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If it wasn't for photoshop... Feel bad for the photo intern on that task.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 01:50 PM
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Great start! I see lots of great advice here. MY GUESS is that your GF will come back even stronger next time. Using words like you did has to be a last resort type situation. It works great sometimes...ACTIONS matter. So continue on the path my friend. You can get to a point where your GF wont even start the argument. You will see her start to get angry, stop, reflect for a second, clam down, and move on with her day. Like magic. Welcome to the party.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 01:41 PM
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For a while, I stopped trying for sex. I new that I was not at the point where my wife would get all tingly for me. So I monk moded for a bit. BUT what I did was starting lifting hard, took on more responsibility at work, stopped apologizing, and avoided arguments at all costs. This was a great start for me. You can become almost amoral about your marriage. If it fails it fails, if it succeeds, great. What matters most is become the best possible person you can be. Cook healthier, learn some new…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 02:35 AM
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Hah. I know I would get shit for saying that.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 02:20 AM
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You have a great point. A year or so ago I would have been miserable. Let the wife do everythig while being treated like shit. I actually had a good time. Got to show my kids a great time. And demonstrated to myself all this redpill stuff does work. This is my current reality so I am making the most of it. Trying to master it and steer it in a way that benefits me. But yeah, marriage and kids is not everyone's cup of tea. Most have no idea what they are getting into.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 09:46 PM
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Don't forget working all day everyday so they can have everything. Even if you get nothing.. Hah
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 09:43 PM
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In my experience women are indecisive.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 06:54 PM
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Hit the nail on the fucking head
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 06:35 PM
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Yeah, I did not tell them about space mountain. hah. they are still young so next time. But yes, failure!
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 03:08 PM
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Great point- flexibility is key as well. What is nice is you can fake that so well too "Oh this idea didn't work- here is my backup plan" even if you had no backup plan. Shoot, one day it hit 90 degrees, it was super crowded, and the kids weren't going to make it. Time to head back to the hotel to swim and have a real nice dinner. And the hotel already has something tonight I was planning on taking the kids too. Shows mastery of your surroundings.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 03:08 PM
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Perfect response. Quick and to the point.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/15 12:29 PM
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It's not foolproof, but we do something like this. I just helps to take the attention away from managing the kids to managing tasks. It's easier to say "You know what to do now" then "Stop hitting your brother!". That also make 'tech time' a reward they have to earn by accomplishing their tasks on time. Then the wife or I cook dinner starting close to 5 so we can get that started without kids underfoot. (I work from home and end at 5 60% of the year). After that, its some play time and bed soon …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 06:47 PM
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You could always try a different approach. Her issue may be her schedule. She is tired, bitchy, cranky, when the kiddos get home. So write her up a schedule to use until you get home. 3:30- kids get off the bus. 3:30-4:00 kids put away school gear, put up their lunch boxes, wash their hands, grab a pre-approved snack and water and sit down at table to eat. 4:00-4:30 kids sit at table to work on homework every day OR personal reading time if they already finished homework. 4:30-5:00 clean rooms, …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 04:44 PM
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Great question. You are making great gains- quickly- so your wife is noticing. Great! The hard part is that this is a long term process. What is great is that she is instantly responding to a little dread and an increase in your SMV. What I told my wife is "I am making improvements in my life. You may or may not notice. But I am going to be working on improving myself. I don't want to talk about specifics because I want my actions to speak for themselves." I set up a few frameworks to let her kn…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 01:30 PM
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I am married for 11 years now. Marriage is a crazy motherfucker. Love is a farce. hah. At least the type of romantic- I will do anything for you no matter what- type love. I can not think of one couple I know that I can say "Man, they just really love each other." Its much more of a familiarity, closeness, respect, type thing than this overarching love pull. It honestly is a poor word as it loses its meaning quickly. many TRP folks say never get married. The reasons are pretty simple. On a strai…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 07:07 PM
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You can always have a long ass list- just know that it is much much easier to master one or two things at a time than 100 things. Plus, there is a concept of easy successes. If you have a few easy successes, you can build on those. Like in lifting, I can squat pretty high weight. So I know that when I need a boost I go for a PR in a front squat or Overhead Squat. But my benchpress sucks right now. So I slowly develop the muscles necessary to benchpress better, but I could care less what I PR rig…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:47 PM
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I like this question. Suffering is a weird word. What do you mean by suffering? do you mean that no matter how hard you work, not matter what effort, time, and energy you put into life, relationships, work, etc that you could still end up lonely and homeless? I have a mantra- embrace the chaos. Chaos, struggle all those types of things help you develop strength, resiliency, courage, and grit. Highs and lows are a part of life. Embrace it.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:39 PM
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Try meditation. Try finding a new hobby your really enjoy and work hard at it. Find an MMA gym and take up BJJ or Muay Thai. Work your fucking ass off to get better grades. Something will stick and help you gain confidence.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:33 PM
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Just my opinion... Redefining yourself in a short amount of time is very very very difficult. You will revert to the mean. NOW- maybe you have a personality/social issue you want to tweak. Maybe you talk too much and are always ready and willing to be the white knight in any situation with a chick... yeah tweak that shit. But to say you can go from point A to point B from just faking it till you make it is tough to accomplish. HOWEVER- the best kind of change is long term change with a daily foc…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:30 PM
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Having trouble carrying your ginormous balls?
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:22 PM
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Well done. A textbook example of why these ideas are so fucking life altering/life-saving. Keep your head down and keep at it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/15 08:54 PM
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Go get snipped. Problem solved. You're probably screwed. If she really wants another child it could be a big ol dealbreak for her. But who knows. You have a ton of options. Communicate that you don't want a kid right now and that if you change your mind you will let her know. Straight forward simple. No reasons at all. You just don't want to right now. If you are gaining in your alpha status, this might actually work. It will be a pretty solid test of where you are at anyways. For a lot of discu…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/15 08:51 PM
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I had a high school that was 600 or so people. So a great wide sample to draw from. A good percentage were athletes. A solid percentage of those were just good looking. In shape etc. there was a decent group of girls who were nice, smart etc but never really dated. Always had trouble finding dates to dances etc. Fast forward to post college age. These decent girls started finding the gym, hiking, running 5ks, eating clean. They just got hotter and hotter. This group is starting to get married. G…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/15 01:01 PM
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There is straight visual physical type SMV and the overall package. If some is decently in shape, has a good job- you would think their SMV would be high. But if they are straight up whiny beta- it's not. And she knows it. When unplugging- the best- fastest thing you can do is change your outward appearance. But changing your inner self to match is the true hard work. But a divorced dude in decent shape with a decent job has a high chance of snagging another woman a few years younger... but not …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 07:42 PM
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Pretty much spot on. Although- I do see a fair amount of late bloomers. Girls who weren't real partiers or super popular in high school, college, or post college... but become super serious about fitness. They improve as those oops got pregnant at 20 with an unemployed dillweed or the uber-religious girls who were married, pregnant, and a SAHM before 22 fall hard. But it all catches up. They find guys that they would never 'settle' for with the whole "He is such a nice guy!". and they settle bac…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 06:30 PM
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That was left out in the sun
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 05:34 PM
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Wife goggles. New favorite term.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 03:25 PM
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Picture #2 is so damn beautiful. Unashamedly amazing.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 03:24 PM
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Lift, get a job, gtfo, turn into an uber succesful alpha male and watch as your sisters shift and change, wishing they could date a guy more like their brother. Or as they beg you for money like they deserve it. Find a cheap room to rent with a bunch of dudes. That'll change things.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 12:28 PM
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To give a FR version of this. My wife is in shapeish... runner, always has some workout she is doing... not bad. BUT recently she just has not seen any gains. On the other hand, I am ONLY seeing mass gains. I even took a video of me hitting a max front squat and showed it to her. That night? She hits the gym for an extra session? She just can't let me get to far ahead now can she!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 01:45 PM
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One woman... wait shit... uhh....
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 07:08 PM
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What has surprised me the most is the epic changes in my wife. She is mostly driven, works out etc... but her drive to improve is increasing so dang much after I got myself whipped into a better man. Its crazy. She now wants to keep up and it drives her nuts that I don't need her for anything. Its crazy fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 04:46 PM
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You don't need professional help unless you have a major mental issue. I was depressed out of my mind and needed a counselor to pull me out. After I was out- it was up to me. I have a full time job, I travel a ton, I have three kids with a ton of stuff they do. I read, work out, improve myself, and get shit done. It's how it works. Nobody cares if you feel bad for yourself here. Or if you need us to ease up. The trick is to find YOUR inner drive. That hidden away motor that causes you to stand t…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 04:44 PM
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Well fuck. I am late to the party but you sound somewhat like me. She has all the control right now. You are in a shit house bad soap opera epic. It's not what you wanted, imagined, or hoped for. So let me give you the 12 month plan that is somewhat paying off for me now. I say somewhat... as there are just some things about my SO that... welp... are tough. Begin the process of gaining inner and outer strength. Right now, you have zero control over your wife's behavior. You are also not at the p…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 04:41 PM
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You could always leave him behind. If he can't get his shit together... It's not your fault. He might change. It might take years. But it must be a strong internal pull. Fuck your situation. Good luck!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 12:12 AM
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Lift to gain physical and mental strength. Become stoic. If you get into an argument with your wife you've already lost. Her mood and emotions need to have zero effect on you. You won't be able to lead/ be alpha until you have gained inner and outer strength.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 12:09 AM
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This sucks. If I were you:Prepare for divorce. Serve her papers. Say very little between now and then. Don't offer to help. Just get your shit together even more. Once papers are served- you have run nuclear dread. I would simply say "Stop drinking and then we can talk about this. Continue drinking and I wont be around to watch." Good luck. Seriously. I have alcoholics in my extended family. Some snap out of it and get help. Others dont. Wish you the best.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/15 09:38 PM
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Find a tire to flip. Great way to get the muscles going and working on form without having the bang the heavy weight. Squats are key to gaining massive strength.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 02:09 PM
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It does. It kind of struck me that she didn't get her needs met for one day, and goes batshit crazy, I have been tolerating this for years. That's gold. Lose your job? Maybe she gives you 2 weeks to not find one. Get sick? Maybe 24 hours to get better. Women are crazy.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 07:36 PM
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I turn down duty type sex. My goal is for my wife to jump me. She gets into these weird moods where she is just all over the place crazy. normally, it is the week before her period. And her pattern is so predictable I can actually clock it. at exactly 10:45 she decides she is now ready to talk about whatever she wants to talk about. I may be asleep, just said i'm tired good night, whatever. She used to actually start yelling at me if I wasn't up for talking. BP would stay up LATE talking, then b…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 07:34 PM
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Great job for that early. She ALREADY notices you are kicking ass. She is already worried you might be stepping out. But she is still in control. Which is just fine. It takes a lot of time to stop confronting. My mantra has been- If I am in an argument with my wife, I have already lost. Actions over words, always. Keep working out. Keep carving out your own time. Don't try and wrestle control. Just stick to your shit and maintain frame as best as possible. In 2-3 months. Maybe earlier, she will …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 07:26 PM
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Nice story. Level 10 fuckery. Badass. Great show. My wife the other day said something along the lines of "I just don't have the energy for all that sexy stuff anymore. Maybe when the kids are out of the house or something I will again..." I just smirked. I am NOT at the point where I can run level 10 dread. But slowly but surely, my wife is reacting to my changes. We have had more sex (more actual fucking) etc. But, every month, as she approaches her period, she gives this same tired argument. …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 07:19 PM
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"We had a nice time, he is a great guy, really smart, great job, great conversation, fun, he is really into me. But... he just... didn't do it for me." Translation- No Tingles = no second date. "My love is conditional." "Don't worry, I will get him trained soon." -any newlywed or soon to be newlywed.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 07:12 PM
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Rock on. What fun. I like your son's response. A great line in the sand dread game. Now- I DO understand her desire in this. She wants to be an "equal partner" which means having shared bank accounts etc etc etc. 10-20 years ago the advice I would have given the engaged couple is "What's mine is yours and yours is mine". Now? Fuck that. Divorce is so dang common and YOUR money would then get split AT LEAST 50-50 if not 100-0. Of course, this little deal could potentially put a wedge between all …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 06:45 PM
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It's the old adage that if you are arguing with your wife, you've already lost. More communication is rarely, if ever, a solid solution for bettering your marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/15 03:00 PM
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"I am making changes in my life. I don't want to talk about what those are because actions matter more than words. I am working hard on our relationship. Let's revisit seeing a counselor in 6 months." Then learn to say less. Don't complain about housework. Don't argue. Work your ass off and see what happens. Most folks around here say it takes about a year for changes to take full effect and the wife to get on board. I am 9ish months in and my wife just began making strides 2 months ago. Communi…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/15 12:32 PM
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Good luck. Motivating others is exceptionally difficult. The standard red pill answer is to work harder and your wife will follow. Or pull dread game around weight gain. Which could backfire.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/15 03:18 AM
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Damn son. Lots of great advice already here. First off. WEAR A CONDOM! Second. Learn to work hard. Learn to enjoy working hard. I enjoyed being lazy as a teenager and it took me a long time to enjoy hard work in all aspects of my life. I did tons of sports growing up but once those sports ended, I didn't have the motivation to keep improving my fitness and I got FAT. So enjoy working hard for the sake of working hard. Third. Do well in school. Excel. Do what it takes to succeed. I did dumb stuff…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 02:37 PM
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See a doctor. Your depression could be your body not exactly working correctly. Meds could help stabilize your psyche so you can deal with reality. It sounds like you have issues beyond your control that meds could help with. Go to a regular doctor. Get a checkup, blood tests, physical, and talk about options for anti-depressants. Source: its what I had to do and it worked.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 02:44 PM
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Time management. A silly term that just means, plan stuff out. I work 40-80 hours a week depending on the week (traveling or not). I also have a wife and kids. Some days, I don't have very much extra time at all. But I still find time to peruse the internet, read, workout, watch some TV. etc. When I was 18ish circa 2002 I got some advice for college. Set up your college week like a 40 hour work week. Wake up, get ready, go to class boom 40 hours start. So say you have 10ish hours of classes, add…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 02:40 PM
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To give you some perspective, my wife has ADD. When she found out (around 25ish) she worked REALLY hard for 2-3 years to cope. Once she put in the hard work, she got on some meds and it boosted her right up. But it was the hard work that put her into a position for the meds to actually help her succeed. ADD (and ADHD) is easily misunderstood. I am sure you know all this, but think of it more as your mind does not have an input filter. Mine has a great one. If I need to focus on say my computer f…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 06:54 PM
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I get a sense you are younger. If I were you, I would go full monk mode for 30 days. Most younger people spend a significant amount of time around others. They go to school all day (high school, then college), spend time socializing, or playing a sport. So they tend to define themselves and receive validation from those around them. I would take 30 days to hole up a bit. It doesn't mean cut everyone off but just intentionally spend time on self improvement. Settling your mind. Getting more in tu…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 03:10 PM
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I have been thinking about your question for the past day and will try to answer the best I can. A husband who consistently complains or who always has a bad day at work etc etc is a shit husband. It causes the wife to lose faith in their man and he comes off as weak. Now and again, it would be nice to be vulnerable with the wife. But every time I am- it turns negative. Either the wife constantly asks me about it trying to help, she claims to want the vulnerability but then her actions show diff…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 01:44 PM
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I don't think dread works if you have nothing to offer. Real key there for marriages/LTRs. You HAVE to have a high SMV to start rocking dread.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 08:26 PM
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It's not a bad way to go to be honest.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 08:25 PM
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Luckily, the same gym has both. Its an MMA/Crossfit gym. I don't know how they did it, but its legit in all phases too. Quality coaches etc. Plus, the cost is worth its weight in relationship gold and health. It helps to live near a major city to have access to the good stuff.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 08:25 PM
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Poor dude. I see this all the time.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 05:46 PM
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Good points. My wife does not really yell or raise her voice in an argument. So arguing took me years to figure out. If she would just yell at me, I could react much much easier. But the passive aggressive or straight forward manipulation fucked with my head. So I, more or less, let her realize how dumb she is being by letting her hamster into stupidity. Or I just end the argument with a "This is what we are going to do" or some form of amused mastery. Seems to work much much better than joining…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 05:46 PM
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haha. Yeah. I was a shit person before getting married. Marriage and kids helped me to realize I needed to work on my life. But yeah, I have met a lot of married folks over the years. Friends, acquaintances whatever. And few have a really sweet life. The ones that do tend to have something real different about them. The way they live life. Like my cousin who works 3-6 months out of the year and travels 6ish months of the year with his wife. They go all over the world. Seems like a great connecti…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 05:44 PM
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That's a good question. Lifting has the best ratio of work : result for men. You could try running, hiking, and some form of sport. There are also plenty of things to do at home. P90x is okay for doing at home. Crossfit isn't all 100% weights. It is also a lot of cardio and core work. Just find a time where lots of dudes actually go to the class so you're not stuck working out with tons of women.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 05:41 PM
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This concept has been key for me. It shows a couple of things I am in control at all times of my own well being. If I am tired, I take care of it. sick? I take care of it. I do what it takes to lead the family. Kids are sick? I take care of it. I don't mind her complaining but it doesn't phase me or change my actions. She can complain. She can vent. "Yeah, that does suck." I don't argue because its a waste. My wife started to see ALL the shit I do around the house after I followed this concept. …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 08:45 PM
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hungry for the game. Love that. Hungry for the game. I see it as really celebrating my successes. Knowing when I have done great things in work, life, whatever. When I get a fat commission check- I celebrate. Then get the fuck back to work hungry to keep the momentum going. To keep growing.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 05:57 PM
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Good point. Satisfaction is next level. It is a mix of figuring out who you are, taking joy in working hard to achieve a greater you, and finding satisfaction in your accomplishments and efforts. This should lead to a general happiness in your life and a greater satisfaction.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 02:21 PM
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I was also diagnosed with depression. Not being depressed and being happy are two very different things. Which is hard to separate. Depression can happen from a variety of things. From broken relationships, traumatic past, stunted emotional growth, etc. The path to re-stabilize for me took years. I started with counseling to overcome the stunted growth and deal with my past, changed relationships, changed my outlook, work, habits etc. But I was still depressed. So I went to the doc and was presc…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 02:18 PM
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Excellent comments already. My rule of thumb is IF I get into an argument with my wife, I have already lost. I cannot win an argument with my wife. Ever. Even if I am 100% in the right and she knows it. She still wont respond to a normal argument in a healthy manner. Because she is a woman. So I don't let her emotions or whatever run me. I am "unfazed" by her logic/argument and I am fully in control of the situation. She just wants to know I am in control and know what to do. Men that let their …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 01:40 PM
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Catcalling happens. Much more common in urban areas, college party areas, and high tourist areas (vegas, beaches in CA etc). Things that should not be said in a workplace happens. Its when it goes beyond that to "that guy looked at me- harrasment!" "I thought I was going to be raped!" "My boss hates me because I am a woman" etc that is ignorant. Lots of women are just like this chica. At all ages.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 06:16 PM
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When you can get aunt Betty to stop asking "when are you getting married????" Socially I mean. When social pressure will be a lot less. So cohabitation is close in regards to social acceptance.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 11:03 PM
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Strong thoughts showing you look beneath the surface before responding. I would estimate the the percentage of truly happy marriages in the US is under 15%. The odds of two people coming together and finding a solid relationship are low. Divorce rate is high. Satisfaction rate is low. Its sucky odds. That is why I think more and more men will forgo the government contract marriage. You'll notice I said "There is a slight chance..." that you will share a really fun life with someone who kicks ass…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 10:43 PM
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Sometimes I am clear as mud.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 04:06 PM
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Haha. Nah, religious satisfaction is not one for me. I meant to say that I benefited from marriage greatly as a person. Without it, I don't know if I would have really faced the reality of who I was and changed for it. The difficulty of marriage- the process- made me face the fact that I was not a person worth respecting or loving. So I made changes. That's my personal benefit. Beyond that- there could be benefits. IF you are in a marriage/LTR with a top 5% woman. A true unicorn. Hence my last s…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 04:03 PM
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I am married. I have said around here now and again that marriage can be a good thing because 1) my kids rock and 2) maybe, just maybe life with my SO will be better. I have also said that it is very very hard to be a true alpha male in a married relationship. At the same level as running a corporation, being an elite team athlete (ie Michael Jordan), etc. It was a big goal of mine when I was younger. To find a nice lady, settle down, etc. I regret the mentality. I regret the concept that I shou…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 03:33 PM
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You can already see it happening in the increase in cohabitation. Delayed marriage statistics and increase in divorce. They all point to the idea that the concept of marriage is on the decline. BUT, at this point (in the US and most of the west) there is not another option to a legal marriage. Even some states that count living together as common law type marriages. I would hope that would change. But it would take a lot of changes in ideology. My generation (graduated HS in 01) was supposedly t…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 11:47 PM
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I would imagine you will see a large uptick in cohabitation and marriages without the actual government contract (in the US specifically). My guess is my children's generation will see nothing wrong with never getting married.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 10:37 PM
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I keep everything from her. I just said "I am working on developing as a person. You might noticed some changes. I am not going to talk about it because talk doesn't matter." You can get pdf versions to read on your phone. If you hit up the top posts of all time on TRP and MRP you can get a lot of info. Take a book to work and read on lunch break. Whatever. Keeping it secret is not a big deal at all. It about you hitting up monk mode and working to take steps forward. Buy the books and cut out p…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/15 05:34 PM
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That's pretty much what I have come down to. You not having friends is not my problem. I watched my dad all growing up have ONLY friends that were my mom's friend's SO. Such a crappy way to go. Especially when crazy women decide not to be friends anymore and my Dad loses friends. hah. It is more difficult to make new friends as you age, but not impossible.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/15 05:27 PM
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I got married. Yup. I also found redpill 9ish months ago. In a few months I will be hitting my 11 year anniversary. I have three kids. So by all TRP accounts I am fucked. Which, you know. I was. My time and life were not my own. I was always doing something for someone else. Sexless (once went 9 or so months- I think I suppressed those memories). But marriage can be the most red pill thing to do possible. You are taking one woman. Yup. One woman and ensuring that your life is still up to your st…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 05:25 PM
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Thaaaaat's awesome.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/15 03:27 PM
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My wife is shit on her period. Moody. Whinny. Irritable. Last time she even said "I know I act like a middle school girl, I can't help it!" Sucky. Since Redpill, I know now to just wait her out. She will be up for some fun as soon as she is. Before redpill- that was pretty much the only time I had sex. Once after her period was over and MAYBE on more time. Now... a few days in a row once her period ends then its up and down. My wife is pretty damn easy to read and is either in the mood or not. T…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/15 03:24 PM
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I love this. I know there are a ton of reasons why the marriage rate is low. Some of it is a fair amount of guys that are just plain not up to snuff. They tend to be sloppy, under-employed, home bound, and and frankly not really men. Then you have the career woman who either 1)wont go on dates or 2) has such a high standard that they will never find any man because none exist. Or they know deep down they really want a man that will get them those tingles- make them feel sexy and awesome. Instead…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 01:22 PM
4

My wife works out pretty well. She was a personal trainer for a while. Half marathons, 5ks etc. But man, she steps up her game the more I work out. It honestly hilarious to me. You can just see her trying to stay one step ahead of me. Upping her game. I don't think she would say it out loud like your SO did, but I know she thinks that the better I look, the more attention I can get elsewhere. One thing I have heard now and again on TRP stuff and I am quite a believer in now. The gym is my place …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/15 05:17 PM
8

To play off this. I always hate the "I'm gunna fight you!" attitude when a chick flirts with another guy. Why would I fight the guy? It's one thing if the other guy was flirting or doing something without her consent. Like some dude saddling up to my SO in a bar and not taking the hint that he needs to go. But its her actions and her fault for the situation. She is initiating and taking in the flirting. All he did was lower his SMV. He becomes and SJW by fighting for his woman. That's when you g…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 01:39 PM
3

Haha
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 05:14 PM
1

Once I started actually pulling this off my wife's reactions changed. Slowly. But they changed. She started saying things like "Nothing ever bothers you, I wish I could be more like that", "I have all these problems and its like you have none. Wow. I am jealous". Where before she would say things like "I always tell you how I feel, now you need to open up more and talk to me" or "I feel like every time we talk about any issues I have, you just downplay it and make me feel dumb and stupid. You ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/15 04:02 PM
8

You are getting some good advice here. I think you need to take a few steps back and realize something. You dug yourself a big ass pit and fell in it. I have been there. Forget your relationship with your wife for a few minutes (days, weeks, months whatever). and focus on YOU. Go lift. If you are worried about injury, just use the bar. Watch youtube clips to learn form. Get stronglift 5x5 and start with no weight. Seriously, no weight. I used to have back, knee, and hip issues until I start lift…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/15 03:50 PM
7

Damn son. Great advice here already. But my own reflection. I am currently working very hard on staying quiet. Letting my wife hamster, have her emotions, etc and not engaging. I have found that the less we talk things through or deal with things- the better. Its bassackwards from what we were all taught. But the key to my relationship with my wife is not effective verbal communication. I see whenever I engage in an argument, even a simple little one, I lose. No amount of negotiation or discussi…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/15 02:59 PM
2

To piggy back- the never apologize/justify yourself to a women is a tough thing to own up to at first. I found myself saying sorry all the time. More of a "yeah yeah sorry go away". Now, I do not apologize. And she has learned to apologize profusely. Works much better. I also don't tell her what I am going to do for her. I used to. All the time. Then it becomes and expected contract and is not over and above/loving whatever. So I wont answer the question /u/ExBABYYy asked. Except to pass the com…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 03:57 PM
4

I noticed this covert contract concept when I realized there was not one more thing I could cram in my day. So when my wife would say "You never (fill in the blank" or "You need to do more xyz around the house" i'd crumble, get pissed, and want to leave. Didn't she notice ALL the shit I do every day? The answer: no. She didn't. She would even argue when I tried to show her what I did. Post TRP- I do less around the house now. Have a bit more time for myself. And she is happier because I am a man…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 03:51 PM
3

Thaaaats funny. I'm married. almost 11 years. I rely on my wife less today than at anytime in our relationship. She eve says things like "I feel like you don't even need me." Love it.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 07:37 PM
3

Hah, I love that analogy. For me, it was the simple concept that I wanted to get punched hard. Learn to take a punch and deliver a nice shot back. That first time I caught a nice right to the face, it was magic. It helps to bring out that edge a man needs to feel powerful in all situations. And I get to hang out with dudes that are having a great time kicking and punching shit. Love it.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/15 04:08 PM
3

For the newer guys and some like me (8ish months or so). Lifting is the epitome. The physicality and strength are what drives women wild. Stronglift 5x5 was recommended to me when I started. Great program. I also do Muay Thai as it helps with functional strength, hip flexibility (my wife approves), and cardio. Just started doing crossfit and it appears to be a great addition. My wife adores the new muscles. She can feel them, see them, touch them, etc etc. My posture is better, my physicality is…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/15 02:06 PM
1

I was wondering this same thing. Once a month, my wife just turns man. Like spoiled milk left to long in the fridge. So 25% of my married life is my wife acting- well... shitty. I now firmly believe G-d is a woman. No man ever... no beast... no mythical male creature, zeus, none of them. Would ever decide that woman should have a period and be pmsing. The monthlies are just a hare brained scheme to grab one last vestige of control in the relationship. Only a manipulate god queen would think this…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/15 02:54 PM
30

Some of you reading here may be more like me. The journey to becoming a redpill dude feels much much longer than it should be. I have a million and one excuses of course- the issues is not that. Its that my road to becoming a true man is a long ass one because I was really lost. So take actual stock of your life. Live in reality. My reality was that I was fat, very unhappy, my wife was running my life, my kids took the rest, I had no hope for a fun/exciting life etc etc etc. All roads pointed to…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 02:48 PM
2

You're young. Get out. What the fuck is wrong with you? Grow some chin hair and get out. Life is to short to have this much shit.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 03:06 AM
1

You're awesome.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/14 02:27 PM
1

I forget sometimes that the world does not revolved around the US. hah. Just kidding. I always assume TRP is more US than international. I need to keep that in mind for the future. Enjoy
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 01:03 PM
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Defending himself versus knocking her out with a power punch, then dragging her out of the elevator like nothing happened is what I mean. I am not okay with the level of violence women can do against men. It happened to my neighbor. She had her baby daddy over, they got in a fight (I did not see it) he claims she hit her and beat on him, they made him leave and said something like "Well, its her house so if she asks you to leave you have to go." He wasn't arrested but he was kicked out. Even tho…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 12:57 PM
1

True. It is NOT fair that a women can literally beat on, hurt, kick, punch, bite, a man and if he fights back he is at fault. Totally. What I think he did wrong was hit her with the full force of his ultra strong self and knocked her out. it was not okay in context. Then to nonchalantly drag her out like it was an everyday occurrence to knock out your fiancee. There does need to be equality. BUT there is a line somewhere. Not a chivalry neck-beard line, but a, I could fuck you up line. But it do…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 12:54 PM
1

Apologize mate. A big time NFL star (you know American Football) was arrested for domestic violence (along with his fiancee). Video just came out courtesy of TMZ of him knocking his fiancee the fuck out as she attacked him. He was suspended indefinitely. She married him.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 12:52 PM
2

I think she loves the millionaire lifestyle
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 11:14 AM
0

She must do something for him...
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 12:33 AM
2

Sex went up a bit due to my wife not being afraid of pregnancy
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/14 12:32 AM
3

I am much more like "OMG, MY DAUGHTER DECIDED TO MARRY A GUY THAT KNOCKED HER OUT" and "OMG, MY DAUGHTER DECIDED TO FIGHT A GROWN ASS MAN". Just so many sides to the story. In regards to publicity, image, respect, etc- Ray rice had to go for now. It just shows that video changes situations A LOT. if every mistake ever made was on video, lots more folks would be thrown under the bus like this.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 06:58 PM
2

Yeah, truly. The video did him in on his "plan". He just fucking punched her out. But he is avoiding major jail time and in a few months, who knows. But the video evidence is so damaging to his brand that it will be tough to make it back to the NFL. This is also a great argument for why police need to have cameras on at all times. Just cant argue with film.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 03:42 PM
4

That is interesting. I hire for our company. One of the things I look for is someone who brings value to the company. Especially in unique ways. I can always find a 100 people who say the right MBA thing about a big corporation. But someone who can bring true value to smaller organization that shows real results quickly... beautiful stuff. Tangible- make sure that shit is on your resume.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 02:56 PM
4

When my wife and I were dating, we had a solid 6 month time where we would be long distance. This we pre skype/texts etc. I had a cell phone that mostly worked. But you get the idea. I took a few weeks to set up (what I thought) was a nice gift. I put a bunch of different things I thought about her inside of the box. Little slips of paper with sayings. (Think of the most blue pill thing possible to write down and then times that by a 100- yup). My thought was when she missed me or wondered about…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 02:52 PM
15

Daamn. I used to work for a non-profit. I had to fundraise a button of money every year. MOST of the money went right to admin costs, buildings, bad debt, bloated salaries (not mine of course), and I had no real money to run the actual programs I was in charge of. I got so freakin depressed I had to quit. I also watch people take and fuck it up. Take take take and screw it up. I am 100% all for lending a generous hand to others. But only one off times and if they actually have their shit togethe…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 02:45 PM
2

Wait till he 2 kids, gains 40 pounds, hates his job, starts drinking, and never has sex. Then he will be into it. Or just get him to have man night once in a while. Drinking, watching solid action movie or a game... he will crave those times. It will get his brain going. Most likely a pure blue piller wont be able to see the light. I was there man... I was there...
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 08:44 PM
2

Try a tactic like this as seen on scrubs. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dndLLa7RlIU The ladies want the men to stop paying attention so they say shoe shopping. Let's reverse it... will they ever talk about shoe shopping with their man? No. so the men win. Take the same approach, she begins getting bitchy. You just look at her, right in the eyes and say nothing. Don't listen. Find some sort of mantra or idea and hold on to it until the anger subsides. Count her freckles, who cares. OR just play…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 08:01 PM
0

If his collegiate goal is to find a wife... damn. I like my advice better. But you are right. There is a weirdness that can happen. But I know some women who started peaking post college. If you are hell bent on getting married, why not marry the girl who is in great shape, has her own job, and wants to find some alpha dude who will fuck her lights out. Or just let the dream die OP and live the life.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 07:27 PM
0

I know some fantastic sexy marriable women in their late 20s. Have fun, grow up a bit, make some money, then find one of them.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 03:06 PM
2

This rings true for my relationship with my wife. "Why is she not putting out or at least being effectionate?" Duh, I am not making her vagina tingle. Slowly started working in that and voila she changes. Nice vs asshole isn't the discussion. It's the difference between a nice soup and sandwich you could get any day and that one meal you remember forever. A soup and sandwich is nice. Sometimes even great. But mostly nice. Yaaawn. Be interesting and fuckable. Someone worth spending time with
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 03:02 PM
1

Visualization. Practice. Have a go to line even if it's shitty. Pull out phone, hand to them, say "hit me up with your number so we can do this again." Or "what's your number so we can hang out again" just shit your way through it. Then go get some!
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 03:31 PM
12

ADHD meds are a lifesaver to those that need it. You won't be succesful because of them by any means. It's a tool your body needs to thrive.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 03:15 PM
1

I am in this transition now. The most helpful thought someone left for me was this: Know that you may lose your LTR. Once you are okay with whatever outcome happens, you are ready to transition into redpill. If you want to keep her over winning back your life. You are screwed. No chance to change. If you want to change and grow into a man over all else in your life- then you can. You can have it all. You may lose her in the process but better to gain yourself back, your life back, your own happi…
/r/askTRP28/08/14 02:51 PM
1

When I was getting married (and even still to this day) I was amazed at the amount of times a woman said something like: "Oh don't worry, you will train him up good." "It took me a few years to train my man up nice, but he is doing well now." Or a friend of mine whose wife said something like: "When he fails to do a chore around the house like I want, I take that as an opportunity to train him how. Again and again and again. Until he gets it right." Cue blue pill friend grinning and saying "yup"…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 02:36 PM
1

I couldn't watch due to his whining. I hope he has dumped her... but you know- boobs.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 02:05 PM
2

Maintaining frame: pretty much told her- this is not acceptable. Leave until you can handle yourself. Subtle dread: I may not let you back in if you continue acting this way. Leave until I feel like hanging out again. It is subtle to a girl but not to a thinking person. haha
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 02:31 PM
2

My wife gets piiiissssseeeed when I get sick. I just take care if myself, do what I can for the kids, no problem. I am a big boy. This all makes sense now
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 10:41 PM
1

Hope he gets a paternity test
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 10:38 PM
0

All women are crazy. It just depends on the level of crazy you are comfortable with. Hah
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 10:32 PM
2

Hold frame and then throw in a subtle dread when she continues to be out of line. Damn fine show
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 10:30 PM
1

Haha, you're like "welp, I was bettered... This time."
/r/askTRP24/08/14 07:48 PM
3

Yeah it's funny. I have zero qualms with doing things for my kids. They're slowly able to do more and more everyday. The issue I have is when my so lays out what she wants me to do but then is still not happy no matter what. Hah. I am fine with getting up early, taking care of sick kids a night. I rather enjoy being a dad. I am awesome at it too. But being a spouse, husband, father, provide etc etc etc in beta mode only leads to a death of the soul when your focus is on giving according to the d…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/14 10:58 PM
1

Yeah dog.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/14 04:21 PM
2

I stopped doing everything for her. Started telling her what we would do a bit more. Worked longer hours. And maintained frame. I stopped losing my cool and started setting my own schedule more than worrying about what she needed. Hah its funny how it works
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 01:05 PM
16

The harder I worked to make my wife happy, to reveal my heart, show her who i am, the more she resented me. After swallowing the pill her interest in me has risen AND her ability to take care of her own shit has gone up. The fucking steak is cardboard man.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 10:52 PM
4

This hit home for me when my wife said she was not physically attracted to me anymore. It hit me, not because I got fat, but because I believe I am a pretty fantastic awesome dude. I make good money, I can handle social situations, etc etc etc... BUT externally I looked like shit. We are visual people. its the open door. I started tossing shit out of my closet. Stuff I was holding on even though it was 10 years out of style and didnt fit. After just a bit of time working out, I can see my SMV sl…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 12:30 PM
1

I think you miss the point at how many women are out there. I dont know where you live but just load up tinder and look at how many women are out there. Its unbelievable. You are playing your averages.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 02:22 AM
1

shit, wish I had this then. I realize now I was normally redpill on accident. Huge high school, lots of girls, always had a date to dances etc. But I just kept on getting focused on one girl at a time. At the loss of friendships and development (and well... other things). Have fun, lift, focus on becoming a great person first. Improve yourself everyday. And realize that you don't need to bend your will and change who you are to get that one girl. And... really... no girl is worth your all. She m…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 08:08 PM
5

I started doing this as soon as I swallowed the red pill. I use it now to gauge where I am at in regards to my SMV. What type of women look back and hold eye contact? Who looks away with a bit of blush in their cheeks? Who does not even give me another second? hah. It has helped me gain confidence in my appearance and also recognize that I got some work to do to get to the point where 8/9s will take my eye contact as an invitation. I also notice other alpha males making eye contact right back an…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 02:23 PM
1

Thanks for the great response
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/14 01:40 AM
1

What industry are you lookin to get into?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 12:24 AM
6

That blonde chick at around 2:00 cracks me up. She is ready to load up on that bus!
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 06:43 PM
1

Nice.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/14 04:37 PM
1

This concept has given me a shitton of freedom. As a proper blue pill, I was allowing the emotions, actions, and feelings of others to dictate my own. Once I slowed down the process- damn- my happiness, energy, calm, etc skyrocketed. It is now my fault that those around me are _______, I can maintain frame and live a life of freedom. Lovely.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 02:46 PM
2

I love your take. I would add that many clergy hold their faith but they do not hold the evangelical white middle class suburban faith that is common in your everyday baptist church. So their faith is "bad" according to their flock so they pander to the crowd in order to hold on to their standing, influence, ($$$$), power, and honestly their job. There is quite a bit of hubbub in christianity land about a few musicians (and a few lesser known pastors) speaking out by saying- yeah I have never be…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 02:44 PM
5

I am a christian. I remember sitting in a van riding with a few dudes to a men's retreat (can I get more cliched?). They were talking about being the leader in their home. And how they are all the leaders etc etc. I looked around the van and said to myself WTF- every single one of these guys are completely run by their wives. Their wives dictate their schedule, the tone of the house, religious education of the kids, etc etc etc etc etc etc etc. None of them were leaders in their home. At least I…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 02:38 PM
1

Oops. Here is the first thing to remember. You are not responsible for the actions of others. If you are afraid she is trying to commit suicide, you call the police and ask them to do check on your (NOW EX) as she declared she will be committing suicide by taking pills. Then cut off all contact with her. Send her a text or whatever saying- we are no longer a couple and I do not want to hear from you ever again. If you did truly stick your dick in crazy- look out! and then go off to your new coll…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 02:29 PM
1

/u/bluepillprofessor . Thanks for the advice. I did fail. Let my anger sneak in there. I edited the post with what I did to fix the situation. Thanks for kicking my ass on it.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 02:09 PM
4

The no sex no alimony is awesome. I don't see that happening anytime soon in the US. But it is a good understanding of marriage as a contract of love, affection, partnership, and family. Makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 08:31 PM
3

Always bringing that logic in here. hah good point
/r/askTRP14/08/14 06:30 PM
1

I like that marriage contract better than the "we fell in love and will live forever no matter what!" that sounds like two 12 year olds who just watched every disney movie ever followed by the notebook.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 05:45 PM
2

Yeah, I have yet to use the walk out of the room move... it always seems heartless to me at first. The blue pill is strong! hah. But it is very effective.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 05:45 PM
2

And if he does go through a divorce later on- buy him a drink and commiserate. You can always do the slightly funny but helpful thing I have seen bros do. Take the guy out 10-30 days before the wedding. When it is actually hitting him and real. Get him in your car. And say something to the effect of... dude. If you do not want to go through with this I will take you wherever you want to go. We can hide you for a few days to let it blow over, grab some cigars, booze and have some fun. Something f…
/r/askTRP14/08/14 04:51 PM
2

I've worked in male dominated environments and female dominated environments. The best advice I can give is know exactly what you should do and do you job well. Don't get caught in the gossip games. In a sense, live in a different world. From setting up your desk differently to setting clear boundaries for interactions. Stay away from sexist speak or being an asshole. Just be firm and direct like working with small children. I enjoyed most of the women I worked with because they were funny, cari…
/r/askTRP14/08/14 04:46 PM
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Don’t treat your spouse like a “nag.” If she is “nagging,” you are probably lagging. Because we all know woman have a complete rationality about who is lagging.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 04:35 PM
3

In spite of the shitty article I love the awareness. Woman want a man. But they also want a best friend who does everything for them while making lots of money and loving all of their best friends and never doing anything they dont want them to do.... (fuck grammar). How does that happen? By the woman taking control. It is a false sense of security and emasculates the man. Then the woman says... but my vagina! and goes after a better man. Or berates the guy to do more so she can feel better or s…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 02:04 PM
1

Their song the loophole https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ygam6uXgI-w Is also a brilliant look at how women think about sex. hah. I think they work well in coming up with some TRP stuff because one is a bit more... liberal in her understanding of woman and the other comes from a very very conservative background. So they can look outside the normal and think on it. And id bang either of em. Fun times. Oh and sex with ducks is really funny.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 02:37 PM
1

Depends. I have a good friend who is a counselor. Lots of folks who come to him don't really have problems. They are just shitty or love conflict. I went to one when I was deep in depression. He helped me redefine my past and how I defined myself (true TRP stuff). He also said a few simple things that i think about every single day. It still took me years to get my shit together but if it wasn't for the counselor I would still be fucked up. THE BEST advice my counselor friend gave me is if it is…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 02:35 PM
5

Paternity Test. Paternity Test. Paternity Test. Make zero promises before a Paternity Test. Or be an idiot. Either way. And if its your kid. Figure it out. If you want custody, work for it etc. and same advice anyone would give- work hard. At everything. job, life, self, etc. Become the best person you can be anyways. And wrap it before you tap it bro.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 06:08 PM
2

This was me... yup. I have tried to jump careers, follow dreams, and chase down a better life. But something always brought me back. Not enough money is normally #1. It is hard to take a 50% pay cut to maybe increase your satisfaction when you have kids etc. When I swallowed the red pill I said fuck you to pursuing career dreams. It sounds backwards, but I have a solid job with great pay and a chance to make more. I have a lot of freedom in my job (work from home, travel etc). Even if I do not p…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 02:08 PM
18

The promoter probably said "bring some friends buy and I'll hook you up with free entry and a table". Girl heard " i will let in all your friends! Girl power!" Promoter sees them walking up and says "stupid bitch, can't understand what I said. I can only let in some of you sorry." Listening skills are not a high priority.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 06:26 PM
2

I am married. 10 years now. I imagine you are close to her age. (if you're 20 than fuck no). I imagine you have a solid connection and are a red pill dude. I imagine your girl has a decent bod and maybe a butterface. Allright. With those things in mind- fuck what anyone has to say. If you want to marry the girl, do it. Just know a few things. Some women age gracefully. I know a fair amount of girls that were considered 6-7 in high school who are now 7-8 because they keep in shape, aged decently,…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 02:32 PM
6

They don't always hold up in court.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 02:20 PM
1

It wa te first book i read on leadership. Struck me as much more fun and about bringing out the best in others. Not exactly red pill but good stuff.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 11:19 PM
1

I am in the US where employment laws and healthcare are much different. It is very easy to lose your job. It is very easy to have 5 figure hospital bills for minor emergencies.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 10:52 PM
1

Ahh shoot I meant cash on hand.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 10:52 PM
2

Cash flow helps ride out emergencies. Car engine blows? Cash for new car. Lose your job? You're good. Want to move across country for a job? No problem. Big medical issue? No worries. Most folks I know went into non student loan debt because of one of these. And if you end up landing a great job or a big raise, shove it all into retirement and you have a great start there.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 10:46 PM
5

I am a successful sales rep. I've made over 6 figures a few years. Built new territories. Worked with a ton of different customers under different economic/weather related years. The number 1 thing I tell broke college students is look out for you first. NO company truly cares about you. They will fire you at the drop of a hat. They will toss you aside for a newer model. If you start your own business, customers will feel like they own you and have your balls in their hand. So find ways to be us…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 09:33 PM
1

The hard part for me is waiting that long. A year? Fuck it I am now in the prime of my life only getting better. Is she on board or not? tough.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 08:11 PM
3

I got kids. My wife works part timeish kind of. Being a stay at home mom is not that hard. But it can be fucking boring. Ever talk to a 2 year old all day? My mind explodes sometimes. I love hanging out with my kids. Wrestling, building stuff, playing cars, whatever. But sometimes you just get reaaalllly bored. Now, say the kids are all in school. Its not hard! Teenagers that can drive? Easy to be a stay at home mom. But if you have a baby that never stops fucking crying. That shit can get reall…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 05:27 PM
1

I hire people for our company. Two things- A business degree is fairly easy- generic etc. An engineering degree opens different doors. Having a strong engineering background can give you great opportunities. I have an old friend with an engineering physics background who started his own company and should break bank here pretty soon. My brother has an engineering/business degree and does consulting work. Makes a shit ton. And just got a sweet job as a #2 at a great company. The trick is- be the …
/r/askTRP06/08/14 02:10 PM
14

That comment makes me so happy. Love it.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 01:40 PM
2

Go out drinking like a crazy man. Hit up every college bar and just meet people. Just get that degree. No one cares what grads you got. Get the degree and get internships. I hire people for my company and all that mattrs is degree and experience
/r/askTRP06/08/14 12:18 PM
7

I would assume he means getting married.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 11:07 AM
1

We all need friendships. People. Community. I thought I would find that centered around my wife and I. But I have not. Mostly, I am friends with my wife's friends SO's or I met my current friends in situations where the wife and I were together. So losing my wife means losing 95% of my friends easy. Not that I have very many. So I am seeking out other dudes to hang out with. So I don't need a woman to feel that connection. If I want to talk about deeper shit- I can find some friends. Hell, I cou…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 02:57 PM
1

That is some next level shit right there
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 02:26 PM
1

It is a good example of what can happen when a woman has a healthy sex drive but the man is just not... that... i dunno... alpha? Is that too simple of an explanation? If my wife wanted what Nit wants... oh yeah i am in.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 05:03 PM
1

Listen to the end 7:40 gets brilliant. Moment of extreme clarity.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 02:01 PM
1

You may be dating an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:50 PM
7

Im married. I got married very early. (religious- waited till marriage etc). I was under the impression the best way to live is to find the best girl you can and marry her. Yeah. I was super blue pill. Miserable. I can't remember a great six months stretch of marriage. My wife came to resent being married to me. hah. Three kids later shit is fucked up. I slowly started to become more alpha. Being religious- Divorce is a very very strong word. "Not an option" is commonly thrown around. If I went …
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:46 PM
5

I have an 8 year old. She is a bundle of crazy. It's hard to explain so just picture a drunk soriority girl trying to manipulate her way into... well... anything. She can take over a room with a tantrum. she can pound ideas into the ground over and over and over. i mean this morning, she wanted to eat a certain cereal- and she wanted me to go get her a different cereal from the store. It was literally her monologuing for 10 minutes about cereal. WTF do you do with that? Maintain frame, make stro…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 02:56 PM
2

Could add years to married and LTR. Married for 10 vs married for 6 months is a big difference
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/14 01:14 AM
10

I heard an interview with Dolly Parton where she said something along the lines of "a lot of execs thought they were going to get something from me but by the time they realized they weren't I was walking out with a great contract." Loved that.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 02:47 PM
2

I think my balls came back when I said no more. Fuck me
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 12:11 AM
1

Damn that's next level. Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/14 12:10 AM
9

It is the most fun ive had since trying to kiss my 6th grade girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 05:32 PM
18

I think I'll make her wait a few more hours... Till she can't hold back...
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 02:25 PM
59

Hah she's the one with her hands all over me
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 02:01 PM
4

It was mainly an accident. I got my shit together realized my wife was not exactly treating me with respect or kindness... so I stopped caring. We had a conversation about how she treats me like crap. She worked on that. Then I took any opportunity I could when she was putting out. It is not ideal- but this was pre red pill for me. So I was just winging it. I also make sure she knows I am interested in her body.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 02:36 PM
17

I found /r/deadbedrooms before this one. My wife and I were averaging... once a month or less. I came to the point where I just said fuck it- if she wants it, I will have a good time. If not... I am not begging. I stopped trying to do romantic gestures or something around the house for her. I still did shit around the house because my kids need a clean house. But not for her specifically. We started to have more sex.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 01:26 PM
2

Love it. The red pill is a good pill. Changing my approach to everything. My brain always wants to talk through- prove my point- instead let the silence speak for itself.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 01:22 PM
8

Wife: "You need to lose some weight!" (it's true) Wife at dinner: "Do you want to share this cupcake/cake/ice cream/chocolate bar/ dessert/dinner/etc etc etc etc." Me: "Stop asking if I want your dessert!" Wife: " I GET IT FINE." My wife wants to feel better about her choices and will badger me to eat something unhealthy with her. In spite of my need to lose weight and her reminding me constantly. Now- I just say yes, i will eat some. And then I don't because fuck her.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 11:52 AM
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