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I forgot to mention that he was really happy about me confessing my feelings to him. He was gucci before I decided to cut him off. Someone told me "he let you into his world, you didn't get what you wanted, so you left. Why in the world would he feel hurt about that? /sarcasm". I can't think of any other reason why he'd be cold to me AFTER distancing myself.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 09:37 AM
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One of my favorite comedians used to hold court outside of a comedy club with his comedian friends and they'd put each other's jokes on trial and they'd have to defend their bit. I think the only way to get better is learn from the best, but also roast people who can roast you back in good fun.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:34 AM
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No, you goofy bitch.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:32 AM
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I don't have anybody to talk to IRL about this so that's why I've been posting on Reddit, but I agree, it hasn't been good for my mental health. I fucking cried two times this month over some dude I've barely known for several months.
/r/RedPillWives24/08/19 02:33 PM
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Yeah, I had that feeling too that maybe he's just giving me enough attention to keep me around until he meets a cuter girl. He knows he has options so if I were him, idk if I'd settle for the first girl who gave me attention especially if she looked like me lol.
/r/RedPillWives24/08/19 02:25 PM
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I wasn't demanding it. I asked if he wanted to eat lunch again and he said yes. How am I suppose to know that actually means no. I get it though, I'm not going to pursue him anymore. I'm just explaining what happened and why I didn't just back off sooner.
/r/RedPillWives24/08/19 02:14 PM
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Yeah, he doesn't have to be real with me. I'm just trying to be real with him so he understands what's going on instead of just being cold to him out of the blue. I feel more comfortable when people know what's up instead of pretending there isn't an elephant in the room. I can't convey everything I experienced with him in this post without writing a fucking novel, but the gist is that he was very responsive to me through text and our interactions. After I confessed to him a week ago, he was lik…
/r/RedPillWives24/08/19 02:01 PM
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I used to be attracted to only older established men (specifically guys in their 30's) but I realized that was because I was experiencing parental rescue fantasy due to my father not being in my life. I even had a thing for age differences (me being the younger one of course). I wanted someone to save me, but after I started liking this guy, I stopped chasing the idea of being saved by an older man and opened myself up to the idea of maturing/developing alongside someone closer to my age. But ye…
/r/RedPillWives24/08/19 01:43 PM
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I'm just confused because I tried to get solid confirmation about how he feels when I asked him to eat lunch with me alone. He agreed but we weren't able to talk about it because other people came around. He became much friendly afterward so I thought maybe he was opening up to me, but after what happened yesterday, I wrote up a text basically saying we shouldn't talk anymore but that I'll do my best to be cool about it and move on. I may even move to a different shift as I intended to make thin…
/r/RedPillWives24/08/19 11:41 AM
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Appreciate you answering the question. It was several months ago before we met and he did change his status to in a relationship after I confessed to him, so maybe he's reserving himself for me. If he is, I won't worry about it but I have no way of knowing unless I ask. I just think it's too early to have that sort of conversation. IMO, the positive of a younger guy is that he's less jaded. My guy is already a bit jaded from a messy previous relationship, but he isn't quite red pilled. I'm in wa…
/r/askTRP21/08/19 07:24 PM
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I used to be interested in only older guys, but then I realized it was because of parental rescue fantasy. I wanted to be saved, but then something changed when I met this dude. He's not easily triggered and we have a lot of common interests, so I want to give him a chance. I'm trying not to be too picky because I'm not the best catch either and I like being boyish, so if a guy with less experience can accept me and is willing to go through shit together, then I'm okay with that.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 09:22 AM
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The worst jobs I've had have mainly been female dominated environments so I feel you. I've even gotten hostility here as well, but I don't think that represents women as a whole. Men have made my life miserable as well, so I wouldn't take it too personally. As for a solution to your problem....If you can change jobs, either change your field of work to a predominantly male line of work or work in an environment where you can't sexualize yourself. So any fields that don't allow you to wear make u…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/19 07:40 AM
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I think plastic surgery is a viable option if you do your research and find a very reputable surgeon. It can come out very natural and it can make you look more youthful. I recently saw a video of a white trans woman go to South Korea for facial feminization surgery and the results are astounding. She hasn't posted any photos, but she does have a few video clips on her Instagram showing the final result. It made her look younger and more feminine, so now she now looks like a biological teenage g…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/19 06:34 PM
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What's Mowgli? I searched it up and got a netflix series. Thank you for taking the time to write such a thorough response. This was refreshingly positive and uplifting. It's interesting how most of the men and a bunch of tomboys are the ones reaching out to me. Three of which, including you, are married. But yeah, I don't have a problem with talking to leftist dudes (not to be confused with liberal since those in my experience were different). The fighter guy that I mentioned actually had a very…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/19 07:07 AM
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That sounds cool though. Like you just described an indie comic book character or something, living in the Harvest Moon/Stardew Valley universe with your lumberjack husband. I feel like you'd have blue hair and fair skin and your man would be a slightly tanned brunet with hairy arms and a big ol' mustache and both of you would be in charge of renovating the main character's farm, lol. Anyway, I appreciate you sharing and not judging me too harshly. I have a lot stuff to think about..But I think …
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 07:56 PM
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Thank you. I wasn't sure what it was about. I was trying to respond to some other people before asking you about it. And that last bit with that ancient fucking meme is both endearing and awful lol. I can feel that you tried to wrap it up nicely though, haha. Thanks again, I appreciate it man.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 07:35 PM
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Yeah, I do feel a bit crazy after reading all these responses, haha. It's a lot to process. And I know you're right man about spending more time at a gun range, but goddamn I really enjoy pool :'( I was really stressed out about my job last month and so my period was late, but then I played pool with some friends and I suddenly got my period the next day. I enjoyed it that much... more than masturbation lol. I was hoping coming on here would help me feel some sort of human connection, but it's a…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 06:39 PM
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That sounds really cool and adorable. I like that, haha. I imagine you're like a cute androgynous female and you're man is like a beefy lumber jack. It's a bit of a relief since so many people are saying I gotta be polar opposites if I want to attract a masculine man. Thank you MaxwellPancakesMcgee for not pussy beaming me lmao.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 06:05 PM
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That's really interesting. I've heard of Carl Jung, but never of that theory. It makes sense though. A person's masculinity and femininity would be thrown off balance if they're thrust into an environment that demands different things of them. Human psychology is so complex...and yeah, I feel like I've read a lot of stuff that makes me reevaluate my behavior and thinking, but I'm still lost on how to stop being as manly and be more feminine without losing my true self. Identity can be a strange …
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 06:00 PM
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I haven't. I'm new to the sub. I've been dealing with these thoughts on my own and I figured instead of just keeping it in my head, I'd try sharing it with people who might understand. I half-expected this response though. Most of the men are okay with me, some women are also okay, but most of the women are not. That's usually how it is lol. As for MGTOW stuff, you have to select the right guys to listen to. THere are a lot of people attaching themselves to the label who really are just angry du…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 05:45 PM
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Thank you for sharing that, but I just feel even more confused now. So many different opinions and I'm just trying to process them all. I've seen tomboys/androgynous women find partners so I know those type of couples exist, but I don't know how that dynamic even works. If you're more masculine, is your man more masculine or passive? I'm willing to experiment with my appearance, but honestly, I really like how I am at the moment. I feel good about myself, but my desire for a great partner outwei…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 05:06 PM
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"Deep down you think women are inferior." Um, okay.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 04:54 PM
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Honestly, I like shooting pool a lot more than shooting guns. I do realize the crowd is very different since pool is often played in bar settings. I don't have an issue with dating a guy who's aware of red pill philosophy. I guess they're just less likely to be interested in marriage. I did mention guys who come from more patriarchal cultures being an option, but I haven't met enough dudes from overseas to know for sure. So yeah, I agree. I probably should stop over thinking this. It's just easi…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 04:47 PM
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The point is that I don't hate women. I wouldn't help out my friend who's female get with her girlfriend if I hated them. You're accusing me of being a woman hater so that's why I feel a bit of hostility from you, but I personally don't have an issue with you. I don't even know you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 04:38 PM
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Thank you. Personally I love masculine styles of dress like mens high end sportswear, but I'm trying to be open to the idea of more feminine things. I see girls wearing such cute and trendy things and I feel envious. I want to try it, but I have a little chub that I need to work off, lol. I've always thought it would be cool to look sexy/chic and then say some shit that blows a dude's mind because he just doesn't expect it. I mean, that happens now occasionally, but I'm far from being sexy/fashi…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 04:36 PM
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I stopped going because I didn't have enough funds for ammo, but I'm making more money nowadays so I don't have an excuse other than I want to play games and do other shit on my day off, haha. And yeah, well this is Reddit and this particular sub is full of women so I don't expect everyone to agree with me when I hold masculinity up with such high regard. Some chicks have been really cool though so I'm glad I took the chance and made this post despite the mixed reception. Well I wanted to be a g…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 04:14 PM
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It's okay, but I really do appreciate your post. It reinforces the fact that the male perspective may seem absurd to us sometimes, but you can't fuck with the truth. It worked for you, so I hope it works for OP.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 03:53 PM
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I agree with most of your post, but I don't think mgtow as a whole are toxic. Some are and it did make me tougher on women, but it also pushed me to hold myself accountable and help women in my life. One of my girlfriends was in a really unstable relationship because the girl she was pursuing was indecisive, but I talked her through it and offered advice I learned from other men, and now they're living together. I'm still friends with mgtow who are aware of the fact that I'm female so I can't th…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 03:46 PM
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Yeah, you're definitely right. I do need to get out more. I'm planning to go out today. Hopefully I can at least spark up a conversation with some new people.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 03:34 PM
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It's called being confused about your gender identity. Many trans people go through this. Some go onto transition and live like that for the rest of their lives, others detransition, and some decide chill out and not make any drastic decisions--like myself. As for being friends with women, the only female friend I keep in touch with is a lesbian butch dyke, who by the way, is with her current girlfriend because of me. I passed on philosophy I learned from other men and it helped her, a woman. A …
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 03:26 PM
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Well some mgtow do cover that sort of thing and some of my favorite philosophers did as well. But I think you are right, there aren't many modern sources on how to be a well adjusted woman with feminism trying to turn women into men. It's all very confusing.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 03:09 PM
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Yeah, this is something I've become more cognizant of recently. I work around mostly men (there are only like 3 other women that work around me), and so I practiced getting comfortable with asking guys for help and making sure to show my gratitude afterward by thanking them and just being friendly. I found that when I did that, I felt slightly attracted to them. Like when they operated machinery I wasn't familiar with or lifting heavy shit for me. It was really interesting how my body reacted wh…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 03:08 PM
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I will. Would be nice to know a female that I can talk about stuff without having to walk on eggshells.I'm going to try and reply to people before I go.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 02:53 PM
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Maybe dress up as/cosplay Margaery, smoke some weed/eat edibles (if it's legal ofc in your area), and do all the dirty shit he asks you to do without shame/judgement. Be a rotten hoe. Guys lie about a lot of shit to keep women happy. Usually they only act pious because they know women will be repulsed by the evil in their balls, but this isn't about you. You feel unattractive right now, but when you can get him to fuck your goofy brains out, then you'll be happy too because he won't be thinking …
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 02:51 PM
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As Patrice O'neal would say, "good girl." LMAO
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 02:35 PM
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I'm not trying to look for a rich chad though. I don't want to be a side chick. I appreciate the suggestions though. If someone like me exists, maybe there's a dude out there in some blue state who's wondering the same thing, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 02:32 PM
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I just talked to dudes in the manosphere and didn't tell them I was female. Some of them still don't know. A lot of guys in those spaces are not in a good place in their life or they're like incels or mgtow, so I never tried to hit on any of them. I do plan to go play some pool today. Maybe I'll meet some guys, but I imagine the kind of dudes who play are normies/blue pilled so I'm just going to focus on having fun.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 02:25 PM
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It's actually because I identified as FTM for a while. It was before the transtrender shit happened so I almost went through with it, but I felt uncertain so I just stopped and got comfortable with being a woman. Though one guy told me that part of my life might have something to do with being autistic so idk, but I will work on being more feminine. At least visually. The behavioral aspect is something I'm really going to have to research.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 02:16 PM
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I dunno. I like to make others laugh. It helps people cope and makes them feel happy so that's why I'd imagine it's a positive, but of course I don't expect guys to be attracted to funny women in the same way women are attracted to funny men.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 02:03 PM
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I had problems with social anxiety growing up, so I haven't met a lot of available men. I only know of one man who was red pilled before it was even a thing, but he's dead and was old enough to be my father. I like the same sort of shit most women like. I'm really attracted to men who are tall, physically strong, intelligent, keep women in check, strong back bone, not easily offended/good sense of humor, financially secure, have their shit together, and personally, I'd like it if they were appre…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 01:45 PM
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Yup, no argument here. I often get mistaken or accused of being a man online, but in spite of my masculine behavior/speech, I still want to be dominated like most women do (if they're being honest with themselves).
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 01:34 PM
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I'm attracted to brute strength and mental fortitude. Just guys that just do manly shit. The linebacker dude was soft personality wise. He was a socialist, so he had a care base morality like a lot of women do. You're probably right though, I don't dispute the fact that I'm very manly for a female. Though appearance wise, I'm very feminine. I'm under 5' and asian so I look neotenous especially with make up, I just don't act girly or present myself as such because I'm lazy/broke. I'm getting paid…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 01:27 PM
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This did cross my mind because personally I don't find feminine/soft men attractive, so I feel like I can't expect men to be the same and find masculinity attractive. It's just that from the years of listening to red pilled men talk, they always emphasize how women have to bring more to the table to make a relationship/marriage worth it. Patrice O'neal and other MGTOW I listen to would talk in depth about how men have to bargain with a lot such as wealth, status, or having a charming personality…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 01:18 PM
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It could in the future. The company I work for is global so relocating might be an option, but I'd probably have to become fluent in that country's language first :'( I think Texas is blue in certain parts, isn't it? I heard Houston was really liberal and progressive. I'll look into Florida though. I've been there to visit Disney world and there was a lot of old people and it was kind of depressing, but could be a viable option.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 01:11 PM
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Moving isn't an option right now due to my job, but maybe in the future. I was thinking somewhere in Asia since feminism hasn't spread as much there. That's why I'm trying to see if I have other options. I've considered being active in online libertarian spaces since it's a decent mix of hedonism and right leaning politics, but I'm not that political so it would be hard to integrate. I probably need to try harder. That part about warm weather and chads made me laugh though, haha.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 11:55 AM
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The last MGTOW I spoke to said the same thing about patience, but man, I'm 4 years away from being 30. It's going to be a lot tougher to attract a man than right now while I'm still young-ish. I know I have to compromise though. People are saying I have to be more feminine and I'm okay with changing the way I look. I even thought about getting a boob job when I have the money and really stepping it up in terms of beauty maintenance, but I don't want to change my personality. I can be empathetic,…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 11:25 AM
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Having a sense of humor and having an interest in firearms isn't inherently masculine though. Female Russian snipers were a thing and lots of women own firearms nowadays because realistically it's the best option to level the field with a male attacker. Men can physically dominate us, but nobody is bullet proof. And I would think that a man would appreciate a sense of humor too because it makes you more enjoyable to be around since he can joke with you like he jokes with his male friends. If he …
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 11:09 AM
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You have to be a hoe. Try to see things from the male perspective. I remember the great comedian Patrice O'neal had a woman call him up on the Black Phillip show and asked the same question. He advised her to go into the kitchen while her husband was reading a newspaper or something, and then pissing on the floor before going to wash the dishes and acting like nothing happened. I'll try to find the audio clip. The idea is to be so fucking filthy that he'll be compelled to fuck you. You can't rev…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 10:28 AM
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