Thesladenator97 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I have the oppurtunity to truly "Stay Home"- but I still feel afraid to be financially cared for Maybe in your country. But where I am you can choose who makes those decisions for you whether your married on not. That includes partners even if your not married	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/21 06:53 PM
2	I have the oppurtunity to truly "Stay Home"- but I still feel afraid to be financially cared for A written contract relating to just finances alone would also suffice	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/21 02:37 PM
0	I have the oppurtunity to truly "Stay Home"- but I still feel afraid to be financially cared for While I generally agree with Jordan Peterson this is one element I disagree with him on. Marriage should never be referred to as shackles. And the data is skewed because its the norm for most people to live together before marriage compared to the opposite. I've looked at this before. And it's not specific as to what defines living together either. You can still live together and have your own seperate houses if you spend enough time at each others houses together so unless you are insinuating t…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/21 12:34 PM
1	I have the oppurtunity to truly "Stay Home"- but I still feel afraid to be financially cared for Yes but it seems you want to use marriage as a way of levering money out of people and trying to manipulate your partner which doesn't seem healthy. Marriage shouldn't be about finances it should be about if you want to commit to each other. I would get married but keep our finances seperate because I don't care that our finances aren't together and it means I don't open myself up to financial control and abuse from a partner should something come up down the line. Like I trust my partner enough…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/21 12:26 PM
0	I have the oppurtunity to truly "Stay Home"- but I still feel afraid to be financially cared for Not really. If I got married I wouldn't be sharing my money still. The house would be split down the middle still and instead of our contract we have stating everything gets split if we break up. You can make other contracts that are still valid without getting married. People can be married and still cheat. Often being married young means your more likely to get divorced. Doesn't mean I'm gonna not trust my long term partner to look after me if I lose my job and vise versa. Like if you need to …	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/21 11:28 PM
-2	I have the oppurtunity to truly "Stay Home"- but I still feel afraid to be financially cared for I find it intriguing that you would need marriage to trust your partner. Sure if it was a new relationship fair enough but you can still meet the traditional roles without marriage.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/21 11:02 PM
2	Childfree friend is mad at me. Was I wrong? I'm childfree myself but would be okay watching someone I KNOWS child. Yeah I'll talk negatively about children because I don't like the idea of having my own and I do find them gross. But whenever I talk it's about my life and how I perceive children interacting in my way of life. I do think some places should be child free and there are ways of dealing with children outside too. I have also worked with children with special needs too and taken them out to restaurants and things and I've come a…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/09/20 07:18 AM
7	A tribute to Barbie Gosh I loved Barbie of swan lake. Reflecting now, your right she always focused on her friends over her partner.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/20 11:42 PM
2	Quarantine mega-thread It's shit and I'm sorry it happens. I hate to see it happen and I do my best to speak out about it to other women where possible. Positive discrimination is still discrimination and it's still wrong. Men need to be allowed the same spaces as women.	/r/MGTOW2	18/02/20 12:10 AM
1	How does one unlearn years of feminist conditioning?? My friend is like this. She gets so angry and obsessed that it interrupts meals and things I do with her when she ends up eves dropping on men's conversations and getting upset. It's like she actively looks for sexist comments ect or sexist things to get angry at. I wish I could bring her peace but its a hole she's dug. I would advise to just ignore things that aren't direct to you and not to take things so seriously.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/10/19 09:00 PM
1	How do you ladies feel about the female dating strategy sub? I would argue the opposite. Being childfree does not mean I don't want to have a balanced relationship with a man. If anything, it means I have to find a relationship with someone who has the same goals as me, one of those being not having children or my own children at least. Because my own children will likely have several genetic disorders I don't want to put them through. I still want that traditional family though. That's what we're striving for together, house together, creatures of some f…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/10/19 08:11 AM
16	How does one unlearn years of feminist conditioning?? Yes but not nearly to the extent people think it does. There are not many men who actually outright hate women though and they're usually easily avoided	/r/RedPillWomen	26/10/19 10:45 PM
6	How does one unlearn years of feminist conditioning?? My friend is struggling with this too	/r/RedPillWomen	26/10/19 10:44 PM
55	How do you ladies feel about the female dating strategy sub? Redpillwomen is about finding someone you can become a team with so you can work together and have balance in your life. Female dating strategy is just toxic and I'd argue perpetuates the opposite. They effectively just want to use and abuse men completely. Dump them for the littlest thing instead of working out stuff with a long term partner. Seems very toxic to me. They also seem to have warped ideas of standards. Sure to some extent it's good to be picky just because you'll find someone more …	/r/RedPillWomen	26/10/19 08:13 AM