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The equivalent to "Nice-guy neediness" in males is THIS in females. You'll notice super hot successful women don't crave male attention. They're confident. Girls who flirt with guys all the time don't think highly of themselves, they're seeking validation from guys because they want to prove to themselves that men find them attractive. Trust me, that's a disaster.
/r/seduction24/07/13 01:41 AM
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I'm picturing him saying this like a robot to himself and walking away. "Kino unsuccessful, require additional calibration."
/r/seduction24/07/13 01:29 AM
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If you want to be something more than friends you're going to have to risk losing her as a friend.
/r/seduction24/07/13 01:28 AM
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This also is possibly the best conversation starter there is. You: "Hi, I'm new (exchange names), what is cool around here?" Her: "What do you like to do?" "Drugs, party, sex, play badminton. Where can I partake in such activities?" Instant conversational success!
/r/seduction24/07/13 01:26 AM
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Sounds good. Just make sure you both have the same idea of what "going for a run" means. For you a mile might be a run but for her it might be 6. You don't want to go back while she's expecting an actual workout. Source: I used to run a lot but if you don't use it, you lose it. Run, swim, something to eat, someplace to shag sounds like a pretty good series of events to me.
/r/seduction24/07/13 01:22 AM
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If you're nervous this is just a simple "Man up and do it". However, you might just not be attracted to the girls you're attracting. It's very validating once you're able to go hit on and be successful with girls on a REGULAR basis. However, I think there are multiple stages of Approach Anxiety. Just like most things in life you probably have plateaued. Do me a favor and double check the next time you go out. When you walk into a place (bar, classroom, mall, elementary school), do you automatica…
/r/seduction24/07/13 01:17 AM
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This is a great summary. I think in addition, you should think of everything in your life as separate. You have a great relationship, that doesn't mean you should stop improving your job, health (working out), learning, etc. Keep doing all those things. NEVER EVER STOP. These things can meld but they should always be separate. Be an individual.
/r/seduction03/07/13 08:38 PM
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Think of it this way. Outer game are the rims on your car. You can have super flashy rims but if your car is all rusted (You dress like shit), your interior has holes and stains (You have low self esteem), and your engine doesn't work well (You don't workout or eat right), you still drive a shitty car. Inner game simply explains the fact that you have to be better at ALL aspects of your life in order to make the most of Seduction material. You can't just become confident if you're not. By improv…
/r/seduction28/06/13 07:38 PM
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I came here to post "Fake it till you make it". CurveBall beat me.
/r/seduction28/06/13 01:10 AM
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I mean... If you did a FR on a Sunday with specific details of how you picked the girl up, what you said, the logistics... She would know it was you. The location would be a nail in the coffin for sure! With or without the location, if she saw it and read it she would know. On the other hand, I could see some anti PUA people going through every FR with a city attached and cross posting it to /NewYork or something similar. Or worse.... I could see that ending badly...
/r/seduction28/06/13 12:42 AM
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More On-Topic: I'm not a huge fan of location flair. There are plenty of alternatives for this (Lairs, etc.)
/r/seduction27/06/13 11:22 PM
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I think flair would be an incredibly valuable tool for this Sub. I understand the mod's perspective on this but the truth is that the h8ers and keyboard Cassanova's will ALWAYS be here. It is the internet after all. My 2 Cents: Option 1 Beginner, Intermediate, Advanced Self-Proclaimed "Level" flair. This flair would give a Sedditor a way to express where they think they are at. You could make this fairly simple like above or go more in depth... (I'm thinking Skiing/Snowboarding nomenclature: Gre…
/r/seduction27/06/13 11:10 PM
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Have you ever had a friend who was the CLEARLY unattractive guy who had all kinds of hot female friends? I certainly have. As an attractive man/boy/bearpig, (my basis being women frequently tell me so when I go out at night, usually 2-3 a night) I find that women do not trust attractive men. They assume I just want to sleep with them because why else would I be talking to them? IOK.... they have a point, but it's an uphill battle constantly. Women are big on the whole trust thing apparently. One…
/r/seduction21/06/13 12:50 AM
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Engage her, ask her a question, etc. "What do you think?" Clearly indicate for her to join the conversation. If she is shy, you gave her an in to the conversation. If she's a bitch, she'll be a bitch. The trick is to confront them without risk of calling them out for being shy or not social. You don't want to be confrontational, just inviting.
/r/seduction20/06/13 03:22 AM
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Easy to say, hard to apply for those with AA. This is the right idea though. If you're a "touchy feely" guy, you'll probably miss out on a couple girls who find it creepy but you'll be successful with FAR more than you miss out on.
/r/seduction19/06/13 12:20 AM
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Based on your [FR], you seem to be taking seduction principles in huge strides, not in baby steps. This isn't a bad thing, but your [FR] is an indication you need to slow down just a tad. Seddit information is a TOOL but just using that tool does not mean you you have instant success in a bottle. You can buy a hammer and some nails but that doesn't mean you can build a house right? SLOW DOWN. Use one tool at a time. YES, you should use KINO and talk about SEX but it's a process not a one-trick p…
/r/seduction18/06/13 11:53 PM
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Han Solo: Hey, Your Worship, I'm only trying to help. Princess Leia: Would you please stop calling me that? Han Solo: Sure, Leia. Princess Leia: You make it so difficult sometimes. Han Solo: I do, I really do. You could be a little nicer, though. Come on, admit it. Sometimes you think I'm all right. Princess Leia: Occasionally, maybe... when you aren't acting like a scoundrel. Han Solo: Scoundrel? Scoundrel? I like the sound of that. [Han starts to massage Leia's hand] Princess Leia: Stop that. …
/r/seduction10/06/13 06:28 PM
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IMO: "Cute" can come off in a sexy way or a not sexy way. (I know, this is some higher level stuff right?) Don't read too far into words. Cute can mean a lot of things but it's more how she says it. If she's touching you, her eyes are big, she's playing with her hair, if she's asking her friends, she probably means she thinks your hot. If you've been talking to her all night and haven't made it to within 6inches of touching then she probably isn't thinking you're hot when she tells you you're cu…
/r/seduction03/06/13 11:47 PM
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Good Advice.
/r/seduction29/05/13 03:49 PM
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You don't need therapy if you've slept with 30 women. You don't need therapy if you've slept with 100 women if it is PART of your BALANCED LIFESTYLE. IMO there are 3 keys to happiness for men: Health, Wealth, Relationships. An Unbalanced Lifestyle: Health - You take steroids, you spend 40 hours a week at the gym, work at a minimum wage job to pay for your supplements. You live for that pump you get at the gym. Yea the steroids and HGH are going to probably going to kill you before you turn 60 bu…
/r/seduction28/05/13 10:24 PM
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Thank you kind sir!
/r/seduction23/05/13 02:46 AM
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Post a Field Report (FR) and let us know how it went.
/r/seduction22/05/13 05:11 PM
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READ THE SIDEBAR BEFORE POSTING YOUR FIRST TIME You really only have two options: Option A I'm going to go ahead an rule this one out for you but here it is anyways: You keep falling for every girl who passes you and eventually a girl finds YOU. She won't be what you wanted in a girl but you'll settle. You'll justify this by saying you are in "LOVE" with her and love triumphs all. If you're lucky she'll show you how to use that thing hanging between your legs. You'll become clingy, needy, pathet…
/r/seduction22/05/13 04:53 PM
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As someone who has dipped his pen in company ink, I can tell you it's generally NOT worth it. It's generally a shit-show. Word spreads, people know, or if they don't know they definitely can tell something is up. Best thing to do is game her, make her your friend, and invite her out for drinks. HB9.5s know other HBs and if you're the cool sexy guy from work she'll hook you up. It will net you more return in the long-run, I promise. My 2 cents: If you have a professional career that you value, DO…
/r/seduction22/05/13 04:19 PM
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Only IPhone as of last weekend.
/r/seduction21/05/13 06:06 PM
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Someone hasn't read the sidebar... READ THE SIDEBAR >:( You have two choices: 1) Man up, do it, win/fail, LEARN. 2) Accept you've put her on a pedestal and go ask out another girl. Sooner the better.
/r/seduction17/05/13 05:09 PM
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I'm on week 5/6 for my own solo business trip. General Advice: -You asked about opening lines. Here is the only one you will need, "Hey do you live around here? I'm visiting for work and I'm wondering what are the best places to go out to/things to see/touristy things to avoid etc." or alternatively, "If you were stuck here for 6 weeks what would you do in your spare time?" -Lace this with humor about whatever her/his answer is. -Won't hurt your chances of closing. You have a hotel and they know…
/r/seduction19/04/13 12:20 AM
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Just remember: Real Alphas: Try to raise people up to their level, try to make people better. Bring people into the fold. HAVE FUN. Jealous Betas/Fake Alphas: Put people down, talk shit, start fights. These people are generally not in big groups... Why? These people aren't worth their weight in shit. Maybe 1 or 2 lowly AFCs following them. Two scenarios I see if YOU'RE NOT the one starting shit. Which you shouldn't be. You hit on his girlfriend. He says, "Hey Bitch, you're talking to my girl". Y…
/r/seduction10/04/13 06:37 PM
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Two things: 1) Escalate. You don't go from not touching to kissing to fucking. It's a progression. Start kinoing lightly, medium, hard, kiss. 2) You don't have to always LOOK for IOIs. Instead look for IODs. If there are no IODs than you're SET. If you touch the small of her back and she pulls away, that's an IOD, you don't move forward you move back. Next try putting your hand on her shoulder. If she lets you do that then try the hand on the back after a minute or so. Creepy dudes are the ones …
/r/seduction10/04/13 02:34 PM
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With a lot of co-workers, customers, and manager around I couldn't really ACT on that tension like I would have at a bar or party. You're just not going to kiss-close a hired gun at her place of work. What I think I SHOULD have done is planted the seed of going somewhere else after she got off, or #-closed much earlier. Instead I left abruptly without a goodbye. One of the active things I'm working on is #-closing more. I just have it in my head that I don't really want to #-close or that it fee…
/r/seduction10/04/13 02:07 PM
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Ha. I admit my choice of language may have been poor, even pretentious. I apologize. Since when are 100% of the people hired by an establishment supposed to be stupendous to you? I guess my point was that I was initially disappointed in the general quality of women in the place. These places tend to typically market themselves as being chalk full of beautiful women. In addition, there aren't typically a lot of female customers in these types of places. You need to learn more. Please expand. I'm …
/r/seduction10/04/13 01:58 PM
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