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NGL it's fun!
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/22 06:16 PM
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You want friends? Let me know. I've got an eclectic group. I've got boys that have been my boys for 35 years. And then friends from work. And then the neighbor across the street. The great thing is.... When I get all of them together, it's like all of us are bros. We're your bros here man. All of us.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/22 04:01 AM
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That was my soon-to-be exes Grand plan. Then she started fucking anything with a pulse after we filed for divorce and that went out the fucking window. Don't do it guys. You'll destroy your soul if you try to live with somebody you once loved, being the whore they truly are. On a brighter note, if you're in your mid 40s, you have a very particular appeal to a certain demographic of women between the ages of 18 and 45. A lot of them want a Daddy....
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/22 03:24 AM
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Yup. It's all good right now. I just gotta get her settled on maintenance.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/22 07:33 AM
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She's definitely fuckin....a married man.....And she's relying on condoms as Birth control....at 40.... In a state that will not have abortion as an option when Roe gets overturned.... This is going to be the best movie ever.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/22 03:27 AM
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Are you me?
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/22 06:17 PM
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She just turned 40. This is the exact scenario I am picturing. I just don't want to have to finance her shenanigans, and I'm coming to the realization that all I can do for the kids is be there for them as much as possible. They are very intelligent. They will see what's really going on eventually, and I'm going to make sure I give them anything they need to get through this. Really, I'm at that place where I still occasionally feel that old anger, but it's not dominating me like it had been. It…
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/22 03:04 PM
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One day you're going to wake up and you're going to realize that you can't allow her to make you feel bad anymore. If you start to have real feelings about hurting yourself please talk to a professional. You can make it through this. It's like walking out of the woods. How do you do that? You take one step. You change one thing. I started with making my bed every morning. That allowed me to accomplish one thing first thing in the morning. The next step for me is going to be self-improvement. I'v…
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/22 04:04 AM
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I started talking to women as soon as she said that she would want that divorce. I knew that I was going to have to relearn a lot of things, because I had been conditioned into some maladjusted thinking about what healthy relationship was. The person I am talking to is 5 years divorced. I told her it was important for me to be friends first and foremost. She agreed. She's not pushing me for anything more than that and has been a huge help to me and my psyche. She's patient, she's kind, and she d…
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/22 03:59 AM
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To be fair, not all rebound relationships are bad. Sometimes you need that bridge. As long as he isn't driving all his happiness from just the fact of being in a relationship, having somebody to talk to, and even have feelings for, can be beneficial. The average rebound relationship lasts about 3 months. For some people that is long enough for them get their feet under them. There was a study done about 15 years ago that said that it can even be healthy. As long as you're careful with your emoti…
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/22 03:49 AM
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I have to live with my stbx right now. Kids are still in school & there's nowhere to move to in the school district. She started dating, started fucking a guy within 2 weeks of filing. A month in and now she's taking a whole weekend trip out of state with the guy. The only thing that bothers me is that the kids are caught in the crossfire. That's why I get angry. I accept that the marriage is over, there are no lingering feelings for her. I'm just pissed that she has put herself first before the…
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/22 03:39 AM
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No fucking chance. I'd sooner take a nail gun to my dick than take her back.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/22 09:58 PM
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La Chaim!
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/22 09:57 PM
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We've been together for 22 years. I'm shocked. But I am very close to apathy. Closer than I ever thought I would get this fast. I guess that's what former love turning into a whore does for you.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/22 04:13 AM
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Snipped years ago.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 05:03 PM
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I'm working on it. At this point I'm willing to pay my attorney more to get it done faster if possible. There's some hoops I got to jump through to get the house on the market, and I'm hoping that I can line a place up in June, into an apartment by July 1st. My saving Grace is that I travel for work often and stay away. The downside is I got to leave her alone with the kids.... Or the kids alone.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 03:11 PM
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Everything you say sounds good. You know what the super shitty part of this is for me? Things really started to go to shit once she started working outside of the house.... She's a victim rights advocate at a domestic abuse shelter... I'm kind of going into this like an amateur fighting a professional boxer. That's why I have my own attorney I guess.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 02:52 PM
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I care very little what she's doing and how it affects her only that it affects my children. I'm moving out as soon as I can find a place which is likely June.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 02:48 PM
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I live with her I have to I have nowhere to move to. There's some apartments that will come open in June but until then I'm stuck because there's nowhere for me to go, and there's no way I'm letting my kids stay in a place alone with her seeing as her decision making skills are extremely suspect.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 02:47 PM
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Documenting it but I'm not going to do that right now. I am forced to live there with her until I can find an apartment in the town where my kids go to school. Right now I just have to protect my kids and that's the only thing I'm concerned about.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 02:47 PM
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At this point don't know don't care doesn't matter.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 02:45 PM
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I told her when she filed that there was no turning around. I meant it then and based on her behavior now I have to be insane to change my mind.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 02:45 PM
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It's not stalking I have to live with her right now. There are literally no apartments within 30 mi of this town we live in. There's no way in hell I'm leaving my kids alone with her.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 02:44 PM
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Literally my only concern. I would be moved out if I could find any place. We live in a small town in a rural area. My kid is on the spectrum and I want him to finish High School where he's at for his own sake. I know I'm taking a risk by not moving out right now for my own mental health but I'm willing to do that for my kids. It's going to be so worth it to be divorced and out of this house away from her.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 12:23 PM
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TBH I rue doing that. The mask fell when she started having emotional affairs online 12-13 years ago. I learned the hard way that staying together for the kids just prolongs the inevitable and will lead to a less than amicable divorce eventually anyway. The mask probably fell long before the affairs but I made the decision to ignore a lot of signs because I was too insecure about myself. To all of you men out there, when you get out, DO NOT DATE IMMEDIATELY. Wait. It's going to be hard to do so.…
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/22 01:16 PM
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This. For me it took 12 years of trying and mutual destructive behavior before filing happened, because of the kids. Don't be like me, kids.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/22 01:07 PM
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No, it's in the statute. You can account for CS when determining alimony. Also they can consider the tax impact to both parties. So if I make less $ than what I normally do (which, nothing is guaranteed with the work I do, it's completely determined by weather, location of the work, amount of work clients have available, and various other factors beyond my control) I could easily be underwater in one year. My tax rate will go up being single, and I lose half of the deductions for dependents. Her…
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 08:23 PM
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Yeah 😂
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 08:20 PM
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Well yeah. My point was to ask if anyone knows anything about alimony. In this state it's fucking like russian roulette.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 07:42 PM
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Being self employed, there is always an enhanced chance of getting audited by the IRS. I warned her that going to court and having them go through all of our tax records could easily backfire. She could get less than what she wants, and we could both end up owing the feds back taxes with interest. There goes the house. Big gamble.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 02:29 PM
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Tell me more. We've already filed though..
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 01:28 PM
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