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Bios that are literally just 1-5 jokes. Ok, I may laugh because it's a funny joke but that tells me nothing about you. Also, guys who focus on being sarcastic. Most sarcasm is mean and lazy. Also do they think they're special?? All these dudes focus on being sarcastic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 06:14 AM
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Gigging can mean a lot of different things so I'd say it's important to figure out what that means to each person. For example, a musician might be seen as part of the gig economy. But some of them are making several grand off of one private performance. My point is, don't judge someone based off of them not being corporate or salaried right away. It doesn't necessarily mean you are automatically financially incompatible with them. It just means you need more info so make sure to vet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 07:21 PM
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He wasn't a HVM if he didn't respect your boundaries. You stuck to what was right for you and he left when he realized he wasn't going to change your mind. I'd say in the future, it would probably be best to realize he's not worth your time earlier on so you don't have to drag it out for as long as you did. If he didn't respect that boundary or thought you'd just give in, it would make me wonder what else he'd try to push you on. My ex dumped me partly because I was super strict about COVID stuf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:54 PM
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Firstly, I'm sorry you are feeling depressed! Do you have a therapist you can talk to about this stuff? That's where I'd start. Secondly, make sure to make some single friends. Married girl friends are good to have, obviously, but by default, they're not going to be as available as your single friends. If you don't have any, maybe you can start going to classes or events or take up a hobby. I see some people have found friends on Bumble BFF as well! Thirdly, realize marriage is not the be all, e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 04:44 PM
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This is a hard one. I've dated people in the gig economy. The biggest thing I don't like about is their reliance on you financially. For example: rent. No, you're not paying their rent BUT they can't afford rent on their own. I don't want someone to stay with me just because I can easily pay half the bills and have money left over. I won't ever do that again. It's not so much someone's job as their ability to financially stand on their own two feet. Cities are getting more expensive, so if they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 04:14 PM
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I live in a state that has all but banned abortion. While i appreciated the renewed enthusiasm by those in Blue states, I'm also very tired. I've been a huge supporter of abortion rights and access to reproductive healthcare since high school. The writing on the wall about Roe has been there for 30 years. I see many people afraid online. I'm done living in fear. If you have the privilege to choose not to live in fear, you should because those who should have actual fear need our help and our don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 09:41 PM
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On datings apps, this is a sign for me to peace out. I had a man this morning say he was looking for "serious or casual" basically based on "where it goes". Unmatched. Not interested in helping anyone figure out what they're looking for. I don't buy this. Most men know what they're looking for. I wish they'd just be more honest about their intentions so less women get hurt. If you want casual, just say that. Otherwise, they're just stringing women along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:24 PM
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I myself identify as a recovering alcoholic and would recommend that every woman avoid partners who are active alcoholics. In addition to ED issues, they have serious issues they aren't addressing and using alcohol to cover it up. Smoking is gross. I've dated a few smokers, and some of them have stopped. However, I think the residual effects do build up in the body!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 10:02 PM
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I'm in my 30s and I'm finding as I get older than men who drink and smoke have really done a number to their bodies physically. I've revisited (perhaps foolishly) some situationships in the past year (no longer doing this). And I had come to find that time caught up with these boys. Smoking especially causes ED. Treat your body with respect while you can!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 09:26 PM
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This was an ex of mine to a T. Never again. Glad I only spent 2 years in that situation. If I had gotten pregnant or we got married, it would've been a lot longer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:39 AM
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The "Expert" they interviewed said this: 'There's little room any more for love or magic. Online dating is just another value proposition, one in which the gentlemanly electrician is a low-value mate but theinsufferable banker a high-value one.' Clearly they don't read the sub. Honestly: electricians can make bank--it's not lowly being a banker doesn't make you HV just like being an "electrician" doesn't make you LV. men with money can suck at finances worse than men who are on a budget. Their v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:29 PM
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I mean.....most 30 year old men can't go more than once in a night. Maybe twice. But maybe the older women don't want to go more than once. Who knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 11:27 PM
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Props to her for following her gut and leaving. That's goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 04:29 AM
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With peace and love, these people do not sound like friends from what you shared. Why hold male friends to different standards than female friends in terms of quality? If these men were women, you wouldn't put yourself around this. Be careful because other people's energy can drag you down. I'm not saying people can't ever been unhappy, but if as a whole they are behaving like you described, nope. They gotta go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 04:07 PM
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I'm sorry you had to go through that with your ex. In your 20s, you have more options for people who have less baggage just because they've had less relationship experience. If I was 25, I would not date someone divorced. I'm on the same page as you, if I met a man who wasn't divorced or hadn't had at least one serious relationship, that would be a red flag. I too wouldn't hold out for a non divorced or never in a serious relationship man because I don't think it would be a good sign. I'm glad w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 12:23 AM
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I'm in my mid 30s and divorced isn't a deal breaker. I myself am divorced. I think as you get older in the US specifically, you realize life happens. Half of the men men on dating apps my age are either divorced or have kids or both. I don't think it immediately implies LV. LV would be someone going out and dating immediately after a divorce, that I'd be weary of. That being said, I wouldn't date someone who was less than 3 years divorced. If I was in my 20s, I also wouldnt date someone divorced…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 08:44 PM
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I've had men IRL tell me they're critical of porn and will no longer watch. Im glad this message is spreading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 01:06 AM
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So that means they probably started dating when she was 25 or 26 and he was 45 or 46. Definitely something to consider when watching videos like this. Instead of going "awwww...!" Look into it more. I don't think that alone makes him LVM but definitely giving him the side eye. Especially because it looks like she was going through a lot with trying to leave the church. That being said, IDK....I watched some of her TikToks and he looks supportive. They've been together 10 years likely and he clea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 04:09 PM
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I thought about this and it makes me feel like she probably doesn't trust him enough to talk about her personal experiences enough if he's that surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 03:48 PM
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Sorry to hear you had cancer. I did watch the video and it sounds like he had treatment over the course of 6 years. He's also older and a man. From my adventures in hypocondria, I've learned cancer treatment can vary widely. I don't think you can generalize like you did with your comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 03:43 PM
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