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You have no interest in sex, but you do have an interest in visiting a place where people are obsessed with sex, and want to talk with those people about sex. Why? And why does everything have to be a "lifestyle"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 05:05 PM
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I get where you're coming from, but you realize that it boils down to "you don't have to confident. Just be confident!"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 10:47 AM
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Which implies that European food is bad, which is racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 07:24 PM
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Heineken beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:43 AM
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A common reddit mistake. Don't count the frontpage, count "sorted by new". Women complaining about men get the upvotes, it's a natural law on every sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 07:26 AM
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There used to be good debates here, once upon a time. I've been on reddit for 5 years, and this sub was always shit. But I must say, there wasn't as much rage as there is today. You seem to be full of rage too. This isn't men and women wrestling with uncomfortable truths, this is open gender warfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 07:58 PM
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I don't know about "they", but I don't base my respect for a woman on her sexual behavior first and foremost. She has to bring other things too, skills, achievements and whatnot. Are you living in the 19th century or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 07:26 PM
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Every time I think of something that should be the same for men and women, women online shoot it down right away. There's always a "different context", "additional baggage", me not considering the "unique challenges women face". I cannot think of a single thing that's same for the goose as for the gander — or at least none that the goose won't object to. Fuck, I want men and women to be the same species, please make it a little more easier to believe! And it's nowhere as crass as on r/purplepill…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:57 PM
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Against Cthulhu a man is like a woman — nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:15 AM
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Overthinking happens to people who cannot do it on autopilot because they were never allowed to develop one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 05:55 PM
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You are not wrong, but what do you do with a tool that's outdated? You throw it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 09:34 AM
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You do realize people use misogyny in a much more wider sense? Consider a person saying "I think women are just not as good at science as men". Anybody who ever uses the term will agree that this is misogyny. It covers not only hatred of women (wishing them harm), but also having a lower opinion of them. With misandry this is clearly not the case. You have to want men killed indiscriminately to be called a misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 08:27 AM
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Sexlessness, homelessness, addiction, and suicide are all symptoms of the same issue. The issue is that men (much more than women) are put in a state of competition for their place in the world. Each of those predicaments represents a way of having failing the competition. In principle you can solve all those issues together by addressing the root cause, i.e. the system that pits male against male and watches the losers go down without an emotional reaction. But let's be realistic, it probably c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 12:11 PM
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I have not, but where I live it's kind of the default. I usually offered to pay (blame my old-fashioned upbringing) and she would decline. I'm always prepared to pay. In any case, the point of all this paying business is for the guy to show that he can. And not in the sense of "Look how I'm making this huge investment in you" but in the sense of "This is such a small amount for me, it really doesn't matter." It feels good to have that attitude about your own finances. But from an egalitarian sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 09:04 PM
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That's one of the most WTF posts here in a long time. Btw., the only male persons besides the Chinese emperor who were allowed to interact with his wives were eunuchs. I prefer to not live in a world where powerful men take 121 wifes/concubines and mutilate 120 common guys into eunuchs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 02:44 PM
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It's a cycle. You get disgusted by the insanity of TRP, how it destroys your faith in absolutely everything and how it turns people into ridiculous caricatures. Have those people never met real human beings? The folks I know have stable normal relationships, work boring 9-to-5s, and the men and women don't behave like they are different species. They are just people, not characters from YouTube drama channels. ... and then despite all you come across an experience that fits some TRP point to a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:24 PM
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The life of a married woman: Work full time Do all the childcare Do all the housework Do all the cooking Stay thin Stay young looking Don’t complain Put out whenever he wants it. The life of a married man: Literally just work full time. the average western man is degenerate because of porn, mentally stunted by gaming, marijuana, and alcohol, and financially incapable of supporting a family: therefore incapable of being a good father. It shows the male mind. Bitter and angry. Men want polygyny be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 05:57 PM
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Why are you sad about not finding a man to marry when according to your post history you feel nothing but hatred towards men, and especially married men? That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 05:39 PM
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"Male entitlement" is a useless concept because it's not disprovable. When you decide that a particular man or all men are feeling entitled there's nothing they can do to refute it. It's not a diagnosis, it's an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 03:25 PM
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Alright. I don't want to enter a complicated discussion, but for a some datapoints (aka anecdotes), my girlfriend has several (3+) close friends who're with men 10–15 years older than them. Those women are UMC white Europeans working in finance in their late 30s, and none of them are more insane than you'd expect from average people of that class. FWIW. I personally disapprove of their mate choices (especially when they are getting kids and the dudes can't keep up), but your model doesn't seem t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 03:29 PM
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When you tell them the increase in male suicide rates is driven by societal expectations that men are stoic and unemotional Aha, and what part do women have in those "societal expectations"? Any at all? I've never seen a feminist admit it. When people say "societal expectations" they mean "men's expectations, because obviously women don't do this bad thing".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 09:08 AM
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Q4Women: Why all the hate for fedora hats? In my opinion both these questions have broadly the same answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:15 AM
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Charlize Theron did very well in Fury Road. Granted, she had the face of Charlize Theron, but with no hair, war paint, and a missing arm. Coupled with realistic, gritty fighting, determination and no self-pity. It worked. (Of course Immortan Joe was a caricature of "patriarchy", but never mind.)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:38 PM
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In theory it should be the total abolishment of gendered expectations, prejudice, double standards, self-image, behaviours etc. All that stuff which we for a lack of a better word call the patriarchy. In practice by that standard there is not a single feminist in the world. At least not one who calls themselves that. What it seems to actually be in the minds of self-described adherents is the belief that the magnitude of female victimhood cannot be overstated, and permeates all aspects of human …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 07:44 PM
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The only time I've been rejected outright for being too short was by a very tall model who was hitting on me on facebook until she found out I was 6'0. I never found out what her game was, but she was very rude about it. Perhaps she thought I was someone else. My girlfriend is very short and she told me "I need a tall guy, or how will I have tall children?" That irked me, but obviously I passed her filter, so I ignored it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 07:49 PM
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Back when I was in school the other guys would make fun of me for crushing on the "wrong" girls. Didn't stop me at all. Maybe that counts as a data point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 04:57 PM
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That a good face trumps a ripped body with a face like a caveman with acne.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 04:45 PM
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What woman only fucks a man if he isn't rich? A communist?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 05:52 PM
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I don't think there's many women who insist on Islamic men, but if he is she's down to "just fuck". Not bloody likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 05:50 PM
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I don't think you can get any more pessimistic than an incel, and these days TRP is effectively incel light (I know it's not supposed to, but that's how it turned out). We live in a deeply pessimistic age, or maybe it's the baseline after a time of unnatural euphoria, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 07:47 AM
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People enter into LTRs without knowing the future anyway and then see how things develop. And then they stay together or don't, depending.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 07:04 PM
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(psst ... have a look at their username)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 07:24 AM
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From a European persepective, none for men. The right wing wants to continue with old traditions, i.e. fucking over the little guy for the benefit of the big guy. For the left wing men are simply the enemy. For women leftists, no doubt. I'm passionate about gender things, but in politics there's bigger things at stake right now. I can't make gender my voting rationale.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 06:18 PM
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Things are the way they are because most men don't seem to give a fuck. As long as that's so it doesn't matter what you or I want. Personally I'm in two minds about the issue. I hate the thought that I am deliberately less protected because of my gender, but on the other hand I feel more threatened by the ripped hunks inside my locker room who might think I'm looking at them funny than of the self-absorbed Instagram models outside, not to mention tired underpaid cleaning staff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:48 AM
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I always find it fascinating that the strongest condemnation of female violence against men that people can get themselves to make is "probably shouldn't". How about "OMG no! What's wrong with you?"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 08:41 AM
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In reality the percentage can't be calculated. I mean, come on! There's no scientific definition for "having your shit together".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 07:11 AM
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I wasn't giving any advice ...?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 07:04 PM
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90% of "having your shit together" consists of knowing what to hide.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 06:15 PM
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Most young nonfat guys already look good without it. I swear, this is the first time I've seen a woman say anything like that. My impression was that women generally pride themselves in finding 99% of males totally unappealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 11:38 AM
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Hitler At least now you've told us how you feel about the average man. I don't think there's more that needs to be said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:47 AM
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Many women don't think of sex as a moral issue anymore. Was it ever? That sounds unlikely. There's no reason why it would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 06:27 PM
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?? If some from a population of males sleep with some from a same-size population of females the averages of each gender are the same and it doesn't matter what each person's number is. That's extremely elementary algebra. The only way you can get different averages is if either people lie (which they do, we know that) or sleep with people outside the measured group (e.g. counting people up to a certain age and women sleeping with men older than that. Or men count sex with prostitutes, but prost…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:08 PM
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In your example there are 10 women and 2 guys. In reality the female:male ratio is somewhere around 1:1, not 5:1, so your math doesn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 11:30 AM
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This grates against my egalitarian leanings, but I think the answer is yes. It's no easy question: I sure find most men ugly, but I am no woman. Women look at men differently. Men don't find other men better-looking when they are wealthy, on the other hand women don't seem to care for really big muscles. Then again women online love to explain how they find 999 out of 1000 men ugly or uninteresting, so I dunno. What's a fact is that men don't fulfil their handsomeness potential through a lack of…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 06:25 PM
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Sex positivity doesn't exist. Nobody is sex positive, especially no woman, and least of all "new wave feminists". It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 10:00 AM
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unless they’re looking for therapeutic support after being cheated on by their girlfriend/wife. Bad idea. They would be told how it's their own fault and how the experience should teach them to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 08:17 PM
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No, because in absence of genetic paternity testing it's the only one that's always certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 06:43 PM
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He wasn't a model, but decent-looking. Very tall, though. Oozed charisma, girls were drawn to him from across the room. Lazy bum, though, he hasn't worked a real job all his life. I don't envy him any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 07:29 PM
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I need someone to explain this to me. Gelato is just regular ice cream … in Italian. Or is American regular ice cream something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 06:06 PM
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1) No, and I haven't seen a man be hit either. I seem to live a sheltered life ... 2) N/A 3) No. Worst I've seen was people screaming (both genders). I've heard other people talk about witnessing violence, but that's not what you asked. 4) You're asking if men can withstand physical damage better? Are you delusional? Male bones break just like female ones and we can't withstand bullets either. You should watch fewer Marvel movies. 5) The worst I ever do is clench my fists and snarl when nobody's…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 02:56 PM
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I don't think so. If initiating was women's job, they wouldn't do it with all men. I don't subscribe to RP's notion that only the absolute top of men have a chance but in any case there would be a percentage that would never get picked. Since those guys would resent being invisible and forgotten by the world of humans (just like they are now) they would do the same things to get a reaction, any reaction out of women. Who-initiates-with-who is a question for people who are in the game. Then again…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 01:43 PM
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First of all, there is no uniform definition. It can be "harms themselves", "harms themselves and others", and even "harms others (and sometimes themselves)". I've seen each one multiple times. Secondly, who sets those masculine standards? Ask any feminist and you will hear that it's men, men, men themselves. Incidentally, terms like that start out as sociological descriptors and analytical tools, but in the hands of dumb journalists and their dumber followers they soon become weapons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:03 PM
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Because nobody agrees what a "cognate" is in gender matters. And to begin with nobody agrees what "toxic masculinity" is either — except that the very world implies that it's 100% men's fault. Many people use it with a meaning of "things men do that hurts women (and sometimes themselves too, not that it matters)".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:03 AM
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You left out the part that these behaviors are a result of cultural expectations placed on one gender And? Everybody leaves out that men also are under cultural expectations. Nobody wants to acknowledge it, and when they have to they qualify it with "but then again men rule society, so whatever pressures exist men create for themselves". But I get it. Women have no agency, they are driven about like leaves by the wind, but men have total agency over themselves and society, like gods — evil gods.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:00 AM
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Men indeed do not feel solidarity with men, unless it's a deliberate investment for mutual gain. Even then they are liable to screw each other over if an opening presents itself. There's no universal brotherhood (although the universal sisterhood is also not as strong as many would like). The thought that a man can have a problem he is not responsible for and which he is not able to just "deal with" is too hard to swallow for anybody. Men refuse to believe it about themselves ("MRAs are whiners,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 08:28 AM
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It's cuckoldry only if the man himself can't have sex with multiple women. Or one of the two people anyway, can also be the woman. There will always be one of them who has more urge, inclination and opportunity, which automatically creates a power imbalance. I knew a guy who told me "I don't mind whatever my girlfriend does on her holidays without me"; he knew full well that she wouldn't do anything at all, but for him it was justification to do "something" himself. He had his cake and ate it to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 06:16 PM
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Because in my eyes it's a ghastly power game and reeks of cuckoldry. Most people have a negative gut reaction to a voluntary cuckold. It's either a fetish or allowing yourself to be emotionally abused. I put the question to you: Do you not feel embarassed and uncomfortable listening to someone (say a woman) detail how her boyfriend keeps abusing her but she won't leave him? On the other hand do you not likewise feel uncomfortable with a person talking about their relationship that is clearly fet…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 01:41 PM
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Capitalism doesn't make people. People make capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 08:24 AM
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I'm sure children would want booze too. Should it be legal to sell it to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 10:59 AM
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Luckily the circumstances are that it's physically impossible for my daughter to not be mine. She looks like me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 06:24 PM
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It's Conan the Barbarian. Genghis Khan probably doesn't qualify, he was under 6 ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 11:00 AM
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He had enough followers that he came to be considered a bedrock item of European philosophy and for centuries every philosopher who had different conclusions from Kant felt compelled to write chapters and books wrestling with his overbearing influence. Like Schopenhauer and Nietzsche. Quite an achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 04:02 PM
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I'm going back to the courtroom in a few minutes to finish a low level felony trial. The procedure hasn't changed in over 100 years. I don't know how it is in the US, but in Europe you'd find that while the procedure as such hasn't changed much, the number of staff has gone down a lot and you're buried under a mountain of backlog.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 09:57 AM
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I dismiss him anyway because he was a weirdo. But I thought you'd like that sort of stuff. Incidentally, have you looked at Kant's views on masturbation?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 08:14 AM
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For those that are not aware it should be pointed out that Immanuel Kant, although being one of the most esteemed philosophers of western civilization, cannot be considered much of an authority on gender relations — the man died a virgin. Incidentally, if you like to get your opinions on women from weird philosophers you should take a look at Otto Weininger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 07:23 AM
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Probably. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 07:46 AM
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Why is it misogynistic to doubt if men are even human?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 07:39 AM
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In countries where prostitution is legal there's still the same amount of incels. Don't you think that's saying something?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 07:23 AM
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That's kind of like a doctor complaining that everybody he meets is sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 07:17 AM
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Well, fuck! So there's something neurologically (read: innately) wrong with boys, according to you. I've also always been suspicious of the nature argument for gender roles. Are you totally sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 08:31 PM
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Let me put it like this: Every man, including your husband, has pain inside that he is hiding from you. Telling a man not to be stoic doesn't mean "open up", it means "hide your pain better, I don't even want to know it's there". After all you said yourself you have no sympathy at all for male weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 06:09 PM
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How is that surprising to you? A girl can turn on the TV and be flooded with encouraging and compassionate messages, but a boy who just wants to hear that being a boy is ok and nothing to be ashamed of and that his pain is legitimate has to go down the rabbit hole. Because the only people saying that are crazies. Girls don't fall for those crazies because they have better options.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 06:02 PM
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Ah, the joy of working in a kindergarten.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 03:50 PM
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So many people just bitch about the world, rather than figuring out how to turn things to their advantage. The funny thing is that TRP is supposed to be the latter, but 99% is the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 03:47 PM
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(1) The US are only a small part of the world. (2) I bet you'd object to rape being legal even if nobody at all was being raped. (3) What you believe is only relevant to my opinion of you, not for the objective situation. Supernational organizations like the UN define what human rights are, not you. Is it impossible for you to simply admit that the human rights that currently exist are not as universal and just as we wish?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 06:31 PM
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It's only "not the same" because you care about one but don't give a fuck about the other. And drafting women does not make it better, it makes it twice as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 06:20 PM
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I think you have given the honest answer unwittingly. If your friends offered you a brilliantly paid job just like you old one but in a higher position, you'd be on top of the world. I know I would be. But you wrote "MLM scheme". That implies that relationships with men for women are for the most part a soul-crushing burden that will ruin you, and that's why you are dismayed about the offers. They are offering you a pile of stinking shit. I hope I don't have to point out to you that to men this …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 06:17 PM
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In many countries (including mine) man are required very much against their own will to spend some months or years in barracks being drilled in weapon usage — with the option to require them to go out and get killed in emergencies. To my knowledge no court in the world has ever found that a violation of human rights. So no, you principle is clearly not universal. I wish it were! But it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 05:53 PM
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Liam Neeson's recent publicity stunt ended very differently for him, and he hadn't even done shit, he just admitted to bad thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 06:42 PM
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Fun fact, in German "Spinner" means crazy person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 05:30 PM
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Incel "ideology" is self-defeat honed to an art form.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 03:44 PM
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You'd be surprised how often incels bring it up. I've seen the argument in this very sub a number of times recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 02:00 PM
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You'd have to look at bisexual women and see if they have the same requirements for partners of either sex. I would guess no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 08:54 AM
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The reason they give? Usually it's something about wanting to wear heels or not feeling womanly. Actually more often the reason given is "Oh, I wouldn't mind myself, I've just found that short guys are so insecure and can't handle a woman taller than them, lol." You see, the problem is always him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 07:53 AM
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Nothing wrong with Amy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 09:29 AM
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You may have noticed people here have different opinions about that whole TRP thing ...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 07:42 AM
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Testosterone is an anabolic steroid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 06:28 AM
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There sure are a lot of confused damaged people running around these days, but I'm not sure it's a bust. In fact I have no idea what a bust would be in the dating scene. You're taking the capitalist metaphor too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 11:33 AM
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I do. First of all she is the woman I am having a child with and the others were not, and secondly I have a lot more money now, so it comes naturally. Student days are over. I don't mind spending money on her either because it feels good to know you can afford it without hurting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 11:27 AM
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A "just world" revenge fantasy, nothing more. Sour grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 10:01 PM
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The ladies in the office next door were making jokes about "man flu" last week. That was just one day after one of them had criticized me for not staying home with my cold and annoying them by coughing. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 11:50 AM
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Now imagine the same as a guy: Post a realistic selfie, get no likes at all. Then post an augmented one and get comments "you look gay, lol". Is that better?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 11:26 AM
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Using gendered slurs unironically I would be surprised if you don't do that yourself. "Dick" is a gendered slur, for example. So are edgelord and incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 09:32 AM
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It's even in the Bible, for Christ's sake (lol). Matthew 7:15.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 02:41 PM
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is it really a masculine trait? And that's why feminists effectively believe that only negative traits can ever be properly called "masculine". Are you one of those people?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 04:55 PM
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Men too Actually men often fail spectacularly in this. Just look at how many lately burned down their whole career with a single foot-in-the-mouth tweet. I wonder why that is. And onthe other hand, how can even the worst toxic man-haters find the iron discipline to make 1000 dark allusions but never slip up and say something that would get them in trouble? There seems to be a difference between the genders, and no, I don't think it can be explained by "men are just dumbasses, lol!"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 07:30 PM
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AFAIK the way the first one would go is that the father would then interrogate the guy about his property, savings, career plans and job prospects to find out whether he had enough value for his daughter. If you ask me that's incredibly degrading towards men as well. OP, would you concede that it is degrading to both genders?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 10:11 AM
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I doubt many mothers consider their sons disposable. Sometimes they do. There were enough mothers who were proud that their son had sacrificed himself for the fatherland, Kaiser, Hitler, or against the infidels. You just need an ideal you consider higher than your son, and those exist today too — even feminism can serve as such an ideal. Why did men not change that state of affairs? Simple: There just is no universal loyality within the male gender. Women may dream of "sisterhood" but men only b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 07:28 PM
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Christian Bale Batman or George Clooney Batman? (The correct answer is of course Michael Keaton Batman.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 07:19 PM
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That is a very good example. There are two obvious opposite reactions to it: (Red) How well does it work? Can we improve the algorithm to solve the "math problem" even better? (Blue) How dare they be so misogynist? Do they really not even see us (women) as human? How can we eradicate that attitude and punish the people that hold it? Personally, as being neither red nor blue both reactions seem futile and uninteresting to me. I would instead say: These seem to be guys who find it advantageous to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 08:04 AM
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That said, as someone whose hope for the future resembles more closely to r/MensLib's vision Have you not noticed how they seem to be utterly incapable of even imagining a problem a man has that is not fundamentally his own fault? And how they seem to be totally uninterested in (and hostile to) helping men unless it's helping them be better for women? Is that how you want all men to be in the future? It's ghastly and depression-inducing. Nobody of any gender should be forced to view themselves l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 08:32 PM
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agree on all manner of things (parenting techniques, schooling, etc.) As a parent all I'm gonna say is this: Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 09:23 AM
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So is flipping your shit weak or strong then? I suppose it depends on what it means not to flip out. If you simply don't give a fuck, that's strong. If it's eating you up inside but you don't have the nerve to do anything about it, that's weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:11 PM
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Funny you should mention that example! When women discuss the Thor movies, most fancy Tom Hiddleston, who is fairly dainty (at least compared to your run-of-the-mill Marvel hero) and many fancy Idris Elba. Very few fancy Chris Hemsworth. I guess blond men are generally out of fashion. Tall, dark and handsome it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 05:41 PM
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Presumably trying to prove that what women consider an average man is in fact a well-above-average man, thus proving redpill's own specific interpretation of the "apex fallacy". Of course it's all very silly. And it has been done before on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 11:39 AM
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At the Hague, naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 07:46 AM
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Apparently you all think You have no fucking idea what I think. Not all men think the same, you know. We are people, not a hivemind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 03:39 PM
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Why "especially" gay men? That makes no sense, except maybe because then the rapist is still a man, and you have stated you find it hard to believe a woman could ever rape a guy, so … For your information, this catch-as-catch-can model of sexual violence is extremely naïve. There are a dozen reasons why men often find it impossible to fight back against a female assailant. She might have told him "if you resist, I'll tell everybody that you raped me". He might know that if he so much as got a br…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 02:45 PM
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Of course in your list the question whether the male partner has given consent is totally missing. But that's no surprise at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 12:18 PM
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You've never been on a cruise ship, I bet. They do an evacuation drill on every cruise. the custom is still observed today: The captain yells, "Women and children first!" Haha, no! That's bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 09:39 PM
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My own tentative understanding is that the spectrum is at least two-dimensional, the second axis being authoritarian–libertarian. This makes it a square whose corners are Anarchism – capital L Libertarianism (maybe Alt-Right? I'm not American) – Fascism and Theocracies – Communism (or would be if actual communist regimes hadn't been socially conservative). Where do your 5 values fit in? Five dimensions/axes? What are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 03:20 PM
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Interestingly this would be a straight-up RP comment if RP was what it claims to be. Which it obviously isn't. But we already knew that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 09:41 AM
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And for some unfathomable reason, the bourgeois ones are much more likely to be communists than the proletarians.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 06:37 PM
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A lot of words could be written about this, which I won't. Really the last line says it all. Thanks for trying to be decent men. Her meaning is perfectly clear: To actually be a decent human being, as a man, is impossible. The best you can do is try and fail and keep trying, forever. (BTW, there is a lot of good stuff in that essay, but the way it is mixed with toxic garbage invalidates it. Like TRP, really.)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 11:43 AM
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Apart from the obvious fact that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I guarantee you that the 10 most beautiful women are nobody you've ever heard of, because they did not make it to tv.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 08:51 AM
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That's why in the BDSM scene they now like to use the term "consensual non-consent". With safewords, obviously. Don't ask me, I don't understand it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 09:25 AM
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That's rich, coming from a guy who claimed in the same thread that a woman raping a drunk man is physically impossible. How about you first make up your mind what your are trying to prove here? This is not making sense and it smells like rape apologism too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 07:00 PM
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I appreciate these posters' sentiments, but you must admit that none of them even mentions the word "rapist" (or "rape", for that matter). From these posters alone it would be impossible to infer whether their creators think a man can even be raped by a woman at all (as opposed to seeing it as just "unwanted sexual contact", a mere nuisance, like feminist scholar Mary P. Koss famously does).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 11:33 AM
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According to the myth, when Troy finally fell and the Greek troops were raping and plundering through the city, Helen's husband Menelaos found her hiding in the temple. Crazy with anger he raised his sword to kill her, but she just dropped her robe and showed him her perfect boobies. He calmed down on the spot and took her back home. Personally I believe that the myth somehow connects to the ancient Minoan culture where women sometimes went bare-breasted. The men wore even less. Good times!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 07:00 PM
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Yes, I know that. But a man cannot say such a thing in a hyperbolic way, ironically or as a joke. He cannot say it at all. It is your privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 10:14 PM
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kill him Just wanted to point out that the only reason why you can make such a threat and not be downvoted or banned for it is because you are a woman. But you knew that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 10:06 PM
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And Michelangelo, George Frideric Händel, Schopenhauer, Alberto Santos Dumont, Antoni Gaudí, and so on. Those were celibates, for sure. But most of them hardly involuntarily so. But there's an interesting intermediate category, guys who had some failed romance in their youth, or could not marry for this or that reason and then kind of gave up and never tried again. Is that a proper incel? That category would include artists and intellectuals like Johannes Brahms, Erik Satie, Edward Gibbon, Franz…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 08:10 PM
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You'd love the novel The Naked Sun by Isaac Asimov then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 09:49 AM
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Same. My first gf's parents had a device under the seat that screamed at you when you lifted the seat. I never found out on my own. But seriously, I prefer not to get covered with a fine piss spray top to bottom. Also I have lived alone and an arrangement that saves on bathroom cleanup helps a lot. Not everybody can have their mommy cleaning after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 04:07 PM
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Not becoming more attracted, but being more confident to express that affection. If I find a woman attractive who nobody else finds attractive (it happens) I damn well keep my mouth shut, because I would be made fun of. Or at least that's how it was before I (and hopefully the other guys) grew up. God, I hate that bantering culture. You are constantly searching for a "weakness" to pounce on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 09:58 AM
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Yes, and often they are rather clever and poetic … in a pompous, obscene and brutish way of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 04:55 PM
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Yes. Or you might argue (as they probably did) that they were free of the distraction that is relationships. It all depends on what you define as you life's purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 12:41 PM
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Tesla did it. Lots of famous scientists and philosophers and artists did, although some of them must have been gay and hiding it. Nikola Tesla. Isaac Newton. Henry Cavendish. Immanuel Kant. Georg Friedrich Händel. Johannes Brahms. Alberto Santos Dumont. Michelangelo Buonarotti. Maurice Ravel. Antoni Gaudí. And then there's the even longer list of those that had a single unsuccessful affair or maybe a couple, and then gave up on women altogether and did not seem to mind all that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 09:18 PM
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Frigid is going through a number n of dates while deliberately withholding physical affection/sex. If you can pull that off without batting an eye it means that you are not attracted to him anyway. My girlfriend fucked me on the third date because she really wanted to. Tangentially related, I believe that no-sex-before-marriage marriages tend to end in dead beadroom situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 08:39 PM
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That's just The Rules, isn't it? Personally, I believe that if a relationship already begins in an unpleasant way it will continue to be unpleasant and end in an unpleasant way too. People cannot do a 180 once they decide their tactics have achieved their goal. She will remain aloof and entitled and frigid throughout the relationship. Maybe some men do not care, or don't know that there is an alternative, but I am too old to put up with that sort of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 08:22 PM
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Very true. I was thinking of the other writer of best-selling fantasy doorstoppers. :-P
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 05:10 PM
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Ah, an old idea. J.R.R. G.R.R.Martin also cited the concept in the Game of Thrones books. Essentially it's emotional blackmail.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 04:59 PM
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Huh? It is a novel about a very weird pedophile guy in 50s America, written from his point of view, and containing satirical elements about US culture of that time. The author was one of the best novelists of the 20th century, and he could have written an intriguing story about drying paint. She does not seduce him, this is in fact part of the protagonists wild rationalizations and justifications as you would expect a pedophile to engage in. With Nabokov, you shoud never take his characters' voi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 10:09 PM
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Thing is, it would be up to your family to find someone to you. It makes me shudder to think what would have happened if my parents had been in charge of that for me. I would have been incel, or maybe in the end been forced to marry my morbidly obese cousin. A nightmare. I once heard a Pakistani guy explain that because he was an orphan he was basically screwed forever. He was in Saudi Arabia for a while where the situation was no different. His only chance was to make his way to Europe, and he …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 08:47 PM
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Mind if I ask where you live? Capital city of a western European country. I went to technical university, which may have informed what people I met. Thanks for the suggestions, but I am off the dating market for good, I have a lovely girlfriend (who is perfectly capable of supporting me as much as I support her) and we are getting a baby soon. She is a feminist in the sense that she is ambitious, successful and does not take shit from anyone, which I appreciate very much. She out-earns me, too. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 09:25 PM
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Do you think the response you got would've been the same if they or you had been feminists? You know, it's funny that all of a sudden here I get a chance to verbalize a lot of things I had mulled over for quite some time and could never decide whether to post somewhere, and if so, where. So here goes: I always wanted to date a feminist, and never did, but not for lack of trying. Somehow they were not there to be found. Maybe I'm living in the wrong area or something. There was one feminist I had…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 08:53 PM
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Why is it then that feminists insist so much on not changing anything about these words? A man entering a feminist discussion, nevermind whether it's for women's sake or his own first has to do an awful lot of giving the benefit of the doubt. Bending words and his own mind quite a bit in order to let himself believe that what for all intents and purposes looks like an attack on him really isn't. Like, it walks like a duck, it quacks like a duck, but if you squint very hard you can kind of believ…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 08:33 PM
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Or did you mean in private? Has it been your experience that male emotional vulnerability is punished when done in private, with trusted partners? Indeed I have, although admittedly my previous partners did not see themselves as feminists (although they certainly agreed with the ideals, as do I). I will also admit that it was quite unintentional on their part, but the result is the same, and feminism teaches that a lack of conscious intent does not excuse a behaviour from being problematic, does…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 08:17 PM
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Not my complaint, for sure. I'm not a Redpiller, though. I am all for men being able to open up about their feelings, but raw authentic emotions can be uncomfortable to witness, and men know that, so they will often only provide a carefully guarded performance of watered-down emotions. If you want more, first give evidence that it will not blow up in our faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 07:43 PM
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Slightly more subtle. They strongly affirm that if a woman demands that a potential mate is tall as a tree, sexually dominant to the point of violence, makes a pile of cash so she does not have to work ever, and her emotional rock to boot, there's nothing wrong with it, she is perfectly entitled to want whatever she wants, and it is certainly not in contradiction to her calling herself a feminist. Other patriarchal norms are enforced more directly, such as demanding that a man act as if he is in…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 07:30 PM
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My favorite public swimming pool is one which is popular with gay men. The amount of sixpack physiques you see there is staggering. No beer guts to be seen. And we all know the labour and self denial that goes into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 08:00 AM
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Women don't view their vaginas as the best part of them. But you apparently do. Because otherwise why would you react with indignation to the thought of a woman getting "tricked" into sex without adequate compensation (LTR)? Remember, we assumed at the start that she is a woman who enjoys casual sex. She got lied to and ended up without a LTR. She had sex with a guy she was attracted to. Those two things are sepearate. You only connect them because you see sex as a transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 05:40 PM
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Posts like this prove that both men and women still see sex as transactional. Men do because they feel they did not get paid for delivering the goods (dates, LTR) while others get a free ride. Women do because "being used for sex" means not getting the goods for your expenditure of sexual currency. Getting ripped off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 05:24 PM
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But why would a woman want a man they have to trick like that and who they know would judge them badly for doing what they really want to do (have sex right away)? Those "feminist men" as you call them, they do exist — why not go for them instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 05:17 PM
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Yes, and what's worse, men often think the same about themselves. I once got roasted on a forum for suggesting that a women can be bad in bed. Men and women both were like "WTF? How is that even possible? Quit trolling!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 09:21 PM
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That's because you have not experienced sex as a man. Sorry. It's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 07:47 PM
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Then you have not had the dubious pleasure of perusing The Good Men Project. They regularly feature Nerdlove's stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 11:28 AM
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