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Michael Flood is a simp who doesn't actually seem to understand men and boys. He takes what women say as gospel and dismisses men, telling them how they should behave rather than addressing the root of the problem. Hate him with every inch of my being
/r/MensRights14/03/24 11:34 AM
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I've heard plenty of men being vocal on international men's day, but you kinda have to be an active member of that sort of community or else you don't hear or see anything in the mainstream. Therein lies the problem ... Women's day you can't get away from. Everyone wished me a happy women's day, it was on the news, my kids talked about it at school and did activities and learnt about women's suffrage, there was loads of events advertised which were easy to access and cheap to attend. Contrast th…
/r/MensRights11/03/24 03:48 PM
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While it could be argued that some do...the ones who are on IG are just the type of women who only get them to sexualise themselves further. There are also plenty of women who have issues such as very small breast size or unequal breast size for example, who wish to just feel more feminine. I've known several women who have had breast augmentation but do not wear low cut tops, are happily married and just wanted to feel feminine. So, as with most answers...it depends on a lot of factors and not …
/r/MensRights20/02/24 03:02 PM
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I'm a woman and I buy my own flowers and chocolates on valentine's day. My husband isn't very romantic and it's not a big deal to him so he doesn't celebrate the day. So it's a day to self love instead.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 09:54 AM
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Jess Phillips' is just an asshole. Every word that comes out of her mouth is drivel.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/24 09:36 AM
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About the same amount as men were oppressed yes
/r/MensRights30/01/24 07:56 AM
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I would say that doctors often downplay and misdiagnose many people regardless of their sex. Women are just better at being loud about it and have more opportunities to complain under a spotlight
/r/MensRights22/01/24 08:56 AM
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Yes, I don't think it's good. I was just adding a small factual piece of info that I recently found out and thought was interesting and relevant.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 06:27 PM
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Yes I didn't say it was good that men are the primary sex drafted. I merely wanted to add a factoid that they do have the most women enlisted in the military worldwide. It's still a shockingly low number but it is true nonetheless.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 06:26 PM
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So who do you get to join the war? Someone has to go and defend the country or everyone is fucked. If nobody volunteers then everyone will be dead. Like, I totally agree with you, but, where I always get stuck with this argument is - well someone has to defend the country so how do you decide? If there are parents then technically only one of the parents can go to war - who decides? My gut kinda says that most men want to protect and would likely volunteer over the women anyway because that's wh…
/r/MensRights08/01/24 08:15 AM
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It wasn't clear to me which is why I asked for additional information. I'm also not disagreeing with you I just wanted some further insight into your opinion. It's much clearer to me in this response. Thank you.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 10:49 PM
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Yes and I understand your point. My husband is more than capable of looking after all of our children on his own for any length of time. I am well aware men are able to be a caring and capable parent. However, as an example, if a couple has children and a war breaks out ...which parent goes to war? Is it voluntary? Is it a flip of a coin? Or do we pick which sex is stronger and better able to participate in a brutal war? How do you decide which parent?
/r/MensRights07/01/24 10:37 PM
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I mean, I am a woman. I'm not a feminist and I can see how this can be applied to many women, however it does not describe me or the very few girl friends I choose to surround myself with. I don't hate men and I'd like to think men don't hate me purely because I am a woman. Which is why I wanted clarity on whether you are tarring all women with the same brush or merely feminist women. I'm sure you don't enjoy being tarred with the same brush as feminist tend to do with men.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 10:34 PM
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Russia has the largest amount of female military personnel than any other country. They even created an entire battalion of women. How do we decide who looks after the children? I'm all for equal 50/50 split in conscription but what do we do with the children if both men and women are fighting in battle?
/r/MensRights07/01/24 06:55 PM
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While you might feel like he is a good man, caring and kind etc...that isn't important. What is important is how he makes you FEEL.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 05:40 PM
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But not all women are feminists so are all women solipsistic or just the feminist ones?
/r/MensRights07/01/24 05:38 PM
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What I don't get is how this petition has so few signatures and yet the petition asking for a suicide prevention act (which mainly affects men) has nearly 10,000 last I looked
/r/MensRights06/12/23 10:02 PM
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Just don't engage with them. If they try to say anything just either ignore their comments or say something like, 'how I enjoy living my life has no bearing on your own life. You do you and I'll do me and keep your nose out'.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 01:50 PM
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Oh I mean, I totally agree that there's an anti-male bias in war and elsewhere. Not denying that at all. From a criminologist perspective, this is the only likely excuse anyone could use for it, any other excuse is a total lie, but the war crime thing is legitimate and used as evidence so on a technicality I can understand it. In other cases, there's no excuse and it's blatant. Just my criminology head on I suppose... but I should've made my position more clear in my first comment. I have 4 sons…
/r/MensRights19/11/23 10:28 AM
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It's because they killing of women and children is a clear war crime whereas killing men, they're more likely to be military/fighters therefore not clear if collateral damage or war crime.
/r/MensRights18/11/23 10:46 PM
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Mine would be oh my kid is having the day off school because you're misandrist cunts.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 08:03 AM
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I think you already know the answer
/r/MensRights18/10/23 06:18 PM
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If you know anything of Judith Butlers work...she's just a total cunt. She's well known for her 'performative gender' work; you are the gender you act like. Everything that comes out of her mouth is radical left or radical feminism and not worth listening to at all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/23 12:41 PM
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Not all women are feminists.
/r/MensRights07/10/23 10:06 PM
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Because what women want doesn't necessarily mean it's what men want/need. For example, I just learned about the 1938 Infanticide Act whereby women who kill their babies within a year of their birth do not receive sentencing to anything other than psychiatric care. If men kill their baby in the same time frame it's murder and he will be tried and sentenced for murder. It's one rule for thee another for me. While I'm not saying that some women do/don't need psychiatric care due to hormonal imbalan…
/r/MensRights02/10/23 07:44 AM
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Yes that's summarised my comment well, thank you. I am not American but the same goes for Europe in regards to women in the workforce in general.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 04:29 PM
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Women tended to raise children at home and therefore did a lot of their other work from home. They would have looms to make things, would sew, or teach, or care for animals which may have also produced food to use for the family or to also sell. Nurses have also predominantly always been female. Women have always had jobs, we just decided that these WFH jobs didn't count. If a tree falls in the forest do you hear it? If a woman works from home did she do anything? Anyway, then the industrial rev…
/r/MensRights30/09/23 03:42 PM
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I'm a Terf and a men's rights advocate...explain me then. I get called a misogynist and a pick me by everyone!
/r/MensRights28/09/23 11:22 AM
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I'm a woman. I do talk about the casual abuse of women toward men, however it gets shut down so quick. I get accused of whataboutism or of being a pick me or a misogynist. They don't want to hear how women aren't always the victim because it doesn't fit with their narrative
/r/MensRights26/09/23 12:19 PM
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I'm in my second year now and luckily I got a 1st in my first year (despite writing 3 clearly non-feminist pieces) so despite the arguments with people in class, my writing and use of good references has kept my work up. I've definitely had to work my ass off though to make sure they have no leg to stand on if they tried to mark me down. I think the worst argument I had was with the lecturer about the gender pay gap. He literally argued that it exists because women are being illegally paid less …
/r/MensRights24/09/23 06:30 PM
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Negative reactions from feminists...I'm a non-feminist woman going to a London university doing a social sciences degree which is full of Feminists including the lecturers. I have had many arguments with women. Had one woman look at me as if she just watched me murder her only child in front of her when I said I'm not feminist. It's hard not to shut my mouth when they chat so much shit tho!
/r/MensRights24/09/23 06:01 PM
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Sons of Feminism A must read for everyone. There's also Daughters of Feminism which is alright too.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 12:22 PM
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If there is a patriarchy then how does that happen? Because it's women who are mostly raising children, thus raising boys into men. It's women who are teaching children in schools seeing as around 85% of teacher are women. It's women who treat the men when they're sick, that's 70% of women (UK stat). The beauty and fashion industry is dominated by women thus putting the standard of beauty of women by women. If men are dominating society then it's women who are allowing it. Which creates a circul…
/r/MensRights19/09/23 04:31 PM
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Hi, Feminism just never made much sense to me to be honest. I'm someone who learns by poking holes in people's arguments and if I find too many holes...well then they're talking shit. Feminism is a thin ideology, with mixed messaging which makes men the villain and women the victim with no agency. Once you see it for what it is it's hard to unsee it. Groups which don't subscribe to the ideology become more obvious when you don't have your head in the sand
/r/MensRights15/09/23 10:29 AM
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Considering his name is Manley he sure doesn't seem to like men very much. It's the same as Flood or Kimmel...they say there's a crisis and men need help...but the answer is to treat them like they're monsters who could explode any second. Fuck em
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/09/23 07:55 AM
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I swear to god if it's a woman I'm gonna jump
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/23 08:47 PM
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That's actually disgusting. I know we've been getting the same here in the UK about having classes for boys about 'toxic masculinity' but it's spreading it seems
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/23 07:39 AM
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They're also on twitter under the same name
/r/MensRights30/08/23 11:09 AM
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I don't understand how it would be promoting rape culture? I think I'm neither for nor against it. It's always handy to know these kinds of skills because they may be useful and it's good to encourage anyone to know how to defend themselves. I do believe there are other ways of defending yourself without using your body though. The first defence is how you even carry yourself. There was a study done that asked inmates to choose from a variety of people who they would steal from or approach in th…
/r/MensRights21/08/23 12:27 PM
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I am a woman. I have been walking around alone at night since I was a teen. Sometimes I even wear headphones. Sometimes men pass by me when I'm wearing headphones. This fear is very real to these women because they've been told to be fearful. I totally understand that if I'm constantly told that if I go out at night then I'm in danger...then I will believe that. However, because I was homeless as a teen, I was never fed these lies from when I was young like other women have. I saw for myself tha…
/r/MensRights21/08/23 07:54 AM
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Would the same alarms have been raised if a mother was checking in to a room with her 12 year old son with only a double bed? I highly doubt it, despite the statistics showing that women have a similar rate of pedophilic behaviours.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 10:11 AM
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Woman here. I really like the way men tend to communicate. Simple. Clear. And if I need to give feedback to a man he is usually much more accepting of any constructive criticism. Women tend to take offence much easier and I have to be overly sickeningly nice to them or they assume I hate them.
/r/MensRights12/08/23 03:58 PM
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Half the shit you'll get or hear from most women are from the loudest and least worth your time. It's unfortunate that a lot of policy and general mainstream media narratives are taking hold right now but I have been seeing much more pushback recently compared to 2-3 years ago. I know it's hard but really try to remember that the things feminists say are contradictory by nature and huge generalisations - it is not YOU personally. You are not the problem, you are not bad and you are not toxic, as…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/23 06:39 PM
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Shut the front door. Love that book
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/23 08:11 AM
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I'm a woman but I wanted to let you know about my husband. He was 42 yesterday and he is a PhD student. At the start of this year, he had to temporarily withdraw from his PhD and he began going to a therapist because he was feeling how you feel. He felt at fault for the world's problems and struggled to not take on every criticism that was thrown as a generalisation and felt unimportant when he/men were ignored because women 'needed' the spotlight. He's back doing his PhD now. He also changed wh…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/23 07:57 AM
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Note: I am a woman. I don't get it really, considering I know for a fact that myself and any other girl I've ever known has a 'female gaze'. Thirst traps are a huge thing. Magic Mike is a very popular sexual male performance designed for the 'female gaze'. Feminists have decided that sexual attraction, even just looking, is something shameful but only when it is heterosexual men who are looking. There's nothing wrong with looking especially if someone is dressing to stand out. It's natural to lo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/23 09:01 AM
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Just message him and be upfront. Say "sorry if I seemed shy, I was nervous but I had a great time and would love to see you again" Don't overthink it too hard
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/23 06:33 PM
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Exactly. At this point it seems more like revenge than anything else. Generally when I express my views on feminism or even just advocating for men or pointing out hypocrisy, I get women insulting me. I have internalised misogyny, I'm a pick me etc. It's never men. Sometimes men disagree with me and we can have an amicable conversation about things but women will be vile sometimes towards me. Feminist women just do not want any negative comments at all and if you say anything remotely non pro-wo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/23 04:47 PM
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Female perspective here. I was taught fairly young that all women were feminists... because all women deserve the same rights as men. I think everyone can get on board with having equal human and working rights, so it's very easy to buy into the feminist narrative when your teacher tells you you must be X because you believe Y. Then it's all downhill from there. I also grew up in the 90s with slogans like "Girl Power" and "Boys are stupid throw rocks at them". Although on the surface it was mean…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/23 01:47 PM
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The future is fucked
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/23 08:08 PM
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It's everywhere. Not just Reddit. Violence against women and girls in the UK, for example. If I make the case to ANYONE that it should be violence against people - I get told it isn't about men, because they are usually the perps. When I then make the case that a 7 year old boy and a 7 year old girl are no different in terms of being a victim (in fact, boys under 14 are disproportionately more likely to be a victim of rape in this country than girls are) so why not at the very very least call it…
/r/AntiFeminists24/01/23 09:51 AM
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I honestly wouldn't care because if they're not talking TO me, I wouldn't have a clue what they're calling me. Sure it's respectful to call people by names they prefer when you're talking to their face, which I do. But if someone wants to refer to me as 'ginger arsehole' behind my back they're perfectly free to do so. If someone called me he to my face I'd wonder who they're talking about...because you don't use pronouns when talking to the person you're referring to. But for arguments sake if s…
/r/AntiFeminists07/01/23 07:11 PM
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Men and women aren't equal. We are in the sense we have all the same fundamental rights which is spot on. But equal means the same and we are not the same, and it's ok that we're not the same. We both bring strengths and weaknesses. They keep using that word like it's synonymous with the word sexist. Does my nut in. Also, dictating pronouns to others is self-centred. When we use pronouns we are talking ABOUT someone, not to them. How someone refers to you when they're not directly talking to you…
/r/AntiFeminists07/01/23 03:31 PM
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Equal but better
/r/AntiFeminists07/01/23 02:29 PM
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Any man critical of feminism is now labelled an incel it seems
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 09:43 AM
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I'm gonna be that person... Not all women. ...sorry.
/r/AntiFeminists26/11/22 08:51 PM
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So rarely do I see this in the comments. I'm a woman, not a feminist, and I do understand what is actually meant when "women" used as a generalisation is not specifically aimed at me but it's nice that this distinction is made from time to time.
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/22 03:53 PM
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It's overuse really leaves the words with little meaning. Being racist or a misogynist is disgusting, BUT actual racists or misogynists are very rare. Saying something sexist doesn't make you a misogynist but people are using these words synonymously. For real people who are genuine victims of these things must be really degrading.
/r/AntiFeminists19/07/22 06:01 PM
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Hmm I get where you're coming from, however, it was much easier to prevent pregnancy with the pill for women than it is for men. How do you stop sperm from being able to fertilize an egg? It's relatively easy to be able to prevent eggs from attaching to the lining of the womb with hormones, not so easy to affect the sperm to prevent fertilisation. So I understand why women have the pill currently and men don't and I don't see it as a privilege that women have been afforded to them purely because…
/r/AntiFeminists19/04/22 05:57 PM
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I'll complain about it because its side effects can be awful. I'll complain because I have to actively remember when I need to take something or book an appointment. I'll complain when I have to bear through the pain of having pieces of plastic or metal shoved into my body. But I won't ever complain that it's not my responsibility or that someone else needs to spare me from the pains and effects of birth control when men are limited in what they can use. I'll take personal responsibility. I'm lu…
/r/AntiFeminists19/04/22 03:58 PM
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Same. Not heard of this case being from outside US so trying to read up on it but not finding any links to feminism. Does anyone have links?
/r/AntiFeminists12/04/22 03:53 PM
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I've read this (just so I can see the shit theyre coming up with) it reads exactly as you'd imagine. Utter garbage written by someone with no academic background worth bothering about and comes across as satire because it's so fucking awful
/r/AntiFeminists18/01/22 02:06 PM
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It was coerced consent which is actually not consent at all
/r/AntiFeminists25/10/21 10:46 PM
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I have a very strong jaw line and cheek bones. If I don't 'glam' myself I can look quite feminine. I also have resting bitch face and due to autism, the way I talk sometimes doesn't translate well, especially as I have quite a low voice (apparently some guys go for that tho!) I also grew up with boys and a fairly masculine mother so I had to learn how to do the girly things I love. My only advices really are 1) as hard as it may be, try to not let your self confidence affect your body language. …
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/21 09:14 AM
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Oh, also I'm the only girl in my family! I have 3 brothers, 4 sons! It's tough sometimes!
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/21 01:42 PM
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I've had similar issues with women/men friends. My first genuine friendship she would always expect me to do more, travel to her more, be more flexible with plans, drop everything when she needed me but I'd get none of that in return. I got burnt out of the friendship essentially. My second friendship was jealous because I made a new girl friend at a new work place. I didn't see my friend any less but she started pulling away and not contacting me as much. She came back to my life for a few mont…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/21 01:15 PM
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'how do I manipulate people to my advantage in order to make money?' Jesus Christ. Why don't you stop giving women a bad name and actually...I dunno...do a good job????
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/21 07:54 PM
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Big Up to JP. Love his stuff. Don't always 100% agree but his view and ways of explanation are brilliant.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/21 06:04 PM
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Brave New World
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/21 02:30 PM
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Sounds like it's nothing to do with Red Pill...he's just a dick
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/21 08:27 AM
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It's so sad. Men shouldn't HAVE TO do this.
/r/MensRights30/03/21 10:12 AM
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Of course girls care about looks BUT what one girl finds attractive or even societies general definition of attractive doesn't mean that ALL girls are attracted to the same thing.
/r/seduction20/07/19 04:33 PM
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Because she wants to take it slow and she has her own set of boundaries that sometimes don't need an explanation.
/r/seduction25/05/19 03:31 PM
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With that response my solution is to not bother women in future cos you're coming across as a toxic cunt 👍
/r/seduction27/04/19 09:07 AM
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Foolproof is a synonym for idiot proof, meaning a device that can't be damaged by improper use
/r/seduction26/04/19 10:04 PM
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*fool proof
/r/seduction26/04/19 08:02 PM
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Expect to have nothing in common!
/r/seduction16/04/19 07:35 PM
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r/ihavesex
/r/seduction04/11/18 09:35 AM
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Not only for moral reasons but for potential backlash I would decline. If it gets out you slept with her what will it do? Will the husband get angry? Confront you? Will anyone else you know find out? Will it affect other relationships or friendships? Will she blame you? Will it affect her relationship with her kids? If she does get a divorce will it affect the outcome? Basically it'll cause way more drama than it's worth. If she's into you, wait until they're seperate and go for it but sneaking …
/r/seduction20/09/18 11:01 AM
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Stop asking her out. She's just said she wants more conversation first. Hardly anybody ever wants to meet after 4 messages.
/r/seduction02/07/18 09:03 PM
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She clearly doesn't want to be asked out again yet. Take it a little slower. Ask her what music she likes, if she goes to gigs, what does she like to do in her spare time. Tell her what you enjoy too. Just TALK about anything. If you just try your best at that and in a day or 2 she's still not into meeting you then bin her off.
/r/seduction02/07/18 09:02 PM
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No she wants to carry on conversation online. She wants to get to know you a little better before committing to meet you in person. Don't make a Q&A out of it but just let some conversation flow for a day or so then ask for her number and see if she wants something low key like a coffee. If she takes any more than a day or 2 of fluid Conversation then she's never gonna be up for meeting. Show her a little of who you are while getting her to open her up about herself.
/r/seduction02/07/18 09:00 PM
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We can only see a snippet of conversation. I'm often being asked to meet after 1-5 messages and I'm not sure yet whether I want to. You've got to get a little sense of someone first. I don't drag it out but I do want to limit my chances of either being stood up or not getting on with them.
/r/seduction02/07/18 07:49 PM
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Please do NOT just say "tell me about yourself" it's vague as fuck and if I'm asked it I just don't know how to answer. Something a little more like "what's your plans for summer, you got a vacay coming up?" It can lead to where they've travelled and what they enjoy while they're visiting places etc Or maybe something like, "I've got a _thing to do_ this weekend, you got many plans?" that could lead to whatever your interest is or find out what she does on the weekend. Just use it to open up the…
/r/seduction02/07/18 07:47 PM
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Just start treating her like more then friend. Playfully touch more, look at her a little longer and don't drag it out. Make it known you are interested in more.
/r/seduction22/02/18 12:50 PM
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Women do get sent Sexually aggressive messages a lot even on non dating non sexual websites and apps. I found it an interesting post really but I don't think it has much to do with seduction. Being sexual aggressive to someone out of the blue is not being seductive
/r/seduction09/02/18 10:55 AM
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It's just sex. Having or not having any experience really doesn't matter unless it bothers your partner, and if it bothers your partner then they're not worth being with in the first place. There's absolutely no need to make a big deal out of it because one day you'll have sex and then this magical thing happens...nothing. Nothing happens. You're just a guy that's had sex. The person you were before you had sex will be exactly the same once you have sex and the same goes for whichever girl you s…
/r/seduction05/02/18 09:14 AM
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Yeah, but I never commented on that. It does sound very condescending. If they're going to write that to dads they should also aim a section towards mothers.
/r/MensRights02/10/14 06:17 AM
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"Some people" it was an assumption. Yes it may be true for some but to say dads "provide all the money" is sexist and presumptuous
/r/MensRights01/10/14 12:09 PM
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That's perhaps slightly sexist, assuming the dad works and the mum doesn't...
/r/MensRights01/10/14 09:23 AM
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