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Who is saying that you should cheat? The point is dread and abundance. You should never feel that you cannot get another woman if the current one fucks you over or leaves, and she should not get too comfortable thinking you have no other options. That's all.
/r/askMRP18/12/25 07:52 PM
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I then explained that ... it is solely her responsibility to take care of my physical sexual needs and to eliminate temptation. LMFAO
/r/askMRP18/12/25 07:51 PM
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preach
/r/TheRedPill24/07/25 08:48 PM
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these blackpill idiots don't live in the real world.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/25 08:48 PM
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these blackpills idiots don't live in the real world. they spend all day hyping each other up on online forums and exacerbating their depression. i've seen so many ugly/short/bald dudes fuck cute girls. game, attitude, social skills, etc. still matter.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/25 08:47 PM
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moving to any developing country makes dating easier lmao
/r/TheRedPill24/07/25 08:45 PM
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you should stop responding to every meaningless text she sends. it makes you seem too available, like you have nothing to do
/r/askMRP06/03/24 05:45 PM
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Basic shit go read the sidebar handling shit tests maintaining frame withdrawing attention
/r/TheRedPill26/02/24 11:53 PM
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brown guys: don't lift don't make their own life decisions / let parents dictate everything seek out gfs who are basically second mothers fail to develop any personality or interests beyond professional success and making money
/r/TheRedPill28/06/23 04:05 PM
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yeah maybe. you have to be top 5% probably top 3% of creators to make that kind of coin on OF
/r/TheRedPill06/06/23 02:03 PM
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oh 100%. they always claim to be travel nurses or some shit like that but you know what's really going on
/r/TheRedPill06/06/23 02:02 PM
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house always wins i saw a post by a girl who retired at 28 after making ~$2mm off OF. she was smart about it - never showed her face, naked yoga only so never had to take random dick up the ass. marketed the hell out of it.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/23 12:05 AM
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I'd still like to know who tf is paying so much for bullshit on OF
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 09:54 PM
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Seems a bit insane to equate 'submission' to 'putting your children in contact with a sex offender'
/r/RedPillWives01/01/23 04:17 PM
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good fit >>>>> price
/r/askMRP19/08/22 09:33 PM
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encrust your dick with diamonds and whip it out in public
/r/askMRP19/08/22 09:33 PM
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If you pursue money with the sole intention of 'getting' girls you're gonna attract a lot of gold diggers who will just use you for your money. If you're OK with that go for it. Or just rent hookers. Personally I prefer to get money as a side effect of being really great at my profession and being motivated and ambitious in life in general + killing it in the gym. That attracts higher quality girls imo. At the end of the day, male attractiveness is a combination of all factors - height, looks, m…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/22 11:28 PM
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assuming you're decent looking and in decent shape with some social skills, just start going out. day game is the easiest way to get started - just go out and approach women. ask em for the time or a clothing store recommendation if you're too shy to hit on them directly
/r/seduction11/07/22 08:06 PM
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There is no way to guarantee a woman won't cheat on you. Doesn't matter how high status, rich, chad, etc. you are. even scottie pippen got cheated on.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 04:47 PM
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doing day game sounds like a lot of work/time which I don’t have. just go to a crowded park downtown or mall and open 3 sets per day. that's it. and go out for 30-60 mins on the weekend open 3 more sets per day. in a week that's 21 sets. in a few weeks you'll hit 100. you don't need to spend a tonne of time on this shit
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 09:55 PM
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It does shock you the first time I agree. But after that you just come to accept it and keep rolling. I personally don't think all girls do this shit, but certainly some will do it without blinking
/r/TheRedPill31/05/22 08:44 PM
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awww so triggered have fun with your waifu sex doll
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 09:25 PM
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he actually pulled while you're sitting here jerking off to hentai. so who's winning?
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 08:16 PM
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we tend to overrate what we find difficult to get. pull enough white girls and the mystique goes away personally i dgaf about race... if she gets my dick hard, that's good enough for me
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 08:16 PM
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So rare to see people taking action these days. Good job bro you are getting consistent as hell with the pulls and hotter girls too This should silence all the short / non white dudes complaining about how they can't get tail. Vegas is obviously one of the best spots for gaming but still any decent city is fine too
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 08:14 PM
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you need to get off the internet and put your dick in a pussy bro
/r/TheRedPill25/04/22 04:29 AM
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how many girls have you fucked
/r/TheRedPill19/04/22 05:52 PM
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2 a days are the best option frankly. 3-4 days lifting, 2-3 days JJ
/r/askMRP08/04/22 04:46 PM
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I'm sure most people here know this already, but still I think this is a good post. I struggle with this myself as a technical expert in my field. Alcohol helps lol. My personal 'code switching' preference is to go from factual and strategic, to teasing/playful. Focus on amused mastery and breaking rapport. It's like Julien said before he went off the rails: "Game is freedom"
/r/TheRedPill04/04/22 01:20 AM
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Finally a take that isn't bullshit. well done
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 07:12 PM
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He didn’t find the joke offensive until she complained. this right here tells it all
/r/askMRP29/03/22 02:34 PM
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but this is also mens fault for enabling that shit. yep who do you think's paying for it
/r/TheRedPill28/03/22 04:53 PM
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Human nature hasn't changed too much in the last 20000 years. Women have always been hypergamous. What has changed is the environment in which we operate and the ease of access to contraception and no strings attached sex (not to mention a legal system which burdens beta males with raising kids that aren't theirs and allows women to divorce for no reason and take half your shit). But fundamentally yeah we're the same primitive apes we've always been.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/22 11:32 PM
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Of course women know this which is why they never tell you their true body count and try to shame anyone who suggests that cc is a bad thing
/r/TheRedPill09/02/22 11:21 PM
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Solid post - great to have the endorsed guys putting out gems like this.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/22 10:49 PM
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some guys look pretty damn good bald (clean shaven)
/r/TheRedPill02/02/22 10:46 PM
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great advice all of it. listening to bill burr always puts me in a better state. been too antisocial last 1-2 years thanks to covid
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 10:45 PM
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thanks totally makes sense in terms of specific actions i've found it best to start talking to people like bartenders, bouncers, etc. to get out of my own head and into the flow of social interactions. from there start talking to people around you and eventually to girls. i saw one exercise on rsd that later got deleted which said that you should vocalize any thoughts happening in your head. when you see a sign for example, say out loud "that is a sign" . supposedly helps to get you out of your …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 07:28 PM
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Getting into state has been my biggest challenge - can you tell me more about how you do this? Especially when you've been working all week and in a 'logical' frame of mind.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 05:54 PM
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yeah it ultimately doesn't matter. of course women TEND to prefer taller guys. at the end of the day, the short guy needs to put in the work and make shit happen. all the bitching isn't going to help him get his dick wet
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 12:31 AM
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there is some truth to this. most girls want to feel like you're at least CONSIDERING being monogamous with them (unless she just wants to hook up). they want that carrot dangled in front. if you tell them no up front the anti slut defenses go up and you may not get any pussy at all.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 12:30 AM
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if you walk up to a girl and say 'hey wanna fuck' then yea she will be. all depends how you approach
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 07:41 PM
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build up your social circle first - get into sports, make friends with guys, use the social circle to intro you to girls. you have to do it this way in small towns. you want your rep to spread so that girls will hear about you
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 07:39 PM
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'How serious is it?' i agree with the playful tone but find this question weird - better to make and joke / brush it off and keep going with the interaction as if she were single
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 07:38 PM
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i agree with the mindset, but the reality is that most guys have to make the first move and get the girl HOOKED before she will start chasing you and investing in you. so instead i prefer to view approaching as screening - this girl looks cute, but is she really all that? let me find out
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 07:36 PM
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great comment sometimes a girl just isn't in the frame of mind where she's ready for a potentially romantic interaction. cold approaching can be a sudden shock for a woman just walking around outside. so even if you do everything right, you can still get rejected. nothing wrong with this, just the way it works
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 07:34 PM
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There's a big difference between fantasy and reality, between finding somone remote beautiful but still being attracted to the person you're with. The way I look at it - there will always be someone more attractive, but your partner still chooses you. THAT'S what matters
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/22 06:28 PM
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Just to be clear: he knows all about your past and is totally fine with it?
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/22 07:32 PM
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The hardest expectations to escape from (particularly for us South/East Asians) are those of our parents
/r/TheRedPill03/01/22 10:01 PM
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Filling out your shirt makes a huge difference to perception. Lift obviously, but also wear fitted clothes that actually make you look like you lift
/r/TheRedPill16/12/21 10:45 PM
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yeah i probably could be more efficient... spending a lot of time in meetings which are not a good use of time. my company has a shitty cultural tendency to value face time even if not productive
/r/TheRedPill15/12/21 06:52 PM
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Hey Uncle Vasya - you have a senior corporate role right? I've been finding it difficult to find the time to game especially during some weeks when I'm working 50-60+ hours. ANy tips? Some of my best times have been when I didn't have much money but plenty of time to go out and game any time during the day. Trying to find a balance while still making solid $$$
/r/TheRedPill15/12/21 06:32 PM
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Being able to approach = freedom Just knowing that if all your plates left you today, you could have another 3 lined up in a week. That's a form of abundance and self reliance
/r/TheRedPill13/12/21 07:33 AM
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Well your understanding is wrong. AFBB is a description of what happens in the world - dualistic female mating strategy What YOU should do is build yourself into the best version of yourself. Forget about AFBB. No one is entirely alpha or beta. If YOU want to get married and have kids, you can do that. Just go into that knowing the risks with your eyes wide open. having a mix of alpha + beta traits is ideal for LTRs. TRP is about giving you the tools to use to achieve your goals. Not about presc…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 05:51 AM
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i was thinking more if the man was hostile to the idea of a higher earning woman asking for a pre nup
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:21 PM
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Is this true even in situations where the woman earns more?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:18 PM
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yes it's a very fine line to walk but CAN work when executed well. have done so myself on numerous occasions
/r/TheRedPill08/12/21 08:27 PM
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So resources are one dimension of attractiveness for a man. Big newsflash
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:35 PM
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Yes - that most critics of TRP haven't spent enough time actually reading and understanding TRP concepts and usually create strawmen to attack
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:35 AM
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big difference between "aren't clearly interested" and "interested but still not 100% sure"
/r/TheRedPill06/12/21 06:43 PM
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Unless you're a top 5% guy you're going to have to turn at least a few girls from lukewarm to hot on the basis of your game/skills. Just the nature of the game. I mean would you rather persist a bit to fuck a 9, or fuck a 6 who is immediately enthusiastic? And would it make a difference for you if you're likely to see her again? Like if you're fairly sure you'll bump into each other again, would you still advise persistence? 100% YES. Female moods are extremely fickle. A girl can be turned on on…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/21 06:42 PM
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I have done this on dates and can confirm it works most of the time (NOT 100% though) The key is to disengage and go cold, but you can't seem butthurt or pouty about it. Just be calm and even tempered and don't show her any affection or warmth until she starts trying to win you back. Human psychology doesn't change that much over 10 years lol
/r/TheRedPill06/12/21 06:38 PM
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Great post - obviously requires a high level of calibration because sometimes a girl does have a real reason why she can't hang out but in general it is far better to push hard at the moment of resistance than settle for a follow up. The VAST majority of guys here would benefit from pushing more after they've hooked the set.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/21 06:36 PM
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no i think the word intimidation is not being used correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:21 AM
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great comment
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:52 PM
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You're not intimidated by HER you're worried that she has too many better options and won't stay with you. maybe she'll branch swing as soon as she meets someone better. or maybe you're concerned that her prior partners were all higher value in some way compared to you and won't measure up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:52 PM
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the guy was more gung ho about it than the girl. i believe it. however i can't understand how any heterosexual male could enjoy seeing his woman getting railed by another dude
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:26 PM
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yep those are familiar stereotypes. never had sex with a virgin woman before but the novelty of it is certainly intriguing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:34 PM
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well i can understand why someone would be skeptical of an attractive 24 yo female virgin. That said, I've met plenty of virgin women in Asia in the age range 25-29 so i can believe it. what i can't understand is why someone wouldn't want to have sex with a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:25 PM
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interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:49 AM
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the important point here is that men learn best through lived experience. simply telling a guy that EWALT will not resonate or cause him to internalize better attitudes and behaviors. He needs to go through the process of seeing the shades of gray and come to his own conclusions about it. the journey is as important as the result
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:24 AM
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Maybe you were only attracted to hot guys who, of course, could get sex easily and therefore felt no need to be patient. Religious guys would probably be the only type to have options but not exercise them. Average dudes are willing to wait but of course women are not attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:22 AM
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It just doesn't sound realistic that the majority of LTRs would ever be from ons/hookups. That's what I used to think until I started having far more success from leading to sex early rather than being safe and taking it slow. In the latter cases, girls would just get bored and move on to someone else. EDIT: When I say success, I mean LTRs developing from sex on date 1-3
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:02 AM
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the nuance here is that i expect most people to eventually see and understand the shades of gray. Imagine a dude who has been simping for girls his whole life who comes across TRP and learns about AWALT. Because of his fucked up mindset, he believes it 100% with no nuance. Proceeds to be extremely suspicious of girls, thinking they are all equally hypergamous, looking to branch swing/cheat, and maybe poke holes in his condoms, take his money. Naturally no relationship lasts longer than a few wee…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:00 AM
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i think it was an external survey/study. can't remember the details now though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:51 AM
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yes because i don't give a shit what feminists think. normal girls do not subscribe to that mindset. Anyone who takes such statements literally for their whole life is not someone I'm interested in knowing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:49 AM
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I believe there was a survey about this... someone on ppd posted it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:47 AM
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Great story. You simply did what you wanted to do, led, and the family followed. No need to make threats or demands.
/r/askMRP19/11/21 09:47 AM
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nope not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:45 AM
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Pickup artists don't want LTRs though, they want hookups, sluts, easy no strings attached sex. Most relationships in the West start with hookups and ONS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:48 PM
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So wouldn't EWALT be a better acronym vs AWALT? no, that's pointless semantics. AWALT is a good TRP phrase because hardcase newbies need to be hit over the head with it to deprogram them from the "Women are wonderful" effect. Eventually they are able to distinguish between the women that really are like that vs. those that only have mild tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:45 PM
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The top comment nailed the nuance
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:40 PM
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lol... one time i matched with this 39 year old woman on tinder. everything was going great until i suggested we could grab a drink somewhere apparently she expected a full dinner + creative after date ideas. told me about how many dudes she has lined up to date her. said i wasn't putting in enough effort. i told her that i would put in effort if we clicked on the first date and i saw that something could happen going forward. needless to say that's over
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:29 PM
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Ultimatums generally seem like a bad idea in most personal situations. Wasn't there a TRP post about how ultimatums = immediate loss of frame? Better instead to state clearly what you want to have happen, and start making plans/taking steps to make that happen.
/r/askMRP18/11/21 09:31 AM
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haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 09:23 AM
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taking care of children becomes a community effort. Totally agree. My friends with kids are mostly too far away to request my babysitting services
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 09:09 AM
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The way you phrased this question shows you don't understand what AWALT means
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 08:51 AM
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get some wine and invite your friends. Unfortunately this becomes nigh impossible once people start haivng kids... at least in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 08:50 AM
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I believe probably most women have participated in a gangbang or two. wat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:14 AM
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because barriers to entry are low.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:14 AM
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See my answer to you. They don't 'go' anywhere looking for dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:13 AM
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Women don't 'go' anywhere. They tend to go about their daily lives and wait a price charming to show up. They may go the club with their friends once in a while and see if 'anything happens'. Even doing OLD most women get on for a month or two, maybe get a few dates, then get bored and let the account die. This is why I always preach the value of day game because apart from existing social circles this is the best way to meet women (you will still get rejected by a % of women obviously, that's j…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:13 AM
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THis is true. Women want pre-selected men that they can then choose from. Not the whole world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:09 AM
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I think this is only true when there is no entry filter/criteria. So if any and all men can get in, yes it will totally be a sausage fest (OLD is a great example). On the other hand, if you need be of a certain social class, or pay a high fee to enter a particular venue, or be a part of a particular exclusive group, suddenly the ratio changes A LOT. So very high end nightclubs where you basically cannot get in unless you know someone or are willing to buy a $2000+ table are generally not sausage…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:08 AM
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Great story. Most of PPD cannot comprehend a 14 year age gap where the dude has no evil intentions of turning an impressionable young girl into a sex slave. I'd like to meet more younger girls myself but not finding OLD to be great for that. Any suggestions?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:52 AM
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Totally that seems to be more common these days thanks to onlyfans/IG modeling and rich older dudes pumping and dumping closet hookers I always hear the same arguments from women on these threads using words like 'grooming', 'gross', 'predatory', 'naive', etc. Always the assumption that older man + younger woman = bad intentions. Never even considering the possibility that maybe the older guy just wants a young healthy girl to start a family with and has no intentions of cheating and manipulatin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:23 AM
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I dated a 21 year old at 35. I'm honestly curious how did you two meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:03 AM
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All those traits that directly benefit women, or serve her arbitrary criteria are beyond question, but a man actually wanting to fuck or date a younger woman is an abomination that should be shamed if not criminalized. Indeed. THis is why taking dating advice from women is a terrible idea. She will give you advice that ultimately puts the power and control in her side of the court.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:01 AM
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This is what I always say - women want polarity in relationships. They want a man taller, stronger, smarter, etc. basically better in some way than they are. Ultimately, most women are not attracted to men who are inferior to them. This absolutely creates a power/status gap in most heterosexual relationships. Whether that gap is due to age, money, physical strength, status, connections, etc. doesn't make much of a difference IMO. Shaming age gaps is mainly a sexual strategy by 30-40+ women to en…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:00 AM
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nope but the most vocal are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:18 PM
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sometimes I'll say grad school or say I'm just working in biotech grad school / biotech are not successful? i don't think you realize how much STEM PhDs and biotech folks make my friend. certainly no scrubs
/r/TheRedPill09/11/21 05:13 AM
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this thread is hilarious... a bunch of women proving that they still have no idea what the red pill is or how it is implemented in a man's life. Most of yall would only be able to recognize men in the 'anger' phase of TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:05 AM
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asshole simply means that you prioritize your own needs and wants first, not the woman's.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:13 PM
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Nah I totally disagree with this. This is essentially a blackpill POV that looks dictate everything. I have seen plenty of guys who are not good looking but nonetheless are bold, uninhibited, and a bit cocky/arrogant drive women absolutely wild. Asshole = prioritizing their own needs first and not giving women everything that they want. As one example, criminals/drug dealers are often like this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:12 PM
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"nothing is more common than the wish to be unique" or something...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:38 PM
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i'm just being obnoxious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:37 PM
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my hypothesis: the fact that you are paying more attention to the guy and devoting mental space/energy to figuring shit out about him, in itself, causes your perception to shift in a subtle way. of course you're not going to want to fuck him immediately, but these effects are real, though subtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:36 PM
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you're basically taylor swift
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:34 PM
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lol... herd mentality is actually a good thing in some situations. women have a lot to lose by hanging out with the wrong guy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:34 PM
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i know how women think and feel and get laid all the time checkmate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:32 PM
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I love this question bc all the women on this sub will say 'no', but irl it's absolutely true. note that when this happens, it doesn't register as "oh shit that guy is so hot because other hot women are talking to him and having fun", it's more like "hmm that's interesting" - a subtle shift in perception and attention that makes women more receptive to being approached by him, or may even subconsciously cause her to move towards him to find out more. it 100% raises the subconscious perception of…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:32 PM
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ppl are lazy and make up excuses why doing the work is pointless like so what if the taller better looking dude over there can pull girls effortlessly while you have to grind in the gym just to get some pussy? that's your pain and your journey - embrace it. the world doesn't owe you shit
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 05:23 PM
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yeah it's a pretty fucked up situation... at some point if you're not getting any pussy the risk-reward of doing cold approaches probably starts to look pretty good. Especially after college I think the risk of what you describe is much much lower
/r/TheRedPill28/10/21 04:32 PM
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dude you are literally giving me an anecdote while criticizing me for doing the same. anyway thanks for clarifying... i can see why you'd be afraid to approach after that sort of bullshit. sad that women see a confident approach as a criminal activity.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/21 04:30 PM
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look man i hear you... i wouldn't want to fuck up my life for some mediocre pussy either. but what do you do if online dating isn't working for you? tinder is pretty shitty for average guys. you either have to do social circle game or cold approach
/r/TheRedPill28/10/21 04:24 PM
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without knowing the specific circumstances of those 3 encounters hard to conclude anything all i can say is i've approached tonnes of women on the street, bookstores, coffee shops, eetc. and never once has anything remotely like that happened. and i'm not even particularly good looking or anything. my only rules for approaching are 1) be well dressed and look good, 2) only approach in a well lit place with other people around, and 3) make sure she can easily walk away, that is, don't corner a gi…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/21 04:22 PM
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great comment what do you think about the content creators on social media/youtube/etc.? are they producers in any sense vs consumers?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/21 05:08 PM
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totally agree there's an endless list of excuses you can make for why you can't go out and approach girls irl
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 05:48 PM
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Absolutely it's a great way to meet women. JUst don't confuse that with "100% success" - you will meet some women who don't even stop or talk to you or reject you immediately. That's fine, move on to the next one. ALso you need to have some social calibration. If you're creepy, smell bad, poorly dressed, etc. then don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:10 PM
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nah i used to think like you until game changed my success with women
/r/TheRedPill25/10/21 07:57 PM
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limiting beliefs my man. until you see it change your own success with women it's hard to believe
/r/TheRedPill25/10/21 07:49 PM
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100 Been noticing a lot of younger guys shitting on game, thinking they just need the perfect hairstyle or whatever to get girls. When I say to go out and approach IRL they act like girls are gonna call the police on you for talking to her. Gen Z is fucking useless all they know how to do is text and buy crypto, no real life skills whatsoever
/r/TheRedPill25/10/21 05:16 PM
2

semantics. you do have game you just don't think about it consciously
/r/TheRedPill25/10/21 05:15 PM
18

Exactly Been noticing a trend of younger guys shitting on game or saying that looks are all that matters. EVERYTHING matters to some extent. There is nothing stopping you from leveling up in all aspects of sexual attraction, including game
/r/TheRedPill25/10/21 05:14 PM
1

yes it is what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:25 PM
2

so given the choice between smart or strong/fit+smart you wouldn't be more attracted to the latter?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:13 PM
2

nah women always have a choice but the decision depends on external factors. you can shack up with a weak man in a time of war too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:48 PM
2

And he can protect me from real problems, like differential equations. LOL studies have shown that women tend to prefer weak men in rich and safe societies so not too surprising
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:38 PM
9

Quite simply, women enforce aspects of toxic masculinity by dating and having sex with the types of men that feminists claim to hate. Men are adaptable creatures - we look at how to best achieve our objectives and mold ourselves to go after it (or give up if the juice isn't worth the squeeze) If men observe that women say one thing but do another then that will affect how men behave and the types of actions we will take.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:03 PM
13

Downplaying violence against men including sexual abuse/violence ("just get over it!" or "he probably deserved it somehow")
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:01 PM
11

The final stage of being red pilled is when you take TRP concepts and apply them to your own life, and figure out what works for you and what doesn't I went through a similar phase where I was overthinking everything. Nowadays I keep it very simple as many of the lessons have been internalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:51 PM
1

idk compulsory service isn't that bad frankly but i've only seen it work in recent times in small countries like singapore and israel
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:47 PM
2

Yes I do think something like this helpful to young men but we need to acknowledge the dark side of this stuff that DOES occur: bullying, sexual abuse, emotional trauma, etc. A year for everyone, 2 years for anyone who wants it would make some sense. Just keeping kids out of drugs, laziness, too much gaming, and building good habits are all good
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:03 PM
1

funny how this is debated here but well recognized on TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:09 AM
6

You assume that the rewards of commitment today in the West are the same for both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:03 AM
22

TRP was not built for you - it was built by men for men. And I have no idea where you are getting this idea that TRP hates ugly women. Men have always liked attractive women, and tend to ignore ugly women, same as how women ignore unattractive men. Is this news?
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/21 04:51 PM
2

THis effect extends far beyond sexual preselection...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:37 PM
4

haha this is great. kinda like when women tell a guy how amazing he is, what a catch he is, how any girl would be lucky to have him (just not her)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:21 PM
8

have 0 times though You have no time at all to do what exactly? Mentally easier to me means don't go balls to the wall all the time. Allow yourself to have easy days and to underperform. PUnch in, punch out. Hate squats? Don't squat today. Do something you like more instead.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/21 03:50 AM
5

yes that's true. we could all use some hardening up for sure. but it seems too one dimensional to be really helpful to guys struggling with depression and other issues
/r/TheRedPill25/09/21 07:41 PM
10

Goggins is a beast but I don't really get his message.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/21 06:32 PM
49

Great stuff. The people looking for a magic formula to discipline won't appreciate it. But this is the key to building good habits. This is what I always tell myself when I don't feel like going to the gym - I give myself permission to just walk in, walk on the treadmill for 5 mins, then walk out if I really don't want to do anything. Just the act of getting to the gym is key. Once I'm there I usually do a full workout no problem. But psychologically, reducing the pressure to be 'perfect' is cru…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/21 06:31 PM
1

Don't abusive men tend to shack up with emotionally damaged women? The types of women that are desperate for male attention and validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:41 PM
2

There is an optimum body fat % which actually enhances size and looks... somehwere around 12-15% i would say. Most girls do not care about sub 10% bodyfat. as long as you don't have a gut that hangs out you're good. Just having a relatively flat abs with the hint of a six pack is enough. Personally I think shorter/smaller guys should focus more on size and strength rather than leanness (up to a point of course, don't become a fatass with 25% bodyfat)
/r/TheRedPill21/09/21 05:11 PM
-1

I think there's a broader point being made here: that men are fundamentally more disposable and replaceable from a sexual standpoint, and that humans in general have less shallow and shitty behavior when life isn't too easy. the strongest relationships are forged under stress, while weak/shallow ones break under stress. it has been well documented that women tend to prefer more clasically masculine men with strong values and characters under hard time, while preferring more feminine and soft men…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:08 PM
3

Dudes are courting you for months on end without sex if they want something casual. you mean aren't? i agree this works... can't imagine many guys sticking around for months for sex when there are far easier lays out there
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:07 PM
1

no idea what you're talking about now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 05:48 AM
1

This is NOT what TRP says TRP says a man CAN have higher SMV in this 30s (or even 40s) vs. 20s only IF certain criteria are met. Those include status, wealth, etc. A man isn't just more attractive because he's older... he also has to be in shape and look good. That said, there are definitely some girls who do find older men attractive, all else being equal. They may be more interested in security and comfort rather than pure looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:31 PM
1

well redpill says that you shouldn't get married in the first place, just spin plates. so in that case yeah there is no expectation to provide anything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:07 PM
2

well said. The traditional social contract works because it shares both privileges and responsibilities across both parties. When one party removes the responsibilities portion, but keeps the privileges, it breaks the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 05:41 PM
19

absolutely. i don't see how anyone can argue that women shouldn't get educated or work but then also not be willing to provide for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 05:36 PM
0

It's more that the average man rarely if ever gets complimented for anything or desired so the 'resource' is more valuable to him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:28 PM
3

Social media suffers from the 'highlight reel' effect - people only post good times, and celebrations and positive events. Social media doesn't tell you anything about what's really happening behind the scenes or what each person is really thinking. Misery and dissatisfaction can be hidden in polite company. That said, red pill doesn't say that blue pill couples can't be happy. Just that blue pill is largely an illusion. If the illusion lasts long enough, couples can be happy for decades, or at …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:02 PM
3

you're also pretty young so it's normal to be a bit self centered. keep working on that aspect of yourself
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 02:40 PM
3

Sounds like he's depressed, maybe on medication and feeling like crap Baby steps - he needs to start walking every day at a minimum before getting back into the gym
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 02:23 PM
1

yah i think it's mostly an issue of education and class THe cousin marriage thing is very true, happens quite a bit in India as well. I have relatives that married 2nd cousins Consanguinity is a massive issue in the middle east and north african due to higher incidence of genetic defects
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:49 PM
2

For me the problem is the social coercion. Using that pressure to enforce an arranged relationship is unacceptable to me. I agree But in my experience among educated urban Indians it is really all about matchmaking, not coercion. Not denying that coercion happens among other folks of course
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:48 PM
1

are you pakistani? i hate to stereotype but i see these forced arranged marriages happening a lot more among muslims. maybe not in pakistan as much as places in middle east and north africa hindus do as well but mostly among lower classes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:36 PM
2

i hate to stereotype but this type of basically forced arranged marriages tend to be much more prevalent among muslims particularly in Pakistan, Indian, MENA, etc. countries. It does happen with Hindus in India as well among the lower class folks. Technically girls do have a choice but the consequences of saying no can be severe. Among middle and upper class folks in India, arranged marriages really are that - parents suggest two people meet and they can get married or not according to their wis…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:33 PM
3

this is not how arranged marriages work in most countries. maybe in some 3rd world places in africa or pakistan yes but in india for example there is a choice most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:18 PM
1

Can I set up a routine using this until I can go to a real gym? Why are you asking for permission? If that's all you have access to then yeah do it, what other alternative is there?
/r/askMRP20/08/21 06:35 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/74bcwz/trp_believes_in_enjoy_the_decline_why_dont_you/ So have I and 'enjoy the decline' is something i've read numerous times going back 5+ years
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:29 PM
1

obvious troll is obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:25 PM
1

Incorrect The blackpill stance is to complain online and do nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:30 PM
0

There is no saving, rescuing, or reversing the decline When a man is ready, he will find TRP.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/21 03:47 PM
5

there may a rise, but i also think more men would seek to marry at a younger age if casual sex is no longer available
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 03:25 PM
6

I disagree with that premise - sex is definitely not a need. What I think would happen is that men would become much more commitment oriented, seeking to get married at a younger age since the milk from the cow is no longer freely available.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 03:24 PM
7

I think it IS consistent to simultaneously engage in casual sex while understanding how at a large scale this is bad for society as a whole. There's not much I as an individual can do to reverse the decline of society, so might as well enjoy it. The exception is if I'm religious and want to create my own 'bubble of virtuosity' where i wait for sex until after marriage and expect to marry a virgin and raise a bunch of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 03:20 PM
3

This guy is not really RP, considering that RP explicitly warns against using RP ideology to create BP outcomes/solutions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:18 PM
16

The RP stance is to 'enjoy the decline'. Women are the gatekeepers of sex - so if women are OK with having casual sex and riding the CC, why shouldn't you get some too? The goal is not solve society's problems, it's to maximize sexual success. If all women tomorrow decided to stop having casual sex and only have sex after marriage or after 25 dates, what do you think would happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:18 PM
18

you are lost my son i'm bald and short and fuck girls regularly. let go of your limiting beliefs and you might achieve something in life
/r/TheRedPill17/08/21 02:25 PM
6

FOH with your bullshit blackpill nonsense
/r/TheRedPill17/08/21 02:24 PM
43

How do women look at you? How do they act around you? Are they playing it cool? Are they shit-testing you? Are they touching you? 100% How a woman behaves around you is the only thing that matters. Very few women have complimented my looks directly, but do you think that matters at all when she's sucking my dick? Exactly Indeed, this is one of reasons OLD is so fundamentally bad for men who may have below average looks, but good social skills and charisma. Real human interaction is multidimensio…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/21 02:23 PM
7

Redpill from the male perspective is NOT always compatible with redpill from the female perspective. Remember that male redpill is about optimal sexual strategy - so things like spinning plates may be good for a guy to get more experience, but they are not great for a girl looking to have one partner for life.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 08:51 PM
4

Well obviously you expect him to contribute to paying down the debt, which will impact your collective financial plans for the future. If debt is the result of bad decisions (e.g. credit card debt, buying expensive shit you don't need) that is a big red flag. Medical debt and debt to invest in education (that will lead to a high paying job) or assets are good uses in my book.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/21 04:27 PM
1

close... i'm in biotech at mid level management funny thing is most of my colleagues in LATAM are trying to relocate to the US. meanwhile i'm trying to look for opportunities to move to asia or latam
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:52 PM
0

imo the hottest women are the paisas from antioquia - they are the long black haired women native to that area
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:38 PM
1

PV is definitely a tourist spot but much less so than cabo. In fact, most of the tourists are from other parts of mexico and latam. i enjoyed it, plenty to do and very safe
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:38 PM
0

it's not colombian's in general - it's the paisas from antioquia which are particularly hot with the long black hair and slim figures
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:36 PM
4

nothing artificial about it - SMV is always relative to your immediate environment
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:35 PM
2

plan is to keep my US salary. how do you plan to do that? I'm asking seriously, because I would love to move out of the bay area CA but it's tough to maintain that salary even after adjusting for cost of living
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:34 PM
3

Real talk right here - AWALT, doesn't matter which country All you're doing by going to a poorer country is using your money and citizenship as bait. Sure you can get some no strings attached sex. But women in developing countries are looking for a provider and more than willing to use their looks (and plastic surgery) to land the best meal ticket they can. The top tier women are not giving it away for free - they know what they can extract from men. If you're cool with that arrangement, then ye…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:32 PM
3

Great stuff Uncle vas. That term RIF brought back some bad memories - not because I was getting fired but because i was part of the consulting firm that recommended it to the client. we actually had to come in that day to the client site super early and stay locked in on the top floor so no one could attack us. i shit you not
/r/TheRedPill22/07/21 06:48 PM
1

Ask a woman what she wants in a man. You've got to be kidding me THis is the ULTIMATE source of bad bluepill advice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:23 PM
1

I know now that's not what personality means, but not before. You see, this advice actually does work in some places like developing countries and traditional cultures. Seriously as long as you're decent looking, not a psycho, and have a decent education/job you can get girls in developing countries like Colombia, Mexico, China, SEA, India, many places in Africa. Immigrant parents who got arranged marriages tell you this stuff all the time, not knowing it doesn't work in America. And btw I talke…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:22 PM
1

Clarification: I heard SOME of it growing up, but missed the most important parts I had always been told that women cared more about personality (which means being a nice person) than looks, and that getting a great education would have girls lining up. THAT is real blue pill advice. I suspect the definition of blue pill advice has been modified since the formation of TRP once it became clear that BP advice was mostly bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:51 PM
5

i never heard/learned this growing up in a fairly traditional household Being nice and getting educated was supposed to be all you had to do to land a great wife
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:18 AM
2

yes
/r/askTRP21/07/21 02:43 AM
1

hey whatever works
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:23 PM
1

hmmm maybe. i agree it is very difficult, and why there are so many angry dudes on trp. glad to hear you're trying at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:34 PM
1

gotcha. what happened after your early 30s?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:27 PM
3

TRP is generally against committed relationships wrong As washington_breadstix said, TRP is against relationships with 'unfit' individuals In general TRP is descriptive, not prescriptive. Every man has to take the general principles and apply them to his own life in the way that he sees fit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:09 PM
1

aged out chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:53 PM
1

ok thanks for sharing your thoughts. obviously i disagree with your worldview but let's leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:53 PM
5

i think there's a huge middle ground between the two extremes you've laid out. There's a lot you can do to make yourself more sexually attractive and have better success with women, that does not involve being abusive or fake. I mean seriously do you think that sexually successful men are not honest and caring to some extent? Re: PUA scene - I think you've taken away the worst aspects of PUA and failed to see some of the good aspects of it. It comes down to this: do you believe you can change fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:41 AM
2

I like this take. FB is engineering our entire political system, so why can't a dating app monopoly engineer the entire way we interact romantically with others? The data scientists there have this shit down to a T. Give a man enough dopamine hits and he'll empty out his wallet for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:25 AM
5

honestly virginity at that age is not uncommon in many parts of asia. seems to be a huge deal in the US though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:20 AM
1

THis is interesting, thanks for sharing your thoughts. 3 statements really stood out to me: most of the advice I kept getting was to be myself and keep trying. Then there's the PUA techniques, which I find to be nothing more than a scam, and sleazy as hell. I'm not interested in picking women up at a bar for one night stands, I wanted a girlfriend for a potential long-term relationship, not a F-buddy. Yet when all I see are women chasing the bad boys, the guys who mistreat them and aren't faithf…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:19 AM
1

Option B - I like initating and being in control
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 04:28 PM
2

Why are you asking if she wants to meet up? Just suggest a date/time/location and if she is not interested, let her suggest an alternative If she doesn't do that, cut your losses and move on
/r/seduction13/07/21 08:04 PM
9

Well folks, this is it. Every excuse ever uttered, fucking destroyed. Phenomenal job
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 02:58 AM
6

Hoes ruined dating for all the 'good girls' Imagine if all girls expected commitment from men before sex was on the table. Men wouldn't expect to fuck on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:48 PM
1

Inner game/growth is just a marketing ploy used by PUA and self improvement companies... much better business since there are no measurable outcomes that you can measure. Outer growth creates inner growth
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 01:22 PM
2

I read the wrong point OK I don't know if there's any proof that woman have different standards for men. Obviously there are some men a woman would never fuck. But in the 'fuckable' category, my own observations say that there is a "potential boyfriend, make him wait" category, and a "fuck now, think later"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:50 PM
3

your point is that a guy who is being waitlisted for sex should just be more upfront about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:44 PM
3

this refers to hitting the gym, being professionally successful, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:43 PM
16

Seems like the ultimate anger comes from that women aren't willing to give instant sexual gratification and it requires alot of effort that some men aren't willing to put in. No this is wrong. Men are perfectly willing to put in work to get laid, that's assumed. What drives the anger is seeing a woman make you wait for 5 months while she fucks another guy 5 hours after meeting him. If all guys had to wait 6 months for sex there would be no perceived unfairness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:34 PM
1

In terms of sex women will always have it easier than men (except the top 20% of men that is). But if your goal is to lock down a high value man for LTR/marriage it will be harder post wall then pre wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:43 PM
1

As a woman in her 30s let me offer you my candid opinion, men’s dating leverage doesn’t change as they get older, it goes down like everyone else’s if they don’t have much to offer. On this I will agree. Which is exactly why TRP teaches that you have to strive and bust your ass to put yourself in the top 20% of men, not just sit around and eat twinkies. Men who do raise their SMV through improved diet, lifting, skincare, wealth, game, social status, etc. have MUCH more leverage in 30s and beyond…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:28 PM
0

Some men will never have much leverage in the dating market - the wall doesn't really matter much to them. But those who start a bit below average in terms of SMV can benefit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:39 PM
0

Here we go again... someone who heard about the TRP concept of 'the wall' and decided to make a post about it without understanding what it actually means Hint: The wall is a point women reach when they start to lose leverage in the dating market. Most of that is due to deteriorating looks/youth (weight gain, skin, inability to pair bond from carousel riding, thousand cock stare, etc.). Meanwhile, a man's TOTAL SMV is rising despite potentially some loss of looks. Net result is that a man who ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:33 PM
7

Biggest risk here IMO is that he's keeping these girls around to bang once in a while if he ever gets bored of you or if you withhold sex for whatever reason.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/21 02:30 PM
6

I see nothing wrong with stacking the odds in your favor by whatever means necessary. Women have so many tools available to make themselves seem more attractive - men shouldn't be afraid to do the same. Personally I made the decision to shave my head around 25 and been rocking a bald look ever since. It works for me pretty well being darker skinned with a decent head shape/structure (nowhere near Statham levels of course) and I lift, etc. Maybe I would've gotten laid more if I'd opted for minoxi…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 02:11 PM
3

Join a Professional services company for HNW individuals
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/21 01:10 PM
2

I think your observations are mostly correct. America is very much an individualistic society with no real cultural or religious bonds holding people together. People come here to make money and buy a house and live in comfort. If you're born without any advantages, or suffer a serious disease early in life, you will be fucked compared to living in a more socialist country. On the other hand, if you have a good start, you can go very very far in life. Different set of trade offs I guess? The end…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:29 PM
1

Generally good post - pretty similar advice to stuff 10+ years ago though. basics of communicating with girls doesn't change much i guess
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 04:45 PM
5

Disagree because this take isn't nuanced enough In terms of a woman you want to be known that you are associated with her: Yes - social class, intelligence, etc. are important so that she can fit in with your social group and be accepted (and also so that your social circle has a good opinion of you and your ability to attract high class women) However, plenty of powerful and wealthy men have women they fuck in secret, and pay for their lifestyle under the table. For those women, social class, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:52 PM
8

The reason I’m worried is because I’m a “supporter”, not a leader. I’m happy for him to shine and grow but I worry I’m not his equal? Many successful men are looking exactly for a supporter, not another leader. This is a perfectly good arrangement.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/21 04:38 PM
26

either noodle arms or some definition if she lifts. but nothing else
/r/askTRP19/06/21 03:38 PM
9

I still enjoy women, just with lower expectations from before.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 01:16 AM
76

damn really? that word is thrown around all the time on wsb
/r/TheRedPill18/06/21 06:11 PM
61

No idea what the r slur is but ok
/r/TheRedPill18/06/21 05:48 PM
2

Where can I find my unicorn? Read the sidebar - they don't exist. You could go to a 3rd world country and find a 19yo simple village girl who isn't allowed to talk to any males (though she probably snuck out at night a few times). Or just enjoy the decline and get your dick wet
/r/askTRP15/06/21 03:39 PM
1

start cold approaching i don't get much play on dating apps nowadays with <28 girls - does cold approach work much better for 'older' guys?
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:40 PM
4

teach me
/r/askTRP14/06/21 12:28 PM
1

"All you want from me is sex" "Nah I also like the sammiches you make for me" lmao this chick is living rent free in your head
/r/askTRP11/06/21 02:47 PM
-1

Great message in this post, but all anyone is focused on is the two nerds talking about star wars smh
/r/seduction09/06/21 04:48 PM
28

Normally I'm totally fine with large age gaps even though most people would say that older guys always try to manipulate younger women. In this case though, it sounds like a bad situation. From what little you've written, you sound a bit immature and not sure of what you want. You seem infatuated with his physical features despite all the baggage/red flags. Tread very carefully and make sure you know what you're walking into.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 02:58 PM
1

k
/r/seduction02/06/21 03:17 PM
1

sure
/r/seduction02/06/21 03:17 PM
4

I think that says more about that persons’ perception of men than of men tbh. absolutely correct!
/r/seduction02/06/21 03:17 PM
1

read a few books on day game
/r/seduction02/06/21 03:17 PM
1

no it's because facial expressions are often misleading
/r/seduction02/06/21 12:46 AM
1

you're going to avoid it because you're mis representing my words and you know it. furthermore if you think a man simply talking to a woman he doesn't know in a public setting constitutes a threat to safety, then you're right, we will not agree.
/r/seduction02/06/21 12:46 AM
5

I do not believe that taking a woman's feelings of safety into account is a pointless rabbit hole of hypotheticals. You can and that's fine, I'm not here to change your opinion. I never said that, and you completely ignored the part where i explained how I do take safety into account, and you expect me to believe you are here to discuss in good faith? FOH There is an appropriate level of concern for a woman's safety which all guys should take in account - like not approaching at night, or in an …
/r/seduction01/06/21 08:35 PM
0

Great
/r/seduction01/06/21 08:11 PM
24

For the average guy, even a bit of self confidence can feel like self delusion. Everyone has to find what works for them.
/r/seduction01/06/21 08:10 PM
1

ok
/r/seduction01/06/21 07:39 PM
9

you are going down a pointless rabbit hole of hypotheticals. ultimately you cannot know what a woman is thinking until you talk to her. as i said, plenty of times i approached a woman who didn't seem interested in conversation at all initially, and we ended up having a great conversation and subsequently met up later as well (and fucked on a few occasions). for normal well adjusted human beings this should not be surprising. If she didn't want to talk and told me to leave her alone I left. NO ha…
/r/seduction01/06/21 07:38 PM
28

and this of it this way: when she says she's not interested and you walk away, you are showing yourself as an example of a man that is totally capable of having a normal conversation, expressing interest in getting to know her better, and then accepting and handling rejection properly without turning violent or deranged (vast majority of guys are non violent btw). She will come away with a positive impression of your confidence and masculinity. So either way, you ARE making the world a little bi…
/r/seduction01/06/21 07:31 PM
9

Exactly right - be outcome independent from the start. It's crazy how people see a normal human interaction as something insane lmao
/r/seduction01/06/21 07:28 PM
14

i'm glad it helped but these are just words. go out there and make shit happen
/r/seduction01/06/21 07:26 PM
4

place that isn't exactly approach friendly can still be bothered about it. If you ask women where they would like to be approached, the answer in aggregate ends up being nowhere. But thinking that every respectful approach will always make someone's day better is plain wishful thinking. It's called a winning mindset and many of the world's most successful people have almost delusional levels of self confidence. You don't have to go as far as cult leader levels, but you need to recognize that men…
/r/seduction01/06/21 07:25 PM
2

It's called adapting a winning and positive mindset which is what a majority of men need when talking to women That's exactly. Most men have too much negative self chatter and talk themselves out of the approach. We need to replace that with self confidence and a feeling like we can make someone's day better, even by a little bit. THAT'S the MINDSET you need to have in the game. Modern social movements have cast men as the villains in society. That's why so many negative nellies keep popping up …
/r/seduction01/06/21 07:23 PM
1

you need help
/r/seduction01/06/21 07:20 PM
4

lots of times. do you realize how ridiculous it is that you're skeptical that a normal human interaction between strangers can actually be a fun and amazing experience?
/r/seduction01/06/21 07:20 PM
25

maybe you are not aware that the most successful people in society believe in themselves and have almost self delusional levels of confidence. cut out the negative chatter in your head and you will go far
/r/seduction01/06/21 07:17 PM
4

you're welcome to believe whatever you want. ultimately our limiting beliefs define the radius of our achievements
/r/seduction01/06/21 07:16 PM
70

That's a limiting belief and it's totally wrong. Can't tell you the number of times a girl looked completely disinterested and I ended up having a great conversation with her. She's probably bored af and never been approached by a confident and high value man before. Make her day.
/r/seduction01/06/21 02:31 PM
449

Frankly if you always listen to what women say and never put your own needs and wants first you will never be successful in the game. Approaching a woman in a day game setting requires to you realize that her life is boring and you are going to make it immeasurably better. She may be initially skeptical or irritated, but quickly will be flattered by your attractive and confident approach and demeanor. After you get her number and walk away, she will giggle and tell her girlfriends about the craz…
/r/seduction01/06/21 02:00 PM
3

Never seen so many TRP red flags in one girl lol My sense is that he needs to get fucked over by her and find TRP before he really learns. He's not going to listen to you bc he's too infatuated with her. Just make sure he keeps his money safe
/r/askTRP01/06/21 03:19 AM
3

this resonates with me strongly! the fear of regret is what causes procrastination on making decisions. thanks for this comment, really helpful
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:36 AM
2

thanks for this - is there a video where peterson talks about this, or is it in his book?
/r/askTRP27/05/21 04:57 PM
25

Clearly you're not intimidating enough and guys feel confident testing the boundaries. Still though I think you handled it correctly by not escalating to a confrontation. Getting into a fight is not worth it (unless you can easily win). Take it as a compliment that guys are jealous I guess?
/r/askTRP26/05/21 02:41 AM
10

Not really correct - women let down their shields around attractive men who confidently assume attraction and push the boundaries. But they let those walls fall down when a guy is super pushy, or doesnt respect them. Yeah... if he's attractive and his behavior is congruent with this looks and physical frame. The defensive shields go up when beta males try to make a sexual advance. For example - you asking a woman what she wants immediately communicates to her that your frame is weak and you aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 02:38 AM
3

great stuff... being consistent is the gym is harder than i thought at first. but the rewards are real
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:38 AM
1

agreed... women don't fantasize about a simp eating her out. they fantasize about a masculine dude pinning her down and taking her from behind
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:30 PM
1

how do you meet the girls initially?
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:28 PM
1

forreal man. can't understand the pussy eating obsession here lately. I mean it's ok to eat pussy if you're in an LTR and she's doing everything you want her to. Eating pussy is her reward. But before that she better be deepthroating and gargling your cum on a regular basis
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:22 PM
1

nice mental gymnastics girls don't dream about being eaten out... that's what simps do girls want to get dominated and fucked hard. go read the sidebar
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:59 AM
-1

eating pussy is beta af. the romans considered getting fucked by another dude less bad than eating pussy
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:51 AM
-4

eating pussy is beta af
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:50 AM
2

yeah definitely don't be eating pussy from random tinder dates. here's what you do from now on: 1) makeout, get her shirt off, suck the titties, rub her pussy, finger, etc. 2) once you sense she's hot and ready, put her hand on your dick and let her rub it 3) tell her what YOU WANT her to do, don't ask! tell her how sexy you find her body, what you want to do to her 4) tell her to suck your dick. be a selfish asshole and put yourself first 5) fuck
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:50 AM
6

Is this legal in your country? TRP says don't get married for obvious reasons. Two wives doesn't change that
/r/askTRP21/05/21 01:26 AM
4

the sluts fucked it up for everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:27 PM
4

Great comment - if all girls were virgins, guys would be fine waiting for sex and proposing at age 21. the issue is the sluts fucking 100 guys and then hitting the wall and THEN making guys wait so they can feel like they have something 'real' What a fucking crock of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:26 PM
3

talk to some of their friends to see if somebody's daughter is of similar age and wants to get married. Usually younger age for the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 02:30 PM
24

Tell him he can see after he proposes or something you can't be serious
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/21 01:14 PM
1

You new here? C'mon man it's obvious isn't it... any decently attractive girl has so many simps thirsting after her pussy that she doesn't have to do shit. if you were drowning in pussy would you give a shit about dressing up for 1? simple market dynamics
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:39 AM
1

if you really believe that then why lift at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:39 PM
1

Exactly why advice from women should never be taken at face value - most advice they give is surreptitiously intended to screen out betas, because alpha men don't listen to this shit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:39 PM
6

yeah like she gives a fuck about dating being unfair alpha men don't complain - either play the game the best you can, or don't and go MGTOW
/r/TheRedPill17/05/21 10:41 PM
7

do you want to get your dick wet or not?
/r/TheRedPill17/05/21 08:35 PM
1

What I am saying is change what you can. And there’s a lot you can change than what you can’t. THis Why is it so hard for people to understand this simple principle
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 07:22 PM
1

totally understandable. what sort of routine do you do in the gym? highly recommend checking out /r/fitness or /r/weightroom and looking at some beginner programs to structure your training. For beginners a full body routine works well with a focus on heavy compound lifts like squats, deadlifts, bench press, chin ups, rows, etc. Lift 3-4 times a week and eat quality food. With a good program/structure you may find it more enjoyable especially when you can measure your progress over time.
/r/seduction15/05/21 07:18 PM
1

haha 100 man!
/r/seduction15/05/21 02:35 AM
14

Great stuff man, glad to see brown men having more dating success in the western world. I bet 90% of this sub won't put in the work/effort you have to see results improve Can I make one suggestion? LIFT - hit the gym 3-5 times a week. This will absolutely accelerate your results. Girls love a man with a muscular body, don't believe the dad bod bullshit
/r/seduction14/05/21 03:55 PM
1

This is just stupid. You express what you want through your actions, not words. You're a man. You allay her anti slut fears/defense with your words, and pound her pussy with your dick.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 03:45 PM
1

exactly this is just total lack of calibration and understanding of social norms. who gives a fuck what you say or don't say when you're balls deep in a chick? she wants sex too, just doesn't want to feel like a slut. So give it to her
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 03:42 PM
2

lol seriously why do so many dudes lack any ability to communicate in any other way than literal meanings
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 03:41 PM
2

what is wrong with you people? girls want sex too, you just have to play the game so she can not feel like a slut about it.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 03:41 PM
3

Because men are thirsty af and willing to put up with anything for a taste of pussy
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:33 PM
1

nah this is just the idealistic rich westerner view
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 01:10 PM
3

it's not sad at all, just realistic. if you grew up in a developing country you would understand
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 11:21 PM
2

sure that's part of becoming more socially competent and better at the game
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:08 PM
1

that's a good point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:05 PM
1

plenty out there: 1) the sidebar 2) mark manson's models 3) magic bullets by savoy 4) some of the older rsd videos for example Todd V DO NOT pay money for this shit. Lots of fake gurus out there trying to make you spend $5k on a bootcamp
/r/seduction09/05/21 07:04 PM
4

you seem to think love, attraction, and financial security are mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:03 PM
1

ok fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:02 PM
2

in my experience it's true. let's leave it at that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:01 PM
2

sure
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 04:30 PM
9

this is categorically false - average and even ugly faced dudes can compensate through lifting, money, status, etc. plenty of examples of this all over the world. also i love how you think you are the sole representative of all women everywhere. start using "I" instead of "We".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 04:29 PM
5

you're missing the point - lifting is one of the few ways almost any man can improve his sexual appeal in a short amount of time. the key is improvement from where he was before
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 04:13 PM
6

i always interpreted the Chad stereotype as being the complete package of looks and personality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 04:12 PM
5

yep which is why first order of business on TRP is to get in the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 03:58 PM
5

a boring chad is an oxymoron and doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 03:58 PM
2

what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 03:45 PM
1

yep that's the same everywhere but what causes tingles can vary from place to place
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 03:45 PM
23

right exactly - your relative value is higher. plus i find women in developing countries prioritize economic security from their men over looks or how cool he is or how exciting he is. america used to be this way too until we got too rich and comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 03:45 PM
8

I'm not saying anything about what they should do, but yes their relative value will be much higher in such countries IMO (source: experience having traveled and lived in many developing countries)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 02:41 PM
62

The issue with these men is simply that they are boring. Boring men do fine in poor developing countries, but not in the rich west.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 02:11 PM
1

there's a great saying i keep repeating in these situations: "you are enough" You may want to speak with a therapist before thinking about seduction and game. You may need to deal with some deeper underlying issues first
/r/seduction09/05/21 01:08 PM
1

what do you mean by 'source'?
/r/seduction09/05/21 01:07 PM
1

everything matters to some degree - depends on the location, the specific girl, the context. play to your strengths as much as you can. and change location if current location isn't working out for you
/r/seduction07/05/21 03:07 PM
1

lol no shit
/r/seduction06/05/21 09:19 PM
2

I've lived in the midwest too and yeah it sucks pretty bad particularly if you're not white (or black) Thinking globally, Tier 1 to me is generally the big metropolis type of cities such as NYC, SF, LA, Chicago, Hong Kong, Singapore, Tokyo, Shanghai, Beijing, Bangkok, London, maybe Dallas/Houston/Austin (I'm less familiar), New Delhi, Mumbai, etc.
/r/seduction06/05/21 01:09 PM
0

don't need to because i have a phd lmao
/r/seduction06/05/21 12:39 PM
1

awww cute... making personal attacks when you can't respond with logic.
/r/seduction06/05/21 12:39 PM
1

ok
/r/seduction06/05/21 12:37 PM
1

sometimes things seem impossible until you believe otherwise. self belief is such an important part of game. this sub has really gone down the tubes... far better ones out there
/r/seduction06/05/21 12:37 PM
2

your self limiting beliefs are the reason you can't see that happening
/r/seduction06/05/21 12:36 PM
5

aight fair enough. definitely easier to game in asian/latin/european countries
/r/seduction06/05/21 03:39 AM
1

that's legit, you're doing it right!
/r/seduction06/05/21 03:39 AM
3

glad it's helpful - being Asian in texas is definitely a bit more on hard mode, but not impossible by any means. if you're on the smaller side physically, best to lift and gain muscle mass - you will immediately see a different reaction from women and less bullshit from other men.
/r/seduction06/05/21 03:19 AM
1

go to a bigger city.
/r/seduction06/05/21 03:13 AM
0

LOL
/r/seduction06/05/21 03:12 AM
-5

no, your pics just suck
/r/seduction06/05/21 03:12 AM
2

how? can't tonight unfortunately cos i have work tmr
/r/seduction06/05/21 03:09 AM
9

better than your gestapo tendencies to put law abiding people on lists
/r/seduction06/05/21 03:08 AM
1

always good to have fun with it! at the end of the day it's a numbers game, so might as well open everyone
/r/seduction06/05/21 03:02 AM
3

eh it's all good this shit happens. plenty of pussy i've passed up before for various stupid reasons
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:47 AM
8

lmao dude girls aren't stupid - if she wants to fuck you (and is of legal age of course), you have a responsibility to your ancestors to tap that ass
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:43 AM
3

it's not as great for getting laid as people seem to think. great for meeting women who can introduce you to their friends though.
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:43 AM
17

this should be higher. daygame is gold for us old fucks who can't drink till 6 am anymore
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:37 AM
7

wtf is wrong with you? age is just a number, de program your conditioning
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:37 AM
5

the game is amoral. fuck out of here with your sanctimonious bullshit.
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:36 AM
17

the game is amoral. fuck out of here with your sanctimonious bullshit
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:36 AM
-2

try it and find out and let us know
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:35 AM
2

i like this answer because the game is amoral. i've done the professor routine before (which works because i actually do have a PhD lol) which girls love
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:35 AM
11

so basically you have to steal girls from their boyfriends?
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:34 AM
20

good shit man. this thread is so fucking pathetic with all the negativity. I'm nowhere near 6'2" and get laid pretty easily in a tier 1 city. i think location is the key variable for most guys.
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:33 AM
38

Conferences are VERY underrated. But you have to be careful because you're on company time/university time/whatever so be careful not to get kicked out for harassment
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:31 AM
43

THis thread is fucking pathetic. I meet plenty of girls in my mid 30s and know of many others who do as well. It depends on several factors: 1) Are you in shape? Do you dress well? Do you have direction in life or are you in the parent's basement playing video games all day and smoking weed? Do you have your own place? This is basic life shit that you should have together in your 30s. The main exception to this is the gangbanger/drug dealer/criminal type who seem to attract beautiful women effor…
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:29 AM
20

Yes I like this take and it rings true in my experience. Hierarchies used to be local and require physical interaction or thru-friends access. Now girls have unlimited access to top tier men, so you're always being compared against guys regardless of location. I've seen average attractiveness dudes get laid successfully by becoming socially dominant in particular niches. Niches can be defined in several ways - it could be a racial niche, or interest group, or hobby, or sport, etc. Hierarchies al…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:20 PM
1

35 and feeling this acutely now. I think the key is whether you are working towards a goal, and building in novel experiences on a regular basis. That will give you structure and 'slow' time down a bit.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 07:00 PM
6

AWALT describes general tendencies, not absolute outcomes
/r/askTRP28/04/21 07:46 PM
2

hell yes if there's one thing i've learned in this game, good kino sets you apart from the beta orbiters instantly, more than any fancy words you use
/r/askTRP28/04/21 03:26 PM
2

I have no idea what value this adds to the sub, but OK have fun with that
/r/seduction28/04/21 01:46 PM
1

Dating apps suck. If you're not in a big city or college town you're gonna get a lot of fat girls. Make your profile more sexual with 1 shirtless pic with good lighting showing off muscles
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:45 AM
11

approach in person. women are going to be so starved of in person interactions
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:44 AM
1

THis is gold - do you have a link to the JBP video or article where he explains this? I absolutely identify with this feeling - it feels safer to simply contemplate X, Y, and Z and not do anything, than to pick X and run with it because I feel like Y and Z will be closed off forever and what if I want to do Y and Z at some point too? I tend to live in my head a lot, analyzing possibilities and outcomes. I think RSD Julien called this 'living in the world of the imaginary' rather than 'living in …
/r/askTRP24/04/21 06:36 PM
1

ok then... personally i don't find it that hard to deal with girls being.. well girls. i see it all as a game and don't take it too seriously. you may want to look at the concept of amused mastery and why you don't need to take girls too seriously. try fucking escorts exclusively for a while and see how it goes
/r/askTRP24/04/21 05:50 PM
2

How many non escorts have you slept with? You seem to be speaking theoretically, rather than from experience about regular women
/r/askTRP23/04/21 01:03 PM
0

Seems like money and social proof are the biggest SMV raisers for men - if enough other girls want a man (or even that perception exists), or if the man has enough money, and you see short/ugly/fat/etc. guys banging beautiful ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 04:52 PM
35

Very true - if you're generally sociable and charismatic, you don't need to 'turn it on' when you want to seduce. Seduction becomes a natural outgrowth of your personality and something you can do effortlessly any time and day
/r/seduction21/04/21 04:12 PM
1

this is the answer
/r/askTRP21/04/21 01:14 PM
8

i've seen some dudes like that who grew up in rough neighborhoods. they were savage and could throw down with bigger guys easily because they had street fighting experience and knew how to take hits and dish them out. just from looking at them you'd have no idea how strong and dangerous they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:44 PM
7

summer + vaccine coming up ppl getting ready for beach body season
/r/TheRedPill15/04/21 04:59 PM
1

thanks!
/r/seduction15/04/21 03:09 PM
3

PPL is great - allows you to hit the big 3 and do good accessory work for size
/r/TheRedPill14/04/21 09:25 PM
3

i mean think about it... don't you think a girl would feel feminine AND PROTECTED by being with a guy who can protect her from bad guys out there? Unless the girl is 5th degree black belt who walks around with a firearm all day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 02:16 AM
4

oh i know that's not how women phrase it, you have to read between the lines at what's being implied. it's a proxy for something else
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 02:15 AM
20

lmao i swear i can't tell who is trolling sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 02:14 AM
1

yes so
/r/seduction14/04/21 01:30 AM
14

so if the average guy is strong enough to body you and make you fear for your life then why is he not also strong enough to be make you feel feminine? because he's not strong enough to fight off other men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 01:25 AM
27

But if you look at the typical stalker tho they’re tall as fuck. wat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 01:25 AM
1

that's nice dear
/r/seduction13/04/21 03:22 PM
1

so insightful!
/r/seduction13/04/21 03:22 PM
1

you're in denial
/r/seduction13/04/21 02:53 PM
1

i'll modify that to 'low value' men are invisible and yes, unattractive women are invisible to men as well
/r/seduction13/04/21 02:53 PM
1

yes
/r/seduction13/04/21 02:52 PM
1

you're starting to understand - well done there are many ways to get laid. hawt assholes who objectify girls in frats get laid. nerdy guys do get laid sometimes. life experience will show you that if anyone says there is only one way to play the game, they are wrong
/r/seduction13/04/21 01:46 PM
1

that's a nice thought but doesn't hold up to reality. lots of ways to get laid
/r/seduction13/04/21 01:45 PM
1

you're still missing my point and making one of your own
/r/seduction13/04/21 01:44 PM
1

true enough
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 12:48 PM
1

it absolutely happens. if you don't think it does, you're not paying attention
/r/seduction13/04/21 12:48 PM
2

k
/r/seduction13/04/21 12:46 PM
1

you missed my entire point, well done
/r/seduction13/04/21 12:45 PM
6

that's one way to do it lol
/r/seduction13/04/21 02:47 AM
12

generally agree, but honestly let's not pretend there is only one way to get laid. what you said may work for YOU, but i think we've all seen hot girls hook up with complete jackasses who view women as objects to conquer because the dude is OMGGGG HAWT, or criminal 'alpha' or whatever. there are few hard and fast rules in this game.
/r/seduction13/04/21 01:29 AM
2

lmao
/r/askTRP13/04/21 01:27 AM
2

The issue is, I know it's mine, but how do I know the baby is hers? https://imgur.com/nEL1wc9
/r/askTRP13/04/21 01:26 AM
44

there's a lot you can do to make yourself more attractive and stand out
/r/seduction12/04/21 10:22 PM
3

2 ONLY works after you've 'hooked' her initial interest. she has to see you as a potential sexual partner otherwise you're basically invisible
/r/seduction12/04/21 09:31 PM
293

Exactly - remember than unattractive men are almost literally invisible to women
/r/seduction12/04/21 09:28 PM
1

exactly - our brains are wired to be risk averse and make snap judgements to avoid getting hurt/killed, even at the expense of missing out on good opportunities that don't fit the standard model. Danny Kahneman talks about this in terms of System1 vs System2 thinking... really fascinating stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 06:58 PM
2

I think my opinion on this holds more weight than yours In that case yes I agree, wasn't clear from your post whether you were or not. I was under the impression that everyone had to study long hours and wouldn't have much time for dating/social life. So everyone similar lifestyles and expectations. I wasn't aware that there were such wide differences in lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 06:54 PM
7

1) Clean bathroom with basic amenities such as liquid soap, decent shampoo, decent bath soap/wash, A TRASH CAN WITH A LID (V IMPORTANT), keep some extra toothbrushes just in case, decent shampoo with some fruity odors, plenty of soft/high quality TP 2) NO STRONG SMELLS - girls are particularly turned on/off by smell. THe first thing she notices when she walks in better not be your stank ass 2 week old garbage. Take that shit out weekly at a minimum or sooner. Put some damn air freshener up in th…
/r/seduction10/04/21 06:51 PM
5

Girls are basically the same everywhere - hypergamous, branch swinging, and shit-testing Difference is where you stand in the hierarchy. In a poor country, you can be top 5% just by having a decent house and car.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 06:45 PM
2

pretty solid. you have to remember that women judge men not on their own merits, but on social proof - do other women want him? it's not a bad heuristic, as it kind of filters out psychopaths who hide their true nature. but it fails at identifying attractive men who, for some innocuous reason or another, are not following the standard life plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 02:26 PM
1

not sure about this one - most of my physician friends all found partners in med school itself. they understand the lifestyle and sacrifices. further, being a physician is a highly desirable career path for a partner who is not a physician himself/herself. Most women would be at least initially interested in a guy on the path to becoming a physician.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 02:21 PM
2

those reasons are so broad and easily twisted that they can apply to nearly any dude who is single and childfree after 35. THis is a classic example of human psychology - we come up with a knee jerk opinion first, then invent reasons to support it after the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 02:18 PM
0

almost no men become fathers for the first time after 40. what? this is completely false. plenty of men have children in their 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 02:14 PM
1

"You'll settle down eventually." Yeah, maybe I already AM settled. well said
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 02:13 PM
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Nah you're good, but you need to get several things in order: 1) Do you lift? If not, start. If you hate lifting, do some other sport/activity. But lifting is a huge positive for your appearance. Get your weight down to a normal level if it's not. 2) How's your general social life? Work on that first 3) Career moving in a good direction? Generally self sufficient? If not, get that handled first. Now study pickup, go out and talk to women. If you're too shy, just practice asking women for directi…
/r/seduction10/04/21 02:11 PM
4

great stuff. love to hear older guys crushing it in the game
/r/seduction10/04/21 02:04 PM
2

WTF is this shit? if she's a good fuck just downgrade to plate and keep fucking
/r/askTRP09/04/21 05:17 PM
6

Agreed - which is why simply the act of approaching in a confident way can generate attraction where before there was none. You don't get this benefit with online dating as a guy.
/r/seduction07/04/21 03:16 PM
1

most guys don't have an n count high enough to lie about
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:55 PM
1

terrible analogy - it is possible to prove both arson and tax fraud and there are in fact severe consequences for those acts there is no way to definitively know whether a girl is lying about n-count - that's why there are no consequences for lying about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 02:43 AM
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think of it this way: it doesn't matter what the true % is, the point is that women have an incentive to lie about it, and there almost no way to know if she's full of shit or not (no consequences to lying about it). What happens when there an incentive to lie, and no consequences for doing so? Bingo. Therefore, the prudent assumption for a man with standards and who desires a low n count partner is that all women lie about n count unless proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:55 AM
2

I've received hundreds like it over my life. That kind of rejection is part of the game This right here. Too many guys aren't willing to play the game and then complain about not getting laid. Guess what? If you don't want to play, fine, that's your right. But then don't expect to get laid.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 01:38 AM
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not a good idea... this sub is a doxxing target
/r/askTRP06/04/21 12:59 AM
3

it's like this: you want to just fuck a girl with no strings attached, go full psychopath on her and show no love/caring/beta bullshit at all. just hard dick and rough sex. But if you want to keep a girl around eventually she's gonna need a little bit of the beta shit mixed in. Not too much , mind you, but just enough to make her think you care about her more than the other hoes, that you think about her for shit other than sex, that you're willing to put forth a little bit of effort to make her…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 12:56 AM
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textbook comfort test
/r/askTRP05/04/21 09:30 PM
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i have been with a couple of high n count girls before. i try not to let things get too far before i can assess her suitability for a LTR. In those few cases things ended pretty quick because our personalities didn't match. Generally speaking I haven't meshed will with high n count girls so I never had to face that situation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:48 PM
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yep obviously i wish girls didn't lie about it, but it is what it is. Part of their sexual strategy so can't blame them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:06 PM
12

If you don’t want a high/low n-count guy or gal, don’t have one! problem is that girls always lie about n-count so hard to know immediately what you're dealing with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:50 PM
1

This way of thinking is pointless - it puts too much pressure on you to become a 'sex god' whatever the fuck that means, and takes away the fun of banging a chick. Sex is important because the tingles will bond her to you, but women will still seek out strange eventually because they seek novel experiences
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:47 PM
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honestly man i would suggest NOT getting drunk if your intention is to sarge. learn to sarge without alcohol first, girls aren't into super drunk guys anyway (unless they are super drunk themselves but then you end up having regret sex)
/r/seduction03/04/21 01:38 PM
2

The question is: what do you want to use it for? As an academic concept to be debated, I'm sure it's too simplistic as academics love to overcomplicate things (Source: used to be one) But as a simple heuristic or framework for assessing a social hierarchy, it can be a useful tool. We know that sexual success follows a power law distribution with the top % of males banging most of the women, while the bottom 80% fight over scraps.
/r/seduction03/04/21 01:28 PM
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Sounds like you are in an environment that doesn't suit you. You can sarge anywhere. If loud messy parties aren't your thing, you can day game, or find more chill night game spots to hit up. Play to your strengths.
/r/seduction03/04/21 01:22 PM
1

Dominance doesn't mean that you're out there fighting with people and constantly engaged in warfare. It means that you have gravitas and sprezzatura - when you speak, people listen. When you walk in the room, people take notice. When you give value, people feel joy.
/r/seduction03/04/21 02:39 AM
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Nailed it. Women don't escalate, they just give you subtle signal that they're OK with YOU escalating
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 06:04 PM
1

congratulations, you're a red blooded dude
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:37 PM
1

nice... agreed, in surveys women say that bald men come across more masculine and dominant
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:37 PM
2

I guess so, but having that mindset is not good, because it feels like you are jumping through hoops to satisfy her requirements. I prefer to approach the relationship with 'amused mastery'. Basically, how would you react if an 8 yo girl was teasing you, or giving you shit, or acting difficult? Would you get all butthurt and sulk? Or would you laugh it off / agree&amplify because she's 8? Treat girls like they're 8 I guarantee you it'll keep you in a playful frame of mind and relaxed, and you'll…
/r/seduction29/03/21 09:29 PM
1

no doubt, but I guess a man can make up for it in other ways just like you can compensate for lack of height with status, money, lifting, etc.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:38 PM
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that's what i figured... women can reject you for any number of reasons, hair being one of them
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:36 PM
1

This is a great way to get used to talking to girls in a public setting. After you've done this 20-50 times, you'll be ready to start having longer conversations.
/r/seduction28/03/21 10:53 PM
1

Started thinning out in my late teens, noticeable by senior year of college. I wasn't getting laid anyway before that. Shaved my head by 24/25, didn't get properly laid until 27/28 so hard to say if that alone reduced my chances. I'm one of those people who look good bald and have had no trouble in my 30s getting laid. The good thing about being a man is you can overcome deficiencies in one area with other traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 06:32 PM
0

usually i do this in night game not day game, unless it's a social event. much easier to approach mixed groups in a setting where you have some excuse like asking about the band playing, or maybe one of the dudes has a cool shirt or accessory, tonnes of ways to open
/r/seduction25/03/21 07:31 PM
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there's no best answer to this IMO... in general if it's a mixed group of guys + girls I try to game the whole group, and gain acceptance from the guys first. If guys don't want you you will get blocked out quick. If it's only girls I think it's better to initially game them all, then focus on the girl of interest later. you can tell the whole group for example that you lost a bet and have to get rejected and then say something ridiculous. chances are they will have a laugh then you can focus on…
/r/seduction25/03/21 07:11 PM
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yeah it's always good to make pickup fun... too many guys here take it as a chore or something to dread or fear. Cheers!
/r/seduction25/03/21 01:27 PM
1

man i want to know more about this
/r/askTRP25/03/21 01:25 PM
1

damn that's insane! love to see it
/r/askTRP25/03/21 01:24 PM
2

I was similar to you - a bit taller, shaved my head at 25, professionally successful etc. Honestly you have to assess whether it makes sense for you - not all guys can pull off the shaved head look. If you're darker skinned with a round head it can work. If not, you should consider hair transplant and/or finasteride/minoxidil. Lift either way obviously.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 01:23 PM
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Great game... played it years ago in Vegas and found it surprisingly difficult to win lol (not a brag, it just removes all pressure when you do this and ironically raises your state and relaxes you) Another great mental trick is to give your friend 30 bucks and tell him to give you back 5-10 bucks for each approach that you make. Man I was motivated AF to approach till I got my money back
/r/seduction25/03/21 01:09 PM
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Don't pick hobbies just to meet women... that said if your hobbies are all solitary activities that won't help you either Better to just do hobbies that you enjoy and benefit from. If it happens to be one that women do as well then great. If your real goal is simply to have more at-bats to meet women in a social setting, do it separately. Shit like a side gig as a bartender will get you pussy. Otherwise just take 30 mins out of your day and go to a target rich location and open 3 girls per day. …
/r/askTRP24/03/21 06:00 PM
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Dude you cannot let your confidence and self esteem be determined by who messages you. Women have massively inflated egos online from all the simps paying them for feet pic.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 06:33 PM
1

The decision is yours, but if you can save like a motherfucker and invest and retire early it could be worth it No job is perfect... the question is whether you make enough money to tolerate the shittier aspects
/r/askTRP19/03/21 12:46 AM
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this is the key - for most younger folks on here, it really just means not binge drinking every weekend at the club, and prioritizing activities that will raise your SMV
/r/askTRP18/03/21 08:25 PM
1

thanks for the perspective... it seems like i am in box checking mode due to some insecurity about not being able to find someone later in life.
/r/askMRP16/03/21 02:14 AM
1

thanks i appreciate the perspective.
/r/askMRP16/03/21 01:47 AM
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hah i was thinking this exactly
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 01:35 AM
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Ever notice how any pro-woman 'day' or pro woman celebration involves some praise about 'boss girls' and boss bitches and career women? The oligarchy has successfully created a new class of slaves convinced they are 'independent' and 'powerful' while working for peanuts in a shitty job. men created this system, so we know the goal is make money and gtfo.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 01:34 AM
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More likely, the system will pass the cost of background checks on to men - something like men pay a fee to make their background check results accessible to a certain number of women. Or just require men to pass a background check to participate at all. Agreed. And plenty of men will pay for this shit for a chance at that pussy
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 01:31 AM
1

right on!
/r/askTRP15/03/21 11:09 PM
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I'm going to go against the 'just do it pussy!' grain here and suggest a different approach that has generally worked for me, and is more aligned with psychological principles: The key to building a new long term habit is to make it as EASY and as AUTOMATIC as possible. What does that mean? It means: 1) If you're the type of person who's fine once he gets in the gym, then the real struggle is in getting from your house to the gym. That means, you need to eliminate as many conscious decisions as …
/r/askTRP15/03/21 02:12 PM
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after thinking about it a bit more, i do agree there are girls out there who would be ok with no penetrative sex. I read stories of guys with micropenises who have satisfied partners, so I accept that it's possible. just doubt that the majority of girls would be ok with it. ok now i'm done lol
/r/seduction15/03/21 02:17 AM
1

aight we'll agree to disagree then
/r/seduction14/03/21 09:42 PM
1

do you have any real life experience NOT fucking a girl and she being totally satisfied with her sex life? or is this just theory? b/c in my experience girls will give you a few chances but won't stick around too long if her needs aren't being met. WTF you talking about lesbians? ever heard of strap ons? you sound extremely inexperienced / read too much theory, not enough IRL experience
/r/seduction14/03/21 03:48 PM
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i guess, but if a girl isn't having her needs met, she will move on. you don't seem to realize that the vast majority of girls love to get fucked hard every so often. all that sensitive lover stuff is OK as long as you fuck her like a piece of meat every so often
/r/seduction14/03/21 03:46 PM
1

extra chances? sure. but eventually a girl is going to move on if her needs aren't being met
/r/seduction14/03/21 03:44 PM
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sex is way more than just penetration true but idk how many girls would stick around with a guy if he can't plow her pussy well
/r/seduction14/03/21 03:10 AM
2

zinc and Vitamin D supps?
/r/seduction14/03/21 03:10 AM
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dude idk how long girls will stick around if you can't plow their pussy
/r/seduction14/03/21 03:08 AM
2

masturbation WITHOUT porn is OK
/r/seduction14/03/21 03:07 AM
2

Eh I think studying with girls is overrated if you're tryna fuck. unless she's already attracted to you and just wants a plausible excuse to come over to your place to fuck it's not that great. better to hit up parties and do direct game, meet through friends, or just daygame on campus
/r/askTRP13/03/21 08:30 PM
2

Unless the powerpoint ends with a bj, keep her at plate
/r/askTRP12/03/21 07:41 PM
2

right on. people overcomplicate this shit. keep it simple and execute.... don't need to be fancy
/r/seduction12/03/21 01:42 AM
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In general, you should always approach. Whether the girl is alone, with her friend, in a group, whatever, approach. You have to modify your approach a bit, but it's always worth it to try. With groups, there is some debate as to whether you should focus on the girl of interest, or game the whole group. For daygame, it's generally better to just focus on the girl of interest and get her number and bounce, since they're probably trying to do other stuff and not interested in talking to you all day…
/r/seduction11/03/21 04:24 PM
1

you'd have to sample cells from all over the penis as the virus tends to localize in different areas on the skin. both painful/disfiguring and likely a high rate of false negatives. the virus cannot be detected in the blood so no blood test. you'd only know you have it if warts show up
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 04:13 PM
2

prioritizing your own wants and needs is considered hating women apparently lol anything that doesn't place women first is bad basically
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:08 PM
3

I did it at 14 but definitely worth it to have decent looking teeth.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 01:49 PM
1

yes i guess i have major issues with avoiding difficult topics/conversations... but in the end that ends up being worse for all involved
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:43 PM
1

This is an interesting topic... I myself am in an LTR for the past 4-5 years but can't seem to pull the trigger. Obviously she's not happy with the uncertainty. We're also both 'older' (mid 30s). Maybe it's time to let her go
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 01:55 PM
3

You can’t expect to be given any equity in an established business trading on the stock market - you are too late to the party. Clearly you've never worked in tech or biotech
/r/TheRedPill05/03/21 03:49 PM
4

TRP says that if the woman you're in a relationship with doesn't want to have sex with you, it's on you. You can't force a woman to feel in the mood... she either is or she isn't. And if she isn't for one night that's no big deal. If she isn't in the mood repeatedly for weeks then either she has a medical issue, or you're simply not attractive enough in some way (physically, behaviorally, etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 02:56 PM
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IT's a shit test. Respond accordingly What's up with all the reactive dudes on here
/r/askTRP28/02/21 10:09 PM
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A girl who has had one or two drinks only is fine to smash lol forreal most dates i go on involve at least a couple of drinks before i smash Honestly the human race would probably be a lot smaller today without alcohol involved
/r/askTRP28/02/21 06:29 PM
1

IT's a calculated risk. I've banged girls (drunk) who were fine with me putting it in raw... it was definitely a red flag and I should've wrapped it up but didn't have condoms at the time. The risks are low but non zero... you have to judge the situation and respond appropriately.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 05:59 PM
1

YES BUT Don't make it habit to fuck fat chicks or you'll end up lowering your standards permanently. Bust a nut and gtfo. Abundance mentality is always good to have
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:20 PM
10

A lot of things are simple, fast and easy money I'm not defending this shit, but what else comes close to nudes/porn? You need literally 0 in skills or training... just take off your clothes and let a dude plow you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 04:48 PM
1

There's only one thing that matters: does she get your dick hard? If yes, no one else's opinion matters
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 07:28 PM
9

this is good shit... women love doing domestic shit for they mans i think you covered all the main ones.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 08:31 PM
1

From what I've seen, lots of med students meet other med students that they eventually marry. so you have nothing to worry about... stay focused on your studies you'll have opportunities. only issue you may face is that many of them will be beta bucks types so adjust your expectation accordingly if you want to be with another physician
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/21 06:36 PM
1

good point, maybe i've been too passive this entire time
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:13 PM
4

How many holidays/special dates are we talking about? Too many can be exhausting and seen as a waste of time/energy or at least a secondary priority, especially by a man who is busy providing for his family's basic needs and future prosperity. Either way, it sounds like you both have different expectations about it so a frank conversation is needed. Of course it's also possible he has a surprise planned for the end of the day. Wait and see before taking the next step.
/r/RedPillWives14/02/21 08:04 PM
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I’m not divorcing my husband because he didn’t get me a card. I know I’m hurt over this specific situation, right now. That's what I'm addressing - why is this specific thing so hurtful to you, when he is a great guy in all other respects? Is it possible you are simply feeling left out due to all the social media posts by your girlfriends?
/r/RedPillWives14/02/21 07:51 PM
5

Keep in mind that a lot of men see V day as a scam holiday created and maintained by greeting card and chocolate companies as a way to increase their sales. So if it's that important to you you need to be very clear about it. Men express their love every day through their actions. Does he support you financially, help with auto maintenance, yard work, etc.? Helpful to remind yourself of all the ways he demonstrates his love apart from buying flowers and chocolates on a specific day.
/r/RedPillWives14/02/21 07:43 PM
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be attuned to the culture though... yeah you may get some gringo chasing whores to fuck you, but the top tier latinas tend to demand more commitment up front and don't have much tolerance for you fucking other chicks
/r/TheRedPill03/02/21 05:14 AM
6

THis is all good stuff but frankly: So the 80/20 of Modern Game is as follows: Focus on Sub-Communication, not Communication. Old school PUA taught this as well, it's just that modern perception of old school PUA is that it's all about tricks like negging.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/21 05:12 AM
1

if you have to tell her to stop DMing a dude she has already crossed the line the most you should do is check her - like 'so you gonna keep DMing some dude?' if she continues, hard next
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:07 AM
2

can't link to it- just go to the sub
/r/askTRP25/01/21 04:21 PM
1

THe examples on there are pretty fucking hilarious and NOT red pill at all Red pill to them just means any behavior that is rude/mean, misogynist, or just purely weird and ridiculous (the coworker who called that chick up saying he was naked and couldn't move?? WTF?) nothing to see here
/r/askTRP25/01/21 06:00 AM
1

eh preference is preference... if girls are entitled to only date tall muscular dudes then i see no issues with guys preferring younger chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:04 AM
4

yep - ironically enough once you start being more commanding and assertive, it gives her more confidence to embrace her submissive side and be more open. girls enjoy sex much more when they are treated like objects
/r/askTRP21/01/21 09:30 PM
3

but end up with an asshole anyway The reason guys think this is because girls are always complaining about how their bf mistreats or ignores them. A lot of the time, the person they are complaining to is a beta orbiter in the friend zone. So the guy comes away with this impression that she is unhappy but still stays with him and therefore girls are attracted to assholes. What the dude doesn't realize is that 1) women love complaining about their bfs/husbands and tend to exaggerate their faults. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 08:43 PM
12

Bruh you're the man - when it's time to fuck, you need to be telling her what to do and objectifying the fuck out of her If she's just lying her waiting for you, then take command! tell her to suck your dick. then when you're ready to put it in, pick her up and put her in whatever position you want and go to town. if you can't lift her then either do more deadlifts or find a lighter girl lol
/r/askTRP21/01/21 05:13 PM
1

ok i was asking because it seems like 35 is a number a lot of girls in their 20s throw out as an upper limit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 09:48 PM
2

TRP says not to get married, but then you get married and come to trp to ask how to solve problems that trp said you would have? sigh.... fundamentally making threats and ultimatums represents a major loss of frame. her behavior shows she doesn't respect you and your expectations. if you weren't married, you would just walk away - that's your ultimate power. Now you can't walk away without divorce. so what do you do? if you plan to stay married, then all you can do is make your boundaries very c…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:42 PM
1

fair enough i tend to not say something is 'strange' unless it's a conscious decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:51 PM
1

well that's one way men are different from women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:19 PM
1

most definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:54 AM
1

i totally believe it i'm just saying that that level of wealth is top 1% easily... we only see the success stories and ignore the failures. but there are many more failures than successes. still worth it to try but gotta keep the odds in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:24 AM
1

gotcha makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:09 AM
2

nice... but still not easy to do or widespread. most software engineering jobs pay well but those levels... more like 80-120k. Those types of jobs are top 5% I would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:08 AM
1

at what age though? hard to make $200k at 22 unless you're working as an engineer at FAANG. at 30 or older certainly easier as you'll be more senior. $200k in the bay is like $100k in the midwest
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:11 AM
1

can't answer that one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:56 AM
1

Ime, it's usually creepy men who are unsuccessful with women their own age, sure, but what about successful men who just find 21-25 year old girls the most attractive? What if those men don't want to be with women their own age
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:56 AM
1

at the end of the day male attractiveness is additive - the combination of looks, height, muscularity, hair, wealth, status, etc. differs from woman to woman what she considers more important. but men can compensate for deficiencies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:55 AM
1

so impossible to have a non-transactional relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:53 AM
1

is life experience attractive to women? i've seen some evidence of this but never was sure about it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:52 AM
1

always the possibility that a post is made up but in that case i do believe him because he said he's 6'2", professional successful, plays volleyball well, performs in a band, etc. in a large city - assuming all of that is true it's not hard to see him hooking up with younger women. it may not be the norm for 21 yo girls to fuck 50 year old men, but there are enough of them out there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:50 AM
1

dude you're the guy i'm talking about lol... always been sexually successful and good looking, and maintained his looks into later years. 6'2" and good shape at 40 puts you into the top 10% for sure With that said I'm sure if I tried to chase young girls on OLD I would strike out. Good point where do you meet girls now? Personally I don't think there is a shortage of girls in their "not interested in a LTR"/hookup phase that have a list of things they want to sexually try including an older guy.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:48 AM
1

good points - i suspect one of the natural barriers is that older men have much fewer opportunities to meet younger women in social settings. if it happened more often more older men would be banging them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:46 AM
1

fair point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:45 AM
1

i've always wondered about the maturity/life experience argument. Do women find that attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:45 AM
1

i acknowledge the role of wealth / status here as well
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:44 AM
1

good arguments - the problem is that careermaxxing is not guaranteed to make you ultra rich. so is it a good 'risk adjusted' strategy for a guys in his 20s to just focus on getting uber wealthy with a long shot startup? If you instead go with a safer route like STEM, medicine, law, consulting, finance, etc. it could take a while to get wealthy and lots of long hours and stress which will wreck your looks. I'll modify my original statement: the only 40+ guys getting laid with <25 yo girls are guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:43 AM
1

ah yes SPAC man chamath that dude upgraded his wife first chance he got lol - unfortunately even if you make 200k+ in the bay area you're still fairly middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:35 AM
1

yep fair points - a man's SMV might be low in his 20s because he hasn't got his shit together. But then when he prioritizes, and starts lifting, eating right, making more money, etc. his overall SMV rises and can be higher than other guys the same age who didn't do those things
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:33 AM
1

fair points - personally i've never felt that only 18 yos are attractive, i think there are attractive women at ages 18-35, sometimes beyond too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:32 AM
1

interesting you're one of the only enthusiastic "yes" replies in this thread lol. It’s kinda a red flag if women his own age don’t fw him. Unless he's the one rejecting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:30 AM
0

thanks but didn't ask for moralizing or judgment - simply what is and is not probable. i don't give a shit what society at large thinks or that media portrays older guys with younger women as creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:29 AM
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Two of the young guys in my gym (early 20s, okay faces, great physiques) that I catch up with are in FWB with yummy mommys in the 36-38 bracket. 40 yr old dudes have to compete with them and its going to be less in fun and more in resources to make the switch. interesting... i'd have though that the jacked early 20s guys would be banging early 20s ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:26 AM
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fair enough... but IMO dating single mothers is backup plan at best even if some of them are hot. she will always be trying to suck you into the provider role
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:23 AM
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men have always found younger women the most attractive... it's not an intellectual decision
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:22 AM
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true that's actually a great point - most older guys don't have a lot of opportunities to meet younger women in a social setting. even if you only bat 1%, if you get enough at-bats you'll hit the ball eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:21 AM
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men pay for sex and relationships one way or another... it may not be the norm but there are definitely older dudes banging younger women without an explicit sugar type relationship if he's kept himself in shape and doing well professionally
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:19 AM
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why is 35 the limit?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:17 AM
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you haven't met many koreans ... met many who look 10-15 years younger than their age
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:17 AM
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purely in terms of looks yes but i suppose guys can get their shit together and lift, lost fat, make money, etc. become a more attractive overall package
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:17 AM
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most men look absolutely horrendous by now are 40+ men on tinder single though? or married guys looking for affairs? i do agree though that many guys simply let themselves go after 30... most never learn how to eat right, how to lift, build good habits, cook healthy food, etc. women will always have the upper hand in OLD just because men are thirsty
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:13 AM
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and women think men have inflated egos
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:10 AM
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yep women of all types can get laid more easily than men. what's new lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:09 AM
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what's strange about it? men have always been attracted to younger women, for a variety of reasons. it's not an intellectual decision
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:08 AM
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35 is my limit just out of curiosity why is it your limit?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:07 AM
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this is a good point - male attractiveness is multidimensional so a guy who was not able to get laid regularly in his teens/20s could compensate for his earlier weaknesses by lifting, making money, etc. and have a higher SMV in his 30s, maybe 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:06 AM
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appreciate your personal take but female sexual preference seems to have a much broader distribution than male preferences from the data i've seen. so your personal opinion may not be widely applicable... and your 'sample' is both biased and likely to small to matter
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:03 AM
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people always look a little 'off' after botox like you can tell there's something not quite right. Or maybe those are just the bad ones you notice and the good ones are invisible
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:00 AM
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Good points generally - but the hidden implication of my post is that if a man knows he is unlikely to go to pussy nirvana in his 40s, how will it affect his decisions in his 20s? Will he still focus 100% on career, money, etc. and spin plates? Or would he try to settle down and get married earlier?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 03:58 AM
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Asian guy here. I feel blessed being close to 40 and not looking a day over 30. I have a friend who I met when he was 38 and looked more like 30... similar to you a Korean physician. Asian don't raisin is real Which region are you in (bay area, NE, midwest, etc.)? how are you meeting the women you sleep with generally?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 03:52 AM
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isn't role playing adopting a different persona by definition? or at least exploring a different aspect of your persona that is not usually visible. just like how you can be dominant, you can also be submissive and 'virgin-like'. doesn't seem all that different to me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 10:39 PM
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OP's question is about doing it one time, not every time. Role playing once in a while is pretty normal to add some variety to one's sex life some women have domination fantasies for example
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 10:16 PM
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finally a job where the key qualification is being bad at something!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 09:53 PM
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the kink is about being a stereotypical virgin - shy, uncertain, submissive, and looking for guidance, being tentative about giving a blowjob, a little nervous/scared when he's about to put it in - shit like that. plenty of examples of this in porn. it's not about how YOU were specifically as a virgin. fantasies don't need to be realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 09:51 PM
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and i thought i was good at detecting internet sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 09:48 PM
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is there any fetish or kink that isn't weird to someone? rape fantasies are FAR more weird IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 09:41 PM
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Irrelevant - the species as a whole is doing just fine. We've hit what 7-8 billion population? We're the dominant species on the planet. We have so much power we can literally cause the climate to change, travel in space, and manipulate atoms. Bums producing bums is at the left tail of the distribution
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 09:25 PM
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Frame is one of the most important, and one of the most poorly understood and difficult concepts to actualize.
/r/seduction10/01/21 06:56 PM
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RSD Julien got publicly shamed and canceled for grabbing girls on the street, but a lot of the stuff he said in the earlier days is still gold One thing that really stuck with me: "game is the only time when you're truly free". think about it. when you're in a job, you have to behave according to company norms or you'll get fired. when you're around family you have to behave or get ostracized. but when you're in the club having fun, you can say and do all sorts of crazy shit and girls will love …
/r/seduction09/01/21 06:36 AM
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In public there's not much you can do... best to walk away if you insult her, grab her, or hit her back, you could get 'white knighted' and ultimately arrested take the ego hit and walk away
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:31 AM
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A provider for whom? No man would be very motivated to provide for a washed up slut with a thousand cock stare Depends who you're providing for
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 10:39 PM
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In general - yeah of course. If I pick a random 50 year and a random 25 year old, odds are the 25 year old will be more attractive. Also an hot 25 year old will be more attractive than a hot 50 year old. Of course it's also possible that a fit 50 year old is more attractive than a slob 25 year old but no one cares about that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 06:28 PM
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don't eat fish or meat so algae oil is the best alternative to fish oil. flax is decent but doesn't have enough ALA (IIRC)
/r/askTRP07/01/21 04:57 AM
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1) You have to see how much of that is elemental zinc. Last I checked I think 30 mg was the upper limit recommended of elemental zinc. I prefer generally to start low and increase slowly if I don't feel any change. 2) I prefer to take zinc and mg on alternating days. I read somewhere they can interfere with each other. 3) no idea about solgar. I just get grocery store/pharmacy mg citrate and Sports Reserach zinc pico/glucon 4) I just get 2000IU grocery store/pharmacy brand in softgels 5&6) I don…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 02:05 AM
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yep although women are pretty good at stroking male egos in order to keep the fantasy alive which is why the whole bluepill fantasy continues to exist. if women said what they really thought of their beta husbands society would break down
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 05:58 PM
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right but from an evolutionary perspective, the only thing that matters is whose genes are getting passed forward. that's why the dual dating strategy exists - fuck alphas, settle down with betas. as long as the beta's kid is actually his, he wins in evolutionary terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 09:04 PM
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it's a mix - plenty of women nowadays do have kids with high earning betas. it's not all dumb alpha criminals passing on their genes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 08:37 PM
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I don't know your or your circumstances so no idea how many you'll need to approach to get laid. But if you're a fairly average dude who lifts, has decent nutrition, not obese, has some friends and doing OK in life generally, then it won't take that much work. For me it was a combination of online dating (there are guides on how to improve your odds), night game in clubs/bars, and day game.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 08:08 PM
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I don't know you or your circumstances so can't comment further.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 08:06 PM
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evolution and natural selection have no goal other than reproduction and propagation of the species by ensuring that the best genes for the current environment are passed forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 08:05 PM
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unfortunately this brutal sexual selection is what makes our species as a whole prosper.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 04:32 AM
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you're free to live your life the way you want but man, i seriously cannot understand this mindset. I realized about ~10 years ago that seduction was partly a numbers game but honestly I enjoyed going out and approaching tonnes of women. Why? Because it was fun and I was outcome independent. If a girl didn't want me, cool, I'll go talk to someone else. Never took it personally. Frankly though you don't need to approach 100 to get laid. Maybe more like 10-15 unless you're really a hardcare newbie…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 04:19 AM
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yeah totally agree - commitment from a low value dude means very little to her. but value is also subjective depending on what she thinks she can get or what she 'deserves'
/r/askTRP04/01/21 10:00 PM
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ex ante what are the odds of your marriage succeeding? and even if it succeeds, what's your quality of life vs staying single? there is nothing beneficial about marriage for men except the possibility to have kids. but you can have kids without marriage too, even though it's not the norm
/r/askTRP04/01/21 09:47 PM
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seriously? that's a pretty fucking shitty reason
/r/askTRP04/01/21 09:45 PM
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some women are fine not being officially married, but the real reason is that women are always comparing themselves to their friends and to society. They feel left behind if a man doesn't get down on one knee and put a ring on it while all their friends are getting locked down. they want that stupid IG post showing off their rock. plus remember men are the gatekeepers of commitment so giving your commitment to her is the holy grail for her.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 09:45 PM
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When you don’t live with your partner, the distance creates natural desire and dread— this doesn’t happen in marriages. this is why i love my job which involves a good amount of international travel. natural way to maintain some distance
/r/askTRP04/01/21 09:43 PM
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You can do whatever you want, but the point of the advice here on TRP is that ex-ante the risks outweigh the benefits for men in western feminized societies. Actually marriage is also pretty shitty in non-western countries... in many asian countries the husband works 90 hours a week and hands over his paycheck to his wife. And this is not even considering cheating, cucking, and asset seizure possibilities. The only reason I can see to get married is to raise children in a stable environment. Tha…
/r/askTRP04/01/21 09:41 PM
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yeah but this is also how bad habits and advice gets propagated... sometimes a shitty routine will work for a guy because he has good genetics I prefer to try things for myself and listen to what works for non-elite athletes and natty guys from great coaches who have found what works for a large # of people
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 12:03 AM
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Tinder is a shithole particularly if you're over 30 or in a small town The types of girls who wouldn't swipe right on me on TInder will gladly give me her number and fuck me IRL. Real life seduction/approaching is far better for most guys, as you have natural 'filters' working for you that immediately raise your value
/r/askTRP02/01/21 10:26 PM
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aight fair enough but my point is still that just because a routine works for one guy doesn't mean it's a good routine
/r/TheRedPill02/01/21 09:33 PM
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Have to disagree here. IMO bodyweight is useless as a PRIMARY method for building real strength and size, especially for lower body. It's OK to do a few weighted bodyweight movements like weighted pull ups, weighted dips, etc, or if you have no other option like all gyms closed and you can't buy a barbell. Also OK if you're bored of your gym routine and want to mix it up for a few weeks. But no way in hell I would do bodyweight as my primary training method (have tried before, got shitty results…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/21 04:22 AM
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Can we please start having people post credentials before posting yet another thread with lifting advice? nah that's a dumb approach imo. just because some big guy at the gym does a shitty bro split doesn't mean you should too. better to judge lifting advice by 3 methods: 1) Does it align with what good coaches have said? 2) Does it align with my goals (pure strength vs hypertrophy vs endurance, etc.)? 3) If you're not happy with your current routine, then try it out and see if it helps. If not …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/21 04:18 AM
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and?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:15 PM
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that's not what we're talking about. i'm asking how you know that DARE is bad for marriages vs DEER. if you have no first hand experience with one or the other than you really can't comment
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 08:47 PM
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so what then? you tried DARE and it killed your marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 08:07 AM
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Buuuut this isn’t that. having only heard one side from that post i prefer to reserve judgement. would be interesting to see what the wife thinks (assuming it's all true in the first place)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 08:07 AM
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according to marriedrp DARE saves marriages while DEER kills them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 09:15 PM
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The problem with these types of posts is that 1) you are selecting which pieces of advice to focus on and not considering the full spectrum of marriage advice on marriedrp, 2) there is a wide spectrum of advice from the dark triad/borderline abusive stuff to fairly tame stuff like "DARE don't DEER", and 3) every individual seeking advice takes away something different - some may just want the mindset shift that "DARE don't DEER" offers while others may find the conditioning and control shit reso…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 04:02 AM
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tinder is shit in the US
/r/askTRP29/12/20 02:29 AM
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Great thread - following
/r/askTRP28/12/20 12:03 AM
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great stuff. daygame is the way to go for older guys especially
/r/askTRP28/12/20 12:03 AM
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i'm not talking about that specifically. Women seem to assume that if they don't do something, or don't see something in their lives, then it doesn't exist or even can't exist or happen. It's solipsism at its best. We all live in bubbles and are blind to our own limiting assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 12:01 AM
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Still wrong - in the past, men held other men in check even if male faults on the whole weren't discussed at a society level
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 08:01 PM
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interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 08:00 PM
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ok i won't argue with that. my point was simply that many animals out there are far stronger and tougher than humans and that has never been our main advantage as a species
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 03:53 AM
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keep fucking her and spin more plates
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:29 AM
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Loss of physical sexual dimorphic practical relevance in nowaday's climate does not erase the mental predisposition toward it that's been reinforced for millennia. that's right... it's somewhat irrational since we no longer live in hunter gatherer tribes but so hardwired within us that it drives sexual selection to a large degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 02:17 AM
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standard female responses to everything: "I've never seen that" "I've never done that" "I have lots of female friends who've never done that" What a load of bull lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 11:15 PM
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i would just find it weird to stick my dick in her if i know my homie's dick had been there a week ago lol. irrational I know
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 11:14 PM
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Well done missing the entire point of the post you referenced. Men's faults are constantly discussed in the public sphere - everyone is aware of them and most men are absolutely capable of admitting to them. Just look in TRP where that is literally half of the discussion - identifying your faults and overcoming them. Similarly, there is no social barrier to criticizing men or generalizing about male faults ("men are pigs", etc.). Your question makes no sense and is clearly done in bad faith simp…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 11:13 PM
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Lack of abundance is your key problem. Game this girl, sure, but keep creating opportunities with other girls as well. That'll stop you from putting her on a pedestal
/r/askTRP26/12/20 10:39 PM
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I think 'design' in terms of physical features and strength is largely irrelevant. Humans have become the dominant species on the planet because of the human brain, and our ability to work cooperatively, learn skills, and make and use tools to enhance our abilities. Even the strongest man on the planet would lose in a wrestling match with a silverback gorilla. Hell, even a chimpanzee could tear the limbs off a stronger than average human. Without tools, weapons, and cooperation/teamwork, humans …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 10:35 PM
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yep this is true.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 08:30 PM
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If you have a fear of being seen as 'weird' or 'creepy' you will never have success in the game. If you want to fuck women through cold approach, you have to understand that is fundamentally seen as aberrant behavior by society at large. Therefore, you have to be completely shameless about it and play like you have nothing to lose. In any case if you feel uncomfortable stopping women on the street, you can always start in a grocery store or other location where women are not walking to a destina…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 08:13 PM
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I haven't observed any obsession but having a fucked a few myself I can see the appeal. Less bullshit to deal with is the main reason. If a fit 21 year old and MILF were both ready to fuck though, obviously I'd go with the 21yo
/r/askTRP26/12/20 08:04 PM
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Hypertrophy focus with the same focus on the main lifts I really feel is the key. exactly right... most guys would be much happier with their results not following a pure barbell powerlifting routine WHere I've found machines most useful are for leg extensions, leg curls, lat rows, and cable stuff. do enough high effort reps and i'm completely toasted at the end of the session. they are great in combination with barbell and dumbbell lifts
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 06:51 PM
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Software nowadays does magic on photos Just look at China livestreamers they deceive like nobody else. Search for "live streamers use scary makeup" on youtube to see how far they go
/r/askTRP24/12/20 04:21 AM
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lol congrats not sure what there is to be negative about? some girls can't swallow a dick or have a bad reaction to cum big deal
/r/askTRP23/12/20 08:39 PM
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been hearing about jeff nippard i'll check him out
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 06:16 PM
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i was being provocative lol but yeah deadlifts are OK if programmed correctly. For hypertrophy, RDLs are best as they have a faster recovery curve
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 05:12 AM
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yeah i'd recommend it if you can afford it. the bald look doesn't work so well for girls in the 18-22 range IMO.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 07:37 PM
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My recommendation as someone who shaved his head at 25: If you're under 25 I'd recommend doing a hair transplant and/or minoxidil/finasteride under medical supervision. If you're over 25 just shave it off and rock a beard. Obviously lift either way.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 07:14 PM
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this one is solid to start with: https://www.t-nation.com/workouts/push-pull-legs-the-ultimate-split you can modify as needed to suit your needs. Some people do 6 days a week but i find 4 days is better for busy people
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 03:28 AM
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people are really getting hung up on small details and missing the overall message.... simply to be clear about your goals and choose a training method that gets you there best
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 03:26 AM
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partly, but more because picking up heavy shit from a dead stop is taxing on the CNS.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 03:25 AM
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why does it have to be one or the other? stop twisting my words... i'm not anti strength at all. you can hit the big lifts and do accessory work as needed to meet your goals.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 03:25 AM
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PPL is my go to. You can modify it to do squats and deadlifts, plus hit chest, triceps, biceps, back, shoulders, etc.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 12:48 AM
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by eat big i mean maybe 20% over your TDEE with high protein and clean carbs, not tonnes of bacon and grease. i agree there is absolutely no need to get massively fat in order to build strength.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 12:48 AM
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of course... the goal is more weight for more reps over time. shit is not complicated
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 12:46 AM
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you're right that you don't need more than 1.6 g/kg for muscle growth, but higher protein still has benefits due to the thermic effect (only 3.2 kcal/g absorbed out of 4 kcal/g available) and satiety. in particular higher protein is helpful during a cut to stave off hunger and retain muscle.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 12:45 AM
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that's fine but ultimately resistance is resistance, doesn't matter if it comes from a barbell, dumbbell, cable, or machine. and cables and machines can help you target lagging muscles and hit each muscle harder in the shortened or lengthened range (different force curves) giving you better overall development. THis has been known by bodybuilders for decades.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 12:44 AM
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do whatever you want just be honest about your goals and choose the best method to achieve that. that's the point of my post.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 12:40 AM
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i'm well aware that hypertrophy is more than just rep ranges, which is why i also talked about mechanical tension, going to failure, and volume vs junk volume and also linked to articles paul carter has written about hypertrophy. he and nuckols are on the same page about it for the most part
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 12:39 AM
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strength is great, but you're right girls don't give a fuck about your deadlift numbers if you don't look like you lift
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 12:38 AM
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do you know how to read? i never said not to do the big 3 lifts. I said they're not optimal for hypertrophy and there are better variants. Read this: https://archive.is/xN77b
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 08:42 PM
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this is good shit thibs definitely knows a thing or two about lifting
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 08:37 PM
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a hybrid approach is good for most guys who are not seeking to compete in PL or BB
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 08:37 PM
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my preference is a hybrid approach - i'm against all or nothing thinking and the 'barbell cult'. You can do heavy compounds, and you can mix in cables, machines, and dumbbells to hit specific muscle groups. The big 3 powerlifts were never intended as efficient muscle builders - they are the best ways to move heavy weights with maximum leverage. If that's your goal - great. But if you just want to be bigger and stronger, they are not required all the time. Not my opinion, plenty of established co…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 08:36 PM
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i was saying that sumo deadlifts are shit for hypertrophy... RDLs are much better. Was being deliberately provocative by saying 'deadlifts are ego lifts' lol
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 08:33 PM
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absolutely - but the key is only do a couple of really hard failure sets per exercise. more than that and you'll kill your gains with excess cortisol and long recovery times. most of us underestimate what our true failure point is.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 08:28 PM
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I generally agree but my point is that you don't have to do squats all the time - some people don't get as much out of squats because of their hip structure and mobility limitations. It has nothing to do with whether squats are hard or not. I do high bar squats regularly but frankly my gains have improved when I started doing heavy leg presses and extensions as well
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 08:25 PM
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Lifting for me is more than building muscles to impress chicks. Good for you but not everyone has the same goals. Some people want to look like they lift and pure powerlifting routines are not the best way to get there. My point is that dumbbells, machines, and cables can have a place alongside the compound lifts to target specific muscles for hypertrophy. The iron teaches you many things and one of them is to attack your weaknesses. Within reason, but some people simply don't have the hip struc…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 08:21 PM
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this is generally what i do with a 3-8 rep range for compounds like squats and deadlifts
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 08:14 PM
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bodyweight isn't enough - get some heavy bands from rogue fitness and a door anchor and do resistance band workouts. eat high protein. maybe get some heavy soil/mulch/concrete mix bags to do makeshit deadlifts. go hard for 60 mins 4-5 times a week
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 08:13 PM
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yep exactly... sumos do very little for hypertrophy but they're great in PL competitions
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 08:03 PM
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that's the sweet spot for me as well... a hybrid of compound barbell lifts + machine, dumbbell, and cable work to target specific muscles
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 08:01 PM
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I was being provocative with that statement - for the record I have nothing against deadlifts or any lifting style/routine. I do RDLs regularly. My point was to be clear about your lifting goals and recognize that some lifts may be better for your goals than others. Obviously if you lift more weight for more reps over time you will be bigger and stronger, which is what we all want. Different paths
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 07:54 PM
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That was my main point - that guys with great leverages can put up big sumo numbers. I have nothing against deadlifts and do RDLs regularly. But everyone should be clear about what they want to get out of it. Conventional DLs have a long recovery curve
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 07:52 PM
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I was being provocative with that one - but you missed my main point. Deadlifts are heavily influenced by leverages particularly sumo deadlifts. Plenty of dudes who don't look like they lift have big sumo numbers. Conventional is better. For hypertrophy, romanians are my preference. I do RDLs regularly for the record.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 07:51 PM
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Ultimately if you lift more weight for more reps over time you'll be bigger and stronger which is what I said. But the same methods don't work equally well for everyone - my post provides an alternative to people who aren't happy with progress on a pure powerlifting routine. 5/3/1 BBB is a fine routine
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 07:46 PM
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absolutely - i went through the same realization and process. it's pretty great not being tied to a barbell for every single movement
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 08:35 AM
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to be clear i'm not saying you shouldn't squat - just recognize if you have limitations and don't be afraid to find other movements that hit your quads and glutes better
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 07:28 AM
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good discussion here: https://archive.is/3NH9U
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 07:26 AM
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hadn't read his stuff before but will check him out thanks
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 07:18 AM
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Shave it off and lift
/r/askTRP20/12/20 06:45 AM
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lol @ 'asexual' she just doesn't want to fuck YOU you been lifting?
/r/askTRP20/12/20 06:35 AM
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straight to the point
/r/askTRP20/12/20 06:35 AM
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yeah this'll definitely be an ego boost for most men
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/20 05:49 AM
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this is good shit. yes ladder is to be used sparingly to build up compliance. it's subtle, but effective BTW been a while since i've seen girlschase mentioned! dude had great content back in the day
/r/seduction18/12/20 10:23 PM
3

Just be enthusiastic and make your boss look good. That's it.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:12 PM
1

obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:06 PM
1

lol good for you but clearly you haven't been in a toxic relationship before... if you had you would realize that no relationship is FAR better than being in a bad one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 09:55 PM
1

right TRP orthodoxy says not to get married so everything i'm saying is outside of that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 06:47 AM
1

what does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:30 AM
4

i think the best way to not end up lonely is to first be OK with being alone, then only accept someone into your life if he/she adds to it. There are no guarantees in life. If getting married and having kids is your 'hedge' against future loneliness, then have at it. But I don't think the odds are really that great.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:30 AM
1

indeed, yet you'll see western women get irrationally angry when men do this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:28 AM
-1

I'm talking about western women who are angry that men can go to a developing country to find a woman who is more traditionally feminine and attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 07:50 PM
-4

the cringe is entirely because western women know that men aren't stupid and hate that they can't compete
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 07:40 PM
-2

not saying it's saintly just that there's a clear exchange of value there. it's not entirely one sided
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 07:39 PM
4

shave it off and lift. or get hair transplant + rogaine
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 07:35 PM
-1

except they do. keep living in your fantasy bubble
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 07:29 PM
0

Literally no girls in their early 20s wants a man in their 30s lol. reality is a bitch isn't it? wake up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 07:23 PM
-5

unless he goes the cringe route of getting a girl from a less developed country. nothing makes an entitled western woman more angry than a man who uses his relatively higher value to snag a young and pleasant girl from a developing country, thereby giving her a better life and possibly enabling her family to be more secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 07:21 PM
0

much less bullshit to deal with and you can 'train' her to be the way you prefer (not really my preference but that's the thinking)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 07:20 PM
13

Someone who can't get anything better than casual sex by age 45 didn't exactly succeed at life. unless casual sex is all you want. EDIT: Also you think that getting married at 25 magically guarantees that you won't be alone and miserable at 50? doesn't work that way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 07:18 PM
1

yeah but no one is saying to do that. the issue here is that women call some men creepy for doing basic shit like even cold approaching her in the day time, or saying sexual shit to her
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 07:03 PM
7

yeah good catch... i meant 'inexperienced'
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 05:27 AM
85

A better strategy, would be to talk about how sex-positive you are and how much it doesn’t bother you that girls are making onlyfans. Absolutely - never come across judgey. When I'm evaluating a girl, I always bring up how much I love 'experienced' girls and how they must've fucked at least 50 guys. When she says "No I only slept with 5 guys" or something similar I feign shock and disqualify her for being too experienced. THEN the truth slowly starts to come out about vacations in Aruba, that on…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/20 09:29 PM
3

lol yeah if you having tissue rotting inside you that's called necrosis
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 07:02 AM
1

yes your highness, right away
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 07:01 AM
3

well yeah everyone does eventually... it exists on a spectrum/curve. the curve for men is shifted far more to the right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 07:00 AM
22

The sperm rots Yes very scientific lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 11:48 PM
22

this is not even close to true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 10:35 PM
-2

hair loss has little impact on male attractiveness, if managed correctly, and if the man is otherwise attractive. there are some men (myself included) who surprisingly look better without hair than with it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 10:33 PM
1

I disagree on multiple counts The major incorrect assumption is that women judge male attractiveness the same way men judge female attractiveness. Men are way more visually oriented than women, and in particular, oriented towards indicators of youth. Male attractiveness is more of a package deal including not just physical features, but also 'mental' features and indicators of wealth and status. Of course, all this doesn't apply to the 'average' man who lets himself go, drinks beer all the time,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 10:32 PM
2

because people are lazy and think their situation is special/unique
/r/askTRP14/12/20 07:11 PM
2

Sure but you're not doing it for them. That said, there are definitely tradeoffs earlier in life. While you're hitting the gym and making money, others might be out partying and getting laid. Social status and 'social IQ' are all you need to get laid sometimes. But you're playing the long game to come out ahead later
/r/askTRP13/12/20 08:05 PM
13

Shit testing. it's almost a part of female dna
/r/askTRP13/12/20 02:28 AM
1

haha it can happen if both people are willing to listen to each other and not create strawman arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 10:40 PM
2

Because we all do shit that doesn't align with what will really make us happy in the future With men it's all about video games, drug, and alcohol
/r/askTRP12/12/20 12:15 AM
1

Well said I totally agree that a woman doesn't need to dumb herself down to boost her man's ego - it's really about being a good partner, not being a dick, and not letting your ego dominate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 11:48 PM
1

on the second point it's not about never challenging their man's intellect. Of course they challenge when needed. It's more about keeping your own ego in check and being a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 10:13 PM
4

First off, I agree that there are more educated women than educated men these days. But I think the 'feel good stories' are analogous to how men make up stories as to why women won't date them like women don't see how great of a guy they are, women are intimidated by their intelligence, etc. And by telling ourselves these stories we don't feel the need to confront our deficiencies and correct them, even if it means taking our ego down a notch. So if an educated woman is unable to attract a man o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 10:09 PM
3

I could sit here and complain about how all of the genuinely intelligent men don’t want to date their “brains match" There is no such thing - it's just a way to rationalize away a feeling of failure or a feel good message to oneself. The issue that I've seen with educated women is that they are typically 'low EQ' and unable to express any feminine traits or dress in a feminine way. Some are also too wrapped up in intellectual pursuits and don't put enough effort into a relationship. Female brain…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 09:05 PM
12

Cognitive dissonance They want to live up to their self-image of being a strong, independent woman, while also fulfilling basic instincts towards nurturing, caring for their man, etc.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 08:53 PM
12

Nothing revolutionary here - just back to basics. The two things that stood out: 1) High social intelligence - simply introducing yourself to women regularly with no agenda, and having a good circle of friends is enough to get laid. Seriously. I mean I love cold approach and all, but you don't have to do anything complicated. 2) Lift/workout - getting in good shape will improve everything else. Do it.
/r/seduction11/12/20 07:54 PM
1

Making ultimatums is a total loss of frame
/r/askTRP09/12/20 07:27 PM
12

If a hypothetical US Civil war started today, guns and capable UW guerrilla warfare will win the conflict. Which means conservatives would crush the opposition. THIs is just stupid - who would be on each side of a US civil war and what would the conflict even be about? The country is too lazy, fat, and diabetic to take up arms against each other. THe vast majority of firearms are owned by a small minority of people and faux militias. Hardcore conservative areas are also the most unhealthy and ov…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 10:48 PM
1

lol we can agree on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 06:37 PM
-1

same - but my point is that we wouldn't get turned on to the same extent by western women's breasts either if they walked around topless all day everywhere. it's simply a matter of perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 06:29 PM
-3

this is completely pointless post. i don't know when you started modding but this sub used to be practical advice for men (and women) to get laid and improve their lives generally. Used to filled with field reports from people actually going out and taking action. How does this over analytical/keyboard warrior crap get 3000+ upvotes? Hope it's just a casualty of covid lockdowns
/r/seduction08/12/20 05:46 PM
1

This is what passes for 'fundamentals' now? No wonder gen z is getting laid much less than every other generation
/r/seduction08/12/20 05:44 PM
2

What you're missing is that attractiveness includes the act of approaching and courting a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 05:31 PM
4

creating unwanted images in people's minds
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 10:38 PM
5

because it could be fake like an ice cream truck driven around by pedophiles
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:28 PM
20

Probably yes. If women walked around topless all day long we men would eventually become desensitized to them. You don't see African tribesmen popping boners when they're around topless women all day do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 08:25 PM
0

Does no one read the sidebar material, or any of the PUA books out there? Mystery Method talked about this 10+ years ago: "Beautiful women are never alone, always in groups". There are strategies to deal with women with groups because frankly it's the rule, not the exception unless you're daygaming. Get a pdf of MM or a more recent version "Magic Bullets" by Savoy for a good grounding in how to handle this.
/r/seduction07/12/20 04:55 PM
3

You know the easiest way to start practicing this skill and mindset? Start by saying no to people. Don't apologize for it, just say no. For example, if your gf asks you to do something, say no can't do that now, will do it later. Or if a customer makes an unreasonable request, say no it can't be done, but here's an alternative solution. Baby steps! Being able to say no without being an asshole is a very underrated skill, particularly if you're in a corporate/white collar environment.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 02:43 AM
3

Fat girls with low self esteem tend to be nicer with less bullshit. They also give great blowjobs But there are plenty of fat girls who think they're 9s because attractive men keep fucking them. Watch out for these because their egos are crazy inflated
/r/askTRP04/12/20 07:32 PM
1

You're just being pedantic. The message has always been clear: we have a biological imperative as a species to procreate. It is not about individual decisions or happiness and what some individuals may choose to do. The imperative arises from the makeup of our biological systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 05:47 PM
2

yeah it's all about how you manage it. it can become a time waste and energy drain if you spend too much time on it
/r/askTRP01/12/20 06:31 PM
3

so is there a problem or not? your comment is very unclear
/r/RedPillWives01/12/20 05:03 PM
8

yes it does. not having facebook or IG or snapchat still matters to a lot of girls in the west
/r/askTRP01/12/20 05:00 PM
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let's get real - you can't deviate too far from societal norms otherwise you will be seen as weird. unfortunately, social media nowadays is seen as an essential part of life. girls use it to gauge if a guy is real or not (stupid I know but it is what it is) So if you're going to dig your heels in and start lecturing about how bad SM is, etc. it's not going to work in your favor. Just say you don't think it adds any value to your life and leave it at that. ANd find girls who don't care. Many will…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 04:09 PM
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Make no mistake: free and easy access to unlimited porn of every variety is fucking up men like crazy. It absolutely does create unrealistic expectations, and also reduces penile sensitivity due to deathgrip from over-jerking it. Frankly, your bf needs to get control of himself. It's not all on the woman to provide a superior alternative to porn for her man. If you're holding up your end of the relationship (initiate blowjobs, initiate sex, stay in shape and healthy, etc.) then he needs to as we…
/r/RedPillWives01/12/20 01:58 AM
1

I've heard a guy say he switched his major from computer science to something else solely because he believed that having "nerdy" interest and career would ruin his dating success. He doesn't have genuine interest in his new major, but apparently to him it's probably worth it. Wow that's pretty myopic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 04:34 PM
1

fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 03:40 PM
1

realistically yes I have to agree mostly. Women will always have options because men want to fuck. However, women will not be able to lock down a high value man. Sure they can keep getting pumped and dumped by dudes, but anything beyond that? Forget it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 05:16 AM
1

they considered getting fucked by another dude OK because it's the penis' nature to penetrate. but to eat a pussy? considered a bad deed
/r/askTRP30/11/20 05:10 AM
1

I definitely see two camps on this: women who hate any type of approach by strangers during the day, and women who love it. Doesn't seem to be much in-between. I suspect it depends on the woman's personality and whether she's been cat-called a lot in the past or otherwise harassed and followed on the street. I've had women tell me after asking her out on the street that they never thought they would actually like being approached on the street. When a guy approaches in an authentic, confident, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 03:44 AM
1

i think location is your main problem. someone like you will slay in other parts of the country, or even the world. i've been on dating apps in small midwestern cities and you're bang on
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 03:41 AM
1

The thing is, there’s not really much opportunity due to the pandemic. It definitely creates for a frustrating environment right now. even nowadays you can approach women in a day game setting. obviously you need to wear a mask and keep 6-10 ft distance, but women are particularly lonely and horny at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 03:40 AM
13

exactly. people who rely on the profession to get laid need a wake up call
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 05:30 AM
5

you're relying too much on your profession which only telegraphs to women that you can pay for their expensive lifestyle. Also small to mid sized midwestern cities are mostly shit for dating. Are you Indian? Do you lift?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 05:29 AM
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and just ask women here how they feel about men cold approaching them, they do NOt like it, again it doesn’t work for most guys. WRONG. I can tell you from personal experience that 1) if you want success in dating DO NOT listen to what women say, and 2) cold approach absolutely does work. Your batting odds might be better or worse depending on your looks, height, muscularity, location, ethnicity, etc. but it works eventually. The main reason men don't do it, especially day game, is because it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 05:28 AM
0

You don't. There's a reason ancient Greeks and Romans considered eating pussy worse than getting fucked by another dude
/r/askTRP28/11/20 08:59 PM
1

More important than 'making it up to him' is to ask yourself why you felt compelled to snoop in the first place. If you have that feeling it's pretty clear that you either have internal issues to deal with, or that there's a lack of trust for some reason. It's more important to address those than to simply make it up and try to move on.
/r/RedPillWives27/11/20 07:31 PM
0

Disproven your argument and now you go full ad hominem, aren't you? yep isn't that how internet arguments work? i'm just fucking around honestly don't care what's considered 'healthy' medically just what i find attractive. that said i've definitely dated a few girls with serious muscle mass too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:40 PM
0

nah i'm into drug addicts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:37 PM
-1

my book of fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:21 PM
3

i had my own issues at the time, probably not typical of most guys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:21 PM
-1

you sound like the type of girl who puts 'curvy' in her tinder profile
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:21 PM
0

nah just the type of girl i'd want to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:46 PM
3

i didn't say anything about health, just about who i'd want to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:46 PM
5

right... but no one really cares about effort, only results. High effort is the cost of admission
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:20 PM
1

aight fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:16 PM
3

yeah absolutely. The AFC mindset in the club is like "man I hit the gym 3x per week and ate right all month and wore my best H&M button down shirt and now all I get to fuck is this drunk chubby chick grinding on me?" There's a sense of entitlement there like all his efforts means he deserves to get a hot chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:11 PM
3

I've definitely been in the 'standards' camp - looking back it was all ego. There were so many opportunities to fuck decent girls that I passed up for bullshit reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:08 PM
-3

'healthy' If she's between 5'0" to 5'7" she better be 130 tops to be considered healthy in my book
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 04:59 PM
34

Plain janes have self-esteem issues
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 04:57 PM
0

If their standards make them single for the rest of their lives, yes. THis is the key. If 90% of women will only fuck the top 10% of guys, then they are either going to end up pumped-and-dumped or single. Or eventually they'll have to settle with an average dude and probably be unhappy because they'll be constantly comparing Billy Beta to that hawwwttt guy they took it up the ass from in aruba.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 07:46 PM
0

Yep - it's tough, especially with the pandemic going on. Haven't seen friends in person for a few months now.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 03:57 AM
2

thanks?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 09:18 PM
1

ok good points... i see what you're saying. there's a difference between controlling pleasure vs other types of control and dominance. for example, the woman controls access to sex in the first place, but once that is granted, there is a subtle give and take in terms of what happens during sex. as a woman, you want the feeling of danger that you could be overpowered at any time and made to submit, but also the safety that comes from knowing he would stop if you told him to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 09:05 PM
0

Don't forget about sex-bots, coming soon and already becoming a big thing in Japan. If men have a decent outlet for their sexual energy, they won't make much of an effort to get laid with real women. In that case women will either have to settle for sex toys/masturbation, or make more of an effort to attract a man / be lower 'maintenance'.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 08:10 PM
0

But by letting your girl take control during sex, you are acting more submissive. I think it's the opposite - by letting your girl take control, you're cementing your dominance by controlling what she can and cannot do during sex. The fundamental frame here is that the man is still in control and can take back control whenever he wants. It's like creating a sandbox for a kid to play in - within that sandbox the kid can do whatever he or she wants. But the parent decides when playtime is over. St…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 07:41 PM
2

There are plenty of non-famous alpha males who absolutely crush it with women in local settings. A notorious one is the owner of Drais nightclub in Vegas, Victor Drais. Dude is old and fat but he regularly snaps his fingers and has girls in the club brought up to his private VIP area for all manner of nasty and degrading shit but the girls he summons feel like celebrities. Local/situational/contextual power and status are king.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 07:58 PM
1

There is some truth to this. I think the fundamental fear men have is we know we're disposable and interchangeable, to society at large. As a man, I feel good knowing I'm a productive member of society, and that I can provide for my family. Is there a subtle power dynamic here, where I want to feel 'superior' to my wife on the basis of earnings? No, because I don't regard earnings as a measure of one's worth. But if you take that away from me, my role becomes much more unclear. The missing piece…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 03:51 AM
6

i don't think so. intimidation implies fear of her in some way. i doubt most men are afraid of their wives
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 03:42 AM
2

The kind that has her own interests, hobbies, friends, etc. but is unable to have healthy relationships with men. A spinster can still get laid on Tinder
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/20 05:13 PM
1

If you follow the ladder it's much more natural. you don't go straight there.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 04:22 PM
3

you're doing it right. more complex openers don't really have a higher success rate... keeping it simple works best.
/r/seduction18/11/20 09:41 PM
4

there are no hard rules here. if you're an attractive dude and tell a girl she's cute she'll probably like it. or you can go more indirect. both ways can work
/r/seduction18/11/20 09:40 PM
2

i agree with this. if you're a male model equivalent girls are going to open YOU so you don't have to say shit. If you're more of a top 20 or 30% guy a little bit of customization can go a long way to standing out in the initial opener text
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 07:27 PM
14

Women tend to score much higher in agreeableness and conscientiousness than men, and part of these personality trait is compliance and trust. It's usually considered an excellent trait for prosocial behaviour. I think this is the key and also a big reason why women are thriving in today's white collar type jobs which require high EQ and social skills to succeed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/20 07:01 PM
1

A few thoughts: 1) TIME is the key ingredient to pickup success if you're not already famous and super high status. It takes time to meet girls, banter with them, and pull them to fuck. As you've alluded to, going out late to bars/clubs to meet girls takes time, and also impacts your productivity the next day particularly if you drink. THis is a very underrated issue and you're bang on that most busy men do not have time to be approaching girls for an hour or two each day. 2) Most PUAs don't hav…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 06:49 PM
4

validation of course - shows she's more invested in me than other guys that are DMing her also men are strongly visual - we can literally jerk off to one pic and it's different when it's someone you're talking to vs. a random porn star
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 05:25 PM
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Young men not getting laid is a big problem worldwide because such men tend to withdraw from society, or become more susceptible to joining radical militias and armed organizations and generally causing trouble (vandalism, theft, etc.) In societies where polygamy is the norm, a small % of men 'capture' the majority of women leaving the rest to fight over scraps. In the middle east, a strong argument can be made that terrorist organizations are able to recruit these types of men that can't get la…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 07:06 PM
21

Nope. Women who are beautiful without makeup are very rare if no woman wore makeup our standards would be reset and women would still be equally attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 04:32 AM
16

Women without makeup are, still, infinitely more attractive than the average dude. well as a man i would agree lol... but seems pretty difficult to create an objective scale of attractiveness that would support this statement
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 04:32 AM
3

Dude, none of this is comparing sexually active bachelors with married men. It's just comparing men that women do not want with men that women do want. Don't you think happier, wealthier, healthier men are simply more likely to be wanted by women and married? exactly right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 07:36 PM
3

this is it /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 07:33 PM
1

Then get a new boyfriend... maybe an older guy (5-15 years) who is stable and ambitious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 07:28 PM
2

How many guys approach her in person daily? Honestly? Most days it’s 0. You stand out. exactly. plus nowadays everyone is social distancing so women are horny as fuck and not get plowed enough
/r/askTRP13/11/20 09:28 PM
3

Take Zinc and Magnesium supplements, and Vitamin D Cut the porn entirely Ensure you're getting enough healthy fats in your diet If you don't lift, start now
/r/askTRP13/11/20 09:20 PM
1

conspiracy theories are a great basis for health and diet decisions try reading some real papers and follow real lipidologists on twitter for proper scientific information (@drnadolsky, @drlipid, @avibittmd for some examples)
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:20 PM
1

if you want to raise your ldl and accelerate atherosclerosis go ahead and eat unlimited sat fat Risk is minimized when sat fat is less than 10-12% of total calories You can eat other types of fats like monounsat or PUFA to support hormonal levels just fine
/r/askTRP13/11/20 05:40 PM
2

Different dating apps have different types of girls The hottest white girls are on bumble Tinder is full of fat chicks, feminists, etc. - I avoid it Hinge and CMB have good quality girls, generally not as hot as bumble but better if you're looking for LTR
/r/askTRP12/11/20 05:42 PM
1

nope i'm millennial gen z definitely seems more conservative than my generation. gen x was far more slutty though growing up in the wild 80s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:11 AM
0

interesting... i guess that's why i find myself more attracted to gen z girls (apart from being younger of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 09:39 PM
2

If your point is that the cock carousel damages both men and women (but women to a larger extent) I can totally agree. There are lots of fucked ups dudes who have trouble pair bonding, seeing both the girls they bang, and themselves, as disposable and interchangeable. It's actually eye opening for me because most of the guys I know have either settled down with a wife and kids, or are single and playing the field but I've never sensed any bitterness or resentment from any of them (except maybe 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 09:34 PM
1

At 16 you need to be careful about lifting too much too fast (ego lifting) and injuring yourself permanently. If you join a sports team you can lift under the supervision of a coach. Is he really not letting you join a gym? wtf
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:46 AM
1

Have you read any materials on this? Start with the sidebar. Read Models by Mark Manson. Tonnes of great advice in there.
/r/seduction08/11/20 07:10 PM
5

Yeah pretty much - this is the standard argument against 'just lift bro!' In reality, status is the ultimate determinant of attraction and sex. If you're the fucking king of a particular situation, women are naturally attuned to become attracted to you. That's why you see women attracted to non-alpha guys like the salsa instructor in a dance class, or DJ in a club or the club owner, and celebrities with dad bods. Status is the ultimate in pre-selection. If you're high status, the assumption is t…
/r/askTRP08/11/20 12:11 AM
1

I get what you're saying but there's a nuance that needs to be clarified 1) Don't EXPECT sex - in other words be outcome independent. If you have sex great, if you don't, who cares because I know I'll get laid tomorrow. This is related to abundance and not being needy. 2) Stack the odds in favor of sex - if you're meeting up with a girl, put the odds in your favor. Clean up your house, have condoms ready, have a plan for where you're taking her, etc. Lead, don't follow. ALways move her towards s…
/r/askTRP08/11/20 12:06 AM
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This is why chasing money for its own sake (as a score in the game of life) is pointless Money is a human invention. Our hunter gatherer brains don't really care about anything other than having sufficient resources and security to assure passing our genes on. Focus on your health, and find something that is fulfilling. Shit maybe having a kid will give you something to focus on that's more fulfilling
/r/askTRP07/11/20 05:01 AM
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24 is not old... your sex drive at 24 should be high AF Check test, take zinc and magnesium Excessive long distance running can drop test levels. Do more weight lifting rather than endurance cardio cut the porn. seriously no more. that shit is toxic check your diet. keep sat fat to a minimum (less than 10% of daily calories) and focus on clean carbs + protein. mono and poly unsat fats to fill in the fat gaps.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 06:24 PM
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agreed... zinc and magnesium are both good I'd recommend zinc gluconate or zinc picolonate - least contamination with cadmium vs. zinc oxide or other forms of zinc About 15 mg daily to start... can up to 30 mg if needed I use Mg citrate as well
/r/askTRP06/11/20 06:21 PM
8

glad someone got the reference lol
/r/askTRP04/11/20 11:46 PM
18

not if you carry a big stick
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:18 PM
1

she thinks California is going to go to the democrats this time(implying there was even a chance it wouldn't) lmao
/r/askTRP04/11/20 07:19 PM
0

they're mostly on antidepressants
/r/askTRP04/11/20 07:18 PM
11

These women don't want those men eh once a woman is post wall she's fine marrying a beta with a stable job and giving him pity sex a couple of times a year while maybe getting some alpha dick on the side
/r/askTRP04/11/20 07:18 PM
1

???
/r/askTRP04/11/20 07:01 PM
1

you really believe her tho? lots of girls know n count matters so they'll hide or try to make themselves seem less experienced. especially asian girls and traditional white girls. surprisingly i've found black girls are some of the most prudish (except the hood rats lol)
/r/askTRP04/11/20 07:01 PM
1

for LTR? definitely. but if i just need my dick sucked then an experienced girl is fine
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:22 PM
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there are plenty of guys out there that have convinced themselves that n count doesn't matter and how much they love 'experienced girls' they'll mostly end up in deadbedrooms just watch
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:02 PM
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and the crazy thing is, there will be come beta bux out there who WILL wife that shit up
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:20 PM
2

Strategy games especially, I’ve never heard of a women enjoying Paradox grand strategy or Civilization games. RTS and FPS’s games are also overwhelmingly dominated by men. That's a very good point... I've played strategy games for years and enjoyed them a lot. But i've yet to meet a girl who enjoys them. Of course there are out there but certainly a very small minority. Maybe it's because the type of people who enjoy strategy games are those with certain types of personalities (INTJ/INTP/related…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 08:37 PM
2

because fat chicks give amazing blowjobs
/r/askTRP01/11/20 06:40 PM
1

what's the point?? dude the point is to fulfill your natural desire to get your dick sucked. there's nothing beyond that. what are you looking for, the meaning of life post-nut?
/r/askTRP31/10/20 05:29 AM
2

Based on my expert legal understanding gleaned from watching law & order SVU the answer is YES
/r/askTRP30/10/20 05:34 PM
1

What about when you're 60 or 70? read this post on the trp end game: https://www.trp.red/p/whisper/1355
/r/askTRP28/10/20 04:54 PM
1

huh it's the opposite for me.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 05:32 AM
5

Breathe steadily, let your mind drift to other topics like math Do doggy style or cowgirl. missionary positions cause the guy to come faster
/r/askTRP27/10/20 06:30 PM
2

you mean guys actually have to put in work to get laid?? say it ain't so! gym, diet, hairstyle, clothes are all things that make a huge difference
/r/seduction26/10/20 05:09 AM
2

It's a standard shit test agree and amplify with a cocky/funny attitude
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:30 AM
1

actually it was probably better to be a man back in the days of the roman republic or empire. look up pater familias to see how central the role of patriarch was back then
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:58 PM
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The RP guys who are actually crushing it in life aren't spending a lot of time creating free content on the internet
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:58 PM
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really? you might have rose colored glasses on. life back then wasn't a utopia. plenty of men back then were slaves to their wives, working 60+ hours a week. Crime rates were high af. ANd if you weren't white you were pretty fucked (at least in the US). Postwar economy was nice I guess
/r/askTRP21/10/20 09:41 PM
1

Let em do it. It'll mean more success for those of us that don't buy into the bullshit
/r/seduction21/10/20 07:22 PM
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We give the advice that we ourselves would want yeah... not the advice that actually works
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 06:00 PM
2

got it thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:26 PM
1

??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:07 PM
3

fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 05:04 PM
3

Nope, for most men the 'asshole' version is a front for their insecurities, and the nice guy is the real guy. I disagree. From what I've seen, so-called 'nice guys' treat women they are interested in way differently from other people. Buying them shit, putting up with their bullshit, putting the woman's needs ahead of his own. THAT'S what the successful assholes aren't doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 04:52 PM
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None of the guys here seem to understand the massive gulf between an actual asshole and a guy whose being real Exactly. In this context, being an asshole means being a bit cocky, self interested, and not putting up with female bullshit. Not actually being an asshole and insulting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 04:51 PM
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i think the problem is that women really don't understand what creates attraction. so when a guy asks what he can do to get a date he gets a response of "be yourself", "be a good guy", or "tell her how you feel" and we all know how that advice works out. Meanwhile the guy is looking at what types of guys and behaviors are actually generating success with women in real life and he sees arrogant, narcissistic guys with an asshole streak getting all the girls. To be clear: i don't blame women for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 04:49 PM
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I even haven't fucked hot girls pussy is pussy. stop pedestalizing it. sex with a hot girl is nice, but frankly not worth the headache sometimes
/r/askTRP20/10/20 03:30 PM
2

yeah welcome to life. it is unfair the way genetic potential is distributed. what are you going to do about it?
/r/askTRP20/10/20 03:28 PM
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THis is why I preach the power of 'no expectations' over and over again. There will always be someone richer, more jacked, more hung, better looking, taller, etc. you name it. Insecurity exists at all levels. Even a jacked monster can be insecure about his intelligence or that another career could have been better for him. Regret is a part of the human existence, everyone feels it. Stop setting expectations based on what someone else who is totally different is doing. Set expectations based on w…
/r/askTRP20/10/20 03:27 PM
0

you need to play more of a comfort game with her. make her feel a bit special
/r/askTRP20/10/20 01:38 AM
1

algorithms are useful to get you started but eventually you want to find your own style and rhythm that works for you. that's why canned openers were so huge back in the earlier days of PUA because they took away your excuse that you didn't know what to say!
/r/seduction19/10/20 11:25 PM
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Maybe I'm not as cold as some of the other guys on here but I'd give her 10 mins or so then bounce with some comment about how there's no spark/chemistry. Wouldn't bounce right away
/r/askTRP18/10/20 09:28 PM
15

First off, kudos for actually approaching and posting a FR. 95% of this sub is just keyboard jockeys so you're doing a lot better than everyone else. A few pointers: 1) Go into the set with no expectations. just having a good time. no expectations of k closing or f closing. If they're cold, move on. You don't need more than a couple of minutes to screen girls. 2) Change questions to statements. Instead of saying "where do you work", say where you work and what you love/hate about it. then let he…
/r/seduction18/10/20 09:04 PM
5

imo not really. being a 'feminist' is normalized now. i'd be more suspicious if a girl said she wasn't. most are just 'show feminists' who post metoo hashtags and repost articles about 'powerful women'. again it's just a shit test.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 09:02 PM
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disagree... lots of girls claim to be feminist but are really just doing it to be a part of the crowd. just another shit test
/r/askTRP18/10/20 06:47 PM
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Nah being bald doesn't really matter as long you look good. sounds like you're feeling self conscious and attributing her LMR/ASD to your insecurities
/r/askTRP18/10/20 03:58 AM
1

Do it. You'll slay pussy
/r/askTRP18/10/20 03:55 AM
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Porn is terrible. I've gone through periods of fapping 4+ times per day to all kinds of crazy shit. It's never worth it. Totally kills your sex drive and desire to fuck real women. Also gives you completely unrealistic expectations of sex and female behavior. It's a fantasy pure and simple
/r/askTRP17/10/20 02:49 AM
11

Much better. fapping should be limited to 3-4 times per week max though
/r/askTRP17/10/20 02:48 AM
11

i fully expect a girl to be less attractive if not wearing makeup but if she drops more than 1-2 points then i'm out
/r/askTRP15/10/20 10:42 PM
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attractiveness is hard to quantify... females are just pickier because they have unlimited choices. which is why in most surveys women only rate 10% of men as an 8 or 9 or higher out of 10. On the other hand, men rate about 50% of women as 7 or higher so the distribution is much more uniform. Take off the makeup and the numbers might shift a bit but I'd wager that if the norm was no makeup, men would still rate most women as attractive.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 10:42 PM
1

right you'd have to find those individuals and they are pretty few and far between. Plus a lot of people who are bachelors later in life have been outcasts for most of their lives like criminals, drug dealers, mentally unstable guys, etc. There are very few well-adjusted men who stay unattached in their 30s and beyond. In fact a lot of the natural alphas I know from my younger days got married by their late 20s/early 30s. No doubt some of them will be divorced at some point but even chads do get…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 10:03 PM
1

imo this is the hardest part of the redpill to swallow... not the part about female nature. solitude is important, but you still need a solid community around you to be mentally balanced.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:33 PM
1

thanks i'll check it out
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:32 PM
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And most people seem to hate being married lol lol that's true but even then that misery becomes a way for men to bond as well. misery loves company
/r/askTRP15/10/20 06:19 PM
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yes isolation has a huge negative impact on mental health. all humans need to be part of a tribe. the difficulty is when you do not follow what everyone else is doing they start to exclude you. it is difficult to find other redpill minded men in the west today.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 06:17 PM
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it's alot easier to be redpill in college because everyone is single and fucking around. becomes a lot harder when your social circle becomes married with kids and people start excluding you because you're not following the standard life plan. I've found it very difficult in my 30s to connect with other like minded dudes... they are very few and far between
/r/askTRP15/10/20 06:15 PM
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because standard TRP says not to get married. So that type of behavior should not be encouraged. If you do decide to get married that's on you.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 05:13 PM
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they may not understand the word, but they can pretty quickly form a connection between bad/unwanted actions --> punishment/negative reactions. Even toddlers learn pretty quick from watching the reactions of the mother. A toddler learns to smile/laugh/play because the mother reacts positively to those behaviors. This is the nuance that gets lost in the whole spank vs don't spank debate. If spanking is applied consistently to punish bad behavior, the child learns fast. If spanking is done wheneve…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 05:12 PM
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There is not one single way to parent. Most parents just figure shit out as they go. What you need to think about is what values you want to pass on to your kids. Start from there. Shit like self-reliance, honesty, compassion, strength, and charity are a good start IMO. If you start from the bedrock principles the actions are easier to figure out. Just remember that it's the woman's primary responsibility to form the child's love map in the early years. The father becomes more critical in later …
/r/askTRP15/10/20 05:08 PM
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One of the things I learned recently is that humans are terrible at predicting what will make us happy. There's a great book called "Stumbling on Happiness" exploring this idea. Spoiler: the conclusion is that you should look for surrogates to really understand what different decisions will look like for you.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 05:13 AM
5

Hair transplant and/or minoxidil/finasteride
/r/askTRP13/10/20 06:58 PM
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Do you honestly think that real alphas are dedicating a lot of time to producing red pill content through YT, Insta, whatever? No, most of the guys who are crushing it in life spend a very limited amount on this stuff. Many of them are ECs here. Most of their time is spent building their career or business, slaying pussy, making good investments, etc. The guys who are producing tonnes of RP content are a lot of m'lady types with lots of flowery theory but little to no practical experience living…
/r/askTRP12/10/20 08:46 PM
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Oh yes - most girls are looking for validation through dating apps. And they get it. In spades. If you're meeting even 20% of your matches in person that's pretty good.
/r/seduction12/10/20 08:36 PM
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Here's a basic guide to conversations: Ask a broad, open-ended question about something that most girls can talk about. Namely: family, food, travel, games/sports, shopping, or other aspects of their life such as education or work. Avoid polarizing topics like politics or religion. Stay away from yes/no questions. Phrases like "tell me about..." work well. If she seems to enjoy the topic, dive deeper using conversation threading techniques. Every now and then connect back to your own life. Avoid…
/r/seduction09/10/20 08:21 PM
1

They offered to pay you - how? In cash? Or would they just pay for rent, food, alcohol, etc.? I bet they're married to other military personnel who are deployed elsewhere.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 05:28 PM
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thanks uncle vasya - I read the first one before but not the other two
/r/askTRP08/10/20 05:06 AM
1

amused mastery is the cornerstone of my attitude towards women. it's a great philosophy and incredibly effective
/r/askTRP08/10/20 02:10 AM
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great points. tyler from rsd used to talk about this before he went all mainstream / new earth / self improvement. being able to cold approach and pick up women on the street exposes your ego to extreme risk and you have to be willing to let that happen
/r/askTRP08/10/20 02:09 AM
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this is an important point - being financially self sufficient is enough to get laid. getting rich and 'selling' yourself to women on the basis of money tends to attract the gold diggers and instagram whores. if all you have to offer is money then you'll only attract those types of girls. on the other hand, if you have enough money to be happy, and develop skills and fitness, you will be miles ahead
/r/askTRP08/10/20 02:07 AM
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that's definitely true. social pressure matters less.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 02:04 AM
9

good point that's very true. gotta resist social pressure to conforn
/r/askTRP07/10/20 08:56 PM
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But are you willing to nuke your ego for it? what do you mean by this? you mean be willing to get rejected?
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:09 PM
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I'm similar to you in terms of age and education Only thing I'd add is that having a higher educational level and background will raise the social circle you can interact with. but the basics of gaming and social status, lifting, etc. stay the same.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 03:15 PM
3

people probably just ignored him in the past because they all know he's a fake alpha.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 01:44 AM
1

honestly it hasn't worked for me. i always feel like fucking my attractive female friends and that tension tends to ruin things
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 09:31 PM
1

I have a female friend who's really attractive and there isnt any sexual tension between us don't know how this is possible... i've never been able to do this
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 09:07 PM
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eh this only works if she's fat/unattractive. i don't know how you can truly be platonic with an attractive girl there will always be some sexual tension
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 09:07 PM
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This sub is hyperfocused on developing physical attractiveness and charisma in order to sleep with promiscuous women. physical attractiveness and charisma work on all women, not just bar sluts. it's also something that just about every man can work on right now and start getting results. There are plenty of accounts on here about low education guys sleeping with highly educated and professional women including executives, physicians, etc. no matter how educated and rich a woman gets she will sti…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 09:05 PM
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The only girls I've really been platonic friends with were either fat or unattractive. If she's attractive there's no way my dick won't push me to fuck her
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 09:02 PM
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Nothing controversial about having platonic female friends. The issue is that guys become friends with girls they really want to fuck. THAT is why we recommend men to stop being pussies and either ask them out/fuck them or cut them loose if they're just being emotional tampons.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 09:00 PM
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It depends. If you're talking about an LTR or a wife/mother of your kids then it matters a lot more. If she's a plate I don't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 05:31 PM
2

dude you have to learn to think for yourself. specific actions aren't important... it's about shifting your mindset. next time you're with a girl and she's shittesting/acting bitchy and you feel angry/upset, ask yourself: how would I react if this chick was a 10yo girl instead?
/r/seduction04/10/20 08:28 PM
2

I would recommend to just read the top 5 results that come up and try to think for yourself how to implement it in a way that's authentic for you. the basic idea is that you treat a girl who's being bitchy/sarcastic/misbehaving like a child who is throwing a tantrum. Would you get all angry or upset? No because you know this is just their nature and there's nothing to get upset or angry about. instead, you just play along, using techniques like agree & amplify. the most important thing is never …
/r/seduction04/10/20 05:25 PM
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just google amused mastery plenty of resources available btw, i've fucked a few women who had major bitch shields/lots of sarcasm and shit testing initially. it can be a little disconcerting at first but they are usually the ones who are the most submissive and docile in the end. as long as they are still talking to you, don't eject! stay in set and maintain amused mastery. you'll be surprised how well things can go afterwards
/r/seduction04/10/20 05:08 PM
2

lol yep this is right. that's why fundamentally women aren't intimidating. no matter how powerful a woman is in a professional position, always remember she'll turn into a cumslut for an alpha man
/r/askTRP04/10/20 03:00 AM
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"Amused mastery" is the key
/r/seduction03/10/20 09:57 PM
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haha yep women are one giant walking contradiction/cognitive dissonance
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:56 PM
14

Most importantly, never ever stop working out. if y'all remember one thing it's this
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:56 PM
2

yep that definitely works in your favor
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:55 PM
3

every guy is different. to be honest, speaking from personal experience, those of us who didn't get laid a lot in our teens and early 20s tend to be more aggressive about getting lots of strange in our late 20s and 30s and beyond. Maybe not getting pussy in your teens messes up your love map or something I don't know. Or we just feel like we need to prove something to ourselves. my own personality is such that i get bored with one girl easily and have to experience the chase and conquest of new …
/r/askTRP02/10/20 05:35 PM
3

did you both get married young?
/r/askTRP02/10/20 05:27 PM
2

AWALT (all women are like that) does not mean "every single woman will XYZ, ie: especially the one you're with right now will absolutely be like /that/" rather, across a large enough sample size, normal/predictable behaviors can be observed. (ie: branch swinging, hypergamy, validation needs as a red flag, etc) Well said. I keep telling people this but it doesn't get across. Generalizations are never true 100% but they are true often enough to be useful
/r/askTRP02/10/20 05:24 PM
14

Generally good stuff but just remember: the only way to actually internalize all this advice and get good at this shit is to go out and practice!
/r/seduction30/09/20 04:11 AM
1

totally makes sense i tend to do around 4-6 exercises per session focusing on 1 compound lift + accessories. my diet has been shitty though and with the covid gym closure i really need to get back into it
/r/askTRP28/09/20 09:32 PM
1

also if you're trying to hook up then definitely include 1 pic to show off your body
/r/askTRP28/09/20 09:22 PM
2

looks pretty solid! why do you do 16 sets + 8 sets on each day? how many exercises in each and what% of 1RM?
/r/askTRP28/09/20 09:22 PM
2

or just pay a professional to take decent photos
/r/askTRP28/09/20 08:55 PM
1

what's your workout routine like?
/r/askTRP28/09/20 08:55 PM
2

They're OK but get the premium version so you can hide/bypass the age filter. Focus on just a couple. For hookups Bumble seems to have the best looking and youngest girls. Other good choices are Hinge and CMB. Race-based apps are good if you're looking for a particular ethnicity (e.g. tantan, dil mil, there's a korean one, etc.)
/r/askTRP28/09/20 08:54 PM
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Assuming all of this is true - bloody hell I'm sorry you had to go through that Fuck everyone - none of these motherfuckers helped you in your time of need. Cut them all off. You have to somehow let go of your past or you will forever be defined by it. Therapy will help - this is one of the few cases I think it's warranted. You need professional help. Fuck that scumbag. Live your best life and you win. Show him (even though he's dead) that you can thrive despite what he did to you.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 08:08 AM
1

push pull works with any woman anytime anywhere. it creates sexual tension
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:12 PM
1

The simpliest way to think about this is that you need to maintain your own life and priorities that do not involve her. You need to have your own hobbies, interests, passions, and friends, preferably a few attractive female friends.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:00 PM
0

not the purpose of this sub
/r/askTRP22/09/20 03:22 PM
4

It seems like you're looking for a father figure on TRP of all places to give you encouragement and tough love
/r/askTRP21/09/20 11:45 PM
1

thanks for the link - does mega backdoor roth allow high income earners to contribute to a roth?
/r/askTRP18/09/20 08:37 PM
2

taxes are going to be an eye-opener in that bracket 100% agree - OP make sure you have a qualified tax adviser. As a salaried employee you don't have much you can do but in your tax bracket it's worth the cost for a good adviser
/r/askTRP18/09/20 08:34 PM
2

yeah that's all good but don't let it get to your head. Money is just a tool, not an indication of value or worth. Your dad (I'm assuming) sacrificed a lot to give you a good, stable upbringing with solid education and guidance along the way. You probably owe him a lot for being where you are today with this opportunity. Think about where your discipline and work ethic comes from. Also a doctor arguably provides more fundamental value to society than a HFT/MM firm lol... so just make your money …
/r/askTRP18/09/20 08:33 PM
1

damn that's crazy... one of the best pay to hours worked ratios i've seen.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 08:08 PM
1

in 5 years he'll probably be making 800k+ at this type of firm though i'm not sure how the dev track salary curve compares to the quant track
/r/askTRP18/09/20 06:08 PM
1

I figure you're working a quant shop of some kind given the salary and the location. From what I've seen, other people in this situation invest their money aggressively and keep expenses low. Don't get too fancy with investing... just buy and hold diversified ETFs. If you want, allocate 5% of your portfolio to lottery stock picks just to scratch that itch. Since you'll bein Chicago, cost of living is pretty manageable. Prioritize being close to the office, either by bike, walking, or public tran…
/r/askTRP18/09/20 06:06 PM
1

i knew it haha. was going to guess this exactly
/r/askTRP18/09/20 05:58 PM
1

She's not your gf anymore. Just a plate who is mooching off you. Treat her accordingly
/r/askTRP17/09/20 06:11 PM
1

Don't overthink this. JUst a standard shit test... agree and amplify with a cocky and ridiculous answer.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 03:25 PM
2

Dude You need to get off reddit
/r/askTRP15/09/20 04:25 PM
6

A lot of truth to this. Obviously not true if the dude is physically abusive or trying to control her every behavior
/r/askTRP13/09/20 07:56 PM
17

Reminds of the Chris Rock joke: a woman will never go backwards in terms of lifestyle, and a man will never go backwards sexually. Once you're fucking top tier models you won't feel like fucking a 6 unless you get extremely horny
/r/askTRP09/09/20 10:49 PM
1

you can't cuck a girl only a man
/r/askTRP09/09/20 07:11 PM
1

nice try troll
/r/askTRP09/09/20 06:14 PM
1

Disagree - by then we'll have so many deepfaked porn vids and sex robots that real human women will be unnecessary
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:13 PM
2

What were you doing? Did you continue to lift and eat high protein or did you start getting soft/fat as well? You can't force someone to improve themselves... they will only resent you for it or feel that you don't think they're attractive and this will case more self-loathing and a destructive cycle of bad behaviors. You need to lead by example and teach her how to track calories, prepare nutritious food, train for results, and maintain good habits.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 03:36 PM
0

then you have to decide if you're OK with your girl getting plowed by other dudes in front of you. personally i wouldn't be. alternatively (I'm not endorsing this), you could just cheat and fuck other girls on the side. TRP is amoral so it's up to you if this option is on the table.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 11:09 PM
5

first off, you can never expect a girl to be 100% loyal to you all the time, unless she literally never meets any other dudes than you. remember, it's just your turn. a threesome is supposed to be a good experience for everyone involved, so if she's having a good time as well, then there's nothing wrong with it, nor is there any need for reciprocating with a MMF arrangement. OTOH is she's doing it as a favor to you then she might expect that you let her fuck other guys. plenty of girls get turne…
/r/askTRP08/09/20 10:40 PM
4

that is an insecurity that you need to work on, and is a very blue pill mindset. cut the bullshit it's an absolutely natural male drive to fuck as many women as possible, not an 'insecurity'. fuck outta here with your lowkey blue pill shit
/r/askTRP08/09/20 10:23 PM
65

Sooner or later I will also have to let another guy fuck her. definitely not a given. hold your frame. MMF threesomes are really just women cucking their boyfriends
/r/askTRP08/09/20 10:21 PM
8

On the one hand: yes it's awesome to hook up with tonnes of hot chicks On the other hand: very few men are able to do so consistently, and particularly if you're 22 it's not gonna be that easy unless you're already high status due to athletics or something you say you have women lined up to fuck you but honestly you should never take pussy for granted because women talk a good game but are super flakey, particularly at your age. if you're happy in the LTR just stay. and when you're no longer hap…
/r/askTRP08/09/20 07:59 PM
3

don't want to lose her as a plate right there - that's where your mindset is wrong. you must always operate from a position of abundance. how would an abundant man react? he wouldn't give a fuck about losing one girl because another one will show up eventually. think from that perspective, always.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 06:53 PM
10

If you're invited to party or hangout you should accept it 90% of the time, best time to be a social beast is right now this is what i would've changed in college. all the studying i did certainly paid off in terms of career success but i didn't get laid even once
/r/askTRP30/08/20 03:01 AM
3

u got lucky that time
/r/askTRP29/08/20 10:14 PM
2

but she hoped on me raw. that's fucked up
/r/askTRP29/08/20 09:02 PM
1

I see - it's gonna be tough to kino escalate if you're sitting across from one another at a table. i usually never do that just sit at the bar. if it's weird in your country to do that then find another venue where you can be naturally closer to her that makes things a lot easier
/r/TheRedPill29/08/20 06:22 PM
2

All the bars I ever went to had tables placed with seats opposing each other. can't you just sit at the bar? why are you sitting at a table?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/20 05:43 PM
8

eye contact and physical contact. that's it really. don't overcomplicate shit. >70% of communication to women is nonverbal
/r/TheRedPill29/08/20 05:32 PM
11

When I tried to escalate My guess is that you went in being a joker/clown, making jokes, etc. then suddenly tried to shift the vibe by kino escalating. this incongruity threw her off. What I've always focused on is starting the kino escalation right from the start. When I meet the girl I'll go for a hug and guide her in the bar with one hand on her back or arm. from then on, i make sure that we're positioned such that i can easily touch her arm, leg, etc. when speaking, making a joke, etc. never…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/20 05:24 PM
2

yep it also makes you stop hooking up with fatties when you're horny and lowering your standards!
/r/askTRP29/08/20 05:09 PM
6

felix dennis, the british mogul i think (RIP)
/r/askTRP29/08/20 05:07 PM
6

there is some truth to this actually... even in bangkok the govt was extremely hardcore about testing and protection for sex workers and their rates of everything nowadays are very low
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:59 PM
1

I agree - people on here overcomplicate how hard it is to get laid. In reality, while it's important to lift, eat healthy, and have a direction in life, you also need to realize that location/situation matter A LOT. There is a real difference in how easy it is to get laid with attractive girls, for example in NYC vs SF vs Chicago and then if you go to a 3rd world country in Asia it's much easier than any of those places. Similarly, even with NYC, going to the right neighborhood or club or bar ca…
/r/askTRP25/08/20 11:13 PM
20

6'2, Live in NYC, Self-Employed, Objectively Handsome Face, Green Eyes, Slender/Built Body. dude that right there puts you in the top 1% SMV regardless of race
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 02:31 AM
6

haha i actually find that kinda hot
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 02:29 AM
20

We can just as easily make fun of blacks for not having salt tolerance. what? never heard this one before
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 02:28 AM
0

i would make it clear from the start that you're hygenic and following good safety protocols (wear a mask initially, use some hand sanitizer visibly as you're approaching). then when you meet her she'll be more at ease seeing you taking these precautions so she'll be more comfortable when you take off the mask and do the standard kino escalation ladder (arm/back, hand, leg, face, etc.) and go for the make out later on.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 11:28 PM
1

Yeah same... there is always a risk associated with fucking multiple girls. HPV, Herpes, etc. are not eliminated by condom use. THere is a vaccine for HPV at least.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 04:12 PM
7

people overcomplicate getting laid way too fucking much. you don't need life purpose, or whatever other shit to get laid. look at how many criminals, drug addicts, and general dregs of society get laid with beautiful women all the time.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 04:40 AM
1

you're being an attention whore. stop it
/r/askTRP12/08/20 04:03 PM
9

good shit bro i'd say you passed... just keep the cocky attitude and amused mastery. women do this shit just to test your congruence and frame
/r/askTRP11/08/20 04:19 AM
3

lousy source bro - they cite the tabloid daily mail and that big fat surprise author which is hardly an unbiased source. anywya if you read the original study they are saying that statins don't provide a meaningful benefit... probably because statins are known to increase risk of diabetes. If you're eating a tonne of sat fat and have high cholesterol levels that's a cause for concern. get your bloodwork done and talk to your doc
/r/askTRP09/08/20 03:52 AM
4

From a financial perspective the answer is obvious: NO - new expensive cars are a terrible investment (depreciating asset) My guess is though you at least partly want to get this to attract bitches. ALSO a bad idea - a nice car will attract gold digging whores. Stay focused and build up your wealth
/r/askTRP09/08/20 02:21 AM
1

I'm not saying I discovered the key to the perfect diet, though the science does back high fat low carb. For weight loss maybe but it's absolutely not necessary to get shredded. most legit strength coaches i've seen recommend a good amount of carbs for building mass. The 'best' thing the science has said about high sat fat intake is that it MAY not be as bad as we used to think. NOT that it's good for you. monounsaturated fat seems to be good for raising HDL while lowering LDL. if you want to re…
/r/askTRP09/08/20 02:16 AM
5

You don't have to act so nonchalant. Just say something like 'hey free to grab a drink this friday?' if she says yes then suggest a time and place and go from there. if she says she's busy or can't make it then just let it go and see if she suggests an alternative date. if she doesn't, she's probably not that interested. in that case, wait for a few days/week until suggesting another time. If she still says no and doesn't offer an alternative then drop her
/r/askTRP09/08/20 12:51 AM
3

eh probably more because of the pandemic and having shitty overpriced products that can't compete
/r/TheRedPill06/08/20 05:40 PM
1

size matters. when's the last time you treated a big guy like a doormat? of course it's not all that matters but it helps a lot
/r/askTRP05/08/20 10:36 PM
1

get bigger then. and learn how to control your frame
/r/askTRP05/08/20 10:36 PM
1

Lift
/r/askTRP05/08/20 09:48 PM
21

By dragging her on for so long, and then turning marriage prospects down, she was crushed, which crushed me. She was a really, really great person. But now she's married, and seems really happy. The regret does go away over time. I needed to hear this. In a relationship now for a few years but not feeling the urge to take it to the next stage. I feel like it'll be better in the long run to end it now so she can find someone else who will
/r/askTRP05/08/20 03:33 AM
1

powerlifting style bench is a shitty chest developer anyway. keeping the elbows tucked means that you end up driving the bar with delts and triceps and minimally with the pecs. better chest developers are the guillotine press, db press, and cable crossover
/r/askTRP02/08/20 07:08 PM
1

Don't lock down the scapula
/r/askTRP01/08/20 01:07 AM
2

Not a direct response to you OP, but more generally to the community: if all you care about is getting big and looking good, then stop with the powerlifting routines and ask yourself what you really care about. Do you really care about 1RM strength, or do you care more about size and aesthetics? The truth is that powerlifting routines are designed to get you brutally strong and 'neuromuscular-ly' efficient so you can move the most weight for 1 rep in the most mechanically efficient way possible.…
/r/askTRP01/08/20 01:03 AM
2

you have to assess case by case - is she really busy in the evening with work, or is she just prioritizing draaanks with her fraaands every evening over you? if it's something she has control over then i would push for the evening time because it's way more likely to lead to sex. if she really is legit busy every evening then lunch is fine but that doesn't really have a sexual vibe
/r/askTRP31/07/20 06:09 PM
2

shit test man. you own the bedroom. if she starts demanding shit you don't want to do you just laugh self-amusedly, grab her legs, and start pounding
/r/askTRP30/07/20 07:51 PM
1

Also I noticed when men ask for advice, there is a lot less "fuck you, idiot!" responses and more "this is what you gotta do...take it or leave it" type responses compared to the early days. this is a development i like
/r/askTRP30/07/20 05:45 PM
69

in the heat of the moment a person is capable of anything
/r/askTRP27/07/20 06:56 AM
77

you won't. military spouses are notorious for cheating. true because the guy is probably stronger than you and can kill you in a thousand different ways, eh most military personnel are not combat troops. you probably wouldn't want to fuck with a spec ops' spouse though
/r/askTRP27/07/20 06:34 AM
13

imo you should compliment her once - since she wore the sexy dress for you. from then on you treat as if she were wearing a burlap sack with no makeup
/r/askTRP27/07/20 06:29 AM
10

neither are my top choice but if i had to pick it would be UK. more diversity of girls to fuck there. german girls are hot but you'll have stiff competition from tall german dudes and turkish dudes.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 07:33 PM
13

lmao sounds a porno storyline
/r/askTRP26/07/20 07:31 PM
2

it's just a shit test... if you don't how to handle them read the sidebar
/r/askTRP23/07/20 06:10 PM
2

lifting weights to get jacked gets you in the door with women... but it doesn't magically fix your confidence/frame and game issues
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:30 AM
4

just play the fucking game and stop being an idiot man. yeah it's fucking stupid that you have to do this shit but hey i'll do it to get laid
/r/askTRP21/07/20 04:25 PM
75

dude chill the fuck out and just maintain amused mastery with her
/r/askTRP17/07/20 11:12 PM
1

my thoughts exactly. high paid stable career = instant beta bux if you don't know how to play it
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:26 PM
3

I've been told I look better bald now in my 30s than I did with hair in my 20s. The key is to shave it, and own it. And lift of course. Being in shape and bald will get you laid. There will always be women who don't want to sleep with you. Focus on the ones that do. Most women don't care either way. I've hooked up with girls under 24 with a bald head. They actually like it because bald men are viewed as more dominant and masculine.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 10:38 PM
3

you have to take minoxidil/finasteride to keep the transplanted hair from thinning otu again
/r/askTRP14/07/20 10:36 PM
1

try fapping without porn first.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 08:34 PM
24

THis is a good question, and one that rarely gets decent answers. 'Everywhere' is both true and pretty useless. Here's a good answer screenshotted from seduction: https://imgur.com/6GbbN2B
/r/askTRP13/07/20 11:13 PM
6

First off, this is not your fault at all. Stop feeling guilty because a girl fucked up. Then ignore/block her because she is only gonna introduce drama and crap into your life and you don't need that.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 03:06 AM
14

yeah that's what happens when you're overly analytical but lack the ability to actually implement shit in your own life. Plenty of keyboard warriors can tell you the perfect 'theory' on how to lift... but many of them are weak ass bitches getting outlifted by dumbfuck bros in the gym who are actually busting their asses and learning by trial and error.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 12:43 AM
4

lmao that trailer is hilarious. i used to watch 21Con 5-10 years ago when it was all pickup focused. they actually had some decent speakers and content back when it was a small thing.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 12:21 AM
38

Are you trying to fuck her? If not, just be a good neighbor and help her out with no strings attached. NOt everything is a fucking 5d chess match. Just remember to be outcome independent.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 03:59 PM
2

Do you lift?
/r/askTRP01/07/20 03:10 PM
3

Will top posts like /u/MikeHaines stuff be archived in trp.red?
/r/askTRP28/06/20 09:38 PM
1

A girl may be hot and horny totally down to bang one night, then go completely cold a few days later. 100% true.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 06:46 PM
1

Better nutrition, more exercise, clean water and air, lower stress, maybe better genetics
/r/askTRP21/06/20 06:14 PM
2

The alpha/beta distinction is purposely oversimplified - obviously there is a hierarchy with more shades of gray in between. How do you handle it? Just ignore and focus on improving yourself. Become the most alpha member of your group. Then lead by example to show them how to behave.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 06:48 PM
1

Watch real alpha male gorillas.... They don't get into fights unnecessarily
/r/askTRP17/06/20 12:44 AM
6

Enough to buy a few hookers if you don't suck this dick
/r/askTRP16/06/20 04:38 PM
1

thanks i'll definitely check those out. day bang is good read part of it already
/r/askTRP15/06/20 09:49 PM
1

good shit man. i've found it hard (30+) to get younger girls through apps. but public areas are easier with some daygame. what sort of approach do you follow? Just walk up, introduce yourself, get a number, etc.?
/r/askTRP15/06/20 08:49 PM
2

where do you meet them most of the time? just out on the street, bars, etc.?
/r/askTRP15/06/20 08:33 PM
1

Betas are invisible mostly
/r/askTRP15/06/20 04:20 PM
1

never argue with girls. remember amused mastery at all times. would you argue with a child? agree and amplify and get laid
/r/askTRP09/06/20 09:01 PM
2

Rejecting girls = abundance.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 05:49 PM
3

Don't worry about T - if you're making gains then keep doing what you're doing. THe only studies I've seen on this topic show that T rises short term after doing squats but goes back to baseline after an hour
/r/askTRP08/06/20 07:02 PM
2

I give a fuck and exercise my right to vote. I find points of agreement with both major parties. I'll admit though, that in the US, our votes don't matter much since we're an oligarchy enforced through policing domestically and military repression abroad. Pretty much all major legislation ends up benefiting the ultra wealthy who have congress bought and paid for.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 06:29 PM
1

your only competitor is yourself. stay focused, stay hungry, and keep making progress. judge yourself in 2 years
/r/askTRP02/06/20 04:27 PM
1

That's about average. Also, skill matters much more than size.
/r/seduction15/05/11 05:29 AM
7

LOL The gay implication always seems to work for any sticky situation.
/r/seduction13/05/11 11:59 PM
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