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10

Yeah....good news is, the feelings will pass. The bad news is they are gonna hurt like a bitch until they do.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/25 07:25 PM
7

Same in my state. That's why I'm wondering if I should get in touch
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 08:39 PM
1

Congrats on starting school man. Good luck dude! Also small victories count a lot! Good on you bud
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/25 04:11 PM
2

If you have the inclination, one book that helped me out was called the subtle art of not giving a F. Shit gets rough but you still deserve to be happy
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/25 01:46 AM
1

I feel you on that. It would take a miracle to ever love someone like that again
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/25 01:38 AM
1

Would you ever do it again?
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/25 01:30 AM
1

Good lord I'm sorry bud. I have daughters myself and that's a nightmare.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 06:45 PM
3

Yeah I read that it takes up to 9 years for our brains to unlearn loving someone. I hope that's not true. Stay strong dude. Live the life you deserve not the one that's convenient.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 01:38 PM
3

That hits home. Mine cheated prior and understanding she checked out way before me puts things into perspective
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 06:04 AM
5

I think about that too sometimes but I realize I dont miss being with the person I just miss not being alone
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 05:34 AM
3

Yeah that's the worst part sometimes. I miss that human connection as well
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 12:08 AM
4

Crazy how fast the kids side with mom. No matter how good of a dad you've been
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/25 08:18 PM
4

Move away from her, hard to say this but if you don't. You will end up dead or in jail. Abuse can cause a man to do some irrational things. Physically get away from her ASAP
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/25 10:17 AM
5

I should try this
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 06:43 PM
3

Nice dude what you driving?
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/25 11:51 PM
1

Thanks mate
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/25 08:20 PM
2

Damn that's brutal
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 03:00 PM
2

Was she angry at the split?
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/25 01:38 AM
4

Live and you learn. That you do sir
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/25 01:08 AM
3

No bullshit, sometimes you just gotta eat shit
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/25 10:23 PM
4

Loneliness in American men is an epidemic
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/25 04:19 AM
2

That's good advice bro. I guess I just gotta eat it right now. My older children stopped talking to me and she recently told me she was pregnant. I feel like life is over for me but every end has a new beginning.
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/25 04:14 AM
5

It also feels like I'm being a little bitch about it. She is happy and thriving and I'm stuck. It feels like embarrassment and defeat.
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/25 03:47 AM
5

Right on. Like I know better days exist and I swear sometimes I feel happy but it's like the weekends are so tough because I used to spend those with my family and now I browse reddit and take anti depressants. I know things will get better just having a low day(s)
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/25 03:45 AM
3

Exactly bro. It gives some sense of freedom with a whole lot of hurt
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/25 03:34 AM
7

There you go with that upbeat shit lol. Just kidding man thank you
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/25 03:29 AM
3

What I mean is in the movies it ends with an upbeat song and shit, not your whole family abandoning you
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/25 03:26 AM
2

It sucks but healing legit takes time dude. You don't miss her, you just miss who you thought she was. The same issues she had with you, she will have with the next dude
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/25 10:41 PM
5

As someone who faced almost the exact same situation. You can't make people love you bro. No matter how hard you work she won't love you the way you need her to
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/25 02:07 PM
4

Damn dude, the more im on this subreddit the more I'm convinced I'll never get married again
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/25 08:20 PM
2

Not even that far yet, we separated 6 months ago and i just filed. That's why it's such a shock
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/25 12:26 PM
6

No bullshit dude she did that once and I forgave her like a dumbass
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/25 07:53 AM
4

I truly don't get why people get married without intending to love the other person
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/25 01:20 AM
5

Well put
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/25 12:31 AM
14

I had the same issue, honestly, you're going to be the villain either way. Just accept the role and do what makes you happy. It's tough to be somewhere you don't want to be, maybe time to restart a hobby?
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/25 09:54 PM
2

I guess I can't really let whether she loves me or not dictate every action
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/25 02:17 PM
3

Good advice man, it's week 3 of my divorce and I'll really use some of this
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/25 04:54 AM
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