| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 18 | Do you look for eye contact first? | Fundamentals | Then_North_6347 | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 11:45 PM |
| 0 | Does wearing a ring help? | Outer Game | Then_North_6347 | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 09:37 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Do Women Really Have That Many Options?Women have tons of options numerically, but are going to find a ton of them repulsive. It's like if 50 women like your profile but 45 of them are fat/ugly/butterface | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 11:39 AM |
| 4 | Ditching marriage for gameTerrible idea | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 07:32 PM |
| 1 | 34M. Experienced with dating. Met a girl I liked a lot & dropped other options. Then got dumped. What’s my mistake?How long ago did she leave? The no reaching out rule could bring her back. The closeness probably freaked her out so she did flaw finding. | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 11:29 AM |
| 11 | 34M. Experienced with dating. Met a girl I liked a lot & dropped other options. Then got dumped. What’s my mistake?She really sounds BPD/avoidant. They come on really strong at first then panic if you come on strong back. I saw a great channel on that, mackenzie herm something Curious, what's your main source for your roster, apps, in person, etc? | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 02:42 AM |
| 4 | Friend and I used to go out and ask every girl at the club if they wanted to get out of there immediately, No? Next girl. Never failedSomehow I do believe this, and hey, respect for doing something so gutsy. | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 11:39 AM |
| 0 | I practiced cold approaching last night at a club. Are women more hostile these days?I don't think hi how are you is really ideal. More like commenting on the surrounding or asking them where something is, honestly. | /r/seduction | 07/06/26 04:51 PM |
| 16 | Trying to find the easiest way to get a threesomeHey, 100 women over 4 years? I think that puts your rankings very high in hooking up as a guy. | /r/seduction | 05/06/26 01:05 PM |
| 2 | my boyfriend wants a threesomeIs he a fearful avoidant attachment style? They often crave novelty as a way to counter fear of being enmeshed or too much closeness, not knowing themselves why they crave it. A threesome is like communism. Fantastic in theory. In reality, a complete trainwreck and will tank your relationship. | /r/seduction | 28/05/26 12:13 PM |
| 5 | do you think penetrative sex is more intimate than oral sexAbsolutely think PIV is more intimate. | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Potential 3some need helpYuuuup either they will be down or extremely offended and he'll be alone instead of getting laid. I bet jealousy is the result and it goes south. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 11:26 PM |
| 9 | Potential 3some need helpThe big challenge there is female jealousy. The 6 might be cool with it. Or not. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 06:53 PM |
| 3 | do you think men enjoy giving head or they fake it?Sometimes it's very enjoyable and sometimes it's not. It depends on mood/vibe and if the girl is clean and smells/tastes fine. If your BF if saying one thing to you and one thing to his friends I'd question if he's being truthful. Needs and wants should be communicated or it ends up getting bottled up and coming out in anger. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 12:23 PM |
| 4 | "Eww Dating 18-21 year olds when you're 30+ is so GROSS and CREEPY you PEDO!"Lmao the women screeching that were the same women banging older guys at 21, or wishing they had. The shadow, in psychology. Who cares what they think? Live your life! | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 11:23 AM |
| 242 | Went to a fitness eventI've heard a lot of people claim waiting even to the next day is pushing it in this age. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 02:22 PM |
| 3 | I hear a lot of people spreading the idea that a lot of men are MISSING opportunities with women by not approaching. The reality is they aren'tYou will definitely flop if you do cold or warm approaches. You'll have misses. But you'll also get hits a lot higher than online dating. You'll improve your social skills and be a better man for conquering the fear and being able to face rejection with quaking. You'll chat up women who never would have messaged you on a stupid app. And reality is, you only need one real home run. One good woman to have a relationship and marriage with. | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Where is the best place to approach a lot of women in the same place during the day for (Daygame)?College campus, town square, maybe grocery stores... | /r/seduction | 05/05/26 11:18 AM |
| 2 | A girl ghosted me after I got std tested like she asked.(Vent)Truthfully, I think anything could have happened and her saying get std tested was a fake excuse, plus you messaging how you got tested vs waiting for her to ask wasn't great because it created a bargain for sex. It sucks. Maybe you breathed the wrong way or she randomly thought of an ex, who knows. You're just human like all of us and mistakes happen, plus women are flaky AF. | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 01:20 PM |
| 1 | A girl ghosted me after I got std tested like she asked.(Vent)What if the std test was just an excuse to not have sex, and you looked needy by complying? | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 12:43 PM |
| 12 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?My ex. We had had problems and she cheated on me in 2022. We made up and got married in 2024. She was back in touch with her affair partner February 2025, was texting a ton, drinks, etc. she mocked me to him, got her best friend involved in covering for her, and even told me on her own she had bumped into him but left immediately and was telling me so I would know she was being up front and honest. Then when busted she literally blamed me for why she was talking to him. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 07:57 PM |
| 17 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?Yes. Think of a really sharp lawyer or a very clever determined hitman. A LOT of women have that determination and ruthlessness to get what they want. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 02:17 PM |
| 1 | a question for guys who cold approachI appreciate you sharing. So it's not based on the guys looks, but game and sheer determination? Are they picky about who they approach or are they basically after any cute and up girl? | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 02:12 PM |
| 2 | a question for guys who cold approachDamn. So top guys can literally get same night hookups about 8/10 nights? That's amazing. Is that being selective on looks or a lot broader than the "type" they would actually date? | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 12:11 PM |
| 4 | Meeting more women after UniEhhh one possible is getting alumni gym benefits and going back to campus | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 03:01 PM |
| 4 | Women would rather die alone than be with an ugly man.Oil and radiator fluid. You need them both, at least to a degree. Great looks won't save your but if your game is weak and you accidentally kill attraction. | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 01:52 AM |
| 3 | I made a performative male profile on Hinge and got a ton of matchesThe big question I would ask about that is chat gpt writing your replies. | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 10:58 PM |
| 7 | Just finished watching ''DON JON'' movie (2013), and now I'm curious: How common are real life men like the main character?I find it hard to believe that someone with that serious a porn addiction would put the time and effort into becoming such a top tier hookup artist. | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 04:37 PM |
| 47 | My date was late and waited until the time of our reservation to let me know so you know what I did…I blocked and left.A smart recruiter once told me to never arrive more than 15 minutes early at most. Makes you look like you really need the job | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Is it worth it to visit other countries just to fuck?Honestly, the easiest people to bang in other countries are fellow travelers from your own country. | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 01:09 PM |
| 12 | Spending the night at FWB’s house .. focusing on the friendship!...so you're dating? | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 12:49 PM |
| 15 | Tell me your wildest story as a side dudeEhh, the basic stuff. I came over and fucked a girl after she got back from a day date with another guy. We also went to the beach for a weekend, fucked and laid out on the beach while she was texting her bf and making excuses why she wasn't calling or face timing him. At one point she panicked after sending him a short vid because apparently she caught me in the pic right behind her, then recalled it immediately, and a bathroom selfie she posted showed two contact lenses cases and two bottles o… | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 12:40 PM |
| 2 | I ended a date early on principle and am regretting it. Do I still have a chance?You know the irony? If you had told her "I'm on a date with you and I'm not interested in hearing about other guys" then these stupid reddit comments would be telling you you over stepped your limits, you sounded insecure, must be an incel, you had no right to say that and she doesn't owe you anything etc. fuck them. You're regretting what you didn't do. If you had fucked her, you probably would regret not walking away beforehand. It's human nature. You know what's funny? She is aware she was bl… | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 10:23 PM |
| 23 | How I went from being a virgin to having meetings and sex.We value what we don't have. My boss is a multi millionaire with a huge house and luxury pool with gas flame lights along it. The man barely sleeps and his favorite thing to do is sit by his fire pit. The money doesn't solve unhappiness... | /r/seduction | 31/12/25 12:44 AM |
| 2 | A guide to open relationships (if you want it)Yuuup like in my case, the partner who wanted it told me how she was completely cool with it if I went and had fun, didn't care, she was just more sexually open than me... And guess who was sobbing and yelling after she saw a dating app downloaded on my phone despite her literally sleeping with someone already | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 08:31 PM |
| 2 | A guide to open relationships (if you want it)While I despise open relationships, I have to applaud your rules. My limited experience highly agrees with them. For threesomes, I'm guessing your experience was also the emotional impact if your partner seeing you with another, or vice versa, can permanently scar the relationship? | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Are bars and clubs still worth it in 2025?You have a point. Most bars I go to are sausage fests and not many girls are there, or they are already with guys. There are single girls, but limited. I will say there is success to be had. There absolutely are some girls making eyes who could be down to fuck that night, or maybe get numbers and fuck later. Of course, girls can download tinder, have 700 likes waiting in 24 hours, and basically have a ripped guy delivered to their door, or to meet them for dinner or drinks if they want. | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 04:43 PM |
| 1 | The one belief that turned me from “nice guy with female friends” into the guy actually fucking themI cut and pasted this post to chat gpt, and it says there is a high likelihood it was AI generated. | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Where do I go to be around women frequently.Target. Yoga and pilates class. | /r/seduction | 26/11/25 04:11 PM |
| 3 | How to approach on community college campus?This YouTuber has tons of videos of him approaching college girls. He basically makes a game out of it. I watched and started copy catting the best I could. Personally, it helped me a lot. https://m.youtube.com/@StevenSchapiro/shorts | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.For me it's more the reverse. I got lead on and messed with enough that girls getting lead on just seems like karma to me. | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 10:33 PM |
| 19 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.Let's be real. Women have absolutely no problem leading men on for whatever they want. | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Never tell her you’ll cancel prior commitments to have sex with herAmen. Women truly don't understand how sex is on tap for women and not men. This also can work in your favor when used well. A woman will absolutely believe you're hooking up easily if you bluff it. | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Cunnilingus is starting to be more enjoyable than sex. Is that just me?Hmm, I think if they didn't like me like that, they wouldn't be naked in my bed in the first place. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 06:08 PM |
| 5 | Cunnilingus is starting to be more enjoyable than sex. Is that just me?Some women are just much more pillow princesses I guess. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 01:53 PM |
| -12 | Cunnilingus is starting to be more enjoyable than sex. Is that just me?I used to be like you but selfish lovers killed that for me. Now I expect 50/50. I'm not giving head unless I received or am very sure I'm going to. And kinks or bucket list type things? I'm game if we do mine first. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 01:48 PM |
| 8 | Getting back into dating after 7–8 years — feeling rusty and unsure where to startRead and practice. Accept that this is just like if you got back into gaming or target shooting or hiking after 8 years... There's going to be a learning curve and some fails! It's just part of the process. Doesn't mean you're bad or not a worthwhile person, just means you're rusty and getting back into it! | /r/seduction | 10/10/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever approached or been approached by a woman while wearing a suit? What was the outcomeI have a relationship, I live with my significant other. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever approached or been approached by a woman while wearing a suit? What was the outcomeThat's correct we don't take women's advice quite frequently. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever approached or been approached by a woman while wearing a suit? What was the outcomeWomen love a guy in a sharp suit. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 02:17 PM |
| 1 | I wanna dieQuestion. Have you been getting proper sleep? Taking multivitamins and vitamin d? | /r/seduction | 21/09/25 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaches in shopping malls are hard as fuckIt's hard. Truly. I think that's why so many advocate not thinking. | /r/seduction | 17/09/25 02:02 AM |
| -1 | In your experience how often do girls sleep with multiple guys at once?Very frequently. Girls get a thrill out of having sex with multiple guys in the same day or one one day and another the next. | /r/seduction | 06/09/25 04:18 PM |
| 177 | Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work?No. No. No. Flirting, building up tension, escalating touch, that works. Directly asking to fuck only works on guys. It will give you 0% success on women. | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 03:11 AM |
| 2 | For those that improved their photos for online dating, how much of a difference has it made ?Curious! Do you mainly take solo photos of them in different backgrounds or in social settings with people, what sort of things do you do? (Atl area here) | /r/seduction | 13/06/25 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Where do you meet women?Same as anywhere else. Make a comment about a product, or ask her a question, or pretend you think you recognize her from yoga, or say her sweatshirt is really cute. | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 07:35 PM |
| 4 | Where do you meet women?Target is a good place. Obviously also a younger gym like crunch isn't bad either. | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Does wearing a ring help?Nothing wrong with deceiving a homewrecker | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 10:57 PM |
| 1 | I just got rejected.You had the guts to try and go forth, which makes you better than around half the male population these days automatically. Just like a resident evil game takes many deaths to get to the glorious ending and to get good, many rejections and refinements happen before you get good and wake up with that hottie. | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Is it easier to get a cougar than a girl in her 20s?Read high rates stories on Literotica. In my opinion many guys sext like "mmm I wanna fuck you so hard" when what women want in sexting is more descriptive like "I hear you gasp as I kiss the corner of your jaw, then slowly plant a trail of wet kisses down your neck as you squirm, your breathing getting heavier as I kiss across your chest, then pausing, my tongue lightly teasing and then circling your hard nipple as you moan." | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 11:26 AM |
| 86 | Is it easier to get a cougar than a girl in her 20s?Obviously a pro is cougars are easier to get with. They don't get as much attention from attractive men so they respond better to a stronger approach. They also love if you can sext well, from my experience. Cons of course are older, less possibility of a serious relationship | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 05:22 PM |
| 33 | Is it easier to get a cougar than a girl in her 20s?What's your question for my limited cougar encounter experience? | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 04:27 PM |
| 135 | Is it easier to get a cougar than a girl in her 20s?In general yes. There's pros and cons. | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 04:23 PM |
| 10 | I approached a milf at the libraryKudos to you for having the guts to do it! That's a win by itself. | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 12:45 PM |
| 4 | She's a "10" but she doesn't suck D and hard to satisfy in bed. | She's a "6" easy to please, but prefers pleasing you. Which one you keeping?I wish. For me the difference was night and day. | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 11:54 AM |
| 1 | She's a "10" but she doesn't suck D and hard to satisfy in bed. | She's a "6" easy to please, but prefers pleasing you. Which one you keeping?Oh the ten by a mile. an extremely beautiful woman makes sex way better than a BJ. It's like asking, who will warm up a freezing cold room better? Your buddy, who will get a fire going in the fireplace, or Johnny Storm, the Human Torch? | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 11:53 AM |
| 3 | You want to know a cheat code? Use sun screen every day.And clouds don't do much to cut UV levels and skin damage | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 02:31 AM |
| 5 | You want to know a cheat code? Use sun screen every day.To be fair a huge percentage of skin damage and aging is sun related | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 12:05 AM |
| 52 | You want to know a cheat code? Use sun screen every day.Agreed, and use moisturizer. | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Shot my shot at a lifeguard,Took an L. Do I look bad now?You had the guts to take a shot and you failed. That's life, at least you took the shit vs never trying! Yes, they will gossip. You can choose to feel awkward, or you can choose to ignore it. They're not going to reward you for feeling awkward, so ignoring it is way better. | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 10:33 PM |
| 1 | JUST FUCKING TALK TO HERTop tier post | /r/seduction | 25/02/25 12:08 AM |
| 1 | How do I walk up to a woman if the time and place isn't really right for it?There is no right time or place sadly. Ever. | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Got approached last night by a girl who used an opinion openerWas she hitting on you or giving you a shit test? | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Tinder banGet a new number like google voice. They won't undo a ban even if it was years prior and you email saying it was someone else's number. | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Should you call a woman you met at the bar a few days later?Personally I think the next day is a good idea. Same night is too needy, and wait three days? She could literally get two thousand likes on a dating app by then. | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 11:11 PM |
| 1 | What’s the Point of Success If You’re Afraid of Women?Tom Cruise said it far better than any of us can. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=9gyXyYTq4aI&pp=ygUxQ29sbGF0ZXJhbCB3aGF0IGFyZSB5b3Ugc3RpbGwgZG9pbmcgZHJpdmluZyBhIGNhYg%3D%3D | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 01:31 PM |
| 4 | How to spark sexual interest in a girl who’s mad at youAbsolutely. Apathy means you're trying to receive a corpse. Hella lot harder than an angry girl. | /r/seduction | 29/01/25 12:33 AM |
| 56 | How to spark sexual interest in a girl who’s mad at youDon't beg and apologize or any of that crap. And remember that an angry girl is far more likely to sleep with you than an apathetic girl. | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Catching feelings for a girl who cheated on her boyfriend for me but wont break up with himBuddy. She might not even be that into you. Cheaters are into the thrilling rush of fucking around, the excitement of getting away with it and their partner not knowing combined with the thrill of a new lover. | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 08:36 PM |
| 12 | A small tip from a girlAsking for an Instagram seems one step above asking for her onlyfans. | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you look for eye contact first?I wouldn't approach a girl doing a set, but a girl sitting on a machine checking her phone? Sure why not. I've seen multiple successful approaches in my gym. And church? Plenty of girls hope to meet men in church. | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Do you look for eye contact first?I think that "don't be a weirdo and approach in XYZ place" could easily be applied to anywhere. So why pay it any mind? | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Blocked after breakupsFunny story, a woman was leaving me and told me I had gotten insecure lately and had gotten small dick energy. I found out later she had been at least a month into an affair when she shamelessly said those words to me. | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Does ethnicity and race matter?Wouldn't approaching Indian girls be a pretty easy solve for that? In my experience as a White guy most White girls wouldn't date an Indian guy, no. But there are plenty of Indian girls, no reason for you to go alone. | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Blocked after breakupsWomen don't want to be the villain in a breakup so they must vilify you in order to leave. | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Do you look for eye contact first?True that | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 12:31 AM |
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