. Do you think Anita Sarkeesian could get away with what she does if she was some fat dyke? No, fuck no. Nobody would give a shit what she says. Why was Emma Watson chosen to speak on women's issues at the UN as opposed to other much more qualified women who've been preaching for women's rights for as long as she's been fucking alive? Like seriously I'm watching the fucking thing and I'm thinking (Why t…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 07:44 AM
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Holy crap, that is the dumbest fucking thing I've ever seen, but I wouldn't try and refute it, no point you'd just be shooting yourself in the foot with any women you might be able to sleep with. Just nod, agree, and bang the girls sitting in your class.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 07:27 AM
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