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Get out of here
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/25 09:22 AM
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Because a man wrote it obviously
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/25 05:59 AM
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Why would you trust 100% a man that is not YOUR man? Think about it. It’s unnatural for a woman to do that before commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/25 07:07 AM
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He doesn’t have all his cards on the table. He is actively looking for a better version of you. Whatever that means to him. If he doesn’t, you are the safe option and at least he gets his needs filled (sex).
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/25 07:03 AM
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Your bias against it is showing and it’s clear that you don’t understand that obesity is a chronic disease that usually takes medical intervention and treatment for life.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/25 09:06 AM
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You have no understanding of obesity, it is recognized as a chronic relapsing disease. It’s also not either or. The medical treatment of obesity makes it possible for people to actually eat less calories without having to fight hunger 24/7. You regain weight because of strong neuroendocrine signaling that drive extreme hunger& lack of satiety. I recommend you follow obesity experts like Dr Spencer Nadolsky.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/25 08:37 AM
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Get him on a glp-1. Obesity IS a disease.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/25 06:18 AM
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Check out the Zepbound athletes reddit 😉
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/25 08:50 AM
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Soon it won’t, most people will be on semaglutide or tirzepatide and be in shape
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/25 06:10 AM
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If you had anorexia before, then it is common to have fat accumulate in the midsection. It’s a protection mechanism after starvation.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/24 12:02 PM
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That‘s quite a dumb and selfish statement. If as a woman you stay at home as according to 2. , why would you not take care of the home? Like why do you expect the man to come home after working 8h and start cooking his own meal, same with laundry. Things are different when both work full time. I would say the same if the man was at home an the woman working. That wouldn’t suddenly make him the „dad“
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:53 PM
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Deadbedroom 101. How is that fair to the man?
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/24 10:16 AM
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Having a philosophical view on life or being religious or even believing that there is a higher power is different from believing in tarot cards, astrology, witches & other voodoo stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/23 04:48 PM
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In my experience people in circles that have doctorate degrees and are into science will see someone who likes tarot cards/astrology and that kind of stuff as silly and maybe even less educated. That could have been a clue to him that you don’t fit into his social circle/have the same outlook on life.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/23 07:47 AM
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Well I m from Europe not America so it’s a bit different over here… but I spent a semester in America for studies. I was quite surprised of the lack of walking and the amount of junk food but at the same time also the high prevelance of disordered eating. It’s like people have forgotten to eat normally there is only the two extremes it seems… but that’s just my opinion 🙃
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 07:57 PM
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OP is not mentioning that she is bored. She is mentioning constant hunger. Do you have a resource that provides evidence for PHYSICAL HUNGER being induced by boredom? ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 07:53 PM
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Scientific sources rather than an anecdote for this?
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 07:32 PM
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I meant more: it’s exhausting to live your live trying to distract yourself from hunger. Eating healthy is good!!!
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 07:11 PM
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Nice way to deflect my question 🤭 what OP needs is to work on her relationship with food not 1000 tips on calories (which she already mentions already knows). This is not an issue of lack of understand what CICO is, how to track food and knowing that popcorn is a high volume food. I will say it again: burnout, constant hunger and this much distress about eating/food/body is not NORMAL no matter what age a person is.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 06:39 PM
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17 year old with anorexia is a stereotype of what disordered eating looks like, which only represents a tiny fraction of what is truly looks like. OP is clearly suffering mentally… mentioning burnout and constant hunger is not normal. How bad does it need to get to be taken seriously?
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 06:34 PM
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Sure there other reasons that can alter hunger such as like you mentioned pregnancy, weed. But also ssri, stimulants and medications or rare syndromes. But we are not talking here about those kind of situations/exceptions and considering OPs language around eating it is likely that the pounds she lost were done through (maybe very) restrictive eating. The drugs that are currently out that you mean are GLP-1 agonists and their side effect is reduced hunger/more satiety. If you are interested in t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 06:26 PM
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Sure and I am responding that it is exhausting to live like that for long term sustainability - no one wants to have their life purpose in distracting themselves 24/7 of hunger.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 06:13 PM
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Yeah used to do volume eating during my ED. If it is the opposite of not eating, why do you need to distract yourself from being hungry?
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 06:08 PM
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What you experience sounds like extreme hunger. Your body has a setpoint range where it likes to be - if you under it you will experience insatiable hunger
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 05:38 PM
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Men find all kind of women attractive. Most men find woman in the normal range attractive. 85lbs is concerning for an adult woman, that’s the weight of a child. What will happen when the woman decides to become healthy? The kind of men who go for that in the first place will leave her because they have a fetish for underweight (and maybe childlike) women.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 03:51 PM
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BMI 17 is underweight.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 10:53 AM
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21-23 is a completely normal BMI, what are talking about? Under 18 is literally underweight. Truly concerned about your headspace OP.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/23 11:14 AM
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When you are in your sixties he will be close to death and you have 30 more years to live at that point.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/23 03:47 PM
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Not really. Evidence: celebrities dating other celebrities. Most of them have multiple partners and even marriages and still end up with someone.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/23 05:41 AM
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No it doesn’t decrease sexual market value in many cases as we are not talking about marriage in that case. Also most men have no problem with not marrying a virgin.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/23 05:39 AM
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It’s explained in the sidebar. In short how sexually desirable a person is.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/23 05:28 PM
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For a women to have a high smv she literally just has to be good looking, that’s it for 90%. For a men to have a high smv it’s a different story.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/23 05:22 PM
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Sexual market value.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/23 03:53 PM
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I mean looks for women are always preached as important… I don’t see how that is NOT emphasized in culture. I would argue that RMV is not really thought… like being a good partner to your husband on many different levels.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/23 02:55 PM
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Most redpillers doesn’t mean most educated man. High earning also doesn’t mean mean highly educated. These days you can be an influencer and high earning, doesn’t mean you are educated.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/23 07:34 AM
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People date people in the same social class/same background and similar education. Even more so that most people will find their SO during college/ at work/ and through their friend-circle. Anecdotally, I see it it in all my girlfriends which all have at least a Masters degree, their boyfriends/husbands do too. The two girlfriends that are doctors have a boyfriend that are doctors. Personally I am doing a PhD and my boyfriend has a doctor title as well. I also have a couple male friends from my …
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/23 01:21 PM
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Having a stable relationship helps in having a stable life… wow what a groundbreaking idea
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/23 09:00 PM
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You should volunteer 😬
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/23 08:53 PM
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Sure post a video on the group 👍
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/23 08:51 PM
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It does matter when he is trying to make it look like he is a woman. Why pretending to be a woman? Clearly he want to persuade women that this is an idea coming from a woman, the question is why?
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/23 08:39 PM
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It’s wrong when you want to pass as a woman 😉
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/23 08:37 PM
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Yeah very clearly a man wrote this lol
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/23 08:21 PM
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Have never seen that before. Maybe doctors in Miami or so. All my doctor friends are also in a relationship with another doctor. Sure maybe they slept with a barbie doll before. But they are not gonna marry them as they would be looked down by their peers.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/23 02:10 PM
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He watched too much andrew tate&co
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 11:27 AM
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I am astonished no one mentions the most obvious. Ask: what do you need (or not need) right now? If he needs space and time be himself he should tell you and you should the accept and respect it. This is called healthy communication. This is a 5-10 min talk and then your and potentially his concerns are cared for. Else you are just playing a guessing game.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/23 07:00 AM
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Lol Ukrainian girls in Europe have a different stereotype: promiscuous and gold diggers. It’s funny what kind of view americans have of europe 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:10 AM
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His career might not matter now. It will matter in a few years when you want kids and be able to raise them yourself. He will not be able to support you in that choice. Is that something that will make you resent him? Is that compatible with your future aspirations?
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/23 11:59 AM
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The best way to meet a doctor… is to study medicine.The best way to meet a lawyer…. Is to study law. People hangout and marry within their social and friend circle. So the best way to marry a high earning educated men is to be a woman in that circle. Some men may say it’s not important to them. Alright that doesn’t matter though . People meet and date the ones they hangout most with. I am currently working on my PhD. All my friends have at least masters degrees. My female doctor friends…. Are in…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/22 09:10 AM
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What’s your age? Sounds like my teenager days
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/22 09:27 AM
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Yes standard of beauty definitely changes. Like an ashley graham looking like woman will not suffer in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:58 PM
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When will you guys understand that we have options? For 20 of you that are not into us there are 5 that want us exactly like that. We just go for the guys that are into us and they are all different kinda bodytypes. If you are chubby and have cute face you don’t have to worry
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:23 PM
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Depends on what he is paying for when you are there. Is he paying for all the food, eating out and all other things you might want, need or do?
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/22 02:17 PM
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Don’t feel bad for us… most of us are doing fine ☺️ I am what people would consider fat. I have a 6’3, fit and attractive boyfriend and never struggled with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:15 PM
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We have plenty of choices. I used to be thin because of an ED. Then I gained a looot of weight. Never had a problem with dating. Found my boyfriend, he is fit, tall and educated. If no man wanted a fat chick, there wouldn’t be porn categories for it 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:33 AM
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Nah this is exactly what women like
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:26 AM
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Maybe if you post anywhere else and get the answer that you should just leave it, there is actually truth to it. Your description sounds exactly like my 18-year old self. He is simply not mature yet and/or not that into you. He comes back to you because you keep entertaining it 🤷‍♀️and he may not have that many more options. Women/girls often think men come back because they liked you, but often men just don’t have other options and go back to the girl they are not that into… at least it’s bette…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/22 09:19 AM
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He thinks he it is going to be easier to sleep with you because you have a past history, thus he thinks he will have to make less of an effort. If he was really into you he would make an effort.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/22 02:45 PM
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That’s not how parenting works. Kids copy their parents. Your kid is at a extremely high risk to develop an ED too.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 09:55 AM
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Wow I stopped reading after the first paragraph. This is fucked up. Please choose recovery! Also find it concerning that your husband likes girls as small and short as possible… almost like a kid
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 09:48 AM
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That’s a bit of the problem if you get a guy due to your physical qualities. If you change (and you will change that’s part of life circumstances) the guys appreciation will change too
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 07:30 AM
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Why would chad fuck an ugly girl if he can get all the hot ones? Does not make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:26 AM
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Never besides with suction vibrator
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:43 PM
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Sleep apnea is not snoring
/r/RedPillWives25/07/22 08:58 PM
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If it’s not sleep apnea than it’s not something he can just stop. Why did you not try earplugs? This is more of a you problem if you find your husband unattractive because of snoring. A lot of people snore.
/r/RedPillWives25/07/22 05:50 PM
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Yes actually it’s ironic that it’s called atypical since it is more common than the “typical” anorexia. It’s just DSM-5 definitions that often don’t make sense. Few years ago “amenorrhea” (loss of menstrual cycle) was still in the diagnosis criteria… which obviously excludes all men 😅 in a few years BMI will not be a criteria of diagnosis anymore probably, hopefully . It’s a huuuuuge problem because of insurances not paying for people not being “sick enough” and also people not getting help in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:51 AM
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There is atypical anorexia. And that’s 2/3 people who have it. It’s anorexia without a BMI under 18
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:28 PM
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Yes it’s called “atypical” anorexia
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:27 PM
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2/3 woman who have anorexia are not underweight or look anything like runway models.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:26 PM
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WOW WOW WOW: “ I m in no way expecting all woman to get anorexia… Just this would get her 60% of the way” Anorexia is the most deadly mental disorder. And 2/3 people with it are not even underweight!!!!!!! It’s fucked up that society still encourages women to have deadly mental disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:31 AM
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Thank you for the answer and the resources provided!
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/22 11:33 PM
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I actually agree with you that interest in sex deminishes after orgasm since the purpose of sex especially for men is to orgasm and be done and a baby can develop etc. And also that things become less exciting over time. But I don’t think it’s because of sex in that case but more the fact that you have sex with the SAME person. Some animal studies I believe have shown that male mice lose interest in the female after a few ejaculations but if you expose them to a new female they are interested in…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/22 11:29 PM
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Too much sex is the cause of divorce…? Strong claim, anything to back that up? I would say the opposite is rather the case. Don’t see couples getting divorced or separated who can say that they still have a great sex life. Sex and intimacy is usually something that disappears before the breakup. Also the main goal of tantric sex is not the preservation of energy. Rather it’s about celebrating your body and feeling heightened sensuality. The practice intertwines spirituality, sexuality, and a sta…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/22 10:10 PM
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I think it’s fine to get some inspiration. But like with every influencer, it usually only shows you the good times so keep in mind that it’s probably not reality
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/22 04:05 PM
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So there is no condition a woman has to fulfill to be loved by a man? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:57 PM
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So you prefer not finding real love as long as you have someone who you find attractive fuck you regularly and fake her affection to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:58 PM
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Yes then you are on the wrong sub… the whole sub is about average dating (mostly the problems of average man). Seems like you are doing good? Why do you want to do sugar “dating” if you could have a real relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:00 PM
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The average man doesn’t have 500k on the side, the average man lives paycheck to paycheck just as the average woman. Your example is fine for you but you have to admit that the average man working at walmart is NEVER going to be able to afford a sugar baby. A low to midrange prostitute here and there sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:50 AM
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Sugar relationships are not real relationships, that is not an argument. The girls are literally payed, if they didn’t get money then they would leave. Also very attractive sugarbabies get ridiculous amount of cash each month, the average man will not be a able to pay 5k a month for a fake girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:17 AM
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My boyfriend is 6’2, fit (black belt in karate), and has a PhD, it does exist although I agree that it is not that common I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:58 PM
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I m not denying that the other stuff needs to be met first too but if you matched with the girl then you probably are meeting most of the physical criteria already. I personally have never dumped someone when agreeing on a date and always show up since to me that’s human decency. Yes sometimes after 1,2 or more dates it doesn’t work out but that’s part of it. How does he know she is serious? Most women want a serious relationship first of all. I always say on the first date that I am looking for…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:13 PM
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That usually an argument I often see. And I get why a man would not make the investment at beginning BUT if you do you have huge advantage over the other 30 guys. If 30 guys show low investment, you will be the one she is interested in. I did OLD for two years and met my current boyfriend on bumble, he was literally the only one who suggested something creative : trampolinhall or gameing expo. I chose the expo, it was 12€/per person, he payed, after we went for dinner and split the bill. Women j…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:49 PM
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Listen I don’t even live in america but the Netherlands. I have been 10% bodyfat aswell and competed in bodybuilng, got stage ready on an average of 1500kcal, training 5x a week, also I am only 5’2. But all those stats do not matter to prove my point. Please if you don’t believe me look up Doubly Labelled Water methods where expenditure of woman is measured. It’s not me trying to invent something new 😅 https://academic.oup.com/ajcn/article-abstract/60/5/676/4732013?redirectedFrom=fulltext&login=…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/22 09:38 AM
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Not what my doctor is saying, it’s what doubly label water assessment of energy expenditure of the average non restricting, weight stable woman is saying, it’s not me making this up. If I am not supposed to comment on this, then I think you shouldn’t be either since you are still actively in an ED? /r/fuckeatingdisorders is great reddit to get info on FULL recovery, I truly wish you the best since I have been in the same place as you are!
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/22 07:56 AM
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OP not but the person who made the comment, so I do not think OP should get advice from someone having an active ED 🤷‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/22 07:49 AM
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If you are genuinely eating to hunger and satiety then you are fine since you are eating to your hunger cues. But most women that eat according to any calculations are not eating to their hungercues but to what a random calculator is telling them. I mentioned the minnesota starvation experiment because the men were eating 1500kcal, which is commonly promoted for dieting in men (while 1200 for women), but we know from research that 1500 is severe starvation hence recommendations on dieting online…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/22 07:44 AM
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Yeah better take the ones from people who actively in the depth of eating disorders and binging and restricting 🙃
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/22 07:13 AM
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TDEE calculators are not accurate at all. An accurate method is the doubly labeled water method that gives accurate representation what is burned. Studies using this method have (as mentioned in the link given) that the average woman (BMI around 23 I believe) expenditure is 2500. IMPORTANT this is in NONRESTRICTING woman. If you undereat for a long time, yea you will gain on lower amount of calories due to metabolic adaptation. Edit: on 1400kcal, got stagelean ripped within 6 months, lost my per…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/22 06:45 AM
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For non disordered, non restricting individuals. People with past of disordered eating, EDs, binge restirct, will gain weight on much lower
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/22 08:23 PM
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Below average woman in height will still be around 2000kcal
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/22 08:22 PM
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The average woman does not have a tdee of 1600, the average woman tdee is 2500
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/22 08:21 PM
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If you had read the whole article , you would have seen the examples given and the evidence provided of what the average woman needs per day but either you did not fully read it or don’t want to believe it. Edit: the point of the article is to show what the average woman needs: which is 2500kcal Now you can come up with different examples where that would not be the case (i.e your example) that doesn’t change the fact that this will apply to the vast majority of woman.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/22 08:17 PM
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Just as a lot of women have EDs and trying to convince themselves that that’s enough food, but it’s really not. I have been there, I have done that. Finally fully recovered. https://edinstitute.org/blog/2011/9/14/i-need-how-many-calories
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/22 06:24 PM
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1200 is not plenty… 🙈
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/22 06:14 PM
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LOL women complain all the time about their body
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:40 PM
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It’s not that you are not good enough, it’s that you set your expectations too high. Just like you prefer tall over six foot men, most (not all) will prefer a shorter woman. Especially if you live in a country with a lot of shorter men. Tall men will have a lot of choice picking the woman they like, so you will have to compete with more women. Your best bet is to not be so picky about height, just as you don’t want the men to be so picky about it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/22 11:32 AM
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But the average man is even more overweight than the average american women…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:20 PM
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I m not skinny myself. My opinion doesn’t matter though, it’s just what is according to BMI. Now that doesn’t mean something can’t be beautiful, however that’s a different discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:15 PM
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But I am asking you, I want to know your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:52 PM
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Why isn’t it a healthy preference if more men are overweight vs. women? What is considered a healthy preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:50 PM
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You can very often read here by PPD men: a woman just doesn’t have to be overweight. I am not claiming men outside of PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:27 PM
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This is before her weightloss
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:25 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/CEh6gF5AwXh/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:25 PM
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This is not a recent adele pic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:24 PM
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Yes but PPD men keep denying this. I personally totally agree with you on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:24 PM
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What’s the difference between fat and overweight?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:11 PM
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My post is not my own opinion. My post is about what I read here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:02 PM
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The average woman in america is way over what adele looks like now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:48 PM
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What kinda comment is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:47 PM
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So most people are disgusting to you? Why do you find most people disgusting?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:25 PM
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That’s not the average PPD men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:24 PM
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I do not have pics on my profile
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:47 PM
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% of overweight men is higher actually so…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:45 PM
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Adele in what year 🤣 she lost a ton of weight if you don’t know yet
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:44 PM
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You don’t know what I look like 😅 I m not worried about me , I am in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:43 PM
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But PPD men claim that average men do not get sex from average girls. Only chad gets sex from the average girls according to PPD men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:33 PM
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Because that’s what you often read here in PPD that according to the average men the women just shouldn’t be fat. I personally do not agree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:21 PM
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That’s my point… I do agree with that so that’s why I am astonished when I see PPD men saying: no one wants fat girls etc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:18 PM
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I agee with you. So how come the average PPD men says they are fine with any woman as long as they are not overweight? Could it be that the average PPD men is not the average men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:16 PM
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So PPD are not representative of average men in your opinion ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:14 PM
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I am going by statistics regarding BMI not what is subjectively considered overweight by men. Most average men or most PPD men? I personally do not have a problem with bodyshaming when dating, I am also in relationship with a fit men so my argument would be that PPD men are not representative of average men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:13 PM
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I think the point is that PPD views on dating preferences do not match average people real life preferences and scenarios. A lot of average guy - average girl relationships but it always seems to be denied here…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:40 PM
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Thus by your comment it should be normal that women also are not attracted to 80% of the opposite gender since 80% of men are overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:36 PM
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The average american guy or the average PPD guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:34 PM
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I agree with you btw
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:31 PM
10

Average guy or average PPD guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:31 PM
19

But 80% of men in the US are also overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:26 PM
14

Why isn’t the women wanting the top 20% of men not a preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:25 PM
3

A) thanks for clarification B) I personally agree with that. It’s just not what you seem to read on this sub that’s why I personally think that a lot of the men on this sub specifically have a higher standard of what their woman should look like than the average man outside of this. Basically average PPD man is not the average man in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:22 PM
44

I know they are. Which makes it all the more hypocritical imo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:13 PM
7

So what’s your alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:12 PM
19

That’s what I was thinking…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:11 PM
13

That’s not an answer to my question though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:11 PM
13

Read many times in this sub that “no one want someone 5’4 170lbs woman” (which is the average woman in america)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:09 PM
7

But specifically men in this sub claim that a women making money (or sometimes even have a job) is not important to men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:05 PM
1

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/321003 Please use google or so to get your facts straight
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:02 PM
1

In america 80% of women (and men) are overweight so yes the average is overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:30 PM
1

I think you are😉 since I m just stating facts. You don’t have any so you just try to make it personal. It’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:17 PM
1

Why are you talking about me? I m happy and in a relationship 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:04 PM
1

Maybe it’s hard for you to understand or imagine but indeed there are people who have BBW as their preference before their gf got fat or whatever you think is why they suddenly would watch it. People attracted to thin people are attracted to thin people, rarely changes. Other way around aswell. Are more people attracted to thin people? Obviously YES no one is debating that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:00 PM
2

🤦‍♀️ but this is THE AVERAGE WOMAN (at least in america) is that so hard to understand. The average woman is overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:57 PM
3

It’s weird to watch porn with woman who look like the average woman? 🤔🤔🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:05 PM
2

Prolonged exposure would mean most men want them since that’s what most women look like. There is still hope for you, as a new strategy you should consume that kind of porn and soon enough you will be exposed enough to become a chubby chaser too 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:04 PM
1

You know that BBW porn etc. exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:44 PM
6

It’s not me making the rules and deciding what the average woman looks like. If the average woman looks like this then that is average. Now you can always have different standards, no one keeping you from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:34 PM
2

Same as women who think 6‘2, sixpack and 6 figures is average… it’s not obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:32 PM
2

Well then their perception of what average is too high of a standard since it doesn’t fit with what real world average is plain and simple
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:31 PM
6

Yes but this is reality which you can not change. I am not talking what average is supposed to be in an ideal world. In this world, in the here and now THIS IS AVERAGE.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:28 PM
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AGAIN average women do not fuck chads. Average women are in relationships with average men. But incels do not want average 5‘4 170lbs woman. They want stacys and get mad when stacys fuck chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:13 PM
3

So what exactly do you want? And if this is not what you see on OLD then don’t use OLD, since you have no problems picking up women, you should also not have problems picking up the women you seek? I don’t know what you expect us to tell you really. It seems like a rant about women not meeting your standards?
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/22 11:29 AM
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What kinda rant is this , I think you are on the wrong sub for that 🤷‍♀️ But by the way you talk I would maaaaaaybe think that you are not as great as you think if you are unable to date high value women… just a speculation of course 😉 HVM don’t have troubles dating HVW
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/22 10:36 AM
3

So do you sleep with each other?
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/22 08:28 AM
18

10 months. Either you are in a relationship at that point or not
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/22 08:23 PM
1

Congrats on your achievement
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:10 AM
1

IMO Feminine: Emphatic, soft, cares about relationships (partner,family ,friends) more than anything else, emotional (NOT EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE but gets carried away by her emotions more easily i.e movies, seeing someone cry/laugh etc.), is willing to trust in the ability of her man and can follow his lead while being a supporter, I don’t like the word submissive because people immediately associate a it negatively, emotional intelligence, likes to make her environment pretty to make it homey and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:04 AM
2

Well speak for yourself. I have two native languages (french and luxembourgish) and the other two I practice at an university level (german and english). 5th I am still practicing since I just moved to that country (dutch). Regardless it’s petty to point out a little typo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:36 PM
3

What do you want to say? Pointing out a typo? English is my 4th language out of 5. How many do you speak?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:24 PM
9

Yes but if a man gets overly aggressive about loosing a mario kart game while simultaneously blaming the car or any other circumstances that are out of his control it shows that 1) he is not in control of his emotions 2) he can’t take responsibility and admit that he is not good enough (yet) and rather admitting that he blames everything besides his own skills. It’s something that it’s extremely common and it’s unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:48 PM
5

Yes but some men can get aggressive for example when loosing or think they are loosing only because their teammates are shit eventhough they were not playing well either…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:43 PM
11

Masculine: Takes responsibility, can lead, confidence, has his shit together in his job and life, takes care of himself mentally,spiritually and physically, has a passion for something, treats other people with respect, healthy competitive nature, protective over his gf/wife and family, he feels proud in taking care and bringing happiness and pleasure to his woman, can communicate his needs Unmasculine: doesn’t know what/who he wants in life, no job and anything to thrive for, doesn’t take care …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:42 AM
2

You don’t see many 30+ man with late teens/early 20s women in every day life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:25 AM
4

Future faking. Saying :“dating is not a priority in my life“, „go with the flow“, „testing sexual compatibility“. Wanting dates at either your or his place only, never be in public. „His exes are all crazy“, tells you that his last ex broke his heart and now has trust issues and can’t commit but still likes you very much, talks quickly about your body, doesn’t continuously plan future dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:00 AM
0

Of course these things happen 🤷‍♀️ but saying it is all men is quite the exaggeration. I have male friends and female friends who date or are are in loving relationships, so am I 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:14 AM
3

Of course … whatever makes you feel better about your lack of success 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:48 PM
11

🤣 because every 60 year old men is running around with a much younger women, right… average agegap is 3 years
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:45 PM
9

Why would he?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:40 PM
8

Average people have at least a job
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:39 PM
10

So my boyfriend has a haram as well? Every guy in relationships does? You are talking about a miniority
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:37 PM
1

Yes but this is not every day scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:36 PM
8

Where do you all live?! So all the couples out there are basically men with harams ? 🤣 sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:34 PM
8

So most women in relationships are in relationships with guys who don’t commit or cheat? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:32 PM
-1

So a men who is a 10 who could get with a 10 rather chooses all the 3‘s,4‘s etc.? Probably not. Maybe it’s men who are below a 5 who expect to get with a 7+
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:21 PM
5

It is not unreasonable as women who has those things to want a man who also at least has those things. Now if a woman has none of these then yes excepting the other person to have it all is unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:18 PM
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If most women are taken would mean that most men are taken too. Now what you mean is that you (men) can’t get the kinda woman you (men) would want to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:12 PM
1

It’s almost like personality matters
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:41 PM
2

Funny to see how A LOT of men rate themselves lower than the women they want to approach. And women are the hypergamous ones right? 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:30 PM
2

Why do you want a girl who is a 7 of you are a 4?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:58 AM
1

Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:44 AM
1

What is your exact question?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:28 AM
2

Well that’s my kind of version of it I guess 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/22 08:23 AM
19

Seems like sex is not the issue but a symptom of all the other issues.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/22 07:00 PM
2

Also note that I said bachelor degree. I don’t require someone to have more than that. But this for me means that there is at least often intelligence there to have intellectual conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:51 PM
0

Most people end up with someone within their social class. So no. There won’t be thousands of college graduate women with bachelor, master degrees etc. that will be suddenly married to men without a degree. Men without degrees will be with women without degrees. Women with degrees will be with men with degrees. And vice-versa. Will there be exceptions? Of course. My boyfriend has a phd. He would not date a women without college education either 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:50 PM
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That’s the price that you have to pay if you are fully in love with someone. It’s price of being vulnerable. The alternative is superficial relationships where you feel „ok to walk away“. With great love comes the fear of great pain.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/22 05:27 PM
1

As a women with a master degree in neuroscience, I would not consider someone without at least a bachelor degree as a LTR. Also less attractive sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:07 PM
12

If you are obsessing over food and too low bodyfat, your brain will not focus on sex. Exercise is good for women. Too much of it, especially high intensity can kill sex drive.
/r/RedPillWives23/05/22 02:04 PM
1

14 is a bit concerning though 😅 that’s a child basically… unless you yourself are under 18
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 11:20 AM
2

Wow very inspiring story! Thank you for sharing 😊 I am a girl so I can’t 100% relate to it but I hope someone is who needs this reads this !
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 09:08 AM
3

Why do you assume that men in their 20s are children?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:59 AM
4

Good explanation. I think a lot of people in RP spheres miss that though and think that as soon as they hit 30 they will suddenly be able to bang 23 year olds non stop
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:58 AM
1

Well said!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:32 AM
3

Perspective on dating skinny vs. fat. So here is my story: I used to be skinny/fit think fitnessmodel kinda body + conventionally attractive face. I gained a lot of weight when I started to recover from this fitness eating disorder. And when I say a lot of weight I mean A LOT (not just 20 pounds), I thought I would NEVER be attractive to anyone anymore. After my LTR failed I got into dating also using OLD and had LOW expectations. If I had to describe my body type now it’s probably around slight…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:50 AM
3

Speak for yourself, not my experience 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:40 AM
4

Lol because all fat people are single forever 🤣 delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 09:45 AM
3

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:13 PM
2

Is this a woman that would be considered beautiful (body wise): https://pin.it/5T0fg2a If yes then THIS IS OBESE. I m taking BMI wise
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:42 PM
4

Particularly west africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:13 PM
5

They are ABOSOLUTELY putting weight on to be more desirable to men. Look it up and you will be surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:12 PM
3

https://viola.bz/force-feeding-farm-for-girls-in-mauritania/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:15 PM
5

Obese is BMI 35, the desired women in those countries are above that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:11 PM
6

Untrue. Look at african countries where they want their women to be heavy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 02:59 PM
1

Taking pictures and encouraging your husband to make you compliments might help ?
/r/RedPillWives16/05/22 06:51 PM
17

Delete
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 09:02 PM
2

Thank you! Had those conversations and we are both looking for a LTR 😊
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 07:59 PM
1

Thank you everyone for the opinions. Quite some different views which is interesting 😌
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 08:14 AM
2

Were you specifically looking for a relationship though? This doesn’t sound like proper dating to me but more like casual meetups?
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 08:55 PM
1

Agree
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 08:53 PM
1

Why did you end the relationship? Because she was sleeping with someone else during that time?
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 05:58 PM
4

Fair point
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 05:04 PM
-4

yeah he is teaching mma. And he got a belt in one of the arts. But it’s not the point of the discussion 😅
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 04:20 PM
6

That’s not the point 🤣 it’s in one of the combat sports, Idk which one exactly
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 03:47 PM
-1

That’s not the point of the question🤣 it’s in one of the combat sports, Idk which one exactly
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 03:22 PM
-2

That’s not the point 🤣 it’s in one of the combat sports, Idk which one exactly
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 03:14 PM
12

Yes I agree. I just don’t really know how to communicate it because I feel like if I say : I don’t have sex unless I m in a relationship is putting pressure on someone? Or like being manipulative in some way. That’s I guess what I can’t completely wrap my head around
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 10:29 AM
3

You mentioned that you are underweight. You need to gain weight. A body that doesn’t have enough fat on it for a baby to have a healthy pregnancy will not want you to have sex. Speaking from experience. Even if you are not underweight from bmi stand point but are too lean, workout too much, are under the bodyweight range that is optimal for YOUR body (not optimal to bmi or other ideals) you will most likely have lower libido.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/22 07:26 AM
8

I am curious why you want to know what other people think would fit for him? In the end only he (and maybe friends/family), know what he is looking for in a woman
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/22 02:02 PM
171

If you are not in a relationship after 3 months: leave. That’s my experience. If a man wants you he will make you his girlfriend. He is probably leaving his options open, still looking around for someone „better“. If someone likes you, you will know. If they don’t, you will be confused.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/22 10:52 AM
1

My take on this is that I do not agree with 3). The other ones I do agree with to certain extend. However this not just FOR WOMEN. These points 1/2/4 also apply in that case to men. Now you could argue that men are more easily to please but that’s making huge generalizations. First times for everything is not just first times for women but also for men. Same with STDs. I think a reason why N-count may matter is that high N-counts may be a result of emotional unstableness, need for validation. An…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/22 09:18 AM
31

Number two is a myth. And it would mean that a woman who had one relationship for 5 years with sex every day before their final marriage man is looser than a woman who bad had hookups
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/22 06:55 PM
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