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TheonuclearPyrophyte/r/AntiFeminists13/11/20 09:00 PM
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My husband's aunts and mother should figure this the fuck out soon. I have my moments too, but at least I acknowledge the problem.
/r/AntiFeminists30/08/21 01:17 AM
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Thank you. I try.
/r/AntiFeminists08/12/20 02:27 PM
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My husband and I watched Titanic last year, my first time watching it. I was absolutely appalled by the "women and children first" policy. I always have been, but movies kinda have a way of driving points home. He tried to defend such policies and I'm just like "no".
/r/AntiFeminists04/12/20 05:17 PM
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bLaMe ThE pAtRiArChY!!!!
/r/AntiFeminists20/11/20 07:03 PM
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Yeah lol, I wanted to say something too. But we were arguing on another sub - yes, I went through their post history - and I don't wanna come across as a stalker.
/r/AntiFeminists18/11/20 03:42 PM
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And just as men apparently can't be raped, women apparently can't rape. Woman-on-woman sexual assault is too often handwaved because "they have the same parts" or "they're just being girls" or "a woman wouldn't do that to another woman".
/r/AntiFeminists08/11/20 05:14 AM
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It does lol And I just accidentally deleted it trying to edit, so there's that. Basically, I have major trust issues and the concept of both casual sex and platonic friendships are hard for me to understand. If someone isn't good enough to be in a long-term sexual/romatic relationship with, they aren't good enough to be my friend. Unless they're a dog or my grandma. Needless to say, I have zero sexual interest in them. Nor do I need to trust them in the same way as a fellow human my own age beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 07:59 PM
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Same for old women, and certain other young women too. Though the issue pops up with middle-aged women much more often simply because I'm around them more. Bonus points if they're obese, overly loud, infected with something like MRSA, and prone to discussing their bowel movements. Yes I'm a woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 07:21 PM
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Gah, my husband keeps his socks on during sex! Is this another one of those strange guy things?!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:09 PM
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Took me months, maybe years. But I also have...issues....regarding sex. In particular, I simply cannot stand sexual contact for hours to sometimes even days after random things like hearing a middle-aged woman's voice before or during sexual activity. So I can't really speak for the average woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:00 PM
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What about with no grunting?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 10:17 PM
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Can confirm the bit about vibrators, at least in my personal experience. My first orgasm was with a vibrator, that's all I used for the first few years, and it was difficult to re-sensitize myself to skin-on-skin contact. Now a vibrator is too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 10:14 PM
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But why would you trust a stranger more?! Really makes zero sense....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 07:40 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 01:59 PM
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No self-respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 01:57 PM
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I suppose that makes sense. And I suppose I'll never really understand women like that, because I would only sex with a man I have a genuine connection with on a physical, mental, emotional, and spiritiual level. So far, I've only met one, and I have no desire for another. The thought of a one night stand with a stranger genuinely repulses me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 05:40 AM
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Why would you want to be degraded short-term though? Or at all? Are we not on the same page about what "degrading" means?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 05:03 AM
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As a woman, this makes zero sense to me. I feel like I misread something. Wouldn't you rather limit sex with the stranger to only certain acts? Or like....no sex? Because they're a stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 04:55 AM
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Is "oh so what" and "FML" how you usually respond when you think someone is worth having a discussion with? If so, you sure ain't. Buh bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 05:05 PM
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I'd maybe bump the "average woman" up to 200.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 03:49 PM
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Haha you seem mad bro. Newsflash, you little snot: I am FAR from agreeable or motherly. Nor am I any more of an emotional child than you. Your emotion and attitude make your argument almost incoherent with cursing and misspellings; if you were speaking in person, you would probably be shrieking like the low-testosterone manchild you are. You don't listen either. You whine, assume, and project as much as any woman. Not all women are like that, but some are, and so are some men. Like you. I tend t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 03:25 PM
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No need to have such a bad attitude. Perhaps I don't disprove this rule, but understanding outliers can be valuable. And many many women besides just me have no desire to breed or look for a "father" type at any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 12:24 AM
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Early/mid 20s female here, have always liked men that look like men but with long hair. And who are younger than me even by just a year. Then again, my husband and I have no desire to breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 05:29 PM
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As a woman, I agree about Leo. Same with Brad Pitt and George Clooney. I've seen those images of Clooney with all the lines and numbers that "prove" how objectively attractive he is, but he just looks like an old man to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 05:06 PM
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I've never heard a man say men age like wine, or that women age like milk. I've only ever heard women say either of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 05:02 PM
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Don't people of both sexes go through that phase of trying to fit a label?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 04:11 PM
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You sound like a good parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 04:37 AM
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Feminists certainly aren't the best mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 04:35 AM
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Haha I frequent none of those subs. Mostly just C_S_T, LockdownSkepticism, VisibleMending, and the Fallout subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 03:26 PM
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Estimates range from 100 to 300. Though 500+ is optimal to maintain genetic diversity, which is why I'm not totally isolationist; communities should have responsible contact with other communities for the purposes of trading and breeding. These careful alliances could also mitigate the risk larger imperialist nations pose to smaller communities, though there seems to be a point at which internal population density becomes a greater risk than external forces. Nations like China will implode under…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 03:17 PM
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Ah, but the ideal archetypes have some variance across time and from place to place. I agree though, we have these archetypes because they are generally advantagous, variances aside. No need to go too in-depth though, I hope you get better soon. :) And I would prefer a lethal weapon because lethal force is the only way to fully eliminate a threat. If an assailant survives, they may find me someday, somewhere, somehow, and attack again. That said, my threat model seems to differ from that of othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 02:46 PM
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Well....The connection between "height queens" and social media has already been discussed. I could be wrong, but it seems that there would also be a connection between people who frequent social media and people who willingly participate in studies, surveys, polls, etc. Certain people would rather not put themselves out there like that. So is it possible that the type of women who prioritize height are also more likely to preach about their preferences on social media and participate in studies…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 07:07 PM
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Good points. Out of curiosity, how exactly would you define feminine and masculine? On both the physical level and the psychological level. And also out of curiosity, why mace or a taser instead of a knife or gun? Strange nitpick, I know, but I just wonder why those particular weapons come to mind rather than something more lethal. Is a sex/gender thing at all, or an unrelated reason? Sorry again to get you mixed up with the other guy, you seem much more polite and reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:58 PM
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I possibly did misread you or get mixed up, I'll have to reread. Again, my bad; between my mother-in-law yammering on constantly, the meth addicts next door with the bass on the radio turned way up, and a multitude of things on my mind, I have more trouble focusing than I really care to admit. I apologize. As for reproduction, I think our species should really tone that down for awhile. I don't believe in overpopulation per se - we have however many humans God wants on Earth at any given time - …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:24 PM
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A lot of people think "cold" and "selfish" is feminine, and a lot of people think "angry" is masculine. Those people might be morons, but they are still indeed people. I missed the bit about being clubbed over the head and knocked out. My bad, I have a lot going on right now, and sometimes I skim over things a bit too quick. In that case, why wouldn't the assailant target a smaller more feminine male rather than a larger more masculine female?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 03:14 AM
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I agree that we have gender roles for a reason, but there will always be outliers. The feminine/masculine dichotomy has an in-between. By sexism, I mean the expectation of overly strict gender roles and stereotypes, which perhaps you aren't so rigid about as I thought. I apologize. By homophobia, I mean your relegation of bisexuality to the realm of personality disorders and mental illness. I agree that all men should work out and learn a martial art, but I also believe the same should apply to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 03:05 AM
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Eh, you're not much younger than me. Physically, a lot of your growing is indeed behind you, although - I know you just said not to say it - more changes are ahead of you. Both mental and physical. For better or worse. As for where you live, I wonder more about population density than particular region. And depending on what you mean by poor, you're not as affluent as I expected; it seems the "incel" thing is more often a middle-class issue. Being middle class is kinda like being a middle child,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 02:38 AM
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Yes. I'm against surgery in general unless there is a major risk of hemorrhage, infection, or other medical emergency without surgery. Even then, I strongly encourage less invasive options when at all possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 11:42 PM
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I don't doubt that you've been rejected and even ridiculed for your height. My husband has, though by more men than women, and it ended when he beat their ass. And I don't doubt that IRL you're a "normal chill guy", whatever that means, but is it so hard to believe that you would low-key push an interested girl away because you think she's lying like how you probably think I'm lying? Sorry to sound so harsh, maybe "complex" isn't the best word. And maybe "confidence" isn't the best word, perhaps…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 11:35 PM
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It isn't dumb to expect the worst of you when you think do poorly of yourself. Many people who are assholes on the internet are no better in real life, and some are even worse. But it doesn't matter if you act like this in real life, it matters that you think like this and feel like this; assuming every woman is a "liar" when she actually likes you and doesn't fit into your pessimistic worldview will most certainly limit your options. Those criminals and gang members might be getting pussy becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 10:12 PM
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I have very little interest in other men. And even if I did, they would all still be 5'6" or under. So your "guess" is a moot point. If you feel unhappy and unwanted in your current area of residence, I really do recommend you travel elsewhere, money and other factors permitting. You can't catch your fish of choice if you don't go where those fish are. But from what I can tell, your attitude is working against you more than anything. Even if a woman finds you physically attractive, you would cal…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 09:32 PM
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Can you not read the flair next to my username? Regardless, is the opinion of a bi poly girl less valid simply because she isn't the majority? Newsflash: there are over 7 billion humans on Earth, roughly half of whom are women, so even a minority equals thousands or millions. And no, I have no idea what you look like, so I can't judge you based on appearance. But I knew you'd call me a liar for knowing my personal preferences, and I would indeed reject you for that. My husband is 5'4".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:52 PM
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My husband: "Mmm....yeah. I would agree."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:07 PM
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No, OVER 5'6". 5'7" would be my absolute limit; tallest person I've dated was 5'8", and she was way too tall. Maybe a man at that height would be slightly more tolerable than a woman at that height, but in general, I strongly prefer men between 5'3" and 5'7". But yes, I probably would reject you regardless because of your attitude toward life and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:02 PM
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Mental illness and "conventional" attractiveness are largely defined by sociocultural norms, which change over time and from place to place. Bisexuality (and also polyamory) in woman can actually be advantagous to some men by allowing them to indulge their "harem" instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:54 PM
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A man who gets that stupid surgery to be taller is 100x less attractive than a man under 6'0" or even 5'6".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:42 PM
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What percentage of women participated in that study?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:23 PM
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Find a shorter girl. Or a taller girl who finds you attractive regardless. Most importantly though, don't decry her as "delusional" or a "liar" because she finds you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:20 PM
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Next he'll probably ask for proof you have tits or vag. So much for online privacy, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:12 PM
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I agree that masculine men and feminine men are the norm. But "masculine" traits and "feminine" traits aren't all universally agreed upon; are women nurturing and compassionate, or cold and selfish? And if a woman is physically stronger than her man - uncommon, but it happens - could she not protect him from an attacker? Or should she just let him die?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:02 PM
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I agree with traditional gender roles in general. BUT there is some variance in the gender roles between race/culture, which is likely also rooted in biology, and there are also outliers. That doesn't make them mentally ill, it makes them a sort of buffer zone between the extremes ends of a complex dichotomy. A very important buffer zone. Should "fragile" or "feminine" be completely denied a woman who finds him attractive just because they fall outside the psychosocial norm? Or would you rather …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 06:53 PM
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You think bisexuality is a mental illness?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 06:36 PM
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Can....kinda....confirm? I'm 5'0" and petite, and I actually DO give a shit about height, meaning I prefer men from 5'4" and 5'6". Mother-in-law is my height but MUCH heavier, claims to like "really tall" (> 6'0" ) men but never gets with anyone over 5'8".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 06:27 PM
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I'm 5'0", can confirm that I care more about a specific height difference between me and my partner. Specifically a 4 to 6 inch height difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 06:14 PM
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Really short girl, hate that "small" feeling. Would rather be able to look my man in the eye or rest my chin on his shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 06:07 PM
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If I saw you in real life, I would reject you for your height IF you are over 5'6", and I would DEFINITELY reject you for calling me a "liar" or "delusional" for having my own personal preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 05:54 PM
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You know they won't believe anything that contradicts their pessimistic view of sexuality and relationships. #AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 05:48 PM
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And there are a magnitude of reasons not to post photos of yourself and your loved ones online.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 05:45 PM
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We think we're stuck in this time period now, but I have a feeling the changes between now and 2025 will blow our minds. For better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 05:40 PM
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Right! For awhile, I was like "meh, the 2010s are basically the same as the 2000s" because I was too young to fully grasp the state of the world prior to '03 or '05, but then it really hit me how much has changed between....say....'07 and '17. Little details like the flattening of electronics, the switch from checkbooks to bank cards, the cameras everywhere, the differences between 2000s internet and 2010s internet, the shift from "prep" and "geek" and "emo" into whatever we have now, and....wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 05:19 PM
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I feel like a broken record saying this, but it depends on the woman. Women on Tinder and Twitter do NOT represent all or even most women. They represent the worst women, which you shouldn't be interested in anyway. You can do better. Of course I want a man who is taller than me, but that doesn't mean I want a TAALLLL man. My husband is a good height for me - roughly 4 to 6 inches taller than me - and anything taller is just gross. Unless the individual is on TV and I can't really see how tall t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:42 PM
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Are big Jewish milkers a meme? Huh.... I do now, but I used to be extremely underweight. My husband said I looked like a "Holocaust patient" a few years ago. The milkers have always been big for my size, but considering how scrawny I used to be, that ain't saying much. I've put on more weight in the past couple years though, and I'm proud to say my milkers are now massive. "Milkers"....Heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:08 PM
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It was a start. That instance was before we were married, and I was living out of state with my grandma at the time, thus we could only be so close. But we've lived together for many years now, and he's expressed multiple times that he fears me leaving him over whatever the costs are of staying together. Wherever he goes for however long, he wants a comfortable home with a loyal wife to return to. I've given him opportunities to run free but he always returns for some damn reason. If you love so…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 02:17 PM
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Mildly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 01:52 PM
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Tried that years ago, back in the beginning. He sent me a dick pic after a week and apologized for not texting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 01:51 PM
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I know I'm an outlier, but my standards for a long-term relationship and a friend-with-benefits are the same: my husband. What have you to say about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:57 AM
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Or because they love their husband as a unique individual, but struggle to find the balance between keeping them safe and healthy to better savor every moment with them while still allowing them to pursue the often dangerous interests that contribute to their happiness and wholeness as an individual?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:47 AM
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I said no, at least not state-sanctioned marriage with all the money and paperwork involved. Marriage should be a cultural/religious decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:39 AM
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Dysfuntional possibly autistic woman here, can confirm. As a woman, I'm infuriating but tolerable, maybe because I'm a little squishy pet of a female that totally doesn't look like a angry rapey loner. If I was a man, I'd be in prison or dead for being a (probably more attractive) angry rapey loner. EDIT: I'd also probably be more gay and Jewish if I was a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:24 AM
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If you mean a state-sanctioned marriage with a mandatory AIDS test and an overly expensive marriage certificate, maybe not. The only reason I would recommend marriage is for the hospital visitation rights, but in my not-so-humble opinion, hospital visitation should be allowed for anyone you choose regardless of relationship status. If you mean a marriage recognized by your family, church, and/or local community regardless of what the state says about it, go for it. Just be warned that even in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:12 AM
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Yeah haha, I think perhaps we just disagree on what compatibility and quality mean. Otherwise, we seem to be on the same page. Or at least the same chapter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 12:15 AM
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I understand how hard it is to believe, or at least I try to understand. I'm no stranger to how women often treat men - and other women who break from their ranks - but one of the many reasons I frequent this sub is to learn how to be a better wife to my husband. And perhaps more importantly, a better friend. I try to tell him how much I love him for who he is, not what he provides me. Although I certainly love him and appreciate him for all that too. But I understand if he doesn't believe me, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:43 PM
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Oh how that clapping grinds my gears....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:59 PM
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First time browsing FDS to see what all the fuss is about, and....holy fuck is it nasty. Are they some breed of radfem?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:53 AM
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So glad my husband has that drug dealer vibe without really being like that. On the surface, he seems like the mean shady loner type, but he's an absolute sweetheart. Bright colorful flowery little ol' me is the dangerous one. :P I'm not so big on college education, but caring is a must. I need someone calm and caring to cool the fire in my blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:31 AM
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Haha damn, my bet was on the drug dealer. Please don't take that the wrong way, I totally could see how you might, I'm just projecting my own tastes. For some reason, most guys I've found attractive - aside from my husband - are drug dealers, drug addicts, terrorists, and serial killers. Only on TV though, thank goodness. But many share that "scruffy long-haired loner" look I enjoy. And 5'7" is closer to my preferred height. Really though, I figured you'd say the nurse, lawyer, med student, or e…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:10 AM
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Why though? I know for me personally, I don't like the reaction of my mother or mother-in-law when I cry. That....motherly reaction. Doting, hugging, comforting, etc. I know they mean well, but it feels demeaning and overbearing, or like a degree of affection that should only be between sexual partners. But I'm a woman, an odd one at that, so my reasons are probably different from your reasons. Do you think it makes a difference if a man was raised by a single mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:03 AM
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Haha, I agree. But he doesn't. As I often do with topics on this sub, I showed him this comment and asked his opinion. This is my word-for-word transcript of what he said: "No? Like everyone else says, we go good together." From what I gather, he cares more about loyalty and responsibility than just looks. Not that looks don't matter. But we both grew up in alcoholic families, both our parents had messy divorces, and most of his exes are ugly cheating drunks. He likes me because I stay with him …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:10 AM
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I've literally said at least twice that we probably are outliers. But out of curiosity, what do you mean that our looks are "mismatched"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:44 PM
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I agree. There's a good chance OP is wrong about what both men and women want, which is a-okay. None of us know the full truth. I greatly enjoy the discussions on this sub regarding sociology and sexuality, but just as in every other area in life, there are many generalizations to be had here. And of course, there are indeed many behavioral patterns we share as humans. A pattern I've noticed in this sub: there seems to be this belief that people can't know their own wants and needs as individual…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:33 PM
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Considering my husband and I are from a very similar socioeconomic background, that being dirt poor loners with alcoholic parents, neither of us really married up or down. We married each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:02 PM
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I suppose it depends on how you define compatibility. Do you not think people can share values and find each other attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:57 PM
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Married. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:55 PM
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I think I get what you're saying. You have to date someone to know whether you meet each other's standards, so if you limit yourself in how many people you date, you're less likely to meet the right person. Correct? Mind you, I've never actually "dated" anyone in the sense you seem to be referring to. I moped around the weight room in high school eyeing the man who is now my husband, turns out he'd been eyeing me too, then one fateful day, we started chit-chatting about his drunk dad and my dead…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:45 PM
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Sure it makes sense. Her high standards might not meet my standards, my high standards might not meet her standards. That's where compatibility comes in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:27 PM
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My husband's cousin claimed to be asexual when we first met. A few months later, she met an older guy, started texting my husband and I for advice on blowjobs, buttsex, going to the bathroom around her boyfriend, and if I remember correctly, sneaking out at night to see him. Then when she turned 18 and visited us from out-of-state, she had sex with a family friend's 30-something nephew she just met that week.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:01 PM
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Other areas of compatibility aside, which is/was the most physically attractive to you? If you don't mind me asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:48 PM
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I'd probably take a murderer over a tall guy. Depending on who he murdered, and as long as he's taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:39 PM
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I know I'm probably an outlier, but vulnerability doesn't make me lose attraction to men. It just makes me nervous. I feel like if a man is sad or scared, something must be REALLY wrong. If anything, vulnerability makes me more attracted to men, at least to an extent; I can't handle people of either sex who are consistently pessimistic or emotionally sensitive. But emotional women just piss me off, while emotional men worry me. As for the boner thing....fair enough. Same with orgasms; male ejacu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:30 PM
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I'll be honest, I'm extremely picky with men. And women, but either I have higher standards for men, or more women meet my standards. I only find 1 man attractive out of maybe....500? At least on camera; in person, they might be too tall. While I find more than 1 out of 5 women attractive. The numbers I would have sex with or consider a long-term relationship with are even lower. Most men these days just don't strike my fancy, and I have major trust issues, especially with women. Both men and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:19 PM
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Why not? Different people have different standards for health and accomplishment, so it seems "compatibility" in this context means you meet each other's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:35 PM
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No one is legally restricting your right to wear tank tops and shorts unless you live somewhere like Saudi Arabia. Your right to self-defense may be restricted, but that applies to both sexes, and men often face harsher penalties for physically defending themselves. Things like "lack of fear" are not legal rights. As a woman, I fear getting lost while walking home at night (or even during the day) and my mother-in-law doing something stupid in her well-meaning naivete. Are my fears and experienc…
/r/AntiFeminists05/05/20 08:43 PM
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Depending on how husband and wife are defined. I prefer "the male of a pair of mating animals" for husband and "the female of a pair of mating animals" for wife. If you are a pair of animals who mate with each other, you are husband and wife. Unless you don't believe humans are animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:43 PM
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Yes. I believe marriage should be between the couple, their family, and their local community, whether that be church, science club, or the "friends" they just met in Vegas. As for the issue of hospital visits and other medical rights, whether someone is married to the patient should be irrelevant to whether they can visit. If the patient wants (or doesn't want) certain visitors, that information should be on file and respected by the hospital, regardless of visitors' relationship to the patient…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:20 PM
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Am I unusual for being more respectful online than I am IRL?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:30 PM
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I thought the polls said 90% of women believe in equality of the sexes, but only like 10% say they're feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:27 PM
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Perhaps more than it should be. Specifically, I'm pleased that I've had sex with both men and women, it feels like I should get a PS3 trophy or some shit. Not that I care so much about trophies. I'm extremely satisfied with my husband, the only man I've ever had sex with and the only man I ever wish to have sex with. Most any "fantasy male" in my mind is just another version of him. I have extremely strict criteria for any other man I might take interest in, and they don't seem to be criteria ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:14 PM
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You're right, people are responsible for their own feelings, thoughts, and actions. It just pains me to know how the struggles men face are completely disregarded by society. When I found this thread, I asked my husband "Do men really feel so disposable?", to which he said yes and explained why. I'm like "Oh...." because there's really nothing I can do aside from try to be a good friend and good wife. Hopefully I'm doing something right, because I want him to be genuinely happy. Not just fake ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:46 AM
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See, and the media portrays it as the total opposite: women love romance, men hate it. That said, based on my experiences with people, I can't entirely disagree with you. The women I know are the far-from-romantic "strong independent woman" types, while the men in my life consistently surprise me with how romantic and sensitive they really are. Total opposite of the misandrist stereotypes my mother taught me. Really, I apologize on behalf of my sex for how callously women treat men. But you can'…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:38 AM
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Men aren't really so disposable. Some women are just wasteful and ungrateful. A romantic relationship with the right person is most certainly worth it. But I can't help but feel that our worth as indiviuals - of either sex - may decline as our population grows. Somewhat similar to currency inflation as more money is printed. Still, might as well try to find that shiny one-of-a-kind Goldilocks who thinks you're just right. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:42 PM
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Maybe I'm an anomaly, but....short hair. As horribly shallow as it sounds. A man can be strong, agile, clever, kind, assertive, with good muscle tone, pretty eyes, a charming smile....Yet I basically cannot see any of that if his hair isn't long enough. Not that I want his hair down to his ass, but short hair rings these "sickness" alarm bells in my head. Same applies to women. In general, I feel like our standards of health have gotten lower as medical technology can string along even the most …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 03:32 AM
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Regardless, they definitely don't represent most women. Certainly not 99.999%.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 02:53 AM
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The "ghetto black women" you speak of don't have standards for most anything, including height. And a lot of "ghetto" types are surprisingly middle class. For some reason, middle class people act like every class, race, and sex besides their own. But the "black" thing might be toeing the line of the "race baiting" not allowed in the sub's rules. I don't know, I'm new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 03:27 PM
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If it's a social media thing, it's probably also more of a urban/suburban or middle/upper class thing. Which is far from most women. Not that rural or lower class women don't use social media, but the most outspoken internet users, as well as the participants in most studies or surveys, tend to be certain demographic groups that don't speak for all people. While most women who answer whatever polls might prefer riduculously tall men, most women don't even answer those polls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 06:19 AM
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Large range of builds between scrawny and bodybuilder. It's about balance; not too short, not too tall, not too big, not too small. Honestly, you seem to care more about height than almost any woman. It matters, but really not as much as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 04:29 AM
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That is a very blatant generalization. Maybe the majority prefer tall men, but 99.999% is clearly just made up numbers. At maybe 88%, I would give you the benefit of the doubt, but most women care a lot more about muscles and general build than sheer height. Perhaps I'm an anomaly, but not that much of an anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 04:10 AM
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Haha, no problem! Just as long as you're okay with sharing that information.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:40 PM
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Way too tall, and I can't separate the face from the body. Can't even try to find a man's body attractive if his face and hair aren't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 12:33 AM
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Beto O'Rourke? Haha ew! Each to their own though. I prefer men who are muscular, but not like a bodybuilder with a "power neck" or pecs that look like tits, and taller than me, but no more than 6 inches taller. Also with hair between mid-neck and mid-back length, just to fuck with the data even more. Wahlberg and O'Rourke both look basically the same to me. So am I an anomaly or a liar?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 10:07 PM
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And from my experience, it really doesn't matter how it's styled. A man who looks good with long hair is treated as an exception to the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 09:52 PM
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If what you say is true, that's good to hear. I'm well aware than men have had long hair for decades, centuries, millennia, but the common consensus for this past century or so, at least in the Western world, seems to be that long hair is womanly and short hair is manly. Same in other regions throughout history. I strongly disagree with that premise, perhaps because the bias against men with long hair has been way more prevalent in my experience. Genuinely glad that you haven't really seen much …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 09:10 PM
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I took damage just by looking at it!
/r/AntiFeminists24/02/20 05:48 PM
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Most people don't seem to think that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 04:36 PM
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I'm assuming you're the one downvoting me, because no one really seemed to care either way until you showed up. And once again, maybe the first half of what I said was unnecessary, probably should've just parroted back to you that your own comment wasn't worth typing without giving you any justification at all. However, I wanted to give you at least some benefit of the doubt because why not. And yes, people hit on each other over comments. Usually people assume I'm a man, but once they realize I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 04:00 PM
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As a humorous (to me, at least) way to state my size, which is relevant to the topic of height preferences, while preemptively (though probably needlessly) holding off any potential advances from the poster I responded to who explicitly prefers females of my size. He didn't seem to give a rat's ass either way, nor have most other people passing through. I don't understand why any of your comment was worth typing out at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 03:35 PM
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Not that Google's top results are necessarily an indicator of what's truly the norm, but he was widely praised for cutting his hair short.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 03:07 PM
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Said a lot of people. In particular, people with crew cuts, buzz cuts, and shaved heads, which I can't help but attribute to subconscious or even conscious envy. Hairdressers also seem to love cutting men's hair shorter than they requested. As for how it's styled, maybe that's the issue: hair that looks too obviously "styled" at all can be off-putting for either sex, but men in particular are expected to not groom as fastidiously as women. Long hair is more prone to both under-grooming and over-…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 03:04 PM
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Salt was indeed expensive! You know that's where the word "salary" supposedly comes from? And silver....ah, shiny.... It sounds like you have a beautiful heritage. :) Maybe a bit rough and tumble, but that's life. I have people from Saint Louis too, but a different one, in the Midwest US. Although it's more on the eastern half of the country. Alas, Mideast has a different meaning to most folks. I feel wary going in-depth with my own heritage online, just in case my family finds Reddit, or Reddit…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 06:06 AM
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Oh, the men in my family do all that kind of shit too, but....the women just do it even more. Maybe I'm desensitized, because I don't even see my family as particularly dysfunctional, just my family. It's mainly my mom's side and her first husband's family that acts like that. My dad sheltered me from what he could, so I don't even know what all happened. A lot of gang/mob stuff though. If you don't mind me asking, where in Africa? No need to be too specific or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 02:01 AM
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Maybe other women far away from where I live, but most women I know will take either no man or any man. I'm a tad smaller than average, so perhaps my perspective is distorted, but anything over 5'6" is too tall for me. When I see an attractive man on TV and find out he's 6+ feet, my heart kinda sinks. Like I have to pretend he's smaller when I think about meeting him in person face-to-face. Er, face-to-chest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 01:42 AM
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Haha, maybe I shouldn't have said anything. In a nutshell, my family is what you might call dysfunctional. Both men and women, but the women are this particular flavor of dysfunctional, perhaps due to the trend of "strong independent" single mothers in my area of residence. Usually at the extreme of either dumb teen mom or dangerously too old to be having children. I won't say any of them are bad people, but they've done things that aren't very good. Like my mom accidentally stabbing me in the h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 01:32 AM
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Ew no haha, a guy that tall would be such a turn-off I can't even. Maybe on television is fine, where their height isn't readily apparent, but tall men almost seem distorted in person. And I'm in my mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 01:01 AM
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I don't think so either. From my experience, many men with longer hair are some of the most "manly" men out there. Just as many women without makeup are some of the most beautifully feminine creatures the world has to offer. And most all of us experience sadness to the point of tears, anger to the point of violence, fear to the point of sickness, and happiness to the point of howling with monkey-like exuberance. It's just a human thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 10:29 PM
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The earlier games weren't so SJW though. Odyssey is....ehhh....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 10:21 PM
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When. Where. Yes. No. It varies through time and space. I could be wrong, but sexual dimorphism seems tied to population density and related factors. Smaller scattered communities, such as in prehistoric times, are more sexually dimorphic. To a degree. As others have said, differences in bone structure and musculature were more pronounced. But we were both hairier. Women didn't shave as much, men didn't cut their hair so short, until villages began to coalesce into cities. Perhaps to compensate …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 10:08 PM
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I carry a knife. It doesn't sound like much, and it's honestly mostly for other women, but the females in my family have a pretty solid history of stabbing. I'd have a gun if it wasn't for the legal issues. My mother-in-law carries pepper spray, but she's more likely to blow up the can in her own face than successfully spray an attacker.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 09:22 PM
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Like long hair not being manly. Personally, I think short hair is a sign of militaristic authoritarian imperialism possibly approaching an impending societal implosion, based on the historical head-shaving of slaves, prisoners, and conscripts. Why else would you pretend to have alopecia instead of wearing your mane with pride? YMMV though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 09:02 PM
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It would totally depend on if he gave that same look to a flock of loud-mouthed women. If he's only rolling his eyes at other men, I'll assume he is indeed a cringey virtue-signaling male feminist. If he's only rolling his eyes at women, I'll assume he's one of those loud-mouthed men, just waiting to let one rip from both ends. Then again, I find a lot of stereotypical "alpha" traits quite unattractive. Same for those who unironically use the term "alpha" because they probably aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 08:47 PM
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I pity men who grow up in households dominated by women, whether they're raised by single mothers or surrounded by sisters. My husband is an only child and was mostly raised by his mom, who has two sisters and what you might call a "pussy-whipped" older brother. He's a good man, but it seems he's been emasculated by all these "strong independent women" in his family, same for all his brother-in-laws. My husband struggles (quite successfully, thank goodness) against similar issues. My mother-in-l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 08:33 PM
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From my perspective, you're way too tall. :) Hope that punch knocks your guts back in place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 07:47 PM
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Haha yeah, contrary to popular belief, too big or too tight can be just as bad as too small or too loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 07:39 PM
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Tiny, but taken! Sorry, not sorry, probably not up your alley anyway! Really though, I think about 4-6 inches taller is probably the sweet spot for many if not most girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 07:24 PM
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I would find "John" kinda bleh. Preferring a man taller than yourself is probably biological to a large extent, but I personally find men over half a foot taller than me quite unattractive except on camera, even if they meet all my other criteria. Men like, say, Jeff Hardy and Layne Staley (before he became a walking corpse) are sexy to me in photos and videos, but I would find their height a major turn-off in person. My husband, on the other hand, is shorter than average, but he's tall to me an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 07:20 PM
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