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Correct.
/r/seduction22/01/22 05:36 AM
2

You’ll have to wait for her to come back to you but now you know. Never ever ask a woman to be in a relationship with you, let her bring ilthat conversation to you.
/r/seduction16/01/22 10:27 PM
1

As soon as I read your question I immediately thought to myself, this guy is way too available. Then I read the first sentence. “We’ve been chatting almost every day..” Yep, Theory confirmed.
/r/seduction16/01/22 10:25 PM
1

Your title is kind of misleading. You’re not talking about hooking up with multiple women but rather going on a lot of first dates. My personal experience, hooking up with multiple women is always fun. The issue guys run into is time management and not having the balls to tell her they’re busy now and again.
/r/seduction16/01/22 10:21 PM
187

Don’t be too available.
/r/seduction30/09/21 01:48 PM
1

NO!
/r/askTRP05/07/21 07:16 PM
1

Never apologize to a woman for shit like that, especially if you know you didn’t do anything wrong. Own your behavior and if you absolutely have too, gaslight her. Having spent a lot of time in the Malibu/Thousand Oaks area I can tell you that it is one of the worst dating markets for an LTR in California other than SF or LA. Great place to get laid, bad place to have a relationship. What she’s doing isn’t a shit test, she wants validation and she wants your attention. She’s trying to put you on…
/r/askTRP05/07/21 07:16 PM
2

Very rarely do women behave the way they do methodically. It’s more often reactionary to a man’s behavior or social caliber. When I was blue pilled I got shit tested a lot because it was obvious I was chasing a relationship and becoming infatuated with women early on. Now a days I don’t run into any of those issues because I know how to not make myself too available.
/r/askTRP05/07/21 07:00 PM
5

It applies to all women fundamentally but the dating market/dating culture is going to be slightly different in other places. For example, you always pay for dates in America but you rarely pay in places like Sweden. In America, a lot of women will date men who are much older than them but in other places not so much.
/r/askTRP05/07/21 06:53 PM
15

Nothing. At that point they’re just happy to be in a relationship. I won’t entertain the relationship convo with them until after at least 4-6 months of dating. If they ask questions like “what are we?” Or “Where is this going?” before that, I just say that I’m still getting to know them.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 06:34 PM
50

You messed up by being cool with her and her friends traveling without you. This type of behavior is always conducive for cheating. This is why I always suggest laying out boundaries BEFORE you get into a relationship. I always tell a woman preemptively I don’t commit to or stay committed to women who: Talk to their ex, Hangout with other men, Party, Travel alone, or post sexually suggestive photos on social media. If she wants to act single she can go be single. You don’t enforce those boundari…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 04:10 PM
1

I don’t have a problem with gay men but the truth is, they’re sluts. The gay best friend is usually an enabler of trashy behavior. That guy is never on your side and if you ever get in a fight with her he’s usually quick to suggest her going to the club wearing a Vegas dress and getting hammered. I’m not saying this because I’ve dealt with it. I’m saying it because I’ve seen it many many times. Even the gays that I’ve known will admit to this.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 03:29 PM
3

Lol That pickup artist stuff seems to get guys in trouble everywhere. That’s never been my style, I try to just have organic conversation with people. If I’m ever talking to a woman I don’t know randomly out and about it’s usually in a coffee shop or a bar and it’s really casual.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 08:41 AM
3

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. Sean Connery James Bond.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 06:00 AM
0

Tell her “I’m gonna pump you and dump you in MacArthur Park.” Hahaha Seriously though, it’s fun to be creative. Just figure out what you like and tell her.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 05:57 AM
1

No. Well....no.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 05:54 AM
2

True story. I remember I was at a taco shop waiting for my order and I saw this couple sitting at a table nearby. The girl was unattractive and overweight, the guy sitting across from her looked like a male model (no homo) and was probably about 6’3. I remember thinking to myself damn bro have some standards. Then I heard him speak and that guy was as gay as Adam Lambert sliding down a rainbow. Gayer than Clay Aiken roller skating backwards blowing a whistle. What you’re seeing on the surface is…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 05:47 AM
1

I lay out a set of boundaries prior to getting into a relationship and one of those is that I don’t commit to or stay committed to women who hang out with men. That includes the gay best friend. This wouldn’t bother me but if it did I would lay that out prior to commitment. I personally wouldn’t care if she spoke to a male coworker. Plus mate guarding isn’t a good look. However, one of the boundaries I lay out is that secretly hanging out with a male coworker to me is cheating, which will end ou…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 05:36 AM
1

I love that analogy. Very true.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 05:22 AM
2

Yes, they do. This is what I like to call “Masculine Professionalism”. You act a certain way in front of your boss, your friends, and your family. It’s no different with women. Guys get too comfortable around their LTR and it shows over time. This was something I used to brief my squad about when I was in the Army. If you’re having a shit day and you need to vent, go talk it out with one of your friends, preferably over a beer unless of course you’re deployed. Do not bring it home to your girlfr…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 05:21 AM
1

If it’s important to you then get it back. Just keep your contact with her minimal.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 05:14 AM
2

I think raised. I came from a traditional South American family and our values were much different than my friends growing up in the states. My mom used to tell me that women were like busses, one leaves and the next one shows up 15 minutes later. She used to also tell me that if a woman can’t cook, stay in shape, or wear heels then she’s useless. You can imagine what the men in my family were saying. Unfortunately, I picked up some beta tendencies from my friends. Even the guys who did really w…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 05:12 AM
1

I had a room mate who was a 6’5 male model and he actually said a lot of women found him to be too tall.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 05:00 AM
4

Women in their 30s get a bad rap for a good reason but despite what people may think, they’re are some really attractive ones. I dated a 32-year-old when I was 23 and she was a smoke show. I’m in my early 30s now and don’t typically date them because a lot of them can be absolutely insufferable. They tend to treat every date like a job interview and ask a million questions having to do with money, which pisses me off. I make good money but I don’t like feeling like a piggy bank for some dumb bit…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 04:57 AM
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I want to screenshot your response and frame it on my wall. That was perfect. More guys on here need to hear this. Why anyone would put any energy into an ex is beyond me.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 04:35 AM
1

Exactly
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:25 AM
1

Honestly, that’s a good way to go about it. If you talk to anyone who’s been in the military, they’ll more than likely tell you the same thing.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 07:41 AM
15

There’s no such thing as a 10. Go up to them and get some practice. Even if it doesn’t go anywhere, failure is part of winning.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 01:51 AM
2

Facts 👍🏼
/r/askTRP17/05/21 01:45 AM
1

That’s a tough one. I can tell you from a western point of view that the traditional values the women have in the Middle East comes with a lot of perks. But I can see how it would be tough to have anything casual. It’s really up to you but I think hiring escorts can be very bad for you mentally.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 12:29 AM
1

Just curious, what country are you in?
/r/askTRP16/05/21 08:29 PM
7

A personal trainer can be beneficial to show you how to do certain types of lifts correctly so you don’t hurt yourself. As far as nutrition goes that’s a pretty broad thing and there’s a ton of misinformation out there. I always recommend checking out Greg Doucette on YouTube. I’ve followed his nutritional advice for the past year and have seen a dramatic change in my body.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 08:26 PM
2

It sounds more like she has mental problems than her being entitled. Women aren’t usually confrontational. I’ve literally sniped machines from women at the gym by throwing my towel on it before they can get to it. They almost always just walk away and go do a different exercise and at the very most will just make a face. Fun fact, something like one in four women have borderline personality disorder. Her explosive temper makes it sound like you just encountered one. Good on you for reacting the …
/r/askTRP16/05/21 05:27 PM
1

“I’ll let you know.” translates to “You’re way too available and I’m not interested anymore.” You’ve already been on a date and kissed. If she really wants to hangout, she could always just text you and say hey. You don’t have to always be the one to initiate. If I were you I would cut off contact with her until she messages you. If she doesn’t, you have your answer.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 06:11 AM
3

The problem is too many guys have been sold on the idea that if they don’t have a “dream job” then they’re not successful. Work isn’t supposed to be Willy Wonka in the chocolate factory, you’re there to work. The idea of taking pride in what you do no matter what it is, is starting to become a thing of the past. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with working a 9-5. Chances are, you won’t be with that same company for more than a year anyway. That’s the typical turnaround. Having a solid work ethi…
/r/askTRP16/05/21 04:40 AM
4

I wake up and first brush my teeth then I wash my hands. I get my morning meal prepared, then I wash my hands. I boil five eggs and prepare some oats, a typical weight lifter breakfast, then I wash my hands. I put on some coffee and then I wash my hands. Then I take a quick shower and I wash my hands. I get dry and get dressed and then I wash my hands. I put on some face cream, do my hair, and then I wash my hands. I wash wash wash but I can never wash the shame away.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 04:28 AM
1

An Infantry Drill Sergeant the size of Ronnie Coleman screaming in my face and telling me to fireman carry a guy for 100M for that guys fuck up. Good times.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 04:22 AM
5

Absolutely not. Don’t ever expect a woman to lose weight after committing to her. Those boundaries have to be set before you get into the relationship. This is a major problem men have, thinking that they’ll get a fixer upper and then get her to change. Don’t count on it. Getting into a committed relationship is like buying a car. Once you drive the car off the lot, it’s yours. You can’t come back six months later and say that you want upgraded wheels. It’s the same with relationships, once you …
/r/askTRP16/05/21 04:16 AM
6

I’ve heard the saying thrown around quite a bit and personally I don’t find it very relevant. Women could say the exact same thing about men. In fact, women have a similar saying “Where the wind blows, a man flies.”
/r/askTRP14/05/21 07:20 AM
1

High value implies the very top percentile of men. A good looking broke guy wouldn’t be high value just because he’s good looking. “..I guess you were a late bloomer.” See now I can tell you’re personally offended by what I’m saying. No, I’m not a late bloomer. Come on man, females react like that not men. Grow some thicker skin and check your ego at the door. It’ll do you a lot of good. You’re also looking at things from a male perspective of men being “post wall”. Women don’t see age the same …
/r/askTRP14/05/21 01:23 AM
1

Money alone doesn’t make a man high-value. In fact, men aren’t even regarded as high value until around the age of 35. You can talk hypotheticals all you want but the majority of men in their 20s are not high earners or socially experienced and the majority are certainly not bringing to the table what men in their 30s typically bring. The exception to the rule is never the rule.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 09:02 PM
1

I can tell you right now without a shadow of a doubt that you’ve been lied to by those women. Hypergamy is undefeated my friend, I guarantee you they’ve dated guys in their 30’s. Successful men in their 30’s always have a leg up on guys in their 20’s, it’s just the way it is. I did well in my 20’s but not nearly as well as I’m doing now in my early 30’s. The issue those women 18-21 face is that they can’t keep older guys around because the successful and attractive man with options who’s in his …
/r/askTRP13/05/21 08:28 PM
1

I could be wrong but I’m assuming you’re in your 20’s, if so I can tell you that you’ll see a dramatic change in your 30’s. It has nothing to do with being a late bloomer, when you’re in your 30s you have a much broader dating pool and have much more value developed (assuming you’ve developed yourself in your 20’s). Also if you’re in your 30s and really have it together it’s not hard at all to pull women in their early 20s or even women as young as 18. 20’s are without a doubt not prime years fo…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 04:15 PM
4

That’s definitely true. Women can hit that wall very early if they don’t take care of themselves. Especially if they have an alcohol or drug problem.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 01:33 AM
-5

The wall is 29-30.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 01:10 AM
1

I’ve never heard of 18-21 being prime. Prime years for women is widely considered their 20’s. The golden years are usually considered 25-27.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:04 AM
10

I’m 34 and typically date women in their early 20’s. Guys in their 30’s are typically making more money, have a better lifestyle, and more experience so there’s a lot more appeal. In fact, there’s a lot of women in their 20’s who won’t even consider a guy under 30 for an LTR.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:59 PM
55

That a mans 30’s are his prime years for dating.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:55 PM
60

“The implication that things might go wrong for her if she refuses to sleep with me. Now, not that things are gonna go wrong for her but she's thinkin' that they will.” -Dennis Reynolds
/r/askTRP12/05/21 07:07 AM
1

I always have a hard time believing a woman when she says she doesn’t have social media. They have every reason in the world for you not to see it. Everything you need to know about her is right there in plain sight.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:38 AM
2

Sorry to hear that man. Damn that sounds just like my story. I was in a six-month relationship that ended before covid and my mom also got diagnosed with cancer. I think Monk mode is one of those things that shouldn’t really exceed a year, A year and a half tops. I would set up some dates with some average women. The first few dates you go on are just going to be a warm up and they more than likely won’t go anywhere. I think one of the biggest mistakes men make coming out of Monk mode is that th…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:20 AM
1

That guy didn’t have a lot of options and sounds like a bum. It’s best to surround yourself with people who are on your wave length.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:05 AM
3

Join a club.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:02 AM
1

She was having a shit day and was using you as her emotional tampon. That’s why she went over to your place. Honestly, this is a chick that’s only good for a one nighter, carrying that kind of baggage.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:00 AM
12

I usually just say “okay cool” and then leave it at that. Personally, anytime I’ve gotten a response like that from a woman it never ended in a date.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:57 AM
1

My response: “Really? You mean more ratchet than usual?” Monk modes always a good option. I’m just curious, How long have you been in Monk mode?
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:53 AM
1

Wow bro.....wow. 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction11/05/21 02:41 AM
32

I’m the same way. I don’t have the patience to deal with that kind of BS. There’s plenty of women around.
/r/seduction11/05/21 02:39 AM
24

Nothing. I wouldn’t have listened anyway.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 04:00 AM
1

The Swedish brands Lexington and Gant use the American flag as their logo, so you see it on a lot of peoples clothes. Also, the Stadsmission chain of thrift shops around Stockholm display a giant American flag in their stores.
/r/seduction04/05/21 11:48 PM
1

Yeah you really can’t help guys become red pilled, they have to experience it for themselves. It’s like that old saying, you can walk a horse to water but you can’t force it to drink. As far as the hate goes, in this day and age if people are hating on you, you’re probably doing something right.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 07:51 AM
-1

There’s an exception to every rule but I wouldn’t even concern myself with it if I were you. I wouldn’t ever bank on a woman paying my rent so it’s irrelevant.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 04:40 AM
1

To quote Wiz Khalifa from his song Mezmorized. “Instead of worrying bout’ who that bitch fuckin’ why don’t you get you some money?”
/r/seduction04/05/21 04:36 AM
1

Yep, especially the ones from Staten Island or Newark. Yikes.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 04:24 AM
2

Haha This guy gets it! 👆🏼
/r/askTRP04/05/21 04:06 AM
4

My response would be this.. “I guess it was just my imagination..just like I imagined you being my girlfriend. Kick rocks lady, I’ve never even met you before.”
/r/askTRP04/05/21 03:50 AM
6

You should’ve joined the Army...Haha Jk. I would find the closest big city to your base and meet women there. I experienced the same thing when I was at Bragg. The women in the Ville will give you something fierce. We had a poster in our platoon area with all the different STDs listed on it. Guys would walk up and sign their name next to the one they got. I think we ended up having five or six next to chlamydia alone. Meeting women who were worth while meant we had to drive to Cameron, Lillingto…
/r/askTRP04/05/21 02:50 AM
12

They might seem intimidating but they’re actually super friendly and despite what people may think, the women are usually surprisingly short. Dating in Sweden is pretty simple. You don’t ask her on a date, you ask her out for Fika (coffee and pastries). The third time seeing her you ask her if she wants to do Fika at her place. She’ll know exactly what that means. “Fika at your place” is the Swedish version of Netflix and chill.
/r/seduction04/05/21 02:13 AM
1

I wouldn’t bother. If you know for sure and she’s not telling you, drop both of them. I experienced the same thing. The only difference is that the girl I was seeing (we weren’t even in a relationship yet) pulled me aside and told me that the guy was trying to get her to go home with him. This was after he left the bbq we were at. Once he found out I knew, I didn’t see him at any parties or get togethers after that. If she was really into you, she wouldn’t be taking the risk, especially with som…
/r/askTRP04/05/21 01:11 AM
39

James Bond, Sean Connery.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 01:03 AM
1

Where in Eastern Europe? And where are you from originally?
/r/askTRP04/05/21 12:55 AM
2

That doesn’t mean she sees you as relationship material just yet. You two are still getting to know each other and developing oneitis for her will only hurt you. You should go date other women.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 12:52 AM
5

It depends where in Eastern Europe. If you go to the Slavic countries, they’re not as much into casual relationships. Russia is a lot different. However, if you go to the Nordic countries (I know they’re not exactly eastern) they really like casual relationships, they’re very sexually open, and they love western men. Especially from America and Britain. In Stockholm I saw American flags everywhere.
/r/seduction04/05/21 12:48 AM
2

They’re not built for it mentally and men become accustomed to it.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 12:45 AM
7

Oh I wouldn’t doubt it. A lot of the women that get brought over to the US from there are usually involved with some form of prostitution. Dating in Europe when you live there like I do is a lot different. Especially if you’re dating women that have no intention of leaving their country.
/r/seduction04/05/21 12:42 AM
28

Being a digital nomad I can see a major difference in dating Eastern European women versus dating in the US. This is what I’ve experienced. Eastern European women are typically in better shape, have better fashion sense, are more traditional, and are nicer. They don’t really date casually like they do in the US. If they don’t see you as husband material, you’re normally not gonna hear back from them. My personal opinion, I think American women have become very entitled, solipsistic, and have an …
/r/seduction04/05/21 12:29 AM
1

In that case you don’t need to talk about anything with her nor should you. Eventually she’s going to ask you the relationship questions “what are we?” And “where is this headed?” That’s the time to tell her what your intentions are. “I really like spending time with you and we have a lot of fun but right now I’m just not looking for a relationship.”
/r/askTRP04/05/21 12:22 AM
1

Look up something called Palimony.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 12:10 AM
1

This 👆🏼
/r/askTRP04/05/21 12:10 AM
1

What are your intentions?
/r/askTRP03/05/21 11:59 PM
2

Yes, of course it is. That’s a boundary you should set before you get into a relationship. “I don’t commit to or stay committed to women who talk to their ex.”
/r/askTRP03/05/21 10:57 PM
4

Why would you want to keep your ego in check? To quote an old friend, “it’s okay to think you’re hard, it’s not okay to act like you’re a hard”. There’s a difference between being humble and acting humble. You should always treat people with respect but there’s nothing wrong with recognizing how great you are and how far you’ve come along. The idea of “always be humble” is a concept that emasculates men.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 10:42 PM
1

In that case it sounds like you have a mental block that’s preventing you from going to the next step. Seeing a psychiatrist would definitely help, it did wonders for me.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 04:07 PM
3

Dude...fucking run. This chick’s a basket case.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 08:10 AM
1

Yep, I went through the exact same thing with my first girlfriend back in high school. I almost cancelled our first date and my best friend was the one that convinced me to go hangout with her. In my opinion I think overcoming it comes with understanding where the fear comes from in the first place. Men are not nervous around women, they’re nervous about not matching up to her expectations. We’re hardwired for survival and procreation. At one time in human history rejection meant that your blood…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 05:36 AM
2

Hell no. I had that same problem and honestly I think most guys do. It would be kind of weird if you never had anxiety talking to women. It gets better with time, you just have to keep at it. I relate it to the first time I ever jumped out of a plane by myself. That shit was terrifying. After doing it over and over again though it became easy. SSRI’s have some pretty bad side effects too, including rapid weight gain.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 04:29 AM
7

I’ve talked about this many times before. One of the boundaries I set prior to getting into a relationship is that I don’t commit to or stay committed to women who travel alone. Being a digital nomad, I can tell you first hand with confidence that if a guys girlfriend or wife is doing that, he’s without a doubt getting cheated on.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 10:32 PM
4

“Show me your friends and I’ll show you your future. Wanna know why you’re all fucked up? Just look at the fuckin’ bums you hang around with!” -Dan Peña
/r/askTRP02/05/21 02:27 AM
2

Man there’s so much that goes into that I don’t even know where to begin. Check out Greg Douecettes channel on YouTube. He’s the best fitness YouTuber in my opinion.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 01:48 AM
1

Honestly, most women love rough sex. If her not doing it is a problem for you, then you should go meet one that will. Sexually inhibited women are the absolute worst.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 01:44 AM
1

Nope.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 12:14 AM
2

Think fast, be witty, be sexual without being creepy, don’t throw out compliments left and right, make fun of her playfully, and be kind of a dick. Watch the interview with Prince and Mel B, that’s how you flirt when you’ve got options. Prince was the fucking man. Even a lot of RP gurus mention him from time to time. Prince and Mel B interview .
/r/askTRP30/04/21 04:35 PM
1

I’ve heard it can for some people but I personally love it. I can definitely notice a quicker recovery and more strength in the gym.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:41 PM
1

I’m currently on HCG and Clomid. It definitely has a positive effect on your mood and gives you more clarity. You’re probably not as emotional as before. Dealing with shit tests isn’t about not reacting, it’s about not reacting emotionally. Even if your girl is being flat out disrespectful, you react in a way that seems like you’re totally checked out. You should always have one foot out the door anyway.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:11 PM
6

It’s not a red flag at all. Women in their 20’s dating older men is the norm.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 04:43 AM
1

Daaaaaammmnnn!
/r/askTRP27/04/21 08:17 PM
1

Yep. I always confirm the night before and at some point before meeting them, we have to FaceTime. Time is money and I don’t have the patience to be catfished.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 07:41 PM
6

I’m going to have to post my Dating App photos so you guys have a reference for what they should look like. Chances are, your photos are the problem.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 07:37 PM
2

This is how I would’ve handled that shit test in the military. Them: “Do you even lift?“ Me: “Yeah I can lift your mom up and down.” Them: “All of 2 inches bitch?” Me: “all of 1 1/2.” Them: “Haha nice. Let’s go haze the new guys.”
/r/askTRP26/04/21 04:27 PM
1

It’s normal. You don’t know any of them and honestly good conversation’s a two way street. I’ve realized over the years it’s best to trust your intuition. If someone gives you a weird vibe it’s probably for a good reason. I’ve been around some straight laced people who I didn’t feel comfortable around and been around some outlaw bikers who I thought were some of the coolest people to be around. A vibe is a vibe. I remember one time I had a friend who invited me to a barbecue. I introduced myself…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 04:24 AM
1

People these days especially women, love to identify with their mental health problems. If some hack tells them that they have depression or bipolar disorder then they’ll take it as gospel. I remember when I first went into the military the only people that had PTSD were some of the guys that had seen a lot of combat. By the time I left, every dickhead even the ones with a fucking desk job were getting diagnosed with PTSD. Even the guys that hadn’t been deployed to a combat zone. The doctors and…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 04:14 AM
1

A female friend is a woman you have sex with and zero attachment. A woman you’re not having sex with is just an acquaintance.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 04:08 AM
2

Is this a troll post or something? Dump her ass. You really need us to tell you that?
/r/askTRP25/04/21 04:07 AM
1

I don’t see the big deal here. A lot of guys on this subreddit love to misconstrue disrespect for “shit testing” but in this case i think it’s neither, she was just making a stupid joke. Believe it or not, the worst thing she can say about you is that you’re “such a nice guy”. My last LTR would always brag to her friends about what she liked about me and then she’d finish with “..and he’s kind of a dick too.” I’d hear this from the other room and just have a smirk on my face.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 04:01 AM
1

You’re not her type.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 03:53 AM
4

You should talk to someone who specializes in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Just “getting out more” isn’t going to cut it, you need to talk to someone who’s going to outline a plan for you.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 01:50 AM
2

Bro..you need to be in therapy. I’m not joking.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 01:47 AM
1

Just move on to the next one. If she really wanted to meet with you, she’d make an effort.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 01:46 AM
3

I get this question a lot from friends since I’m a digital nomad and travel a lot. I see a pattern mainly with women coming from English speaking countries where they’re a lot more modern and harbor feminist beliefs. I’m not saying they’re all like this but generally speaking, women who travel alone get AROUND, especially college aged women on a study abroad program. I remember when I was visiting Tel Aviv there was a particular group of expat college girls that had a reputation throughout the c…
/r/askTRP24/04/21 04:56 PM
11

“I've put the screws on a lot of women and they just go "ok" and find another dude in the next 3 days and I never hear from them again. Unless you're a top 0.001 percent man.” That’s the problem right there, you just admitted that you’re not her best option. Also, If she’s asking you for a relationship and that quick to bail on you for setting boundaries, it’s probably because you’re entertaining that conversation too early on. Prior to four months of hooking up with her, the only thing she shou…
/r/askTRP24/04/21 04:05 AM
20

@KneedHelpQuicc Exactly. Being called controlling is just a cop out a lot of women will use to try and be able to have a relationship but behave like she’s single. Women who are worth your time will respect you for setting boundaries with them. As you can see from Arnoux’s comment, this worked out for him majorly. Every woman will have red flags but the most important thing is that she’s able to meet you in the middle and allow you to do what men do best, be a leader.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 09:23 PM
51

The best way is to lay it out after she comes to you for a commitment. You have to remember that women may control access to intimacy but men control access to the relationship. When she asks questions like “what are we?” Or “Where is this going?” You ask her if she’s asking because she wants to be in a relationship with you. When she says yes, that’s the time to lay it out for her. I give her a preemptive warning that what I’m about to say is something that she probably isn’t used to hearing. T…
/r/askTRP23/04/21 09:19 PM
2

Yes. She’s only a female friend if we’re having sex, otherwise she’s just an acquaintance.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 05:37 PM
1

I must be in a five-star restaurant with all this whining. What can you do about it? Nothing. That’s just the way it is and the way it’s always been. Be the best version of yourself and stop giving a shit what other people are afforded.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 05:35 PM
122

There’s really no full proof way but you absolutely need to know how to Vet the women that you date. Most guys are so concerned with making a good impression on the first date but the first date is really just a sniff test. You should be asking some questions that’s going to let you know what kind of woman she is. Things like issues with her family, issues with her father, hanging around a lot of guys, large visible tattoos, on SSRI’s etc. are all indicators that this woman may have an issue pai…
/r/askTRP23/04/21 04:45 PM
11

Do what makes you happy. Personally I think it’s a bad idea.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 01:40 AM
-12

“Absolutely! You don’t need my permission, you two have fun. I’ll have all of your stuff in a box on the side of my house and you can come pick it up after your trip.” You can’t control women, you can only control what’s on your end and that’s the commitment. If she wants to meet up with another man, she can do it as a single woman.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 01:30 AM
11

I swear there are so many guys on here that let women get away with shit like that because they want to “come off a certain way” in front of her. Fuck all that. If she’s going to out right tell you that she’s into another man, you find yourself another woman. It’s that simple. Never have a scarcity mindset.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:37 PM
18

Yep, get ready for that. Men are some of the biggest haters on the planet, far worse than women. Take it as a compliment though when that happens, it means you’re doing well. Also, don’t think you need to “soften” your aura of confidence to accommodate these pathetic assholes. Even some of your friends who have nothing going on will start to resent your success and even challenge you. They can either climb the mountain with you or get left behind, just the way it is. You’ll see a big difference …
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:31 PM
21

“You have aesthetically pleasing child bearing hips and large bosoms suitable for procreation.”
/r/seduction22/04/21 07:55 AM
21

From what I can tell, this usually happens when a man gets too comfortable in a relationship. It’s important to maintain a healthy relationship with a woman but it’s equally as important to have one foot out the door and keep her on her toes. Women acquiring men for an LTR is like a cat getting the string, they’ll sniff around it, get bored, and then walk away. You just have to not drop that string.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 12:25 AM
13

The guys I served in Iraq with, they know me better than anyone in my family and I know them that well too. Honestly, we’re all pretty busy and most of our focus goes toward our pursuits. We definitely keep in touch often though and We plan various trips throughout the year. Snowboarding in Brian head Utah, motorcycle ride outs to Alpine etc.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 12:20 AM
8

It’s definitely worth a shot. What do you have to lose at this point?
/r/askTRP21/04/21 06:17 AM
17

I can tell you right now having spent a lot of my life around those types of people. Gangsters, dealers, outlaw bikers etc. all have one thing in common, women aren’t a priority to them. Their loyalty is to their organizations, making money, and acquiring power. Women find themselves chasing after these guys and become addicted to the thrill of the chase and the fast paced lifestyle they provide.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 06:16 AM
3

Lol You do you bud. Letting an LTR (I’m seeing now that this is his GF and not a date) disrespect you and act out of pocket is what’s really going to make a man look like a bitch. Scarcity mindsets kill.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 05:52 AM
1

My advice is to call it a night and give your attention to a woman who won’t act out of pocket. I’m seeing now that this is actually his GF and not a date, which makes what she said even worse. Either way, yeah I’d recommend putting her in her place about it and ghost her for a few days. Personally, I would just dump her and go meet another woman. I don’t know what kind of relationships you’re finding yourself in but I’ve never had an LTR comment on another man being sexy right in front of me li…
/r/askTRP21/04/21 05:49 AM
1

Lol Who cares what she thinks, it’s just some chick. If you’re that worried about how you look to some woman you’re never going to see again, then make something up.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 05:26 AM
5

I was dating a single mom at the time. Our relationship was great, she was gorgeous, and her situation was perfect for me. The father had passed away years before we met, so that allowed us to have a relationship without any drama. However, like most single moms she was a terrible parent. She basically had a big sister/little sister relationship with her 10 year old daughter and couldn’t bring herself to set any boundaries whatsoever. Her daughter walked all over her, was disrespectful to adults…
/r/askTRP21/04/21 04:07 AM
1

Because it’s normal. Men will plant their seed where it may grow, women limit their crop to one farmer.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 03:22 AM
2

I won’t bring it up. If they do however ask if I’m going to talk to other women since were not in a relationship. My answer is this.. “I’m not your boyfriend, If I want to date other women then that’s what I’m going to do but I’ll be respectful to you about it and I’m never going to embarrass you or do anything that puts your health at risk.”
/r/askTRP21/04/21 03:19 AM
24

They like to use “Toxic” as a blanket statement to describe men that don’t fit the mainstream standard of being an emasculated little bitch.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 03:13 AM
1

You’ll definitely save yourself a big headache if you ghost her. The fact that you payed for a date and she had the audacity to say that speaks volumes on her character.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 12:37 AM
-1

Disrespectful. I would’ve called it a night and headed home but that’s just me. Women have to be held accountable for shit like that.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 12:01 AM
3

If you only have the option for one, I would definitely go with Muay Thai first and then transition into western Boxing later if you can. 👍🏼
/r/askTRP20/04/21 10:41 PM
6

I base it on how many competitive fighters they’re producing and how many have title belts. I’ve done both western boxing and Muay Thai and can tell you that you should do both. A good Muay Thai gym will also train you in western boxing.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 10:30 PM
3

Good luck. You’re going to need it.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 10:26 PM
2

He didn’t insult you at all, what he said was the truth. A bald head is the least of your problems. This isn’t a community where men blow smoke up each other’s asses when they’re feeling low. If you want to be the best version of yourself, you need to be able to take criticism. There’s plenty of groups on Reddit where you can get emotional support. This isn’t one of them.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 10:17 PM
5

Look at how you responded to his initial comment though, you got very defensive. Part of developing yourself as a man means that you have to be able to have thick skin and take harsh criticism. Based on your posting history you have A LOT of issues. I have no idea why your therapist suggested tinder but that is a huge mistake on his part. If you get this rattled by somebody’s comment on Reddit I can only imagine how you’ll take rejection on a dating app. Like I said, take yourself out of the dat…
/r/askTRP20/04/21 10:03 PM
4

I’ve read it. It’s definitely a good book but doesn’t really offer a whole lot more from what he already discusses on his YouTube channel. I bought the download just to show my support.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 09:52 PM
8

It may sound harsh but the TheDevilPutD is right. A bald head is only the tip of the iceberg for you. Personally I think you should go full Monk mode and take yourself out of the dating market for a while. Focus on developing yourself, getting rid of your insecurities, and becoming more RP aware.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 09:50 PM
13

Why put sour milk back in the fridge? You already set a precedent with this girl. Take yourself out of the dating market for a while and focus on learning more and developing yourself.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 09:47 PM
1

Yeah I wouldn’t be cool with that. A woman putting her hands on me is an automatic deal breaker. That’s a woman that’ll put you in a really bad situation. I don’t tolerate domestic violence from a woman, misunderstanding or not.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:27 PM
1

This whole thing just sounds really messy.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:24 PM
1

Sounds like you’ve got too much free time. I actually limit my days to Thursday night-Saturday night. I let them know I can’t meet up any other time because I’m busy those days and I actually am.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:22 PM
3

Just don’t build it up so much. It should be really casual. Just take out your phone and say.. “I’ve got to run but it was nice talking to you. We should meet up for drinks sometime. What’s your phone number”
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:19 PM
4

Whenever I meet a woman who was or is in a sorority, the first thing I say is “Oh so you had to pay for your friends?” Lol Sorority girls are hoe’s, I’m just going to say it. Super high body count college feminists who love to party. They might be good for a one nighter but that’s about it. If she’s ever done a study abroad program, you better believe her body count is or is almost in the triple digits.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:10 PM
2

It’s actually pretty easy. There’s a club literally for every interest you may have where you can meet people.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:07 PM
-1

If you’re under 40, HCG and Clomiphene is the ideal choice for HRT as it won’t shut down your test production.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:06 PM
29

It could be several things. I’m not sure how long it took you to get into an LTR with these women but you shouldn’t even be having that discussion with them until after at least 4 months. If you rush into it, you may find that you’re discovering new things about them that isn’t attractive. This leads you to have buyers remorse. One side effect of being really good at maintaining relationships is that your LTR will become clingy and dependent on you. That’s just one of the drawbacks. At some poin…
/r/askTRP20/04/21 04:51 PM
143

I wish I could answer your question thoroughly but I’m dating 12 super models at the moment and the fivesome I had last night has me exhausted.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:13 AM
1

If you’re an inside wireman then that’s normal. They tend to work really slow. That would be more of a problem if you went residential. Edit: I read that wrong, I thought it said electrician. Either way, commercial electrical tends to be slow paced.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 02:52 AM
1

We need photos. As far as the guys disrespecting you, the best thing to do is just laugh it off and walk away, as hard as it may be to do. You shouldn’t take any shit and be able to defend yourself but don’t be a lunatic ready to fly off the handle either. You can deck the guy if you want but understand the risk that you’re taking if you really do some damage to that guy. If his medical bills are high, best believe he’s pressing charges. I have friends that have done some serious time for that e…
/r/askTRP19/04/21 09:51 PM
2

Implying it and saying it are not the same. Saying you like her comes off as needy and desperate. The only time you say you like her is when you’re responding to her saying it first. So you never actually say “I like you”, you say “I like you too.”
/r/askTRP19/04/21 07:54 PM
5

Ah okay, my bad. I read that wrong.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 07:44 PM
6

Educate yourself and soak up more red pill content. Once you see women for their true nature, you won’t be so enamored with them.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 07:30 PM
1

Church is one of those places where you can get away with wearing a suit and it’s not considered over dressed, even if it’s non denominational. I would sport a three piece suit next time looking like Bruce Wayne and then approach her. I probably wouldn’t be as much of a jerk as I normally am. If she asks why you’re wearing a suit you just give her a look of confusion and say in a snarky tone “uhhh because this is the house of the lord?”
/r/askTRP19/04/21 07:25 PM
1

I just unsubscribe to a lot of those threads. Whenever I give advice outside of TRP I get downvoted hard. Some of these guys are just hopeless.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 07:21 PM
1

FaceTiming with them is a good way to avoid getting cat fished, wasting your time, and even breaking the ice. I just tell them straight up “I’d like to FaceTime with you before we meet up though.” Those exact words let her know that I won’t meet up with her unless we FaceTime.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 07:19 PM
1

With her you probably need to re-engage several more times. I would’ve said “Okay. How about a blowjob at least?” A lot of times they’ll do that and then that leads to sex. If not, sometimes it just takes some re-engaging and then they confess that their worried you’re going to leave them and you have to reassure them that you won’t. Then you have sex.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 07:14 PM
2

You’re their to get paid not to get laid. It’s not worth screwing up your resume over some chick. Government jobs are notorious for women filing SHARP complaints against men. If I were you I would just maintain a professional working relationship with them. Don’t hang out with them alone and only speak to them about work related matters. There’s a lot of guys that won’t even be alone in the same office room with a woman at work.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 07:09 PM
0

Lol Send her my way. I love women who are just as arrogant as I am.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 07:01 PM
1

From my experience of being in western European countries, they seem to be very feminist. You’re right that the land whales and average women don’t have much options, outside of being a mans one night slump buster. They just like to say that high-value men are the standard as a way to boost their egos. The attractive women in France you’re referring to are what I like to call “Celibate and looking over their shoulder”. They’ll claim that they’re single by choice followed by “...and will not sett…
/r/askTRP19/04/21 07:00 PM
55

Your friend and your plate are idiots. He should’ve worn protection and she should’ve been on birth control. If she has that kid, he’ll be stuck with a post wall 34 year old and she’ll be stuck with a 24 year old man child who can’t speak English and lives with his parents. There’s no use trying to fix stupid. I would just move on and let them deal with it.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 06:52 PM
2

It sounds like you’ve got way too much invested in her. Unless she communicated with you that she was caught in traffic or something, I’d give her 15-20 minutes tops before I leave.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 06:40 PM
8

You need to do what I like to call “dropping a grenade in the building and walking out “. Stop talking to her, ignore her, and maintain a professional working relationship with her from here on out. It’s really not her fault at all, you screwed up bad. Asking her out directly and telling her you like her are two completely different things. Dating a coworker is always a bad idea but if you are going to do it you need to keep it very casual in the beginning. You do that by asking her to grab a dr…
/r/askTRP19/04/21 05:36 PM
1

No problem. 👍🏼
/r/askTRP19/04/21 05:25 PM
4

You’re a savage and I dig it. 👍🏼
/r/askTRP19/04/21 05:13 PM
3

Sounds like Low T, I have the same problem. I cleaned up my diet, cut out anything containing soy, and got on a regimen of HCG and Clomiphene. I stuck with my same weight lifting routine and went from doing HIIT to moderate cardio. I’m in better shape now then I was in my 20’s. 💪🏼
/r/askTRP19/04/21 05:12 PM
34

Once she says no I’d move on and definitely wouldn’t take it personally. Rejection is just part of the game and over time it won’t bother you at all. I had an old coworker who was gay and told me about what his girl friends would vent about. He said something I’ll never forget. “Generally speaking, all men who approach women they don’t know are automatically creeps. You just need to make yourself the least creepy as possible.” The way I go about that is to have a reason to talk to them and keep …
/r/askTRP19/04/21 05:07 PM
2

Lol Most of these women can’t even take a slightly above average dick without keeping their hand on a mans pelvis, like a coward. Even pornstars have stated that they don’t really like guys that are huge. It sounds like these women are just bitter and trying to emasculate you.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:46 PM
1

Yep, Proximity.
/r/seduction19/04/21 05:21 AM
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