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Inner Game Thi3fs/r/seduction12/06/26 08:35 PM
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ResourcesThi3fs/r/seduction14/08/24 11:57 PM
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thank you so much i’ll look at those
/r/seduction12/06/26 09:06 PM
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i told a girl in our group that her cut is going well and she looks great.. (she’s very much into body building) and is gorgeous.. that landed positively but not “positively” but doesn’t matter it made her day a little better i hope. 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction10/06/26 04:48 PM
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Only one story for me. Tinder in 2018, matched with a girl. Talked to her on the app/later text for 1 day. Met up with her, had some drinks, back to my house 30-40ish mins. Had sex 10 mins into getting to my house. Tips; if you get matches off tinder and it’s understood that you’re gonna have sex, make things simple on everyone, pick a bar close to your house. It’s awkward on both parties unless you’re chill about it. So don’t complicate it. Keep conversation superficial and fun.
/r/seduction05/11/24 01:33 AM
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My best dating years were 2017-2020 maybe even into 2021. I had plenty of both casual and long term fulfilling relationships. Dating landscape has changed tremendously since then and I have been struggling with it too. I was always more of a “meet through mutual friends or work” type of person but nowadays I’ve noticed people are either closed off, socially not well tuned or like you said the men vs women thing where girls will casually shit on men like it’s been programmed into their brain as a…
/r/seduction03/11/24 12:10 AM
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I use this one.
/r/seduction19/09/24 06:03 PM
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I’m about to spend a lot of time reading this. I hope it’s worth it.
/r/seduction19/09/24 05:49 AM
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You have to individualise it all to your own self. Everyone who gives advice gives it from what worked for them. Find what works for you. Like with any area you’re trying to be better at, try the book method but modify it to your own style.
/r/seduction28/08/24 11:16 PM
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Meeting them irl is better but the same amount of flakeyness occurs unless you seal the deal in the first night of meeting.
/r/seduction23/08/24 01:04 AM
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The only times it has worked for me is by the formula of; go into the bar and start conversations with the bartender. They are literally paid to be social and it’s also in their favour to keep you talking and social so they get a bigger tip. Next, talk to everyone. Guys and girls. I one time started a conversation with a guy who ended up having a single female friend in the bar who he introduced me to. I’d like to think of it as social circle game.
/r/seduction20/08/24 03:18 AM
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I really hope you do it because as men we barely ever receive compliments. You can just be around a guy and ask for some help re racking weights or just ask for a spot. And then just be like oh I think I’ve seen you here before… my name is … us men are simple and 99% will appreciate you taking the lead. Good luck we are 10000% supporting you.
/r/seduction17/08/24 02:22 AM
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Short answer no. Long answer I kept myself within the conversation cycles, around the friend groups, close by changed my gym times and put in the effort to be around… ended up sleeping with the main girls friend but not the girl I wanted. So, no. It doesn’t work. Straight off the bat is when you gotta strike the iron hot. Otherwise it fizzles out.
/r/seduction13/08/24 11:37 PM
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I have big time approach anxiety. And my job is also very high stress. The common thing I have found to succeed (I wouldn’t say I’m Mr. Suave in the approach department) is just ignore that pounding in your chest + fluttering in your stomach and go up to them and say hey how’s it going? Start small start simple.
/r/seduction08/08/24 06:05 PM
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Just to piggyback on this, if it’s number 1 and it’s just a test, keep doing your own thing and keep your plans with her in my experience she’s gonna make a move on you. However if it’s number 2. Leave that situation immediately, I have been used for attention and it doesn’t end in your favour.
/r/seduction08/08/24 03:12 AM
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I completely agree.
/r/seduction05/08/24 10:18 PM
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Yeah I do but my friend has the opposite issue where he’s got extremely good game - albeit he’s quite shady on his social media. But he’s a good looking dude and he’s pretty fit. And always be with a girl. But won’t ever really give you any sort of keys of how he’s getting results. It’s annoying.
/r/seduction05/08/24 02:44 AM
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I deleted my apps for this reason. I think the world is moving off the apps because it’s so skewed and rarely leads to anything solid.
/r/seduction29/07/24 02:37 AM
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What everyone else has said. Just from personal experience if a girl isn’t interested she’ll give you the IG but will just ignore the messages. So keep it simple. Say it was nice meeting her blah blah and ask her out.
/r/seduction29/07/24 02:31 AM
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Half joking but also half serious. The toxic street saying “She’s not yours. It was just your turn”.. I have mistakenly caught the feelings only for a girl to immediately lose interest because I get too interested too quickly… it’s all trial and error in the end.
/r/seduction28/07/24 03:26 AM
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I slid into the DMs and it worked once but also because we worked together so sort of knew each other. I slid into a DM past weekend and didn’t get anywhere. Hit or miss. But better to do it than not do it and wonder “what if”?
/r/seduction21/07/21 12:14 AM
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An actual King. Inspirational. Thank you for sharing!
/r/seduction25/04/21 09:41 AM
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I am struggling to understand why you think “change my personality into a ladies man” is going to change anything. Unless you sort out anxiety, depression and mental health on a larger level, faking a personality type is not going to help. It’s actually going to hurt. And I promise you, people in this community would 100% more than willing to help you out to find resources for mental help too because that’s so intrinsically linked to game and self esteem. So think of this as advice on game itsel…
/r/seduction28/03/21 05:40 PM
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If I may. I’d also like to add “eat amazing food, drink amazing booze” to this list.
/r/seduction28/03/21 06:49 AM
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You know 5-10 years from now. It won’t matter how they looked, what they wore or anything else superficial. What you will remember forever is this feeling of having experienced something amazing. This for me is the pinnacle of game. Living a life you can look back at and say “oh holy shit that was amazing”. Congratulations man. Savour this, enjoy it.
/r/seduction27/03/21 06:43 AM
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The fact that you opened. Amazing. Good stuff. Keep at it my dude. Set after set you’ll get stronger/better. Repetition.
/r/seduction27/03/21 06:25 AM
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Because I had a great interaction with her. We were vibing and having a lot of fun.
/r/seduction27/03/21 04:29 AM
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I once said “no I don’t do that” to a girl who literally asked me to buy her a drink because of some bullshit “rule” back in the day that “you shouldn’t buy women drinks” and she was a pretty girl and we had a great conversation too. I shake my head on that to this day. From that day on my attitude now is Fuck the rules. Fuck the “scores” and “leagues”. Fuck feeling like unless you’re Matt Bomer you don’t have a shot. Rant over.
/r/seduction26/03/21 03:25 PM
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With the caveat of you attract the same type of girl as who you are deep down inside, not the facade you present to the world.
/r/seduction26/03/21 10:39 AM
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Some solid advice. Might try it if the world ever opens up in my part of the world
/r/seduction25/03/21 05:32 PM
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What I meant to say is don’t ramble, your conversation should have some sort of meaningful way to push the interaction forward. (And hey, I don’t pretend to be an expert but when I have crashed and burned I always go home and look back at why, it’s usually because I was talking to for the sake of talking without a clear end point in mind) An end point in my mind is: saying things to start closing proximity (oh hey check this thing out on my phone - something related to what we were talking about…
/r/seduction23/03/21 02:55 PM
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First time poster. This has happened to me way too many times. And unfortunately I have also done this quite a bunch of times myself. Unfortunately it has nothing to do with me or my looks (I’m a pretty average looking dude, 5’7 with an average build). When have I had a girls attention stolen from me? It happens mostly when I am trying to make a deep conversation in a bar that’s not leading or building that air of tension between us, however on a very very rare occasion it has nothing to do with…
/r/seduction22/03/21 07:48 PM
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