| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | How has social media impacted your marriage?She went berserk over all of my social media and forced me to delete it or divorce and take away my kids However she still has hers, and posts selfies and bikini pics and solicits likes from everyone and that's ok to her She is absolutely obsessed with it and it consumes her life completely and inflates her ego | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/24 03:57 AM |
| 2 | How to save marriage and ask forgivenessWhat you did was wrong, but what she did was wrong so therefore neither of you can claim the high ground and unfairly Lord it over the other. However note that when she first cheated on you, you still had to "work on yourself" , which is insane. You were the victim then. She needs to understand how you forgave her, and you need to forgive yourself too. I'd say, both of you focus on your kids and stop the cheating | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/24 03:53 AM |
| 2 | School MeetingMay I ask why, in her mind does she hate you so badly? | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/24 03:30 AM |
| 4 | Do most women not love like men or just not capable of loving anyone but themselves?Correct. Ruined by having their hormones manipulated What don't you get? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/24 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Do most women not love like men or just not capable of loving anyone but themselves?The only creature in nature that does this shit really They are all ruined from birth control and propaganda, but too dumb to realize | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/24 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Ex-wife wants me to not dateYeah but this guy literally just said "yesterday" and talking about dating And I'll agree that once they see you're gonna divorce them, they realize you've called their bluff. But it's too late | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/24 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Exwife's most recent disaster. The fix? Get money out of ex-husband!If I could upvote this 10000 times That's exactly why the Democrat party is so insane and disgusting. It consists of nearly all of them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/24 11:36 PM |
| 5 | Exwife's most recent disaster. The fix? Get money out of ex-husband!Hahahaha It's really a shame that such people are allowed to wreak so much havoc | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/24 11:35 PM |
| 12 | Ex-wife wants me to not dateYou're not even divorced yet? The thought of dating makes me sick to my stomach. The risk of another one of these is too great | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/24 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Question for man that asked for the divorce and have kid/s with their wife?It's easy If I don't do it, she will have me falsely arrested and continue to act violent and insane AND If I lose my job due to her, then there is nobody to provide and pay for everything | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/24 12:21 AM |
| 0 | The real reason why women stop loving menSeeing as how men work more hours, I find these accusations of being a child or man child hilarious My wife will tell me that I'm a baby or that I'm selfish, when I'm the one who works full time and pays for everything. Funny how that works isn't it? You can only lead the willing. And remember, in this society you are not the leader, you are her "equal" What you say is mostly bullshit | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/24 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Is a marriage with chronic issue salvageable?This is my life and now I am taking control of it back | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/24 11:13 AM |
| 5 | Is a marriage with chronic issue salvageable?Well then you'll actually never know the difference will you? Sometimes they are doing both, and you are harming yourself by not taking it seriously. Typically it's a threat to control mixed with actual desire | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/24 02:07 AM |
| 4 | How to help kids, I'm struggling.Sadly I agree. This phrase is overused generally so people can cope with their own behavior. I cannot fathom bringing an affair partner around your children. My blood would boil. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/24 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth it to fight?Sign nothing and call a lawyer She tried to scam you by putting your house for sale and asking you to sign documents quickly Do what you know that she would do to you Call a lawyer and negotiate a retainer | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/24 10:31 PM |
| 1 | What was the event that led to your divorce? Was it preventative?Fair enough | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/24 05:11 PM |
| 1 | What was the event that led to your divorce? Was it preventative?That is one of the most naive statements ever made The opposite becomes true because she is no longer the center of attention | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/24 03:30 PM |
| 2 | I don't know how to navigate this.WHAT??? PURSUE ALIMONY YOU MUST DO THIS! | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/24 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Is 6000$ retainer fee too muchYeah, I believe when there's no custody involved it's cheaper | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/24 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Is 6000$ retainer fee too muchNo kids I bet | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/24 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Is 6000$ retainer fee too much7k for me He said business is booming | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/24 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else have a childhood where marriage seemed secure?Same for me | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/24 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else have a childhood where marriage seemed secure?My parents fought and I never wanted anything like their marriage They are still together for better or worse My wife's family is a shattered wreck It's probably an even split amongst aunts and uncles regarding happy marriages | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/24 01:18 AM |
| 4 | Nasty Divorce/Custody BattleSpiteful women will literally do or say anything. There is zero limit | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Nasty Divorce/Custody BattleGut wrenching stuff man Filing a restraining order for false reasons is just insane God I hope it works out for you | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Dating is a nightmareYes, they are different and nobody quality is on those apps | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Dating is a nightmareYou can try to, but don't lower your standards When you say that you make it seem as if you aren't at the upper limit | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Feeling empty and done.Get to the gym or play sports, immediately | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 05:22 PM |
| 5 | Feeling empty and done.DON'T DELETE SHIT EXCEPT FOR YOUR EXES PHONE NUMBER! You guys better not do anything like that. You are hurt because you were a selfless pack animal with a collar on your throat being whipped by a tyrant. Time to get in shape, get hobbies, and BE "SELFISH" | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 05:21 PM |
| 5 | Dating is a nightmareYou are something else and make me laugh You think at this point that you're gonna control a grown woman who is already a smoker? Who the fuck would even want to deal with that, from either perspective | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 03:50 PM |
| 11 | Dating is a nightmareYou should raise your standards and stay off dating apps Go to the gym or playground with the kids and focus on yourself and them You should in general be far, far less tolerant of female drama and bullshit. They are not worth the trouble they cause. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Dating is a nightmareHoly shit, sounds like my life | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Dating is a nightmareNothing to salvage there You should've had her arrested | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 03:22 PM |
| 13 | Ok to go through life as a single dad?You're not alone, you have your kid I love my daughter in such a powerful way that eclipses anything else, and I'm ok with that | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 02:01 AM |
| 4 | I (39m) asked my wife (37f) for a separation, now she is upset. Can you help me understand?How are you to blame if she constantly threatened separating? My wife did this for a long time, despite being told over and over again by the therapist to stop That shit is like acid that eats away at you. Why are you doing anything for this person that constantly threatens you? Honestly, fuck her. She is a manipulator. And, I'm sure you aren't perfect, but you got angry because she has literally been psychologically harming you You cannot trust people like her, and you can't do anything meaning… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Final stages of my divorceHoly fuck | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 01:00 AM |
| 7 | Next stepsGET A LAWYER IMMEDIATELY you are being led to the slaughterhouse File first | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/24 08:23 PM |
| 6 | What's it going to take to fix things?Fix??? Come the fuck on man, get rid of her Too late to be fixed, preserve yourself If you don't teach the hard lesson, she goes on to some other poor bastard | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/24 03:14 PM |
| 5 | Give in to divorce?She threatened me with divorce over and over and over It does destroy the bond and eventually they will receive their wish | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/24 11:36 AM |
| 13 | Two months post divorce and she’s talking about wondering alimony (WA)Tell her to kick rocks These women are like spoiled brats that nobody had the balls to ever raise correctly | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/24 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Divorce Filed, Serving NextHow are your kids handling it? It sounds very similar to my life | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/24 11:31 AM |
| 1 | What are my chances of me getting full custody of my children?You have a good chance if she is actually this insane You will need photographic or physical evidence though If her parents are decent, ask them to help you Unless they are real scumbags, they should support you | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Not even a month and she’s sending me stuff about couples that lasted longer than us.This, this and this | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 05:02 PM |
| 9 | Not even a month and she’s sending me stuff about couples that lasted longer than us.A protection order for a false reason? I swear to God, these women need to be hauled off to prison. This shit is rampant and insane. You should honestly punish her for that and cut off all contact except for the kid | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 05:00 PM |
| 4 | Feeling down, is this normalGym | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 03:00 PM |
| 4 | Talking about his for the first time.Deja Vu for me | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 02:53 PM |
| 5 | Talking about his for the first time.Because it's a perfect analogy It is an old expression as far as I know It means that you understand the relationship will never be satisfied. Some men cannot see this and work themselves to death, not knowing that the pit is in fact bottomless | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 02:12 PM |
| 7 | Talking about his for the first time.Your wife sounds like a poorly raised nightmare child Sounds like she was a bottomless pit, and you did the right thing or else you'd have literally worked yourself to an early grave | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Alienating the kidsYou need to undo whatever bullshit they were told by acting the opposite and talking to them | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 11:49 AM |
| 11 | Lies and more liesFunny, my wife ripped my phone out of my pocket and hands The cop told me it was marital property and not a crime Lol! | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 11:47 AM |
| 3 | Dating appsI can honestly never recommend dating apps to anyone It ended badly for me My advice, and you will never change my mind, is to let them come to you in real life, or don't bother | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/24 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Progress I thinkUUUUULTRA COMBOOOO! | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/24 04:37 PM |
| 2 | First time feeling something with someone new, am I going too fast?LISTEN DUDE this is always how it starts Borderlines will smother you at first You should for the rest of your life be side eying and suspicious of all women We are not the same, the laws and society do not treat us the same Do not let the same thing happen to you again | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/24 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Recently separated from wifeSounds to me like your wife has borderline personality disorder, like mine does Your daughter loves you because your ex is neglectful and selfish Yes, she will need therapy and she needs your love to offset what she doesn't get from her mom As long as the insane ex does not start trouble, I'd keep seeing your kids | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 05:50 PM |
| 3 | I think I’m too picky/ hypocriticalStay off of Facebook dating dude You do not want a woman on Facebook, at all. Women and Facebook is a FAILING COMBINATION All of our goals should be to find a woman who has zero to fucking do on Facebook or keeps it to a complete minimum | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 05:43 PM |
| 1 | It’s not what you thinkFrom star trek and NPR like the rest of them | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 05:04 PM |
| 1 | I think I’m too picky/ hypocriticalWrong Maybe some men pay for it, but certainly not most men. I don't and don't know anyone who does. You will get a hard lesson I'm afraid | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Should I get a background check on my wife’s new bf now that he’s moving in with her?Waste of time | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 04:50 PM |
| 1 | The reason I don't file for a divorce.This seems fixable to me. She matched your earning, isn't lazy, doesn't hit you, doesn't control you, no debt, etc Maybe work on yourself and start doing something exciting Work out together? | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 04:31 PM |
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