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Thelongwayhome26/r/askTRP12/04/18 07:03 PM
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This is great as long as you have the capacity to try things in a "friend" relationship. The friend zone is only bad if it completely paralyses you. The good thing is that if you are really friends with her, then there are chances of actual connection happening and that might give you the confidence to do something when you have the courage.
/r/seduction16/07/20 04:06 PM
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Which one ? The initial one or the insecurity of being insecure ? The initial one probably comes from lack of positive experiences in the past and it takes time to change. It's automatic. What will change it is slowly having positive experiences. The insecurity of the insecurity is pretty normal. You don't like to look insecure in front of a girl because you assume it's not something too attractive. What I was saying is that it's harder to defuse the initial one which happens automatically. But …
/r/seduction15/07/20 05:51 PM
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I would think you need to find a way to be comfortable with your insecurity. That is kind of accept it, even if it kind of sucks that it happens. If you find a way to accept it, I think it will slowly have less of an impact. You can even sometimes tell a girl "Yeah I'm a bit nervous !" ... But basically interacting despite the insecurity and working on accepting you have it will in time dissolve it, slowly. Best of luck !
/r/seduction14/07/20 08:44 PM
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I think this is by far much better advice then the whole of the OP post.
/r/seduction25/03/20 04:36 PM
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A lot on here is the side of learning game that I don't like nor think is actually helpful for a guy. Although there are some valid points (e.g. guys who aren't ''good with girls'' have unrealistic expectations of them or that they are too ''needy'', etc.) - a lot of these can just make someone who is unconfident even more self critical of himself. Basically a lot of the points on here are completely natural and normal behaviors that all guys have. Including guys who are "good with girls". They …
/r/seduction25/03/20 04:31 PM
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tldr : BEAST mode activated !!
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 07:01 PM
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Lol. These are some good tips.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 02:48 AM
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Thanks, appreciate you taking the time to write this. This makes a lot of sense. I think it's normal that inner change will meet a certain resistance in the outside world, since this world is calibrated to the ''you'' that you are trying to improve, the you before the ''inner change''. In a way, if we have toxic relationships, they will keep us in a that pattern. And alas many people who have issues will find themselves in negative relationships. I've done so many searches online to find people …
/r/askTRP12/04/18 11:50 PM
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Best way to do that is work out and dress well Yeah, I'm working on those. I don't look bad I think. It's my inner game that's fucked though. Thanks.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 09:17 PM
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lol
/r/askTRP12/04/18 09:01 PM
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I've made a solid habit out of meditation and I think it's a great tool. What do you mean by microdosing ?
/r/askTRP12/04/18 08:56 PM
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That's the problem I'm not that young anymore. I'm in my late 20's. These patterns started in my teens but unfortunately they are still with me. Although I am more conscious of them now - they still affect me.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 07:09 PM
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This is great advice.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 04:05 AM
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I am not particularly chatty when I am asking out. I do a couple of jokes, engage in a short conversation about something, and then suggest a couple of places I know. You're problem may be here. You need to establish good connection before asking out and actually expecting the person to take it seriously (i.e. not flaking). If you connect well and ask out afterwards - the odds will increase.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 05:10 AM
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Some women are like this. But not all.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 11:28 PM
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