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ADVICEThegoldenmean19876/r/RedPillWomen20/10/18 05:15 AM
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Thanks for all the ideas, ladies!
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/18 05:25 AM
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I don't fault you for caring a lot about money. Growing up in poverty will do that to a person. Only the poor know how truly expensive it is to be poor! I was poor throughout my childhood and teens. There were days when I wasn't sure where my next meal would come from. Times when I couldn't scrape together bus money and had to trudge the 6 miles to get home. Times of utter despair and desperation. You should be so proud of your achievements. There are plenty of men out there who can match or exc…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/18 04:20 AM
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Awesome. I loved your list. I love drinking coffee alone early in the morning, and flipping through a book. It's my form of meditation and I'm always more productive when I do it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/18 03:19 AM
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You're very welcome! Just work very hard now and try to achieve the highest grades you possibly can. It's achievable! Buy study guides and use them and keep detailed notes in all of your classes. When you graduate from high school you'll have a world of options. Careers like nursing and teaching (particularly elementary school) are great for women who also want time for a family life. My friend who is a nurse works something like 14 days on, 7 days off. Teachers, of course, get a lot of holidays…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/18 02:58 AM
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Great advice. Education begins in the home, with mom and/or dad. I just read a study which concluded that if there are less than 80 books in the home environment, the children suffer learning/developmental deficits.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/18 02:39 AM
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Remember that you are beautiful and worthy. Focus on schoolwork and studies. That should be your main priority from now until the end of your college years. It is better to have a few good, close friends than hundreds of friends and acquaintances. Never sleep with a guy on the first date. NEVER. NEVER DO IT. If a guy really wants to date you, he should be okay with taking things slowly. Explore your talents and hone them. Keep improving. Don't fritter your time away. Wear sunscreen. Stay away fr…
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/18 04:55 AM
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Yeah, it's something people don't really share. I had no idea that PP hair loss was a thing. Thanks for the reassurance!
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/18 04:41 AM
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Thank you! I'll try that silk pillowcase idea. And see a doc!
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/18 04:37 AM
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Thank you. Honestly, I was avoiding seeing a doc because the hair loss embarrasses me a lot. My hair is something I've always been pretty vain about.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/18 04:35 AM
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6 more months and he'll be back home, working near home again. Thank god. I just have to hold on til then! Haha
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/18 04:34 AM
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Thank you! The baby is doing very well! It's time I booked a doctor's appointment for myself. Thank you for your kind reply!
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/18 04:30 AM
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Thank you! I will see the doctor and get checked out. I've been pretty stressed out, with my husband away working in another state. I wonder if stress might be a major factor?
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/18 04:30 AM
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That's the best feeling! Soak it up :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/18 01:17 AM
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I haven't sat down to read a book in probably a year, since my baby was born. I miss it and I gotta get back into it. Feel like I'm losing IQ points! Lol
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/18 01:16 AM
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Pickles themselves are so delicious. It is such a lost art, not only in the West but all over the world. My family is from the Middle East and my grandma used to pickle everything! She is still around, amazingly, at 94 years old. I'll hit her up for some recipes LOL. Fermented foods are sooo healthy and good for us. Awesome post
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/18 10:50 PM
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I have dabbled in various religions (grew up in a Muslim family) and even spent time in college as an agnostic. Now that I'm older and have a child, I am realizing how important it is to be part of a Church community. I chose to become a Christian because my husband is and religion is important to him. Also, Christians have been the most welcoming to me. It has greatly enriched my life. We all need community and something greater to believe in.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/18 10:46 PM
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I have been guilty of this. So many of us women have a controlling or bossy streak. I know I do. I used to criticise my husband for little things, like pouring too much dishwashing liquid or buying the wrong brands at the grocery store. So many pointless arguments and ridiculous fights because I couldn't shut the hell up and leave it alone. Some of our husbands actually try to help us in the best way that they know how and then we complain about the help they are offering! Nagging is a terrible …
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/18 10:39 PM
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I appreciate this. Since I had my baby about a year ago, I haven't felt the same. I don't feel like myself. I have not really been taking care of myself or dressing properly. Often I'll go out in a ballcap covering knotty hair, hoodie, sweats or yoga pants, and runners without socks. I just don't have the energy some days to put in any effort at all. My husband has noticed, though he doesn't criticize me over it. On days when I remember to put on a little mascara, he gets visibly excited! Men ar…
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/18 03:18 AM
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He is a wonderful father. He adores his child. He would do anything for her and for me also!
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 07:17 AM
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Dealbreakers: Filthy home, bad hygiene. Lies and dishonesty. Talking negatively about his parents, family, even his exes. (However he treats his mother and father in particular is likely how he will treat me in 20-30 years if we become long-term) Terrible with money, spendthrift, constantly in debt and maxing out credit cards. Chain smoker or drug/alcohol abuser.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 07:14 AM
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My SO and I always had the intention of getting married but then life got in the way. We were so busy at school, then our careers accelerated, then I got pregnant... There simply was no time for wedding planning and all that exciting stuff. The only annoying thing is that after you have a baby together (may God bless you with a little one), other people will naturally assume that you are already husband and wife. "Is your husband coming to pick you and the baby up?" "Uh, you mean my boyfriend? P…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/18 03:44 AM
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1) Walk on the beach/take in the salt air 2) Drink coffee and read a book while my mom babysits my little one 3) Make and send a thoughtfully put together care package to my husband who is currently a million miles away on a business venture 4) Shave my legs (lol) 5) Dance with my daughter
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/18 03:10 AM
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African immigrants to the States generally have better financial and educational outcomes than Black Americans. You are really a minority within a minority. Africans bring a rich cultural heritage, as well, which could elicit a bit of jealousy from those who have been cut off from this heritage. It's possible you were bullied for this difference. High schoolers are petty and stupid, at any rate. I don't think you've internalized racism. Keep dating who you want and who you are most attracted to,…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/18 12:31 AM
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What she did was both unethical and illegal. She groomed that boy from the time he was 12 years old. But I agree with your other points.
/r/MGTOW05/09/18 07:40 PM
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My dad was a workaholic AND a shitty provider, which still makes no sense at all.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/18 06:33 AM
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Her tweets reveal she is a hateful person, bitter and angry. She will probably wait a couple decades and marry a White man, but treat him very poorly, ultimately "divorce rape" him and call it "reparations" or some idiotic thing. I know a lot of Asian women have a thing for White dudes. I suspect that maybe her hatred for White people is so strong cause she got burned by an ex-lover who was White. I can't understand how else a chick could be so skin color obsessed!
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/18 03:13 AM
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That's the Oedipal Mother figure that Freud talked about. She is more in love with her son than her own husband (or, at least, the father of her children). She doesn't maintain appropriate boundaries, depends on her son for her own validation! Think what you want about Freud and his theories, but I've seen enough boys and men damaged by single moms in this way.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/18 08:44 PM
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I think green eyes are universally adored and seen as sexy. They are pretty rare. Just 2% of the world have them. You're lucky.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 01:19 AM
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Everything you said is true. When I was in High School, the most popular guy in school (he went on later to become an actual runway model) befriended the most bullied, weakest kid in school, for no other reason than he wanted to and because he saw something great in him. That kid was protected from then on and he completely flourished. He started dressing better, his grades went up, he started getting invited to parties, his entire demeanour changed. It was the most amazing thing and I'll never …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 09:51 PM
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I asked my ex out. I asked my husband out. They were both shy guys. In my experience, there are men who enjoy being "chosen," and shy guys do all the more. I developed deep friendships with both guys first and let things build slowly. After many months had passed, I took a deep breath and took the plunge. "I really, really like you. Do you like me? Will you be my boyfriend?" "I think I'm in love you. I want to kiss you on your lips. Can I?" Make up your own, just make sure you are ready to make …
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 02:14 PM
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Just a couple years ago I would not have considered adoption. But I'm 29 now and I just had my first biological child. It was so difficult and I'm scared of what could happen if I do it again! Now that I'm a parent, I can't hear a news report now about neglected or abused kids without breaking down in tears. I've been thinking about adoption and I'll definitely bring it up with my husband. If only it weren't so difficult to adopt in Canada, I've heard the process takes years and tens of thousand…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/18 03:38 PM
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I hear you. I just had a baby 4 months ago. I lost the pregnancy weight rather quickly (yay breastfeeding!) but I'm flabbier and much less toned than I was before. My husband tells me I'm beautiful at least once a day and he gets noticeably irritated when I tell him I'm on a diet. I can't really follow an exercise regimen because I'm chained to my baby, who feeds every hour and a half. But I do what I can. There is always room for improvement and even little changes will be noticed and appreciat…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/18 03:06 PM
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