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There’s better ways for you to go looking for a dominatrix than just telling everyone how worthless you think you are buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:43 AM
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Ok, this was fun. Goodnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:44 AM
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Let me show you a video that educate yourself further about politics through music: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ&pp=ygUXbmV2ZXIgZ29ubmEgZ2l2ZSB5b3UgdXA%3D
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:34 AM
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Gil Scott Heron is pretty chill. I like Curtis Mayfield more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:31 AM
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You know you can just call me silly like a normal person. My bad, I forgot Non binary folk are supposed to be more verbose or they’ll have their gender card revoked by the soft revolution. The revolution will not be televised, outside of a Starbucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:26 AM
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Oooh what band is it from? I like the song soft and wet by Prince. Any other jams for us softies?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:17 AM
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What are “real nonbinaries” i thought being nonbinary went against traditions and is more fluid as an identity in general. Is there some secret initiation you guys undergo with in the basement of your local Starbucks? Let me join, I’m non binary. I don’t really care what call me. My name is mostly a He man reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:15 AM
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I’m taking you as seriously as I can. I’m just asking you more questions. Let me ask you a question, why the name softrevolution? I’m guessing it’s because your retorts to my comments are very… soft. Viva la Germany or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:13 AM
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I mean it’s not as bad as french women saying Oui oui oui.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:10 AM
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I didn’t tell you that you’re anything, yet. I just said NB woman is an oxymoron, like the term “living dead”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:08 AM
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German women are more laid back? Let me ask you a question, do German women sound funny during sex? Like instead of saying yes in enjoyment, they go JA JA JA? I can’t keep a straight face to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:06 AM
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No good?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:01 AM
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I don’t understand what you’re saying. This isn’t a movie. Let me ask you a question, what is a woman to you? To me it’s someone who identifies with she/her pronouns exclusively and engages in femininity more often than masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:47 PM
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NB woman is an oxymoron
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:39 PM
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You know, if someone is disrespecting you, you can choose to either turn the other cheek or confront them directly about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:36 PM
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You’ve been saying you lead on women for weeks. I’ve seen your other comments. The plan is just not working for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:41 PM
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Loser behaviour. How do you expect to get anyone, let alone women to take you seriously if you don’t have any form of empathy towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:40 PM
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How’s that going for you then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:37 PM
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Also that saying is mainly used for workaholics, not people with aspirations in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:49 PM
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So are you a free man or a prisoner to your own defeatist mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:48 PM
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I don’t know what you’re trying to imply but are you trying to say you have no goals. An aimless person is an empty person. Everyone tries to look for a purpose, whole religions form from it. Philosophies form from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:46 PM
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I never said cuckoldry was banned, just not popular in a middle east country. Once again, please try to read people’s comments better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:38 PM
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Honest question, what are your goals in life? What do you want to achieve?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:34 PM
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People do choose to suffer. People like to make things worse for themselves. You can’t control accidentally touching a hot pan but you can control reacting in anger and throwing the pan across the room. This is mainly just what I practice from reading stoicism and Buddhism books for my personal benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:08 PM
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I don’t think cuckoldry is a popular practice in Dubai, a famously traditional country. Cuckoldry is also a choice, a choice that involves watching others have sex with your partner, not carrying their bags. You need to do more research if you’re going to start saying random terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:06 PM
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Looks like being a cowardly shut in is your strategy. Well, pain is inevitable but people choose to suffer. Make your life worthwhile with or without a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:02 PM
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What does their age have to do with whether he’s a worker or not? Either way people give what they get. If he is dating and doesn’t want to carry her bags and that happens to be a dealbreaker, he can move on to someone else. No one is forced to be in a relationship. People have different love languages, some express their love through acts of service. There is no right way to date someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:00 PM
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Bro where is your reading comprehension? It literally is his job to deal with packages
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:53 PM
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If there is a will there is a way. Just look at what passport bros are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:50 PM
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Prioritise your health over romance. Being healthy gives you more opportunities to experience more of life besides romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:49 PM
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Physique is what gets you through the door and the interview and personality is what allows you to keep the job. If you’re very attractive but happen to be comically evil as well, don’t expect to have long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 12:22 PM
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Women choose the most healthy looking man. Height is correlated to health as some people don’t reach their max height due to malnourishment. However, if you are tall and obese, you’ll look like Jabba the Hut. If you’re tall and frail you’ll look like a wendigo. Both unattractive unless the woman is into monsters. You’re better off being a jack of all trades than a master of one when it comes to being a high value individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 10:23 PM
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Being tall isn’t effort it’s just what you are. Short guys do have to put in more effort for higher value women, who have access to higher value (tall eg) men. But being tall isn’t the main thing that gives you value. You can be tall but retarded, No one likes that. You need to have a good amount of everything (social skills, money, influence, physique, purpose) or be exceptional in one or 2 of those features to attract higher value women. You can’t attract everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:54 PM
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Some Women invest too much in femininity and become still advertisement boards. Masculinity is about giving, femininity is about receiving. Too much of either is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:34 PM
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Ok, we can’t control others standards, but a lot of people (not me) are going to judge you negatively depending on how niche they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:31 PM
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Rejection is a natural experience in life, every animal experiences it to an extent. Human relationships allow for more complex forms of rejection. Instead of the traditional rejection to mate that other animals experience in mating season, humans can be rejected participation in a platonic event, rejection a position in a job, fail a test and be rejected from a university, etc. Modern human life is mostly a social skills game people choose to play to reduce the amount of group infighting and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:40 PM
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I’m not complaining about anything. What is there to complain about?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:18 PM
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You don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:10 PM
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Sex isn’t something you get, sex isn’t transactional. There’s no guarantee, you can’t submit any good boy coins in to the women vending machine and get some tush as a reward. Sex is something both people agree to do. It’s a truce. It requires compromise on your selfish desires in order to satisfy some of your partners desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:28 PM
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So you only manipulate gold diggers, as in con them for a pump and dump? Still deplorable because you’re stooping to their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:24 PM
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Having prejudice thoughts are uncontrollable. That’s just a consequence of having a pattern seeking brain. Acting out on those prejudices and being an asshole is a choice. Life was a lot worse for many people a century ago but it’s now great for people in the West and it can get even better now. You just don’t have the strength to be kind and not act on your prejudices.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:21 PM
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Are you saying you’re completely unattractive to woman unless you manipulate them?. Looks matter more than your words buddy. Drunk women don’t give a shit about what babble you spout of how pretty you think they are or how you want to spend your future with them. They heard that before. Clearly your looks contributed more than your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:12 PM
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Oh ok I’ll just make a whole scientific study on how words can be used in multiple ways. Let me just grab a couple thousand of people. Most of your posts consists of generalisations and anecdotes. Why should I have to give you evidence for my anecdote? There’s no way you are a real person. I’m going to report all your future posts as disenguous spam because there’s no way someone like you has the passion to spout gender wars nonsense for 5 years straight unless they were a bot or a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:08 PM
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No hookups does not mean only casual, hookups are a informal substitution for sex (whether it be casual or romantic). No one likes speaking like a formal animal documentarian during intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:03 PM
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If all you want to do is pump and dump and hurt women, just buy a sex toy. You’re clearly don’t care about how women feel during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:01 PM
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I didn’t say no as in he would not ask for a hookup (ie i don’t want to have sex with you). I disagreed with your point then further explained my point of view (have the same time period as her previous partners). Please read my comments properly. I don’t want to dismiss you as an idiot because Lilith is a smart character in biblical fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:57 PM
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Someone people are polyamorous and some are monogamous. There is no absolute in sexuality, there are no absolutes in nature in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:54 PM
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No he probably would ask to have sex in the same timeframe as the woman did with her previous partners. Sounds reasonable to me. A hookup is another word for sex. People in relationships use it all the time (“can we hookup tonight babe” eg). It’s not related to one night stands. That’s an entirely different word.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:49 PM
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No offence but if you have a history of being easy to hook up with but turn up the difficulty the moment you lose your leverage in your 30s, people are going to call you a manipulator.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:45 PM
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Honestly, you’re going to jinx yourself if you start chasing women for love. It’s better to go with the flow and ask questions meant to judge their character and see whether they’re a moral fit for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:48 PM
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You generalise women’s preferences as an excuse to throw away the towel. The Black pill is Philosophical suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:46 PM
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Instead of becoming a monster and being as evil as these people, you should focus on being more virtuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:44 PM
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Applying to a job can be just as brutal. You can’t have success with failures to compare it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:12 PM
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Read my flair
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:28 AM
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It is an open space, we got extreme views from every part of the political spectrum here. I enjoy the honesty people have here about their inherent desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:29 PM
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Everyone struggles with relationships, whether they’re single or have been married with 2 kids. Don’t take everything on the Internet seriously. Reddit allows echo chambers to form where confirmation bias is king.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:22 PM
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Most of these pill folks are just sex addicts. Addiction in general can cause you to do immoral things to your community.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:20 PM
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Don’t get too attached to anything. Reddit is a cesspool if you spend too much time on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:15 PM
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Do you want a woman to be with you, even if she doesn’t find you attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:45 AM
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The sensation of hunger can be intense when you start a new diet. That’s where discipline comes in. Motivation can help you start new things but discipline is what keeps you going. Discipline is just doing what’s right for you despite your body rejecting it at first. Our brains are neuroplastic, they can adapt to new behaviours if we give them a consistent stimulus. It’s why people’s tolerance to substances increases the more they use them. You don’t have to abandon dating, you shouldn’t be swin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:25 AM
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Attachment is the root of all suffering. No one should base their self worth on whether they’re “wanted”. That’s a recipe for disaster. You’ll always be anxious, worrying about if people’s opinion of you will change if you do this or that or you are this or that. Technology may be advanced but our brains are still in the stone age. We’re not built to think about how thousands of our peers view us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:05 AM
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I don’t believe in determinism, quantum physics disproves it. Yes people have preferences, let them. You want someone to love you for who you are, not who you should be. There’s more to the human life than just following natural selection. Our higher level of thought is both a gift and a curse. Pain will be inevitable in all our lives, but we all have the choice to react accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:58 AM
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It must feel nice to be “black pilled”. To be able to blame biology and society for all your problems and use it as an excuse to rot in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:31 AM
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The funniest thing about this post is that you claim to be a leftist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:29 AM
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There should be a rule to limit the amount of posts she makes a week here because it’s just all ai generated spam
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:17 AM
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It’s still similar in terms of intent. The man wants to use a tool (women) to get off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:46 PM
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What’s the point of having sex with a woman if you’re just leading them on. You’re just using her body. You might as well use your hand. You’re treating sex as masturbation 2.0
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:31 PM
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Most things are a waste of time other than eating, shitting and sleeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:04 PM
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Everyone digs their own grave. It’s your choice to date whoever you want. Men and women alike should just accept that and move to the next opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:00 PM
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So you’re allowed to use analogies but I’m not. Typical, you would rather run circles around me than ever compromise. I pity whoever you talk to in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:50 PM
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Are you telling me there isn’t a situation where black people have more power, I’d disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:41 PM
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If you were only talking about cops, you wouldn’t have felt the need to include the point that women do this with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:40 PM
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This woman is practicing a form of benevolent racism by saying that black people aren’t capable of causing harm or societal change in general (the noble savage trope mixed with a white saviour complex). This is how Christians practice benevolent misogyny as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:26 PM
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If a Black friend says they’re cautious around cops, you don’t accuse them of bias. You recognise they’re managing risk around a group with power and a track record. Women do the same with men. It’s not hate, it’s situational awareness. If you’re saying this doesn’t apply to black people, you’re saying black people have no power.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:22 PM
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Very whiney attitude there macho man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:54 PM
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You shouldn’t be having to chase people but you should put some effort into finding a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:53 PM
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You’re saying that black people have less power than white people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:48 PM
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So black people are powerless, sounds racist
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:46 PM
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Looks like the bad faith argument woman is back at it again
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:45 PM
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I’m not chronically online, what does that mean miss?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:14 PM
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You need to have more than one narrative running in your head when talking about other people. Dealing in absolutes just burns all bridges.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:54 AM
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I just gave you another minority group people like to paste their negative generalisations on when it comes to how some interact with people. It’s just a comparison. Can you explain to me why you’re faking this shock to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:45 AM
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Please answer my question first
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:41 AM
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What do you mean by your statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:37 AM
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Next you’re going to be making a post saying Indian guys are genetically made to be rapists or something with the amount of generalisations you use in every post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:35 AM
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Low effort bait
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:27 PM
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You’re arguing for arguing sake. If those people choose to date more people or not date anyone at all, that’s their choice. Asexual people exist, along with the rest of LGBT. It’s still highly unlikely to be undesirable for life unless you make a number of bad decisions that would also increase the likelihood of you being a criminal as well (you can’t really get a girlfriend if you’re in prison).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:40 AM
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Why do you keep saying that? If it lets you sleep at night to virtue signal. More power to you. I’m Asian you kind gentleman, I know what I’m talking about. You can’t deny me that some white men become passport bros because they believe Asian women are more likely to practice traditional gender roles due to a lack of influence from the West. This makes them easier to control. If the women consent to that, wherever I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:56 PM
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The only thing I’m guilty of is being too lazy to add the word “some” in every sentence when talking about a group of people. I never said my words were gospel so I’ll concede in that. All relationships end via separation or death so I’m only partly right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:51 PM
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I like how you ignore my second sentence. But I’m just using simple biology. Maybe you want to talk of intersex people and where they belong in the grand scheme of things as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:45 PM
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If you look up a punnet square, you would know that sex ratio is 50/50. Now it isn’t exactly half but that’s mainly due to cultural reasons like chinas one child policy in the past. Some countries have more women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:40 PM
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Because foreign women, specifically the asian variety white guys chase their yellow fever for, want to explore the west. That’s why they marry these guys for their green cards then divorce them the moment they get citizenship. Do you really think life is like Pocahontas?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:35 PM
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Misery loves company. To be honest, I just engage in these subreddits to be levelheaded and not get trapped in any echo chamber. Everyone here is so enthusiastic about their views on dating, it’s enjoyable for me to talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:39 PM
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They’re certainly easier to impress. Don’t lie to me about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:36 PM
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There is no checklist for love my guy. This isn’t a visual novel where you can pick the right choices and get the girl. You can do your best and still fail. But success can’t exist without failure to compare it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:35 PM
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Rejection is something everyone faces, whether that would be dating or getting a job or passing a test. Rejections don’t make you worth less as a person. They should just be a lesson on what you did wrong and what you can improve on. Nothing is ever guaranteed to you in life. Masculinity is all about perseverance. To do the right thing with no expectations in return. A man, a person in general, shouldn’t be broken down by rejection because rejection is a natural event that occurs in life all aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:17 PM
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I like aspects of masculinity and femininity. But femininity in general has a lot of focus in the visual aspect than masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:00 PM
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No, everyone is different. I just believe there’s someone for everyone. No offence to them, but they’re not special enough to be unlovable (1/4 billion chance).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 06:52 PM
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It would work for anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 06:42 PM
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Passport bros settle for poor foreigners because they believe they’re not good enough for locals. That is all that is needed to be known. In my opinion, if you feel the need to go to an entirely different country just to get a partner, you have a problem with how much you attach your self worth to having connections to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 06:40 PM
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You know I’m not a woman right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:40 PM
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If you happened to be a feminist and were saying the same stuff you currently are saying right now, yes I would be saying the same thing. There are annoying chronically online women as well as men, look at r/twoxchromasomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:47 PM
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So you know you can do it but you don’t want to. And you still complain, this is what I mean when I say men’s struggles are voluntary. You can’t control what people think, say, or do to you, but you can control how you react to it. If you want to wallow in your own pit of self pity, then that’s fine. Just be aware that you’re doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:39 PM
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Yada yada yada. If you don’t like double standards then don’t play whatever games those individuals lead you on concerning that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:26 PM
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Uh huh, that’s nice to know. So your excuse is “if women can do it so can I”. You need to work on your priorities buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:34 PM
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Uh huh, don’t know what that means. Try speaking modern English
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:29 PM
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Nice observation skills buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:27 PM
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You need to work more on your insults, how does a vagina stop working dude?. Are you talking about menopause or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:25 PM
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I will when that opportunity happens, if you want to dig your own grave go ahead and do so. Just don’t drag others in your pity circle jerk
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:44 AM
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Rape is when someone takes control of your body and violates you without your consent Suicide is when someone’s mentally ill brain takes control of their action and kills them with their consent. You need to think more before you reply. Look, I’ve been there. I was the one who got myself out of a rut. Don’t make yourself a victim over your own mental health. I’d expect an overweight person to take care of their physical health as much as I’d expect a depressed person to take care of their mental…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 11:48 PM
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I’m not talking bad about anyone. It is ultimately your responsibility to save yourself as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 11:40 PM
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Suicide is a choice, i feel pity that those men chose not to get help instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 11:33 PM
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Dukkha is often mistranslated as suffering, it’s supposed to mean unstable/ unease. Life is unstable not suffering
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 10:54 PM
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That’s mainly due to a change in your hormone levels. For men, testosterone naturally lowers but some can have extremely low testosterone that can only be corrected with trt. Pensioners get stds banging in care homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:37 PM
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You and I have different definitions of romance. For me romance includes intimacy which is inherently sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:18 PM
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I think you can still have purpose even if you’re isolated. Being a steward / monk is one of many paths. Life is what you choose to make of it. Some want love, some want possessions, some want peace. Everyone is different but most don’t want to spend time finding their niche and would rather conform to a standard given by the popular elite.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:16 PM
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You gotta stop thinking of life as a football game. Tribalism helps no one in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:13 PM
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Romantic incompatibility can be caused by a lot of things. The size of ones genitals and whether they cause pain during intercourse. The overall look (weight) of a person. Hygiene. Stds. Communication can’t fix most of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:12 PM
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Buddy needs more whimsy in his life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:10 PM
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You can be the most kind, romantic, person in the world. If you can’t get your partner off, they’re going to find alternative options. Whether that’s using toys, to opening the relationship, to getting dumped. Harsh truth but our brains are still in the stone age after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:08 PM
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There’s a whole subreddit dedicated to dead bedrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:04 PM
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I’m happy for you my dude. Just keep yourself together if things go wrong. All relationships end via separation or death.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:00 PM
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I think every person should strive to have a small group of friends. What’s the point of life if you don’t have anyone to talk about it with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:58 PM
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Men don’t get away with sexual assault, a lot get jailed for it when’s there’s evidence for. Sexual assault is hard to prove unless you go to the hospital right after it or you film the whole thing. Men aren’t paid more than women on average. Women are actually ahead of men, when it comes to university education. They have a higher likelihood to get higher paying jobs because of that experience. When women talk about the pay gap, they talk about wanting to be paid the same as their male CEOs wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:56 PM
7

If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:49 PM
5

Haha very funny. The patriarchy stopped being a serious topic decades ago. Women got all the rights they need to be successful by themselves by the 1990s. The only problem women face today in the west is conservative figures wanting to restrict their rights to abortion. I’m pro choice so I’ll gladly protest for abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:48 PM
5

I’m not even saying that as a whole patriarchy nonsense. Anyone who is not born a millionaire is going to have shit moments in life. People just tend to pity the ones who make it their personality trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:43 PM
3

The only thing that causes suffering is attachment to an idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:42 PM
4

Legacy is one of the most pointless things a person can strive for. The best you can hope for in terms of having a legacy today would be being mentioned on a random wikipedia page. A person dies 2 times, the first when they enter the grave and the second when their name is mentioned for the last time. People only remember the monuments that were built thousands of years ago, not the people who built them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:40 PM
2

Ok Romeo, I somewhat agree with you. Pain is inevitable but suffering is a choice in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:37 PM
-8

Most of the “hardship” modern men go through are voluntary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:35 PM
2

What I don’t understand is why people obsess over relationships so much. To me, romantic relationships are like cake, a luxury. It’s pretty looking, it’s sweet, it gives you a lot of dopamine, but it’s not necessary for a fulfilling life. In fact, it can become a detriment to your life if you only focus on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:31 PM
8

Sexual compatibility is the most important factors of a relationship, its one of the leading causes of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:28 PM
-1

Stop projecting bro. It’s unattractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:40 PM
3

So people need a “valid enough “ reason to complain? Sorry but everyone thinks they’re the main character in life, include you, Nanny McPhee. People will find a reason to complain about anything. You can’t control that, you can only control whether you listen to them or not. It seems like you came into this conversation with that outcome already in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:07 PM
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So you just want people to ignore a core feature of their nature and not complain. We’re not at that level of transcendence yet. As long as the concept of inequality exists, we won’t be a star trek civilisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:59 PM
1

Buddhism
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:42 PM
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Neither are you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:34 PM
1

Someone is always going to have a reason to dislike you. A confident person knows that they shouldn’t let people’s opinion on them put them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:07 PM
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You will do anything but take responsibility for your own life. It’s always societies fault that you’re a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:04 PM
1

I don’t understand that hypocrisy, what is different between fucking a guy vs a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 08:42 PM
2

Men are lonely because they care more about satisfying their primal urges than trying to ascend their level of existence beyond what’s present.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:35 PM
1

Romance isn’t a transaction
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:43 PM
3

Most of the men here hate themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:49 AM
52

Bro hasn’t experienced biphobia
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:03 AM
2

Everyone is different, there’s no hive mind. It’s why I don’t subscribe to any pill nonsense. Tribalism is too primitive. Masculinity is about being active, even in the face of criticism. Taking rather than receiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:01 PM
2

I feel like you should use less provocative language. This isn’t fight club. People also judge you for what language you use as well. If you care about that you could try be more tame about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:57 PM
1

I’m not saying you should change your standards. It’s understandable to want to date someone who has the same standards of living as you. Just don’t try to influence other people to follow them as well (especially if they don’t care about being fit). Also, I don’t think self deprecation is healthy. You shouldn’t laugh at yourself if people are trying to humiliate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:47 PM
0

It shows a lack of confidence in the choices you make, you would rather do things the way others tell you to do and not in your own self interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:40 PM
1

I don’t understand how anyone other than a rapist would enjoy sex if they can see their partner not enjoying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:34 PM
0

Being afraid of judgement from others for who you date doesn’t sound that manly, no offence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:25 PM
3

A lot of the bad things that happen to people in life are caused by poor choices. It’s up to them to develop a more nuanced mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:23 PM
-4

There are no excuses for being a resentful loser.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 02:40 PM
-1

Nah I still would
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 02:39 PM
1

Either get over it or wallow in your self pity. People can smell bitterness and self hatred a mile away. Sucks you got rejected because of height but you don’t want to force people to love you, and vice versa.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 01:15 PM
1

Receive 30 lashings from your local priest
/r/ExRedPill04/11/24 05:35 AM
1

It’s not that deep bro, realise that obsessing over this makes you look desperate, anyone can smell desperation a mile away. Best case scenario in meeting someone and wanting to establish a relationship: you succeed. Worst case scenario: you don’t but it doesn’t matter. You were a good person before meeting them and you’ll be a good person after.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/24 10:01 PM
2

Stop putting yourself down, if you think you’re not as fit as someone you know the answer to that (work out). People get in relationships because they know they were happy by themselves before and after a relationship occurs. If you want to work on yourself, do it because you want to enjoy yourself.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/24 06:25 AM
-2

Selfish, zero empathy and nuance. Your approach to relationships is more dangerous if used by the wrong person.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/24 08:03 AM
25

Hamzas main problem now is that he lacks discipline to practice what he preaches. He has a cycle where he does one video saying “every man should do this, I’ll be doing this soon” then when the deadline comes to do said event, he gives up then makes a video saying “This thing is stupid do this instead”. An example of this for Hamza is him training to be a fighter then cutting the contract, as well as him wanting to move to the countryside with his girlfriend but dropping that along with dumping …
/r/ExRedPill28/06/24 02:48 AM
1

lol you won’t move on, you like to one up as much people as possible
/r/ExRedPill18/06/24 05:47 PM
1

Tldr: tell your friend he’ll die alone and to kill himself and I don’t want to be your friend anymore
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 09:30 PM
1

Touch grass, this is literally a first world problem
/r/seduction27/09/22 08:38 PM
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