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That video is so right on. Never saw it before. Love it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/19 12:13 PM
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Agreed. Often waiting too long implies a woman is using sex as a weapon for power or validation. Sex too quickly implies she’s easy. I’d give it one more date.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 03:10 AM
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Holding grudges won't do anything for you. Just live your life by your rules and enjoy yourself. Being concerned with others, especially women, is a waste of time. They're never happy anyway.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 02:54 PM
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That works to a guys advantage in this case.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 11:00 PM
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Great point. Since we know the court favors women, good idea to have a woman on your side.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 10:59 PM
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Why a female divorce lawyer?
/r/askTRP23/07/16 04:45 PM
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Why not, adoption agencies wouldn't consider it? I don't really even know how adoption works - gotta google this stuff.
/r/MGTOW16/07/16 02:17 AM
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This is very cool. I've always dreamed of doing this. I'm currently looking into the "liveaboard" option right now. My goal is really to buy a boat that needs some TLC, fix it up and live on it for a couple years. Nice work! Living the dream! :)
/r/MGTOW04/04/16 01:11 AM
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"Ok Captain, all the women and children are in the life rafts. Let's have a beer while we figure some shit out!"
/r/MGTOW20/11/15 11:32 PM
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You're young...I think when I was 18 I looked at porn 1-3 times a day. At that age, a guys body is at full production capacity. If Nofap isn't working for you, try other methods. I've always had the mentality of "get it out of your system then get on with life". If I'm struggling to focus or distracted by porn, I will power through it, eat a sandwich after, then get on with my life. Sitting around and dwelling on it is what wastes time. I see jerking off sort of like taking a shit - it's just so…
/r/askTRP26/09/15 01:25 AM
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Assume everything is innocent flirtation until she is literally naked and getting on top of you. Many woman are naturally flirty and are jonesing for validation that they're desirable from new guys...and will provoke a pass from someone (even if they don't plan on following through). I've seen it numerous times. Don't make the mistake. If you really want to push their/her buttons, turn the tables of flirting back with no intentions of following through. Women can't stand not knowing if people's …
/r/askTRP24/09/15 07:44 AM
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I've lived in numerous cities, dated a large number of women and can say that any woman 8+ is not worth the headache. Sure 9's and 10's look like a piece of heaven, but by the 6th date you'll have seen enough. For me it was mostly mind games...they could never just relax and live life...they were always pushing buttons, playing mind-fuck games or creating unnecessary dilemmas. One girl I dated started bawling because she was afraid someone wouldn't like her at a comedy-show we were attending. Ye…
/r/askTRP24/09/15 07:29 AM
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rolling up my sleeves
/r/askTRP04/09/15 03:30 AM
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collect dried out camel assholes I was concerned for a second this was a thing. I googled it. It is not.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 02:05 AM
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nagged via proxy This is hilarious and very true. I had a friend that got married (I was a groomsmen) about 5 years ago and his fiance/wife was very controlling. She tried to do that shit to me. When she saw I wouldn't play ball, HE started talking to me less. It was obvious she told him that she didn't want him talking to me as much. Phone calls were shorter and less frequent until the friendship basically died 6 months later. I wonder if he is happy in the marriage to this day.
/r/MGTOW14/08/15 11:22 PM
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Nice, also a good idea. Thanks
/r/MGTOW14/08/15 06:02 AM
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All good points. It's funny, because when I was growing up my family knew a lot of older single guys. It was a small community. I always thought those guys were unhappy because they didn't have a wife. The were social, had money and plenty of time to do work in the community, but the didn't have a hot wife on their shoulder. Little did I know that those guys had figured out the secret to long-term happiness but were keeping their mouth shut. Also, the guys that had wives always seem to have heal…
/r/MGTOW14/08/15 01:47 AM
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See, that shit pisses me off. It's one thing to see a friend less because he's busy. It's another thing to lose a friend altogether because he's weak and decided to succumbed to the will of a blood sucking wife. Not only is she a controlling bitch, but he is an absolute mangina/pussy.
/r/MGTOW14/08/15 01:41 AM
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Yea, I've seen about 10 different wedding invitations come through the mail. Each one has fancy designs that look like the cost a boatload of money. I'm always thinking to myself...no matter how much you spend on making it fancy, it's not going to guarantee a successful marriage. I've actually read articles that prove the opposite. More money = less likely to stay together. I'm more impressed by less expensive looking invitations. *EDIT: * Although now that I think of it. Maybe these women read …
/r/MGTOW13/08/15 10:54 PM
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Do you have a link?
/r/MGTOW13/08/15 10:02 PM
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Something changes when women hit 30. She pops out a few grey hairs, the college jeans don't fit anymore, she realized she passed up her best career opportunities, she gets winded going up stairs, her friends have left town, her calendar is mostly empty and her phone doesn't fill with texts like it use to. Naturally all this get's projected onto they guy she's seeing at the time. I've dated 2 girls while they were turning 30 and they really don't like it. The questions always start flowing "will …
/r/MGTOW13/08/15 10:01 PM
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Wedding fever runs through all the women and the guys starts buying rings. Which is the case for my situation right now. The girl I'm dating has 2 best friends getting married and 2-3 more in the works. She's been talking to me more and more about long-term relationship stuff. It's a virus 100%. It's like women are children and see other women getting married and they say "I want that, too!" I've made 2 things clear: I don't want kids and I will not get married. By this point most of those guys …
/r/MGTOW13/08/15 09:50 PM
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Holy crap, awesome! Nice work! After this entire post I can sum it up by saying that I want to be you when I'm 65. Did you ever get married and divorced? How has your life gone with regards to companionship? Any other advice? I'm ecstatic that you're 65 and living the dream. That's totally what I want. It's inspiring and helps me see past this garbage with my insecure friends.
/r/MGTOW13/08/15 09:38 PM
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Interesting. I can totally understand this from the relationships I've had. The girls I have dated have always loved when I'm in charge and they don't need to make any decisions, but oddly they always want more from the relationship...like if they can't lock it in then they're unhappy and would prefer to search elsewhere, EVEN IF I give them them the general satisfaction they desire. It's very much "If I can't have everything then I don't want anything" mindset. Very bratty. My answer to that is…
/r/MGTOW13/08/15 09:32 PM
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Sounds awful.
/r/MGTOW13/08/15 08:48 PM
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I seek out older friends for just that. That's actually a good idea. I'm going to consider this.
/r/MGTOW13/08/15 08:45 PM
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The divorce rate is about 50% among people I know that got married. And 50% of the ones that stay together have tense households. And the remaining 40% are probably just really good liars/sociopaths. That said, I would argue that only 10% of married people are truly happy. And that's probably too high.
/r/MGTOW13/08/15 08:44 PM
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This is a good point. Think of how much energy has been spent on men trying to please women, only to have those same women rob their resources, drive them insane, bitch about everything and STILL get their way. It's disgusting. A new chapter is coming in humanity, looking forward to it.
/r/MGTOW12/08/15 09:47 AM
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Nice, now go get rich. Most guys lose their resources/wealth because they're too busy worshipping pretty women. You have had the advantage of getting past that.
/r/MGTOW12/08/15 09:44 AM
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Yea, but really at all stages you need to be careful.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 08:43 AM
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Man things have changed. When I was in school, only 8ish years ago this was never an issue. I'd be scared shitless now. I feel like women would really need to earn my trust first, plus I would establish a solid reputation as a great guy on campus. I would legitimately go to the dean and ask "I'm concerned about this. How can I date and ensure I'm not accused of rape?" It's pretty fucking unfair to say "there is no way to ensure". Really? In cars we have seatbelts. In planes we have oxygen masks,…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 08:29 AM
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Same for guys and girls. More sex = better sex, although I think the curve plateaus around 10ish people.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 09:26 AM
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I don't need to get married. Did I say anyone was forcing me to? It seems everyone has forgotten what the point of this article was, which was to look at marriage alternatives so I could look at my options. Instead I get a cluster-fuck of messages questioning why I want any sort of marriage alternative to begin with, perhaps because everyone here is so jaded against women altogether. To be fair, I did get some awesome answers which were appreciated. It's funny, I posted in /r/Marriage and got a …
/r/MGTOW25/07/15 02:29 PM
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I appreciate the input. Good stuff. I have a lot more to think about with everyone's answers.
/r/MGTOW24/07/15 01:54 AM
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That dropcam story blows my mind. Thanks for sharing it. Definitely an eye opener. Some people are pieces of garbage and will stop at nothing to get what they want - and to make it worse, the legal system supports it!
/r/MGTOW24/07/15 01:43 AM
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I'm realizing more and more that everything in life is war on some level. We're told to coexist, but they keep changing the rules making it harder and harder to do so.
/r/MGTOW24/07/15 01:18 AM
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Go talk to a real lawyer This is awesome advice. I'm going to do this. Your entire comment was really the all-encompassing answer I was looking for. It sounds like there really is no way to have a woman in your life and be protected against legal action against you. It's shitty. We live in 2015 with satellites, micro-surgery, global networks and nano technology, but we can't seem to create a marriage that actually protects BOTH parties equally. It's definitely a "wtf" sort of thing... Thanks for…
/r/MGTOW24/07/15 12:49 AM
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at least familiarise yourself with the reality of that first. Totally agree, that is what I'm doing. I'm trying to determine if there's a way to armor up beforehand to ensure I'm protected if something goes wrong. If there is nothing I can do, I just won't do anything. It's the legal systems fault. By screwing men, they're essentially screwing everyone involved. It's a no-win for anyone if men don't play-ball (except men themselves of course).
/r/MGTOW24/07/15 12:17 AM
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Why not just enjoy what you have while you have it and let it pass when it passes? This could mean get married or not get married. So, your suggestion is a traditional marriage with a prenup? I've heard a lot of legal issues involving courts not upholding parts of prenups, particularly alimony, which is the biggest one I could face. If I separate with someone - I don't want there to be a back entrance to my wallet. I'll say what I think is fair and negotiate, not a judge with a wooden mallet and…
/r/MGTOW24/07/15 12:12 AM
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3.5 years together. Started living together at year 1. Both about 30 years old.
/r/MGTOW23/07/15 11:59 PM
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Yea, I'm with you. I have considered the economics involved. I think it's more the emotional support I'm looking at as you mentioned. That's the tricky one. I'll need to think about it more. There are things that bother me about the relationship, so I won't get married until those are resolved. I'm just thinking ahead and analyzing potential options.
/r/MGTOW23/07/15 11:51 PM
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Well, I'd say we've been through some pretty tough shit. Like being broke in another state without a car living 5 miles from the nearest town. We had to get by on shitty food in a shitty apartment with shitty prospects of escaping, but we got through it. But it's all relative. It's not exactly like our marriage survived WW2 with us fighting opposing sides while avoiding starvation by eating eachothers limbs.
/r/MGTOW23/07/15 11:37 PM
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'you look like a good prospect for my life business plan' This made me laugh, but I totally agree. It is that and I need to think more like that. I'm not a very trusting person, I question everything, but I do trust her. But I think you're right in that I need to look at more like a business deal. Regardless of feelings, what am I really getting out of it that can't be accomplished being not-married? Right on. Thanks
/r/MGTOW23/07/15 11:27 PM
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I'm getting a whole bunch of mixed messages in what you're saying. There's no way in hell I'm doing a traditional marriage. I'm way too much of a loose cannon for that. A "tradcon" marriage is like someone holding a gun to your head, literally. People go to jail for marriage/divorce related shit all the time. No thanks, ever.
/r/MGTOW23/07/15 11:21 PM
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Yea, I understand. There is hesitation on my part to get married purely for the fact of opening up a potential gateway to legal disaster. Don't get me wrong, I trust her - it's "the system" that I do not trust. Quite frankly, I think the system is fucked if it automatically supports her view, but not mine, because we both agreed on something. This is why I'm being totally careful/paranoid about the details. What I'm really looking for are potential options for us to look at to "kind of get marri…
/r/MGTOW23/07/15 11:05 PM
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We do not. She often talks about how she can't stand children. I very much agree. Note, I just updated the OP with that info.
/r/MGTOW23/07/15 10:54 PM
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living long enough with a woman in some places will make you common law married which she can still against you. I've heard this largely is a myth, at least in the US, because it requires that the couple act as if they are married: more here. I could easily see how that could be blurred though, and the state declaring it a marriage. I did read something on reddit about it being true in Canada though: link here. if you plan on having kids... We've already decided not to have children. Thanks for …
/r/MGTOW23/07/15 10:49 PM
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Ohh, that's for clarifying. I didn't realize he still supported the occasional fap, just without porn. That's cool. I can see the advantages of that.
/r/askTRP19/07/15 02:29 PM
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I totally disagree with this. I read it. The guy clearly has issues because he was not educated properly about sex and takes all his understanding about sex from porn. Of course that would be unhealthy. He writes: We believe, subconsciously, that a woman who really wants to sleep with us will approach us and behave in the manner we’ve seen in porn. Sure, some people might subconsciously think that. But it's incorrect to think that, and people need to change how they think, not accept how they th…
/r/askTRP17/07/15 10:01 PM
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Why do you think porn is not ok? Because your father said so? I believe, like with anything, moderation is key. You're young, have desires and are getting comfortable with yourself. I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with porn, but the issues can come with how you use it and how it affects you. If it's causing problems in your social life, preventing you from making progress in your career, or causing anxiety, then you need to figure out why and adjust your behavior accordingly. My …
/r/askTRP17/07/15 08:03 AM
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How stupid is too stupid? How skinny is too skinny? How unhealthy is too unhealthy? Here's a good point of reference: If you would be embarrassed for your friends to see you with her, that's probably too much. It's different for everyone. I personally don't mind extra curves, but they must be attractive, smart and not obese. Gross.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 12:51 AM
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Hang in there - there are so many cool people out there. I know what you mean. I got stuck in a small town once (without a car) and I'll never do THAT again. Before I moved there I had a bunch of cash saved up and was told the place was awesome by ONE female friend. Come to find out, it was actually expensive, no public transit and significantly smaller than I expected. It was one of those situations that was only cool if Daddy paid all the bills and money was always abundant. It felt like my wo…
/r/askTRP14/07/15 12:40 AM
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