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TheyCallMeBigAndy/r/seduction03/05/22 11:53 PM
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I own two mortgage-free apartments in Hong Kong, but I only use them as vacation homes. They are USD 1.5 million each. I am currently living in the states and make low 6 figures. I don't think being a "millionaire" makes me extremely attractive. Women only care how I look. I also tell my dates that I am staying with my parents to save up for a house. People see it as a dealbreaker. They think I am not independent enough. But I can pay cash to buy the latest Aventador or a shitty house if I wante…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:35 PM
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5, I have an MBA. So I expect my partner to have a degree. That's the minimum requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:14 AM
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That's interesting. Women who send me likes are way below average (No offense, just not my type). I don't mind sending likes. In fact, I do it very often and usually match with above average girls. If the girl is interested in dating me, she would initiate the conversation, it usually leads to a date. If they only like me back, I would leave the chat open and talk to another one. I don't have time to deal with attention seekers. 😂 My female friends also use Hinge. But they never send likes and o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:00 PM
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Yeah. It is like pay to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:04 PM
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If you pay for premium, Hinge puts you on the top of the stack. If you also set up your filters, you have a really high chance to match with someone. Of course, you need to be above average. The problem is, most of the Asian American men don't know how to dress nice. If an Asian man can't do well in America, I am pretty sure he can't get any dates in Asia as well. Asian men in East Asia are much taller and stylish. People in their 20s or early 30s are at least 5'9 (175cm). It is like a different…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:02 PM
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You can send unlimited likes. Also, filters are pretty useful as well. I usually spend a hundred on a first date, 6 month premium is just $99. So it kinda makes sense to use premium.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:46 AM
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I 31M, 5'11, East Asian, live in LA and don't have any problems using online dating apps. Unless you are a 10, you won't be able to get matches everyday. I would recommend paying for premium. It is a game changer. I have at least 30 matches every week. They are either white or Hispanic girls. If I try real hard, I can have at least 3 first dates every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:34 AM
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I am Asian and am pretty sure she is white lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:19 PM
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Algo pump for sure.
/r/seduction29/09/22 12:33 AM
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I am a mixed East Asian (HongKongese/Japanese/British) and our family looks down on people who do Asian squats. I know Chinese and Japanese love doing it in the middle of the street. it is like a cultural thing. It is acceptable to do it in their countries. But people would make fun of you squatting in Hong Kong/Singapore. Only low-class and uneducated people do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:20 AM
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what's the tea on them Really? I live in LA and have had 30+ first dates and 10-ish second dates this year. I would say it depends on how lucky you are. If that lady wants to commit and is emotionally available, she may ask for a third date to keep the ball rolling. If you are really desperate, you can always date down. But your partner may feel insecure all the time. My ex was a bit like that. It kinda stressed me out.
/r/seduction21/09/22 10:38 PM
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Yeah. She may have found someone more attractive and decided to date that guy. Women on Hinge are like this as well. That's why we keep saying OLD is just a number game.
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:17 PM
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Yeah. I am pretty sure your stats reflect the traditional Japanese culture. I am an Asian, but It seems like you know more than us. Good one. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:14 PM
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I don't know the stats. But I am mixed and my cousin is a 100% Japanese man living in Otsu. Japanese work culture looks down on Women and they don't usually get promoted. they get stuck to the same salary for years. Japanese women usually stop working once they have kids. It is a tradition.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:51 PM
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Not really. If you are Japanese, the husband is expected to work and give all his income to the wife, the wife is expected to take care of expenses, the house and other stuff. If you are Hongkongese, it would be different. If both husband and wife are working, they would hire a domestic helper to take care of everything. If they cannot afford hiring a helper, the wife is expected to be a stay at home mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:35 PM
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Agree, I grew up in Hong Kong and can tell you that HongKongese women are extreme feminist. They would expect the guy to have a good job and own an apartment. They would shout and beat their boyfriends on the streets. There is zero respect for men. Your girlfriend would dump you for a rich man if she had a chance. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:28 PM
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I am 30 and find 25-28 attractive. I think it is pretty normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:07 PM
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No. That's not true. Like I said. Most single moms have never been married. Because they made a bad decision. Compared to Single moms, most of single dads are divorced and have higher incomes. Go check the stats
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:04 PM
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single mom Single moms are single. Because men don't like dating single moms. It is like dating a used good. If the woman found a responsible man, the guy would stay and become head of the household. The truth is, those single moms can no longer provide any value (sex or whatever it is) to their men. So That's why those guys left. Go download Tinder, Bumble or Hinge. Sorry to say that, but single moms are at the bottom of food chain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:32 PM
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Mechanical Engineer here. I don't think having a good job improves my dating life that much. Considering the bar is super high these days, my job is like icing on the cake. As long as you meet their minimum requirements, they don't really care.
/r/seduction30/08/22 07:19 PM
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There are 52 weeks in a year and you had sex with 56 girls in a year? Da fuck. Are you Genghis Khan?
/r/seduction29/08/22 12:48 AM
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Compared to those tech Bros/finance bros, I don't think I am very successful. I am only an engineer, make 150k but I own a 1M dollar apartment which my parents gave it to me a while ago...... I have a MS + MBA, so it is hard to find someone like me. As long as they are educated, have a degree, I don't really care what they do. Shit happens and people can always find a way to climb the corporate ladder. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:32 AM
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Are you still in high school or what? Social status mainly tied to your wealth or job. For instance, a famous football player can hook up with girls easily. A dentist can date a receptionist if he wants. And again, people have been doing research on this. "Research has found that, for long-term dating, women value men with greater financial resources and higher status, while for short-term dating they value men with greater physical attractiveness." "We found that men’s financial resources were …
/r/seduction28/07/22 02:46 AM
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No. You don't understand the logic. Men tend to spread the seed but women cannot afford that. Therefore women always look for the best mate. It is called parental investment theory "Parental investment theory, as proposed by Trivers, argues that the sex with higher obligatory investment will be more selective in choosing sex partners, and the sex with lower obligatory investment will be less selective and more interested in "casual" mating opportunities."
/r/seduction27/07/22 05:44 PM
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That's basically Brad Pitt rule. Men need to be attractive (High Value) to date or have sexual intercourse. It doesn't work if the guy is ugly or has a low social status job.
/r/seduction27/07/22 05:23 PM
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Women know their place. For instance, if a girl believes she is a 5, she would find someone who is on par or higher. Women constantly look for the best deals till they can't. If they cannot find that guy, they would settle for less. If you are ugly, you are basically invisible to them. However, having a high social status can make you more attractive.
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:46 PM
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Sorry to ask, but do you have any female friends? if you wanna date or have sexual intercourse with them You need to meet their standards first. So you can move forward. Look and social status determine your success rate. Once you have passed that wall, you can build connections and so on. That's how they feel the sparks. One more thing, have you ever heard of love at first sight? Where does that term come from? Researchers actually spend years studying how mating works. "Essentially, we are eva…
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:33 PM
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Brad Pitt rule. You need to be attractive to move forward with a girl. If you are not good-looking enough, there is nothing you can do. Girls won't have sex with you if you can't meet their standards. Similarly, Girls only find "sparks" in attractive guys. You won't be able to "connect" with a girl if she finds you gross. Giving her meaningful compliments is like being a simp. Women know who they are and you don't have to remind them that.
/r/seduction27/07/22 08:13 AM
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Production Assistant, Actress and freelance Filmmaker. Those people are attractive but broke af 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:55 PM
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I live in LA, and am an engineer. Most of my colleagues are single. It is not like we are weird or anything. But our job is quite demanding and stressful. So people tend to stay single till they get to management. It is quite common.
/r/seduction16/07/22 08:42 AM
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Yeah. Guys have options too. I talk to multiple people at the same time. If they like me, that's awesome. But if they think we are not compatible. It is fine as well and I wish them all the best. I have quite a good life and don't need a women. If I could find someone nice, I would take it. But I won't waste time to impress or chase a girl.
/r/seduction16/07/22 08:32 AM
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I have dated too many girls in my life and don't really care at this point. I am not sure you have experienced this before. But if a woman is into you, she would make it obvious and you just need to follow the flow. If you need to chase or play the stupid game, she is gonna waste your time for sure. Sometimes they would ask their friends for advice, put you on the side for like a month, then get back to you.
/r/seduction16/07/22 08:25 AM
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I don't have problems dating girls in Asia. Anyway, I moved to the States a few years ago. My hometown has the highest COL in the world and people tend to stay with their parents till they can save up for a house. Some parents give their kids 20% down payment and pay off their student loan as well. It is pretty common in my country. I am just middle class. Graduates who work in tech can make 140k base + 50k RSU.
/r/seduction16/07/22 08:16 AM
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Girls have options. Sometimes they ghost you for no reason, then reach out to you to see if you are still into them. That's what I am talking about.
/r/seduction16/07/22 03:38 AM
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I am 30 and still living at home. But I make 150k, got a Tesla and saved 200k cash for buying a house. I also have a 1m apartment in Asia. Women don't care how much I make. They still ghost me and I also ghost them back. It is just a number game. 🤣🤣
/r/seduction16/07/22 01:03 AM
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Nope. I am Asian, British born Hongkongese tho. My family moved back to HK when I was 7. I speak Cantonese and English.
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:26 PM
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Yeah. I have dated Aussie, British and American women. US girls are just different animals, like they are so liberal and yet, they have high standards and conservatively expect the guy to pay for everything. If you can't do well in AU/NZ, you are gonna have a hard time dating girls in the states.
/r/seduction06/07/22 08:22 AM
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Dating Asian women is different from dating white girls. They got that black and white thinking. That means they won't meet you if they are not interested. . Also, it is quite easy to spot gold diggers and time wasters as well. Depending on your attractiveness, you should be able to kiss them multiple times during the first date. Your ideal first date should be >grab a cup of coffee/ice cream> hang out in the mall > take them to play arcade games > Have desserts together Your second date should …
/r/seduction06/07/22 07:51 AM
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I think you are attractive and don't see any issue at all. (P.S I am Asian lol)
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:50 AM
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Spark = physical attraction!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:51 AM
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Fuck yes or no. If she is into you, she would not ask you to wait. She is using you for validation and attention. Don't waste time on her. Just go find someone else
/r/seduction27/05/22 07:22 PM
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Yeah. it is all about attractiveness. If the girl thinks you are out of her league. She would romanticise the relationship and treat you like a god. You can ask her to do whatever you want. She would literally spend all the money on you. So she could keep you and make you happy. At some point, the guy settles for less and the tide changes. The GF realises it is not a healthy relationship and starts looking for a better one. That's why women always complain about their less successful boyfriends.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:10 AM
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Women usually date up. You gotta be in the top 20% to secure a relationship. If they don't want to connect with you. that means they are out of your league and you have to date down. If a woman is interested in you, she could be your sugar mama. If a girl thinks she is better than you, she treats you as a provider. Being successful and attractive doesn't limit your dating pool. You actually have more options and can date whoever you want. it is like having all you can eat. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:30 PM
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Yeah. I can always get a first date if the lady texts me first. I can easily pull it off if that makes sense. It is some sort of attraction law or love at first slight, I guess. I think the problem is, we cannot create attraction. It doesn't work that way. Also OLD is super competitive. So they would pick the most handsome guys, chase them and even sleep with them. If it doesn't work, there is always another one. The power dynamics is kinda fucked up. So that's why some brothers said, we should …
/r/seduction20/05/22 08:08 PM
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Women know they are pretty, you don't have to mention that. Just take a look at their profile, make a silly statement and see how it goes. If the lady texts you first, that means she finds you attractive and you are kinda guaranteed to get a first date. If you have to please them to make it happen, it is not going to work.
/r/seduction20/05/22 07:30 PM
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Thanks, man. I am not sure why, but it seems like most women expect to have a dinner date. What would you do if they had such an expectation? I feel those late 20s ladies are the same. It is just my personal experience tho
/r/seduction05/05/22 06:43 AM
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Thanks man. I see what you mean now. Thank you so much
/r/seduction04/05/22 07:47 PM
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Thanks man. So how do you define a good date? I saw people keep mentioning coffee date. But you gotta meet them in the daytime, right? If I wanna do something at night, should I just invite them for a drink and that's it? Maybe mini-golf or arcade? Just wanna double check
/r/seduction04/05/22 05:52 PM
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I had 8 dates in the last 4 weeks. I could have dated more, but it is a bit exhausting to talk to multiple women at the same time. All are dinner dates(First date). I kissed 6 of them. They all sent me flirty texts and asked about the second date once they got home. For some reason, they all went silent the day after. I kinda understand Brad Pitt Rule. So I didn't follow up. I also had 2 shitty dates which the girls didn't offer to split the bills. It is my shit test and I don't mind paying for …
/r/seduction04/05/22 08:05 AM
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Damn.... Thank you for pointing that out!
/r/seduction04/05/22 01:59 AM
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I wouldn't text her back if I were you. It only takes 5s to text and she sent you a lazy one. If she wanna talk, she will keep the conversation going
/r/seduction02/05/22 09:24 PM
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It is all about push and pull. If you chase her too much, she can sense that and will run away. You should play it cool and don't expect anything. Just leave her alone, don't text her or anything. If she wants you, she will text you some random stuff to reconnect.
/r/seduction11/11/21 03:08 AM
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I am 29, 5'11", East Asian and make around 130k. I usually get 3-4 matches a week and those ladies are younger than me. I am quite picky and get bored very easily. If the lady is not very responsive or interested in me, I would just find another one to chat with. I won't invest too much time in one person. I recently found that I can match with more people if I lower my expectations. I will see how it goes..........
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:51 AM
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just my 2 cents. Yeah. only military-industrial plants tho. Nazi took eastern Europe which screws up USSR's food production. Just Like what I have mentioned earlier. It was all about resources and the supply chain. Lend and lease was a game-changer and you can't deny that. It has been discussed before, check the link below. https://www.reddit.com/r/badhistory/comments/klay0s/lendlease_didnt_make_much_of_a_difference_on_the/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:38 AM
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I grew up in East Asia and we have to study European History, plus East Asian History for 5 years before going to university. I am currently living in the states, but I am also a British citizen and don't have any bias. Anyway, you are right about we needed the red army to fight against the Germans. But don't forget that the US played a key role in the war. Without the lend and lease act, UK would have to surrender and the red army would need to face the Germans alone. Frankly, the red army had …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:09 AM
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WW2 started in 1939 and US joined the war in Late 1941? I'm not major in history, but US signed lend and lease to help Soviet Union in early 1941 which gave tons of military aids to them. This helped Soviet Union to win Stalingrad(?) In 1942? Btw, what 5 years? Where did you get that number? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:51 AM
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Dude. Where did you study history? The entire Europe was fallen and left UK to face Nazi alone. Yes, Soviet Union did help, but they were lack of resources due to German invasion. The German military was superior in many ways. So the US signed lend-lease and military aids to support both British and Soviet Union. Since US is a manufacturing powerhouse, it basically turned the tide. Then they joined the war after getting bombed by the Japanese. Back to the topic, Yes, Soviet Union had contributed…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:30 AM
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Second world war and Soviet Union?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:36 PM
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I'm sorry but US did save the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:28 PM
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