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Because they hate women.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 02:12 AM
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It's incredibly patronising on top of it as seemingly none of us are even intelligent enough to identify our needs By design. The same dudes say our loud we don't know what we really want, are deceptive by nature and entirely driven by momentary emotions, and have no inner intellectual lives.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 02:10 AM
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Please list for me the traits that you are and aren't OK with.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 09:00 PM
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...there are some natural needs that I need to fulfill if I want to stay healthy. So masturbate. That will take all of your natural needs, and keep you in a nice healthy operating condition. ...every time I try to prove to myself that come on women are normal people just like you. They'll do some of the most fucked up shit possible and prove me wrong. Yes, there are absolutely terrible people on the planet. Some of those people are women. About half of them, in fact. But there are also some real…
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 08:57 PM
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Winner winner, chicken dinner. They just hate women.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/22 07:58 PM
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I would like to think that most men try to be good people. "Character" is how you behave when you think you're not being watched. I want you to imagine that every single time men thought they were alone with each other, there was actually a woman there. Watching. Listening. Taking notes. Judging men for what they say and how they behave when they think they're alone. I'm a transgender woman who was forced to pretend to be a man for thirty years. I've always identified as a woman, I've always had…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/22 01:48 AM
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But most men aren't minimally decent. Have you tried dating men? It's a garbage fire. Even lots of gay men say so. This is not an attack on you, and in fact, you being in therapy and actively doing work on yourself puts you far & away above most men. The problem is that, as a society, we have put a lot of effort into defying gender tropes - and while women have exercised these options, men have not. Far too many men see it as "unmanly" (or a pointless waste of time) to go to therapy, dress nice,…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/22 01:31 AM
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As an addendum, I chose not to "switch" men & women's positions, because men usually find it difficult to imagine themselves as different than they are, and also have trouble taking women's experiences seriously. So instead, I left men just where they are, and changed everything about women instead (including the way we treat men). This required some exaggeration, like with the Supergirl strength thing, but put your "average" man in a fight with your "average" woman and he may as well be Superma…
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 07:05 AM
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The key to this whole thing is in the title: jealousy. Jealousy is an emotion. You can get over jealousy. You are feeling like the grass is greener on the other side. I get it. The grass looks greener on the other side, precisely because it's the other side, and you're intimately familiar with all the tiny flaws and discomforts of your side exactly because it's the side you're on. I want you to imagine that, all of a sudden, women changed completely. In appearance, in demeanor, in behavior. Ever…
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 06:59 AM
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Who else are women sleeping with? Stares in lesbian. Good... question... 🤔
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 05:59 AM
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Oh shit, I meant the Royal You, like in general. Not you specifically. My bad, that was definitely poorly worded on my part. And... yes, it is easier for a woman to catch a dick and get knocked up, then it is for a man to find a woman he is able to knock up. I will acknowledge that freely. I meant more in general, that I just don't understand why people are so interested in getting their genes into the next generation. Like, when I found out that that's all genes really care about, I decided the…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 08:49 AM
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Apparently I did not. Still, why the obsession with getting genes into the next generation? You are not your genes, and your personal interests as an individual are very far removed from their gene's-eye-view of the world. So who cares?
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 08:20 AM
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So become a sperm donor. Why do you have to be the one paying to make it happen? Are you trying to raise the kid, or just get your genes into the next generation? And wait a second, why are we even actually talking about getting our genes into the next generation anyway? That's not going to make you happy. Who cares?
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 07:12 AM
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Men don't LOVE unconditionally, they DESIRE unconditionally. And (if straight) they don't desire one and the same woman unconditionally, they just unconditionally desire hot women in general, because they think hot women are the answer to their problems. This idea you cite is some red pill/incel nonsense, because it is targeted to men for whom relationships are largely hypothetical. They feel a deep and abiding pain at not having the relationship they want, and they are genuinely convinced that …
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 05:12 AM
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No man steals a woman, unless it's kidnapping. What you are referring to is women cheating. And yes, there are women who cheat. And no, you can't tell who they are by looking at them.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 11:24 AM
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Yeah, because they hate women, and will do any amount of mental gymnastics to justify that hatred.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 10:44 PM
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It sounds to me like you understand it just fine, you simply don't want the same thing for yourself. Which is entirely valid!
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 07:30 PM
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Of course it's not "over." It's never over. The best dating advice I ever heard was this: there are thousands of people in the world who will positively leap at the chance to kiss you and touch you and rub sensual oils all over your body. But there are millions of people who will want nothing at all to do with you, and won't even give you the time of day. These two facts are true of everyone. Thousands will want you. Millions will not. Focus on the thousands. They will never run out.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 03:55 PM
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You are doing the Lord's work, advocating for straight men taking care of their bodies and putting effort into their appearance. Thank you for your service.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 03:30 PM
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You're super on-point in this comment response thread, OP. Hang on to this energy and protect it, it will guide you safely. So-called high value men don't just have money and looks, they also know who they are and are in touch with their feelings and needs. They don't merely want someone hot, full stop - they want someone who gets them, someone to provide physical and emotional intimacy, someone who understands the life stage they're at and can share in the appreciation and commiseration alike.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 03:28 PM
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By "career single people," do you mean unpartnered or merely unmarried? I like the substance of your comment, but I think the downvotes might be on account of people for whom marriage simply isn't a goal. I'm polyamorous, and a relationship anarchist: I don't want one person, or one primary person and a bunch of satellite lovers; what I want is a handful of lifelong lovers who are mutually supportive with me in different ways. I learned early on that nobody can be my everything (tho I had to rel…
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 03:23 PM
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What do you mean by "mistake"? Because by my understanding, a mistake is when there was a right answer available but a wrong answer is selected. Hookup culture is for 8s, 9s, and 10s to find and bang other 8s, 9s, and 10s on demand. Why do you want a part of that? Far as I'm concerned, they can have each other. We had a problem: tons of people are superficial. We generated a solution: make an app where people can be superficial without physical proximity. Bam, now all the superficial people are …
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 03:11 PM
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No, she's just been exposed to really dumb men in a really dumb environment.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 02:46 PM
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I mean, the piles and piles of money certainly help.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 02:41 PM
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Sounds like some gatekeepy bullshit to me.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/22 04:59 PM
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Here is a short summary in Dr. Nerdlove: https://www.doctornerdlove.com/women-casual-sex-pleasure/ That article links to a much longer summary here: https://yesmeansyesblog.wordpress.com/2011/03/03/gender-differences-and-casual-sex-the-new-research/ The paper does not appear to be available online, not even for purchase anymore. But if you go to your local library or have access to university journal resources, the citation is: Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2011, vol. 100, no.2, …
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 11:18 PM
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Yes, but even a broken clock is right twice a day. The problem with the redpill world view isn't that everything it says is the exact opposite of the truth; the problem is that it has enough touchpoints with reality to be plausibly connected for the ignorant, but is otherwise a clownhouse distortion of reality that takes off into Cloudcuckooland very quickly. So while redpillers and feminists both completely agree that most straight men want ANY woman more than most straight women want ANY man, …
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 10:19 PM
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Bro this is some serious gaslighting. Gaslighting is when you try to undermine someone's perceptions of reality. That's literally the opposite of what I'm trying to do, I'm trying to unfuck this guy's perceptions. You are in no position to be giving advice. I'm a woman, and I'm trying to help him understand why his approach is driving women away. I also fuck women, so I have experience there too. Also, longtime lurker in manosphere spaces and I know all the tricks, so your clumsy attempt to main…
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 09:59 PM
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Oh, I see. OK, starting over from your comment: "Many people are happily single/celibate, because they’ve learned to fill their cup in other ways (which is an attractive quality, and may actually lead to someone ‘good enough’ becoming attracted to them.)" For them it's a choice, for me it's not, that's the difference. You are focusing on the wrong thing. You are focusing on your singleness, when you should be focusing on your happiness. Focus on filling your cup in ways besides dating, and culti…
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 09:17 PM
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You literally said, How can you even compare the feeling of unrequiited love with losing a friend because they fell for you? I answered that question from my personal experience. In my life, I just move on from unrequited love, because this or that particular person's approval isn't that important to me - what's important to me is finding those who I do get along with (this is in keeping with the best dating advice I ever read: thousands will want you, millions will not; focus on the thousands, …
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 08:53 PM
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No, it's not what we suggest. It may be the message you're receiving, but you're receiving the wrong message. It is not disingenuous to 1. make friends, 2. develop interest, 3. check for mutual interest, and 4. make a move. The important thing is that you are first making friends for friendship's sake, and setting the dating shit aside until you get to know someone as an individual, instead of just sizing her up cuz she's A Woman In Your Vicinity. The order matters here, you cannot skip steps or…
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 08:41 PM
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I also want to add that another study showed straight women were about as open to casual sex as men, but only if they thought the man would be good in bed. This is because men tend to be bad in bed, to only focus on their own pleasure. This isn't so much of a problem with a gay men, because in that case we have two penis experts who both have extensive familiarity with the organ and how to pleasure it. The problem here is that not only do we not teach how to have good sex in sex education, but a…
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 08:01 PM
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What do you mean, it's not a choice for you? I ask because it really sounds like you're saying others can choose "contentment by self-improvement" but you cannot, and that is false. So I believe you must mean something else.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 10:20 PM
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Working on myself sounds great in theory, AND that's a lifetime goal BECAUSE there will never be a moment where my experience bar fills up and I get a girlfriend. Therefore I should do this because it's good for me, not in order to get a girlfriend. FTFY. Yes, healthy people are always doing some kind of self-enhancing thing, even if it's on the backburner. Avoiding self-enhancing behaviors is self-destructive by stagnant default, and therefore unhealthy. Your parts atrophy with disuse - physica…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 10:16 PM
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You asked how the feelings of unrequited love and friend grief can be compared. I answered that question specifically, by explaining how I compare them. That was the entire scope of my response, I wasn't responding to any other part of your comment.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 09:59 PM
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OH MY GOD DUDE - MAKING FRIENDS IS AN END IN ITSELF. PEOPLE NEED FRIENDS. Making friends merely as a means to other ends is manipulative, exploitative, and deceitful. Imagine honestly answering one up-front question: "Are you being friendly with me because you want to be friends with me, or are you only being friendly as a stepping stone to sex?" If honestly stating your intentions would get you rejected, then your intentions are shitty.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 09:56 PM
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Since your question is put in terms of generalities, I'll answer in generalities. Generally speaking, sex is both less risky and more satisfying for men. Men don't need to worry so much about pregnancy, because they generally can't get pregnant. Men don't need to worry so much about a women getting violent, because they're generally bigger & stronger and can defend themselves with little effort. And men's orgasms are usually what "defines the bounds" of a cis-het sex act: it starts when he gets …
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 08:22 PM
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This tells us two things: many many women have tons of potential options even among men they feel safe around (not just strangers); 2) many women also have many options who offer them relationships and not just sex. Just because you have a lot of options, doesn't mean that any of them are good. A lot of women have been deciding in the last couple of decades that they would rather be single forever then continue trying to date men. It's not like if we get desperate enough, we'll date or fuck some…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:51 PM
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Oh, I can help with that! Instead of feeling shitty, work on yourself until you stop wanting aNy WoMaN. Raise your own standards, both for women and for yourself. Identify things about yourself that you like doing, and which are good. Seek communities formed around and for these interests. Make friends who have things in common with you. And then, if you find yourself catching feelings for someone in that group, look for signs of compatibility & mutual interest. And please keep in mind that nice…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:39 PM
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Facts don't care about your feelings, sorry. And it appears your feelings also don't care about the facts. You'll never be able to handle reality as long as you stay divorced from it.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:23 PM
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How can you even compare the feeling of unrequiited love with losing a friend because they fell for you? Hi! I'm a polyamorous pansexual transgender lesbian, and I can compare the two feelings because I've had them both (while presenting as male and as female). I also date from my friends, because I want to get to know someone before I decide whether I would like to try dating them. When I develop a crush on someone, I look for signals that it may be mutual. Sometimes that makes things really ea…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:18 PM
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No, it's about OP's insecurity. And even were we speaking of men in general, we're not talking about you specifically.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 05:48 PM
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In my experience dating while presenting male (I'm a trans woman), there is no competition. No battle. No scarcity. Most monogamous straight women want to settle down with a guy. Some straight women cheat. And those two circles overlap: some women who genuinely want to settle down with a guy, also cheat. What kind of women are you looking for? Women who are of a similar age, life stage, skill set, and earning bracket as yourself? Or are you only looking at the tens? Because I'll tell you right n…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 05:14 PM
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...since when were we discussing your situation? Looks like you butted in and made this about you for no reason.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 04:29 PM
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I dunno, I stopped thinking about the number or even trying to track it. Like, it's just not important to me any more.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 01:14 PM
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Ugh, I didn't "threaten death," you're Ship-of-Theseus-ing. I said John Marston, a fictional video game character, would shoot people who said his marriage to a whore was something shameful - cuz that's how he acts in the game. It was an analogy to a fictional murderer, not a threat to do murder. I can understand how the distinction may not be impressive. In any event, yeah, you caught me bragging and that is some prime r/iHaveSex material, so egg on my face. Good job. I hereby admit defeat, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:08 PM
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I'm not complaining, I'm cringing. I also cringe when men say why they do what they do, because it's pretty clear they want some way to control women. This becomes most obvious when we point out that we're not static programming objects that respond as a class to inputs in predictable ways, and then men get upset and say women are confusing. Like, we're telling you we don't work that way, we work in other ways instead. Then you give us shit for being that way, but also claim you want us. Almost …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:59 PM
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OK, you're being coherent and saying some true things, so let's do this. 👍 Sex it's not about number of exes. Agreed! It's about connection to the person you're with. Making that connection is a skill that improves with practice. My fiancee sucks dick better than any other woman I've been with (even escorts) not because she has sucked a lot of dicks, but because she has been with me for long enough to learn how I like to get sucked off. So... what you're saying is, she doesn't suck dick better t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:47 PM
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The only possible bearing a body count has on someone's desirability is if they use the experience to develop skills.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 09:10 PM
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They have high body counts because they never spend time in relationships and they look for women who are easy targets. It's not about the connection, the pleasure, or even the act - it's just about the number, and they'll do anything to make Number Go Up. It is a pathetic and desperate existence that only looks superficially appealing in a Grass Is Greener way because it has what many men feel their lives lack: lots of sex. Many men feel if they could just get laid more, other things wouldn't b…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 08:55 PM
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lol I'm not upset, I'm being dismissive because you don't matter. And of course I know the benefits of therapy, I've taken it for fifteen years and it's great stuff! I'm not trying to get a rise out of you; it doesn't matter what you do. I'm lambasting you for the sake of the spectators, and showing them all how to deal with folks like you, cuz your smug superiority is just performative claptrap. You're terrible with women. Get better, instead of insisting women change who we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:38 PM
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IDGAF, scrub. You're making up rules that literally aren't rules. I'm a woman who dates women, and you're a loser who thinks women should be other than we are. I'm still right and you're still lonely, you just don't wanna hear it from me so you're lashing out. Let me know how far that lashing out gets you in the dating world, champ. 👍💕
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:12 PM
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This isn't "straight people's matters," you gatekeeping cucumber. It's Purple Pill Debate, where Red Pill & Blue Pill collide. I'm on Team Blue Pill, and you're upset that lesbians fuck up your whole How Women Work bullshit. And anyone trashing women, or saying women have trust issues for guarding our hearts, is fucking with me and my sisters - and that makes it my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:56 PM
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You're hilarious. Tell me another one! Sex, like any skill, gets better with practice. The more experience a woman has, the more developed her skills will be. I don't expect women to just spread their legs & think of England, I expect them to do work in bed. IME, it's the "sluts" who do the best job, cuz they have the most practice. (Also, the practice is a blast!) But please, enlighten me: if you scoff at the idea of a woman's experience being more pleasurable, then do tell how inexperience lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:50 PM
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Any woman that thinks like you do is problems waiting to happen and any man with his head on straight will avoid you leaving you with more men with no sense and more trust issues. It's a self fulfilling prophecy. I am a polyamorous lesbian, and I wish men avoided me and my friends more. Anyway, we'll keep casually hooking up with people we don't know, and we'll keep waiting patiently with people we want for more than just a hookup. Your options are to adopt women's perspective and work from ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:34 PM
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Deftly handled!
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 07:28 PM
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Being with a reformed slut is a shame for men. It's like putting on a buffoon's custome, like setting yourself Up for public, passive-agressive humiliation. John Marston would beg to differ. And by "beg" I mean "shoot you," and by "differ" I mean "stop the noise coming out of your mouth." I guess I shouldn't complain, tho. I'm a polyamorous trans lesbian, so the more straight men continue fucking up, the more disillusioned late bloomer lesbians & bisexuals there are to add to my harem. I fuck on…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:23 PM
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Women are telling you in plain English why we do things the way we do them... and you are insisting we shouldn't do things that way. 😬 Have fun with Rosie and her sisters, pal. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:04 PM
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Oh, it's misogyny all the way down. Men generally resent women for daring to have bodily autonomy when they can't help wanting pussy. Accordingly, women's bodies (and vaginas specifically) are equated with Sex Itself: women control, distribute, and are The Sex. Men's worth as r-selectors (or is it k-selectors?), who must scatter their seed as widely as possible, is therefore tied to their ability to secure access to The Sex. They don't resent women for "being too easy," they resent women for bei…
/r/ExRedPill23/01/22 04:46 PM
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☝️ YES. THIS.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/22 03:14 PM
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OK, can you please be more specific? I'm looking for an answer in the form of a story, something I can analyze for evidence of expectations which I can then help you tweak - to change the story you have, into something more like the story you want.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 07:09 PM
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lol, yeah, if I get enough updoots.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 07:00 PM
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There is a chance I'm the most hopeless person... There you go again, stack-ranking. No such thing as "the most hopeless person." This may be cold comfort, but it's accurate: hopelessness can take so many forms that there is literally no way to stack-rank people by it in any organized or meaningful manner. Might as well not even be a man, just a ugly teenager with no friends or way out. Hopeless, but that's why I'm here, cause I'm hopeless and will never develop a personality women would want to…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 06:48 PM
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It says you have other modifiers at play. And modifiers can be modified. Also, since I've got you, how about some expectation management? Like, what does "success in dating" look like to you? What do you think it looks like for others? What do you think it looks like to women who consider which way to swipe on you? A lot of times, it's warped expectations that fuck us up, when reality turns out to be very different from what we expected.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 06:26 PM
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NOTHING attracts women "by itself," you clod. Women aren't a monolith. Some are indeed only looking to score with the hottest guy they can, but they're a tiny sliver of women within a certain age range. Most are looking for someone who has a pile of various qualities (which vary from woman to woman), including "is he at my speed" (there is no right or wrong speed "for women," different women move at different speeds), and "does he care about me as an individual or does he only want to get his di…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 07:33 AM
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When we ask people to rate folks, say on their attractiveness, or intelligence, or basically anything "good"... the numbers come out a little higher when you're white. Or tall. Or whatever other "good" thing. Being white and being tall don't "make your life easier." (I am also white and tall.) They're just not held against you by most people. These aren't all-or-nothing traits that ultimately decide one's fate - they're more like weighted modifiers that raise or lower a die roll after it's been …
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 06:45 AM
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