Because it's dishonest and you shouldn't use "tricks" to get women to like you. I remember 2 weeks ago when I was at one of the clubs I work at, I found this guy's notebook with dozens of pages with dumb stuff like this written on them, little tips and imaginary dialogues, what to say and what not to say, how to behave and how not to. Like damn homie stop taking yourself so seriously, life is way too short to put up a façade and to try to be someone you're really not. It clearly infers you're no…
I agree with most of what you said. Makes total sense. For the last part, I guess at the moment I am completely confident when it doesn't come to cold approaches. You're right, in this case I felt completely lost and didn't feel confident at all (afterwards). Now about the being busy part. I said that because she had suggested checking her apartment out "sometime" previous to that in the first place, out of nowhere.