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6

Hey, I self reflected. This post is still dog shit. Good now?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:27 AM
21

It’s completely valid for anyone to not date anyone for any reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:47 PM
8

It doesn’t make me feel anything. If someone doesn’t think a person or endeavor is worth their time, it’s not my responsibility to convince them otherwise. Like, what? Do I change my entire self in order to accommodate his desires because he has shitty work ethic? Yeah, don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:38 PM
8

You’re gonna starve when your momma dies. 🤣 Seriously, you don’t learn most things as a child. Part of growing up is learning skills and if you’re incapable of learning basic skills past a certain arbitrary age then you’re probably a useless person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:10 PM
4

Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:54 PM
8

This is definitely a teenager that lives with his parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:12 PM
15

Lmao, what? Women aren’t innately imbued with the knowledge to cook and not all women are taught to cook either. And some women, like myself, hate to cook. But if you seriously don’t know how to wash and cut vegetables then I assume you have some sort of disability because how hard is it to conclude to rinse something with water and chop it into pieces. Do you know how to use scissors and how to wash your feet? Also, if you practice and cook more then it’ll start to take you less time as well. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:02 PM
20

But women should spend three hours in the kitchen after a grueling day? Do you live in a fantasy world where women don’t have jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:54 PM
28

Being held more accountable for household labor from youth based on your gender isn’t an advantage. All people should be taught to cook because it’s basic survival skills. Splitting household labor is pretty much ideal considering most women work full time as well. You get a kitchen whiteboard and write on it what you’re out of if you’re worried about communicating which ingredients you’re out of. Welcome to adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:53 PM
25

Nobody innately knows how to cook. Wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:47 PM
1

Yeah, they have to start out as a wine first, not just sour grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:37 PM
1

What the fuck? I’m a woman and I don’t watch lesbian porn. Where are you getting this supposed information on all women from?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:07 AM
4

If they’re desperate then beggars can’t be choosers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:48 PM
4

What? I do not understand what you’re trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:24 PM
12

Hey, what is this? Nuance? Gtfo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:04 PM
15

Don’t date single parents then. What even is this post?Nobody has a gun to your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:02 PM
3

What? I think we live in different realities because I have no idea what this is about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:20 AM
1

Why would you assume I’d be empathetic towards you? Because I have a cunt? Your personality is dogshit and you’re pathetic and annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:31 PM
1

LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:28 PM
1

Are you in one of those countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:25 PM
1

Financing and credit exists. You could also work multiple jobs. If you were really that desperate to change your looks, you’d try your best to make it happen. You’re just a lazy loser that wants to cry and piss himself instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:22 PM
1

You know plastic surgery exists, right? God, pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:20 PM
1

I have no idea what that means. You don’t want to improve your looks, your personality, or financial situation. You just want to be a lazy cry baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:18 PM
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Never typed the words “it’s over”, but if you feel like it is then whatever. You seem like a weak individual afraid of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:13 PM
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I guess you’re just screwed and doomed to constantly post on here and bitch about how miserable a person you are. Clearly you’re not going to do anything else to help your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:09 PM
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You could get surgery. Your personality will still be repulsive though. Or are you poor too? Poor, ugly, and unlikable?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:06 PM
–

Ah, I’m sure you’re even uglier than that guy. Must suck to be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:04 PM
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Nah, imma be honest. He’s ugly and his personality is shit. Just awful in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:59 PM
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Maybe your personality sucks AND you’re ugly. Just undesirable all around. You could get surgery. Your personality would still be foul though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:56 PM
0

Yeah. This. It’s telling that OP wants women to “choose better” but then complains about “average men” not being chosen. Clearly wants “average men” to be the “better choice” which is nonsense because they’re average by definition and therefore not better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:57 PM
6

Just like the Buddha. 🪷🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:35 PM
4

Cool. So what awesome things have you accomplished so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:26 PM
0

“Always”? This is our first time ever interacting so what the fuck do you know about what I ‘always’ do?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:39 AM
2

I’m sorry, are women responsible for organizing for you? Men don’t have to take responsibility or do anything for women. Most women’s shelters are set up by women, etc. Seems like an internal issue that you and other fellow men should take responsibility for. Edit: can you name any male abuse victim/survivor organization or foundation that was shut down by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:43 PM
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For real. I don’t want the clorox-fish special. 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:31 PM
4

Then men should help each other like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:19 PM
9

I’m not fucking dudes so they don’t kill themselves. I sometimes have suicidal ideation but I wouldn’t demand the use of another person’s body to salve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:12 PM
8

What am I sympathizing with? If a man can lead a decent, autonomous life, why should their sex life be a concern to anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:09 PM
12

Is the issue getting pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:06 PM
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Yeah. For real. I’m a woman and def don’t stick around for that shit. Honestly, cum is annoying. Going to the bathroom afterwards is 🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:05 PM
10

The issue is not getting pussy, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:56 PM
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Do you speak for all 4 billion men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:52 PM
16

We have to give our bodies to them or else we’re no better than feudal lords, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:35 PM
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“Men don’t care about male pleasure in porn in general” Aren’t like cream pies and money shots like a huge thing in porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:33 PM
10

Okay, but peasants can be like imprisoned, tortured, and enslaved for life. Far cry from not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:24 PM
1

I didn’t mention police departments. Do you just want to shame them or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:11 AM
1

It’s only like 4k extra in pay if you eliminated the 7,000 jobs but we’re talking about replacing them with men. If we eliminated 7,000 positions then they would still suffer from understaffing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 05:55 AM
3

There’s 7,000 women and 59,000 men. Do you really think that’s a strong enough percentage to account for burnout in SK firefighters? Hey, how about they up the physical standards (they’re unhealthy as shit compared to other countries firefighters) and the citizens of SK petition their government to pay them more than 35k USD annually and expand recruitment of both genders? Here in the US, the majority of firefighters are volunteers and work without pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:44 AM
3

Okay, so 7,000 supposed “office roles” (according to you) freed up to men will give 59,000 people enough time to rotate and relax?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:17 AM
1

Okay. So women can’t have it both ways. How do you enforce that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:08 PM
1

Hold on, I’m a little confused atm. My bad. If you don’t want to strip women of payment and punish them for it, then what exactly do you want? A public apology from every woman on earth? You obviously don’t equate sex work to rapists or else you would want it criminalized. But you don’t want them to be punished or work for free, you want an “admission that the ‘harm’ narrative is being used as a convenient double standard” which is okay but what they fuck is that? What does that look like in rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:17 PM
1

Ohhh, okay. You think women shouldn’t get paid for it. I mean, I understand your point of view. So how would you enforce that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:10 PM
1

No, I’m just asking questions. You seem to be mad about women making money from sex work because they have an economical advantage in that way. I understand that you were trying to explain that you think it’s hypocritical because of “it’s only bad depending on who gets the check” attitude. So, what’s your solution? Obviously these women are extorting men, right? How do you stop that? How do you stop them from getting a check?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:03 PM
1

Do you want provocative women/adult performers/sex workers/etc to be held to the same lawful punishments as rapists, drug dealers, murderers, and human traffickers? Do you want it criminalized?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:51 PM
1

Yeah, there are women that are okay and justify sex work and do it. But there are women that disagree with it. Just because some women are sex workers, it doesn’t make 4 billion people okay with being objectified.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:13 PM
1

I tried to use a better example and you got all weird and butthurt and started droning on about false equivalence. What exactly do you even want to argue with me about? Dentists? I hate dentists. Now what? I’m genuinely interested to know how this ties into OP’s argument being “some women make money from being objectified therefore all women want to be objectified”. Can you clue me in?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:44 PM
0

Those vigilantes that attack male predators get charged and go to jail as well though. I’m sure most people would be happy with any child predator getting some sort of comeuppance but the “vigilantes” do need to accept and shoulder the consequences of their actions and be admitted to the penal system.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:32 PM
3

Oh I agree, but complaining about niche fanbases on here doesn’t mean the fanbase is going to reform its self. Like what are we going to do? Track down every toxic “fan” on earth and reeducate them? If this were a post to a forum specifically having to do with these reality stars then maybe complaining about the toxicity would have some sort of impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:09 PM
2

So comparing sex workers and dentists to drug and arms dealers isn’t a false equivalency? My guy, it was just an off the cuff example and you’re missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:08 PM
0

Appreciate the clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:44 PM
0

Ohhh, so it’s a different guy (the twitch streamer) and isn’t the guy on the reality show?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:42 PM
0

I’m confused. OP didn’t mention a twitch streamer. Who is that guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:39 PM
8

I’ve seen neither but I really wouldn’t worry about how fan bases react to shitty reality shows. They’re not the brightest people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:32 PM
5

I don’t believe it either. It’s not a very well paid job in South Korea. It’s only marginally better in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:29 PM
2

Yeah. The point was to demonstrate to OP how absurd he is being.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:58 PM
2

Well OP is equating sex workers with all women so it would only be consistent for him to equate rapists with all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:54 PM
1

Okay. How about dog groomers benefit from dirty dogs? It’s funny you got stuck on dentists as if using that random profession as an example somehow invalidates the fact that people who are selling a solution, benefit from people who have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:51 PM
2

Hey, let’s do some math real quick. There are approximately 66,000 firefighters in SK. Only 7,000 are women. Even if that 7,000 was replaced by men, wouldn’t there still be a problem with understaffing and burnout?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:40 PM
1

Thank goodness most firefighters are wonderful people who wouldn’t do that. Considering around 65% of firefighters in the US are volunteers, I don’t think they’re gonna get butthurt over some women wanting to volunteer as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:01 PM
10

You can’t say you’re only talking about SK now after you’ve been spouting off about the US, Catalonia, and Australia like you know how things in those countries work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:53 PM
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Okay, what country are you talking about now? Or are you talking about firefighters in all countries? How can you say that every single fire station (even on different continents) practice the same thing? Also, why wouldn’t they just hire more people (men and women)? Regardless of specific country, can you please provide your source for that supposed information. Edit: Just wanted to say there are only 20,000 active duty women in South Korea’s military.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:48 PM
8

Okay but one person can say they’re vegan and another person can eat chicken. They’re different people. Women do not share a single consciousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:46 PM
8

Okay but you were talking about how South Korea is suffering from women firefighters (which they’re really not). Do you have any information on whether or not Catalonias and Australians are suffering from women firefighters?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:42 PM
3

Then why are you complaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:31 PM
10

just looked and women make up barely 10% of firefighters (around 7,000) in South Korea. I also learned that South Korean (male and female) firefighters are in worse shape than fire fighters in other countries so maybe that should be addressed first.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:29 PM
5

So would you like sex work quotas for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:26 PM
5

Okay, and how many careers skew in favor towards men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:10 PM
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So, because some women in certain professions benefit by objectifying themselves consensually, you think that it’s okay to objectify billions of women even when they actively don’t want to be? Edit: Also, since men are mostly the customers, does that mean that all men are johns? Like, you can’t separate men from sex worker consumption, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:52 PM
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Okay, so women in those specific jobs, not women in general. Dentists benefit from people with bad teeth, sex workers and models benefit from thirsty men. I’m trying to figure out what it is that you want to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:48 PM
8

Do you mean women or sex workers specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:42 PM
1

Yeah, being desired sexually by a lot of people feels pretty good. Are you saying that monogamy doesn’t feel as good as fucking around? Cuz that’s valid too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 06:53 PM
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You seem mentally unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:58 PM
2

“You made me like this!” Weak shit. 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:47 PM
-1

Nope. You’re not sucking me back into this bullshit. Enjoy your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:01 PM
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Yeah, it’s off-putting if you believed one thing to be true just for it to be revealed that it’s not true. I think you’re putting a lot of weight into what being “put off” means. But it’s totally justifiable in a lot of cases to feel “betrayed” by a person if they gave a certain impression but you come to find out they have ulterior motives. Pretending to be someone’s friend just to fuck them is a pretty greasy move. Also, how do you know women only consider it a betrayal if the guy isn’t attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:50 PM
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I said people. Not women. All people are put off by that shit. Fucking read, dude. Anyway, most people are just friends with people if they’re not attracted to one another. It can feel like a betrayal to anyone if it was implied from the beginning from the interested party that they wanted to be platonic just for them to turn it around on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:08 PM
-1

Uh, most people would be put off by someone they have no interest in expressing interest in them especially if it has been implied from the start that they don’t. Do you think every guy reciprocates when a lady friend expresses interest? No. Anyway, sorry she turned you down, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:54 PM
2

I feel like you have none of those so maybe don’t worry about it, champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:09 PM
4

I don’t fuck ugly or fat dudes or let them wine and dine me because I’d prefer for them to leave me alone. I don’t think you want them to leave you alone. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:15 PM
7

You want these people to leave you alone but you engage sexually with them. That’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:32 PM
6

Still weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:30 PM
10

You bang ugly chicks but want them to leave you alone. So weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:28 PM
8

You want them to leave you alone but you also fuck them sometimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:12 PM
3

Yeah, the same tiny amount of men that we’re all apparently part of harems for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:26 PM
6

I’ve had the fantasy but like actually organizing it and going through with it? Sounds like a gross headache. After all the planning and scheduling I’d just be put off. Like finding one person to fuck is hard enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:53 PM
4

That would mean that even more men have been in a gang bang though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:43 PM
2

If 25% of women are participating in gang bangs that means the percentage of men participating in them would be even higher… So a large amount of the human population would be doing gang bangs. I don’t think that’s something we can just cover up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:42 PM
4

It must be exhausting thinking like this all the time. Knock yourself out though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:28 PM
6

Just because sex work is legalized doesn’t mean a bunch of women will become sex workers and meet the demand. There’s a shitload of reasons to not become a sex worker and legality usually isn’t the top one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:13 PM
3

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:11 PM
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This sounds like a personal issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:03 PM
1

Should probably define the competition first. Which is why I said you should compete against yourself for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:43 PM
2

You could compare yourself to yourself. I’m a painter and the way I improve is to not compare myself to others but to compare my newer work to my older work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:12 PM
1

Maybe do some work and figure out what winning looks like for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:01 PM
6

People in Ancient Greece and Rome used Silphium as a means of birth control until it went extinct. They even printed it on coins and it’s where we derived the shape of the 🤍. So people have always been trying to fuck and find methods of birth control to keep fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:12 PM
1

Do you think abortion doctors wear goggles? Serious question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:58 PM
15

It is her body and it is her choice. How did you interpret that to mean it’s not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:47 PM
11

It’s called “termination of parental rights”, OP. A man can give up his rights to the child and forgo child support unless they previously owed it before giving up their rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:42 PM
7

Have you never of “termination of parental rights”? Also, you’d think that if you’re so against child support that you’d be in favor of a woman aborting instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:59 PM
1

Homocide. You’re not going to be charged with killing two persons under federal law.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:49 PM
1

I prefer “murderer” for myself. Tyvm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:44 PM
1

It’s self defeating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:34 PM
7

I can’t even decipher whatever you’re trying to say and how it relates to anything I’m saying at all. You’re saying that women only like abusive men? If that’s true, then does that mean every attached or married man is abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:55 PM
3

I’m sorry, but are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:13 PM
6

Living in a society does not mean that it is other peoples responsibility to validate you. You’re responsible for you. Yes, outside validation is nice but it’s not what is going to really build you up and make you the best version of you. That’s internal work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:46 PM
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Such a person needs to do self work. They’re the only one who can help themselves. Outside validation is fleeting and ultimately meaningless if you hate yourself. No one can save you except you. You’re the only person you have to spend the rest of your life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:40 PM
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You’d be surprised how often we teach other people how to treat us. Someone with high self esteem is going to be more resilient and more assertive and generally a more positive person to be around, all of which are attractive social traits. If you don’t treat yourself well, then don’t expect others to treat you well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:34 PM
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Positive reinforcement starts with your own self talk. That’s why being kind to yourself helps build self esteem. Outside validation matters less than how one validates themselves. And yes, someone who gets less success than others may feel bad about it, but that’s why it’s important to not compare yourself to others. We all have separate, different paths in life and sometimes you win and sometimes you lose. Never underestimate luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:22 PM
17

Someone with good self esteem and self efficacy isn’t going to become bitter and give up if they’re bad at something they want to be good at. They’ll continue to try and accept failures as normal. The people become embittered have low self esteem to begin with and simply use failure as a means to validate their poor self image. You can build self esteem by practicing gratitude, being kind to yourself, setting goals, connecting with friends and family, not comparing yourself to others, etc But it…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:02 PM
28

Self esteem can be built outside of romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:37 PM
34

No, I said men. Also, plenty of unattractive men have relationships and get married. Probably because they’re not weird and bitter about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:32 PM
71

Men who disdain women will probably continue to be very unsuccessful with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:26 PM
2

The meme. I’m taking it. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:42 AM
3

Oh right. I forgot about the hordes of women raping men and pillaging their sperm. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:17 AM
0

Yeah, no one here is going to get this. Nice effort though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:11 AM
4

Then keep your sperm to yourselves. Irresponsible sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:11 AM
7

You don’t decant some of your youth into little bottles for men you’ve fucked in order to fuel their immortality?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:01 AM
2

I’ll be taking that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:59 PM
3

The joke is that this person lets their s/o pay for their own things. It was sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:04 PM
1

Okay. How much of this do you think comes down to nature vs nurture?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:23 PM
0

“Gets her body” Dude. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:00 PM
9

I always go dutch on dates. I’m also poor as fuck though so obviously I can’t go on many dates. If a guy asks me out to eat or for drinks I simply can’t go. It’s actually pretty funny to reject men because I’m poor. But the alternative is them paying and being resentful or them paying and expecting something in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:57 PM
2

Gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:29 PM
1

Canada isn’t some magical land where you’re all somehow better. Seriously, stop. This is embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:33 PM
15

You’re so special, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:39 PM
1

I don’t know if he’s anything like this, but I do know that Kyle Gallner is the ideal man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:07 PM
2

This is fabulous
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:00 PM
1

What about a website I’ve made? Does he get to manage that without my input?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:17 AM
1

Whatever you need to tell yourself, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:10 AM
1

I’m in North Carolina.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 10:43 PM
1

Yeah, can’t think of a single dude that I’ve dated that has shared his money with me or hasn’t expected me to go Dutch on literally everything. Maybe I’m just ugly af.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 10:39 PM
1

It’s not like he’s going to share his money with me so I don’t give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:44 PM
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Whatever helps you cope, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:12 PM
10

Okay, so you want to be a piece of shit. Neat. If that’s what you want to be then I can’t stop you but I can point out that you are in fact being one. And you can’t get mad at that. EDIT: Happy Thanksgiving
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:44 PM
20

How about nobody strings along anybody and we all try our best not to be pieces of shit? Is that cool?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:43 PM
6

You seem like a treat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 01:03 PM
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I mean, get an AI girlfriend and take yourself out of the pool. You won’t be missed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:51 PM
0

He called her a 7.5.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:28 AM
5

What a sweet story, maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:42 PM
4

Rating your wife like that. Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:36 PM
5

Am not flaired but I am a woman and only have 8/15
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:56 PM
1

Only about 10% of the divorces in the US deal with alimony, and 3% of the those recipients are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:37 PM
2

Read this wondering if I’m mediocre. Turns out I’m worse. 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:56 PM
4

Just a million? You know it’s recommended that one have 1.3 million in savings for retirement alone and that’s if you retire at 67. You’re talking about retiring at 50 and you think that a million is going to be enough to retire on and raise a child for at least 18 years. Seriously, you’d be living on 55k a year. Hope your kid gets scholarships. LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:09 AM
1

1 in 4 assaults are perpetrated by a stranger. A 300% increase is insane. Is it the apocalypse? Cuz yeah, I’d like a gun. Is it like some sort of Screwfly Solution nightmare? I’m headed out to the woods to wait for the aliens.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:23 AM
1

👆
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:55 PM
1

I mean, you’ve got the victim thing down pat. Do I really need to use my best?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:39 PM
1

“Male brain and testicles, surprisingly similar” This?! This shameful to you?! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:34 PM
1

Sure. Would you prefer physical or emotional?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:31 PM
1

It’s paywalled even.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:31 PM
1

What? You literally linked me to Facebook article in a different language. Lmao, you’re useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:20 PM
4

Ooh, and sending a Venmo request for the coffee when he doesn’t put out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:19 PM
1

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5845036/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:31 PM
2

Do you know if men in South America or Eastern Europe are less whiny than western men? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:09 PM
1

You’re* How embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:26 PM
1

Your feelings aren’t really a concern of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:14 PM
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I didn’t say you would die soon. I said you would die sooner — Which is medically accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:09 PM
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Wow. Repulsive, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:48 PM
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Lmao, okay? So is the 5’10” dude that’s fucking me. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:14 PM
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You’re 6’5” and that means what? That you have back pain and will die sooner. Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:59 PM
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Why’s the balaclava guy so scared? Not very masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:37 PM
1

Can you show me the article about testicles? And the original article isn’t reputable, but it had such an impact that several reputable new organizations had to dispel it. In fact, this idea that women will somehow give birth to offspring with characteristics of previous mates is called telegony which began as a theory in Ancient Greece and persisted until it was finally disproven and entirely collapsed in the 20th century. So like… That’s a lot of centuries of shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:13 PM
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It’s not a movement, it’s an industry. The women who are part of this industry MAKE MONEY promoting said trad lifestyle which is anything but traditional. They are women with jobs. They’re just WFH. They’re selling a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:47 PM
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So hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:43 PM
1

The most popular one is that Chimerism one that weirdos use to say women store the DNA of previous male partners so you can never be sure a kid is actually yours even though it’s about how women who were pregnant with male fetuses retain some male dna in their brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:05 PM
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I have no idea what testicle thing you’re talking about. Anyway, nobody should be shaming anyone for simple biology. And that goes for men who like to shame women for all sorts of biological things too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:46 PM
2

How is it shameful? It’s just fact of the human body. We all catch up in our teens anyway. Is it shameful that grass grows? And birds go tweet tweet?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:30 PM
1

You insinuated the blame should be on women for men justifying their inappropriate relations with teenage girls because we don’t lie about medical science and say that women’s brains don’t mature faster. That’s weird, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:17 PM
2

Their brains mature faster. That doesn’t mean they mature faster sexually. Weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:10 PM
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No, it’s because it’s technically scientifically true that the brains of female adolescents mature faster than their male counterparts. It evens out in the late teens and early twenties though. “Gynocentric propaganda” Incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:09 PM
2

You don’t get to decide if it’s a big or small incompatibility. For her it may be quite big. You’re not a good person and you should try to live a more honest life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:42 AM
1

Why would you want to date someone you’re not compatible with? Why would you want to date someone you have to lie to?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:35 AM
8

Unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:17 AM
1

“Sex mostly is male performance with women either being totally passive and receptive or mutually reciprocating and receptive” That is so sad that OP thinks that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:45 PM
1

He should have his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:37 PM
1

So… Are you only friends with people if you think it’ll help get you laid? Do you have friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:24 PM
5

Yes. I’d rather my partner jerk off to the idea of dead bodies than pictures of dead bodies. Because in the former scenario the dead bodies don’t actually exist. I still think he should go to therapy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:57 PM
2

People can break up for any reason they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:48 PM
3

So it’s cool to use the content but not to support or make the content? What if the guy pays for porn? Is it cheating then? He’s using his money on another woman for sexual gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:44 PM
2

It’s not controlling to have boundaries. If you don’t agree to them, simply don’t date them. This isn’t difficult. You don’t want to date these women anyway so what do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:39 PM
8

Did you just unironically use the word “spinster” in the year 2024?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:05 AM
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America is bad. Other places in the world are getting bad. It’s not a uniquely American problem. It’s a problem that’s occurring in multiple places. I don’t know if Americans have an issue admitting they’re fat. I was saying that obesity is becoming a problem in more places than America.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:12 PM
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It’s been rising all over the world. Just because America is one of the worst doesn’t mean the rest of the world gets a pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:26 PM
2

Uhh… If you say so, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:54 PM
5

I’m confused by what you meant by “only time will tell” but I have a feeling maybe this conversation isn’t going to be worth much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:51 PM
8

I’m sorry. Do you think women have only been oppressed… Recently?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:49 PM
10

Well the person above you is making a point that many women in more oppressed countries are forced to comply through physical violence, imprisonment, and death. Doesn’t seem like there’s a lot of choice or “mate selection” involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:22 PM
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But it’s the same reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:03 PM
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It’s more than an American problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:02 PM
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Then wouldn’t it be for similar reasons as to why men are fat? Like they just don’t care or don’t have time or don’t know how or whatever etc, etc, etc? Maybe they’re married and don’t care?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:58 PM
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Wouldn’t it be for more less the same reasons? As in, not moving enough and eating too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:50 PM
1

Some dudes suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:07 PM
1

I mean, as opposed to 1000-1700 dollars and a 14+ hour flight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:33 PM
2

My bad. You have to go like 60 miles outside of Vegas. There’s still like 10 counties where it’s legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:24 PM
1

This reminds me of a dude I knew who said he wanted to go to Russia because US women are shallow and just want him for his money. Bro couldn’t even afford a flight there. It was beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:28 PM
1

Passport Bros make me laugh. I knew a guy a couple of years ago who wanted to go to Russia for women because he thought US women were shallow and just wanted his money. Backed out when he saw the prices of flights. Bro didn’t even have any money. Just beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:57 PM
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I can get a roundtrip ticket to Vegas from the southeastern part of the US for 300 bucks. International flights are expensive. Just saying. That’s money you could be using on hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:51 PM
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It’s more accessible than international travel. Also, I specified Vegas and Reno.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:40 PM
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It is in Nevada. Go to Vegas or Reno.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:13 PM
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I thought she filmed the music video in the AirBnB he used to hook up with other women. Which is soooo petty and nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:22 PM
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The song “Flowers” is referencing Bruno Mars’ song “When I Was Your Man” that her cheating ex husband dedicated to her at some point. Lyrics from “When I Was Your Man”: “That I should've bought you flowers And held your hand Shoulda gave you all my hours When I had the chance Take you to every party 'Cause all you wanted to do was dance” Lyrics from “Flowers”: “I can buy myself flowers Write my name in the sand Talk to myself for hours Say things you don't understand I can take myself dancing An…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:16 PM
1

I’d be really turned off if a guy told me slept with 50 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:19 PM
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Guesstimation is making an estimate with inadequate and incomplete information. It’s not very “scientific” or “factual” - It’s a guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:10 PM
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He assumed people’s heights and ages and then also based things off of what he personally finds attractive. But sure, “facts”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:37 PM
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Yeah, that’s really the weirdest part of all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:25 PM
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Oh, so it’s just a joke? You didn’t really go out and observe 112 couples and make sweeping generalizations about them based on subjective factors? That’s a relief. It’d be super sad and weird if you had actually done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:14 PM
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Very loose definition of science there, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:03 PM
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Forget the height. How the hell did OP determine ages? He excluded people that looked over 30 and focused on people supposedly 16-26. Like, did they ask these people their ages?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:47 AM
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At least you went outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:43 AM
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The Earth feels pressure for fear that women will monkey branch off of it to Mars (total Chad) and this immense pressure causes tectonic plates to shift and creates volcanos and fissures. When those volcanos erupt, geodes are formed by minerals being deposited from hydrothermal fluids within air pockets as the lava cools. Women like sparkly things. It all makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:31 PM
13

Designer incest babies. Fuck yeah!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:59 PM
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None of that means women in your life will help you take care of it. Also, the presence of male DNA found in a woman’s brain is likely the result of having been pregnant with a male fetus. https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0045592#:~:text=were%20not%20quantitative.-,The%20most%20likely%20source%20of%20male%20Mc%20in%20female%20brain,38%5D–%5B40%5D.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:58 PM
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Yeah, honestly that’s the most unrealistic part. Like women in your life are going to drop everything to take care of the child you chose to have by yourself with an artificial womb. For sure. Totes gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:47 PM
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Go for it, guys. Enjoy all the benefits of being a single parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:38 PM
1

There’s always room for Jello.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:27 PM
2

Bleak. But within theme.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:29 AM
1

Well, fuck, pay a professional. Louse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:56 AM
12

This is actually the most depressing place. These people live in a continuous cycle of self-defeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:35 AM
1

“Biologically”? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:09 PM
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Oh, so we should all dictate our lives by the sexual preferences of some sadistic piece of shit who enslaved and subjugated millions of human beings? Good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:09 PM
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Slaves to biology — Seems irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:06 PM
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No it’s not. It’s knowing when and how to act through experience and judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:29 PM
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I agree with this strangely out-of-place reasonable person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:02 PM
20

They do? Is this including in their minds? Do you have any sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:32 PM
9

Maybe you should talk to a therapist before you can come to a conclusion about what is or is not “reality” — That might be the move to make here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:31 PM
18

And what about cheating men? Are they emotional like women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:29 PM
17

If that’s true and you have the capacity to not fantasize and desire others then why don’t you think some women are similarly capable?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:23 PM
7

But according to you every woman eventually will. So why do you even hope?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:21 PM
11

Yes, marriage proposal DMs are actually quite literal and a very real offer. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:18 PM
5

So when do you end it? If you assume she will at some point and you can’t possibly know then — Well, then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:15 PM
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Because you’re not facing your symptoms, but rather trying to cover them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:12 PM
7

5 bucks on both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:09 PM
9

Okay, but say that doesn’t happen. Say 5 years go by — Will you end it on the assumption that she’s cheated in her mind because it was an inevitability?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:07 PM
10

Okay, but how can you ever know?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:02 PM
15

Fantasizing is cheating? That’s… Strange. Thought crimes now. Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:55 PM
12

What kind of relationship are you going to have with someone that you’re convinced is going to cheat on you? Doesn’t seem particularly fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:51 PM
9

That’s a pretty fatalistic approach. If you believe someone better is always going to come along and you’ll be cheated on then why even bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:47 PM
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I mean, if I did then I’d expect that quite a few short men would be pissed off at me and say that my standards were too high, etc.— Which happens on here quite frequently. But it doesn’t really matter what other people think in regards to who I date. You like what you like. I’m sorry that you can’t handle that some people will disagree with you. Must be a difficult life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:16 PM
28

This made me snort-laugh. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:11 PM
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Okay, and are there any actual consequences? Or is it just that you don’t like that some people disagree with your preferences? No one is forcing you to date anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:05 PM
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You can reject anyone for any reason. I don’t know what you’d like to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:02 PM
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If you say so. Good luck with all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:11 PM
7

I’d wager that a lot of men in this subreddit don’t have much experience dating or having sex with women. In fact, most of them complain about that. But the point is that women aren’t a monolith. Some women like older men, some like younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:01 PM
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This place is so bizarre. Every time the women are asked something, and they answer, they’re told they’re either wrong or lying. Why even bother asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:44 PM
4

Ohhhh. Energy vampire. I get it. Well, we’re done talking now. Best of luck with your sadness or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:05 PM
5

I’m 32. 6 years is a manageable gap. I started becoming comfortable with dating younger men when I was in my mid-20’s. Not too much younger, still wanted to able to get into bars with them (US). But it’s much better now that I’m older and a 26 year old has their shit more together than a 21 year old. Young men can be very unappealing because they’re coddled and told they mature slower than women and typically live in filth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:04 PM
3

Do you actually think those are happy families? Maybe check yourself in somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:58 PM
3

Stay alone. I think that’s what’s best for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:51 PM
2

I can go as low as 6 years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:51 PM
3

What that fuck did I just read? You wish you were abusive to women because you think you’d have a girlfriend by now? Some of you are fucking helpless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:43 PM
1

You’re a moron at least a and sociopath at most. Best of luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:01 AM
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If you believe that other human beings don’t have sentience and their own internal narrative and exist as individuals outside your perception then you are beyond reproach. Something is fucked in your brain. Get help. You’re only going to live a life misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:24 PM
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I thought I was just an NPC though? Anyway, please leave the dogs alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:13 PM
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Let’s be honest - This guy doesn’t have people respond to him. This was his moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:29 PM
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I’m sorry, did you want me to convince you to do something that you don’t want to do? Is this some sort of “sell me this pen” bullshit? Like, why would I care if you don’t want to have serious relationships with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:04 PM
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Then get a dog. No one is forcing you to be with women and if you find those things equally valuable in a dog then that’s your prerogative. Maybe not the (physical) intimacy part though. Please don’t do that with the dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:27 PM
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After all the shit you’ve said about women, what the fuck could you possibly appreciate about them? Their holes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:01 PM
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Well obviously you’re able to overcome whatever “natural drive” you have and not have long term relationships so obviously it’s not a gun to your head. You’re not being forced; It’s not life or death. And good—Stay the fuck out of relationships. I think that would benefit everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:54 PM
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I don’t know how you can claim to like them when you literally shit on them at every turn. And what you regard to be a women’s purpose is inconsequential.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:46 PM
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But he’s saying he doesn’t want kids and a relationship so it doesn’t even matter what his income is. He doesn’t want to share it and he doesn’t want to provide so therefore its “value” is irrelevant to women who would otherwise value it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:32 PM
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I disagree. These are the ramblings of a hurt and angry man. I don’t think he or others like him should go globe-trotting. Just let them be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:15 PM
10

Dude, don’t get into relationships. Don’t share your money. There’s not a gun to your head, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:55 PM
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We get it. You don’t like women. Don’t get into relationships with them. Other men are more than willing. You bitter thing, you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:51 PM
5

Okay, but how is the most sought after woman determined? Are there like… Conferences? Is it like a pageant? Or like an election? Do y’all cast ballots?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:27 PM
9

I typically bring cups and napkins. Sometimes chips.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:19 PM
1

This. If a bar doesn’t have a patio, I’m not fucking going.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:50 PM
9

We’re specifically talking about people who refuse to share their income. So, let’s suppose what you said is true… If that’s what women want, then how would NOT sharing your income with them be “valuable” to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:33 PM
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For some men? No. For others? Love, devotion, friendship, intimacy, attachment, emotional support, personal development, etc. Those tend to be the main benefits of a long-term relationship. Now, if you don’t care for any of those then simply don’t have a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:28 PM
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I’m just saying that one’s income isn’t going to be considered “valuable” to another person if it in no way benefits them. Excuse the shitty analogy but a jar of change is more valuable than a vault you can’t crack.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:00 PM
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Can I just add to this that it’s strange that these men will harp on their income making them “high value” while simultaneously refusing to spend any of said income in order to benefit them? Like, they say women want money but if they have money and refuse to spend it on women then… What’s the point? Isn’t that supposedly what makes women want them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:49 PM
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Then don’t have a long-term relationship? I’m not exactly sure what it is that you want to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:41 PM
2

Are you having a stroke?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:27 PM
3

I agree that OP shouldn’t reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:17 PM
1

32 year old woman. 6,7,9,4,3,5,1,8,2
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:23 PM
1

Both are creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:48 AM
1

Ohhh. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:13 PM
1

What? I’m trying to parse this out and I can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:04 PM
9

Buy a sense of humor, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:09 PM
9

I don’t assess a man’s wealth. So long as a man can support himself I don’t particularly care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:08 PM
3

More nonsense. Just wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:30 AM
5

The global life expectancy of a male in 2023 is approximately 70.8 years. Be honest — You’ve never checked shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:58 AM
8

20 years faster? Single men die at 50? What? This is just nonsense. Married men have an average of a two year longer life span than their unmarried counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:31 PM
5

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:24 PM
2

Like an overtly sexual compliment?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:14 PM
3

Of course I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:59 PM
9

No, receiving compliments from people I’m not interested in does not decrease the value of compliments I receive from people I am interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:48 PM
1

No, receiving compliments from people I’m not interested in does not decrease the value of compliments I receive from people I am interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:47 PM
1

I just think it’s interesting that you can’t even define an emotional state for yourself but still make assumptions about how you’d act while in said emotional state.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:41 PM
1

I just think it’s interesting that you can’t even define an emotional state for yourself but still make assumptions about how you’d act while in said emotional state.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:21 PM
1

You don’t know how to describe love in words?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:24 AM
1

So you can’t even describe it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:19 AM
1

You can’t describe love? Even for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:04 AM
1

Can you extrapolate further?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:19 AM
2

This is a very intimate and personal question; But may I ask what “love” means to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:55 PM
1

Sure, there are quite a few people who enjoy quantity over quality but that doesn’t mean the majority are interested. I’m more fascinated by the preference you described of have of having “one that you love” and “one that you like on the side” — Tell me more about that. What facilitates that desire in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:42 PM
1

Why do you think they ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:16 PM
2

So if she told you where you were going to eat or what to do because it’s what she wants, how would you react? Or would expect her to ask you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:09 PM
2

So you don’t inquire about your partner’s wants typically?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:42 PM
3

Do you not come to mutually agreed upon conclusions with your partner? Say they don’t want to go to a particular restaurant and offer other suggestions that you may like. Would that be a discussion that would lead to a compromise?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:24 PM
6

Can you define “having the upper hand” for me and perhaps provide some examples of how your relationships were better?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:56 PM
1

You should probably get a job and get out more. Meet people. Maybe understand that humans beings are individuals and to an extent we all possess a mixture of what you would consider “feminine” or “masculine” energies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:50 PM
5

Why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:47 PM
9

Okay. So you mention “shame” and “good” here. By all accounts, yes, it is “good” to compliment a person on their abilities rather than their appearance because it shows that you humanize them and think of them beyond a sexual object. It is, however, also ok to express that you find someone attractive. Perhaps try saying something like, “Yes, she is attractive. And a talented actress to boot!” — This would be a balanced response.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:53 PM
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Okay, the beard and sports thing simply isn’t true. People are typically attracted to athletic people. I don’t even know where you picked up the beard thing. Tbh, I don’t wanna unpack that. And as for telling your female friends that you think their friends are attractive, well, it depends entirely on the context of the situation and what your interpersonal relationships look like with one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:43 PM
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I’m confused. You can’t tell women what sports you play and think you can’t style your beard how you want? And what do you mean about being open about your attraction to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:30 PM
4

Okay. What are the voluntary and involuntary ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:11 PM
12

Yes, but also healthy relationships have highs and lows. They require maintenance. People are individuals with their own inner lives and experiences and sometimes we conflict with one another. What makes those relationships “healthy” though are the individuals’ ability to work together to overcome the lows with a combination of communication, honesty, compassion, empathy, maturity, and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:49 PM
3

Do you think that most people would still prefer the former regardless of the ease of obtaining the latter?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:29 PM
1

So there’s your answer. Most people would prefer the former, and some would prefer the latter regardless of the ease at which they could obtain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:15 PM
8

Do you think that it’s possible that a person would rather have a loving, equitable relationship with one person than be with two people for superficial reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:04 PM
12

What an odd response. I’m asking OP what actions he personally feels would demonstrate to him what he desires. Why would I know his answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:49 PM
5

Because that would mean that the problem is him and some people just can’t handle that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:47 PM
3

No, you didn’t. You didn’t list one thing that one could specifically do to show you “genuine interest” — You simply said that you wanted it demonstrated. But demonstrated how?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:00 PM
7

No. I have no interest in polygamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:46 PM
9

What actions and behaviors of an individual would make you feel like someone had genuine interest in you and cared about your feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:43 PM
6

But would you be able to say those things to a woman that was in your league? Like, what is it about your character and your values and your capacity to love that would enrich the life of your potential partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:01 AM
7

It’s very sad and telling that when asked what you “being to the table” in regards to enriching the life of your future partner that you’re unable to say thing like I’m a good listener”, “I’m compassionate”, “I’m adventurous”, or “I’m selfless”. Do you understand that you need to bring other qualities to the table besides your money and your credit score?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:55 AM
1

What? You don’t trust a study performed by GlobalGame.net? What is the world coming to! They’re pillars of the anthropological community.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:31 AM
1

I can like cartoons and the directorial works of Mike Nichols. You seen Wolf? Or Working Girl? Hard hitting stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:24 AM
1

No, I get it. It’s like when you’re watching a shitty movie and there’s a better one on a TV in the background of a scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:14 AM
1

Why I had know idea that pointing out the message of a particular movie made me “fanatical” about it. The standards these days are nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:00 AM
1

Sorry some of us aren’t dead inside, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:45 AM
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Yes, it’s logical to do x if you want y and doing x gets you y. This issue is whether doing x is harmful to yourself or others. And then that its self can quickly undermine the “logic” of the argument. Often times it more logical not to do something that is immoral to get what we want because we live in a society and there are consequences to our actions (social, legal, whatever). Logic gives rules to reason by; morality gives rules for action.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:30 PM
7

Hypothetically, do you think your “fair share” ought to be more or less than your partner’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:58 PM
5

So I take it that you would cook and clean as well and would ideally have a fair distribution of domestic chores?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:54 PM
8

So you want to date a woman for housework? So romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:41 PM
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If you “hear this shit all the time” then they must not “keep quiet about it” — So which is it? Do they not talk about it or do they talk about it constantly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:25 PM
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Morality has no place in an argument? What does that even mean? An argument about whether or not someone’s actions are unethical is absolutely the place for it. You can think whatever you want about women — I’m sure they don’t think much of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:09 PM
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If you believe that lying and manipulation make you valuable then you are beyond reproach. Clearly something is not right in your brain and there’s not a damn thing anyone can do to convince you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:46 PM
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David’s head, arms, and hands were carved much larger than his torso and legs — Definitely not an ideal body type. Also, in figurative art, idealism is just that — It’s ideal. It doesn’t necessarily exist in reality. Comparing yourself to works of art that were literally made using formulas and ideal ratios seems like it might lead to some pretty bad times. You may as well compare yourself to a cartoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:21 PM
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I don’t know if I would use the statue of David as an ideal simply for the fact that Michelangelo distorted the proportions significantly because that statue was intended to go on top of Opera del Duomo and viewed from below. It was too heavy to get up there though. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:05 PM
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It’s not “shame” that prevents me from going to a strip club — It’s lack of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:47 PM
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Yes, people get horny over good looking people. It’s not some moral failing and it doesn’t mean that people can’t find love with others who may not look like strippers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:17 PM
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I think you’re confused. When women say “looks don’t matter” what they mean is that there are other qualities that are more important to them that trump looks. Stripping, however, is a visual performance. You’re not there to get to know their personality and build attraction in a deeper, romantic context.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:14 PM
4

Finding the love of your life and experiencing decades with them is a win, even if that spouse passes away inevitably. And the point of the movie is that he didn’t end up alone, even after the loss of his wife. He (begrudgingly) made a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:39 PM
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Hey now. I’m a miserable internet weirdo and I don’t care to be lumped together with that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:59 PM
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What? No way. This man clearly possesses secret knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:43 PM
4

So if it’s wrong for a woman to lie to and manipulate others, then it’s also wrong for a man to. You agree that it’s wrong for both, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:47 AM
5

If they “keep quiet about it” then how could you possibly know?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:45 AM
1

Beeswax, olive oil, animal fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:14 AM
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That’s interesting. I think it’s fascinating that people in these spaces equate dating to market places and human beings to commodities. It’s a very detached approach. Like it ignores emotions entirely. It’s just a constant barrage of “this trait makes you valuable and this trait doesn’t” — What’s the end game in it all? Because it doesn’t seem like it’s the pursuit of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:39 AM
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He said he would though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:50 AM
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Don’t older men also suffer from infertility and baggage?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:45 AM
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In my experience, I engaged with age-gap relationships when I was younger and they produced all the trauma that supposedly men my age don’t want to “deal with” — Real catch-22.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:00 AM
9

Saaaaaame.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:44 PM
7

Imagine this going to an ethics board 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:28 PM
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I have no dogs in this fight. I asked that question specifically because typically men will respond that it’s the physicality of youth that makes them more desirable. Some men will say it’s “lack of baggage” but that’s a fraught topic in and of its self because it can be boiled down to “lack of experience” by quite a few. Rightfully so imo but my opinion doesn’t really matter for all intents and purposes. I want to know what happens when that perceived value fades away — I hear it parroted so of…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:24 PM
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I’m not sure I’ve seen very many women bragging about lying to and manipulating men into sex in order to “prove” some weird ageist theory regarding whether or not younger or older men are easier to manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:45 PM
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I don’t see how that’s weird at all. I specifically said early 30’s because it still puts her within a normal age range for the commenter I was replying to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:35 PM
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You didn’t perform any sort of “research”. You lied to and manipulated people into having sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:34 PM
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Don’t know. One guy replied that he does toss them to the side and that he doesn’t experience love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:32 PM
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That’s good to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:28 PM
20

Also take a moment to appreciate the batshit insanity that his attempt to prove to strangers online that he wasn’t manipulating younger women, was to manipulate older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:25 PM
25

Are you sure? Because you seem to care a lot about what “Reddit grannies” think about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:18 PM
23

I feel tremendously bad and embarrassed for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:14 PM
36

Your “research and analysis” is meaningless. You discovered that you could bed people by lying to them — Which is to say that you discovered nothing new. What you did does not paint you in a good light. Those are not the actions of a kind, thoughtful, empathetic human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:11 PM
16

A decent person wouldn’t lie about what they want or their intentions in order to gain sexual access to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:06 PM
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I think it’s weird to brag that you lied to and manipulated people into sleeping with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:02 PM
5

That seems bleak. Love is a wonderful thing and I’m very sorry that you don’t experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:48 PM
1

50% of sex offenders in the US are aged 30 or older. 25% of them are aged 21–29. 9% are aged 18–20.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:34 PM
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Would you still want her if she happened to be in her early 30’s when you met?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:29 PM
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What do you do once the younger woman you’ve chosen starts to age? Do you cast her aside? Do you not experience love?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:14 PM
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Quoting the US constitution is just wild. 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:33 PM
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I agree that being fit is more important to me than height. Not like super jacked or anything but a 5’8” with a climber’s physique is okay in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:41 PM
2

Most people don’t settle for someone they don’t find attractive. Also, personality and intelligence are pretty big factors for quite a lot of people. Also, you say yourself that you’re unattractive but won’t settle for someone who is unattractive so why would a women be expected to settle for someone unattractive? But yeah, enjoy your porn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:26 PM
4

Okay, so unattractive men have to settle for unattractive women? The vast majority of marriages are because men who have had to settle for unattractive, overweight women? You know that most people get married for love, right? So I’m guessing these people aren’t unattractive to one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:00 PM
4

So all married men are either good looking or are married to only 10% of the female population? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:52 PM
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Women get shit on all the time for having preferences. I don’t know who the hell made up the “6 foot, 6 figures, 6 inches” bullshit or whatever but that’s usually not the standard for most women. Seriously, people make fun of women all the time for it — Especially on Reddit. Obviously short men and men with average incomes find love and get married all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:07 PM
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What the fuck did I just read?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:08 PM
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