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| 15 | It finally clickedno time like now, to go no contact. Allowing contact, or "being friends" just harms you. You're the prize, she'll figure that out too late. Just put yourself first again, and say no to the bullshit. Stop crap fitting people and situations. Consider individual counseling, and doing the work. I found the red pi!! content, that helped me to understand so much of this is just the nature of things, and there is nothing you could have done to change the outcome. Nobody can be perfect all the time. If … | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/23 06:46 PM |
| 13 | Are divorced court proceedings public?excellent advice from your buddy as well. It's painful, and they are rewarded for leaving. Leave the state out of it. Only do it if you are having kids, but realize the kids are leverage against you if things go south. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/23 02:41 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with the guilt?I would say you have no issues to your lawyer about asking for custody down the line if she refuses to get a job. That removes the kid (assuming DNA testing proves it's yours) as leverage. Just do what your lawyer says, it's probably the right thing. You are leaving for a reason, don't let her decide your future, but listen to your lawyer. If your guilt is getting the better of you, set up a trust fund for your child(again assuming it's really yours) that you can put money in for college etc. th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/23 01:38 PM |
| 2 | I'm in the anger stage of grief, and it has opened my eyes to the truth of marriage.not even good for that imho, too risky. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/23 04:40 AM |
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