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ConversationTheboynextdoor09/r/seduction11/05/24 02:56 AM
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1

Yup work on that. Like them for other things than a quick nut. The ones you want can sniff that out
/r/seduction20/06/25 12:35 PM
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From what you describe. Your getting in your own way
/r/seduction15/09/24 12:16 PM
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Ah yes. Online dating. Lets just put it as some are getting preferences over something that you can control.
/r/seduction08/08/24 02:08 PM
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Going out on actual dates ar least once a week. Talk about the length of your relationship including the sexual stuff (appropriate place and time) talk about each others desires or explorations she wants to have
/r/seduction21/07/24 01:11 PM
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Your putting a lot of stress on yourself to gain a result. Your mind is different so change it to where to feel comfortable and your result will change. When it cormes to being more cocky just think shes trying to get me and word things around that way howver it gets old quick if you dont mix it up with some humor
/r/seduction21/07/24 01:08 PM
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You show interest verbally and non verbally. Its a slow build with touches and closeness. When talking thnk of saying with double meaning and framing as your the thing to win over. It will create tension in contxt. Get there by being funny and making the other perosn laugh it also can include being silly around each other but not making fun of
/r/seduction21/07/24 12:58 PM
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Be smart and consistent with the funds and time spent
/r/seduction21/07/24 12:48 PM
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It lets you know their fear deep inside, communication and trust around you but said in a joking way so fix it
/r/seduction21/07/24 12:47 PM
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Although a few will look at it isn't the main thing most are draw to. Mainly comes on what lifestyle your able to show for IG
/r/seduction21/07/24 12:46 PM
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Join an existing community to get introduced to the type of man your looking for. If traveling mostly you have a friend or fam you will be staying with. Begin there
/r/seduction21/07/24 12:39 PM
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If your post in this community then is mostly because yiu want this to go somewhere. When it comes to this woman know that the more time you two spend together fhe more likely it will lead to something however note that is not all. You still have to do something about while in the location. So yes, you can help her if you like this mostly lead to small breaks where you both can distract yourselves. If yhinking longer tedm know that helping each other problem will fruther develop the relationship
/r/seduction21/07/24 12:35 PM
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All about initiative. Although you can give a woman your number in certain situations its is slightly more difficult for her to take initiative since she now has to deal with the pressure of what to say. Men are expected to take initiative and most woman are taught to not chase a man (her friends, her mom). If he is interested he will let you know.. Traditional way. As a man you dont know what or where she will be.
/r/seduction16/06/24 01:29 PM
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Tons of places to meet women after college but the platmys similar to that of what college was
/r/seduction12/06/24 04:45 PM
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Youve meet thru dating app so to a degree she's interested. Act like shes your girl already that includes being comfortable enough with touching, close proximity and eye contact..jokeing around, playing around not taking thing too to heart while simultaneously makeing your intentions known through subtleties. Woman love to be intrigued
/r/seduction12/06/24 04:42 PM
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Sure
/r/seduction13/05/24 10:41 PM
1

Powerful
/r/seduction13/05/24 10:41 PM
1

Haha sure there is
/r/seduction13/05/24 10:40 PM
0

Yeah
/r/seduction11/05/24 11:25 PM
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To a degree. Yes
/r/seduction11/05/24 06:59 PM
1

Solid advice
/r/seduction11/05/24 04:53 PM
3

Hahaha. Now i have the song stuck in my head
/r/seduction11/05/24 03:13 PM
1

Hilarious but true
/r/seduction11/05/24 02:23 PM
2

Thank for share all those!
/r/seduction11/05/24 02:21 PM
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Yes, this is awsome so many take so long to learn this
/r/seduction11/05/24 02:19 PM
8

Good tip
/r/seduction11/05/24 02:18 PM
1

Powerful once you get it
/r/seduction11/05/24 02:17 PM
1

Simple yet powerful tip
/r/seduction11/05/24 02:15 PM
2

Thats a really good one
/r/seduction11/05/24 02:14 PM
1

Good one and true
/r/seduction11/05/24 06:21 AM
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Yup. Moreso if you can make them feel an array of emotions
/r/seduction11/05/24 06:11 AM
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Yes, great tip. It is all part of the journey. If it was all too easy there would be no excitement
/r/seduction11/05/24 04:23 AM
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Agreed some of the best advice is the simplest however some people listening to the advice need more explanation to fully understand it and internalize it. It is all dependant on where you personally are in the dating journey for some more advence than other for some just beginning and its omat either way. Didn't say it wasn't great, tho the consciences that come along with it is what will make you you think twice next time.
/r/seduction11/05/24 04:21 AM
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Yup, this is true. Often overlooked if you dont know what to look for
/r/seduction11/05/24 03:53 AM
2

Wow your really asking for it. Its a free world. Do it if you want 😂
/r/seduction11/05/24 03:22 AM
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The fact that you said, "As a man am I supposed to act like I don’t have those?" And your selecting what you choose to say and doubting how they will take it and if they will accept you or not is the reason why you are having this problem. Like if your pretending to be something you are not and you are able to persuade someones to jump into a relationship with you but then suddenly all that changes with a different aspect then it comes off incongruent espcially if they do not know that sade and …
/r/seduction11/05/24 12:59 AM
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Trying to change your behaviors
/r/seduction10/05/24 11:15 PM
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Sounds like she already has someone in mind and is blowing off steam. The more reoccurrence you have with this person thenhugher the chances are that she will give her info but just know she may be with some already. Honestly man at the moment you probably did not see it but you did somethings that made you attractive in addtion to being a safe option for her at the time. Don't let tagt discourage you tho. It's still a win
/r/seduction10/05/24 11:03 PM
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Attemps are alwasy good. If they ate trying and still receptive then 2nd date can change. You may need to put a bit more energy to get it rolling again.
/r/seduction30/04/24 03:22 PM
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Over and under confidence throughout swigns along with comparision ruining your interactions
/r/seduction30/04/24 03:06 PM
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Your doing fine. Next time talk more when meeting. It gives you more things to go from and conversations are easier. i see you tried to tease her a bit which is fine but nothing to continue the conversation. Sometimes people need an extra push until you get into flow. We know she def into running which if she is at next running group then it would be ideal to talk in person. You could also invite her to the next group and take ownership
/r/seduction29/04/24 01:57 PM
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Your reason and connection based on what yous talk about is not good enough
/r/seduction29/04/24 01:24 PM
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Sounds like people naturally feel comfortable with you based on what you are saying on the post. What you'll want to do is increase the humor and touch
/r/seduction29/04/24 01:17 PM
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Connecting with the other person in a level they haven't experienced before and making them feel good around you
/r/seduction28/04/24 02:51 PM
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It's okay to ask and see what he wants just make sure you communicate what you want and are afraid of. So far it sounds like he's seeing how it will go
/r/seduction25/04/24 10:51 PM
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Get to touching and keep it consistent and comfortable. Close on physical proximity be sure you are in a place where sex could happen away from others, eye contact and kissing will also conform you mutually want it. Also its cool to also make sure they know you are interested in them by saying something affirming that through the conversation moving from casual "i like spending time with you" to "you have this sexy look when you do..."
/r/seduction22/04/24 01:53 AM
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He ran out conversation and most likely does not want to mess things things up or come across as you describe yourself in the situation. Weird aint two people who dont want to come across as desperate or toward although both feeling each out. Wow the pressure is on. Help him but dont do everything for him
/r/seduction21/04/24 10:26 PM
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Well she could of denied the call or at least put you on hold if she wanted to. Let it go and try figure out logistics to where you have energy next time. Usually helps of you are already in motion doing something not mentality draining. If she decides to hit you up yiu can let her know whats been going on and why but dont apologize. You have not done anything wrong
/r/seduction17/04/24 01:43 PM
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Find the excitement back in your life by spending more time doing the things you couldn't while you were with your partner. Keep yourself busy by doing active activities and activities to improve on skills you would like to work out Be social when out, go to late parties etc.. You'll learn to be confortable on your own When it comes to dating know not to get attached to a single girl immediately. Have options often we date those we think are perfevt only to find out in the beginning yes because …
/r/seduction17/04/24 12:58 PM
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On the way to the bus, on the bus stop. It can start as simple as finding out what class shes going into and takllking about that. Ideally good if you can make her laugh at the beginning. Then its just holding that down
/r/seduction15/04/24 04:48 PM
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Its the event and group they are. Its faciliting them getting laid. Note that those who brag are also the ones with little to sex and just want to look cool
/r/seduction15/04/24 03:59 PM
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When you have a good time and show others a good time then you more drawn to you. Just to hook up is kinda creepy you put all this pressure on yourself to achieve a specific result
/r/seduction15/04/24 03:36 PM
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Your on track for her number and find means where she is more frequently on and use that.
/r/seduction13/04/24 04:50 PM
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Dont worry if its right or not. Focus on sensations of her lips with yours, her skin, her smell. Move in slow for it. Tease her a little. Enjoy and savor every kiss thats the entry to a passionate kiss
/r/seduction13/04/24 04:35 PM
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Nope. 2 had sex with you. 6 and something made out. Your getting better results than when you weren't doing anything
/r/seduction08/04/24 06:06 PM
1

Break the distance between each other usually works best if you have a reason.
/r/seduction05/04/24 01:02 PM
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Shes proposely trying avoid you it seems. It might be affecting her work but many variables..yes you see her just casually say hi. Gauge it from there and schedule a date in person.
/r/seduction21/03/24 01:51 PM
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Seek professional help. Continue improve and stop comparing
/r/seduction10/03/24 04:38 AM
1

Congrats man. Way to make your own path
/r/seduction10/03/24 04:36 AM
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Too friendly, no spark
/r/seduction06/03/24 06:59 PM
1

Your a great man keep staying strong.. In regards your question, developing a deep connection that is incomparable to what she has had on the past with other men
/r/seduction29/02/24 02:38 PM
1

Yeah man go for it. Sometimes the person you are with at the time may not be that interesting to you. So changing persons is a fun way to go about it as long as you set a time limit.
/r/seduction21/02/24 06:48 PM
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It is not as dominance issue rather than just being more sexual and taking it somewhere
/r/seduction18/02/24 02:10 PM
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Not healthy longter and could potentially cause you serious problem short terms
/r/seduction18/02/24 02:01 PM
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Shes grassing to what is good in her life at the moment..she feels that your withdrawing ever since she let you in to where other dont get to see. Women knw we love sex sooo yeah
/r/seduction16/02/24 04:28 PM
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Great..knowing where you fit under is a good start. Make more jokes at the beginning and gain closeness quicker is all. Your friendliness with adjst things for you automatically
/r/seduction15/02/24 07:35 PM
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Yup exactly. You got it you purposely played a game..she cant trust you n pissed. Just cause she does something does not mean you should. Shes just seeking attention and validation. Do you honestly want to be with girl so badly? If you do try to connect with her one more time, leave it and if gets nack to you she does if not oh well. You moved on
/r/seduction15/02/24 07:23 PM
1

It's cause your taking care of yourself to a level most gay men do. The appearance etc plus the women already like you. Just joke about it and keep doing your thing Also congrats and loosing all that weight
/r/seduction12/02/24 04:29 PM
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Great job on working on yourself to get rid of your addiction. Essentially sounds you ultimately want to have sex and shes the woman in your life that you would want to have it since she is giving you confortable sensations. Here the thing though dont date nor have sex with people you work with it ends up badly
/r/seduction12/02/24 04:16 PM
1

Get a new group n fck them and him for making fun of you for betting yourself. What weak fcks
/r/seduction11/02/24 03:35 PM
1

Great on working on yourself but it sounds you did that cause they hurt you with the rejection and still holding on to it. Its actually quite simple but it requiers a lot of time and skill. I dont think you are there yet nor are willing to put all the effort that is required to get things rolling
/r/seduction15/11/23 07:19 PM
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