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You can't – not directly, at least. Trying to be dominant will come across as fake. Develop a confident personality.
/r/seduction02/11/17 05:56 AM
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Why would you? Has she left? Is she fucking other people? Have you stopped being your attractive self?
/r/seduction23/10/17 09:40 AM
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If you really don't want to be friends, stay the course. Keep ignoring her. Block her so she can't keep this up. But don't do it because it's a "freeze out" technique, or because you're "teaching her that her actions have consequences". That's immature, bush-league bullshit, and it's fundamentally based on and reinforces oneitis. Instead, do it because you genuinely don't want to have a friendship with her. People will talk about an unbalanced relationship, as though friendships are tit-for-tat.…
/r/seduction23/10/17 09:33 AM
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You're spending way too much time chatting and way too little going out and meeting up with these people. Stop playing it safe. You want to connect? Get out on a quick date and take things from there.
/r/seduction18/10/17 01:35 AM
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"Alpha" and "beta" don't exist. They're purely terms used by men to make each other feel insecure. That said, she rejected you, and that sucks, and you should move on.
/r/seduction15/09/17 04:33 AM
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You aren't necessarily being "beta", you're just not appealing to these particular women. You can totally be kind and nice and sexual. Maybe you're not bringing your full self to the table. Did you express a desire early on, or did you spring it on them once you'd been kind and nice for a while?
/r/seduction20/08/17 02:07 AM
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You are already deeply into territory where you're friendzoning yourself. I am shy/socially awkward If this is something you feel gets in the way of your life, go see a therapist about it. Work on it. It's slow and hard, but it's helpful. "well to be fair, you are definitely stockable" You might have gotten away with it this time, but that kind of response really lacks empathy. Of course, guys don't often know what it feels like to be stalked. From what I've heard from stalking victims, it's ter…
/r/seduction16/08/17 06:52 AM
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Fine, but the underlying problem is that you haven't expressed your interest. If you've been up front about your interest, there's nothing left to hide, so texting can be playful or coy or sexual or whatever. If you're getting numbers on a pretense and then hoping you can text them into your bed, you're going to have a bad time. Just be honest about your interest in your initial interaction.
/r/seduction10/08/17 10:34 PM
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Seriously, just go read the fucking book. how am I supposed to suppress feelings Why would you suppress them? Approach! Make it absolutely clear why you're there. You might get blown out, but creeps are creeps because they're pretending and suppressing their feelings. A genuine and honest expression of interest without an expectation/threat behind it is rare and appreciated.
/r/seduction10/08/17 06:45 PM
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pretending That's your problem. Being inauthentic is always a turnoff, and emotionally/socially sensitive people can detect it easily. enthusiasm and open pursuit are enormous turn offs No, miscalibrated or mistimed pursuits are turn offs. Read The Alabaster Girl.
/r/seduction10/08/17 10:24 AM
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I was on a cross country flight one night, and this cute girl sat next to me, which is what you always hope for. We got to talking, and she asked what I thought the difference between seduction and corruption was. My answer was that the seduced is along for the ride, whereas the corrupted gives in, and feels like she wants you but is giving something up – like sticking with values. Neither one involves someone getting tricked, of course. So I agree with you that you can't trick people, but there…
/r/seduction06/08/17 10:17 PM
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but as a result the areas I can frequent are limited to just work, gym, and the movie theater Uber goes wherever you want. Maybe those are the only places you're familiar with that are within biking distance, but I'd bet there are others. Ideal locations are anywhere you can meet women you're interested in, and there are almost certainly some within Uber distance. The question is whether you're willing to throw 20-30 bucks towards getting around that way. I'd focus on getting your life in order …
/r/seduction16/07/17 07:43 AM
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First of all, it happens. Even to hot guys who are really experienced. It's going to take a lot of failure and practice to get comfortable with things. Everyone goes through this when learning any skill. It's normal, and to be expected. The fact that you went out on a date is awesome. Big props for taking a first step. Now you've just got to keep on taking those steps. You describe yourself as an ugly guy. Maybe you are one, even! But there are some things you don't have control over: certain fe…
/r/seduction02/07/17 06:52 PM
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you become #1 to her Or not. Maybe she really does like this other guy. And that's fine. OP needs to work on inner game. He's blowing the fact that there's another guy who is more attractive to this one girl way out of proportion.
/r/seduction02/07/17 04:50 PM
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You probably would benefit from seeing a therapist. (And I'm guessing that's true even if you didn't care about seduction.) Inner game is a huge part of success in all social interactions, but especially romantic ones. Taking care of your mental health, developing a genuine love for yourself, and being able to go into interactions knowing that you have value to offer are huge. But that's not the sort of thing most people can develop on their own.
/r/seduction02/07/17 04:47 PM
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I mean, he didn't rape her. I guess that would be the worst example. But he wasn't wholly honest with her, he admitted, and he "addressed" her objections by badgering and being pushy. How are you supposed to know? By talking about it. I mean, you've got a girl back to your place and you've already chatted about some things you're into... what's the problem with getting a better understanding of what they actually want? Makes things more fun for the both of you. Everyone here would agree that goo…
/r/seduction02/07/17 04:40 PM
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This is the worst example of the "seduction" community. You admitted you became outcome-dependent, and you went through two Facetime sessions (one over an hour long!) two phone calls, and one emotional breakdown before even meeting up. Then, you luck into her being so needy that she reaches out the next morning, and you still have to do a massive amount of work to manage to get her back to your place. The first contact you have with her is when you "grab her hair giving it a good yank and go in …
/r/seduction02/07/17 06:10 AM
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It's entertainment. They have other videos that are a bit more instructional.
/r/seduction09/10/11 04:23 AM
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This is a joke, right? Edit: what's the name of that effect where you can't tell anymore when something on the internet is a bad joke or a terrifically stupid reflection of reality? Edit 2: I'm guessing with statements like "I'm not a rapist, but I am a rapist sympothizer, I believe that girls get to much power when It comes to rape accusations and what not" that JohnnyCarolina is a troll.
/r/seduction27/09/11 11:50 PM
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I apologize if you don't know the South Beach scale. I can tell you're apologetic. Nice ego, though, for a brand new account. Clearly works for you – good FR!
/r/seduction17/08/11 12:02 AM
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Seriously: what message do you send women when they get the question about the size of the sun and the earth wrong, and do they respond?
/r/seduction12/08/11 08:29 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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