ThereWasLasagna Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	My ex girlfriend cheated on me, then called the police. I'm not allowed in my own house. While we obviously don't know the finer details OP didn't discuss in his post, this: Edit: Op has a post history asking about cocaine and alcohol... you know I'm starting to think there are some extremely important details you're leaving out... Is arguably the stupidest thing I've ever read. I don't normally check someone's post history, cause that's sad as hell, but this prompted me to go check. He enjoys whiskey and cocaine, but none of these suggest in any way that OP is addicted or has a pro…	/r/MensRights	06/06/21 04:56 PM
26	She Claimed He Raped Her. He Said He Didn’t. Without Any Additional Evidence, The School Chose To Believe Her. Nah, the issue is the notion that women cannot perpetrate. When a man is accused of rape, the alleged victim gets some degree of sympathy (if a male victim, obviously a lower amount). Not so when a woman is alleged to be a perpetrator. Imo this comes from this idea that men are naturally inclined to criminal activity, here rape or sexual misconduct. And I believe this stems from this disgusting idea that male sexuality is inherently repulsive, in contrast to female sexuality, which is seen as mo…	/r/MensRights	23/04/21 02:28 PM
16	Only female students can apply for one of the highest paying job offers in my college. You're right bro, because a couple people watched a rape video on pornhub (which, of course, is only used by men because women don't watch porn lol everybody knows this), this random dude who might not even use pornhub deserves to not get a high-paying job.	/r/MensRights	19/01/21 09:54 AM
15	I have mixed feelings on this male body positivity project. What are your thoughts? Honestly I'm seeing this in other areas too. There's this push to make men show their emotions and cry, and that's cool, absolutely wonderful. But what about the men who've been taught to, and have become used to, processing their emotions through silence and self-introspection? I'm one of those people, and I don't want to express my emotions constantly - that's just not me. I fear that this "masculine" method of processing emotion will become extremely vilified and its users marginalized. For s…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/12/20 06:15 AM
2	This whole women are not rehabilitation centers for badly raised men is a huge double standard. You make a fair point, but it's unfair to put the blame on those young men's ex-lovers. They need proper, psychological help, but I mean, if a young guy never had a good male role model, was never loved by his parents, and is constantly bullied, I think it's unfair to expect anyone to take on all that emotional baggage to their detriment. I mean, come on, if I'm dating a girl/guy who appears to be constantly bipolar and aggressive, I'm dropping them quick. Whatever they do afterward isn't necess…	/r/MensRights	08/12/20 07:24 PM
17	Happy men’s day from a men’s rights supporting girl! People like you give us all a bad name. Honestly this seems like satire lmao "some real man like me"	/r/MensRights	20/11/20 04:03 AM
35	UN Women posted about International Men's Day! "Happy IMD to everyone we agree with!" Lmao. Are men worth nothing more than their allyship and support for their cause? Would it hurt them to celebrate men, in general? Of course, I get that they're called UN Women but a simple "Happy IMD to all men" would have sufficed, and it wouldn't really detract from their purpose anyway. Just disappointing.	/r/MensRights	19/11/20 10:29 AM
2	Come on lads, sign it for Johnny Depp. you don't have to donate just sign this thing might not make a difference but at least we can show people we aren't okay with this It's been a very very long time haha I remember reading the discussions on this sub when the allegations first came out, long before the court case began	/r/MensRights	12/11/20 10:39 AM
2	Come on lads, sign it for Johnny Depp. you don't have to donate just sign this thing might not make a difference but at least we can show people we aren't okay with this Signed this around two years ago haha, it had barely any signatures then. Time really flies, glad to see this getting traction!	/r/MensRights	12/11/20 08:32 AM
4	How can I become a better ally to cis men? Yeah I completely agree with you on the first part! As for the second, it's not really my place to contest your beliefs, is it? I do disagree with you on it, I don't think it's an obligation but rather something useful for public discourse. But, I can live with finding some measure of common ground haha, and thanks for the conversation, you've really made me think!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/10/20 01:08 PM
13	How can I become a better ally to cis men? I do feel like any potential critiques I have could be taken wrongly? Well, as long as you're respectful, and your critiques make sense, there shouldn't be a problem. Obviously, people get angry, and they downvote, but if what you said makes sense, you've added to the discourse, maybe gotten at least a few people thinking? people in privileged groups (me being someone who presents female/other women in general) would have the obligation to shut up and listen to a degree, no? I feel like "obligat…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/10/20 12:55 PM
17	How can I become a better ally to cis men? Somewhat, yes, but most people here don't really care about who you are as long as you make good, logical points. I will concede that since you can't understand what it's like completely, your arguments may not have as much emotion/passion as people who can. But we're still subject to criticism from you regardless, we can't say "oh you're just an ally, you can't really understand." I don't think that's what we're about here	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/10/20 12:04 PM
14	How can I become a better ally to cis men? While it is true that it's impossible to fully understand something if you haven't experienced it, I think the word "ally" needlessly maligns and excludes people who aren't cis men from the movement, like your opinions on topics don't matter or that you don't truly have a hand in furthering the movement's goals. Also, "ally" is an oft-repeated feminist word, so I guess people are just naturally averse to that.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/10/20 11:52 AM
2	Are men treated better than women? A trans man's perspective. This was a beautiful article. Thank you for sharing	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/07/20 07:04 AM
5	Simps are good, Bullying men is good, but its not my fault that im a bully its my 'InTeRnALiSeD mISoGiNy' "being obsessed with us." This is insane. Everything is about them. A man has to act in a way that benefits her, because SHE is more important than his self-worth and self-respect. Disgusting.	/r/MensRights	02/07/20 07:22 PM
9	Medium: "Shit MRAs Say" The eighth one is just straight up incorrect? It makes no sense that a minor, who cannot legally consent, recieves a blowjob from an adult, and that is not considered statutory rape, at the very least.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/06/20 07:56 AM
13	If you define rape as non-consensual sex, men in the US may currently be being raped at a higher rate than women. Because if we let rapists (specifically people who forced others to penetrate) get off scot free, they might rape another person again. And if that person faces unimaginable emotional torture, all that pain was avoidable, but occurred simply because someone said "it's not the same for men as it is for women."	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/06/20 05:07 AM
27	How female protests in India changed rape definition Why did they oppose gender neutral child sexual abuse laws?? These people disgust me, there is absolutely NO logical reason to be opposing gender neutral rape law.	/r/MensRights	30/05/20 08:16 PM
1	India: Girl sends message of rape threat to test friend's character, #girlslockerroom A "childish act" are you fucking kidding me	/r/MensRights	11/05/20 06:36 AM
1	"It does happen to men as well" Sunny Leone on #MeToo lmao, this man really went through my comments history to find my heritage	/r/MensRights	04/01/20 04:41 PM
1	"It does happen to men as well" Sunny Leone on #MeToo You contribute nothing to society with that comment lmao	/r/MensRights	04/01/20 04:37 PM
4	A discussion on a FB post talking about infant circumcision I accept that, but when you say "it was a legitimate practice" it's safe to assume you mean a legitimate practice everywhere, when clearly in more cold climates it was not.	/r/MensRights	04/01/20 04:34 PM
3	A discussion on a FB post talking about infant circumcision you're telling me every single person in the world used to live in a hot climate?	/r/MensRights	04/01/20 04:31 PM
6	men have body issues too I'm not outraged in any way, nor am I looking for a "platform from which to virtue signal." I simply try to understand different points of view, even if I don't necessarily agree with them. I asked you for your rationale behind the statement simply because I wanted to know. Stop reading into my words too much.	/r/MensRights	28/11/19 07:27 AM
6	men have body issues too Why do you think people with anorexia are "complete fucking retards"? I'm curious about your reasoning behind the statement.	/r/MensRights	28/11/19 06:54 AM
17	men have body issues too Right, but men still do get anorexia, don't they? Your argument doesn't make sense: we're talking about people not thinking men can be anorexic at all, not about which gender experiences higher rates of it. Don't get too carried away with your outrage, either.	/r/MensRights	28/11/19 05:25 AM
2	A 2nd Kavanaugh accuser admits to fabricating story If you could tell us why...	/r/MensRights	04/11/18 08:25 AM
3	A 2nd Kavanaugh accuser admits to fabricating story If you could tell us why...	/r/MensRights	04/11/18 08:25 AM
1	I visited a Mosque with my uncle recently. Surprised that the Imam(priest) is aware of western mens struggle. Not necessarily. For example, Hindu texts would not mention MGM, for the simple fact that it does not occur in India at all. While the texts might be evil, in this case, they certainly aren't because MGM is not condemned.	/r/MensRights	27/08/18 05:13 PM
1	Feel so frustrated because my school keeps telling me to feel ashamed of being male I'm pretty sure if the STEM classes are really good, anyone would put up with GS.	/r/MensRights	20/08/18 04:35 PM
1	#Metoo irony, no MRAs caught in #Metoo scandals What have we come to?	/r/MensRights	14/08/18 04:04 PM
22	Imagine The Backlash if a Man Wrote #NoWomenMidTerms It is. You can easily see the double spaces between to words in the header.	/r/MensRights	22/07/18 11:55 AM
-6	Even when I file for financial aid. Conscription isn't "mandatory" in the US either. There hasn't been a forced draft since Vietnam in the 1970s. There probably won't be again, but if war comes, the draft will be enforced unless you are a conscientious objector to war.	/r/MensRights	03/07/18 04:25 AM
1	Two Teachers Hook Up in Classroom: Male fired, Female reassigned - Female denies wrongdoing. Do you have an IQ of 1? Learn to be civil, or shut up, please. Can the mods ban this guy or something?	/r/MensRights	07/06/18 08:57 AM
2	“Why are men so afraid of false accusations?” Here are a few reasons. Can I get some additions to this list? That was a quote from the post, which is not mine. If ya want proof for that, ask u/Bigfartyshit	/r/MensRights	06/06/18 02:28 PM
1	Two Teachers Hook Up in Classroom: Male fired, Female reassigned - Female denies wrongdoing. What is that even supposed to mean, exactly? If you're a troll or a bot, just looking for some fun, then maybe you should be somewhere else, like r/beingrudetopeopleisfunny. So please, either be civil and make sense, or just don't talk.	/r/MensRights	06/06/18 01:39 PM
2	“Why are men so afraid of false accusations?” Here are a few reasons. Can I get some additions to this list? Maybe, before commenting on something, you should read the post. He asked for confirmation for point 2. I STATED point 2, and then gave him a source for that. I did not think about whether the article was "bullshit" and that "there is no way in hell" such could occur. I did not even state the facts detailed within the article, I decided to let him do so. Maybe understand the discussion at hand, after reading the post, before commenting aggressively on something.	/r/MensRights	06/06/18 01:36 PM
2	“Why are men so afraid of false accusations?” Here are a few reasons. Can I get some additions to this list? 30% of young American women believe that a male co-worker asking them to go out for drinks qualifies as sexual harassment. https://www.dailywire.com/news/23852/study-lot-young-people-think-compliments-drink-amanda-prestigiacomo	/r/MensRights	06/06/18 10:02 AM
3	Male only conscription is practiced in many countries, even countries that are considered pioneers of "gender equality." Oh no, feminists want such: Feminists have argued that military conscription is sexist because wars serve the interests of the patriarchy, the military is a sexist institution, conscripts are therefore indoctrinated in sexism, and conscription of men normalizes violence by men as socially acceptable The patriarchy, gentlemen! Men killing other men and dying on the battlefield for no fault of theirs panders to the patriarchy!	/r/MensRights	06/06/18 09:54 AM
3	My experience with being falsely accused of rape 1 in every 10 rape victims are male. Some estimates say that 1 in every 6 men have been raped. This is of course, not taking into account the fact that men are less likely to tell someone that they have been raped.	/r/MensRights	28/05/18 11:12 AM
2	My experience with being falsely accused of rape In addition, you have just quoted a random jumble of facts and statistics. No matter if they do not apply in this situation. you just wanted to show off your knowledge, yeah?	/r/MensRights	28/05/18 11:09 AM
9	The Earnings gap is an indicator of female privilege The paper: https://dornsife.usc.edu/assets/sites/1011/docs/mallory_montgomery_JMP_-_gender_happiness_gap_-_nov_10.pdf And an associated article: http://blogs.worldbank.org/impactevaluations/are-women-really-happier-men-around-world-guest-post-mallory-montgomery or https://qz.com/880250/a-global-survey-shows-women-are-more-satisfied-with-their-lives-than-men-are/	/r/MensRights	26/05/18 06:11 AM
2	The state of feminism as described by a YT user. [xpost from r/mgtow] Oh no, you're suffering for the sins of all the oppressive men in history.	/r/MensRights	10/05/18 11:25 AM