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A lot of men actually appreciate this as they are used to having to take first initiative. A lot of men are afraid of seeming creepy or make women feel uncomfortable, so to be confessed to by a woman would be like winning the lottery. It seems like this guy in particular has already made multiple moves, even taking you on a date. Him leaving you on read could also be his attempt at not seeming too desperate, or he’s simply busy. He might confuse you trying to hide your feelings for him as disint…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/24 10:56 PM
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Okay then that changes my whole point. I would encourage you to explore things you enjoy that are more slow paced, self soothing and creative even. It could be anything. Getting into a new skin care routine, buy a pair of earrings you find pretty. Or start wearing light makeup by adding some mascara(Idk if you already use makeup or not). Or even go wild and buy yourself some nice lingerie that makes you feel pretty(it’s hidden anyway so no one will know unless you are intimate with other people …
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/24 06:50 PM
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Being a tomboy has its unique feminine qualities as well and has a unique charm.depends on how you see it. Do you want to be more feminine, or do you feel you should be more feminine?
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/24 10:52 AM
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Me and my boyfriend both got issues, but somehow our strengths and weaknesses balance out eachother. I have autism, and doesn’t, actually he has amazing social skills and get along with everyone. He has taught me a lot when it comes to socializing and isn’t afraid to speak his mind and tell me things upfront, and I really admire this part of him and it helps me out a lot. He has cptsd, I love reading about psychology and everything neuroscience related, so now I know more about cptsd than he doe…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/24 06:32 PM
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Nowadays it’s becoming a bit rare, a lot of people seem to be very comfortable with non committed sexual relationships, including a lot of women as well until they reach a certain age.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/24 11:33 PM
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She washes them by hand. She doesn’t stink though. But I borrowed a pair of socks from her once and they stank. It can’t be healthy though, especially underwear, it can cause some nasty infections.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/24 08:08 PM
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Yeah, she often gets used for sex and then they ghost her entirely. She is attractive so she does gain attention from men, the problem is mainly keeping them around. I haven’t seen a woman get friendzoned as much as she’s been by multiple men she’s confessed to. It’s really sad.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/24 08:06 PM
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We’re childhood friends. She is highly creative so we share that interest. Though I love cooking, and her kitchen is useless, I often have to bring my own equipment and spices just for us to share a normal meal. But other than that she is a very good friend and often pays for our groceries. But yeah idk how she can live like that. I am in a relationship myself, and feel sorry for her longing for a relationship. I know she has the potential to better herself, she is very smart on many other areas…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/24 08:03 PM
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In what ways are you clumsy, messy and nerdy? What would you consider a feminine woman? Your ideal self you could say. Just trying to get the larger picture.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/24 08:03 PM
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My boyfriend is also on the shorter side, we are almost similar height. I don’t mind. He has a strong build and is quite strong, so I still feel smaller and feminine. Tbh I find his height to be very cute. We make fun of it saying we look like a hobbit couple haha. I am 5’2 and 136 ibs, Not sure about his height but he is around 5’6. I’d say go for it, see how you feel about it. Maybe you can look past it after a while. But I understand how it might make you feel less feminine, and that’s okay t…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/24 03:40 PM
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I want to improve myself, because that will make me grow as a person which is important to me and the future I want for myself and those around me I care about.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/24 04:42 PM
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Learn how to set boundaries, you need to recognize red flags in people. Recognize your own toxic tendencies and work to improve them. This can be hard if you have people pleasing tendencies, which is a toxic trait. But try to work on your self esteem and recognize you are worthy of respect and love. Have standards, and apply those to yourself as well and stick to them.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 03:58 PM
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I am already in a relationship, he accepts me and is very supportive. I have a harder time connecting with women in my life. It seems I rub women off the wrong way and I have no idea how to stop it. The rest seems to only tolerate me in order to be polite. I would consider myself very polite and kind, and I try to mirror peoples emotions which doesn’t come naturally to me. I know this might come off as insincere in some ways. I try to practice small talk and not over share weird things. Idk.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/24 04:50 PM
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I am just wondering how I am perceived and my behaviors. That way I can better understand how to navigate myself better. Things to look out for etc. Sorry, The title is a bit misleading.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/24 04:43 PM
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As long as you take learning initative then that’s fine in my opinion. It’s better to ask for help then to expect him to do everything f.example. Not saying you do this of course.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/23 12:30 PM
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I tried to switch to more tight fitting clothes. More feminine clothes that flattered my figure. I am a size small but I used to wear Medium and Large just because it was cozy and I didn’t care much about impressing anyone. I wanted to look more feminine and fashionable. I also started wearing makeup more frequently, I rarely wore makeup before. It makes me feel very pretty. Also perfume.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/23 02:19 PM
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No. He’s already done so much for you by paying for a lot of things. You buying him concert tickets show that you are serious about him, and not only using him for free dates. He will appreciate it a lot. It shows that you are a compatible and fair person. Which is a good quality. I am assuming you want to pursue a serious relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/23 04:20 PM
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Have you asked how he feels? This is not ment as a personal attack. I used to upset my boyfriend a lot when I only expressed my feelings about something, making it seem like I blamed him for everything. Instead I try to ask how he is feeling about the issue, and how I interpret his actions and words, and how that makes me feel. Then I listen without interrupting when he explains how he interpret my words and actions and how that makes him feel. This has helped us see both perspectives and find w…
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 08:43 PM
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Absolutely, as harsh as it may sound. It can feel suffocating. He needs to have his own interests and occupations and not rely solely on his partner.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/23 04:16 PM
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Independence, passion and empathy.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 07:00 PM
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Haha, now that would have been something else. Jokes aside though. It’s much more of a complex and nuanced issue. This is more of a sociological reaction to the current problems of society and people as a whole.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/23 12:21 PM
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It’s insane how hard it is to find actual red pill women, and not just women talking about mens issue or the fall of feminism etc etc. I rarely see authenticity. I usually just look at interviews with my favorite female musicians or artists. I think it speaks for Itself how in tune they are with their creative energy, their view on life’s beauty. Not tied to any social expectation or political issue, just them expressing themselves through artistic sensations and beauty. Sharing some interviews …
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 01:53 PM
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Yeah. I think the worst part is that you’ll get attacked and silenced by even mentioning your different opinion about these topics such as hookup culture.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/23 10:12 PM
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Yes. I know drag-kings are also a thing. I am not too educated on this, but I haven’t seen the same media attention. The same hype. I feel like women also are really into drag queens, even though they are obviously exaggerated parodies of femininity and women. Why so? Do you think women aren’t aware of this, or do you think they treat it as queer male liberation that is something completely seperated from them as women? I mean, feminist and most people in general are all against black face, and …
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 06:07 PM
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I am sorry to hear that… that’s horrible…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 05:13 PM
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Yes absolutely. Now women are “people with wombs”, “birthing people”, “people with vaginas”. Like wtf. Haven’t we been fighting for the issue of not being objectified, now we are described as vaginas and uterus’s.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 03:16 PM
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I started to educate myself on several aspects of society and different political views. The liberal side of things just really escalated into something absurd. As a bisexual woman I no longer felt welcome in the LGBTQ+ community. It felt like an entire joke. Like people would show up half naked in highly suggestive leather lingerie at pride events where children are also attending. It felt wrong. Like arent pride events all about the celebration of love? Not sexuality and kinks. Not to mention …
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 03:07 PM
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What self improvement looks like for me: -I take care of my body and my appearance by eating healthy and getting exercise. -Wearing clothing and makeup that makes me feel beautiful and confident despite people telling me to wear this or wear that. -I also practice body acceptance to feel comfortable and sexy in my body. -spending time with friends and family, but also taking time for myself. I am an introvert, and find it important to set these boundaries so I can allow myself to be alone withou…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/23 10:07 PM
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I was extremely messy and lazy before. I moved out and moved to a new city to study. I rented a room and shared house with another lady, so I was kind of “forced” to wash the dishes and clean the kitchen area after making food. So eventually I adapted and it became a habit. I did my own laundry, and had to put them up for dry immediately so the washing machine was always available for the other lady. This also became a habit. Also wiping and cleaning the bathroom after use was expected. I starte…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/23 03:53 PM
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I would put more emphasis on mature clothing that frames your curves and waist. Look up ways you can look taller in clothing. Find a hairstyle that makes your face appear less round. Experiment with makeup. Deeper Dark/brown-ish colors tend to make you look more mature. I also have a baby face. I am 24 and petite in height.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/23 06:16 PM
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This.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/23 09:07 PM
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First you need to know what type of men you want to meet. Then consider where you might find that sort of person. Or you might be lucky to find someone that might not be your “type” whom you click with emotionally at parties or at any social gatherings in your area. Put yourself out there.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/23 08:36 PM
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No father; if the mother is doing a good job. There could be other male family members that can substitute the care and support a father could provide. Tho it is not perfect, but much better than abuse.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/23 05:23 PM
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I am not married, but in a relationship. -I clean and organize our living space. Tho I expect him to be tidy and not messy. -I give him compliments. -I make sure we have personal spaces for our individual hobbies and interests. -I allow him freedom, It’s important for a man to spend quality time with guy friends without me present. -I challenge him to make decisions(allowing him to express his masculinity, which makes a man feel good) -I let him express his feelings without judgement. -I show ap…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/23 03:57 PM
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Yes. I’ve often encountered “sex” drinking gamesat parties as both an ice-breaker and to get people drunk; in a good mood at parties. Games such as; “take a shot if you’ve had a threesome”, or point at the people you think have had a threesome” because most of the people at these parties; after talking to them, seem to have a history of many one night stands, porn fixations and fetishes; and just an over-appreciation for sex. Nothing wrong with enjoying sex. But, it feels strange to me to be so …
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 11:56 PM
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Just normal house parties with young adults at the age of 23-27.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 10:58 PM
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Often at parties; that’s why I never attend.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 09:38 PM
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I never liked that phrase. I believe a relationship is a companionship. Both women and men need to have a clear idea of what qualities they seek out in a preferred partner. Both people are the price. But I do believe it is important; especially for a woman; ESPECIALLY if you want to have children in the future. You do not want to be put in a situation where you have a man that is not a good partner for you and your family, and vice versa. Same goes for men; ^ But it’s important regardless to cho…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 05:46 PM
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Thats true. I will look into massage, and then mention it to him :) It’s seems we both need guidance, so we’ll have to meet half way. He is a sensitive and emotional guy, and very concerned about hurting my feelings, which can end up on the flip side of things. But I always try to ask how he is feeling, hugging him, brushing his hair and skin= romance stuff. but I would like to be more seductive in everyday life when I’m around him. Right now it’s usually just casual teasing, like smacking his a…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/22 06:00 PM
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That’s true. Thank you for advice. After reading all the comments I started watching videos on sensuality. Feeling more sexually connected, is really to be one with the senses and the body. I can see the connection between mindfulness, dance and yoga when it comes to sensuality. I have a bad connection with my body, something which I really need to work on. It can be easy to get stuck in your own head sometimes when life feels a bit demanding. Yeah. I think his way of phrasing it had a negative …
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/22 01:39 AM
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Yeah, It’s not. I keep it to myself in real life. If it’s related to my post history, then please stop. It’s irrelevant for what I am posting here, even though it was mentioned.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/22 01:29 AM
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Yes, I will join a gym ASAP Haha Thanks for your time :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/22 02:46 AM
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Yeah that might be something to consider some time. It might be helpful. Thanks for your time :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/22 02:45 AM
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Thanks for your advice, I will try baby steps :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/22 02:43 AM
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Yeah, it hurt my feelings a little, but I know the problem can be fixed if I work through it. We also both need to work on communicating our needs. Thanks for your time :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/22 02:42 AM
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that’s a good idea. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/22 02:40 AM
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Thanks for advice :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/22 02:39 AM
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Yes, we usually have intimate love making, we often hold hands; or arms around eachother. I like to have him close. 4play is nonexistent, so we definitely need to work on that part. I have to work on communicating these things better, and to slow things down.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/22 02:29 AM
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I am 23, and my male partner is 26. We’ve been friends for 5 years prior to our relationship for 1 year. I lost my Virginity to him at the age of 22 if that gives context. Our relationship is very good, as we’ve been friends for so long. It feels very natural and loving. I am very attracted to him, both physically and sexually; and do get aroused by him. I am om birth control pills, and I am at a healthy BMI. My only form of exercise atm is walking around my neighborhood, or by walking to school…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/22 02:23 AM
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Oh, that’s embarrassing haha. Reddit is sort of like a place for me to express my autistic side without judgement. I was sort of half-joking by the comment; “I could be sexy if it wasn’t for my sensory issues”. But it’s true, a lot of sensations and feelings that are “natural” , for example, making out, or certain lingerie; feel very uncomfortable and weird to me in terms of fabric/ texture, taste and smell. I have a hard time ignoring these sensations. I can’t help but feel like I am putting on…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/22 05:33 PM
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I am in my first relationship, and my partner likes my body. I am in my early 20’s. I am at a healthy weight and would consider myself slim, but I would like to be more toned and curvier in some areas.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/22 11:12 AM
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True most of the time. I am female myself and have many women in my life. It’s sad how this modern feminism makes toxic femininity justified/normalised. I am also an art student, and it’s crazy how many feminists/toxic females I have met during my study at an art school. Fortunately I know many women who are nice, and all of them dislike modern feminism. I think there is a connection.
/r/AntiFeminists05/06/22 06:16 PM
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Wtf xD
/r/AntiFeminists05/06/22 06:14 PM
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I’m suprised
/r/AntiFeminists11/03/22 04:06 PM
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Damn. I assume you got banned tho xD
/r/AntiFeminists11/03/22 01:32 PM
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Jesus. I can’t believe such evil exists..
/r/AntiFeminists11/03/22 01:31 PM
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