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| 58 | [FR] I got wayyy too drunk at a party. I had an awesome line, and have been dating the girl for a few months now, despite peeing on her.i wanna belieeveeeeeeeee. if it true though its a good story of how you met.. the kids will appreciate that dad peed on mom and marked his territory thereby claiming her. | /r/seduction | 22/03/13 04:39 PM |
| 14 | On the "dark side" of seduction.I too sense a dark presence in the force | /r/seduction | 11/12/12 08:05 PM |
| 53 | How to make it clear you are interested in her sexually, without looking like a perv?KINO. | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 08:22 PM |
| 19 | How to completely get over a breakup that took place 3 years ago?I was dating a girl for seven and a half years engaged for one and broke up this year because we couldn't see eye to eye. Not that this has any validation per se, but I've come a much longer way in realizing a more healthier disconnection between her and my new life without her, and i believe this is what you seek. Im a big believer in fate and I believe that if something ended, it ended for a reason. You were given the opportunity to bail out of something at that moment in your life that would … | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 04:02 PM |
| 67 | One more thing about confidenceYup i think of it as an audition, where people are on stage right in front of me trying to audition for a role in my life. | /r/seduction | 09/11/12 08:42 PM |
| 5 | First date today, forgot her name, what's my best plan of action?probably best advice on here. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 07:32 PM |
| 1 | First date today, forgot her name, what's my best plan of action?OR just look at her ID when she's getting carded with the pretense of looking at the picture. "Like whoa… when was this taken!" Or show her yours and then make fun of yourself… she will probably show you hers at that point too. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Conversational Threading: Never run out of things to say, EVER3 month old post. Ill comment anyways. I think using these three categories may work well. a) another follow up question, b) a commentary about her answer, c) something witty/funny/flirty. you can use them as your conversation plank or any in combination to proceed forward. I think the point is to not say something that is superficial. It must be an adequate response (by that i mean not obvious) to what she just said or to go over the top of her response with something witty. the middle road (sa… | /r/seduction | 02/11/12 05:33 AM |
| 2 | I got the girl, how do I keep her?A simple way to say continue improving yourself for yourself, and the women (in this case woman in your life). Simple and succinct. | /r/seduction | 31/10/12 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, what am I supposed to do with my hands/arms during a date?The more you think about it the more awkward it is. Just see what you do. If your at a bar with your hands in your pocket or crossed you are not giving good signals take em out. Put your hand on the edge of the bar or around a drink, anywhere but your pockets. Better yet, use it to physically communicate with people around you. Are you telling a story, use visuals to kinda narrate it…. or use KINO. I think the main thing is when your having a good time you tend to forget where your hands are. Un… | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Coffee Date and Speaking Issues Questions?Thanks. Had a blast, she was loving it, and we are planning on meeting up again this week. Slow and steady won the race! | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Coffee Date and Speaking Issues Questions?SLOWING DOWN. whoa. works. I didn't stutter and my conversations sounded more sincere. PS I even had coffee. and now we have a second date | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Coffee Date and Speaking Issues Questions?Thank you. Haha I just kinda came up with it randomly as I was driving home thinking on how I could ask her out. Pauses. I think I recently read that speaking deliberately slow makes people more into you… I think I read that on here actually. Either way your right I can't over think it too much either. | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Coffee Date and Speaking Issues Questions?sure! | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 03:58 PM |
| 2 | The Often Overlooked First Step to Success with WomenThis. I love what you said. "Depression and self hatred wear a nasty disguise of rationality." that's a really good quote. One worthy of remembering and passing down as a life lesson to your kids and grandkids. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 07:04 AM |
| 2 | The Often Overlooked First Step to Success with WomenAs a person that has been a victim of child abuse (not by my own family, a secret I still have not shared to them either) and very restrictive upbringing, I constantly see that about myself. I have such an advantage on this world and people tell me that: I am good looking on a regular basis, I have a bright future, and am super talented artistically. Yet I feel I provide no value and that my SO could be better off without me. I think there are some of us that are bred that way or go thru events … | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 07:00 AM |
| 3 | The Often Overlooked First Step to Success with WomenYou can say his esteem isn't that high off the floor? eh eh… ;) | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 05:59 AM |
| 2 | The Often Overlooked First Step to Success with WomenThis is why the book "The Secret" was wildly popular. it goes against the self-fulfilling prophesy of doom. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, what are your go-to questions/ jokes/ games etc. to spark life back into a dying conversation?Cheetah: Fast Dog: Man's Best Friend Osprey: Loyal Cheetah and Osprey i did reports on when i was a kid. So i kinda liked them for those reasons. | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 01:22 AM |
| 1 | AA is nothing. Escalation Anxiety is what needs to be overcome. Here's, IMO, how.The damage this could do if it was accidentally posted in jailbait and the word girl misconstrued… [Context. I prefer to say women or HBs; lol] Well said though. I have social anxiety and have been trying to overcome this with no success. Its funny that you can relate to that exact emotion that one feels when approaching anyone they don't really know. | /r/seduction | 29/09/12 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Get a Life: A How-to GuideDepends on your vibe Hiking and Rockclimbing there are a bunch of trails, Tanque Verde Falls, Romero Pools, and Seven Falls are pretty awesome especially right after monsoon season. Music is pretty much everywhere, but Rialto Theatre and Plush seem to have some decent bands playing every now and then (local bands worth checking: Holy Rolling Empire and Sergio Mendoza, and Brian Lopez). Eateries: I like Torino's Cafe, Noble Hops, The Union are more upscale, also La Encantada Mall Restaurants has … | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Get a Life: A How-to Guidehaha yeah. But i knew the cool places like the back of my hand. So i always had stuff to do there. But i digress. Definitely a shithole, but i was comfortable shitting there for the time being, lol. There are only four reasons to be in tucson: a) UofA b) Airforce c) Raytheon d) You're driving by and your car broke down. | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Get a Life: A How-to GuideNo definitely out of state, Tucson to be exact. I don't think i've ever been in a city quite so big with a lot of people everywhere. The positive is that it feels like you are constantly anonymous, meaning you can really float on by without anyone giving a damn who you are. Ill definitely try thrillist, and AOL patch!!! thank you!!!! | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Get a Life: A How-to Guidefor someone recently transplanted to Riverside, CA--- having no new friends (and old ones not in close proximity), an engagement that ended, and a fear of approaching anybody in general. I like this. It makes me feel daring and invigorated to restart in this city, with a new outlook on life, a tabula rasa of sorts. Teddy Roosevelt once wrote "Black care rarely sits behind a rider whose pace is fast enough." Im tired of living with that dread and loss on my shoulder. I plan on using this advice a… | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 04:48 AM |
| -1 | To that dude that posted that he needed some help but delted his post like 5 mins ago here's the advice, hope it helps!same here. | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Long Story: I fucked a cheerleader from my university last night (solid 9 or 10) Here's my advice to Seddit, looking for some follow-up advice myself toomy take on what OP is trying to say: i would rephrase the douchebag to more of a cocky attitude. Douchebag denotes being overly obnoxious and cheesy. while having a cocky attitude denotes confidence and pride. | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Long Story: I fucked a cheerleader from my university last night (solid 9 or 10) Here's my advice to Seddit, looking for some follow-up advice myself tooyou know i kinda went through the same ordeal. i think your over thinking the sex part and a lot of it is subconscious. But over the weeks i spent more and more time with this check and totally nailed it the last couple of times. I think its a comfort thing for you. You don't quite yet have the dissociation between emotions and sex. Just enjoy the moment realize she's there because she likes you. Realize she is opening herself to you in more ways then one. That she sees something worth the bang … | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Straight Guy in Gay Bar: Wolf in Sheep's Clothingi love taking women to gay bars. they are so relaxed and the enjoy the fact that you are comfortable with your sexuality not to get freaked out. If you are talking about seduction I think the hidden message within your "hey guys look at me i got laid" story is that often times women love the fact that you aren't restricted to cultural norms of how real men should act. Again i think the hidden message behind randomly going to gay bars to dance with a girl is that she knows that you are spontaneou… | /r/seduction | 05/08/12 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Can't get over my racei used to think no white girls like beaners. yet i still get hit on by predominantly white girls. Its all in your head. | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Trying to build inner game: "Do one thing everyday that scares you."The dissertation was on the intrinsic values of cognitive deception through artificial cunnilingus on maternal subjects. aka how he faked chowed your mom. ;p | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Trying to build inner game: "Do one thing everyday that scares you."B.S. in cumology | /r/seduction | 31/05/12 09:13 PM |
| 13 | Trying to build inner game: "Do one thing everyday that scares you."oh i know. I'm not smiling and winking at a bush for no reason. | /r/seduction | 31/05/12 04:32 PM |
| 29 | Trying to build inner game: "Do one thing everyday that scares you."i masturbated ferociously with my blinds rolled up. yehhhhhhhhh ಠ_ಠ top that son. | /r/seduction | 31/05/12 10:18 AM |
| 2 | I'll be your nemesis.saving this. living this. thanks man i had a slump after my break up this is exactly what i need to hear. | /r/seduction | 30/05/12 08:14 AM |
| 21 | My main fear in approaching women is having a dull conversation/running out of things to say.thats heavy, doc. | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 03:43 AM |
| 28 | When asking a girl out.. (works great)unless they say "nothing" | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 02:22 AM |
| 5 | Game Against Alpha Joewhat you don't understand is the subtly of body language that OP did see. A lot of times a little smirk when asking a question can seem sincere but in reality its just a cover for doucebaggery. its small little tall tale signs I'm sure he saw when this guy was badgering. | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 04:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you stay on top of your game if you're in a monogamous relationship?dont. If you do it right each day you will pose a challenge to her. This subreddit teaches a lot about self-constraint, control, and confidence. It applies more to just hooking up with chicks. it also applies to relationships. All the tactics on here can be used on girlfriends. You always want to be a challenge to her even if it has been 8 years. it keeps the flame going strong. and when you choose to bounce out, she'll remember you as being always a mystery, and you won't lose your edge. These … | /r/seduction | 22/03/12 05:01 AM |
| 1 | How to friendzone a girl?as in a good thing? | /r/seduction | 18/03/12 02:21 PM |
| 1 | How to friendzone a girl?ideally yes… i'd like to be attracted to her, find her mentally engaging, and have that extra something.. before i move forward. I have not always been this way, but this is were i've been at mentally for awhile... Usually with my last two relationships, i felt the combination of all three at once. with this one.. not so much. She seems like a good catch i just can't pinpoint what i don't like about her. | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 10:28 PM |
| 1 | How to friendzone a girl?you are correct. | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 07:14 PM |
| 1 | A reminder that smiling is so easy and effective.I've been trying to fix my own default. sometimes its hard to keep the smiling eyes without looking too deranged, but I'm getting better with time. | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 05:20 PM |
| 1 | How to friendzone a girl?true. however she is hot and great to hang out with. there is just something lackluster in her. i can't point it out, but its there and i have no clue what the hell it is. which is why i was thinking friend zoning her until i feel i could a) pinpoint real problem b) get over what i was hesitant about. | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 04:22 PM |
| 2 | How to friendzone a girl?valid point. | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 04:19 PM |
| 1 | How to friendzone a girl?true and honestly thats the last thing i want to do. which is why I'm trying to friend zone with the potential that maybe i will like her more than just a friend… good advice piratep | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 04:18 PM |
| 1 | How to friendzone a girl?i had a post earlier that i deleted. but basically i was stating this fact. i just got out of a long term relationship (i was engaged and it got called off for us being too different religiously, career, yada yada). still think I'm all loopy because of it… and i suggested in that post that it still might be affecting me. side note: CaptjackSparrows caught part of that post before i deleted it. i just took it out and wrote "edit: you're right" | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 04:16 PM |
| 1 | How to friendzone a girl?cause and effect. notavalidusername trolling i troll back. its all in good taste I'm not calling him names nor do i think cosmo is a bad magazine.. | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Pickup Like a Sales Repsave this. awesome life hack advice | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 03:11 AM |
| -3 | How to friendzone a girl?edit: took out accidental misogynistic part that was here. Look if its just me and a girl, and I'm not feeling her for the most part. we get stranded somewhere, she is horny as hell, i don't think you need to know that sexual tension would be off the charts (on both our parts) in a case like that than yes. I have turned down my share of one nights stands because i wasn't A) drunk enough. B) had a better bang waiting for me/i was in a relationship C) she wasn't at all my type. | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 08:53 PM |
| 1 | How to friendzone a girl?A) how did you do that voodoo and get what i wrote even with my retraction edit B) best advice. at least its the one i guess subconsciously i want to here. Ill give it another go, try not to over think, enjoy it… and let the chips fall where they may. | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 07:34 PM |
| -3 | How to friendzone a girl?OMG, how funny… i chatted with my other guy pals over macchiatos at starbucks, while looking at cosmo magazines and we all agree… you're hilarious. why didn't i figure this out before…. trollolol edit: should be pronounced HIL-AR-IOUS upvoted u anyway. cause i see what your trying to say. man up. put out. and enjoy life. | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 07:20 PM |
| 4 | How to friendzone a girl?well ill be honest, i don't use girls. if i feel a real chemistry then i will pursue going further... i guess with this case I'm just hoping that maybe somewhere down the road there will be a spark, eventually. She's hot, attractive, funny, but she just can't kiss. however if she jumped my bones… or bone-r then i would gladly oblige. i just have had girls throw themselves at me enough to where i have become unfazed by the easy grab… TL;DR i only bang chicks out of a real liking for them, not bec… | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 07:10 PM |
| 2 | How to friendzone a girl?good for you. | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 06:59 PM |
| 3 | How to friendzone a girl?Edit: you're right. | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 06:59 PM |
| 3 | How to friendzone a girl?so, i should call even though she said she'd call me? or do i just wait for her to call to set something up and then let her know then? now I'm thinking i should just text her today with a personalized "i had fun last night thank you" and let the chips fall where they may. | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 05:50 PM |
| 26 | Amazing opening tip I learned from an experienced PUA. If you tell a girl she's friendly, she will be.dark as in thats what the first day of training is for a sith lord. | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 05:10 PM |
| 3 | How to friendzone a girl?so back story i suppose: First date went well: Coffee turned into getting a pizza bite, my doing because i was really really hungry. But she stayed talking forever, and i noticed several things about her that conveyed interest (legs touching, eyes dilated, and she had an intense gaze (not a crazy gaze) but like she wanted to jump me or something. At the end of first date i walked her to her car, didn't make a move. She was fidgeting as i was slowly walking away… SHE asked for a second date on th… | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 04:58 PM |
| 1 | How to friendzone a girl?how about something like: "i don't really want anything romantic right now, to be honest i feel like a dud when it comes to that. But lets just hang out as friends, i seem to like you a lot but i don't think I'm ready." (she knows i recently got out of a 6year relationship).. What do you guys think? EDIT: IXSNAY that. because i want to tell her i had a good time last night without dropping the lets be friends bomb too. | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 04:25 PM |
| 1 | My slef-esteem is so low that I can barely make any friends, let alone get laid. I don't know what to do anymore.read carnegie how to win friends and influence people. | /r/seduction | 10/03/12 06:20 AM |
| 2 | How women you put on pedestals really feel about it...whoops fixed it above. i thought it was applicable across both genders. TIL. | /r/seduction | 17/02/12 11:35 PM |
| 2 | How women you put on pedestals really feel about it...you're welcome. being verbally awkward, sometimes my brain actually does say what i am trying to convey. edit: this is actually what i do in my relationship with my fiancée. i practice what i preach ;) | /r/seduction | 17/02/12 10:18 PM |
| 10 | How women you put on pedestals really feel about it...i am a native speaker and this is what it means. not some ideology of what you think they should be…. that would just be a comparison of the girl your dating and your ideal of a dream girl. putting someone on a pedestal means a glorified adoration of them and who they are. which backfires anyway, because when you put people in those positions it usually allows for them to not view the relationship as special. in other words, letting someone know that they are on a pedestal will cause them to be … | /r/seduction | 17/02/12 06:05 PM |
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