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Sounds like you have a learning mentality which is the most important thing. Easy to be a backseat driver, but i think the best thing you can do now is mentally "replace" girl #2 with a new bumble/tinder girl. She'll either drop off the radar or sense your abundance (idk how but they can).
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 12:59 PM
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It's a good post, but it might be detrimental to think of these theory posts as "knowledge"
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 03:44 PM
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A girl once told me a story about how she was on a date with had been dating for a while but hadnt really done anything with about their christmas shopping. He said that he had got his dad some kind of pheasant (like maybe a taxidermy one or something idk). Later in the date she said they should go back to his and he could show her his pheasant ;). Apparently he proceeded to show her and discuss his dads present for around 25 minutes until she got up, left and got the bus. He texted her the next…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 11:27 AM
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I'm very curious to learn more about this, but I can't find anything on google, do you have a link or recommendation?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 12:37 PM
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I'm saying it can help you learn, obviously better in every way to do it without if you can
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 05:51 PM
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Yes, but the same principle applies
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 05:51 PM
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Disagree with your assertion that drinking doesn't help you learn to approach. I approach through night game, and had to pretty drunk in order to do it at first. Then, after doing multiple times drunk, I had a frame of reference and was able to do it after less and less drinks. I am now at the point where I can and have gone to bars on my own with zero alcohol and approached girls. I couldn't have done this without having used alcohol to (as you rightly say) mask my instinctive fear at first and…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 12:44 PM
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"remembering stuff about them but not so much" "Girl A, Girl B, Girl C" Sounds like you are remembering about the right amount about them...
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 06:39 AM
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Personally I think you’re letting the pendulum swing too far the other way as a result of some minor set backs (if they even are set backs) with women. Being rejected 5 or 6 times is nothing. I think your problem with the girls that you say “are a higher number” stems from not internalising an abundance mentality. Not that long ago I was similar in that I might have 2 or 3 plates, but I always saw one as better than the others because she was so much more attractive than girls I had pre TRP, so …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 09:58 AM
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Careful, it has a tendency to creep back. Abundance seems to 90% alleviate it for, but possibly only because I'm getting enough validation overall that one specific girl doesn't effect me in the same way. It's hard to know how to actually cure it internally as getting things you want, such as girls, often depends on getting validation, so I guess the only way to truly be free of it is to be okay with never having sex again.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 11:58 AM
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I remember having the exact same rant when I was in the anger phase. Just remember, when they hit 30 they're fucked, when you hit 30 you're better and both of these factors will swing the power balance in your favour. Once you see the whole thing as a sexual economy and just a game, it becomes less important and more fun, and you can derive some happiness from it and some happiness from elsewhere. Also when you stop giving a fuck, women seem to judge with less strict criteria. I don't really kno…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 11:57 AM
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I think putting self improvement as a priority is really useful for a period of time, kind of like sowing so you can reap later. I disagree that it's the correct course of action for someone yet to take action though, as it's too easy to use it as a buffer to convince yourself you don't need to take action. I think a better approach is to maybe a kind of 70/30 improvement/action split, otherwise you wont really progress and learning game is kind of a snowball effect so you will lose any momentum…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 10:40 AM
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I've read a few of this guys posts and they have all been spot on.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 11:22 AM
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Sounds like the article is saying women should hold out for an alpha which is good advice, no? If TRP's advice was directed at women, it's content would parallel this as well as giving advice on how to attract alphas. It doesn't openly refer to hypergamy, but implicitly accepts it as reality, and advises women on how to mitigate the risk of the middle step of branch swinging which is best for everyone. It also correctly acknowledges that as a man, (almost) regardless of the hand you have been de…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 11:56 AM
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Hating girls for female nature is the way to the dark side. A big part of the reason her brain wants him back is of course the money, but she can't really help that any more than you can stop wanting to fuck 9s and 10s.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 11:44 AM
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Driving 8 hours to have sex (Twice!!) is not a good example. This story would have been more impressive if you got her to travel the 4 hours to you, regardless of who paid for gas/hotel. No judgement, do what you want, but if you're muscular and alpha why not just fuck girls from bars and tinder that live 4 minutes from you? Very odd.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 03:06 PM
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Should have just got with a different girl on Friday night, ideally in view of her but more for yourself. Duh.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 12:02 PM
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It doesn't really matter what you say as long as you don't actually mention sex.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 04:16 PM
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Lots of ways to do kino, if you're sat next to her touch her with the back of your closest hand a few times midway through an interesting sentence (ideally about public transport in European cities) - sounds weird but seems natural and deliberate. If you're sat across just leave your hands at least halfway across the table and do what feels natural, she will probably touch you. Also, should have asked her back to your place for a drink at the end of the date. It's almost always best to do that r…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 04:08 PM
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In my experience of my early dating and some stories my friends have told me "no chemistry" is a direct translation for "you didn't escalate quick enough". To us, escalation is something you learn how to do hence the proactive word. They literally don't realise how much you implicitly and explicitly have to consciously do in order to make "chemistry" happen, hence the passive word. I used to get "no chemistry" or similar regularly, now I never get it because worst case scenario I get rejected be…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 03:44 PM
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Sex does tend to become less tempting when you don't have a balanced diet
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 11:25 AM
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I did my first ever day time cold approach on Sunday. It went badly as the girl turned out to be like 17 when I got close, but I was already past the point of no return. I feel great today anyway, I have had that monkey on my back for way too long.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 08:24 AM
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Women don't initiate in that way, think you've been watching too many films
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 10:36 AM
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Well done one your first cold approach, how did you overcome the mental barrier of doing the first one? I am very used to approaching girls in bars but always seem to be able to talk myself out of it in the day
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 10:00 AM
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Hate it when my pizza comes without cheese
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 11:30 AM
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